Some very good thoughts offered up. The issue regarding the unity of the faith is something very near and dear to my heart. Indeed, understanding what Biblical unity is and how it can exist is something that I've come to learn through a lot of pain.
As some of you may recall, just around the turn of the New Year, I suffered a horrible heartbreak when a woman I was in a relationship with for 4 years, and engaged to for 3, called off our engagement. There were a number of reasons for this, but one of the underlying reasons is that she ultimately could not find it in her heart to marry somebody who wasn't committed to the denomination our church is in, and doesn't agree to all of it's official doctrinal positions.
She just failed to see how we could have unity in our marriage and in our respective ministries if we did not agree in all these things. She was worried how this would impact our future children and what they believed. The primary issue we disagreed over? Whether or not speaking in tongues was the initial physical evidence of having received the baptism of the Holy Spirit.
My ex-fiance bought into the deception that unity is achieved and maintained through outward doctrinal conformity. Many Christians have bought into this deception as well. What is to be the true source of our unity?
John 17: 22 The glory which You have given Me I have given to them, that they may be one, just as We are one; 23 I in them and You in Me, that they may be perfected in unity...
The true source of our unity is supposed to be in the reality of the glory we share in Christ. The Father had glorified the Son says Jesus, and Jesus says that glory He has given to us "that they may be one."
I realized this early on in my Christian development, after I had gone through a period of time where I thought I could have no unity with anyone unless they agreed with me on about 100% of every issue. Then I went to Bible college where I frequently had contact with other believers who had some very different views than I did. It was a small college, and my interaction with the other brothers and sisters there was frequent, and our debates were frequent. With many I had put up a wall of separation. Yet, the more I interacted with many of these saints, I truly began to see them for what they were: saints.
I could not deny it, these men and women who I had some pretty rough discussions with in class had a glow about them. The more I was around them, the more I realized that Jesus Christ was truly alive in them. I saw the Spirit of God in them. I saw God's glory rest upon their lives. By the time I finished Bible college, one of the people who I simply could not stand from the moment I met him became one of my closest companions by the time I was done. Why? Because the Holy Spirit within me bore witness with this brother, that the Holy Spirit was also alive in him!
It is the reality of the living Christ within us that is to be the source of our unity. This is something that I sadly could not get my ex-fiance to see. She saw unity through doctrinal and organizational conformity, not through the reality of our mutual experience in the Lord. My logic is, "If Jesus Christ indeed dwells in you, and ministers through you, then we can have unity." After all, if Jesus Christ is happy living in you, though you are Reformed in dogma, then even though I am much more Arminian in dogma, I can also be happy. After all, Jesus Christ is living in both of us, what more do we need to have unity? Only when I take my eyes off of "Christ in you," does disunity occur.
Some of you may roll your eyes at me as I say these things, as you can recall some recent hard posts I made concerning a certain individual who was lurking around on this forum. But my manner of speaking wasn't due to an insecurity in me, pride, or an agenda to bulldoze one theological school of thought that I just happened to disagree with in order that I might establish my own. You are welcome to think such a thing if you want. But nothing could be further from the truth of my heart. I am one who desires unity at all costs, and indeed, I have paid a great price by suffering a broken engagement with the woman I loved, who failed to see what the true source of our unity in Christ is supposed to be.
Perhaps I was wrong in my assessment of this individual who frequented the forums, heavily pushing his theological bent. But I am still utterly convinced such a person, in spite of their outward show, didn't have Jesus Christ living inside of them at all. As far as I'm concerned, they were utterly devoid of the Spirit and glory of God, and was a false brother who is sent by Satan to disrupt the unity of this forum and cause chaos.
Indeed, if you were to look at the sum of their posts, they never did anything but rain down misery. Who did they build up in the faith while they were here? Who did they comfort? Did they strengthen those who were weak in faith? Did they have an encouraging word? Did they regularly bring you closer to the Lord? Did they regularly pray for you?
I'm sorry, I cannot, and I absolutely refuse to have fellowship with such a "brother." I cannot have any unity with such a person. God forgive me if my discernment was wrong in regard to him. God forgive me indeed. I am more than willing to have a unified relationship with somebody, even if their theology is a bit off.
Now, have I said all this about this "brother" to somehow vindicate me and make me look good? Is this just a last ditch effort on my part to have the final say, or to tweak the knife in his back? God forbid I would ever do such a thing. I hope you don't believe such. God knows it's not in me to do any such thing anymore. Rather, I have only spoken this way and brought up this recent issue so as to highlight this precious truth of Scripture. That is my only aim.
The source of our unity is to be the mutual reality we experience as Jesus Christ lives and works within us.