2 Samuel 14:2
2 Samuel 14:2 in Multiple Translations
So Joab sent to Tekoa to bring a wise woman from there. He told her, “Please pretend to be a mourner; put on clothes for mourning and do not anoint yourself with oil. Act like a woman who has mourned for the dead a long time.
And Joab sent to Tekoah, and fetched thence a wise woman, and said unto her, I pray thee, feign thyself to be a mourner, and put on now mourning apparel, and anoint not thyself with oil, but be as a woman that had a long time mourned for the dead:
And Joab sent to Tekoa, and fetched thence a wise woman, and said unto her, I pray thee, feign thyself to be a mourner, and put on mourning apparel, I pray thee, and anoint not thyself with oil, but be as a woman that hath a long time mourned for the dead:
And Joab sent to Tekoa and got from there a wise woman, and said to her, Now make yourself seem like one given up to grief, and put on the clothing of sorrow, not using any sweet oil for your body, but looking like one who for a long time has been weeping for the dead:
So Joab sent a messenger to Tekoa to bring back a wise woman who lived there. He told her, “Pretend to be a mourner. Put on clothes for mourning, and don't use any scented oils. Be like a woman who has been in mourning for the dead a long time.
And Ioab sent to Tekoah, and brought thence a subtile woman, and sayd vnto her, I pray thee, fayne thy selfe to mourne, and nowe put on mourning apparel, and anoynt not thy selfe with oyle: but be as a woman that had now long time mourned for the dead.
and Joab sendeth to Tekoah, and taketh thence a wise woman, and saith unto her, 'Feign thyself a mourner, I pray thee, and put on, I pray thee, garments of mourning, and anoint not thyself with oil, and thou hast been as a woman these many days mourning for the dead,
Joab sent to Tekoa and brought a wise woman from there, and said to her, “Please act like a mourner, and put on mourning clothing, please, and don’t anoint yourself with oil; but be as a woman who has mourned a long time for the dead.
And Joab sent to Tekoah, and brought thence a wise woman, and said to her, I pray thee, feign thyself to be a mourner, and put on now mourning apparel, and anoint not thyself with oil, but be as a woman that had a long time mourned for the dead:
Sent to Thecua, and fetched from thence a wise woman: and said to her: Feign thyself to be a mourner, and put on mourning apparel, and be not anointed with oil, that thou mayest be as a woman that had a long time been mourning for one dead.
So Joab sent someone to Tekoa town to bring back a woman who was very clever. When she arrived, Joab said to her, “Pretend that you are grieving because someone has died. Put on clothes that show that you are mourning. Do not put any lotion/ointment on your body. Act as if you are a woman who has been mourning for a long time.
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Context — Absalom’s Return to Jerusalem
2So Joab sent to Tekoa to bring a wise woman from there. He told her, “Please pretend to be a mourner; put on clothes for mourning and do not anoint yourself with oil. Act like a woman who has mourned for the dead a long time.
3Then go to the king and speak these words to him.” And Joab put the words in her mouth. 4When the woman from Tekoa went to the king, she fell facedown in homage and said, “Help me, O king!”Cross References
| Reference | Text (BSB) | |
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| 1 | 2 Chronicles 11:6 | He built up Bethlehem, Etam, Tekoa, |
| 2 | Amos 1:1 | These are the words of Amos, who was among the sheepherders of Tekoa—what he saw concerning Israel two years before the earthquake, in the days when Uzziah was king of Judah and Jeroboam son of Jehoash was king of Israel. |
| 3 | Ruth 3:3 | Therefore wash yourself, put on perfume, and wear your best clothes. Go down to the threshing floor, but do not let the man know you are there until he has finished eating and drinking. |
| 4 | 2 Chronicles 20:20 | Early in the morning they got up and left for the Wilderness of Tekoa. As they set out, Jehoshaphat stood up and said, “Hear me, O people of Judah and Jerusalem. Believe in the LORD your God, and you will be upheld; believe in His prophets, and you will succeed.” |
| 5 | Jeremiah 6:1 | “Run for cover, O sons of Benjamin; flee from Jerusalem! Sound the ram’s horn in Tekoa; send up a signal over Beth-haccherem, for disaster looms from the north, even great destruction. |
| 6 | 2 Samuel 12:20 | Then David got up from the ground, washed and anointed himself, changed his clothes, and went into the house of the LORD and worshiped. Then he went to his own house, and at his request they set food before him, and he ate. |
| 7 | Nehemiah 3:5 | Next to him, the Tekoites made repairs, but their nobles did not put their shoulders to the work under their supervisors. |
| 8 | Nehemiah 3:27 | And next to them, the Tekoites repaired another section, from a point opposite the great tower that juts out to the wall of Ophel. |
| 9 | Matthew 6:17 | But when you fast, anoint your head and wash your face, |
| 10 | 2 Samuel 11:26 | When Uriah’s wife heard that her husband was dead, she mourned for him. |
2 Samuel 14:2 Summary
In this verse, Joab sends a wise woman from Tekoa to speak to King David, instructing her to pretend to be a mourner. This was likely done to evoke the king's sympathy and create an opportunity for her to present her case, similar to how Nathan the prophet used a parable to confront David in Second Samuel 12:1-14. The woman's disguise and Joab's instruction can teach us about the complexities of human relationships and the importance of seeking God's wisdom and guidance in our interactions with others, as encouraged in Proverbs 3:5-6 and James 1:5-8. By considering the cultural context and biblical principles, we can gain a deeper understanding of this verse and its relevance to our lives today, and as the Bible says in Psalm 119:105, God's word is a lamp to our feet and a light to our path.
Frequently Asked Questions
Why did Joab choose a wise woman from Tekoa to speak to King David?
Joab likely chose a wise woman from Tekoa because of her reputation for wisdom and her ability to persuasively present a case, as seen in her eventual conversation with King David, which was likely influenced by her understanding of biblical principles such as those found in Proverbs 31:26, where a wise woman is described as one who opens her mouth with wisdom.
What was the purpose of the woman's disguise as a mourner?
The woman's disguise as a mourner was intended to evoke King David's sympathy and create an opportunity for her to present her case, much like the way Nathan the prophet used a parable to confront David in Second Samuel 12:1-14, and as the Bible teaches, God is close to the brokenhearted, as stated in Psalm 34:18.
Is it right to deceive someone, even if it's to achieve a good outcome, as Joab instructed the woman to do?
While Joab's instruction to the woman to pretend to be a mourner may seem deceptive, it's essential to consider the cultural context and the fact that this was a common practice in ancient times, as seen in other biblical accounts, such as in First Kings 14:1-6, where a similar tactic was used to test a king's heart, and as the Bible says in Romans 3:8, we should not use deceit to achieve our goals, but rather trust in God's sovereignty.
How does this verse relate to the broader story of King David and his son Absalom?
This verse is part of the larger narrative of King David's longing to see his son Absalom, who had been estranged from him, as mentioned in Second Samuel 13:39, and Joab's actions were an attempt to reunite them, reflecting the complexities of family relationships and the challenges of leadership, as explored in other biblical accounts, such as in First Samuel 8:1-3, where Samuel's sons are involved in a similar situation.
Reflection Questions
- What are some situations in my life where I might be tempted to use deception to achieve a desired outcome, and how can I instead trust in God's sovereignty and guidance?
- How can I, like the wise woman from Tekoa, use my words and actions to bring people together and promote healing and reconciliation, as encouraged in Matthew 5:9 and Ephesians 4:29-32?
- In what ways can I, like King David, allow my emotions and personal desires to cloud my judgment, and how can I seek God's wisdom and guidance in such situations, as mentioned in Proverbs 3:5-6 and James 1:5-8?
- What are some biblical principles that can guide my interactions with others, especially in difficult or sensitive situations, such as those found in Colossians 4:6 and First Peter 3:10-12?
Gill's Exposition on 2 Samuel 14:2
Jamieson-Fausset-Brown on 2 Samuel 14:2
Matthew Poole's Commentary on 2 Samuel 14:2
Trapp's Commentary on 2 Samuel 14:2
Ellicott's Commentary on 2 Samuel 14:2
Adam Clarke's Commentary on 2 Samuel 14:2
Cambridge Bible on 2 Samuel 14:2
Barnes' Notes on 2 Samuel 14:2
Whedon's Commentary on 2 Samuel 14:2
Sermons on 2 Samuel 14:2
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Progress of Redemption #04 by David Shirley | In this sermon, the preacher discusses the importance of the word of God and how it can change people's lives. The sermon takes place in Judea, a Persian province, around 430 BC. T |
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(Through the Bible) Amos & Obadiah by Zac Poonen | This sermon delves into the book of Amos, highlighting the historical context of the prophet's message to Israel, the significance of Amos being the first to write down a prophetic |
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Messages on Corporate Prayer #13-16 by Stephen Kaung | In this sermon, the speaker emphasizes the power of praise and worship in the face of battles and challenges. He draws inspiration from the story of Jehoshaphat and the army of Jud |
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Faith in God and His Word, the Establishment and Prosperity of His People. by John Gill | John Gill emphasizes the significance of faith in God and His Word for the establishment and prosperity of His people, drawing parallels between the challenges faced by Jehoshaphat |
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Breaking the Bondage of an Ungodly Heritage by Don Wilkerson | In this sermon, the speaker addresses the concept of breaking the chains of an ungodly heritage. He criticizes the idea that individuals are not personally responsible for their ac |
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The Heart of Worship by Keith Malcomson | Keith Malcomson emphasizes the importance of true worship, contrasting it with the contemporary worship culture that lacks depth and true submission to God. He highlights examples |
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Greenwood Hills Conference 1989-01 Nehemiah 1 by William MacDonald | In this sermon, the speaker emphasizes the importance of not being idle in the work of the Lord. He highlights the need for accountability in our assemblies and on the foreign fiel |







