William MacDonald warns believers against speaking rashly and harshly to fellow Christians, emphasizing the importance of godly speech and self-control.
In this sermon, William MacDonald explores the dangers of speaking rashly and harshly, using biblical examples such as Moses and the sons of thunder to illustrate the consequences of unadvised speech. He emphasizes the importance of self-control, godly love, and respect for fellow believers. MacDonald challenges Christians to examine their words carefully and to represent God faithfully in all their communication.
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“…he spake unadvisedly with his lips.” (Psa. 106:33)
When the people of Israel grumbled about the lack of water at Kadesh, God told Moses that water would flow if he would speak to the rock. But Moses was fed up with the people by now, so he lashed out at them, saying, “Hear now, ye rebels; must we fetch you water out of the rock?” Then he smote the rock twice with his rod. By his angry words and disobedient action, he misrepresented God to the people. The result was that he forfeited the privilege of leading the children of Israel into the promised land (Num. 20:1-13).
It is easy for a man of burning zeal to be intemperate with other believers. He is so self-disciplined whereas they need to be forever babied along. He is so knowledgeable and they so ignorant.
But what he must learn is that they are still God’s beloved people, and that the Lord will not tolerate any verbal abuse of them. It is one thing to preach the Word of God in such power that people are convicted and torn up. But it is quite another thing to scold them severely as an expression of personal irritation. This will cut a man off from God’s best rewards.
When David’s illustrious men are listed in 2 Samuel 23, there is one name that is conspicuous by its absence. It is the name of Joab, David’s commander-in-chief. But why is his name missing? It has been suggested that the reason is that Joab used the sword on some of David’s friends. If so, the incident is full of warning for us when we are tempted to use our tongues as a sword on God’s people.
When James and John, the sons of thunder, wanted to call down fire from heaven on the Samaritans, Jesus said, “Ye know not what manner of spirit ye are of” (Luke 9:55). How apropos the rebuke is to us when we speak unadvisedly with our lips to those who are His not only by creation (as the Samaritans were), but by redemption as well.
Sermon Outline
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I. The Danger of Speaking Rashly
- Moses’ disobedience at Kadesh as a warning
- The consequences of misrepresenting God
- The forfeiture of leadership privileges
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II. The Need for Self-Control in Speech
- Zeal can lead to intemperate words
- Believers are God's beloved people
- Verbal abuse is unacceptable to God
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III. Examples from Scripture
- Joab’s exclusion from David’s list of mighty men
- James and John’s rebuke by Jesus
- The importance of knowing the spirit behind our words
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IV. Application for Believers Today
- Preach with conviction, not irritation
- Avoid using the tongue as a sword
- Speak with love to those redeemed by Christ
Key Quotes
“He misrepresented God to the people by his angry words and disobedient action.” — William MacDonald
“The Lord will not tolerate any verbal abuse of His beloved people.” — William MacDonald
“Ye know not what manner of spirit ye are of.” — William MacDonald
Application Points
- Be mindful and prayerful before speaking, ensuring your words build up rather than tear down.
- Exercise patience and love when dealing with fellow believers, avoiding harsh or angry speech.
- Remember that your words reflect your relationship with God and can impact your spiritual rewards.
Frequently Asked Questions
What does it mean to speak unadvisedly?
Speaking unadvisedly means speaking rashly or without careful thought, often resulting in harmful or inappropriate words.
Why was Moses punished for striking the rock?
Moses was punished because his actions and words showed disobedience and misrepresentation of God’s instructions.
How should Christians handle frustration with others?
Christians should exercise self-control and speak with love and patience, remembering that all believers are God’s beloved people.
What lesson does Jesus’ rebuke of James and John teach?
It teaches that believers must be aware of the spirit behind their actions and words, avoiding harshness even toward those outside the faith.
Can harsh speech affect a believer’s relationship with God?
Yes, harsh or intemperate speech can cut a believer off from God’s best rewards and damage fellowship with Him.
