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9 Sermon Illustrations on Golden Rule

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The Golden Rule embodies Jesus' teaching to treat others as we desire to be treated, emphasizing empathy and kindness in daily interactions (Matthew 7:12). Christian preaching uses this principle to illustrate practical holiness, often portraying it through everyday acts of fairness and compassion that reflect God's love toward all.

Golden Rule, Keeping the

Treat others as you wish to be treated, even in small everyday actions.

The horse of a pious man living in Massachusetts happening to stray into the road, his neighbor put him into the pound. Meeting the owner soon after, he told him what he had done; "And if I catch him in the road again," he said, "I'll do it again." — "Neighbor," replied the other, "not long since, I looked out of my window in the night, and saw your cattle in my meadow, and I drove them out and shut them in your yard; and I'll do it again." The man liberated the horse from the pound, and paid the charges himself.

from New Cyclopaedia of Prose Illustrations · Elon Foster

Do Or Don't Do?: Christ and Confucius

Luke 6:31

You probably know people who don't believe that Jesus Christ is the Son of God, yet many of those folks would probably tell you Jesus was a great ethical teacher. Your kids are being taught this everyplace they turn. This benign, non-committal view represents a venerable tradition in America, dating back to Thomas Jefferson.

Jefferson didn't believe in the Christian doctrine of the Trinity, and he disliked the miracles of Jesus so much that he actually cut them out of his copy of the Bible. But what parts of the Bible did Jefferson like? Jesus' ethical teaching, of course.

Jefferson's view of Scripture, though colorful, is wrong for at least two reasons. First, it's only reasonable to expect a great ethical teacher to tell the truth about who he is. Yet, Jesus said that he and God the Father are one and the same. Would a great ethical teacher lie about something like that?

The second problem with rejecting Christ's divinity while lauding his ethical teaching is that this mindset treats Jesus as a relative newcomer, as if he were building on existing ethical systems, like Buddhism or Confucianism.

Some who hold this view have pointed out that Confucius gave us the Golden Rule before Christ was born. But what he gave his followers was a negative version of the Rule, saying, "Do not do unto others what you would not have done to yourself."

Now, Buddha, as well as Confucius, said some wise things about life and morality. But we need to remember that Christ's morality goes far beyond traditional ethical wisdom.

The Confucian version of the Golden Rule, for example, says "do not do," meaning, leave other folks alone. You build your wall around your life, and I'll build mine. We each retreat to our own private space so that we don't step on each other's toes.

Jesus, on the other hand, demanded that we get involved in other people's lives. "Do unto others," he taught, which means loving others. He put it plainly: "Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends." [John 15:13]

When you see a man lying in a ditch, it's not enough to leave him alone. Confucian ethics allows you to pass him by, but the ethics of Christ praises the Samaritan, the alien, who actively involves himself in the needy person's life.

The difference between these two views is as profound as the difference between self-interest and self-sacrifice. Leaving others alone is more comfortable, and entering into others' lives is more daunting. But that's Jesus' teaching, and it is what God commands. People who say it's merely the ethical formulation of a human ignore the fact that no one would make up a religion so contrary to human nature and our basic instincts.

This is something -- the difference in ethical systems and the proof for Christ's divinity -- that you need to teach your kids. Call us at BreakPoint and we'll tell you about some good apologetic resources for young people.

Yes, Jesus was a great ethical teacher. But it would be wrong to believe that He was merely that. The evidence of history is clear. And remember, Confucius' body is still in the tomb, but Jesus' tomb is empty.

For further reading:

Jefferson, Thomas. The Jefferson Bible. New York: Clarkson Potter, 1964.

Quote from Confucius as recorded by Russell Kirk in The Roots of American Order. Washington D.C.: Regnery Gateway, 1991.

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Copyright (c) 2000 Prison Fellowship Ministries. Reprinted with permission. "BreakPoint with Chuck Colson" is a radio ministry of Prison Fellowship Ministries.

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How Ruby Handled It

Matthew 19:14

Subject: A Little Child Can Lead Us

Date: For the Week of January 19, 1998

Matthew 19:14

When the public schools of New Orleans were integrated under court order

in 1960, four six-year-old black girls were selected to break the immoral

barrier that had been built over generations to keep white and black children

apart. Three were assigned to one school, and Ruby Bridges was sent alone to

Frantz Elementary School. How was a little girl supposed to deal with such

tension?

She was escorted to and from school each day by federal marshals for her

protection. She had to run the gauntlet of taunts, curses, and threats from

adults as she arrived and left each day. White parents took their children out

of Frantz, and Ruby was the only child in Miss Hurley's first-grade class.

Dr. Robert Coles is a child psychiatrist who studied Ruby's experience.

He visited with Ruby and her family twice every week. He interviewed Miss

Hurley about her pupil. To his amazement, Ruby was sleeping soundly every

night, eating well, and playing with neighborhood children as before. "You

know, I don't understand this child," said her teacher. "She seems so happy.

She comes here so cheerfully."

One morning Miss Hurley was watching Ruby walk toward the school.

Suddenly the little girl stopped right in the middle of the screaming, jeering

crowd. Facing all those angry people, her lips started moving. Miss Hurley

thought she was talking to them. She wondered what Ruby might be saying to

people who seemed ready to kill her. The marshals tried to move her into the

building. But she wouldn't budge until she finished what she was saying.

Miss Hurley asked her later what had happened, and Ruby explained. "I

wasn't talking to those people," she said. I was praying. I was praying for

them." You see, every morning Ruby had stopped a few blocks from her school to

pray for the people who hated her. That morning she had forgotten until she

was already on the sidewalk in the middle of the angry adults.

Here is what she prayed twice a day, before and after school. "Please,

God, try to forgive those people. Because even if they say those bad things,

they don't know what they're doing. So you could forgive them, just like you

did those folks a long time ago when they said terrible things about you."

Think you have some tough situations to face this week? Have to deal with

some unpleasant people? Have to confront people who are unkind or unfair? I

recommend you try Ruby's method and remember that Jesus said of little

children, "Of such is the kingdom of heaven."

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Good Samaritan

One night, at 11:30 p.m., an older African-American woman was standing on the side of an Alabama highway trying to endure a lashing rainstorm. Her car had broken down and she desperately needed a ride. Soaking wet, she decided to flag down the next car. A young white man stopped to help her -- generally unheard of in those conflict-filled 1960s. The man took her to safety, helped her get assistance and put her into a taxicab.

She seemed to be in a big hurry! She wrote down his address, thanked him and drove away. Seven days went by and a knock came on the man’s door. To his surprise, a giant combination console color TV and stereo record player were delivered to his home. A special note was attached. The note read:

Dear Mr. James:

Thank you so much for assisting me on the highway the other

night. The rain drenched not only my clothes but my spirits.

Then you came along. Because of you, I was able to make it to my

dying husband’s bedside just before he passed away.

God bless you for helping me and unselfishly serving others.

Sincerely,

Mrs. Nat King Cole

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Quotes On Helping Others

Luke 6:27

"If you help others, you will be helped. Perhaps tomorrow, perhaps in a hundred years, but you will be helped. Nature must pay off the debt. It is a mathematical law and all life is mathematics."

-- George Ivanovitch Gurdjieff (1873-1949)

Philosopher

Bits & Pieces, 2/20/02

"The greatest good you can do for another is not just share your riches, but reveal to them their own."

-- Benjamin Disraeli, QFTM 6/14/02

"It is one of the most beautiful compensations of life, that no man can sincerely try to help another without helping himself."

-- Ralph Waldo Emerson, QFTM 4/12/03

"The charity that is a trifle to us can be precious to others."

-- Homer, QFTM 4/12/03

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A Poor Salesman Sees the Golden Rule

Luke 6:31

Jim Sowards of Lampe, Missouri, was cleaning out an old storage box one day when among the ancient bills and canceled checks he found a tattered business card. Queen City Casket Company, Springfield, Missouri, it said. And on the back of the card was a hand-written message.

Immediately, Jim's mind went back several decades to the week before Christmas 1939. He was nine years old, trudging down the cold, wet streets of Springfield. One of his shoes had a hole in the top, and the ragged coat he wore was at least two sizes too big. A tattered bag containing magazines hung from one shoulder.

Jim's mother had died from pneumonia when he was five. His father worked two or three jobs, and Jim sold magazines to help out. He had a regular route of customers, which included the Queen City Casket Company on Clay Street. The owner, a Mr. Rader, always took him back into the factory to ask his workers if they wanted any magazines.

On this particular day, Jim was in the office shaking off the rain like a wet dog when Mr. Rader noticed his shoes, one of which had a hole in the top. Mr. Rader asked to see the soles and was shocked to find them completely worn through with cardboard inserts covering the holes.

“You can't walk around like that,” he said. “Come with me!” Then he whisked Jim into his pickup truck before the boy could protest. They drove to a nearby shoe store.

“Inside, a salesman fitted me with the finest pair of shiny new oxfords I had ever seen,” Jim recalls. “When I stood up, I felt about ten feet tall!” Mr. Rader also bought Jim a pair of socks.

Back in Mr. Rader's office, the businessman took out a business card and wrote on the back of it, “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.” Then he handed the card to Jim, put his hand on his shoulder, and said, “Jimmy, I want you to know that I love you.”

Jim was stunned. “For the first time in my young life I sensed a flicker of hope that somehow things would be all right,” he says. “Maybe not that Christmas, and maybe not even the next year, but with people like Mr. Rader in the world, there was kindness and love, and that would always make a difference.”

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Source: Signs of the Times, Copyright (c) December 2002, Pacific Press, http://www.signstimes.com; submitted by Dale Galusha

Religion Can Bring Us Together

Luke 6:31

Differing religious beliefs should not prevent people from loving and serving one another for the “betterment of our world,” President Obama said at the 2009 National Prayer Breakfast.

The new president said the “very nature of faith means that some of our beliefs will never be the same. But no matter what we choose to believe, let us remember that there is no religion whose central tenet is hate. “There is no God who condones taking the life of an innocent human being.”

He said the Golden Rule -- “Therefore all things whatsoever ye would that men should do to you, do ye even so to them” (Matthew 7:12) -- unites all major religions.

“It is an ancient rule, a simple rule, but also one of the most challenging,” he said after citing various religions, as well as texts from some of those religions that are similar to the Golden Rule. “For it asks each of us to take some measure of responsibility for the well-being of people we may not know or worship with or agree with on every issue.

“Instead of driving us apart, our varied beliefs can bring us together to feed the hungry and comfort the afflicted; to make peace where there is strife and rebuild what has broken; to lift up those who have fallen on hard times,” the president told the audience of legislators, administration officials, foreign diplomats, religious leaders and others gathered in a Washington hotel ballroom.

Obama acknowledged he was not reared in a “particularly religious household.” His father was a Muslim who became an atheist; his grandparents a Baptist and Methodist who did not practice their faiths, and his mother a skeptic regarding organized religion, the president said. His mother, however, was the “kindest, most spiritual person I’ve ever known,” he said.

“I didn’t become a Christian until many years later, when I moved to the south side of Chicago after college,” Obama said. “It happened not because of indoctrination or a sudden revelation, but because I spent month after month working with church folks who simply wanted to help neighbors who were down on their luck -- no matter what they looked like or where they came from or who they prayed to.”

Afterward, a pro-life leader said she desires the new president would fully apply his declaration there is “no God who condones taking the life of an innocent human being.”

Marjorie Dannenfelser, president of the pro-life Susan B. Anthony List, said in a written statement, “My deepest prayer is that President Obama will move forward in the spirit of the Golden Rule and embrace policies that affirm the dignity of every human being, especially the most vulnerable of all, the unborn.”

Obama was an advocate of unlimited abortion rights during his careers in the Illinois and U.S. Senates. Since becoming president, he has issued an executive order reversing a pro-life policy that prevented federal family planning funds from going to international organizations that perform or promote abortion.

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Compiled by Tom Strode, Washington bureau chief for Baptist Press.

When America Went To Hell

Mark 12:28

“How I wish that you of all people would understand the things that make for peace.”

— Jesus (Luke 19:42)

Whether or not slavery was the direct cause for the first shots fired upon Fort Sumter in April of 1861 is a matter of scholarly debate. What is undeniable is that two and half centuries of slavery was the fuel that caused the American Civil War to ignite into a conflagration that resulted in 750,000 deaths. From its Jamestown beginnings the American colonies and later the United States practiced one of the most brutal forms of slavery the world has ever known. The preservation of an institution that systematically dehumanized millions of people for the sake of economic gain was not a thing that made for peace. Inevitably that kind of cruel exploitation would overflow its cup and unleash death and hell, bringing everything that is the opposite of peace. During the horror of the American Civil War, the “land of the free” became a burning Gehenna. Thirty percent of Southern men of fighting age were slain on battlefields that saw the birth of modern warfare. From now on, war would be totalized and mechanized. The four horseman of the Apocalypse galloped across America leaving a wake of war, disease, famine, and death.

But here is the tragic irony of this story. A spiritual revival had swept through America during the decade before the Civil War. Americans flocked to churches and evangelistic meetings. This was especially true in the more religious South where Christianity was embraced with greater fervency than in the less zealous North. Across the country revival was on, churches grew, conversions multiplied. People got saved, praised Jesus, and talked about heaven. Then they went to hell. Or at least the same kind of hell Jesus had warned Jerusalem about during his final days. Despite a great “revival,” a nation of Christians was thrust into a hell of cannonballs, Gatling guns, field hospitals, and amputation saws. Great cities were set aflame and fields were littered with thousands of rotting corpses. The fires were not quenched and the maggots did not die. What had gone wrong? Millions had “accepted Jesus” and shouted hosanna, but they did not know the things that make for peace. They prayed a sinner’s prayer, “got right with God,” and kept their slaves. They had a faith that would justify the sinner while bringing no justice to the slave. They had faith that gave them a ticket to heaven ... and a highway to hell. The religious fervor in the conservative churches of the South only served to convince them that they were blessed by heaven. They were quite certain God smiled upon their deep devotion to their southern-fried Jesus. If they had to go to war to preserve their freedom, so be it — God was on their side. They were sure of it. But there would be hell to pay.

To help you comprehend how wrong the conservative churches of the Antebellum South were, despite flaunting their faith in Jesus and clutching their well-worn Bibles, I’m going to enlist the help of someone who was there and saw it all: fellow Missourian Mark Twain. In the chapter entitled “You Can’t Pray a Lie” in Twain’s beloved novel, The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn, Huck Finn has helped hide Miss Watson’s runaway slave, Jim. But Huck thinks he is committing a sin in helping a runaway slave. Huck had learned in Sunday School “that people that acts as I’d been acting goes to everlasting fire.” So in an act of “repentance” in order to save his soul Huck writes a note to Miss Watson and tells her where she can find her runaway slave. Now Huck is ready to pray his “sinner’s prayer” and “get saved” —

I felt good and all washed clean of sin for the first time I had ever felt so in my life, and I know’d I could pray now. But I didn’t do it straight off but laid the paper down and set there thinking — thinking how good it was all this happened so, and how near I come to being lost and going to hell. And went on thinking. And got to thinking over our trip down the river; and I see Jim before me all the time: in the day and in the night-time, sometimes moonlight, sometimes storms, and we a-floating along, talking and singing and laughing. But somehow I couldn’t seem to strike no places to harden me against him, but only the other kind. I’d see him standing my watch on top of his’n, ‘stead of calling me, so I could go on sleeping; and see how glad he was when I come back out of the fog; and when I come to him again in the swamp, up there where the feud was; and such-like times; and would always call me honey and pet me and do everything he could think of for me, and how good he always was; and at last I struck the time I saved him by telling the men we had smallpox aboard, and he was so grateful, and said I was the best friend old Jim ever had in the world and the only he’s got now; and then I happened to look around and see the paper. It was a close place. I took it up, and held it in my hand. I was a-trembling, because I’d got to decide, forever, betwixt two things, and I know’d it. I studied a minute, sort of holding my breath, and then says to myself: “All right, then, I’ll go to hell” — and tore it up. It was awful thoughts and awful words but they was said. And I let them stay said; and never thought no more about reforming. — The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn

Huck Finn had been shaped by the Christianity he had found in his Missouri Sunday School — a Christianity focused on heaven in the afterlife while preserving the status quo of the here and now. Huck thought that helping Jim escape from slavery was a sin, because that’s what he had been taught. Huck knew he couldn’t ask God to forgive him until he was ready to “repent” and betray Jim. Huck doesn’t want to go to hell. Huck wants to be saved. But Huck loves his friend more. So Huck is willing to go to hell in order to save his friend from slavery. Twain is doing a masterful job of showing us how wrongheaded Christians can be about what constitutes salvation. For Huck to act according to justice he has to believe he is committing a great sin. For Huck to act Christlike he has to believe he is forsaking Christianity. For Huck to love his neighbor as himself he has to believe he is condemning his soul to hell. Think about that awhile!

Mark Twain used his skillful pen to skewer the conservative Christianity of the American South. If Mark Twain wasn’t a believing Christian (and he wasn’t) — he was a prophet to the prevailing Christianity of his day. This was a compromised Christianity in desperate need of a prophetic voice. In seeking to preserve an economy dependent upon slave labor, the southern churches had embraced a fatally distorted faith. Probably without even knowing what they were doing these Christians had quite effectively used Jesus and the Bible to validate their racist assumptions and protect their vested interests. They went to church on Sunday. They got saved. They loved Jesus. They waved their palms and shouted hosanna on Palm Sunday. But like the crowd in Jerusalem eighteen centuries earlier they didn’t know the things that make for peace. And Jesus wept over an America headed to hell. The churches were full and slavery continued ... until the Civil War. Then 750,000 people died for the sins of America.

This is more than a recitation of history; there’s a lesson to learn here. When we don’t know the things that make for peace we can barrel down the highway to hell, all the while singing about how much we love Jesus and how wonderful it is to be saved. This should disturb us. How can it be that generations of religiously observant people can say all the right things about Jesus and still be on the wrong road? How can we know the things that make for a good church service but not know the things that make for peace? Jesus says that something has hidden the peaceful way from our eyes ... and more often than not it’s a flag. (Lately we’ve been asking what the Confederate flag is trying hide.) If patriotism simply means the pride of place that inspires civic responsibility, so be it. But if patriotism means “my country right or wrong,” it’s a kind of groupthink blindness that hides the things that make for peace from our eyes. Unfurled flags of nationalism have a long history of hiding the things of Christ that make for peace. Whether they are Roman, Byzantine, Spanish, French, English, German, Russian, or American flags, when they hide the things that make for peace they are no longer the innocent banners of a benign patriotism. So what are the things that make for peace? What is it we need to perceive if we are to avoid the bloody boomerang of a self-inflicted hell? Jesus told us when he said —

“In everything do unto others as you would have them do to you; for this is the law and the prophets. Enter through the narrow gate; for the gate is wide and the road is easy that leads to destruction, and there are many who take it. For the gate is narrow and the road is hard that leads to life, and there are few who find it.” — Matthew 7:12–14

The things that make for peace are the two great commandments: Love of God and love of neighbor ... but especially the second command. (Love of God is only validated by a co-suffering love of neighbor.) The “golden rule” of evaluating our actions through the eyes of our neighbor is the narrow and difficult road that leads to life and peace. The golden rule is the narrow gate. The narrow gate is not a sinner’s prayer, the narrow gate is the practice of the Jesus way. The narrow gate is fulfilling the law and the prophets by empathetic love of neighbor in imitation of Jesus. When we hate and vilify others for ideological reasons, when we demonize and dehumanize others for nationalistic reasons, when we use and exploit others for economic reasons, we are on the highway to hell — we have chosen the well-worn road that leads to war and destruction. The deeply disconcerting thing is that it is entirely possible to cruise down the broad road of impending doom while singing songs of praise to Jesus. It happened on the first Palm Sunday. It happened a hundred and fifty years ago in America. It continues to happen today. If we think Jesus shares and endorses our disdain and enmity for our enemies, we don’t know the things that make for peace and we are headed for an inevitable destruction ... even if it takes a generation or two to arrive at our horrible destination. If we console ourselves with the promise of heaven in the afterlife while creating hell in this present life, we have embraced the tawdry religion of the crusader and forsaken the true faith of our Savior.

Christianity's Radical Challenge To Morality

Mark 10:28

One of the great scandals of Christianity is the radical challenge it poses to conventional morality. In the tradition of Kierkegaard and Dostoyevsky, French intellectual Emmanuel Carrère in his book "The Kingdom" emphasizes the punishing sacrifice of self that Jesus’ teaching enjoins. Classical and Jewish thinking had promoted the Golden Rule — Hillel said it was the essence of the Torah — but had never said, “Love your enemies.” And not only love your enemies but also Be perfect as your heavenly Father is perfect. This overriding command cannot be a worldly imperative; it is impossible. It is the shocking inversion of health that Nietzsche railed against, and perhaps the “hatred of humanity” with which, Tacitus says, Christian were charged. Everything natural and human is turned upside down. With only slight exaggeration, Carrère summarizes this outrageous benevolence:

Love your enemies, take joy in being unhappy, prefer being small to being big, poor to rich, sick to healthy. And whereas the Torah posits the elementary, evident, and verifiable truth that it’s not good for men to be alone, Jesus said: Don’t desire women, don’t take a wife, if you have one, keep her so as not to harm her, but it would be better if you didn’t have one.[*] Don’t have children either. Let them come to you, take inspiration from their innocence, but don’t have any. Love children in general, not in particular, not like men have loved their children since time began: more than those of others, because they’re their own. And even — no, above all — don’t love yourselves. It is human to want one’s own good: don’t.

You can feel both the attraction and the recoil in Carrère’s stridency. He fears what he deeply admires; he is repelled by an ideal he cannot quite dislodge.

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* Holwick: This attitude is more reflective of what Paul writes in 1 Corinthians 7:29-40 than anything Jesus says.

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