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Charles E. Cowman

Receive the Cup of Sorrow

God uses pain and sorrow to bring us into the form that is highest and noblest in His sight, and we must receive His gifts of myrrh in the right spirit to find spiritual growth and renewal.
Charles E. Cowman delivers a sermon reflecting on the cup of sorrow that God gives us to drink, emphasizing the importance of receiving God's gifts of myrrh in the right spirit to shape us into the highest and noblest form in His sight. He warns against stifling or ignoring these feelings, as it can cause greater harm to the soul. Cowman encourages opening our hearts to pain, as it can bring more good than being full of feeling and devoutness.

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"Shall I refuse to drink the cup of sorrow which the Father has given me to drink?" (John 18:11, Weymouth).

God takes a thousand times more pains with us than the artist with his picture, by many touches of sorrow, and by many colors of circumstance, to bring us into the form which is the highest and noblest in His sight, if only we receive His gifts of myrrh in the right spirit.

But when the cup is put away, and these feelings are stifled or unheeded, a greater injury is done to the soul that can ever be amended. For no heart can conceive in what surpassing love God giveth us this myrrh; yet this which we ought to receive to our souls' good we suffer to pass by us in our sleepy indifference, and nothing comes of it.

Then we come and complain: "Alas, Lord! I am so dry, and it is so dark within me!" I tell thee, dear child, open thy heart to the pain, and it will do thee more good than if thou wert full of feeling and devoutness. --Tauler

"The cry of man's anguish went up to God,

'Lord take away pain:

The shadow that darkens the world Thou hast made,

The close-coiling chain

That strangles the heart, the burden that weighs

On the wings that would soar,

Lord, take away pain from the world Thou hast made,

That it love Thee the more.'

"Then answered the Lord to the cry of His world:

'Shall I take away pain,

And with it the power of the soul to endure,

Made strong by the strain?

Shall I take away pity, that knits heart to heart

And sacrifice high?

Will ye lose all your heroes that lift from the fire

White brows to the sky?

Shall I take away love that redeems with a price

And smiles at its loss?

Can ye spare from your lives that would climb unto Me

The Christ on His cross?"

Sermon Outline

  1. The Cup of Sorrow
  2. The consequences of rejecting God's gifts
  3. The value of embracing pain and sorrow
  4. Opening one's heart to pain
  5. Finding spiritual growth and renewal

Key Quotes

“God takes a thousand times more pains with us than the artist with his picture, by many touches of sorrow, and by many colors of circumstance, to bring us into the form which is the highest and noblest in His sight, if only we receive His gifts of myrrh in the right spirit.” — Charles E. Cowman
“Shall I take away pain, And with it the power of the soul to endure, Made strong by the strain?” — Charles E. Cowman
“Shall I take away love that redeems with a price And smiles at its loss?” — Charles E. Cowman

Application Points

  • We must open our hearts to pain and sorrow to find spiritual growth and renewal.
  • God's gifts of myrrh are meant to bring us closer to Him, not to harm us.
  • We must endure pain to love God more and to find true spiritual growth.

Frequently Asked Questions

Why does God allow pain and sorrow in our lives?
God uses pain and sorrow to bring us into the form that is highest and noblest in His sight.
What happens when we reject God's gifts of myrrh?
We miss out on spiritual growth and renewal.
How can we find spiritual growth and renewal?
By opening our hearts to pain and sorrow.
Is it possible to be pain-free and still love God?
No, because pain and love are intertwined, and we must endure pain to love God more.
What is the ultimate purpose of pain and sorrow?
To bring us closer to God and to make us stronger in our faith.

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