02 "Blessed are those who mourn,contd
Some HELPS to mourning Having removed the obstructions, let me in propound some helps to holy mourning.
God made us ’after his likeness’ (Genesis 1:26)—but sin has made us ’like the beasts which perish’ (Psalms 49:20). We have all become brutish in our affections. Nor has sin made us only like the beasts—but like the devil (John 8:44). Sin has drawn the devil’s picture upon man’s heart. Sin stabs us. The sinner, like the jailer, draws a sword to kill himself (Acts 16:27). He is bereaved of his judgement and, like the man in the gospel, possessed with the devils, ’he cuts himself with stones’ (Mark 5:5), though he has such a stone in his heart that he does not feel it. Every sin is a stroke at the soul. So many sins—so many wounds! Every blow given to the tree, helps forward the felling of the tree. Every sin is a hewing and chopping down the soul for hellfire! If then there is all this evil in sin—if this forbidden fruit has such a bitter core—it should make us mourn. Our hearts should be the spring—and our eyes the rivers!
God must breathe in his Spirit—before we can breathe out our sorrows. The Spirit of God is like the fire in a still—which sends up the dews of grace in the heart and causes them to drop from the eyes. It is this blessed Spirit whose gentle breath causes our spices to smell—and our waters to flow! If the spring of mourning is once set open in the heart—there can lack no joy. As tears flow out—comfort flows in! This leads to the second part of the text, ’They shall be comforted’. The COMFORTS belonging to mourners
Having already presented to your view the dark side of the text, I shall now show you the bright side, "They shall be comforted." Where observe:
Now to illustrate this, I shall show you what the comforts are, that the mourners shall have. These comforts are of a divine infusion, and they are twofold, either here or hereafter.
They are called ’the consolations of God’ (Job 15:11); that is, ’great comforts’, such as none but God can give. They exceed all other comforts as far as heaven exceeds earth. The root on which these comforts grow is the blessed Spirit. He is called ’the Comforter’ (John 14:26), and comfort is said to be a ’fruit of the Spirit’ (Galatians 5:22). Christ purchased peace, and the Spirit speaks peace.
[1] The Spirit comforts mediately, by helping us to apply the promises to ourselves and draw water out of those ’wells of salvation’. We lie as dead children at the breast—until the Spirit helps us to suck the breast of a promise; and when the Spirit has taught faith this art, now comfort flows in. O how sweet is the breast-milk of a promise!
[2] The Spirit comforts immediately. The Spirit by a more direct act presents God to the soul as reconciled. He ’sheds his love abroad in the heart’, from whence flows infinite joy (Romans 5:5). The Spirit secretly whispers pardon for sin—and the sight of a pardon dilates the heart with joy. ’Be of good cheer—your sins are forgiven’ (Matthew 9:2). That I may speak more fully to this point, I shall show you
Wherein do these comforts of the Spirit which are unquestionably sure, differ from those which are false and pretended? Three ways:
First, the comforts of God’s Spirit are laid in deep conviction: ’And when he (that is, the Comforter) has come, he shall convict the world of sin’ (John 16:7-8).
Why does conviction go before consolation? Conviction of sin, fits for comfort. By conviction of sin, the Spirit sweetly disposes the heart to seek after Christ and then to receive Christ. Once the soul is convinced of sin and of the hell which follows sin—a Savior is precious. When the Spirit has shot in the arrow of conviction, ’now,’ says a poor soul, ’Where may I meet with Christ? How may I come to enjoy Christ?’ ’Have you seen him whom my soul loves? All the world for one glimpse of my Savior!’
Again, the Spirit by conviction makes the heart willing to receive Christ upon his own terms. Man, by nature, would bargain with Christ. He would take half Christ. He would take him for a Savior to save him from his sin—but not as a King to rule over him. He would accept of Christ as he has ’a head of gold’ (Canticles 5:11)—but not as he has ’the government upon his shoulder’ (Isaiah 9:6). But when God lets loose the spirit of bondage and convinces a sinner of his lost, undone condition—now he is content to have Christ upon any terms. When Paul was struck down to the ground by a spirit of conviction, he cries out, ’Lord, what will you have me to do?’ (Acts 9:6). Let God propound whatever articles he will—the soul will subscribe to them. Now, when a man is brought to Christ’s terms, to believe and obey, then he is fit for mercy. When the Spirit of God has been a spirit of conviction of sin, then He becomes a spirit of consolation. When the plough of the law has gone upon the heart and broken up the fallow ground—then God sows the seed of comfort. Those who brag of comfort—but were never truly convicted, nor broken, for sin—have cause to suspect their comfort to be a delusion of Satan. It is like a madman’s joy, who thinks himself to be a king—but it may be said of ’his laughter, it is mad’ (Ecclesiastes 2:2). The seed which lacked ’depth of earth’ withered (Matthew 13:5). That comfort which lacks ’depth of earth’, deep humiliation and conviction, will soon wither and come to nothing. The Spirit of God is a sanctifying, before a comforting Spirit. As God’s Spirit is called the ’Comforter’, so he is called ’a Spirit of grace’ (Zechariah 12:10). Grace is the work of the Spirit. Comfort is the seal of the Spirit. The work of the Spirit goes before the seal. The graces of the Spirit are compared to water (Isaiah 44:3) and to oil (Isaiah 61:3). First, God pours in the water of the Spirit and then comes the oil of gladness. The oil (in this sense) runs above the water. Hereby we shall know whether our comforts are true and genuine. Some talk of the comforting Spirit, who never had the sanctifying Spirit. They boast of assurance—but never had grace. These are spurious joys. These comforts will leave men at death. They will end in horror and despair. God’s Spirit will never set seal to a blank. First, the heart must be an epistle written with the finger of the Holy Spirit—and then it is ’sealed with the Spirit of promise’.
First, the comforts of the Spirit are HUMBLING. ’Lord,’ says the soul, ’what am I that I should have a smile from heaven, and that you should give me a privy seal of your love?’ The more water is poured into a bucket—the lower it descends. The fuller the ship is laden with sweet spices—the lower it sails. The more a Christian is filled with the sweet comforts of the Spirit—the lower he sails in humility. The fuller a tree is of fruit—the lower the bough hangs. The more full we are of ’the fruit of the Spirit—love, joy and peace’ (Galatians 5:22), the more we bend in humility. Paul, a ’chosen vessel’ (Acts 9:15), filled with the wine of the Spirit (2 Corinthians 1:5), did not more abound in joy, than in lowliness of mind. ’Unto me who am less than the least of all saints, is this grace given . . ’, (Ephesians 3:8). He who was the chief of the apostles calls himself the least of the saints.
Those who say they have comfort—but are proud; who have learned to despise others—their comforts are delusions. The devil is able, not only to ’transform himself into an angel of light’ (2 Corinthians 11:14)—but he can transform himself into the comforter. It is easy to counterfeit money, to silver over brass and put the king’s image upon it. The devil can silver over false comforts and make them look as if they had the stamp of the King of heaven upon them. The comforts of God are humbling. Though they lift the heart up in thankfulness—yet they do not puff it up in pride.
Second, the comforts God gives his mourners are UNMIXED. They are not tempered with any bitter ingredients. Worldly comforts are like wine that is mixed with dregs. ’In the midst of laughter the heart is sad’ (Proverbs 14:13). If the breast of a sinner were anatomized and opened—you would find a worm gnawing at his heart. Guilt is a wolf which feeds in the breast of his comfort. A sinner may have a smiling countenance—but a chiding conscience. His mirth is like the mirth of a man in debt, who is every hour in fear of arrest. The comforts of wicked men are spiced with bitterness. They are worm-wood wine.
’These are the men who tremble, and grow pale at every lightning flash, and when it thunders are half-dead with terror at the very first rumbling of the heavens.’ But spiritual comforts are pure. They are not muddied with guilt, nor mixed with fear. They are the pure wine of the Spirit. What the mourner feels is joy, and nothing but joy.
Third, the comforts God gives his mourners are SWEET. ’Truly the light is sweet’ (Ecclesiastes 11:7); so is the light of God’s countenance. How sweet are those comforts which bring the Comforter along with them! (John 14:10). Therefore the love of God shed into the heart, is said to be ’better than wine’ (Canticles 1:2). Wine pleases the palate—but the love of God cheers the conscience. The lips, of Christ ’drop sweet-smelling myrrh’ (Canticles 5:13). The comforts which God gives, are a Christian’s music. They are the golden pot of manna, the nectar and ambrosia of a Christian. They are the saints’ festival, their banqueting delicacies. So sweet are these divine comforts, that the church had her fainting fits, for lack of them. ’Stay me with flagons’ (Canticles 2:5). By these flagons, are meant the comforts of the Spirit. The Hebrew word signifies ’all variety of delights’ to show the abundance of delectability and sweetness in these comforts of the Spirit. ’Comfort me with apples.’ Apples are sweet in taste, fragrant in smell. Just so, sweet and delicious are those apples which grow upon the tree in paradise. These comforts from above are so sweet that they make all other comforts sweet; health, estate, relations. They are like sauce which makes all our earthly possessions and enjoyments come off with a bitter relish. So sweet are these comforts of the Spirit, that they much abate and moderate our joy in worldly things. He who has been drinking choice wine, will not much desire water; and that man who has once ’tasted how sweet the Lord is’ (Psalms 34:8), and has drunk the cordials of the Spirit, will not thirst immoderately after carnal delights. Those who play with dogs and birds—it is a sign they have no children. Just so, such as are inordinate in their desire and love of the creature, declare plainly that they never had better comforts.
Fourth, these comforts which God gives his mourners are HOLY comforts. They are called ’the comfort of the Holy Spirit’ (Acts 9:31). Everything propagates in its own kind. The Holy Spirit can no more produce impure joys in the soul, than the sun can produce darkness. He who has the comforts of the Spirit looks upon himself as a person engaged to do God more service. Has the Lord looked upon me with a smiling face? I can never pray enough. I can never love God enough. The comforts of the Spirit raise in the heart a holy antipathy against sin. The dove hates every feather from the hawk. Just so, there is a hatred of every motion and temptation to evil. He who has a principle of life in him, opposes everything that would destroy life—he hates poison. So he who has the comforts of the Spirit living in him, sets himself against those sins which would murder his comforts. Divine comforts give the soul more acquaintance with God. ’Our fellowship is with the Father and with his Son, Jesus.’ (1 John 1:3).
Fifth, the comforts reserved for the mourners are FILLING comforts. ’The God of hope fill you with all joy . . .’ (Romans 15:13). ’Ask . . . that your joy may be full’ (John 16:24). When God pours in the joys of heaven, they fill the heart and make it run over. ’I am exceeding joyful . . .’ (2 Corinthians 7:4). The Greek word is ’I overflow with joy’, as a cup that is filled with wine until it runs over. Outward comforts can no more fill the heart—than a triangle can fill a circle. Spiritual joys are satisfying. ’My soul shall be satisfied as with marrow, and I will praise you with joyful lips’ (Psalms 63:5). David’s heart was full, and the joy broke out at his lips. ’You have put gladness in my heart’ (Psalms 4:7). Worldly joys put gladness into the face: ’They rejoice in the face’ (2 Corinthians 5:12). But the Spirit of God puts gladness into the heart. Divine joys are heart joys (Zechariah 10:7). ’Your heart shall rejoice’ (John 16:22). A believer rejoices in God: ’My Spirit rejoices in God . . .’ (Luke 1:47). And to show how filling these comforts are which are of a heavenly extraction, the Psalmist says they create greater joy than when ’their wine and oil increase’ (Psalms 4:7). Wine and oil may delight—but they cannot satisfy; they have their emptiness and indigence. We may say as Zechariah 10:2, ’They comfort in vain.’ Outward comforts sooner cloy than cheer—and sooner weary than fill. Xerxes offered great rewards to him who could find out a new pleasure—but the comforts of the Spirit are satisfactory. They refresh the heart. ’Your comforts delight my soul’ (Psalms 94:19). There is as much difference between heavenly comforts and earthly comforts—as between a banquet which is eaten, and one which is painted on the wall.
Sixth, the comforts God gives his mourners in this life are GLORIOUS comforts. ’Joy full of glory’ (1 Peter 1:8). They are glorious because they are a foretaste of that joy which we shall have in a glorified estate. These comforts are a pledge of glory. They put us in heaven before our time. ’You were sealed with the Holy Spirit, which is the pledge of the inheritance’ (Ephesians 1:13-14). So the comforts of the Spirit are the pledge, the ’cluster of grapes’ at Eshcol (Numbers 13:23), the first-fruits of the heavenly Canaan. The joys of the Spirit are glorious, in opposition to other joys, which compared with these, are inglorious and vile. A carnal man’s joy, as it is airy and flashy, so it is sordid. He sucks nothing but dregs. ’You rejoice in a thing of nothing’ (Amos 6:13). A carnal spirit rejoices because he can say that this house is his, or that this estate is his. But a gracious spirit rejoices because he can say that this God is his: ’For this God is our God forever and ever’ (Psalms 48:14). The ground of a Christian’s joy is glorious. He rejoices in that he is an heir of the promise. The joy of a godly man is made up of that which is the angels’ joy. He triumphs in the light of God’s countenance. His joy is that which is Christ’s own joy. He rejoices in the mystical union which is begun here and consummated in heaven. Thus the joy of the saints is a joy ’full of glory’.
Seventh, the comforts which God gives his mourners are infinitely transporting and RAVISHING. So delightful are they and amazing, that they cause a jubilation which is so great, that it cannot be expressed. Of all things joy is the most hard to be deciphered. It is called ’joy unspeakable’ (1 Peter 1:8). You cannot tell how sweet honey is, without actually tasting it. The most elevated words can no more set forth the comforts of the Spirit, than the a pencil can draw the life and breath of a man. The angels cannot express the joys they feel. Some men have been so overwhelmed with the sweet raptures of joy, that they have not been able to contain—but as Moses, have died with a kiss from God’s mouth. Thus have we seen the glass oft breaking with the strength of the liquor put into it.
Eighth, these comforts of the Spirit are POWERFUL. They are strong cordials, strong consolation, as the apostle phrases it (Hebrews 6:18). Divine comfort strengthens for duty. ’The joy of the Lord is your strength’ (Nehemiah 8:10). Joy whets and sharpens industry. A man who is steeled and animated with the comfort of God’s Spirit, goes with vigor and alacrity through the exercises of piety. He believes firmly, he loves fervently, he is carried full sail in duty. ’The joy of the Lord is his strength’. Divine comfort supports under affliction: ’Having received the Word in much affliction, with joy’ (1 Thessalonians 1:6). The wine of the Spirit can sweeten ’the waters of Marah’. Those who are possessed of these heavenly comforts can ’gather grapes from thorns’, and fetch honey out of the ’lion’s carcass’. They are ’strong consolations’ indeed, which can endure the ’fiery trial’, and turn the flame into a bed of roses. How powerful is that comfort which can make a Christian glory in tribulations (Romans 5:3)! A believer is never so sad, but he can rejoice. The bird of paradise can sing in the winter. ’As sorrowing—yet always rejoicing’ (2 Corinthians 6:10). Let sickness come, the sense of pardon takes away the sense of pain. ’The inhabitant shall not say, I am sick’ (Isaiah 33:24). Let death come, the Christian is above it. ’O death, where is your sting?’ (1 Corinthians 15:55). At the end of the rod, a Christian tastes honey. These are ’strong consolations’.
Ninth, the comforts God’s mourners have are HEART-QUIETING comforts. They cause a sweet acquiescence and rest in the soul. The heart of a Christian is in a state of discomposure, like the needle in the compass; it shakes and trembles—until the Comforter comes. Some creatures cannot live but in the sun. A Christian is discomposed, unless he has the sunlight of God’s countenance. ’Hide not your face from me, lest I be like those who go down into the pit’ (Psalms 143:7). Nothing but the breast will quiet the child. It is only the breast of consolation, which quiets the believer.
Tenth, the comforts of the Spirit are ABIDING comforts. As they abound in us so they abide with us. ’He shall give you another Comforter that he may abide with you forever’ (John 14:16). Worldly comforts are always upon the wing, ready to fly. They are like a flash of lightning. ’They will oftentimes pass away and glide from your closest embrace’. All things here are transient—but the comforts with which God feeds his mourners are immortal: ’Who has loved us and given us everlasting consolation’ (2 Thessalonians 2:16). Though a Christian does not always have a full beam of comfort—yet he has a dawning of it in his soul. He always has a ground of hope and a root of joy. There is that within him, which bears up his heart, and which he would not on any terms part with.
Behold, then, the mourner’s privilege, ’He shall be comforted’. David who was the great mourner of Israel, was the ’sweet singer of Israel’. The weeping dove shall be covered with the golden feathers of comfort. O how rare and superlative are these comforts! But the question may be asked, ’May not God’s mourners lack these comforts?’ Spiritual mourners have a title to these comforts—yet they may sometimes lack them. God is a sovereign agent. He will have the timing of our comforts. He has a self-freedom to do what he will. The Holy One of Israel will not be limited. He reserves his prerogative to give or suspend comfort—as he will; and if we are a while without comfort, we must not quarrel with his dispensations, for as the mariner is not to wrangle with providence because the wind blows out of the east when he desires it to blow out of the west; nor is the farmer to murmur when God stops the bottles of heaven in time of drought; so neither is any man to dispute or quarrel with God, when he stops the sweet influence of comfort—but he ought rather to acquiesce in his sacred will. But though the Lord might by virtue of his sovereignty withhold comfort from the mourner—yet there may be many pregnant causes assigned why mourners lack comfort in regard of God and also in regard of themselves.
2. That God’s mourners lack comfort, it is most frequency in regard of THEMSELVES.
[1] Through mistake, which is twofold. They do not go to the right spring for comfort. They go to their tears, when they should go to Christ’s blood. It is a kind of idolatry to make our tears the ground of our comfort. Mourning is not meritorious. It is the way to joy, not the cause. Jacob got the blessing in the garments of his elder brother. True comfort flows out of Christ’s pierced side. Our tears are stained, until they are washed in the blood of Christ. ’In me you will have peace’ (John 16:33). The second mistake is that mourners are privileged people, and may take more liberty to slacken or sin. They may slacken the strings of duty, and let loose the reins to sin. Christ has indeed purchased a liberty for his people—but a holy liberty, not a liberty for sin—but from sin. ’But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people belonging to God, that you may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light’ (1 Peter 2:9). You are not in a state of slavery—but royalty. What follows? Do not make Christian liberty a cloak for sin. ’As free, and not using your liberty for a cover-up for evil’ (16). If we quench the sanctifying Spirit, God will quench the comforting Spirit. Sin is compared to a ’cloud’ (Isaiah 44:22). This cloud intercepts the light of God’s countenance.
[2] God’s mourners sometimes lack comfort through discontent and peevishness. David makes his disquiet the cause of his sadness. ’Why are you cast down, O my soul? Why are you disquieted within me?’ (Psalms 43:5). A disquieted heart, like a rough sea, is not easily calmed. It is hard to make a troubled spirit receive comfort. This disquiet arises from various causes: sometimes from outward sorrow and melancholy, sometimes from a kind of envy. God’s people are troubled to see others have comfort, and they lack it; and now in a peeve, they refuse comfort, and like a froward child, put away the breast. ’My soul refused to be comforted’ (Psalms 77:2). Indeed a disquieted spirit is no more fit for comfort, than a madman is fit for counsel. And whence is the mourner’s discontent—but pride? As if God had not dealt well with him in stopping the influences of comfort. O Christian, your spirit must be more humbled and broken, before God empty out his golden oil of joy.
[3] The mourner is without comfort for lack of applying the promises. He looks at sin, which may humble him—but not at that Word, which may comfort him. The mourner’s eyes are so full of tears that he cannot see the promise. The virtue and comfort of a medicine is in the applying. When the promises are applied by faith, they bring comfort (Hosea 2:19; Isaiah 49:15-16). Faith milks the breast of a promise. That Satan may hinder us of comfort; it is his policy either to keep the promise from us that we may not know it, or to keep us from the promise that we may not apply it. All the promises in the Bible belong to the mourner—had he but the skill and dexterity of faith to lay hold on it.
[4] The mourner may lack comfort through too much earthly-mindedness. By feeding immoderately on earthly comforts—we miss of heavenly comforts. ’For the iniquity of his covetousness was I angry, and I hid myself’ (Isaiah 57:17). The earth puts out the fire. Earthiness extinguishes the flame of divine joy in the soul. An eclipse occurs when the moon, which is a dense body, comes between the sun and the earth. The moon is an emblem of the world (Revelation 12:1). When this comes between, then there is an eclipse in the light of God’s face. Such as dig in mines say there is such a damp comes from the earth as puts out the light of a candle. Earthly comforts send forth such a damp as puts out the light of spiritual joy.
[5] Perhaps the mourner has had comfort and lost it. Adam’s rib was taken from him, when he was asleep (Genesis 2:21). Our comforts are taken away, when we fall asleep in security. The spouse lost her beloved when she lay upon the bed of sloth (Canticles 5:2, 6). For these reasons God’s mourners may lack comfort—but that the spiritual mourner may not be too much dejected, I shall reach forth ’the cup of consolation’ (Jeremiah 16:7), and speak a few words that may comfort the mourner in the lack of comfort.
Jesus Christ was without comfort, therefore no wonder if we are. Our comforts are not better than his. He who was the Son of God’s love, was without the sense of God’s love. The mourner has a seed of comfort: ’Light is sown for the righteous’ (Psalms 97:11). Light is a metaphor put for comfort, and it is sown. Though a child of God does not have comfort always in the flower—yet he has it in the seed. Though he does not feel comfort from God, yet he takes comfort in God. A Christian may be high in grace—and low in comfort. The high mountains are without flowers. The mines of gold have no corn growing on them. A Christian’s heart may be a rich mine of grace, though it is barren of comfort. The mourner is heir to comfort, and though for a small moment God may forsake his people (Isaiah 54:7)—yet there is a time shortly coming, when the mourner shall have all tears wiped away, and shall be brim full of comfort. This joy is reserved for heaven, and this brings me to the second particular.
’They shall be comforted’. Though in this life some interviews and love tokens pass between God and the mourner—yet the great comforts are kept in sore for heaven. ’In God’s presence is fullness of joy’ (Psalms 16:11). There is a time coming (the daystar is ready to appear) when the saints shall bathe themselves in the river of life, when they shall never more see a wrinkle on God’s brow—but his face shall shine, his lips drop honey, his arms sweetly embrace them! The saints shall have a spring-tide of joy, and it shall never be low water. The saints shall at that day put off their mourning, and exchange their sables for white robes. Then shall the winter be past, the rain of tears be over and gone (Canticles 2:11, 12). The flowers of joy shall appear, and after the weeping of the dove—’the time of the singing of birds shall come’. This is the ’great consolation’, the Jubilee of the blessed which shall never expire. In this life the people of God taste of joy—but in heaven their vessels shall always overflow. There is a river in the midst of the heavenly paradise which has a fountain to feed it (Psalms 36:8-9). The times we are cast into, being for the present sad and cloudy, it will not be amiss for the reviving the hearts of God’s people, to speak a little of these comforts which God reserves in heaven for his mourners. ’They shall be comforted’. The greatness of these celestial comforts is most fitly in Scripture expressed by the joy of a feast. Mourning shall be turned into feasting, and it shall be a marriage-feast, which is usually kept with the greatest solemnity. ’Blessed are those who are called unto the marriage-supper of the Lamb’ (Revelation 19:9). Some understand this supper of the Lamb, to be meant of the saints’ supping with Christ in heaven. Men after hard labor, go to supper. So when the saints shall ’rest from their labors’ (Revelation 14:13), they shall sup with Christ in glory. Now to speak something of the last great supper.
First, every dish served in at this heavenly supper shall be sweet to our palate. There is no dish here we do not love. Christ will make such ’savory meat’ as he is sure his spouse loves.
Second, there shall be no lack here. There is no lack at a feast. The multifaceted fullness in Christ will prevent a scarcity, and it will be a fullness without surfeit, because a fresh course will continually be served in.
Third, those who eat of this supper shall ’hunger no more’. Hunger is a sharp sauce. The ’Lamb’s supper’ shall not only satisfy hunger—but prevent it. ’They shall hunger no more!’ (Revelation 7:16).
