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4 Sermon Illustrations on Self-Centeredness

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Self-centeredness in Christian preaching highlights the spiritual danger of focusing inwardly on oneself rather than on God and others, often leading to selfishness and a lack of compassion (Philippians 2:3-4). Illustrations frequently use images of isolation, indulgence, or misplaced affection to reveal how self-absorption contradicts Christ's call to selflessness and love (Romans 12:10).

Animals, Absurd Fondness For

A wealthy woman favors her dogs over people, exposing selfishness and lack of compassion.

A seamstress whom I know was sewing in the home of a wealthy woman in one of the aristocratic suburbs of Boston. She was there every day for nearly a week, when finally her patience became exhausted and she left the house never to return.

She said she could stand being fed on crackers and milk every day at the noon meal, but when she heard the mistress of the house at the telephone ordering half a chicken for her pet dogs she could withhold her wrath no longer.

Of course, the good woman of the house was sweetly unconscious of the absurd comparison between the dogs’ food and the food for the seamstress. Had she had any sense of the meanness of her conduct, she never would have telephoned that message within the hearing of the seamstress.

The truth of the matter was that her heart--as much as she had left of it--was all wrapt up in her pet dogs, and her interest in human beings had become as a matter of habit, simply a question of the amount of service they could render her. She is probably whining to-day about the seamstress who didn’t know her place and who was jealous of people who had means.--GEORGE W. COLEMAN, “Searchlights.”

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Selfness

Each person's life is uniquely self-contained and must be lived individually.

Our life not being an emanation from God, but a personal self-containing product of his power, we are not born to a perception of truth which floods our capacities as soon as they are opened, as the tides of a sea pour up each inlet that is scooped out to receive them; we do not receive pleasure, and utter it mechanically, as the pipes of the organ pour out without partaking the harmonies that breathe through them. But we, each one of us, as our life is unfolded, separate from all others, radically discriminated in its vital unity from that of every other, must set up for ourselves on the theater of the universe.

— RICHARD S. STORRS

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Provincialism

Provincialism is local pride that blinds people to broader, eternal standards.

Provincialism is local pride unduly inflated. It is the temper that is ready to hail as a Swan of Avon any local gosling who has taught himself to make an unnatural use of his own quills. It is always tempting us to stand on tiptoe to proclaim our own superiority. It prevents our seeing ourselves in proper proportion to the rest of the world. It leads to the preparation of school manuals in which the threescore years and ten of American literature are made equal in importance to the thousand years of literature produced in Great Britain. It tends to render a modest writer, like Longfellow, ridiculous by comparing him implicitly with the half-dozen world poets. In the final resort, no doubt, every people must be the judge of its own authors; but before that final judgment is rendered every people consults the precedents, and measures its own local favorites by the cosmopolitan and eternal standards.

— BRANDER MATTHEWS

from Cyclopedia of Illustrations for Public Speakers · Robert Scott and William C. Stiles prideself centeredness

Touchiness, Foolish

Pride and touchiness can lead to self-destruction, as shown by Robert Duke of Normandy.

Could any touchiness exceed that of Robert Duke of Normandy? According to Holinshed, the king, in trying on a new cloak, with a hood, and finding it too tight for him, directed that the garment should be taken to his brother (the duke), who was a smaller man. A slight rent, however, had been made in the garment, and the duke perceiving it, and hearing that the cloak had been tried on by the king, indignantly exclaimed, “Now I perceive I have lived too long, since my brother clothes me like an almsman in his cast-rent garments,” and refusing all food, starved himself to death.--London _Evening Standard_.

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