Perhaps I need to elaborate a bit more on this...
By manipulation I mean more in the emotions and that jumble between them and the cerebral. Watchman Nee probably would be a better extension of expression in these matters; The 'soul' and where the lower nature, feelings and emotions collide.
While enjoying a fairly vast variety of styles of music in those days, was pretty much a 'metal head' and being a guitar player was more fond of the guitar heroes of my era, the 'virtuoso's', Jeff Beck, Eddie Van Halen, Randy Rhoads (My 'idol' ...) Michael Schenker, Stevie Ray Vaughn ... and endless list.
There is also the 'softer' side of things, the songs that melt an 'old softy', that can bring tears, romance, songs that touch you by way of remembrance. In the former mention there is a great deal of [i]power[/i] that can be unleashed standing in front of a Marshall amplifier that can practically make your ears bleed turned only half way up.
When I was being challenged back in the day by a brother that used to come and witness to me, one of the points of discussion was always on the matter of lyrics vs. the music itself. My argument was that I paid less attention to the lyrics often times and more to the 'riffs', in fact, a good riff would send me off to buy an album even if the rest of the content was positively awful (both lyrically and music wise) ... I was a guitar junkie.
That was then. Perhaps the best way to articulate this is in the idea of [url=https://www.sermonindex.net/modules/newbb/viewtopic.php?topic_id=11409&forum=40#89070]OTHERS MAY: YOU CANNOT [/url] It is not something I purposefully 'laid down', in fact it didn't even really dawn on me for quite sometime. It is in a way similar to what happens for instance when one turns off the TV for an extended time. To 'come back' to it after having spending time just concentrating on the Lord ... Ones perspective is quite different, you notice things that are more cerebral, subconscious, the tweaking of the emotions and mind, advertisements and the highly suggestive and manipulative ways and means. The laugh tracks... The voice overs... The half truths and outright lies... The sentimental and even the true things, disguised, veiled, mixed in the muddy mix.
"Christian" music faired no better for me as an alternative, it was just as often the same manipulation and generally speaking far worse, it had the unfortunate leanings that Tozer equated with his disdain for an "amateur talent show" preformed in churches. Trying to 'be like' the world and failing miserably by giving it a "Christian" twist. Originality is something so foreign these days that everything seems to be just a copy of copy of a copy. Even the better or more 'popular' Christian songs are re-made and preformed again and again, how many versions of some of these same songs are out there? This is all a digression though from the point of manipulation...
Like drugs, that give over control to the effects of the drugs influence and also open up realms that one can find themselves in and yes they are demonic realms indeed. There is something about a similar giving up the emotions to forces that are not of Gods will ... This is [i]very[/i] difficult for me to describe adequately, I appeal back to "others may, you cannot" this is not as mandate for anyone but myself, take only what is applicable from it.
Having lived in both realms at the same time it was one of a matter of control and strange in the wrestling for an attempt to do so while under the influence of both. When as a band we would 'jam' and almost always buzzed, there was a tremendous drain by the time you were finished, your emotions are spent, your ears ringing, even physically the amount of energy exhausted at such an intensity, believe someone did a study on rock musicians and equated it with levels of a marathon runner. There was also a depression that would set in though even after what we thought was a particularly good, "tight" session, everyone on the same page, little to no mistakes in preforming the songs ... something empty and missing from it all. A let down.
Perhaps this is in part why the dander gets so elevated now when the manipulation factor comes into play with things of the Lord. The highly suggestive world of name-it-and-claim-it and WOF camps. Those settings are highly manipulative, the power of suggestion and hypnosis like technique, purposeful, know or otherwise, it's there and it drives me to tears to see people that desire to know God in the deepest depths tossed around with spurious notions, crafty ... manipulations, I don't know another word for it and it is more encompassing than just those examples.
To appeal to scripture here, it is the form and function of this worlds 'system' and seems to me at the very heart of it.
Eph 2:2 Wherein in time past ye walked according to the [i][b]course[/b][/i] of this world, according to the prince of the power of the air, the spirit that now worketh in the children of disobedience:
In the world but not [i][b]of[/b][/i] the world.
It used to drive me nut's to hear these things in that unredeemed state, "What do you mean? It's God's world ..." Just as well can recall chaffing at The Bible Answer Man in early days with his constant mantra of "It's not about how you [i][b]feel[/b][/i]..." I would think, of course it is!
Ah, but that is because I was ignorant and little recognized what I still was under and I believe the world by and large is swayed by, even a great deal of Chrisitans...
The emotions rule. In music, in decision making, anger, bitterness ....[i]pride[/i]...
[i]Love not the world, neither the things that are in the world. If any man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world. And the world passeth away, and the lust thereof: but he that doeth the will of God abideth for ever.[/i] 1Jo 2:15-17
Look at all the things that come forth and even that which is up in our thoughts right now, here; This matter of a 'critical spirit' and criticism, judging and so forth. How much of it is based on feelings, hurt feelings, resentment, being offended ... Even our praying, is it topical, cerebral, up in the shallows? Or is it deep down below ... past.. the point of 'feeling', the place of groanings, which cannot be uttered? Am not appealing to a case of non-emotion or cold, lifeless, compassion-less, heartless concern .. far from it! It's not abstract ... it's the essence of "deep calls unto deep", true emotion, pure [i]feeling[/i], real honesty. I really feel I am failing miserably to make sense here, there is a level of inadequacy that is out of my reach.
Only God alone can put us back together again, back into His purposed design, purge our emotions correctly, our thoughts and change our hearts. Anything other than that is a manipulation and a tweaking or a giving over to whatever it may be. I can no longer allow the emotions to direct and to smell the scent of manipulation either by natural proclivities, man, the devil and his minions, even our own brethren at times, it's just diabolical to me... There is a great gulf between being compelled and being played with. The Lord manipulates no one and yet how this has been turned on it's head!
Go out 'witnessing' with some sales pitch? Some flippant, manipulative, half-truth, make that quarter-truth 'message' of say this little prayer and all is well? The other is to go the route of a legalist and manipulate from that standpoint. That's not to try and say everything all at once, it is fixed by God's decree, grace to the humble...
1Pe 5:5 Likewise, ye younger, submit yourselves unto the elder. Yea, all of you be subject one to another, and be clothed with humility: for God resisteth the proud, and giveth grace to the humble.
I need to be careful and frank in admitting I don't quite grasp all of the 'why' of this. The Lord saw fit to use a simple lyric to ultimately break me down into repentance and give up the fight against Him; "[i]Sweet Jesus, where did I go?[/i]" And even now ... It's strange, the refrain from a old Foreigner song for instance will come up and lodge for days ... "I want to know what love is... I want you to show me" (I [i]hated[/i] that song!) :-?
You know, those 'songs I can't get out of my head' type things.
Since I am bouncing back and forth here ...
"O Holy Night" by example, almost always brings forth tears, but for altogether different reasons.
It strikes [i]me[/i] deep down past the emotions but not without them entirely, in fact I can get quite emotional about it, [i]fall on your knees[/i] seems like it needs not be said ... I am already there.
A great deal of this is a matter of 'taste', styles and what have you. To say "This is what ought to be done" is going to be an impossibility, but tastes can be refined and it is a wonder that it is still our entertainment that trumps [i] speaking to one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody in your heart [b][u]to[/u][/b] the Lord[/i].
I don't have a definitive answer to all this, still in the midst of it. For now, it is a matter of not being 'allowed to go there' except to my own hurt spiritually speaking and why I just kind of tuned out from music in general. Who knows, some day the Lord may see fit to bring it back to the fore to make music for Him, just something I had to relinquish and the dreams of being a musician, a 'rock star' used to cause some pain when the recognition came that this is now dead and I had to let go of it, even the 'enjoyment' that I once had to just listen... I know why even if I can't articulate it all that well.
There is something telling though about where we are now with music that stems from which is even in the proclamation of Gods truth; That it is largely [i]about[/i] God if it is not first about ourselves, rather than [i]to God[/i] that we are worshiping Him with our talents that He Himself gave us in the first place. Seems the Beethoven's and Bach's were concerned with this first and foremost (if my recollection serves me correctly) irregardless of what the people thought.
Somethings just are what they are and fall out into a category that Paul described with the profound addendum;
1Co 6:12 All things are lawful for me, but all things are not profitable. All things are lawful for me, [b]but I will not be mastered by anything.[/b]
Maybe that is all that I am trying to get across.
This matter of honesty is just bearing down...
Psa 51:6 Behold, thou desirest truth in the inward parts: and in the hidden part thou shalt make me to know wisdom.
[b]Manipulation[/b]
[u]Social influence[/u]
[i]Main article: Social influence[/i]*
In a psychological context, manipulation means to influence a person or a group of people in such a way that the manipulator tries to get what he or she wants or makes a person believe something in a calculating, indirect and somewhat dishonest way. Like indoctrination, it is a form of psychological abuse.
For example, a manipulator will
~ use arguments that the manipulator does not believe in himself
~ use of false reasoning as with fallacies and paralogisms
~ or withhold or distort relevant information,
~ or provide false information (disinformation)
~ or "play" on the emotions (fear, hope, love...) of the person.
~ physically move the person, like a puppet
This might also involve propaganda when it is directed to more than one person.
* http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Manipulation