These are some thoughts and questions I have pondered over the years regarding Gods love and Gods hate. Because God is infinite and we are presently finite God already sees the beginning and end of men and we do not.
He knows who will choose and those who will reject Him I believe, before men are even created. I have to say, even though I have been saved since 1988 and for half my lifetime, I know absolutely ZERO about the debate between Calvinism and Arminianism? I have never been led to understand or even study the debate between the two, there is just no interest on my part. I have seen many discussions and debates but for me it is confusing so I would rather read and study other topics.
So when I say God knows who will choose or reject Him, I do not believe God does not make us choose to reject, I believe we are free moral agents and everyone who He creates He gives them the opportunity to choose Him and also the freedom to reject Him.
So when God created the angels I believe He knew Lucifer and 1/3 of the angels would reject Him. When God created Adolf Hitler and Judas He knew before He created them that THEY would choose to reject Him.
I do not fret, worry, debate, or waste my time asking "Then why did God create them?" I have ZERO interest in figuring that out, there are so many things about God that are a flat out mystery, but I am at total peace knowing He is in control and I am totally secure in knowing He loves me.
So here are some thoughts, when looking at men's lives in the past tense like Adolf Hitler or Judas who we know have ended their lives rejecting God, my question is, does God STILL love them? Or can we say or assume God hates them?
Because we cannot see these men's end and God can and now that it (their life) is in the past tense and they have rejected God, I believe God hated these men. I can say that now because I know their end as it is now in the past tense. But if I was alive when they were and had the opportunity to preach Gods love to them in spite of their attrocities that is what I would preach to them. Jesus, knowing Judas would betray Him washed Judas' feet just before his betrayal of the Christ.
The risk I run in believing that God would still love me even though I would choose to abide in, practice, and habitually commit sin gives me ZERO security. I find ZERO comfort whatsoever in believing that if I choose to reject God and practice sin that God still loves me. I do not want to believe that.
I actually find peace and comfort in knowing that my willful rejection of God will bring down His wrath upon me and that I will be eternally separated from Him in the lake of fire. So when I read Psalm 5:5, it makes me realize that if I choose to willfully turn from my righteousness in Christ and love my sin more than I love God I will heap Gods wrath and hatred upon myself.
Todd said Jonathan Edwards sermon Sinners In The Hands of an Angry God was the worst thing ever written, I respectfully disagree with that statement for this reason.
Two and a half months before my older brother died this sermon was given to me to consider giving to my brother. When I received it, I read it and prayed over it for some time. I made some alterations by boldening, highlighting, and underlining certain portions and read that sermon over 20 times before giving it to my brother.
My brother had heard the Gospel over and over again, he was truly enslaved to the sin of drug and alcohol addiction. He stole, used, and manipulated people to feed his own habit.
But our family and friends had a tremendous amount of love and compassion on him because he hated doing what he was doing. I have many of his papers and diaries that he would express his love for God and his hatred for his sin.
He would cry bitter tears when he would come off a binge, missing family time, holidays, his children's birthdays, etc.
This went on his whole life and he was reaping his lifestyle in his flesh and ended up with heart issues which he ended up dying from.
He was pretty much incapacitated and I took the sermon to him and asked him if he would consider reading it and he said absolutely. I gave it on a Saturday and told him I would not go to church on Sunday but come over and we would discuss it.
When I came the next day and let myself into his house I heard him crying in his bed, when I got there I asked what was wrong with him and he said it was the sermon I gave him.
It scared him so much he stayed up all night and did not sleep one wink crying out and confessing to God every sin he ever committed.
The last two and half months of his life were completely different and noticed by all, God granted him repentance and set him free from his sin, condemnation, and utter hopelessness he struggled with his whole life. He was finally at peace, visible peace.
My brother, like myself found no pleasure or security in knowing that while he was choosing to do his own will that he would still attain heaven. This sermon accomplished what our family had been praying and hoping for in his life. There was sorrow in my brother for many years but it was not the sorrow that would eventually lead him to repentance.
I believe and preach both the love and hatred of God and by Gods precious grace with a balance and by the guidance of the Holy Spirit. I dreadfully fear making people so comfortable with Gods love that their is ZERO motivation for them to repent and forsake their sin.
And on the other hand, I dreadfully fear leaving people so hopeless and condemned because of Gods hatred should they choose to continue and abide in their sin.
Watching many debates of this topic and others like it here on SI reminds me of those who go to a football game and there are two teams on the field and the spectators in the stands. I know Jesus does not attend such games, He neither plays, nor spectates, He is neither found anywhere in the stadium but is out in the highways and bi-ways preaching the gospel, healing the sick, cleansing the lepers, and setting the captives free.
While many here believe you are worlds apart in your opinions about the love and hatred of God there is absolute truth to both sides but I believe you are both missing the forest between trees.
The whole chapter in Ezekiel 18 needs to be read but here is one verse I will pull out.
Ezekiel 18:25 KJV Yet ye say, The way of the Lord is not equal. Hear now, O house of Israel; Is not my way equal? are not your ways unequal?
The facts are God both loves and He hates and He is totally just and equal in doing so. He already sees and knows the beginning and end of men's lives and we don't.
I truly hope this helps and does not cause further division and strife, I have done my best to express what is in my heart and head. There is more in there but its kind of like dropping a guitar pick into the body of a guitar and flipping the guitar over and shaking it while moving it left and right to hopefully get the pick out, I hate that when it happens!
Hope you all enjoyed and are enjoying this time of year with your family and friends.
BD