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Bob Hoekstra

Pride and Shame or Humility and Wisdom

The sermon emphasizes the contrast between pride and humility, illustrating how humility leads to wisdom and honor while pride results in shame and folly.
Bob Hoekstra preaches on the importance of walking in humility rather than pride to receive God's grace and wisdom. Those who walk in pride end up with shame, as seen in the wicked persecuting the poor and those who oppose God's people. In contrast, the humble inherit wisdom and glory, finding honor through God's infallible word.

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When pride comes, then comes shame; but with the humble is wisdom . . . The wise shall inherit glory, but shame shall be the legacy of fools. (Proverbs 11:2 and 3:35)

In order to live by the grace of God, we must be willing to walk in humility, instead of in pride. "God resists the proud, but gives grace to the humble" (1 Peter 5:5). We must be willing to acknowledge our daily, desperate need for God. Any other approach to life is based upon pride (which is a foolish, inaccurate assumption that we are adequate to produce a life on our own). Those who walk in pride end up with shame. Those who walk in humility end up with wisdom.

The scriptures describe those who foolishly walk in pride, as well as declaring the shame that they experience. "When pride comes, then comes shame . . . shame shall be the legacy of fools." One example would be the wicked way that many privileged and powerful persecute the downtrodden and the vulnerable. They are demonstrating their pride. "The wicked in his pride persecutes the poor; Let them be caught in the plots which they have devised" (Psalm 10:2). Their shame is that they can become entangled in the very schemes that they have contrived. Another example is those who arrogantly oppose the people of God. "This they shall have for their pride, because they have reproached and made arrogant threats against the people of the LORD of hosts" (Zephaniah 2:10). Their shame was announced as a barrenness so severe as to be likened unto the end of Sodom and Gomorrah.

" 'Therefore, as I live,' says the LORD of hosts, the God of Israel, 'Surely Moab shall be like Sodom, and the people of Ammon like Gomorrah -- overrun with weeds and saltpits, and a perpetual desolation' " (Zephaniah 2:9).

In contrast to the shame that comes to the prideful, is the wisdom (and resulting glory, or honor) that comes to the humble. "With the humble is wisdom . . . The wise shall inherit glory." Those who walk humbly before the Lord find the godly wisdom that is available in the Lord's infallible word. "The testimony of the LORD is sure, making wise the simple" (Psalm 19:7). This wisdom from God brings honor to the humble ones who live by it. "A man's pride will bring him low, but the humble in spirit will retain honor" (Proverbs 29:23). Again, this honor for the humble is in striking contrast to the wretched and ignoble ends that pride engenders.

Dear Lord of glory, how fitting that those who pridefully oppose You will be brought low and will end up in shame. I do not want to be numbered among them. I want to walk in humility. I want to eagerly acknowledge my desperate need for You every day in every way. I want to be compassionate toward the needy. I want to bless Your people. I want to humbly seek the wisdom of Your word. I want to be a vessel of honor unto You, through Christ Jesus, my Lord, Amen.

Sermon Outline

  1. I points: - Introduction to pride and shame - The consequences of pride - The nature of humility
  2. II points: - Scriptural examples of pride leading to shame - The fate of the prideful - Contrast with the humble
  3. III points: - Wisdom and glory for the humble - The importance of seeking God's wisdom - Living a life of humility
  4. IV points: - Practical applications of humility - The call to acknowledge our need for God - Encouragement to bless others

Key Quotes

“When pride comes, then comes shame; but with the humble is wisdom.” — Bob Hoekstra
“God resists the proud, but gives grace to the humble.” — Bob Hoekstra
“A man's pride will bring him low, but the humble in spirit will retain honor.” — Bob Hoekstra

Application Points

  • Acknowledge your daily need for God's grace to cultivate humility.
  • Seek wisdom through scripture to guide your actions and decisions.
  • Demonstrate compassion towards others, especially the needy, as an expression of humility.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the main theme of the sermon?
The sermon contrasts pride and shame with humility and wisdom, emphasizing the importance of walking in humility to receive God's grace.
How does pride affect our lives?
Pride leads to shame and ultimately a legacy of foolishness, as it distorts our understanding of our need for God.
What does the Bible say about humility?
The Bible teaches that humility brings wisdom and honor, as seen in verses like Proverbs 29:23.
What are the consequences of pride according to scripture?
Scripture indicates that pride leads to shame and destruction, as exemplified by the fates of the wicked.
How can we practice humility in our daily lives?
We can practice humility by acknowledging our dependence on God and showing compassion to others.

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