Wow the topic of tongues causes so much controversy.
While were on this subject I think I will share my testimony when it comes to tongues perhaps this will help people on bothsides:
Around 4ish months after being genuinely saved...I was desperate for God, I had nothing left. I would read my bible every day (not understanding a good portion of it, but the Lord would reveal somethings)I was at the bus reading the first part of Ephesians about what the believer has in Christ and suddenly I felt in the inmost part of me a welling of ...wonder, joy, amazement. I thought to myself "God is showing me a little of what heaven is going to be like"
It started to well up and I want to speak...and out came whispers of tongues. I thought I was crazy at the time and that I was somehow forcing myself to do it..so I tried to stop...and I STOPPED but then I could continue when I wanted (its says in 1 Cor 14 the spirit of prophets is subject to the control of the prophets). The welling passed and I thought to myself "that was pretty cool" I had always heard of speaking in tongues never had an opinion on it. I did believe in it thought...after all it is in the bible. I didnt think much of it, I just thought it "normal" and I sorta forgot about that incident didnt/ couldnt speak in tongues after but didnt really seek after it. I had no clue about how these things work I thought it was a "one time" deal.... 2 months after I received the baptism of the Holy Spirit....it came upon me a conference where there was an ungodly altar call taking place with a powerful counterfeit spirit manifesting. I had no clue at the time of course being a new believer still struggling and protected by God's grace to the spiritual warfare at hand..I felt a strong sense of spiritual impressions on my heart that grew stronger and more burden some..God was opening my "eyes" to the Spiritual....suddenly the feel was so strong...like a flood of power rushing and over taking me to the point where I COULD NOT CONTROL (I think when believers first receive Spirit they cannot control either..ex Acts 10,19) I started to prophecy "YOU MUST PRAY YOU MUST PRAY the King is Coming the King is Coming!"
It lasted for about 10 seconds and then boom it was gone and I had people looking at me like I was a crazy maniac.....I was sorta confused because they didn't seem to get my message from God but then extremely scared and freaked out and emabarrassed when I realized the situation I was in....
Basically after that I start to get persecuted from my conservative church circle which believes that you can know your spiritual gifts by taking a fleshly written test..and took out prophecy in the list...
SO BACK TO TONGUES sorry needed to explain that first...
AFTER THAT I could speak in tongues while in private prayer in desperates the whispers would come out....I was still thinking I was crazy mind you but it would HELP so much!
As my faith grew the whispers started to become actual sounds and syllables and one day when I was super desperate in prayer I start to sing in tongues and I WAS FINALLY FREE like before I was trapped but I could actually WORSHIP!
It continued to develop even after that...it was hard for my body to adjust to the new sounds that are not in the english language such as glottal stops.. the HKAAA sound that is found in middle eastern languages....
My friend at the time (now girlfriend) was also growing in the Lord ..I shared about my experiences with tongues with her and she started to want the gift. Though I thought she was beautiful without it! I could never imagine her speaking in tongues but....7 days later my JAW DROPPED when she started to speak in tongues!!!! She is probably one of 5 people I know in all the network of churches I am a part of that does...
Honestly I believe speaking in tongues is for the edification (most of the time) for the individual believer.
Paul says
" I thank God that I speak in tongues more than all of you."
I corth 14:18
From this I think that he used it A LOT lol and was thankful for it!
I find it is so much more difficult to focus yourself on the Lord and connect in the place of prayer without tongues. Its like what would take maybe 10-15 minutes of personal prayer to quite soul to get it with tongues I can get there in 1-2 minutes....
So I really do admire people who PRAY without tongues! It is beautiful!
Its hard to explain but yeah it helps IT ENCOURGES me to keep going wow so many times I have felt like giving up and sinning but when I chose to speak in tongues and just believe...like God has given me grace!
The problem with tongues is that the effect is internal for the believe so that in pentecostal circles people are going off in tongues and they are really connected to God but to others....they cant get connect and see it as foolishness.
This is why SPEAKING audible words of exhortation is needed in church..so that the WHOLE body gathered can feed off of it as written in 1 Cor. 14 .....
I believe that when we dont follow God's Word and diverge from it we miss His full intended blessing when we gather.
I see it from both sides since I go to both a "Pentecostal" church at my campus and SUPER CONSERVATIVE Chinese Church as well.......
The pentecostals get deep understanding and revelations and GRACE but they push people away and cause other believers to fall in the process.... as they I would say selfishly sing and speaking tongues without any control as written in 1 Corth people saved and no saved think they are crazy
The conservatives are welcoming to people who are skeptics but are really dead to the point where it makes me want to run away because THEY'RE ZOMBIES (except that I love them and want them to be ALIVE) there is no life and people get caught up in the HEAVY religious spirit till the point where they are so unbelieving and works oriented they cannot receive grace.....
thats my 2 cents...lol
In Christ
Evangel