Wisdom To Build Our Families
Zac Poonen teaches that God’s wisdom for building strong families is rooted in mutual submission, respect for God-ordained roles, and prioritizing the marital relationship above all others.
This sermon emphasizes the importance of mutual submission and respect between husbands and wives, starting from Ephesians 5:21. It highlights the need for husbands and wives to be subject to one another, understanding their interdependence like the relationship between the head and body. The sermon also discusses the significance of leaving parents and cleaving to one's spouse, illustrating how Jesus honored his mother while also prioritizing God's will. Practical advice is given on respectful communication, prayer for children, and setting godly examples in the family.
Sermon Outline
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- Mutual submission in marriage begins at Ephesians 5:21
- Husband and wife need each other equally
- God’s design shows interdependence, not domination
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- God’s command to leave father and mother establishes new family priority
- Jesus’ example of honoring parents before ministry
- The necessity of separating from parents for marital unity
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- The husband’s role as head and wife as helper is God’s original plan
- Love and respect must characterize husband-wife relationship
- Decisions should be made jointly with husband’s leadership
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- Keeping the marital relationship prioritized over children
- Raising children in a home of mutual respect and love
- Practical wisdom in handling in-laws and family advice
Key Quotes
“Be subject to one another in the fear of Christ.” — Zac Poonen
“God did not take a bone from Adam's head to make the woman rule over the man. Neither did he take a bone from the feet so that Adam can rule over her. But he took it from the side.” — Zac Poonen
“Let every husband love his wife like he loves himself.” — Zac Poonen
Application Points
- Prioritize your spouse above all others, including parents and children, to build a strong marriage.
- Practice mutual submission and respect by listening to each other and making decisions together.
- Handle advice from in-laws with wisdom and peace, maintaining unity in your marriage.