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Remnant119

My name is Robert and I took some youth to an ATF even last year and to the summer camp also. Their message is right on. Their approach, I don't agree with. I believe that the message is lost in all the hype, unless you are actually looking for a true gospel message. The actual ground of ATF are where Keith Green used to run his Last Day's Ministries. ATF bought it and turned it into Teen Mania. Ron Luce has an awesome quote, but once again I think his approach could be better. "If you give teenagers a watered down gospel you'll have watered down christian teenagers."

Also, I have met Ron Luce and heard him express disgust over the modern message being presented to our youth and how cheap the gospel is being presented to them. At last years ATF Ron Luce shouted, "I'd rather fail a test in school than to fail God!" I don't know if you count that radical but I think you should probably research more before you point fingers. It's good to be skeptical, but it's not good to pass judgement before you've done your research.

ATF and Ron Luce have their hearts in the right place, their message straight from the Bible, but the way they attract teenagers I don't agree with. I wish they would kill the light, stop the rock bands, and just have one man with a Bible preaching, then see who would try and Acquire the Fire.

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That was most peoples point. If the approach is not right, the message may be confusing or lost. Some will get it, most will not. It is not the worst option for youth, nor is it the best. God can and will use it, hopefully, they do not abuse it, because we are talking about saving souls, not selling cds (whomever the 'performing artists' are).

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Revolution34

These threads have been extremly revealing. Our ministry attracts a lot of youth and one of the things that i have come to notice is that unconverted church kids are many times worse than raw sinners. They have no fear of God left in em, they want the church to be some kind of christian youth club that stoops down to relate to them rather than calls them to rise to Gods standards. They know how to play the church game, but they are worldy and unsaved, fornicating, cussing, world loving and hell bound. I have nothing against christian popular music if it is sincere and godly, music is so integral to todays culture we use it as a vehicle to reach souls but only that. But unfortunatley too much christian music is techinically excellent but spiritually lame. What I have seen is that converted youth tuned into the old and tried ways of the simplicity of the faith do have a true fire. We preach to them not the fire of excitement but the fire of obedience. Obedience to do the will of God produces more vibrancy and passion in christians than anything, pursuing passion and vibrancy for its own sake is the big mistake of our times we are creating emotionaly doped out saints who love the Big event the atmsophere of a moment but cant obey God the next day! I get kids leave my church when they find that i wont stoop to do anything to keep them in the church I preach unconditional obedience to Christ the ones who are embracing obedience are discovering the true joy of living for Christ.

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i say again, why would anyone who is saved by Jesus precius blood want to listen to the worlds music? just becuse they say Jesus in the song dosent make it ok, its from the devil...

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sermonindex

many people take that as a personal attack...because they are still living in the world and the world is still living in them. there is no other answer...

i use to defend rap, rock, and reggae. actually, i remember saying after i started going to church that i would do anything but i did not see anything wrong with a little weed once and a while...

...it reminds me of the story of the little bit of dung in the brownie...

a little bit of the world in your walk will eventually knock you off the narrow path and that tangent will eventually lead you to hell.

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roadsign

but the way they attract teenagers I don't agree with. I wish they would kill the light, stop the rock bands, and just have one man with a Bible preaching

Entertainment can be a pitiful substitute for relationship: getting to know the kids as individuals. It’s easier to stay disconnected from them and merely provide some pizzazz. Christ, on the other hand would have related with them, and talked to them one to one. He would have met them where they were at. He came to heal brokenness, set them free from fears, etc – all those things our youth struggle with.
If our youth don't meet Christ through us, then how can we expect them to put their trust in him?

In our culture we have become accustomed to mass-producing people like factories. Ex: Schools use the cookie cutter method. We just take that cultural value into religion.

then see who would try and Acquire the Fire.

Bingo! I think you struck right through our favorite idol in Christianity. We want to see RESULTS and will do anything to try to make it happen.

A preacher once said, “If the Spirit doesn’t move the people, I move the Spirit.” So, really we are playing God.

Thankfully the Spirit can penetrate through all the layers and touch souls – one here, and one there. But the vast majority will be no different than the countless in past generations: addicted to religion. And you won’t ever change that.


Thank you for sharing your thoughts, Robert.
Diane

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i say again, why would anyone who is saved by Jesus precius blood want to listen to the worlds music? just becuse they say Jesus in the song dosent make it ok, its from the devil...

[b]Hmmm[/b] ... while I am critical of the state of Christian music today, there are a number of bands and musicians who are born again and are making a difference. 30 years ago Keith Greens music style (which was rock) was considered incredibly radical to some in the church. But I think we all agree here that he had a powerful ministry... and still does 24 years after his death.

Petra was recording music for 30 years until they retired last year. Their music is nothing more than straight up scripture, and their music has been an incredible encouragement to me since I was saved. They have seen thousands saved. I'll not sit in judgement of their ministry.

Be careful saying something is of the devil when it might just be of God. You'll find yourself fighting against God.

Now... I am very critical of Christian music because it is driven by money. If it wasnt then it wouldnt be owned by large secular companies like Fox, Sony, etc. They dont care about ministry one bit... they care about money. It hasnt always been that way... but it changed in the early 90's, and Christian music has been on the decline ever since. Now we're to the point where the majority of artists are more about their image than they are about reaching souls for Christ.

Artists like Steve Camp saw it coming and got out of the Christian music business years ago.

When you buy a CD the artist gets something like 4% of the money. The rest goes to the big secular companies. And these companies that own Christian music also put out all the trash you see on TV, and on the movie screen, and put out artists like Rob Zombie, AC/DC, Brittany Spears, etc.

[b]Thats[/b] whats wrong with Christian music, and that's why it has become tripe. It is unequally yoked together with darkness... therefore it is seriously compromised.

As for ATF, I agree with one of the earlier posters on this thread... I dont think any of us are saying that no good comes from it. I stated yesterday that I am sure a few lives have been changed. But I equally as sure that the vast majority have not been eternally impacted just because of what the original poster has stated... the message is overwhelmed by the hype!

The ends do [b]not[/b] justify the means, and the message is getting lost, then the means are wrong.

Krispy

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let me refrase, if a christian bannd , if what you se on mtv or other "wordly" godless tv channels and "cultures" of today...in many bands the only difference is they say jesus or qoute scripture. i like Keith Green, but the hardcore heavy metalbands.. heavy music black hair and look like demons... is that a deciple of Jesus? a follower of the light of the world? my unconverted mother would run if she jkust saw some of the people claiming to be christians, as keith daniel said when he heard a christian rock song....thats as close to hell ive been on this earth

i just listend to this sermon by erlo stegen... someone should write him a letter...he said if you listen to rock music you are going to hell, becuse your body should be a sacrifice to the lord, your ears to, if you listen to rock you playing around whit christianity... maybe i took it out of context?

anyone want to listen

https://www.sermonindex.net/modules/mydownloads/singlefile.php?lid=14490&commentView=itemComments

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Remnant119 wrote:
ATF and Ron Luce have their hearts in the right place, their message straight from the Bible, but the way they attract teenagers I don't agree with.

I thought I'd insert a great quote here:


"Brass is mistaken for gold more easily than clay is." - CS Lewis

May I recommend the following sermon for your consideration, [url=https://www.sermonindex.net/modules/mydownloads/singlefile.php?lid=3324]Holiness Or Blessing[/url] by Art Katz? Some good thoughts here that would be relevant to the matter discussed here.

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If our youth don't meet Christ through us, then how can we expect them to put their trust in him?

Aint this the truth?

As a Christian parent, I can not in good conscience entrust my children to your typical 'youth ministry'. My over arching objective is for my children to entrust their lives to Jesus. This is a 24/7 calling that rebukes hypocrasy, and breaks convenient illusions of self-righteousness in the honest parent. Now realizing how careful we as parents must walk in love and holiness with much transparency before the careful gaze of our children and in more fear of God...how in the world could we then not look with suspicion upon youth leaders who lift up Christian rock bands, punk hair styles and pizza parties?

These youth groups may serve some function as 'intermediate' steps for the many children lost to the world...but if we were really cross-culture missionaries we would bring the cross over into their cultures. I say that more then to be clever...you cannot imitate a rebellous culture and at the same time ask children to repent of it. As Ed Orr once said..."It is one thing for a ship to be water...but quite another for water to be in the ship" Youth pastors who wear earrings, hire rock bands, and spout hip youthful prhases are perhaps making a connection with the kids...but I fear they are sinking the very ship that was sent to rescue them.

This is not because these things are so bad or evil in themselves. I am not talking about petty legalism...and certainly I'm not talking about 'banning' all this stuff. I'm talking about the incessant centrality this stuff seems to occupy in youth ministries. If you believe that kids need Christian rock and pizza parties to see Jesus then that is also legalistic.

The issue I have here is that to many of these children, their worldy music, clothes, and heroes are powerful symbols of a reality that has their minds and hearts...this reality tells them that they are hopeless, without love, and wthout God. The world, including their own education system, tells them their souls are worthless, or non-existent and as a result they feel entitled to take whatever pleasure or pay-back they can get regardless of the damage to themselves.

For this reason youth pastors who stylize the Word of God after these worldy devices to win the affections of teenagers are not, (in my opinion) being faithful shepherds to the souls entrusted to them, but instead are taking the low road in order to achieve temporary results. They are adding to the confusion and not walking in the light as Christ is in the light.

Hey, this does not just apply to the use of hip hop and rock in the church...but also to the wall street corporatization of our churches as well. Some big time pastors need to spend less time with their white collar business friends and more time with their blue collar flock who don't have anything to offer them in return.

Well, my original point was that Christian parenting, if properly walked out, would censure most youth groups today. I think Krispy had mentioned this in another thread, and I agree with him...the reason youth groups are such a big deal these days is because parenting has become a small deal.

All of this self-righteous 'you don't understand my culture' hub-bub is leading me to the conclusion that churches should do away with...or at least minimize the role of youth groups and simply serve the same Word of God to the teens as they do the adults. This way the young men can be around more mature Godly men, (and they had better be!) and the young ladies can be around Godly women. (And they had better be!)

Now I have several friends who are youth pastors and I think they know exactly where I'm coming from. Keeping the youth lovingly alongside the adults in church would be real 'cross-culturalism'...not this closed door youth ghetto we have down the hall today in most churches.

Blessings,

MC

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BenWilliams

ATF and Ron Luce have their hearts in the right place, their message straight from the Bible, but the way they attract teenagers I don't agree with. I wish they would kill the light, stop the rock bands, and just have one man with a Bible preaching, then see who would try and Acquire the Fire.

You know, I didn't see anyone post anything about this, and it's kind of shocking to me.

William Booth, leader of the Salvation Army used to dress in military clothes, he put together a band, and they all dressed in militery clothes. Then they would march through the streets playing their music as loud as they could to attract people. Then they would have preaching afterwards and many would get saved.

So in essence, they had loud music, strange clothes, and if you watch the videos on the site, it looks as though there was some hype.

[b]All the people so far say that the approach is wrong, [u]but none of them would be bold enough to question the approach of William Booth.[/u] I think in the next ten years, we will see the results of whether the approach is good or not.[/b]

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iansmith

Actually, I think events like Aquire the Fire are more for maintaining the status quo. The fact of the matter is I'm in touch with different ministries on a daily basis and there aren't many organizations that are blazing a new trail, most of them are just trying to keep weeds from growing over the ones that were blazed in revivals past -usually without much success.

Aquire the Fire is mostly for kids who are already involved in church, in order to inspire them to go deeper in their spiritual walk or consider missions -or just to think that its ok to be a Christian and to be a youth.

You're right, we need to take the cross into other cultures, but we don't necessarily need to bring our hymn books or liturgies... they need the cross, not our church culture or white middle class suburban culture.

People need Jesus! I'm not watering down anything, i'm trying to purify the Gospel.

Keith Green was looked on as satanic thirty years ago because he played rock music... by our standards in thirty more years the rock bands of today will seem tame. So a God that is timeless isn't going to see them through our eyes, he's looking for the hearts of people, not listening to the rythm of the music.

If we went back a hundred years and tried to sing some of our modern praise music, even the good Christ ordained kind that everyone in this forum can agree upon -we'd probably be shouted off the stage, because that music would be considered devil worship.

We need to realize that our preferences in music are not biblical, they're personal. Yes, when a band is seeking prestige and is full of pride then we should discourage that... but a lot of Christian bands are not... and a lot of Christian preachers are. So we need to be careful to avoid blanket condemnation.

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what is it that is so hard by accepting some music as wicked? why do we defend it so much.... two things i find people defending ....sins and their music style.... if we cant even change our music style and let go of it...how in the world can we let go of every thing we own?

Rom 12:1 I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service.

our ears are part of that body too

Rom 12:2 And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.

if the world accepts it and "likes" it, what in the world are Christians doing "imitating" their music

Jas 4:4 Ye adulterers and adulteresses, know ye not that the friendship of the world is enmity with God? whosoever therefore will be a friend of the world is the enemy of God.

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iansmith

hmmhmm,

Please understand me when I say this, for more than two years I fasted from all the music that I loved, rock, punk, classical, jazz... I can't even stand to put on the Christian radio station because they play so many commercials for Christian dating services.

No music is in itself unclean. No instrument is a tool of satan... no genre is inherantly evil. There are proud and arrogant musicians playing every type of music, everything from hymns to ska!

Honestly, one thing that bugs me is when one man or woman in church will sing in a strong vibrato or in a different pitch because they think that they are doing the rest of a congregation a service by sharing their voice -when to me it's like fingernails on a chalk board.

I believe like Dietrich Bonhoeffer that when we lift praises to God our voices should blend together into one voice, where our own identity is lost in the praises being lifted up to God... in so many churches you hear chaos of different voices competing with eachother... at a rock concert when you're singing along with the lead singer you can't hear your voice at all... when everyone is singing it's one glorious noise to the Lord.

There's a lot of selfish individualism in church music in our churches... in rock music I can be alone, together, with God, with others, all at once in one beautiful sound.

Maybe I'm not going to the same Christian concerts as you guys, my two favorite Christian bands have long since broken up to go onto other ministries and raise families... I'd have to go to denver to hear the other one i like, that's a little out of the way.

I'm not imitating anyone's music. There were puritans who refused to listen to classical music -but we've seen past that. There were Christians who condemned William Booth for his music, there were people who were disgusted with Charles Wesley, some people didn't like the Hymns of Fanny Crosby... People thought that Keith Green was a satan worshiper because of his music... time will heal all wounds.

You can choose to condemn it here, but in the future there will be people that consider this music tame and glorifying to God. Frankly I'd rather have been the one who liked Charles Wesley's hymns when they were new than have to look back in retrospect and in humility and admit my small heart and understanding.

This is not to say that Skillet or any one band is Godly, we must discern on a case by case basis, but we should not blanket them with condemnation -we should seek God's heart in the matter.

Some people are told by God not to drink alchohal, but this doesnt' mean that it's a biblical mandate to be a teatotaller! Absolutely not, you're no less of a Christian if you choose to drink than if you abstain. The bible warns us about drunkeness and I think we can apply these things to rock music as well.

The bible warns us against making anything an idol -well that means our job, our ministry, our forum, our wife... it can also mean a rock band... but it doesn't exclusively mean rock bands and rock music, and it certainly doesn't mean that all jobs, ministries, forums, wives and rock bands are idols -that's a grosse perversion of the proper understanding of biblical truth!

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Ben... there is a big difference between wearing military style uniforms and wearing revealing clothing (in the case of many female Christian singers today) or dressing like a drug dealer (see one of the pics on the other thread).

If you cant see the difference, then I guess I need to be more concerned for you than I already am.

Your comparison is silly.

Think about this... William Booths uniforms set them apart. Dress in modern music is designed to do just the opposite. Which one do you think is more scriptural. (Hint: William Booth!)

Krispy

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BenWilliams

what is it that is so hard by accepting some music as wicked? why do we defend it so much.... two things i find people defending ....sins and their music style.... if we cant even change our music style and let go of it...how in the world can we let go of every thing we own?

There is a lot of wicked music out there. There I admitted it for you.

Now we can move on to dealing with sin issues instead of music.

What frustrated me about this whole thing is that it was the music that was attacked. If you want to say, that man does not read his Bible, he does not pray, he does not fellowship with other believers, and you have evidence of such behavior. You will have a case against the man and his music.

If however you are arguing that because the man plays rock music then he is not a Christian, then you are severely in need of the revelation of Christ.

[b]Would you say that Kieth Green's music was worldly?[/b]

If you do, then it is obvious what your problem is, you believe in a works mentality.

If you do not, then you need to reread what iansmith wrote about music and culture.

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vico

Keith Green was looked on as satanic thirty years ago because he played rock music... by our standards in thirty more years the rock bands of today will seem tame.

hmmmm...

I don't remember which sermon it was, maybe "Regeneration & self-denial", Paul Washer uses something like that as an example of how our culture is degenerating morally.

He said (in my own words) that "if you would have gone to a beach 60 years ago wearing what is commonly excepted today, the secular authorities would have either thrown you in jail, or commit you to an insane asylum." and, "if thats how cold we've become to sin in the last 60 years, we can't even begin to imagine how far we have fallen back in the last 6000 years!"

Can't you see whats happening? The longer time goes on it seems the more we come to accept more of the world, at first just a little in this area, and then a little more, and then a little more, and it just keeps going downhill. (Now I'm not saying that Keith Green is satanic!)

I could go into all kinds of studies that have been done on styles of music. even secular studies that show how human bodies are not suited to listen to rock music. Studies that show the effect this kind of music has on your mind, even the "Christian rock" (Keith Daniel says there is no such thing as "Christian rock"). But the real issue here is the Glory of God. Do we even know what that means??? Do we even have the faintest idea of what the Glory of God is? To an extent, I don't really care what that music does to my body or mind. But the Glory of God brothers! The Glory of God!

We have fallen far from what the Church used to be, and what it aught to be.

If we went back a hundred years and tried to sing some of our modern praise music, even the good Christ ordained kind that everyone in this forum can agree upon -we'd probably be shouted off the stage, because that music would be considered devil worship.

Why do think that would be?? what if we went farther back, say 1900 years ago? what do you think the Church would have had to say about it then? what about even farther back, say... to the days of Solomon? imagine some of these bands playing in the temple courts. Do you think that would have been tolerated? Now, all that to say, if godly men in the past, even until 100 years ago wouldn't stand for this kind of music, why the change in our generation? why, in the past few generations have many of the moral standards in the Church crumbled, why is it not considered compromise anymore. If this is allowed to continue, will our grandchildren accept homosexuality in the Church as the norm???

Ian (i love you brother), you said that preference in music is personal. i agree with you. Now, if our music is toward God, we should ask Him what His personal preference is and stick to that, don't you think? ;-)


thats all for now :-)

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BenWilliams

Ben... there is a big difference between wearing military style uniforms and wearing revealing clothing (in the case of many female Christian singers today) or dressing like a drug dealer (see one of the pics on the other thread).

If you cant see the difference, then I guess I need to be more concerned for you than I already am.

Your comparison is silly.

Think about this... William Booths uniforms set them apart. Dress in modern music is designed to do just the opposite. Which one do you think is more scriptural. (Hint: William Booth!)

First of all, what is your definition of revealing clothing?

Second, which groups are you talking about?

Third, how many drug dealers do you know personally that dress like that?

I have met a few, and they don't have a specific style of clothing they wear, if they did, the cops would pick them up right away, that is just ridiculous.

Lastly, my dad was reading your post while I was reading it, and he wants to know why you are looking at women in revealing clothing?

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well i nailed my culture to the cross, i recommend you do the same brother, my culture was evil to the core, I'm glad I'm not a part of it anymore. Now my culture is following Jesus, words from ravenhill come to mind...is the world crucified to you? or does it fascinate you?

i believe rock is evil, Ive read much about it, where it came from its roots, Ive lived as an ungodly man in the mist of that world, and just because you ad Jesus to it don't make it alright and clean.... many run whit Jesus in one hand and grasping for the world whit the other...it wont do, to me its like this...if it looks like the world... if it smells like the world.. if it acts like the world ....sounds like the world


guess what?


probably is of the world, but thats my opinion.
i believe so, i listen to ravenhill, washer, Stegen, k.daniel and many many many multitudes of godly holy men of God and they say the same thing as i do.... you guys disagree whit them thats ok... but why do you get so defensive when someone say its wicked?

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or dressing like a drug dealer

Funny, all the big time drug dealers I've ever known have dressed like pretty unassumingly -that way they don't get caught.

Will Smith the actor isn't a drug dealer, but if you'd never seen his television shows or movies and applied your blanket assumptions upon him you'd assume that he was just a crack pusher based on his cloths.

There are plenty of kids who love their bibles and have a heart sold out to Jesus who wear fubu and diesel. We all want to wear nice things, and sometimes nice things are in the eye of the beholder.

Now I do admit that young women need to dress more modestly, but I've seen Christian parents dress their daughters in skirts and tops that on a girl five or ten years older would be sinful -when you start them on it young it's going to be hard to explain to them why they have to start dressing differently later.

Neither of the two girls in the picture on the other thread appeared to be wearing anything that just screamed -sin! I've seen girls playing piano at churches for worship service wearing less than that!

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what do you do whit this verse?

Jas 4:4 Ye adulterers and adulteresses, know ye not that the friendship of the world is enmity with God? whosoever therefore will be a friend of the world is the enemy of God.

does it not ring an alarm clock if we listen to the same music as the world does?

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I just figured out what the issue is here... Ben, you dont want to listen to anyone. You think you have it all figured out. I have to keep reminding myself you're 20 yrs old. And Ian... I am assuming you're not much older.

I know full well that Paul told Timothy to let no man despise his youth. But Paul was not addressing every young man. Timothy obviously listened and learned from men who had been walking with the Lord.

I dont always agree with PaulWest or Philologos on here... but you dont see me disrespecting them either. I've learned bunches from both men. And been humbled by them at times.

It seems that there are certain people (no names mentioned, but you know who you are) who want to argue about music, and methods... and completely ignore the wisdom that has been offered on these thread. Instead, you counter every statement, argue every point to death...

...and this reveals your heart. And at times, your heart has not been very pretty.

... it also shows why many of us here have deep concerns about the "Christian" youth culture.

Krispy

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"The children now love luxury; they have bad manners, contempt for authority; they show disrespect for elders and love chatter in place
of exercise. Children are now tyrants, not the servants of their households. They no longer rise when elders enter the room. They contradict their parents, chatter before company, gobble up dainties at the table, cross their legs, and tyrannize their teachers.

Socrates (470-399 BC)

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Thank you Krispy for your mature approach and response, i get "hot" in this topic, maybe ill post less on it and pray more :-(, God bless you all and let the word and the spirit guide you to true worship music that is pleasing to the Lord(whatever style)

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vico

:cry: All of us young people need to hear this (especially myself). No man will despise my youth if I am "an example of the believers, in word, in conversation, in charity, in spirit, in faith, in purity." (1 Timothy 4:12).

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roadsign

Iansmith wrote:

We need to realize that our preferences in music are not biblical, they're personal.

I would suggest that preferences in music are to a large extent cultural. In other words we like what we hear (learned) and then we buy what we like. And everything else falls into the “dislike” bin.

I am concerned whenever religious music (even if acceptable) is given a special god-like quality, and is viewed as having the power to bring people into an ecstatic experience “with God”. That is a pagan practise, as far as I am concerned. And it has been a practise of the charismatic churches for some years now, and more recently the evangelical. We shouldn’t be surprised that the same objective underlies the present day youth culture.

Here’s another concern: As long as people are counting on music to give them the wiz-fizz and bop-bang, they will continually need to increase the stimulant factor. After all, one gets desensitized in time. And we sure have the ideal technology these days to do it. I wonder what our creative fellow human beings will come up next!

My son attended a few Catch the Fire conferences at the Toronto Airport Fellowship with his church group. It wasn’t long before he saw through the pretence of it. I asked him recently if he thought this would all end soon. He said, “Not likely. It's the nature of people – always looking for religious experience.”

Diane

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BenWilliams

I just figured out what the issue is here... Krispy, you dont want to listen to anyone who is younger than you unless they agree with you. You think you have it all figured out because you have lived a little longer than us. I have to keep reminding myself that that is the problem.

I know full well that Paul told Timothy to let no man despise his youth. But Paul was not addressing every young man. Timothy obviously listened and learned from men who had been walking with the Lord.

Like who? The other Apostles? who were not much older than him, Paul addressed it because the older men wouldn't listen to his authority.

You guys ignore what we say, use subjective arguments rather than scripture, and flaunt age around as though it means anything. There is a good chance that I have been walking with the Lord longer than a lot of the older guys on this site. Most of you were not saved until you were in your early to mid twenties, while I have been following the Lord and learning about him almost my entire life.

I dont always agree with PaulWest or Philologos on here... but you dont see me disrespecting them either. I've learned bunches from both men. And been humbled by them at times.

Disagreeing with someone does not qualify as disrespecting someone, we are debating these issues on this forum are we not? You guys act as though if there is a conflict of opinion, we should differ to your wisdom because you are older.

Well that is what Paul was dealing with, we are to differ to the scriptures, not to you.

So show your opinion through scripture, or stop calling it wisdom.

[b][color=CC0000]The great hymns that you cling to of Wesley, many were the worldly drinking songs played in bars, and he took those and wrote Christian words to them, and was ostricised for it. Yet you cling to it as though it was Holier than our music, which was written by Christians for Christians.[/color][/b]

[b]A wise man earns respect, he does not demand it.[/b]

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BenWilliams wrote:
You guys ignore what we say, use subjective arguments rather than scripture, and flaunt age around as though it means anything. There is a good chance that I have been walking with the Lord longer than a lot of the older guys on this site. Most of you were not saved until you were in your early to mid twenties, while I have been following the Lord and learning about him almost my entire life.


when where you born again?

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when where you born again?

14 years ago.

Krispy

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Ben... I'm removing myself from this conversation, and any future conversations with you. Your response to me only prooves what I said is true.

How immature.

My grandfather had a saying that applies here quite well:

"Better to be thought a fool than to open your mouth and remove all doubt."

Hopefully the admins will step in here at some point and temper your attitude. It's not needed on this forum, and is beginning to be very much in violation of this forums rules.

Maybe once you grow up you'll be a benefit to this forum.

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The great hymns that you cling to of Wesley, many were the worldly drinking songs played in bars, and he took those and wrote Christian words to them, and was ostricised for it. Yet you cling to it as though it was Holier than our music, which was written by Christians for Christians.

is there any evidence to this ? id like to examine this

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Well, as far back as I can remember,

I know I was filled with the Holy Spirit at the age of three, right before I turned four. But I don't remember anything before that age. So it was probably about the age of three, three and a half. For the sake of those that believe no one is saved unless they pray the sinners prayer, I did that when I was seven because I felt that I was in rebellion to the Lord, and not serving Him right, so I rededicated my life to Him at age seven.

So roughly I have been a Christian for about seventeen years, and have been to almost every denomination of church outside of roman catholicism. But the culture where I live is very heavily roman catholic, so I have become fairly well versed in that as well as the other denominations.

Hope that answers the question.

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speaking of Timothy... 1 Timothy 5:1 "Rebuke not an elder, but intreat him as a father; and the younger men as brethren;"

and you mentioned the apostles... 1 Peter 5:5 "Likewise, ye younger, submit yourselves unto the elder. Yea, all of you be subject one to another, and be clothed with humility: for God resisteth the proud, and giveth grace to the humble."

brother Ben, "...clothed with humility..." please take that to heart. How will men know that we are the disciples of Christ? by the love that we have for one another!

Psalm 133
1 Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together in unity!
2 It is like the precious ointment upon the head, that ran down upon the beard, even Aaron’s beard: that went down to the skirts of his garments;
3 As the dew of Hermon, and as the dew that descended upon the mountains of Zion: for there the LORD commanded the blessing, even life for evermore.

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i get suspicious when people say they have been Christians their whole lifes...becuse we cant be born a Christian, we have to be born again...first time we where born of adam...

but you know this...

and Ben, even if we youths are right, we still should be humble to wards "elders", even sometimes when we are right we still should submit to elders..if it id not sin against God to do so, God has ordained elders and so on...we should be very thoughtful and respectful even if we only speak our minds, or our opinion, i lack here too sometimes,

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is there any evidence to this ? id like to examine this

hmmhmm, I must apologize, I made a mistake, they were not specifically drinking songs, but they were secular music. I found that out during research after you asked me for evidence. Here is an article that explains it in full.


by Dean B. McIntyre

There is a popular misconception that continues to survive among United Methodists that John and Charles Wesley made use of tavern, drinking, or bar songs, as melodies for their hymns. The same is often heard of the great reformer and musician, Martin Luther. This claim is sometimes made to show the extent of their evangelistic zeal; namely, that they would go out into the secular culture, even into the taverns, saloons, and parlors frequented by the sinners they sought to redeem and make use of the musical language, the familiar drinking song tunes, for their own sacred hymns. The claim continues to be made today by some musicians, pastors, worship leaders, composers, and hymn writers. Unfortunately, this is a misapplication of a historical inaccuracy.

Confusion of Terms

The truth is that the Wesleys and Luther never made such use of saloon songs, nor would they have condoned such use. The misconception stems from confusion over a musical term — bar form. In German literature and music of the Middle Ages, "Bar" was a poem consisting of three or more stanzas. Each stanza was divided into two Stollen (section a) and one Abgesang (section b), which yielded a form of AAB. The term "bar form" is commonly used today to refer to any poem or musical composition in this AAB form, or any variation of bar form, such as AABA. A number of Luther's hymns and tunes used this form, including "A Mighty Fortress Is Our God." Other chorales ("Praise to the Lord, the Almighty") and hymns ("What a Friend We Have in Jesus," "Come, Christians, Join to Sing," "When I Survey the Wondrous Cross," "Rescue the Perishing") also use bar form. A number of tunes accompanying Wesley texts in the current United Methodist Hymnal also use bar form, including:


"Praise the Lord Who Reigns Above," UMH 96
"Thou Hidden Source of Calm Repose," UMH 153
"Come, Thou Long-Expected Jesus," UMH 196
"Hail the Day That Sees Him Rise," UMH 312
"Love Divine, All Loves Excelling," UMH 384
"I Want a Principle Within," UMH 410
"See How Great a Flame Aspires," UMH 541
"Come, Let Us Use the Grace Divine," UMH 606
"O the Depth of Love Divine," UMH 627
"Because Thou Hast Said," UMH 635
"Give Me a Faith Which Can Remove," UMH 650
"Come, Let Us Join Our Friends Above," UMH 709
"Lo, He Comes with Clouds Descending," UMH 718
It is not difficult to understand how the musical term, bar form, also sometimes referred to as bar tune, can become confused in an uninformed person's mind with barroom tune, drinking song, or some other title to indicate music to accompany the drinking of alcoholic beverages.

The Wesleyan Aesthetic for Hymn Tunes

There is also the deeper issue of whether the importing of secular and drinking songs into the church to accompany congregational singing would be acceptable to the Wesleys. Wesley issued three collections of tunes: the Foundery Collection in 1742, Select Hymns with Tunes Annext (in which first appears his celebrated "Directions for Singing," reprinted on page vii of The United Methodist Hymnal) in 1761, and his last, Sacred Harmony, in 1780. What we find in these collections yields an important insight into Wesley's musical aesthetic for hymn tunes. Here we find the simple, traditional psalm tunes and hymn melodies, primarily from Anglican song. A number of these survive in our own 1989 United Methodist Hymnal (nos. 60, 96, 142, 181, 302, 385, 414, 450, 682). However, many of Charles's texts were in increasing number and complexity of meter and required new sources for tunes to accompany them. John made use of new tunes composed or adapted from folk tunes, sacred and secular oratorio, and even operatic melodies. It should not escape us that whenever Wesley allowed the use of secular music — as from oratorio and opera — he used music of accepted high standard and almost always from classical rather than popular sources. In no instance did Wesley turn to tavern or drinking songs or other such unseemly sources to carry the sacred texts of songs and hymns.

Another help to understanding what Wesley considered appropriate in hymn tunes is to be found in his "Directions for Singing." Of particular importance is a portion of his fourth direction: "Be no more afraid of your voice now, nor more ashamed of its being heard, than when you sung the songs of Satan." It is clear that Wesley intends the "songs of Satan" to no longer be sung. Also important is his seventh direction:


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and Ben, even if we youths are right, we still should be humble to wards "elders", even sometimes when we are right we still should submit to elders..if it id not sin against God to do so, God has ordained elders and so on...we should be very thoughtful and respectful even if we only speak our minds, or our opinion, i lack here too sometimes,

I know...I just wish that everyone could leave their personal status aside, and debate without all this emotional offense, and disrespect stuff. I think it is quite shallow personally.

I guess other people just have to be themselves everywhere, and can't lay who they are down for the sake of debates.

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many people take that as a personal attack...because they are still living in the world and the world is still living in them. there is no other answer...

i use to defend rap, rock, and reggae. actually, i remember saying after i started going to church that i would do anything but i did not see anything wrong with a little weed once and a while...

...it reminds me of the story of the little bit of dung in the brownie...

a little bit of the world in your walk will eventually knock you off the narrow path and that tangent will eventually lead you to hell.


Hi Brian

I believe the issue is mostly that of spiritual discernment, not our taste in music, or our personal opinions about what is good and what isn't.

I think it was watchman Nee in "Release of the Spirit" who said that our discernment and ability to help others, depends on our "brokenness".

If there is an area where we, personally are not yet broken then we will not be able to discern in that area.

Some music is OK, some isn't. As someone said, its the spirit behind it that matters.

it took me years of being a Christian to discern Sci Fi, because of being addicted to it. In fact it actually needed prayer for deliverance (after knowing the Lord for 16 years!) before I could discern what (evil) spirit much Sci Fi and fantasy writing is of.

That isn't to say that everyone who thinks heavy rock music is OK needs deliverance! I'm just sharing what it took for me in a different area.

I believe Nee was right; our ability to discern what is of God and what is not, is a result of the Lord's dealings in our lives, rather than our age or personal opinions or other such factors.

Makes one think - probably ALL of us have, or have had, blind spots in other areas if not in this.

That's why we need to listen to one another, and go to the Lord about any area in which we feel personally challenged.

That's MUCH better than arguing and raving at one another about things.

Isn't it?

You never know, maybe the "old fuddy duddy" who is bugging you could be right after all.:-P


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when where you born again?

I was not raised in a Christian home. My grandparents took us kids to church now and then, and the VBS.

As a teenager I was a metal head... into Motley Crue, AC/DC, Dio, Poison, KISS, etc. Smoked pot and drank beer.

Joined the Marines in 1985. Been all over the world. Was one of the first ones to step foot in Kuwait in Gulf War I. Saw the "highway of death" first hand.

Wife and I lived together before we were married. Got married, and the she got saved. I made her life a living hell about her being "religious". She prayed for me even tho I was pretty much a drunk.

Finally got saved. Got deeply involved in the Charismatic Movement while we lived in Knoxville TN so I could get my college education out of the way at UT.

Moved back home to NC (my wife is from GA). Started to question the "insitutional church", as well as the Charismatic WOF movement. Started to deeply study the Word and examine everything I'd been taught. We started a church in our house, and we now have 6 churches meeting in homes under the leadership of a board of elders. I am the main teacher in our particular one, altho other men pitch in and teach as well.

And that's my testimony... Reader's Digest version.

You asked me, I tell you.

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the question was for Ben :-) i get suspicious when people say they been Christians all their lives(as i thought ben did), but glory to God for your testimony! id like the long version some time,

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what is it that is so hard by accepting some music as wicked? why do we defend it so much.... two things i find people defending ....sins and their music style....

Hi Hmmm

[i]Its this very defensiveness and anger at having something like this challenged that suggests there's something wrong.[/i]

To give an example in another area: As a young Christian (only a few months old) I was absolutely [i][b]furious[/b][/i] when someone challenged me (when a first year Biological sciences student) that "How can you believe in Evolution if you're a Christian?"

Afterwards, I thought, "Why am I so angry if its only a theory? I must have been brainwashed!"

It was like a light coming on! Suddenly I began to see all the flaws in the theory, and how the Genesis account is much more likely to be true from a [i]scientific[/i] viewpoint, than Evolution.

If you are angry and defensive at folks who say that rock music (or anything else)is wrong, ask yourself, and the Lord, [i]why?[/i]

-If you dare :-P

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i will do that sister, thank you(but its not me who is angry) :-)

god bless

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the question was for Ben i get suspicious when people say they been Christians all their lives(as i thought ben did), but glory to God for your testimony! id like the long version some time,

Hey hmmhmm, Just so you know, I remember very clearly from the age of three onward, I have like one memory of being two. This isn't one of those things where someone says "oh I've been a Christian my whole life", but cannot remember when they repented and believed in God.

I don't remember that part as well as I remember being filled with the Holy Spirit. I remember that very clearly. And from that age, I had a very real understanding of sin, righteousness, and the consequences of each.

My father taught me well, as when I would disobey him, He always made me repent to God for doing so. What it did, was instil a heart of repentance towards God when I was disobedient.

Now when I really got on fire for God was at the age of thirteen. Then I started trying to learn everything I could.

Hope that makes it clearer.

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This will probably be my last post for a long while because Greg has asked me (asked, not commanded) asked me to refrain from posting for a while. This ministry, Greg's is an important ministry and I will NOT be a stench unto it, nor be unsubmissive to its leadership.

I'm not going to rehash the events of yesterday in the first ATF thread, but when I'm wrong or speaking in sin, I have no hesitation in apologizing and asking, begging for forgiveness from the brethern I have committed offense against. No hesitation, I don't ever feel the need to be "right", only the need to be real.

I will tell you all this: that revival will never come to North America in the foreseeable future for several reasons: A. The church in North America is hopelessly divided, and the land is fat. B. We as a nation, that is the United States have yet to deal with several very real corporate sins, some of which are abortion, slavery and a zeal for imperialistic primacy not unlike Rome.

In that thread yesterday, until it got ugly, I was filled with such joy, writing to young Jordan, whom I've had the pleasure to pray with one night, many months ago, and he has good discernment regarding the whole ATF thing. I'm not against it, I'm not for it, its just there, and God's will be done thru it.

But I wrote him back with my vision regarding what i would do with a youth group, and that would be to go BACK to the 1st century in our outings. I wrote to him (and I'll re-post it:


you know, if I was a youth leader, and had a desert, or a desolate place, like they do near San Antonio, do you know what I would suggest for a youth group outing?

Get some tents, sleeping bags, Bibles, a few jugs of water, a couple of boxes of matzah (unleavened bread) and drive out to the most desolate, far away place we could find, in Hebrew this is refered to as B'Midbar, which can be translated as "desert" or desolate place"

Pitch the tents, include a larger one for during the day when the sun gets a burning, and hold a three day prayer meeting and worship sharing....no boom boxes, cell phones off and kept in the car.

set up a fire pit for night, and then as a group begin to pray as the Lord leads, if somebody has bit of Scripture to share, read it aloud, a prayer to speak, speak it. If you wish to walk off alone from the group to be alone with Lord, walk and seek. If you get thirsty, drink water, and ponder the Living Water of Jesus, if you get hungry, break a piece of matzah and remember the Body of Christ as you eat.

but nothing modern, take a trip back to the 1st century, and go as a group to the B'Midbar, and just pray and seek....together.....and then after two, three, or four days of this, when you drive back, I promise you in the Lord, there will be some changed youth, bound fearfully together in the Lord.

Now THATS the kind of youth trip I would organize, just like our lil prayer meeting here, remember?

I'm far from my home church, but have a deep lasting relationship in Jesus with both my mentor, who is my pastor and his youth pastor, who has become a dear close friend, and God willing, we might do something like this.

now Jeanette,this part is to you, as i wrote to you in a PM, when I close off a post "In Jesus' love", I mean that, its not some off the cuff, religious send-off, its what I feel in my heart and in my soul, so I say,

In Jesus' love, neil

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hmmhmm wrote:
i get suspicious when people say they have been Christians their whole lifes...becuse we cant be born a Christian, we have to be born again...first time we where born of adam...

but you know this...

and Ben, even if we youths are right, we still should be humble towards "elders", even sometimes when we are right we still should submit to elders..if it id not sin against God to do so, God has ordained elders and so on...we should be very thoughtful and respectful even if we only speak our minds, or our opinion, i lack here too sometimes,

Hmmm,

You are right about respect for elders.

But I think you are slightly mistaken in your second point. I have had one or two friends who can't remember when they first believed, yet are obviously born of God. I also used to know an old lady missionery (long since in heaven)who came to Christ when she was 6.

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but sister isent scripture clear on that no one is born a child of God? we must be born again... by the spirit, i dont know when the earliest age of that can take place... but im preatty sure it has to take place

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My Testimony.

I was born in 1982, my father was a Cobra pilot in the army and we moved around a lot. I really liked moving and didn't realize until later that it had made me very independent.

My family is very independent, my parents have very few friends, almost no close friends. Since my parents never had any friends I never really was encouraged to develop any close friendships either. Most of the time i just tormented my brothers.

When I was old enough my parents let me have a TV in my room and VCRs and comic books and novels and eventually even a computer with the internet. I was pretty tech savvy and started my own IRC chartrooms and forums and websites and created a community for myself... i didn't realize that i desired companionship, but my subconscious need to find significance in others was coming out on the internet.

Neither of my parents is Christian... it didn't take long for us three sons to find out that my father had pornography. Well the sin of the fathers and all of that... that became one of my deepest and hardest to deal with sins. (this part would be edited if i was giving the testimony in public -but may be relevant for some of the people on this forum).

I suffered greatly because of loneliness, i felt dirty because of my compulsive addiction to the internet and the filth on the internet. In high school I started dating and hanging around with the wrong crowd. I hung out with a lot of the skaters and druggies... not because I didn't have any other choice, but because I found people that seemingly accepted me for who I was.

If someone is on drugs, they're less likely to be critical of you...

I developed a lot of bad habits during this time.

A friend of my brother's invited me to church, and I attended an Evangelical Free church during my years at high school -although only occasionally. There were cliques within the church; I was the only person in the youth group whose parents didn't attend the church. I used to walk three miles to church for bible studies and Sunday worship -i guess it never occurred to me to ask for a ride, it also never occurred to anyone there over the course of more than five years to ask if I wanted or needed one.

By the time that i graduated high school i had stopped going to church altogether. I had made an emotional prayer in my freshman year of high school but there was very little change in my life (besides that I had given up fighting and my grades went from F's and D's up to B's and A's). I experienced a lot of blessings by going to church, but hadn't given my heart to the Lord.

My senior year of high school and my freshman year of college were all about chasing girls... I still thought I was a Christian so I never went past first base, but I realized that there was something wrong when I couldn't hold a relationship together for more than a couple months. I realized that I was trying to find my significance in a girlfriend.

Eventually a friend of mine would invite me to a campus ministry where I would encounter the Gospel for real for the first time and I gave my heart to Jesus. That was six years ago. Since then I've graduated college and I'm still active in the ministry and church where I accepted Christ. I've had jobs as a preschool teacher; a auto claims adjuster and most recently working full time for a Christian ministry.

God has blessed me so much in my life and he's put a burden on my heart for world missions... frankly, I've gotten really close to the edge a lot of times, whether it was through violence, peer pressure to do drugs or drink, through pride, through dating, even running away and attempted suicide... God was by my side through all of my youth -I've been blessed a lot more than others... my hand has been near to the fire so many times and God has either prevented it from going in, or put something in my heart to pull me out of those situations.

Here I am today, grateful for what God has done in my life, Grateful for his mercy and his grace and I want to share that with the world... So I've been taking classes on overseas missions and doing a lot of reading on missions ^_~ so you may notice that I talk about that a lot. Learning to be less independent, to mortify my lusts, to love Jesus and others.

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Joh 3:3 Jesus answered and said unto him, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God.

Joh 3:7 Marvel not that I said unto thee, Ye must be born again.

1Pe 1:23 Being born again, not of corruptible seed, but of incorruptible, by the word of God, which liveth and abideth forever.

that was just my limited understanding of scripture... i don't believe God throws a one year old baby in hell if it dies... but i believe we need to have a point when we get born again, when he gives us the right to become the children of God, we are not born whit that right? I'm i wrong in this?

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but sister isent scripture clear on that no one is born a child of God? we must be born again... by the spirit, i dont know when the earliest age of that can take place... but im preatty sure it has to take place

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9That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.

10For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation.[/color][/b]

From what Paul says, it only takes belief, and confession. I have known two year olds who did that. Genuinely.

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is there any evidence to this ? id like to examine this

hmmhmm, I must apologize, I made a mistake, they were not specifically drinking songs, but they were secular music. I found that out during research after you asked me for evidence. Here is an article that explains it in full.

Hi Ben

Haven't read the full article yet, (should be doing some work!) but the point is not whether secular music is used in worship, but, as has been said several times, what [i]spirit[/i] it is of.

I seem to remember reading that General Booth [i]did[/i] use drinking songs, such as

"Champaigne Charlie is my name,
Champaigne drinking is my game,
I'm the idol of the barmaids..."

- and put Christian words to them.

And there are well loved hymns to secular tunes, for example "I cannot tell why He whom angels worship...", to "Danny Boy", and that lovely Christmas Carol, "What Child is this?" sung to "Greensleeves"

I don't think anyone is saying there's anything wrong with that?

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I was born in 1982

... :roll: I was in 9th grade.

Guess I really am old. :-(

Krispy

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Guess i'm gonna have to start treating you with more respect... gramps?

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My Testimony.

I was born in 1982, my father was a Cobra pilot in the army and we moved around a lot. I really liked moving and didn't realize until later that it had made me very independent.

My family is very independent, my parents have very few friends, almost no close friends. Since my parents never had any friends I never really was encouraged to develop any close friendships either. Most of the time i just tormented my brothers.

When I was old enough my parents let me have a TV in my room and VCRs and comic books and novels and eventually even a computer with the internet. I was pretty tech savvy and started my own IRC chartrooms and forums and websites and created a community for myself... i didn't realize that i desired companionship, but my subconscious need to find significance in others was coming out on the internet.

Neither of my parents is Christian... it didn't take long for us three sons to find out that my father had pornography. Well the sin of the fathers and all of that... that became one of my deepest and hardest to deal with sins. (this part would be edited if i was giving the testimony in public -but may be relevant for some of the people on this forum).

I suffered greatly because of loneliness, i felt dirty because of my compulsive addiction to the internet and the filth on the internet. In high school I started dating and hanging around with the wrong crowd. I hung out with a lot of the skaters and druggies... not because I didn't have any other choice, but because I found people that seemingly accepted me for who I was.

If someone is on drugs, they're less likely to be critical of you...

I developed a lot of bad habits during this time.

A friend of my brother's invited me to church, and I attended an Evangelical Free church during my years at high school -although only occasionally. There were cliques within the church; I was the only person in the youth group whose parents didn't attend the church. I used to walk three miles to church for bible studies and Sunday worship -i guess it never occurred to me to ask for a ride, it also never occurred to anyone there over the course of more than five years to ask if I wanted or needed one.

By the time that i graduated high school i had stopped going to church altogether. I had made an emotional prayer in my freshman year of high school but there was very little change in my life (besides that I had given up fighting and my grades went from F's and D's up to B's and A's). I experienced a lot of blessings by going to church, but hadn't given my heart to the Lord.

My senior year of high school and my freshman year of college were all about chasing girls... I still thought I was a Christian so I never went past first base, but I realized that there was something wrong when I couldn't hold a relationship together for more than a couple months. I realized that I was trying to find my significance in a girlfriend.

Eventually a friend of mine would invite me to a campus ministry where I would encounter the Gospel for real for the first time and I gave my heart to Jesus. That was six years ago. Since then I've graduated college and I'm still active in the ministry and church where I accepted Christ. I've had jobs as a preschool teacher; a auto claims adjuster and most recently working full time for a Christian ministry.

God has blessed me so much in my life and he's put a burden on my heart for world missions... frankly, I've gotten really close to the edge a lot of times, whether it was through violence, peer pressure to do drugs or drink, through pride, through dating, even running away and attempted suicide... God was by my side through all of my youth -I've been blessed a lot more than others... my hand has been near to the fire so many times and God has either prevented it from going in, or put something in my heart to pull me out of those situations.

Here I am today, grateful for what God has done in my life, Grateful for his mercy and his grace and I want to share that with the world... So I've been taking classes on overseas missions and doing a lot of reading on missions ^_~ so you may notice that I talk about that a lot. Learning to be less independent, to mortify my lusts, to love Jesus and others.


brother i almost weep for joy!!! the word almost is because I'm Scandinavian lol, but seriously, what a God we serve! you know Ian? we pretty much the same , i don't know what you call it in English but my eyes get teary whit a warm fuzzy feeling of love and identification whit you brother, thank you for giving me the privilege to read your testimony

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hmmhmm wrote:
i will do that sister, thank you(but its not me who is angry) :-)

god bless


I wasn't thinking of you at all, why do you think that? You don't come over as angry! :-D

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hmmhmm wrote:
but sister isent scripture clear on that no one is born a child of God? we must be born again... by the spirit, i dont know when the earliest age of that can take place... but im preatty sure it has to take place

Of course it does but there are some, like Ben, who maybe were too young to remember!

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ok :-) I'm slow sometimes, have patience whit me sister ;-)

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Guess i'm gonna have to start treating you with more respect... gramps?

Yea... well... trust me, this "gramps" could put a whoopin' on your hide that you'd not soon forget! ...lol

...in Jesus' name, of course! :-)

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bartle wrote:
now Jeanette,this part is to you, as i wrote to you in a PM, when I close off a post "In Jesus' love", I mean that, its not some off the cuff, religious send-off, its what I feel in my heart and in my soul, so I say,

In Jesus' love, neil

Hi Neil

I know you do, you just got very hot under the collar (do you use that expression where you live? Means "steaming" mad!) over things and said things that probably you regret.

I didn't read much of the other thread, but tried to make comments, there and here, that I hoped would be helpful. I don't think you have commented on any of them - have you?

The one about why we are angry - a personal testimony re the "theory" of Evolution, may explain something... We all have subjects we feel so strongly about that its sometimes hard not to rant.

Did you feel I was getting at you personally (such as accusing you of lack of love)at any point in these two threads?

If so I apologise.

I sign off in different ways, but there is love this end too, especially having got to know some of you on this forum quite well from your posts.

Indeed, at least one "angry young man" on this Forum literally reduced me to tears because of the Lord's love for him.

Bless you Neil

love in Him

Jeannette

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hmmhmm wrote:
brother i almost weep for joy!!! the word almost is because I'm Scandinavian lol, but seriously, what a God we serve! you know Ian? we pretty much the same , i don't know what you call it in English but my eyes get teary whit a warm fuzzy feeling of love and identification whit you brother, thank you for giving me the privilege to read your testimony

Christian(hmmhmm)

Amen, what a great testimony, Ian! Maybe we should have a "testimony" thread, but we love talking about ourselves so it might get too long :-D

Jeannette

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This will probably be my last post for a long

Neil, I look forward to you coming back, as you have so much to offer – so much insight and freshness, and passion for God. I pray that during this upcoming season of fasting from SI God will work in you to get to the root of this besetting snare. And I know he will, as he is clearly bringing about righteousness in your life.
"A man's anger does not bring about
the righteous life that God desires." James 1:20

Getting slivers pulled out by the divine tweezers is not always a pleasant experience, but in the end, it is worth it. It brings one to a deeper sense of peace and rest in Him.

I’ll be praying for you, brother!

Diane

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CJaKfOrEsT


BenWilliams wrote:
First of all, what is your definition of revealing clothing?

Second, which groups are you talking about?

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Lastly, my dad was reading your post while I was reading it, and he wants to know why you are looking at women in revealing clothing?

I may be out of line saying this, Ben but it seems like you are seeking a means to validate your sin. Sure their is nothing sinful about music, in itself, but their is a rebelliousness in most of these bands, that reeks of "I don't care what you think about what I am doing, I am going to play loud music, and wear these clothes, and if you don't like it, then tough luck!!"

Scripture exhorts us to avoid the appearance of sin. These "drug dealers", are probably dressing more like "gangstas" (spelled as they would spell), and considering that their dress sense is one that is a kind of marketing strategy for getting kids to join gangs, wearing "colors" and the like, why would you want to direct people to that? It is one thing to dress like this to identify with the lost, in order to reach them, but we are not talking about this here.

My understanding of what ATF is all about, is mobilising Christian youth to serious life for God, that is mission minded. In other words, we are appealing to the "saved" through these events. My experience with this kind of thing, is that the "lost" think that it's all second rate to what they already have, and for the "church kids", it tends to be a bridge into the more worldly, sinful stuff (eg, from Christian Hip Hop, on to Gangsta Rap, which is a far greater quality, and therefore much more appealing).

Citing particular bands, why would you want a Christian Youth Group to go a see Skillet play, under the guise of being their to get fired up for Christ's purposes, and listen to Corey singing about how God is "Better than drugs"? Why would you want to even put that comparison in their minds, if either they have kicked drugs, meaning that you are drawing their attention back to those days (which did have their fun moments) or they have not been exposed to drugs, where ignorance provides an element of safety for them? God wisely place a tree of the "Knowledge of Good and Evil" in the garden and then said, "Don't eat". This imagery is a form of "eating" of this "knowledge".

Recently I pulled out an old Grammatrain album, and some lyrics of the lyrics stood out, "I want to know the reason...why can't you say the reason you keep your eyes away from Me." which paints God to be powerless against sin, and wondered, "Could this be part of the reason why Pete Stewart is no longer in fellowship?" Mind you, in my youth leading days, I used to cite Stewart as I would a preacher...this is the kind of sway these artists can have.

The old "Wesley and Booth used to rewrite bar room songs..." argument is redundant, because these days, the music is pumping out at a massive decibel level, causing the "hearer" to be a "feeler" as well, and then are being asked "Can you [b]feel[/b] the presence of God, here?" Much of the music is orchestrated to stimulate the emotions, and then emotions are being sold as a valid means of sensing God's presence.

Regarding scantily clad women on stage, there are two issues here. For some of us, sexual lust is the "thorn in the flesh" that God says His "grace is sufficient for.." rather than removing it. These women are flaunting their sexuality before us, making it harder to think pure thoughts. It is bad enough that "the world" does it, but when the "church" does it, what's going on? The only possible reason that I can think, for doing this, is marketing. In other words, it will help sell records to the teenage male demographic. The Bible exhorts us to dress modestly (men and women) and yet their is no modesty in flaunting your body.

The second issue is that these artists argue that they are trying to reach the lost. If this is the case, then why would they want to create the impression that dressing in revealing clothing is normal and acceptable? And do you honestly think that their minds are being directed to holiness? If you do, then you are more naive than they are.

I must admit that I have trouble reconciling the whole "Is their such a thing as Christian Rock?" question, when I consider bands like Third Day and Stavesacre (both of whom, I notice are absent from ATF's list of bands), but the fact is, there is a lot of chaff in the Christian music industry. One's mind can quickly go to a band like MXPX, who were for a long time the quintessential "Christian Punk" band. A good friend of mine went out for drinks with them while they were on tour in Australia. After having a long conversation with their manager, he asked the question, "So, what's the deal? Are Mike and the boys Christians, or what?" The response that he got was, "Look at them? Their drinking, swearing, tattoos and all. What do you think?" He went on to say that they go to church sometimes when they are home, but when they are on tour, they leave all that stuff at home.

We are often too quick to defend people, when the apostles tended to be wary until trust was earned and proven. Perhaps we need the kind of persecution that they had to endure, before we will "guard our fellowship" the way that they exhorted.

Keith Daniel wisely said, "You don't win the world by being like the world, the world will win you."

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seanjol

Citing particular bands, why would you want a Christian Youth Group to go a see Skillet play, under the guise of being their to get fired up for Christ's purposes, and listen to Corey singing about how God is "Better than drugs"? Why would you want to even put that comparison in their minds, if either they have kicked drugs, meaning that you are drawing their attention back to those days (which did have their fun moments) or they have not been exposed to drugs, where ignorance provides an element of safety for them?

First of all God is [b]Holy[/b] not to be mentioned in comparison with drugs.



Regarding scantily clad women on stage,

1Thes 5:21-22

21 Prove all things; hold fast that which is good. 22 Abstain from all appearance of evil.

Scantily clad women and Christian, biblically don't match.

Finally,

Phil 4:8 says

8 Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.

Sean

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iansmith

Since this topic just won't die, I'll interject again that I feel we need grace on both sides of this issue.

Col 2:6-23

So then, just as you received Christ Jesus as Lord, continue to live in him, rooted and built up in him, strengthened in the faith as you were taught, and overflowing with thankfulness.
See to it that no one takes you captive through hollow and deceptive philosophy, which depends on human tradition and the basic principles of this world rather than on Christ.

For in Christ all the fullness of the Deity lives in bodily form, and you have been given fullness in Christ, who is the head over every power and authority. In him you were also circumcised, in the putting off of the sinful nature, not with a circumcision done by the hands of men but with the circumcision done by Christ, having been buried with him in baptism and raised with him through your faith in the power of God, who raised him from the dead.

When you were dead in your sins and in the uncircumcision of your sinful nature, God made you alive with Christ. He forgave us all our sins, having canceled the written code, with its regulations, that was against us and that stood opposed to us; he took it away, nailing it to the cross. nd having disarmed the powers and authorities, he made a public spectacle of them, triumphing over them by the cross.

Therefore do not let anyone judge you by what you eat or drink, or with regard to a religious festival, a New Moon celebration or a Sabbath day. These are a shadow of the things that were to come; the reality, however, is found in Christ. [b]Do not let anyone who delights in false humility and the worship of angels disqualify you for the prize. Such a person goes into great detail about what he has seen, and his unspiritual mind puffs him up with idle notions.[/b] He has lost connection with the Head, from whom the whole body, supported and held together by its ligaments and sinews, grows as God causes it to grow.

Since you died with Christ to the basic principles of this world, why, as though you still belonged to it, do you submit to its rules: "Do not handle! Do not taste! Do not touch!"? These are all destined to perish with use, because they are based on human commands and teachings. [b]Such regulations indeed have an appearance of wisdom, with their self-imposed worship, their false humility and their harsh treatment of the body, but they lack any value in restraining sensual indulgence.[/b]


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CJaKfOrEsT


iansmith wrote:
Since this topic just won't die, I'll interject again that I feel we need grace on both sides of this issue.

There is a point in your statement that sums up my main objection to ATF type events. Two words, [b]much exertion[/b]. There seems to be an unspoken principle amongst many of the Youth movements in modern Christendom, and that is "Activity = Holiness". The kid that does the most, is most on fire for God. We run a huge event, where young people can come and jump around in a mosh pit, absorbed into the youth church culture, get them to make some pledges, and then fight like their no tomorrow to keep them "up" when they get home.

This is antithetical to the Kingdom of God. Where this type of movement aims to instill confidence in the young person, God would have us come to the end of ourselves. Where this type of movement aims to "maintain the flame" with ceaseless activity, God would have us "labour ..to enter into (His) rest" and then when we get there "be still and know that (He is) God". There is a place of realisation that we will never be good enough, and from that place, we walk by faith (which this type of movement would have us believe means something by which we can motivate God to action, rather that an unwavering trust that He is at work, in spite of all appearances that He has "left the building").

ALl these other issues are really just circumstantial. The core issue is the apparent absence of the grace of God, which is "through faith, not of ourselves, lest any man would boast".

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ginnyrose

Ian, I have problem understanding exactly what you are saying. Are you suggesting that Christians, people who have been purchased with the BLOOD of JESUS, no longer want to listen to the devil's music? or are you saying being Christian will free one to enjoy it?

Sir, when I worked at the Crises Pregnancy Center, the Holy Spirit gave me a piece of inspiration one day: "ask my clients why they go to church?" Oh, now that sounds like an interesting question. You see, we live in the Bible Belt of the USA in which more kids grew up going to church and likely still are in church which means that most of my clients were/are professing Christians, but they were pursuing a life of immorality.

OK, so in obedience to the Holy Spirit I asked my clients, "Why do you go to church?" They all responded the same way and this was their response: They were momentarily stumped. They put their faces down for a while, and thought and thought. (And I said nothing but waited.) Soon they looked up told me it was because of the music! I say, "The music?" "Yes, I love the music!"

Brothers and sisters, what kind of music was being played there that the Holy Spirit could not use to bring conviction of sin and then repentance in the lives of these youth? It kept them coming..it was cheaper going to church then paying big bucks to attend a concert where similar music is played....and they kept right on fornicating (and then the girls either aborted or had their babies..lots of young single moms there.)

Music is a power medium for good or for bad. Revivalists in the past knew this and used it to good advantage. Was it not D.L. Moody who said the music is more powerful, more effective in winning people to the LORD then his preaching. So if we want to know whether this music is doing this, all we need to do is to check out the lifestyle of its fans. If it does not bring about repentance/obedience one needs to ask "why?" and be honest with what the HS is telling us.

Blessings,
ginnyrose

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BenWilliams

I may be out of line saying this, Ben but it seems like you are seeking a means to validate your sin. Sure their is nothing sinful about music, in itself, but their is a rebelliousness in most of these bands, that reeks of "I don't care what you think about what I am doing, I am going to play loud music, and wear these clothes, and if you don't like it, then tough luck!!"

You assume that I am sinning in some fashion concerning rock or the women rockers or something of the like. I'm not quite sure what sin you think I am attempting to validate, but perhaps that is because I am not attempting to validate anything If it is sin, then so be it. Let it be repented of and changed.

[b]You cannot make a blanket statement that every Christian rock band is rebelious because they don't listen to the contemporary standard of "what not to wear".[/b]

I do however agree that many of these bands started in rebellion, and many continue in it. Consequentially, those are the bands that I avoid, and counsel others to avoid. And I teach those that I counsel the difference between the two. Rather than group the two together. That is deceptive to the learner.

Citing particular bands, why would you want a Christian Youth Group to go a see Skillet play, under the guise of being their to get fired up for Christ's purposes, and listen to Corey singing about how God is "Better than drugs"? Why would you want to even put that comparison in their minds, if either they have kicked drugs, meaning that you are drawing their attention back to those days (which did have their fun moments) or they have not been exposed to drugs, where ignorance provides an element of safety for them? God wisely place a tree of the "Knowledge of Good and Evil" in the garden and then said, "Don't eat". This imagery is a form of "eating" of this "knowledge".

Why would I want them to? Because the truth is being spoken. God is better than drugs. Believe it or not, Christians have done drugs before because they don't believe that. This is a pathetic argument in my opinion. I fail to see your experience in discussing God with someone who has taken drugs. You don't understand their mindset on the issue. Everyone of them says the same thing about it. Almost my entire generation has taken drugs of some kind, and the just barely saved sometimes still go through withdrawls in their mind. So a bit of encouragement is what they need. Which they are not getting in most churches that are made up of so many perfect people.


The old "Wesley and Booth used to rewrite bar room songs..." argument is redundant, because these days, the music is pumping out at a massive decibel level, causing the "hearer" to be a "feeler" as well, and then are being asked "Can you feel the presence of God, here?" Much of the music is orchestrated to stimulate the emotions, and then emotions are being sold as a valid means of sensing God's presence.

This is an issue to me as well, and I am constantly on my guard, watching to see if that is what is taking place. I make sure that I am not easily influenced by what I hear, and that I use proper discernment in dealing with each song that comes along.

[b]You can't take everything at face value. You have in your mind, opinions of what looks good, and what looks evil, and it may or may not be correct. I am not saying that truth is not absolute, on the contrary I believe it is, but what clothes someone is wearing may or may not be imodest based off of one man's opinion. I know people who think that seeing a womans ankles is imodest. Do you agree?[/b]

I must admit that I have trouble reconciling the whole "Is their such a thing as Christian Rock?" question, when I consider bands like Third Day and Stavesacre (both of whom, I notice are absent from ATF's list of bands), but the fact is, there is a lot of chaff in the Christian music industry. One's mind can quickly go to a band like MXPX, who were for a long time the quintessential "Christian Punk" band. A good friend of mine went out for drinks with them while they were on tour in Australia. After having a long conversation with their manager, he asked the question, "So, what's the deal? Are Mike and the boys Christians, or what?" The response that he got was, "Look at them? Their drinking, swearing, tattoos and all. What do you think?" He went on to say that they go to church sometimes when they are home, but when they are on tour, they leave all that stuff at home.

For what it's worth, MXPX has never met my standard for what is right, their lyrics leave a whole lot to be desired in the area of Christian content. Besides they are too poppy for me to enjoy very much.

My whole point about the bands is that they must be discerned and judged on an individual basis.

[b]You question the clothe as though they appear sinful, yet I have seen and heard of horrible sinful acts done by people wearing a suit and a tie, jeans, full length skirts, maybe we should come up with an entirely new wardrobe so that the world will know who we are. Then anyone who sins can be thrown out and their garments confiscated.[/b]

Keith Daniel wisely said, "You don't win the world by being like the world, the world will win you."

I agree, if you love the world, then you will be like it and won by it.

If you love the Lord, then it will not be so. You may wear the same t-shirt as a sinner, but you aren't sinning because of it.

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