Conversation, Description of
Good conversation requires harmony, variety, and order among participants.
Conversation is the music of the mind,—an intellectual orchestra, where all the instruments should bear a part; but where none should play together. Each of the performers should have a just appreciation of his own powers, otherwise an unskilful novitiate, who might usurp the first fiddle, would infallibly get into a scrape. To prevent these mistakes, a good master of the band will be particular in the assortment of the performers: if too dissimilar, there will be no harmony; if too few, there will be no variety; and, if too numerous, there will be no order; for the presumption of one prater might silence the eloquence of a Burke, or the wit of a Sheridan, as a single kettledrum would drown the finest solo of Gioniswich or a Jordini. C. Colton.
