Tim Conway emphasizes that Christians must boldly speak the uncompromising truth in love rather than conforming to the world's diluted and inoffensive definition of Christianity. This sermon emphasizes the importance of speaking the truth in love, highlighting the need for Christians to be uncompromising in sharing the truth of God's Word, even if it means being firm and direct. It challenges the notion that Christianity is merely about being nice and likable, stressing the critical role of truth in saving souls and combating deception orchestrated by the devil. The message underscores the significance of not prioritizing niceness over truth and the necessity of being bold and unwavering in proclaiming the Gospel.
Full Transcript
Now, let's think about that in love. We speak the truth in love. Certainly, Paul is not merely talking about being just nice, likable, or friendly.
I suspect that the Apostle Paul would by lots of people not be considered a nice guy. Well, he loved. But he said hard things.
Our Lord Jesus Christ said very hard things. And I'm not saying that there's anything wrong with being nice or likable or friendly. But that's too often the picture put forward by this world around us.
You notice how the world tries to define what Christianity... People will tell us, well, Christianity is like this. This is what it's like. Oh really? Why do you think that? Well, they've invented what they think Christianity is supposed to be like.
The world basically has this idea Christians are harmless. There is an aspect to that. But as long as they're nice and loving and show a friendly spirit, never condemn or judge, as long as they're never insistent about anything, as long as they're agreeable and smile at everything, the world will basically leave us alone in our patheticness, right? In our weakness.
Now, there's a good way to be weak. And there's a bad way to be weak. And I'm talking about the way the world likes to... as long as the church is unoffensive, inoffensive I guess, and they're not uncompromising, they don't insist on the truth, then as long as we don't criticize or denounce or condemn anything.
But why? Because if the world hears that, then they count us to be devoid of love. So the world says. But we would do well to remember what's being said here.
We are to speak the truth in love. That's important. Truth.
That means we're unbending in our love. And there's a reason. I mean, is there not reason to be unbending? People go to hell through deception.
Being blown about by every wind of doctrine. There's human cunning. There's craftiness and deceitful schemes.
What is being schemed? It's the destruction of men's souls. There's a devil who seeks to deceive, to destroy, to damn. We're not playing a lightweight game here.
And I'll tell you this, truth sets men free. Truth saves men's souls. Truth.
Thy Word is truth. Jesus Christ is truth. We are to preach the truth in love.
Truth. We're not told to cultivate some sort of vagueness or obscure kindness. Well, we're just going to be kind no matter what anybody says, what anybody does, what anybody believes.
We're just going to smile at everybody and we're just going to be the nice guys and we're going to be known as the church or as the religion that just tolerates everything and we pat everybody on the back and we smile and we say, well, it's all going to work out. That's not the idea. This is not some kind of ambiguous or obscure or unclear loving spirit.
Brethren, we must be uncompromising when it comes to truth. We cannot hesitate to be narrow. We must not put niceness before truth.
Ever! Because error destroys. Error damns. And you know what? You got people, they come across looking nice, but really, they don't want any conflict.
And they're not willing to love people enough to tell the truth. I was thinking as Bobby was going through that, you think about Peter. Peter was preaching to the people and he said to them, you killed your Messiah! Or you think of the Apostle Paul.
You foolish Galatians! Yeah, you think Peter loved those people. Paul loved those people.
Sermon Outline
I
World's distorted view of Christianity as harmless and inoffensive
The danger of being merely nice without truth
The importance of speaking truth in love
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Truth as a liberating and saving power
The spiritual battle against deception and error
The necessity of uncompromising truth
III
Examples of biblical figures speaking hard truths
Love requires courage to confront and correct
Rejecting vague kindness in favor of clear truth
Key Quotes
“We are to speak the truth in love. That's important. Truth.” — Tim Conway
“Truth sets men free. Truth saves men's souls. Truth.” — Tim Conway
“We must be uncompromising when it comes to truth. We cannot hesitate to be narrow. We must not put niceness before truth.” — Tim Conway
Application Points
Boldly share biblical truth with love, even when it is difficult or unpopular.
Resist the temptation to conform to the world's diluted definition of Christianity.
Prioritize truth over being merely agreeable or nice in your Christian witness.
Frequently Asked Questions
What does it mean to 'speak the truth in love'?
It means communicating God's truth firmly and clearly while maintaining a genuine love and concern for others' spiritual well-being.
Why shouldn't Christians just be nice and agreeable?
Because being merely nice without truth can lead to tolerance of error, which ultimately harms souls and undermines the gospel.
How does the world typically define Christianity?
The world often portrays Christianity as harmless, agreeable, and non-confrontational, which dilutes its true message.
Is it loving to confront others with hard truths?
Yes, true love sometimes requires courage to correct and guide others away from deception and destruction.
What role does truth play in salvation?
Truth sets people free and saves souls by exposing error and leading them to Christ.
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