The use of harsh words can have lasting consequences, as the Bible teaches that they can cause harm and damage relationships. In Proverbs, wise speech is contrasted with reckless words, with Proverbs 15:1 noting that a gentle answer can turn away wrath. The book of Ephesians also cautions against using corrosive language, urging believers to speak only what is helpful for building others up, as seen in Ephesians 4:29. Additionally, Proverbs 29:11 and Proverbs 12:18 highlight the importance of self-control in speech, while James 1:19-20 encourages believers to be slow to speak and quick to listen, demonstrating a thoughtful and peaceful approach to communication.
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Let no unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building up the one in need and bringing grace to those who listen.
Speaking rashly is like a piercing sword, but the tongue of the wise brings healing.
My beloved brothers, understand this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger, for man’s anger does not bring about the righteousness that God desires.
Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, outcry and slander, along with every form of malice.
But now you must put aside all such things as these: anger, rage, malice, slander, and filthy language from your lips.
Be kind and tenderhearted to one another, forgiving each other just as in Christ God forgave you.
“Be angry, yet do not sin.” Do not let the sun set upon your anger, and do not give the devil a foothold.
My beloved brothers, understand this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger,
You have heard that it was said to the ancients, ‘Do not murder’ and ‘Anyone who murders will be subject to judgment.’ But I tell you that anyone who is angry with his brother will be subject to judgment. Again, anyone who says to his brother, ‘Raca,’ will be subject to the Sanhedrin. But anyone who says, ‘You fool!’ will be subject to the fire of hell.
You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor’ and ‘Hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be sons of your Father in heaven. He causes His sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Do not even tax collectors do the same? And if you greet only your brothers, what are you doing more than others? Do not even Gentiles do the same? Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.
If anyone considers himself religious and yet does not bridle his tongue, he deceives his heart and his religion is worthless.