Genesis 34:12
Genesis 34:12 in Multiple Translations
Demand a high dowry and an expensive gift, and I will give you whatever you ask. Only give me the girl as my wife!”
Ask me never so much dowry and gift, and I will give according as ye shall say unto me: but give me the damsel to wife.
Ask me never so much dowry and gift, and I will give according as ye shall say unto me: but give me the damsel to wife.
However great you make the bride-price and payment, I will give it; only let me have the girl for my wife.
You can set the bride price as high as you like, and I'll pay it along with all the gifts I'll give. Just let me have the girl so I can marry her.”
Aske of me abundantly both dowrie and giftes, and I will giue as ye appoint me, so that ye giue me the maide to wife.
multiply on me exceedingly dowry and gift, and I give as ye say unto me, and give to me the young person for a wife.'
Ask me a great amount for a dowry, and I will give whatever you ask of me, but give me the young lady as a wife.”
Ask me never so much dower and gift, and I will give according as ye shall say to me: but give me the damsel for a wife.
Raise the dowry, and ask gifts, and I will gladly give what you shall demand: only give me this damsel to wife.
Tell me what gifts you want and what bride price you want, and I will give you what you ask for. I just want you to give the girl to me to be my wife.”
In that culture, when a man married a woman, he used to pay money to that woman’s family and give them presents. So Shekem talked to Dinah’s father and brothers about that. He said, “Tell me how much money you want, and I will give it to you. Even if you want lots and lots of money and presents, I will give them to you. Please just let me marry that young woman Dinah.”
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Hebrew Word Reference — Genesis 34:12
Study Notes — Genesis 34:12
- Context
- Cross References
- Genesis 34:12 Summary
- Frequently Asked Questions
- Reflection Questions
- Gill's Exposition on Genesis 34:12
- Jamieson-Fausset-Brown on Genesis 34:12
- Matthew Poole's Commentary on Genesis 34:12
- Trapp's Commentary on Genesis 34:12
- Ellicott's Commentary on Genesis 34:12
- Adam Clarke's Commentary on Genesis 34:12
- Cambridge Bible on Genesis 34:12
- Sermons on Genesis 34:12
Context — The Defiling of Dinah
12Demand a high dowry and an expensive gift, and I will give you whatever you ask. Only give me the girl as my wife!”
13But because Shechem had defiled their sister Dinah, Jacob’s sons answered him and his father Hamor deceitfully. 14“We cannot do such a thing,” they said. “To give our sister to an uncircumcised man would be a disgrace to us.Cross References
| Reference | Text (BSB) | |
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| 1 | Exodus 22:16–17 | If a man seduces a virgin who is not pledged in marriage and sleeps with her, he must pay the full dowry for her to be his wife. If her father absolutely refuses to give her to him, the man still must pay an amount comparable to the bridal price of a virgin. |
| 2 | Deuteronomy 22:28–29 | If a man encounters a virgin who is not pledged in marriage, and he seizes her and lies with her, and they are discovered, then the man who lay with her must pay the young woman’s father fifty shekels of silver, and she must become his wife because he has violated her. He must not divorce her as long as he lives. |
| 3 | 1 Samuel 18:25–27 | Saul replied, “Say to David, ‘The king desires no other dowry but a hundred Philistine foreskins as revenge on his enemies.’” But Saul intended to cause David’s death at the hands of the Philistines. When the servants reported these terms to David, he was pleased to become the king’s son-in-law. Before the wedding day arrived, David and his men went out and killed two hundred Philistines. He brought their foreskins and presented them as payment in full to become the king’s son-in-law. Then Saul gave his daughter Michal to David in marriage. |
| 4 | Genesis 24:53 | Then he brought out jewels of silver and gold, and articles of clothing, and he gave them to Rebekah. He also gave precious gifts to her brother and her mother. |
| 5 | Matthew 14:17 | “We have here only five loaves of bread and two fish,” they answered. |
| 6 | 2 Samuel 3:14 | Then David sent messengers to say to Ish-bosheth son of Saul, “Give me back my wife, Michal, whom I betrothed to myself for a hundred Philistine foreskins.” |
| 7 | Genesis 29:18 | Since Jacob loved Rachel, he answered, “I will serve you seven years for your younger daughter Rachel.” |
| 8 | Genesis 31:41 | Thus for twenty years I have served in your household—fourteen years for your two daughters and six years for your flocks—and you have changed my wages ten times! |
| 9 | Hosea 3:2 | So I bought her for fifteen shekels of silver and a homer and a lethech of barley. |
Genesis 34:12 Summary
In Genesis 34:12, Shechem offers to give Dinah's family whatever they ask for in exchange for her hand in marriage. This shows that he is desperate to make things right after sinning against her. However, his offer is not enough to make up for his wrongdoing, and it ultimately leads to more harm. As we reflect on this verse, we can learn that true love and commitment are not just about getting what we want, but about being willing to make sacrifices and put the needs of others first, as seen in (Ephesians 5:25-33) and (1 Corinthians 13:4-7). We can also see that honesty and integrity are essential in our relationships, as commanded in (Leviticus 19:11) and (Colossians 3:9-10).
Frequently Asked Questions
What is the significance of the dowry in Genesis 34:12?
The dowry, or bride price, was a common practice in ancient times, where the groom's family would pay the bride's family for her hand in marriage, as seen in Exodus 22:16-17, and it symbolized the value and worth of the bride, in this case, Dinah.
Why does Shechem offer to give whatever is asked of him in Genesis 34:12?
Shechem's offer to give whatever is asked of him is a desperate attempt to make amends for his sin against Dinah, and to gain her family's approval for their marriage, as he is willing to do whatever it takes to make things right, similar to how Jacob worked for seven years to marry Rachel in Genesis 29:18-20.
Is it right for Jacob's sons to deceive Shechem and his father in Genesis 34:13?
While it may seem justified for Jacob's sons to deceive Shechem and his father, given the circumstances, it is still not in line with God's command to be truthful and honest, as seen in Leviticus 19:11 and Colossians 3:9-10, and it ultimately leads to more harm and violence.
What can we learn from Shechem's request in Genesis 34:12?
Shechem's request teaches us that true love and commitment are not just about getting what we want, but about being willing to make sacrifices and put the needs of others first, as seen in Ephesians 5:25-33, where husbands are called to love their wives selflessly and unconditionally.
Reflection Questions
- What are some ways in which I try to 'buy' people's approval or love, and how can I instead focus on building genuine relationships based on mutual respect and trust?
- How do I respond when I have wronged someone, and what can I learn from Shechem's attempt to make amends in Genesis 34:12?
- In what ways can I prioritize the needs and feelings of others, especially those who may have been hurt or wronged, and how can I demonstrate selfless love and commitment in my relationships?
- What are some cultural or societal expectations that can lead to harmful or unfair practices, such as the dowry system, and how can I work to promote justice and equality in my community?
Gill's Exposition on Genesis 34:12
Jamieson-Fausset-Brown on Genesis 34:12
Matthew Poole's Commentary on Genesis 34:12
Trapp's Commentary on Genesis 34:12
Ellicott's Commentary on Genesis 34:12
Adam Clarke's Commentary on Genesis 34:12
Cambridge Bible on Genesis 34:12
Sermons on Genesis 34:12
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The Grace and Duty of Being Spiritually Minded #3 by John Owen | In this sermon, the preacher provides special directions on how to discharge the duty of looking at things above and the state of future glory. He emphasizes the importance of poss |
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Genesis 2:2 by Lawrence Chambers | In this sermon, the speaker recounts the story of Abraham's servant finding a wife for Isaac. The servant is portrayed as a faithful and obedient servant of God, willingly carrying |
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Feeding the Lost Multitude - Part 2 by Vance Havner | In this sermon, the speaker reflects on his past experiences and shares a story about a preacher named Vance Havner who had a powerful impact on people. The speaker emphasizes the |
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Corinthians: God's Divine Order by Stephen Kaung | In this sermon, the speaker emphasizes the importance of divine order in fulfilling God's purpose. The Son of God willingly took on the form of a man and accepted God as his head, |
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The Ideal Christian Life - Part 1 by William MacDonald | In this sermon, the speaker emphasizes the importance of preparation in delivering the Word of God. He shares the example of George Verwer, who said that he had been preparing his |
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When God Says "Trust Me," He Means It! by David Wilkerson | David Wilkerson emphasizes God's unwavering faithfulness throughout history, illustrating how He has met the needs of His people, from providing manna in the wilderness to miraculo |
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(Genesis) Genesis 37:4-6 by J. Vernon McGee | In this sermon, the preacher discusses the story of Joseph from the Bible. He explains that Joseph, at the age of 17, was a rather gullible and naive boy who had been sheltered by |







