03.21. Hospitality in Bethany

Hospitality in Bethany

Apart from the constant stress of his work and the unceasing demands of the pressing crowds, Jesus had to put up with repeated dullness and pettiness among those closest to him. At various times they showed misunderstanding of plain statements, inability at straightforward tasks, competition among themselves and jealousy of other preachers.¹ And now, to add to all that, tension must have been building within Jesus’ heart as he saw the violent climax to his work approaching. To get away for a while for some quiet refreshment of spirit, Jesus visited the home of his friends, Mary, Martha and Lazarus, who lived in the village of Bethany, just outside Jerusalem.² Martha, wanting to provide the best possible hospitality, busied herself preparing a large meal, but she became annoyed when Mary, instead of helping, sat and listened to Jesus talk.

Jesus, however, had not come because he wanted a lavish meal. All he wanted was some fellowship with his friends, and Mary understood this. People are still making the same mistake as Martha, and in doing so are missing out on the blessings of giving and receiving hospitality. What people want is friendship, not a banquet. Being in each other’s homes means that we get to know each other, and though this can be uplifting, it exposes us as we really are. Jesus did not have his own home, but for more than three years he lived closely with a group of men (and women³) who observed him constantly, day and night. They saw him when he was popular and when he was hated. Whether he was tired, hungry, frustrated, abused, disappointed or distressed, they saw it all. These were the people who knew Jesus best, and their unqualified testimony was that, in both behaviour and character, he was without fault. ‘He did no sin . . . In him there was no sin.’⁴ 1. Mark 8:31-32; Mark 9:18-19; Mark 9:33-34; Mark 9:38-40 2. Luke 10:38-42

3. Luke 8:1-3 4. 1 Peter 2:22; 1 Peter 3:18; 1 John 3:5

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