03 "Blessed are the meek,
Christian Meekness
"Blessed are the meek, for they shall inherit the earth." Matthew 5:5
We are now got to the third step leading in the way to blessedness, Christian meekness. ’Blessed are the meek’. See how the Spirit of God adorns ’the hidden man of the heart, with a multiplicity of graces! The workmanship of the Holy Spirit is not only astonishing—but various. He makes the heart meek, pure, peaceable etc. The graces therefore are compared to fine needlework, which is intricate and various in its textures and colors (Psalms 45:14). In the words there is the duty of meekness—and that duty like the dove, brings an olive leaf in the mouth of it—’they shall inherit the earth’. The proposition I shall insist on, is that meek people are blessed people. For the right understanding of this, we must know there is a twofold meekness. Meekness towards God, meekness towards man.
[1] Submission to God’s WILL: when we react calmly, without swelling or murmuring, under the adverse dispensations of providence. ’It is the Lord’s will. Let him do what he thinks best’ (1 Samuel 3:18). The meek-spirited Christian says thus: ’Let God do what he will with me, let him carve out whatever condition he pleases, I will submit.’ God sees what is best for me, whether a fertile soil or a barren. Let him chequer his work as he please, it suffices that God has done it. It was an unmeek spirit in the prophet to struggle with God: ’I do well to be angry to the death!’ (Jonah 4:9).
[2] Flexibleness to God’s WORD: when we are willing to let the Word bear sway in our souls and become pliable to all its laws and maxims. He is spiritually meek who conforms himself to the mind of God, and does not quarrel with the instructions of the Word—but with the corruptions of his heart. Cornelius’ speech to Peter savored of a meek spirit: ’Now here we are, waiting before God to hear the message the Lord has given you’ (Acts 10:33). How happy is it when the Word which comes with majesty, is received with meekness! (James 1:21).
1. First, meekness consists in the BEARING of injuries. I may say of this grace, ’it is not easily provoked’. A meek spirit, like wet tinder, will not easily take fire. ’Those who seek my hurt spoke mischievous things—but I, as a deaf man, heard not’ (Psalms 38:12-13). Meekness is ’the bridle of anger’. The passions are fiery and headstrong; meekness gives check to them. Meekness ’bridles the mouth’, it ties the tongue to its good behavior. Meekness observes that motto, Bear and forbear. There are four things opposite to meekness.
How unfitting is rash anger! How it disguises and disfigures! As Plato counseled the great revellers and drinkers of his time, that they should view themselves in a glass when they were in their drunken humor, and they would appear loathsome to themselves, so let a man disguised with passion view himself in the glass, and sure he would ever after be out of love with himself. ’The face swells with anger, the veins become black with blood’. ’Let not the sun go down upon your anger, neither give place to the devil’ (Ephesians 4:26-27). Oh, says one, ’he has wronged me and I will never give place to him!’ But better give place to him than to the devil. An angry spirit is not a meek spirit. Not but that we may in some cases be angry. There is a holy anger. Only that anger is without sin—which is against sin. Meekness and zeal may stand together. In matters of religion, a Christian must be clothed with the spirit of Elijah, and be ’full of the fury of the Lord’ (Jeremiah 6:11). Christ was meek (Matthew 11:29)—yet zealous (John 2:14-15). The zeal of God’s house ate him up.
Some may object. ’But if I am thus meek and tame in bearing of injuries and incivilities, I shall lose my credit. It will be a stain to my reputation.’ I answer: To pass by an injury without revenge is no eclipse to a man’s credit. Solomon tells us it is the glory of a man to ’pass over a transgression’ (Proverbs 19:11). It is more honor to bury an injury than revenge it; and to slight it than to write it down. The weakest creatures (such as the bee) soonest sting with every provocation. The lion, a more majestic creature, is not easily provoked. The bramble tears. The oak and cedar are more peaceable. Passion imports weakness. A noble spirit overlooks an injury.
Again, suppose a man’s credit should suffer with those whose censure is not to be valued. Yet think which is worse, shame or sin? Will you sin against God to save your credit? Surely it is little wisdom for a man to venture his blood that he may fetch back his reputation, and to run into hell to be counted valorous! Not but that a man may stand up in defense of himself when his life is endangered. Some hold it to be unlawful to take up the sword upon any occasion—but without question a man may take up the sword for self-preservation, else he comes under the breach of the sixth commandment. He is guilty of self-murder. In taking up the sword he does not so much seek another’s death, as the safeguard of his own life. His intention is not to do hurt—but to prevent it. Self-defense is consistent with Christian meekness. The law of nature and religion justify it. That God who bids us ’put up our sword’ (Matthew 26:52) yet will allow us a sword in our own defense, and he who will have us ’innocent as doves’ not to offend others, will have us ’wise as serpents’ in preserving ourselves.
Though revenge may be contrary to meekness—yet not but that a magistrate may revenge the quarrels of others. Indeed, it is not revenge in him—but doing justice. The magistrate is God’s lieutenant on earth. God has put the sword in his hand, and he is not ’to bear the sword in vain’. He must be ’for the punishment of evildoers’ (1 Peter 2:14). Though a private person must not render to any man ’evil for evil’ (Romans 12:17)—yet a magistrate may; the evil of punishment for the evil of offence. This rendering of evil is good. Private men must ’put their sword into the sheath’—but the magistrate sins if he does not draw it out. As his sword must not surfeit through cruelty, so neither must it rust through partiality. Too much lenity in a magistrate is not meekness—but injustice. For him to indulge offences, and say with a gentle reproof as Eli, ’Why do you such things? Nay, my sons, for it is no good report that I hear’ (1 Samuel 2:23-24), this is but to shave the head that deserves to be cut off. Such a magistrate makes himself guilty.
Some may say—but did not the apostle Paul call the Galatians ’fools’? (Galatians 3:1). When Paul uttered those words, it was not by way of reproach—but reproof. It was not to defame the Galatians but to reclaim them; not to vilify them but to humble them. Paul was grieved to see them so soon fall into a relapse. Well might he say ’foolish Galatians’ in a holy zeal, because they had suffered so much in the cause of religion, and now made a defection and fell off. ’Have you suffered so many things in vain?’ (verse 4). But though Paul, guided by the Spirit of God, did give this epithet to the Galatians, it is no warrant for us when any have wronged us to use disgraceful terms. Meekness does not vent itself in reviling. It does not retaliate by railing.
’Yet Michael the archangel, when contending with the devil he disputed about the body of Moses, dared not bring against him a railing accusation; but said, The Lord rebuke you’ (Jude 9). Some understand by Michael, Christ—but more truly it is meant of one of the chief of the angels. The contest or dispute between the archangel and the devil was about the body of Moses. Some divines say that when God disposed of Moses’ body, he employed the archangel to inter him so secretly that his burying place might not be known. It is likely if his dead body had been found, the Israelites might have been ready in a preposterous zeal to have worshiped it. The devil opposes the archangel and contends about the dead body—but the archangel ’dared not’, or, as some read it, he could not endure to ’bring a railing accusation’. It seems the devil provoked him with evil language, and would fain have extorted passion from him—but the archangel was mild, and said only, ’The Lord rebuke you’. The angel would not so much as rail against the devil. We may learn meekness of the archangel: ’Not rendering railing for railing’ (1 Peter 3:9). Not but that a Christian ought prudentially to clear himself from slanders. When the apostle Paul was charged to be mad, he vindicated himself. ’I am not mad, most noble Festus’ (Acts 26:25). Though a Christian’s retorts must not be reviling, they may be vindicating. Though he may not scandalize another—yet he may defend himself. There must be Christian prudence, as well as Christian meekness. It is not mildness, but weakness—to part with our integrity (Job 27:6). To be silent when we are slanderously traduced, is to make ourselves appear guilty. We must so affect meekness, as not to lose the honor of innocence. It is lawful to be our own defenders. The fault lies only in this—when we retort injuries with reproachful terms, which is to pay a man back in the devil’s coin.
2. The second branch of meekness is in FORGIVING of injuries. ’And when you stand praying, forgive’ (Mark 11:25); as if Christ had said, ’It is to little purpose to pray, unless you forgive.’ A meek spirit is a forgiving spirit. This is a herculean work. Nothing more crosses the stream of corrupt nature—than forgiving injuries. Men forget kindnesses—but remember injuries. I once heard of a woman who lived in malice, and being requested by some of her neighbors when she lay on her deathbed, to forgive, she answered, ’I cannot forgive though I go to hell’. Forgiveness is cutting against the grain of human nature. Some can rather sacrifice their lives than their lusts—but forgive we must, and forgive as God forgives. Forgiveness must be:
Some may object that such an affront has been offered, that flesh and blood cannot put up. I answer: ’Flesh and blood cannot inherit the Kingdom of God’ (1 Corinthians 15:50). Christians must walk contrary to their natural dispositions, and with the sword of the Spirit fight against the lusts of the flesh (Galatians 5:24).
Again, you may say: But if I forgive one injury I shall invite more. I answer: It argues a devilish nature to be the worse for kindness; but suppose we should meet with such monsters—yet it is our duty to be ready to forgive (Colossians 3:13). Shall we cease from doing good because others will not cease from being evil? If the more you forgive injuries, the more injuries you meet with, this will make your grace shine the more. Another’s vice will be a greater demonstration of your virtue. Frequent forgiving will add the more to the weight of his sin, and the weight of your glory. If any shall say to me, I strive to excel in other graces—but as for this grace of meekness, the bearing and forgiving of injuries, I cannot arrive at it; I desire in this to be excused. What do you talk of other graces? Where there is one grace, there is all. If meekness is lacking, it is but a counterfeit chain of grace. Your faith is a fable: your repentance is a lie; your humility is hypocrisy. And whereas you say you cannot forgive, think of your own sin. Your neighbor is not so bad in offending you—as you are in not forgiving him. Your neighbor, in offending you—but trespasses against a man—but you, refusing to forgive him, trespass against God. Think also of your danger. You who are implacable, and though you may smother the fire of your rage—yet will not extinguish it, know that if you die this night, you die in an unpardoned condition. If you will not believe me, believe Christ. ’If you do not forgive, neither will your Father who is in heaven forgive your trespasses’ (Mark 11:26). He who lives without meekness, dies without mercy!
3. The third branch of meekness is in RECOMPENSING GOOD FOR EVIL. This is a higher degree than the other. ’Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, pray for those who despitefully use you’ (Matthew 5:44). ’If your enemy is hungry, feed him’ (Romans 12:20). ’Not paying back evil for evil or insult for insult but, on the contrary, giving a blessing’ (1 Peter 3:9). This threefold cord of Scripture should not easily be broken. To render evil for evil is brutish; to render evil for good is devilish; to render good for evil is Christian. The heathen thought it lawful to wrong none unless first provoked with an injury—but the sunlight of Scripture shines brighter than the lamp of reason. ’Love your enemies.’ When grace comes into the heart, it works a strange alteration. When a scion is engrafted into the stock, it partakes of the nature and sap of the tree and brings forth the same fruit. He who was once of a sour disposition, given to revenge, when he once partakes of the sap of the heavenly grace, he bears holy fruits. He is full of love to his enemies. Grace allays the passion—and melts the heart into compassion. As the sun draws up many thick noxious vapors from the earth and sea, and returns them in sweet showers, so a gracious heart returns all the unkindness and discourtesies of his enemies with the sweet influences and distillations of love. Thus David, ’They repay me with evil for the good I do. Yet when they were ill, I grieved for them. I even fasted and prayed for them.’ (Psalms 35:12-13). Some would have rejoiced;
David wept. Some would have put on scarlet; David put on sackcloth. This is the rarity or rather miracle of meekness. It repays good for evil. Thus we have seen the nature of meekness.
Meekness shows us the badge of a true saint. He is of a forbearing, meek spirit. ’He is not easily provoked’. He takes everything in the best sense and conquers malice with mildness. I would to God all who profess themselves saints were bespangled with this grace. We are known to belong to Christ when we wear his livery. He is a saint whose spirit is made so meek that he can smother injuries, and bury unkindnesses. A flow of tears better befits a Christian, than a passion of anger. Every saint is Christ’s spouse (Canticles 4:8). It befits Christ’s spouse to be meek. If any injury is offered to the spouse, she leaves it to her husband to revenge. It is unseemly for Christ’s spouse to fight.
Let me beseech all Christians to labor to be eminent in this superlative grace of meekness. ’Seek meekness’ (Zephaniah 2:3). Seeking implies we have lost it. Therefore, we must seek and cry after it to find it. ’Put on therefore as the elect of God, meekness’ (Colossians 3:12). Put it on as a garment, never to be left off. Meekness is a necessary ingredient in everything. It is necessary in instruction: ’In meekness instructing . . .’ (2 Timothy 2:25). Meekness conquers the opposers of truth. Meekness melts the heart. ’Soft words’ are softening. Meekness is necessary in hearing or reading the Word. ’Receive with meekness the engrafted Word’ (James 1:21). He who come to the Word in anger or malice, gets no good—but hurt. He turns wine into poison, and stabs himself with the sword of the Spirit! Meekness is needful in reproof. ’If a man is overtaken with a fault, restore such a one with the spirit of meekness’ (Galatians 6:1). The Greek word is ’put him in joint again’. If a bone is out of joint, the surgeon must not use a rough hand that may chance break another bone. But he must come gently to work, and afterwards bind it up softly. So if a brother is overtaken with a fault, we must not come to him in a fury of passion—but with a spirit of meekness labor to restore him.
I shall lay down several MOTIVES or arguments to meeken the spirits of men.
1. Let me propound EXAMPLES of meekness.
[1] The example of Jesus Christ. ’Your king comes unto you meek’ (Matthew 21:5). Christ was the exemplar and pattern of meekness. ’When he was reviled, he reviled not again’ (1 Peter 2:23). His enemies’ words were more bitter than the gall they gave him—but Christ’s words were smoother than oil. He prayed and wept for his enemies. He calls us to learn of him: ’Learn of me, for I am meek’ (Matthew 11:29). Christ does not bid us (says Augustine) learn of him to work miracles, to open the eyes of the blind, to raise the dead—but he would have us learn of him to be meek. If we do not imitate his life—we cannot be saved by his death!
[2] Let us set before our eyes the examples of some of the saints who have shined in this grace. Moses was a man of unparalleled meekness. ’Now the man Moses was very meek, above all the men who were upon the face of the earth’ (Numbers 12:3). How many injuries did he put up? When the people of Israel murmured against him, instead of falling into a rage, he falls to prayer for them (Exodus 15:24-25). The text says, they murmured at the waters of Marah. Sure the waters were not so bitter as the spirits of the people—but they could not provoke him to anger—but to petition. Another time when they lacked water, they fell arguing with Moses. ’Why have brought us up out of Egypt—to kill us and our children with thirst?’ (Exodus 17:3). As if they had said, If we die we will lay our death to your charge. Would not this exasperate Moses? Surely it would have required the meekness of an angel to bear this—but behold Moses, meekness. He did not give them a harsh word! Though they were in a storm—he was in a calm. They lambaste him—but he prays. Oh that as the spirit of Elijah rested upon Elisha, so may some of the spirit of Moses, this meek man (or rather earthly angel), rest upon us!
Another eminent pattern of meekness was David. When Shimei cursed David, and Abishai, one of David’s lifeguard, would have beheaded Shimei. ’No!’ says king David, ’Let him alone, and let him curse’ (2 Samuel 16:11). And when Saul had wronged and abused David and it was in David’s power to have killed Saul while he was asleep, (1 Samuel 26:7, 1 Samuel 26:12)—yet he would not touch Saul—but called God to be umpire (verse 23). Here was a miracle of meekness.
[3] The examples of meek heathen. Though their meekness could not properly be called grace, because it did not grow upon the right stock of faith—yet it was very beautiful in its kind. When one reviled Pericles and followed him home to his gate at night, railing upon him, he answered not a word—but commanded one of his servants to light a torch, and bring the railer home to his own house. Frederick, Duke of Saxony, when he was angry, would shut himself up in his closet and let none come near him, until he had mastered his passion. Plutarch reports of the Pythagoreans, if they argued in the day, they would embrace and be friends before sunset. Cicero, in one of his Orations, reports of Pompey the Great, that he was a man of a meek disposition. He admitted all to come to him so freely, and heard the complaints of those who were wronged so mildly, that he excelled all the princes before him. He was of that sweet temper that it was hard to say whether his enemies more feared his valor, or his subjects loved his meekness. Julius Caesar not only forgave Brutus and Cassius, his enemies—but advanced them. He thought himself most honored by acts of mercy and meekness. Did the spring-head of nature rise so high, and shall not grace rise higher? Shall we debase faith below reason? Let us write according to these fair copies.
Oh that all this might help to meeken and sweeten Christians, spirits! But some will say,
[1] This is sinful arguing. It is secretly to lay our sin upon God. We learned this from Adam. ’The woman whom you gave to be with me, she gave me of the tree, and I did eat’ (Genesis 3:12); rather than Adam would confess his sin, he would blame it upon God. ’The woman you gave me’. As if he had said, ’If you had not given this woman to me—I would not have eaten.’ So, says one, ’It is my nature; this is the froward, peevish nature God has given me.’ Oh no! you charge God falsely. God did not give you such a nature. ’He made man upright’ (Ecclesiastes 7:29). God made you straight; you made yourself crooked. All your affections at first, your joy, love, anger were set in order as the stars in their right orb—but you misplaced them and made them move in an evil way. At first the affections like several musical instruments well tuned, made a sweet consort—but sin was the jarring string which brought all out of tune. Vain man, do not plead that it is your nature to be angry; thank yourself for it. Nature’s spring was pure—until sin poisoned the spring!
[2] Is it your nature to be fierce and angry? This is so far from being an excuse, that it makes it so much the worse. It is the nature of a toad to poison that makes it the more hateful. If a man were indicted for stealing, and he should say to the judge, ’Spare me; it is my nature to steal’, were this any excuse? The judge would say, ’You deserve the rather to die’. Sinner, get a new nature. ’Flesh and blood cannot enter into the kingdom of God’.
What shall I do to be possessed of this excellent grace of meekness?
