Bro Mike. i don't know how i missed this when you first posted it? ... :-o
You initially wrote;
"My mom's name is Lynn or Lyndel, to me she is Ma ..."
Man that just sums it all up right there ... Praying for Ma, your family and for you bro ...
You wrote;
"A lot of details missing, but we are not coming apart at the seams or overwrought if I could put it that way ..."
i'm thinking from how you write that Ma and your family are all saved ... If not (she's of most concern due to the situation) then that'd be my first priority ... i got a thing about my family that even in life if they profess Christ, if i find out that their deathly ill, i go on a mission to really find out because i love them and want to see them again, and i sure don't want any of my fam to end up in hell ... i hope i'm not being to spiritually clinical here in this tough time, but like i've had to tell members of my family this is about "eternity"! ... It don't get no more important! ...
Now on the other hand if we're talking already saved, yeah this hurts now, and will later (my Dad's gone on), BUT!!! ... i don't have to tell you bro, you already know what keys Christ Jesus came up with when He busted the bottom out of Hades ... He's got ALL POWER in His hands! ... So if Ma is about to go home to Him this is but a temporary interuption to a future re-unification of eternal bliss, where you and Ma, me and you, and all our other brothers and sisters will reign and rule with Him, with no possibility of ever getting sick, or having to face death again ... Oh bless His Holy name! ...
Bless God that you and you family are not coming apart at the seems, we who have the hope of glory ain't supposed to, but even so some times we do, and if we do God will work a Rom. 8:28 out of that too ... When my Dad went on i was stoic at his funeral, but about 4 months later i broke down like a child actually bawling out loud, "i want my Dad back, i don't have a father anymore" ... In the midst of doing that i heard God say to me, "Yes you do, the same One you had before him" ... It interupted my crying, and made me sit up and take notice how much reverence for my earthly father i had before my heavenly ... i've come to the conclusion that there are some spiritual lessons we'll never learn about the love of our heavenly parent for us until we experience the passing on of our earthly ... But i can tell you this true, if you let Him, if you rest in Him, He'll fill the void, and your relationship with Him will take on a higher dimension you never even thought about ...
You continued;
"I just again, do not know how to pray ... maybe I do, maybe it's the finality of it all ... Strength, peace, understanding for my Ma and my Pa, words or even better the Lords reflection without them from this one..."
Bro when i can't pray, or don't know what/how to pray, i do one of or two things ... i either start praising God like all get out for all His riches and mercies, or i just begin to moan and let Holy Ghost say before Him what i can't find audible words to say ... Often a do a combo of both, determined by which one i start out with first ...
He that cometh to God must believe that He is and that He is a REWARDER ... He does, whenever like on Family Fued we make Him our final answer ... We can do, and get thru all things, thru Christ Jesus who strengthens us ... It's like an old saint told me once during a shaky period in my walk, "What's the use of being a believer, if you're not gonna believe"? ... i may not know you personally bro Mike, but i know you are a BELIEVER ...
May the soothing love of Jesus and His perfect peace which surpasses all understanding be wrapped around you and yours in the comforting embrace of God the Holy Spirit ... In Jesus name ... Amen
Thank God for Jesus at times like this! ... Rom. 8: 35-39 ... ;-)
Bro R ---