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Ed Wrather

He Penalty for Kindness

The sermon explores the theme of kindness, emphasizing its importance and the rewards of continuing to act kindly despite unappreciation.
Ed Wrather preaches about the importance of showing kindness and love even to those who may not appreciate it, using the example of two girls who faced a lawsuit after delivering cookies to a neighbor. Despite the negative response, they continued to show kindness and prayed for the person who sued them, following Jesus' teachings to love our enemies and bless those who curse us. Wrather emphasizes that there is a reward in being kind, as it reflects our identity as children of God.

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"You shall love the LORD your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind." This is the first and great commandment. And the second is like it: "You shall love your neighbor as yourself." On these two commandments hang all the Law and the Prophets. (Matthew 22:37-40 NASB) ".I tell you not to resist an evil person. But whoever slaps you on your right cheek, turn the other to him also. If anyone wants to sue you and take away your tunic, let him have your cloak also. And whoever compels you to go one mile, go with him two. Give to him who asks you, and from him who wants to borrow from you do not turn away." (Matthew 5:39-42 NASB)

So what is the penalty for kindness? Apparently it is a $930.00 fine in the case of Young v. Ostergaard and Zellitti. The judge in the case ruled in favor of the plaintiff, Wanita Renea Young, who claimed an uninvited delivery of cookies caused her to be hospitalized with an anxiety attack the next day.

The defendants, Taylor Ostergaard, 17, and Lindsey Jo Zellitti, 18, enjoy doing nice things for other people. They have enjoyed from an early age baking cookies, fudge, breads and other goodies for their friends and neighbors. Carolyn Murphy, a nearby neighbor to the Ostergaards remembers a "year's worth" of home baked zucchini breads and fudge generously given to them by their neighbors.

The case in question occurred as a result of Lindsey and Taylor deciding to stay home and bake cookies instead of going to a party. They wanted to do something nice for their neighbors and let them know someone cared about them. Each neighbor received a half dozen cookies. With the cookies, Lindsey and Taylor had cut out big red hearts from construction paper with the message "Have a great night." The girls did write a letter of apology to Young saying that they, ". just wanted you to know that someone cared about you and your family."

Have you ever done something nice for someone and had it backfire on you? Probably most of us have had good intentions and found that those good intentions were not appreciated at one time or another. What should our response be when something like that happens to us? Should we stop doing nice and kind things for other people? Should we avoid those people who were unappreciative of our actions?

Jesus gives us some hard instructions on how to proceed doesn't He? We should keep on being nice, kind, and good even to those people who hate us. Not only should we nice, kind, and good to them but we should pray for them as well!

Lindsey and Taylor, you will be glad to know, have followed the instructions of Jesus. They are continuing to bake goodies to give away to others and they are praying for Wanita Young. What a great example for us all to follow!

Actually, we see that there is not a penalty for kindness but a reward. The reward is that we are able to follow the example of our Lord Jesus and in so doing; we are acting as the sons and daughters of our Heavenly Father. As

Jesus says, "But I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you, that you may be sons of your Father in heaven; for He makes His sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and on the unjust (Matthew 5:44-45)."

Sermon Outline

  1. I points: - Introduction to the concept of kindness - Biblical basis for kindness - Real-life example of kindness backfiring
  2. II points: - The case of Young v. Ostergaard and Zellitti - Intentions behind the act of kindness - Reactions to kindness and the consequences
  3. III points: - Jesus' teachings on kindness - The importance of continuing to be kind - Praying for those who are unappreciative
  4. IV points: - The reward of kindness - Following Jesus' example - Being sons and daughters of God through kindness

Key Quotes

“You shall love the LORD your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.” — Ed Wrather
“Have a great night.” — Ed Wrather
“But I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you...” — Ed Wrather

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the main message of the sermon?
The sermon emphasizes the importance of kindness, even in the face of unappreciation, and encourages continued acts of love.
How does the sermon relate to biblical teachings?
It draws from Jesus' teachings on loving one's neighbor and even enemies, highlighting the call to act kindly regardless of the response.
What example is used to illustrate the penalty for kindness?
The case of Young v. Ostergaard and Zellitti is presented, where a kind gesture resulted in an unexpected legal penalty.
What should we do when kindness is not appreciated?
We should continue to be kind and pray for those who do not appreciate our efforts, as Jesus instructed.

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