Pat Emerick emphasizes that believers can finish well in their walk with the Lord only by walking in community, being accountable, and fostering deep discipleship relationships.
This sermon emphasizes the importance of not walking the Christian journey alone but being part of a community of believers for support, accountability, and growth. It highlights the need to be connected to a church, have mentors or accountability partners, and engage in true discipleship to finish well in the faith journey.
Full Transcript
How a believer can finish well has a lot to do with who they're walking with. It's impossible to be a Christian alone. You cannot be an individual Christian.
Because Christ said, love your enemies. Well, if there's nobody around, you don't have an enemy. He said, forgive those who sin against you.
Well, there's nobody around, you can't do that. Further, we need each other as we know the proverbs of iron sharpening iron. If nobody's around, you can't be a Christian.
You have to have a community around you. So it matters how you start, into which community, or if you're into a community. I always tell people, find a church.
I don't tell people, read your Bible and pray. Find a church. Get connected to the body of Christ.
And then from there, finding someone, or two someones, female or male, as long as it's the same gender, that you can confess your sins to. A lot of parishes have a priest where they would do that. But in our independent background, that's not so much the case.
But be accountable to an older brother or sister who can say, stop doing that. And we'll help you stop doing that. Or, you should be doing this.
And we'll help you do this. We need to be discipled by those who've gone before us. Now, I'm 58 years old.
I wish I had somebody when I was born again, when I was 17, who said, give me your arm, I'm not letting go of you. Let's grow together. I'll help you.
It didn't happen. I have a deep burden for true discipleship, real disciple making, not, you know, foofy programs and things like that. The programs are fine.
But the results must be someone has a deep, longing, living, loving relationship with Jesus Christ, the Father and our Holy Spirit, or His Holy Spirit. Have to be. We can't walk alone.
And if I can't practice forgiving you when you ask me for forgiveness for sinning against me, and vice versa, I can't even do what the Lord has instructed us to do in the prayer that He gave us. I can't obey God, if I'm trying to walk all by myself. So, I think that's how we ought to begin, how we can do the journey, and how we'll finish.
I heard some statistics somewhere, like 90%, maybe it's 85%, huge percentage of people who begin in full-time ministry don't finish. They give up, or they turn away, or they fall away from the faith. Starting is easy.
Completing is important, and you've got to have somebody with you. You've got to have somebody to be a help with you. In more traditional churches, you talk about having a spiritual father, or sister, or mother, you know, somebody to walk with you.
And I think that's how you can finish well.
Sermon Outline
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I. The Necessity of Community
- Christianity cannot be lived in isolation
- Loving enemies and forgiving requires others
- Iron sharpens iron - community strengthens faith
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II. Finding the Right Church and Relationships
- Importance of joining a local church
- Being connected to the body of Christ
- Having accountability partners of the same gender
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III. The Role of Discipleship
- Need for spiritual mentorship and guidance
- Discipleship beyond programs to real relationships
- Growing together in faith with older believers
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IV. Finishing Well in the Faith
- Many start well but few finish in ministry
- Accountability and community help sustain faith
- Walking with others ensures obedience and perseverance
Key Quotes
“It's impossible to be a Christian alone. You cannot be an individual Christian.” — Pat Emerick
“Find a church. Get connected to the body of Christ.” — Pat Emerick
“If I can't practice forgiving you when you ask me for forgiveness for sinning against me, I can't even do what the Lord has instructed us to do.” — Pat Emerick
Application Points
- Join a local church community to foster spiritual growth and accountability.
- Find one or two mature believers of the same gender to serve as accountability partners.
- Pursue authentic discipleship relationships that encourage perseverance and obedience in your faith journey.
Frequently Asked Questions
Why is community important for a believer?
Community provides the environment to practice love, forgiveness, and accountability which are essential for spiritual growth.
What should a new believer do first?
Find a local church and connect with other believers to build relationships and receive discipleship.
How does accountability help in the Christian walk?
Accountability partners help believers confess sins, encourage obedience, and provide spiritual support.
What is the role of discipleship in finishing well?
Discipleship offers guidance from mature believers to help sustain faith and grow deeper in relationship with Christ.
Why do many in full-time ministry not finish well?
Lack of community and accountability often leads to discouragement, causing many to give up or fall away.
