Shane Idleman challenges the common misconception that God never gives us more than we can handle, emphasizing instead our dependence on God's strength and purpose amid life's burdens.
This sermon challenges the misconception that God will never give us more than we can handle, emphasizing that God often allows us to face overwhelming challenges to draw us closer to Him. It encourages recommitment to God, warns against idolatry, and extends an invitation to repent and believe in Christ for salvation.
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Titled can you handle it? Can you handle it? As you can see in the bottom right hand corner we are in a series entitled the Bible doesn't say that. The Bible doesn't say that. Have you ever heard people say things that I'm not sure if that's in there.
God helps those who help themselves. Judge not. Don't be judging people.
I mean that's the big thing now when you talk about sin in our nation people say who are you to judge? You can't judge. The Bible says judge not. It does but read the context.
You can actually judge. As soon as you humble yourself, remove the plank from your eye and now you can better assess the speck that's in your brother's eye. We are called to judge and last week I spoke about that so as you're leaving grab last week's message on CD or you can watch it online.
This week the topic is a long one so I had to shorten up the title. Here's what is not in the Bible. God will never never never give you more than you can handle.
Maybe it's just me but that's not true. He often gives us more than we can handle on a regular basis. Now I know what people are saying it just sometimes doesn't come across right.
God will never give you more than you can handle based on what he's called you to do by the work of the Holy Spirit in your life you can you can accomplish whatever God's called you to do. But the problem with this type of statement is many times we put the strength back on us. I can handle it.
Have you ever caught yourself saying that? I don't need to go to counseling or I don't need to go to that church or I don't need to. I can handle it and we often feel like Popeye. That's all I can stands and I can't stands no more.
I can't handle it anymore. Come on let's be honest church. How many of us have said that? Every time we have a baby I say that the first few months.
I can't handle this anymore and so does my wife of course. Okay let me watch the baby you go to you go go take a break and but in more serious issues there are people that that get to a point where they say I can't handle this anymore. I can't deal with it.
I'm done. Ringing true? But God will not give us more than we can handle so they say. But Paul we find it's in 1st Corinthians I'm sorry 2nd Corinthians 1 he said that he and his companions were so utterly burdened beyond their strength that they despaired of life itself.
They felt that they had received the sentence of death. Here's why this is a big deal. The American gospel is not the true gospel.
The American gospel will go something like this. You'll be healthy and wealthy and and God's will will be full of joy and there won't be any challenges as long as you're walking in God's will you'll be free of obstacles. It's your best life now.
It's it's it's wonderful but the Bible paints a different picture of dying to self, of carrying your cross, of possibly being persecuted, of being forsaken. Our hope is not in man. Our hope is not in 2020 election.
Our hope is in Christ that relationship. So even Paul was burdened beyond measure. Wanted to they wanted to die.
Despaired of life itself. Have you ever been there? So that's a big flaw of this statement. God will never give you more than you can handle.
Meaning it focuses on inner strength, inner fortitude, inner character, inner self-control, willpower and all of those things are good but we can't forget Psalm 121. Where does my help come from? Where does my help come from? My help comes from me. Is that what it says? No even even if you who don't read the Bible much know it doesn't say that.
Where does my help come from? My help comes from the Lord maker of heaven and earth and actually the context is in battle. They're surrounded by armies and he says I look to the mountains. I look to the hills where armies used to come.
You see the Calvary. I look to the hills and I see there's where my help comes from. My help comes from the Lord the maker of heaven and earth.
That's who's going to handle this weight. That's who's going to hold me up. He will be the one I look to.
So that's why there's a flaw in that system of thought that I can handle it. And the verse that is often used to support this idea is 1st Corinthians 10 13. You know it but let me read it.
No temptation has what? Has overtaken you that is common that is not common to man but God who is faithful he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape that you may be able to endure it, bear it, handle it. So there's there's truth in that. No temptation but this is talking about a temptation.
So as a believer be encouraged. Nothing that comes against you temptation wise is so strong that you can't say one little word. Let's try that again.
One little word. No. No.
That might be a good sermon. No no no no no. Explanation point.
So as a believer you can say no to temptation. You will bear it. It will be difficult but God makes the way of escape that you can handle it.
You can say no. But what we're talking about is something I believe deeper, bigger, stronger. Pain.
Burden. Something where you know you just can't handle it. You have teenagers at home.
Parents say that. And what do the kids say? I can't handle this. See it works both ways.
But or there's a health issue. Or there's a pressing financial issue. Court issue.
Anybody have court battles? There's some there's some battles out there that we're praying for with removing kids from the homes or sentences coming down. And and there's just I can't handle this Lord. I'm going to crush.
And isn't it interesting that there's a difference between exploding and imploding. When you implode the pressure that you implode the pressure on the outside is what greater than the strength in the inside. So you implode.
But the Bible talks about the strength inside of us. Greater is he that is in you than he that's in the world. The strength inside of us should be strong enough to weather that storm.
To hold against the onslaught of what's pushing against us. So as long as what's pushing against us is casting all our cares upon the Lord you can get through it. It's when we try to handle it ourselves that we run into trouble.
So I'm this sermon I'm really talking about the biggies. Things that you can and for one person it might be a mental issue. Have you ever dealt with anxiety and depression? It's most people say I'd rather deal with physical pain than emotional pain.
But then there's others dealing with tremendous physical issues. Or family dynamics. Or things that are happening you say God why? Why? Why can't you take this away? Why can't you fix it? Anyone ever said that before? Lord please take this away.
Or just me. They're everybody in this room even the balcony you should be saying amen to this. Because Lord please take this away.
Please take this away. Those types of things that are hard to handle. The reason we experience this as most of you know we live in a fallen world.
We live in a fallen world where sin is running rampant. And if it's not if it wasn't for the grace of God we would all fall apart. God holds us together.
He sustains us. So on one hand I want to point us to Him. But on the other hand I want to also encourage you that those thoughts you might be having those thoughts that you say where are those coming from? That's wrong.
That's what's wrong with me. Well nothing that's called the Christian struggle. That's called the old man inside of you is still wanting to rule and reign.
Or you have demonic. I believe it when the Bible talks about demonic the fiery darts of the enemy. I believe he can send thoughts.
I don't know how exactly. But I know the enemy can harass us like he possibly harassed Paul. There's a messenger of Satan was given to Paul as a thorn in his flesh.
That doesn't sound very appealing. And we know that the demonic realm can oppress. And we know that sometimes Christians need that freedom to be that that demonic realm to be lifted.
So we have all of this coming against us. That's why we live in a fallen world. So don't beat yourself up thinking where are these thoughts coming from? Well I can't believe I'm thinking like this.
Why are my thoughts going in that direction? Welcome to the battle. Welcome to the struggle. So there but here's the encouraging thing.
The pain, the burden, the challenge that many of you I'm sure are facing this morning. It has a purpose. Thank God it has a purpose.
And Romans 8 28 is where we can find that purpose. In the English Standard Version. I encourage the first service and I will encourage you that we don't use this verse flippantly.
If somebody's going through a very difficult challenge, just got bad news, just lost a loved one, don't go quoting this with a big smile on your face. Well you know, as they're burying somebody they love, you know all things work together for good. This is great.
This is good news. Now let people process it. You can bring this up later and encouraging them.
But sometimes the best thing you can do is just listen. Just listen. We don't have all the answers.
I'll tell you a little bit more about it later. But I was asked about these school shootings. And something might come out later.
So I can't say too much about it now. But all these school shootings, you know, look at what's going on. I mean it's like there's a shooting now.
And when I was growing up, I don't even know if it happened. But it shows just how far we've drifted. Like what's a pastor's answer? What's a church's answer? You think I'm gonna throw Romans 8 28 out there? I think sometimes it's okay to say, I don't understand all this.
But I know a God who does. It doesn't make sense. But I know in the end it will all make sense.
And we listen. And we try to comfort. Because quoting Scripture at someone, even I do it often, so I'm not coming against that.
But isn't always just the solution. Sometimes listening and waiting for that opportunity to share the Scripture. Waiting for that moment that God opens that door.
Because you can actually push people away for you, from you. I remember there was a family, I did a, it was so sad, I did a memorial for a one-year-old right here a few years ago. What do you say to that? I don't even know if they were Christians.
We talked about it. I was able to share that, the relationship with Christ in my message. But what would I tell them? Well, you know, all things work together for good.
And from grieving parents, and please don't misunderstand, I'm not minimizing Scripture. If you know me, I love Scripture. I quote it often.
I use it. We love it. It's the heartbeat of the Christian faith.
But even the most seasoned among us need to use our words carefully. We need to listen. And when people are open, we need to minister to them at those points.
So I would just encourage you to really, when it comes to pain, somebody going through a divorce, well, all things work together. I've heard incidents of this. And I know people are trying to encourage, that's the point of it.
But timing is key. It's not what you say, it's how you say it, often. And timing is key.
But let's read this because it will be helpful. You will need this verse. I can't even tell you how many times I've looked to this verse.
And we know that for those who love God, all things work together for good. Now, a couple things here we don't want to pass up. And we know that for those who love God, love God, believers who love God, love His Word, love His will, God's going to work everything out in the end.
Have you ever seen God do things? You just look back a year or two later and go, unbelievable. How did that happen? How did He turn that into this? How did He take this brokenness? I was so broken 20 years ago, but from that brokenness now, there's a deep abiding relationship. And now I'm filled with the power of the Holy Spirit.
I would have never traded that in. I don't want to go through it again. Don't get me wrong.
But I would have never traded that in. How does He take this and turn it into something that is good? For those who are called according to His purpose. So here's the imagery there.
If you are a believer, it means you repented of your sin. You know who Jesus Christ is. He saved you.
He set you free. And you love God no matter what comes. Come hell or high water.
That's where that saying kind of comes from. Come hell or high water. I will trust in Him.
He knows what's best. I'm called according to His purpose. That's where my help comes from.
So to me, it's very freeing. And that you can rest. Do you want to rest in the stock market? You know this all can't last, right? You're going to rest in the housing market? It happened 2008, 2009.
You know the biggest investment bankers in our nation had to be bailed out by the government. I don't know where they got that money. And I don't know where if they paid it back.
Barron Stearns, Merrill Lynch. All these, what are we trusting in? See, when everything, when the dust settles, the only thing you can trust in is God's sovereignty. God, you are sovereign.
Hey, I just got noticed. I've lost my job this week. God, you are sovereign.
We just found this out. God, you are sovereign. So it says here, those who love God, all things work together for my comfort.
Oh, wait. Those who love God, all things work together for my convenience. All things work together to fit around my agenda, to fit around my plans, to fit around my happiness.
But see, that's where we get it wrong, isn't it? That you, come on, you know this is exactly where we get it wrong. All things work together. Why I'm not happy? Isn't it interesting that word happy comes from a word happenstance, meaning what's happening to me.
So if good things are happening, I'm happy. And if bad things are happening, I'm sad, I'm depressed, I'm mad. So my happiness is contingent upon what's happening to me.
But joy, joy in the midst of suffering, joy in the midst of a health crisis, joy in the midst of a burden, why? Because I'm trusting in you. Now it's one thing to preach it, it's another thing to live it. And you who have lived it know exactly what I'm talking about.
You have to get up every day and say, Lord, I'm just trusting in you. And then what happens? You get fearful, often you get joy-filled. To me it's so freeing because I don't have to worry about this.
God, it's your bill. It's your church. Lord, this is your problem.
If you're walking according to his will, if you've been called according to his purposes, you can give him those burdens. I read in a good book somewhere that you're to cast all your cares upon him. Bible scholars, you know where I found it.
Cast all your cares upon him, upon Christ, because he cares for you. So remember that. All things work together for good.
And I'm going to spend a section here encouraging you to listen to the voice of pain. Listen to the voice of pain. Listen to this burden that you might be feeling and ask God, what is the purpose? Lord, what is the purpose? And sometimes you might not hear an answer.
So you know what the answer is? Lord, I'm going to trust you in this. And I'll let you know up front, most people don't say that. They become bitter.
Most people who are angry at God, I know quite a few and so do you, what are they angry at? How could God allow this? Why am I going through this? Why did he do that? Why did he do this? And that voice of pain can speak loudly and clearly if we listen. I don't think there's anything that can speak more loudly and clearly into our lives than this voice of pain, or of a struggle, or of a burden. That phrase comes from, I'm at my wits end.
My wits, I can't handle this anymore mentally. I'm at the end of my rope. I don't know what else to do.
And that guy can speak through that. Here's a few different ways. God often uses this burden or something, I just can't handle this, to redirect us.
Do you know if you're on the wrong path and God wants to get your attention? He's going to bring something or allow something to get you back on track. Because most people without that, they would just keep going. Because what do they say? God must be okay with it.
I'm being blessed. God must be happy. I'm not doing anything wrong.
Look what God's doing to me. He's blessing me. But often he can use pain to redirect.
So ask this question, is this financial burden, or this emotional problem, or maybe a family dynamic, or a health issue, or a spiritual burden. Are all these happening? Are some of these things happening so God redirects us? I see so many people that are, I don't even know how they get through life, with this burden, with what they're handling. And a lot of times it's self-created, self-inflicted.
You just want to run up to them and grab them. Can't you see it? Can't you see? That's why you're in this financial mess. That's why God's allowing you to experience this.
That's why you're in this emotional distraught, or this problem with your kids, or these health issues, or the spiritual burden. Can't you see it? I remember there's one gentleman, I won't say when, I won't say where, I won't say anything. In case he's listening.
It was amazing because he would worship, prayer life, but he felt a lot of things going on in his life. It didn't make sense. There's a disconnect.
Long story short, about a year and a half ago, maybe two years ago now, he would share this, you know, what's going on. I'm trying. There's a disconnect with the God, the Holy Spirit.
He's worshiping. Holy hands are lifted. And I said, well my advice is, you and your girlfriend need to, you need to move in separate places and stop doing, you fill in the blank.
Was he receptive? Not at all. Because then the excuses, well financially we can't make that work. Oh, oh yeah, good point.
I guess God's Word is irrelevant. I've seen God open amazing doors when you start to line your life up with him. You could say, Lord, this isn't going to work financially, but I want to honor you and watch.
He will, he will clear away. Or, well we're just friends now. Hmm.
What about avoiding the appearance of evil? What about your own hearts convicting you? What about leadership at the church tells you it's not a good direction? You're going against all of that. Two years ago, same issue still today. And I know exactly, a Is he willing to do that? No.
The reason I say that is because many of us carry this burden as if this is my, this is my cross to carry. This is my burden. No, it's your sin that is causing that burden.
And when God says to do something like that, do it. Because he'll often use pain to get our attention or health issues. And I think it did turn into health issues for this gentleman.
It wasn't initially, it was emotionally, spiritually disconnected from God. I think now there's health issues. I don't know if it's all connected.
I'm not trying to make that connection either. Maybe I should put a big disclaimer in there that, you know, any type of illness or challenge is not sin related. Of course not.
Or we'd all be in trouble. But to say that sin cannot produce this is not correct biblically either. God will often use consequences to get us back on track with him and his word and his will to change or to challenge.
Is God trying to change me? Is he trying to change you? You know, think of a very mature, older spiritual person that you know, that's very full of God's grace. And you look up to them. I have a few myself.
You should ask them their resume sometime about pain. Their pain resume with challenges, with difficulties. Because it's a picture of a clay on a potter's wheel.
Have you ever seen those wheels spin and the potter begins to shape that clay? It's not possible, but ask the clay how it feels. But if that was a person, how would that feel? So God often, often will use these things to change us. If you're a very prideful person, how's God gonna get rid of that? He will humble you.
He will humble you. You're bragging to all your friends about your money and your vehicles and then you find out you lost your job. You married somebody, it's my trophy spouse.
Look what I have. You don't treat them well. You take advantage and that marriage begins to dissolve and you get divorce papers in the mail.
You've been humbled. I've shared this before. One of the, it's so humiliating.
But in my 20s, I was making really good money, six figures. Many of you know the story. I worked, I opened up 24-hour fitness centers in town, Lancaster, Palmdale.
And then I was given Victorville to oversee in Santa Clarita. Custom, I built a house in Quartz Hill at 26 years old. And with that comes arrogance.
You know, it's hard to believe. Not too many, not too many 20 year olds, you know, are arrogant. And then God eventually began to remove these things.
It caused me to cry out to him. I said, God, what have I done? And that went within the course of one month. I went from that, had to get rid of the house, eventually had to move back in with my mom and went to work for a construction company digging up septic tanks.
Where you dig down, you find the septic tank lid. Humbling? Are you kidding me? I'd have to look at people, what are you doing here? What happened to you? What happened to you? You're back, you live with your mom. What happened to you? And humbling, and humbling, and humbling, and humbling, and humbling, and humbling.
It's still a process. God will humble us. And he still does it even today.
I shared a while back, I think a month ago, we pray for our kids all the time. It's a life of prayer here at this church. But my oldest daughter came up to me, I think about a month, month and a half ago.
She said, Dad, I see you praying with people all the time, but you never pray personally with me. Humbling, humbling, humbling, humbling. God wants to change areas.
He will humble us. Humble yourself under the mighty hand of God. In due time, he will exalt you.
You exalt yourself, and he will abase you. So is he trying to get your attention? Here's the, I don't know if this is the right word. The most discouraging thing for me to see in the life of Christian men is when God is trying to humble them and they are fighting it.
It's pathetic. Embrace humility. Paul said in 2 Corinthians 12, it's a commentary we can put up on the screen, 2 Corinthians 12, 7 through 10.
I'm just going to read from the commentary. This is when Paul received such wonderful revelation from God that God had to keep him from becoming proud. And that happens when knowledge puffs up.
You Bible scholars know this, you better be very careful. You sometimes think you're the most humble, you're the most arrogant. I've been there, done that, I can slip right back in there.
Why? Because knowledge puffs up. Knowledge, especially if you have a powerful move of God in your life, and God's just moving through you, and you have this revelation of who God is, and you're filled with the Spirit of God, you're doing things for God. Be careful.
Paul here, we believe he was taken up to heaven, he had this encounter with God, and it said to keep him from becoming proud, he said this, I was given a thorn in my flesh, a messenger from Satan to torment me. Lord, I don't want that. Why? To keep me from becoming proud.
So he said here, to keep me from pride, a thorn was given, which was, we don't know what it is, it's an irritant, it's a challenge, it's a difficulty. Personally, I believe that it could have been a demonic type of assault against Paul. A messenger of Satan is often used as that.
Something in the demonic realm possibly could harass him. We don't know, planting thoughts into his life or harassing him somehow. And Paul said, like many of us, please take this away, please take this away.
Three times he says, I beg the Lord. Have you ever been there? Come on, you know those alligator tears, crocodile tears, and you're just, Lord, take this away, take this away. I can't keep doing this.
I can't keep living like this. I can't keep fighting this. Lord, take this away.
Come on. Most in this room know exactly what I'm talking about, especially if you fight addiction, any kind of addiction. That has been your prayer more than you can count.
This is the honest sermon. They all are, but this is the more of the transparent, right to the heart. That didn't come out right.
Let me reword that. This is the, yeah, transparent, right? Let's be real. Three times, I beg the Lord, take it away, take it away, take away this, you fill in the blank.
Take away this anxiety, or this fear, or this anger. I've had people back in that side room crying, God, take away this anger, take away these thoughts, take away this pull. I'm doing so good.
Somebody will say, I'm doing so good, and then my car just drives itself to the liquor store, or to the pharmacy, or to the pot shop that's now legal. I love the people convicted about this, and they say, but it's for medicinal purposes. It sure is.
That's like 1% of those hooked on it. Come on, wake up. Absolutely, there's medicinal reasons, but most people addicted and hurt by it are not using it for medicinal purposes.
They're doing it to alter their mind, mind-altering drug. Come on. Unless you just woke up out of a 30-year sleep, we see it's all around us.
I can't even go on a jog in my neighborhood or going to the aqueduct, and who is smelling that out back? You really need that at 7.30 in the morning? And I will make comments, I can smell it. Golly, and I'm walking for 30 feet, I can smell marijuana. Yeah, that was just a rabbit trail.
But each time he said, each time he said, my grace is what? All you need, and maybe this, I didn't talk about this first service, maybe this is for someone who is addicted to marijuana or anything else. There will be times where the struggle will seem absolutely impossible, because what happens is your body chemistry becomes used to it. It'll actually be dependent upon it.
I need that whatever it is, because your dopamine level, serotonin, all these things, all the hormones are affected by this. Now your mind is relying on it, and so not only do you have the temptation of relaxing, you have the body chemistry pulling you. It's even a stronger pull than food, pulling you to this.
So see it through, bear that temptation, bear that burden, take it to Christ and say, God, I can't do this in my weakness. God, I can't do this. I feel it coming, I'm not going to be able to do it.
I don't trust my willpower, but I trust you. I trust you that you will see me through. So here's what Paul said, I beg the Lord to take away each time, what did God tell him? My grace is all you need.
Another translation would say, my grace is sufficient, it's all you will ever need. Here's the key, my power works best in weakness. Do you know what human weakness is? It's basically everything I just said.
God, I can't handle this. I'm not all of that and who I thought I was. And what do we do? We like to put on the front, especially Christians, and Christian men, no, no, I'm fine, I'm good.
I'm so strong inside. No, you're not. It's when you can admit that you're weak.
I'll tell you just, it's not a secret, most of you know, but many times when I'm up here in the morning, I'm praying, I pray, I tell God, God, I am weak. I can't preach your word with authority and to pierce hearts unless you're in it, unless you move upon me and move upon the scriptures, Lord, and you take your Holy Spirit and you convict, Lord, I'm weak, I'm worried, I can't do this. If I were to come up here and try to just wing it, Lord, help us.
And I mean it. I mean it, Lord, I can't do this. So now I'm glad to boast about my weaknesses.
Anybody happy about that? We want to run from our weaknesses. We want to hire our weaknesses. Especially as Christians, we want to come up and say, I have no weaknesses.
Look at that pastor. Oh, he must be, no weaknesses, no challenges, no struggles. No, that's not here on earth.
That's in heaven. And I like when people are transparent, open, and say, hey, I'm struggling with this, can you pray for me? It's when we try to act like we have it all together that concerns me. Because often we're trying to hide something.
So Paul says, I'm going to boast of my weaknesses so that the power of Christ can work through me. See, what happens is when I say, Lord, I am weak, I can't do this, but you can. You can handle this, you can work through me, then God takes over.
That's why I take pleasure in my weaknesses, and the insults, and in the hardships, and in the persecution, and in the troubles that I suffer for Christ. So I take pleasure in all these things. Why? Because Christ is working in me and through me.
Even when you get insults, do you get insults that often? Are you persecuted that much? Just start a church, and open a Facebook page, and Twitter, watch out. Persecuted for the name of Christ. So pains and burdens can push us toward God.
Did you know that? Your pain, your burden can push you toward God, to rely upon God. So I'm going to give you some encouraging scriptures, and then I'll be done. But do not make this mistake with these scriptures.
Here's what a lot of people do. They see a scripture up there, or they hear it, and they go, oh, I know what that says. What we need to be doing is internalizing them again, and meditating on them again, and remembering them, and actually taking hold and claiming them as a promise.
1 Peter 5-7, these are all the English Standard Version. Casting all your anxieties on Him because He... Can you imagine if we meditate on that? Can you imagine if you put that on your computer, or on your car dashboard? I'm casting all my anxieties on Him because He cares for me, for you. Let's not forget that worry is a sin.
Uh-oh. No rotten apples coming at me. But Shane, we need to be concerned.
Yes, be concerned, be vigilant on things you can make a difference in, but worry is worrying about things we have no control over. And really, it goes back to not trusting God. So if I have an anxiety, oh, what's going to happen? Lord, I'm worrying about this, that is sin, because I'm not trusting in God.
He says, cast all your cares upon Me. Deuteronomy 31, be strong and courageous. Do not fear or be in dread of them.
Who's them? Your enemy. Anybody have any enemies? No? No? Okay, plant a church. Open a Facebook, right? You do, you know what I'm talking about, especially if you're vocal about your faith.
If you're somewhat vocal about your faith, you have enemies. True faith. Not the faith that says God's everywhere, God is love, all religions are going the same direction.
You won't get persecuted. So do not fear your enemies. For the Lord, your God, who goes with you, He will not leave you.
He will not forsake you. Psalm 34, the Lord is near to the brokenhearted, and He saves those who are crushed in spirit. Listen, if you're not brokenhearted, if you're not crushed in spirit, that's the only way you can truly know God.
He looks for that. He hates the proud and the arrogant. Hates them? Come on, Shane, that's really strong.
Well, read Proverbs. Six things the Lord hates, yea, seven are an abomination to Him. A lying tongue, hands that shed innocent blood, feet that are swift to running to evil, a heart that devises wicked plans, someone who sows discord among the brethren.
And guess what is at the top of that list? He said, I, the Lord God, I hate a proud look. I hate the look of pride. So if you want to come to Christ, you need to be broken this morning.
He saves those who are broken. He saves those who are crushed in spirit. Basically, that's a person who says, God, I failed.
God, I failed. I'm not who I thought I was. I've been so arrogant.
I've been so prideful. God, I'm broken over my sin. Would you save me? Would you? He's never going, let me consider it.
Let me think about it. It's almost like that's a magnet for the Holy Spirit of God. Do you know there's a prayer God always hears? Always hears.
Those who call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved. Not might. Not he'll consider it.
Not won't you follow this checklist. So a person, all they have to do is say, God, I'm calling upon the name of the Lord. I want to be saved.
That's a broken and contrite spirit that sees their need for a Savior. He runs to that person. Then Philippians, I can do all things through Him who strengthens me.
You can't go pitch for the Dodgers. He's not talking about that. Because if I could do that, I would do that.
He says, I will what? You can do all things, everything that God has called you to do. Everything God's called you to do, He will strengthen you. Brown, who leads worship.
If he says, God, you've called me to do this. I don't feel like it. I don't feel it.
Like I say on Sunday mornings sometimes, I can't do this unless you move. But those who call upon the name of the Lord, and they're saved, they're sanctified. If God's calling them to do something, He will strengthen them.
He will strengthen them. You don't have to strengthen yourself. Actually, I found is when I humble myself, He strengthens me.
When I try to strengthen myself, I fall on my face. You can do all things. So whatever God has called you to do.
Do you need God to strengthen you as a parent? I don't know about you, but I sure do. I was planning on grandchildren at my age. Babe, I need strength.
Some of you won't get that. That's okay. But I do.
I'm just being honest. I need strength. Anxieties come in.
Fears come in. Worries come in. Let's be honest.
Let's be transparent. I mean, on that topic, I've been struggling a lot. I walked my daughter down the aisle to get married, and I'll be 75.
I mean, it's funny for you guys. It's not funny for me. See, but these are normal fears.
These are normal things that God's dealing with. I'll be 50 this year. Most people don't think that, but I feel it.
No, don't clap. That's not happening. But see, now, as you get older, new fears come in.
New fear, like, what am I going to, you know, these anxieties, casting all your, what I worried about at 20? That's nothing compared to now. But see, that's sin. Worry is sin.
To trust God. God knows best. And I thank God I didn't have kids younger in my years, because I might have destroyed them when it was all about me and the party lifestyle.
So on one hand, I'm very thankful, but on the other hand, I've got concerns that I take to God. It's one reason why I try to stay healthy, by the way. We'll have five kids at home under 13 and under.
You have to have a lot of energy. I'm just telling you right now. And those iPads and YouTubes and computers are a constant challenge.
There's actually something, this is a whole side note, this might help for some of you, with parents. There's something we bought for Christmas lights out front. I put lights up out front, just white.
Don't worry, I know where pagan holidays came from. God, I don't need lectures on Christmas. But there's a switch, a button you can push, that just turns, you know, the lights on and off.
Actually, I like doing it because I'm spending time with my kids, and we make it a full family day, and it's incredible. So this little white thing, you can just turn on and off the lights because it hooks to your electrical outlet outside. Well, I had a good idea.
I'm going to hook that to my Wi-Fi. Uh-oh. Nothing's working.
I guess we'll have to sit down and talk. We might have to color pictures and have a board game and have a discussion. You don't believe me, but I'm hooking that up this week.
It's not working. It's down for the evening. Hey, you've got to get extreme in these days.
I'm telling you. People say, well, why don't you just tell your kids, no, I will, and why don't you? It's a lot harder, it's a lot easier to click. It's a lot easier for me to say, doesn't work, click, than no, no, no, no.
No, I told you 10 minutes ago. No, no, no, you can't use it. No, no, she's, no, no, no, no, no, no, I told you.
Or click. What's easier? But I'm also being serious, because I think kids are getting way too distracted. I think we're not spending quality time with them, and that's what I'm going to make that change.
Because I just see, at least in my own house, that it's the easy way out, isn't it? It's the new babysitter. In Isaiah 26, some of you need to hear this this morning, God will keep you. It says, you keep him, God, in perfect peace, which is complete, complete peace, whose mind has stayed on you because he trusts in you.
Can you imagine these five, go ahead and answer it, These five, it might have been mine. These five verses, reading these every day. Lord, in the morning, you get up and say, casting all my cares upon you, Lord, because you care for me.
I'm going to be strong and courageous. I don't fear what's going on, Lord, because you will never leave me nor forsake me. Lord, you are near to the brokenhearted, and you will save those who are crushed in spirit.
Lord, I can do all things because you strengthen me, and you will keep my mind in perfect peace. You will keep me on the right course because I trust in you. Can you imagine meditating on those? Here's what happens.
That's the only time some of you are going to hear the word of God all week, right now. And then you go home and you put on the news and the media and all this garbage that's going on, and that's what's captivating your thought life. That's what's controlling you.
That's why you're anxious and fearful, because of all these outside influences when God's word says just trust in me. Put your mind, fix your thoughts on things that are noble and honest and upright and of good report. Meditate on those things.
If you want to be free of this area, not completely free, but if you want to minimize anxiety and fear and burdens and mental anguish, meditate on God's word. Put those five scriptures on your email list. We can just send those to you.
You can Google it. Just put them. Just remind yourself.
Because your mind is changing. They used to think many years ago that the mind was static. It wasn't changing.
It was the way it was. It's the way it is now. I've told you before.
There are studies now on neuroplasticity where the mind actually can be changed. Secular psychologists will use a word conformed or transformed. That's interesting.
The Bible says be not conformed to this world, but be transformed. How? By the renewing of your mind. So you can begin to renew your mind.
As you renew your mind, old thought patterns drop off. As you renew your mind, you begin to get victory in certain areas you used to always be defeated in. You begin to renew and refocus this wonderful gift that God has given us.
I'm going to end with this verse, and I'm not going to put it up on the screen. I want you to think about this. God's talking to His children.
He said, Listen to me, you whom I upheld since your birth, and I've carried you since you were born, even to your old age. I am He who sustains you. This is Isaiah 46.
You can read it tonight. I have made you, and I will carry you. I will sustain you, and I will rescue you.
With whom will you compare Me? God's saying this. With whom will you compare Me? Who is My equal? To whom will you liken to Me? Who can be compared to Me? But some have poured out gold from their bags and weighed out silver on scales. They hire a goldsmith to make it into a god, and they bow down and worship this god.
And every time I read that, I think how foolish. God reminds me how foolish. It's still happening today.
Idolatry is still happening today. Shane, we don't have little things on our counter. Little god like Buddha they do, but I don't know.
It's parked in your driveway. It's affectionately known as an entertainment center. All I'm saying is be careful.
Whatever you look to, whatever you look to, to be your deliverer. You think the stock market? I mean, a lot of us are hoping for retirement. You think Social Security is going to be there? Medicare? Healthcare? Let's be honest.
There's nothing we can trust in. I heard somebody say they trust in something, they have it in the bank, because it's secured by the, what is that, federal? There you go, FDIC. Okay, well, you're trusting the FDIC to insure the bank where your money's at.
You might want to have a few more eggs in that basket, because not even that's reliable. Listen, when a nation's economy crashes, the whole thing crashes often. China calls in their debt.
If China called in our debt to them, it would wipe out the economy. Shane, you're trying to scare me. No, I'm just being honest.
Just being real. What are you trusting in? So let me encourage you this morning. Recommit.
Recommit your life to God. Has idolatry pulled you away from God? Are you trusting in the wrong things? Is the media pulling you away from God? Are the wrong friendships pulling you away from God? Is there idolatry? Something has put its place in front of my life that has become God in my life. That is idolatry.
Idols, idol worship, it's putting anything in a place where God ought to be. Many people sacrifice their family on the idol of success. Many people don't have time for God because of the idol of you fill in the blank.
Many of you know, I won't go into a lot of detail, but we opted out of sports this season and baseball because it became too consuming for us. I'm not saying that fits for everybody. I'm just saying for us.
It became too much. Too much was compromised. Too much, at least for our life.
So you have to look at what is in your individual life. If something becomes God to you and takes you away from church, takes you away from fellowship, takes you time away from the Word of God. I know there's three men right now I've talked to, I'm praying for them, but their job is take them away.
They're not in the Word much anymore. They can't come to worship. They can't come to church very much because of their job.
And what's the answer often? Well, but in five years from now, we'll get a good little nest egg going. Listen, you can never get back those five years. See, we have to start thinking along those lines.
Is there anything in my life that I'm put in the place of where God needs to be? And finally, I want to just throw out this invitation to you. I don't know, everyone in here, obviously, are watching online, but do you truly know God? Do you truly have that relationship? If you're going through life and you can't handle it anymore, you feel this burden of sin, you know you're not right with God, then I want to encourage you this morning to repent and believe. Repent means what? Humble yourself and believe.
In a nutshell, here's what I had to say. I'm not God. I thought I was.
I thought I was a captain of my own ship. I was a dictator of my own life. I can do whatever I want, whenever I want, however I want.
I'm God, and God said, no, you are not. Humble yourself. Humble yourself.
And then you cry out to God, and you say, God, save me. The irony is most people know when they are not right with God. That's why they get so mad at what I'm saying.
You ever watch, I mentioned Ray Comfort earlier, watch some of his videos on YouTube when he goes to the beach. He was there yesterday on Saturday. He goes to the beach and just asks them, have you ever committed adultery? No, but in my mind.
Have you ever stolen anything? Yeah, yeah. Have you ever did this? Oh yeah, by your own admission, you're a thieving, adulterer, fornicator, blasphemer by heart, you know, in your heart. And they realize, yeah, I am.
When you look at God's perfect law. See, but pride doesn't like to be challenged. Pride likes to be coddled.
It's cute on a baby. It's terrible on a 30-year-old. Coddled in their pride and arrogance.
So I just, I want to encourage you. I'm not coming here beating up anybody or being angry. I'm passionate.
Don't let the enemy deceive you and think that religion is for women. Religion, Christ is for weak people. I love when people tell me, they get mad, they go, he's a crutch for you.
No, it's a whole hospital. A crutch. Are you kidding me? A crutch? It's the NICU.
It's the ICU. It's the emergency. It's everything.
God, run to Christ. Run to the cross. That's why the Bible says, run today.
If you hear my voice, harden not your heart. In the book of Hebrews, three times, if you hear my voice, harden not your heart. If you hear my voice, harden not your heart.
Today is the day of salvation. Man is not guaranteed tomorrow. Only a fool says in his heart, I will build these great vineyards and these barns, and I will live this joy-filled life for the next 40 years on my things.
And God says, you fool. Tonight, your soul is required on you. This is serious, guys.
There's nothing more serious than this.
Sermon Outline
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I. The Misconception: 'God Will Never Give You More Than You Can Handle'
- This phrase is not biblical and often misplaces strength on self.
- Paul’s experience in 2 Corinthians shows believers can be overwhelmed.
- The American gospel’s promise of a trouble-free life is flawed.
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II. True Source of Strength and Help
- Help comes from the Lord, not from our own strength (Psalm 121).
- God provides a way to endure temptation (1 Corinthians 10:13).
- Greater is He who is in us than he who is in the world.
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III. The Purpose of Pain and Burdens
- Pain and struggles have a divine purpose (Romans 8:28).
- God uses burdens to redirect and refine believers.
- Trusting God’s sovereignty brings joy amid suffering.
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IV. Practical Response to Life’s Challenges
- Cast your cares on Christ because He cares for you.
- Listen carefully to the voice of pain and seek God’s purpose.
- Use wisdom in ministering to others in pain, focusing on timing and compassion.
Key Quotes
“God will never never never give you more than you can handle. Maybe it's just me but that's not true.” — Shane Idleman
“My help comes from the Lord, maker of heaven and earth.” — Shane Idleman
“For those who love God, all things work together for good.” — Shane Idleman
Application Points
- Trust in God's strength rather than relying solely on your own ability to handle life's challenges.
- Cast your cares upon Christ daily, knowing He cares deeply for you and sustains you.
- Listen carefully to the voice of pain and seek God's purpose in your struggles instead of becoming bitter.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is the phrase 'God will never give you more than you can handle' biblical?
No, Shane Idleman explains that this phrase is a misconception and not found in Scripture; believers can be overwhelmed but God sustains them.
How does God help us in times of temptation?
According to 1 Corinthians 10:13, God provides a way of escape so we can endure and say no to temptation.
What is the purpose of pain and suffering in a believer’s life?
Pain and suffering serve to refine, redirect, and deepen our trust in God’s sovereign plan as stated in Romans 8:28.
How should Christians respond when overwhelmed by burdens?
Christians should cast their cares on Christ, trust His sovereignty, listen to the voice of pain, and seek His guidance.
How can we minister to those who are suffering?
Use sensitivity and timing, listen more than speak initially, and share Scripture when the person is open to receive it.
