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How Can Believers Deepen Their Intimacy with the Lord? - Part 1
Al Whittinghill
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Al Whittinghill

How Can Believers Deepen Their Intimacy with the Lord? - Part 1

Al Whittinghill · 4:07

Al Whittinghill teaches that believers must intentionally cultivate and guard a deep, intimate relationship with the Lord, prioritizing love and faithfulness over busyness and comfort.
This sermon emphasizes the importance of intimacy with the Lord, drawing parallels between intimate relationships in various aspects of life and the necessity of cultivating a deep, personal connection with God. It challenges believers to prioritize intimacy over busyness for God, highlighting the need to return to a fervent love for the Lord and to endure hardships and persecution for righteousness' sake.

Full Transcript

Well, the one thing the Lord wants with us, for sure, is intimacy. He wants us to love Him with all our hearts and minds and soul and strength. And that intimacy is carried out in a visual with the husband and wife. Without intimacy, there's no fruit. The law of all fruit-bearing is an intimate relationship. It's in the plant kingdom, no fruit without an intimate relationship. It's in the animal kingdom, no puppies unless dogs have an intimate relationship. It's in the human kingdom, no babies unless humans have this relationship in marriage. And no fruit in the spiritual realm. Why would it be any different? Unless I have an intimate relationship with the Lord. Now, the question is, for the church, it's easier to be busy for God than to cultivate that intimacy that He dies for us to have. But we're called into the fellowship of His wonderful Son who is risen and alive. So the one thing I've got to do is to cultivate and guard my heart and keep that intimacy that He is more responsible for than me. We act as if we're begging God to be intimate with us, but He is putting pressure from every side to us to cleave to Him, to run to Him, to He who's joined to the Lord as one spirit to learn to live and worship and move and have my being in Him and let His Spirit guide me. But the question I have to ask if I want to be intimate with Him, do I really want that? Do I really want that? Do I want the world to look at me like it looked at Him? He said, look, you're not of the world. In the same way, exactly, even as I'm not of the world. And the world will hate you because it hates me. But it's not you that the world hates. It's me in you. So all who live godly in Christ Jesus will suffer hardship and have trouble and be persecuted. So the question I have to ask is, why am I pursuing this? Is it just to receive more, to get more? Because if that's so, when an army of the enemy shows up and I don't have the cross in my heart and that wonderful relationship of intimacy, I will back down. And I will back down when people criticize me. You're a bigot. You're a misogynist. You're whatever you are, whatever that word is. You're against us. But, you see, we've got to learn to take the heat. That's the message we're not getting in our pulpits, really, to learn to suffer for righteousness' sake, to have our good spoken evil of. So it all boils down. I know your works. I know your labor. And I know your patience, he says, to the church at Ephesus. It was a spiritual church. But, see, it doesn't have faith, hope, and love in it. It's just a work, not a work of faith. It's just a patience, not of hope. It's just patience. It's become because they left, not lost. It never says lost. They left their first love. And so God's remedy is return. Remember the place you were and return to me. Remember those first works, the way how it was when you first were aware that your sins were forgiven and I was raised from the dead. And return to me with all your heart. And love the Lord. So this is the thing I've got to really discern in my own life. Why I do things. Do I really want to know Him? Do I really want to bring pleasure to Him? It's not how much pleasure I'm getting or how much pleasure is my wife getting or how much pleasure are my kids getting or how much pleasure is the church getting. It's for thy pleasure we are and were created. So intimacy, I think, it must be cultivated and deepened and guarded as a sacred stewardship. We're stewards of the mysteries of God. You can't put a measurement on it. But God, He who called you into it, will guard you and guide you every step of the way. That's His desire. So we've got to quit making excuses. And if we're not intimate with Him, just discover the reasons in our own heart and confess and forsake them and make sure we are following the roadmap of forgiving everyone and walking in the purity that He has in here to say to us. We tend to disregard because of the pressure in the world.

Sermon Outline

  1. I
    • God desires intimacy with believers above all else
    • Intimacy is the foundation for spiritual fruitfulness
    • Examples of intimacy in nature illustrate spiritual truths
  2. II
    • Believers often choose busyness over cultivating intimacy
    • True intimacy requires guarding the heart and cleaving to God
    • God actively pursues intimacy with His people
  3. III
    • Intimacy with God involves enduring hardship and persecution
    • The world hates believers because of Christ in them
    • Suffering for righteousness is part of the intimate walk with God
  4. IV
    • The church is called to return to their first love
    • Intimacy is a sacred stewardship to be cultivated and guarded
    • Confession, forgiveness, and purity are keys to deepening intimacy

Key Quotes

“The one thing the Lord wants with us, for sure, is intimacy.” — Al Whittinghill
“Without intimacy, there's no fruit. The law of all fruit-bearing is an intimate relationship.” — Al Whittinghill
“It's for thy pleasure we are and were created.” — Al Whittinghill

Application Points

  • Prioritize daily time with God to cultivate intimacy rather than merely staying busy with religious activities.
  • Embrace hardships and persecution as part of growing closer to Christ and reflecting His life.
  • Regularly examine your heart, confess sin, and forgive others to maintain purity in your relationship with God.

Frequently Asked Questions

Why is intimacy with God so important?
Intimacy with God is essential because it is the foundation for spiritual fruitfulness and a genuine relationship with Him.
How can busyness hinder my relationship with God?
Busyness can distract believers from cultivating a deep, personal connection with God, causing them to focus on activity rather than intimacy.
What does it mean to endure hardship for righteousness' sake?
It means believers may face persecution and difficulties because of their faith, reflecting Christ’s own experience and demonstrating genuine intimacy with Him.
How can I return to my first love if I feel distant from God?
By remembering the joy of salvation, confessing and forsaking sin, and recommitting to love and obey God wholeheartedly.
What practical steps help deepen intimacy with the Lord?
Guarding your heart, forgiving others, walking in purity, and prioritizing time with God over worldly distractions are key steps.

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