Staying out of this would be easy, but a few comments already known are needed as essential reminders to one and all.
Before that, Evan is absolutely right but needs no defense.
If this whole conversation and far too many others were truly about witnessing and demonstrating God's reality and power, each of you would be describing your experiences with a lot more intensity and regularity mostly if not only about how God in the power of the Spirit has made you more Christlike. Or how God had moved you in your poverty and affliction as you gave yourself to the Lord to give all you had and then some with joy to meet the needs of the saints. Yet we know that such talk would mostly be inappropriate if spoken about ourselves. Someone else we would hope might tell that story about us to declare the manifest expression of the Spirit in supernatural powers and outpourings of love and joy in suffering and affliction and most profitably, spiritual maturity and transformation. Those are the stories that Paul tells, that the writer of Hebrews tells, that Jesus tells.
But not us. We are more mature than that. We are already kings. We have to go to the deeper things of God. (Tongue in cheek) Then to make it worse, we hide our self absorption
and focus on the not plain and not main things under the banner of the "baptism of the Holy Spirit" and its defense. That is on its face a misdirection and face painting.
Undeniably, Pentecost (the outpouring of the promised Spirit) was marked far far more by these manifestations that the church sorely needs focus on today :
1) Peter's unction in preaching the Gospel as the Spirit was upon Him and thousands got saved.
2) A church devoting themselves whole heartedly without distraction to the Apostles' doctrine (learning, living and sharing) , whole hearted unmixed devotion to the fellowship (or to one another) evidenced by selling all they had to care for one anothers' profound needs, whole hearted devotion to gathering together daily at great personal cost for the sake of the Body, and whole hearted devotion to corporate prayer with prayers focused on the needs of the Body and on encouragement and strengthening of the Body and on receiving the power to be witnesses of Jesus in word, character and deed.
3) Signs and wonders being done mostly by the Apostles to meet needs but not mostly as a demonstration of supernatural power but of a demonstration of compassion if you examine the treatment of signs in the telling of the Spirit in Acts.
4). The dramatic and very public killing of Annanias and Sapphira for hypocrisy. That certainly got some peoples' attention. What about praying for that kind of testimony where God won't tolerate hypocrisy among his people, that what they do must critically match what they say or else somebody is going to die.... Jesus hated hypocrisy and loved integrity of heart or men without guile. Isn't the Spirit here in a primary way to punish the former and create the latter? Most of you would say no. That isn't a big concern of the Spirit.
Those are just facts. Look at the book of Acts and see if these things are not so.
The mention of tongues in Acts was Biblically most definitely not about the second basptism that some obsess with. ( I have had dozens and dozens of His outpourings in love, joy and all gifts over a few decades just to show I'm not anti gifts or fillings). The tongue displays mentioned in Acts had to deal with speaking in languages that the crowd could hear the Gospel clearly through, proof that the Gentiles were included in the Kingdom and to show the difference or distinction between the baptism of repentance of John the Baptist and the spiritual baptism (not the outward cleaning) of Jesus which was descriptive of but not prescriptive of the new life in the promise of the Spirit ( one testimony). That is just Biblical. The Spirit of life is a Spirit of love and that was shed abroad in the first believers' hearts. All of them for the record.
Back to why I comment at all. This and many other threads relate to a state of mind and focus that I find to be a total distraction to the testimony of Jesus which is the Spirit's work in everything and is more indefensibly a demonstration, because of its intensity in volume, on self. It's always about "what I have suffered for the sake of the Lord", "what I am waiting for or longing for for me", "what I was told about me", "what I experienced in closeness to God", "what I think is important" or "what I define as the most spiritual". All most easily recognized as self focus. Again, how many have testified to receiving a a love and joy that was inextricably and directly connected to devotion to the Body, sacrifice and suffering for the Body? How many have testified that they are soul sick until their earthly life can be poured out on the faith of others and Christ being formed in others ? That is how Scripture most often describes the manifestation of the Spirit. But not us. No, we have entered into super spiritual territory that goes beyond all that pedestrian display or conversation of living and dying for others. It's all about the "wow" and comparing wows.
But, if I posted repeatedly telling everyone how sacrificial I was in loving the saints, you would say I was boasting or being self righteous. You know it is true. But if we boast about how special the Spirit has treated us in spiritual gifting or private experience we are somehow not boasting but super spiritual.
This is the crux of the matter and the rebuke of the Lord:
I challenge everyone, tell us all how the Spirit has transformed you into the likeness of Christ, how you spend your days completely and whole heartedly devoted to learning and living out the Apostles doctrine and sharing it with others, how you are whole heartedly devoted to the saints and their needs, how you are whole heartedly devoted to personally gathering day in and day out with the saints for their encouragement and growth, how you are devoted to corporate prayer mostly and primarily for the saints and how the leaven of hypocrisy (saying what and how much you know but not having it be real in your life), is so hated that you would rather have God take you out than have that testimony of hypocrisy be yours to the world or Jesus. That is the remarkable and most edifying and most representative work of the Spirit that the immature church and the world need. Then, we can start talking about ecstatic experiences as a confirmation of the Spirit rather than it being the essence of Him. If you have problems witnessing about yourself this way, enough said.
As 'super spiritual' as the debate may seem about which gifts are best or a back and forth about personal experiences may seem, it is all a gonging cymbal to God and most definitely not profitable in the least compared to what never passes away. Paul spends far more time talking about purging the church of its evil amongst the brethern as love to preserve the Body and ridding itself of its hypocrisy of not dealing with evil in the holy body of Christ to protect the reputation of Christ than he does on gifts. Just look it up.
That's not the Lord's rebuke from me, but it is the rebuking voice from the most gifted, most anointed and most used saint of the Spirit compared to all on this forum. Devote yourselves, your time and your words to imitate him.
Here's a passage to lock hold on:
Now, brothers and sisters, we make known to you the grace of God which has been given in the churches of Macedonia,
that in a great ordeal of affliction their abundance of joy and their deep poverty overflowed in the wealth of their liberality.
For I testify that according to their ability, and beyond their ability, they gave voluntarily, begging us with much urging for the favor [fn]of participation in the [fn]support of the saints, and this, not as we had expected, but they first gave themselves to the Lord and to us by the will of God.
It would be great if we could hear a few testimonies about how God pouring His Spirit out on you has blessed others no matter how you felt about the experience, only focusing on and speaking about how the Spirit worked through you only to bless others. How you begged God or some leader for the privilege of going deep in poverty to bless the saints. That is the purpose of the Spirit and Christ after all. Humility. Most testimonies I've read point to and are about self even if they thank God for it and that is not humility, it's more like the proud Pharisee who said, "thank God I'm not like those other'Christians', I speak in tongues".
BTW, tongues and ecstatic private or corporate personal spiritual experiences cost you nothing except perhaps being cleansed or emptied of self which is not a cost at all. Love costs everything. Is it any wonder where we focus ?