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25 Sermon Illustrations on Compassion

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Compassion in Christian preaching emphasizes active love and empathy toward those in need, reflecting Christ's heart for the hurting (Matthew 25:35-40). Illustrations often use vivid pictures of practical kindness—feeding the hungry, comforting the sorrowful, and bearing one another's burdens—to show how small acts of mercy embody God's grace and build bridges of reconciliation.

Silent Answers

Sometimes silent caring comforts more than theological answers in deep grief.

Once a young couple lost their only child, a beautiful three-year-old daughter, as a result of a freak accident. Unable to justify this tragedy with their concept of a loving God, they went to their minister for help. "Why?" they asked. "It was God's will," the preacher told them. The couple just couldn't accept that the passing of their little daughter could somehow serve God's will, and they sought out another preacher friend. He quoted yards of Scripture, trying to give them comfort, but his verses fell on deaf ears. Finally, the young couple turned to a frail elderly woman in their church. Surely, she could give them a reason for the child's death, but the old woman didn't utter a single word. Instead, she tenderly wrapped her arms around the heartbroken couple's shoulders, and together they cried the hurt away. Sometimes when theological answers are not easy to the complex misfortunes of life, perhaps we just need to hush our babblings. Sometimes when answers aren't easy, our best statement is silent caring. Which Was Neighbor? A certain woman went down from Washington to Richmond and ran over a spike which punctured her tire and left her stranded by the side of the road. After raising the hood of her car and tying a scarf to her radio antenna, she locked the door handles and sat in the car, praying for the Lord to send help! By chance, there came a limousine that way with a bumper sticker that read, "Smile, God Loves You!" When the occupants saw the stranded woman, they passed by in the far lane-without smiling. And likewise, there came a sports car with a CB radio and a bumper sticker saying, "Honk If You Love Jesus!" The man who was driving passed by in the far lane without honking and without using his CB to tell the Highway Patrol about the woman's dilemma. But a certain working man, as he traveled to his job, came to the spot where the woman was and, when he saw her raised hood, white scarf, and flat tire, he had compassion on her. He stopped his old beat-up pickup-which had no bumper sticker-and crossed the four-lane highway, and offered to change the tire. The woman opened the door and gave him the key to the trunk. The man took out the spare tire, jacked up the car, removed the flat tire, and replaced it with the spare. When he had finished, the woman tried to pay him. He refused the money, saying, "If my wife were stranded on the highway with a flat tire, I'd want some Good Samaritan to stop and help her out." He returned to his bumper-stickerless truck, smiled, honked at her, and went his way. Which of these three was neighbor unto her who had a flat tire? When Someone Is Needier Than You In a leper colony clothes arrived for distribution among these outcasts of life. One little leper boy was asked what he needed most. He replied, "My hands are still good so I can mend my clothes when they need it, but there are some lepers who have no fingers, and some whose hands are so crippled or sore that they cannot use them. When their clothes get holes in them, they cannot mend them but must see the holes get bigger and bigger. I am thankful for my good hands, so please give the clothes to those who cannot mend their own. They are more needy than I." How we need such unselfishness. We should never complain when we know that there are others who are needier than we are.

Little Things That Help Others

Small acts like removing broken glass protect and show care for vulnerable children.

A plainly dressed woman was noticed picking up something on a poor slum street where ragged barefooted little children were accustomed to play. The policeman on the beat noticed the woman's action, and watched her very suspiciously. Several times he saw her stoop, pick up something and hide it in her apron. Finally he went up to her, and with a gruff voice demanded, "What are you carrying off in your apron?" The timid woman did not answer at first, whereupon the policeman, thinking she must have found something valuable, threatened her with arrest if she did not show him what she had in her apron. The woman opened her apron and revealed a handful of broken glass. "What do you want with that stuff?" asked the policeman. The woman replied, "I just thought I would pick it up so the glass would not hurt the children's feet."

Strange Fruit

Sharing uneaten food under a tree helps feed hungry children at school.

Woman's Day magazine told of a strange happening on the campus of Green Acres Elementary School near Santa Cruz, California. One year a tree on that campus began to bear strange fruit, mostly sandwiches, but sometimes a cookie, a cupcake, an apple or an orange. It came into being through the efforts of two teachers, Sophie Farrar and Sandra Enz, who were upset at the quantities of uneaten sandwiches discarded by the children. They suggested that the unwrapped sandwiches be placed under what the children began to call the free-food tree, for students who had come without a lunch or who had lost or forgotten their lunches. The idea was very popular among the children. Some youngsters asked their mothers to pack an extra sandwich so they would have one to put under the free-food tree.

How Long Has It Been Since You...

Every Christian can encourage others through simple acts of kindness and prayer.

Took the time to go see someone who lives alone? Wrote a letter to someone who crossed your mind? Read the Bible to someone too ill to read for themselves? Encouraged someone who was having a hard time being a Christian? Prayed earnestly for someone who was faltering? Tried to have a Bible study with someone you knew was lost? Told a teenager that you were proud of his efforts to live for the Lord? Spent more time on your knees praying than on the telephone talking? EVERY CHRISTIAN CAN DO SOMETHING TO ENCOURAGE SOMEONE ELSE!

Make Life a Little Sweeter

Small gestures like smiles, calls, or prayers can brighten someone's day.

O let me shed a little light On someone's path I pray; I'd like to be a messenger Of happiness today! It may be just a phone call, A smile, or a prayer, Or a long neglected letter Would lift the edge of care. I want to spread some happiness In what I say or do, Make life a little sweeter For someone else! Don't you?

He Gave His Coat

Giving what you have to help others can have lasting impact on their lives.

A young man named John saw some ragged boys and invited them to Sunday school. One boy said he would go, but he had no coat. John gave him his coat and went in with him. Years afterward, a teacher of a Bible class told the story. A man in his class said, "I was that boy, and Dr. John G. Patton, one of the most famous missionaries of the ages, gave me his coat."

Burdened for the Lost

True compassion involves sorrow and tears for those who are lost or suffering.

The St. Bernard dogs in the Alps who seek out travelers lost in a storm take their mission very seriously. One of these dogs returned late one afternoon, wearied from fighting his way through the drifts. He went to his kennel, lay down in a corner, and acted thoroughly despondent, despite the efforts of his master to encourage him. Was he sick? Well, no-not in body, but in heart. He had failed to find anyone to help and had come back ashamed. It is such sorrow of heart, resulting in outbursts of tears on behalf of others, that should characterize the Christian. An Overcoat of Love I've been on both ends of this experience-the receiving and the giving. I remember when I first came to the United States from a warm climate. It was cold and I had no overcoat. How grateful I was to that servant of Christ, Melvin Wampler, who took off his coat and placed it on my shoulders. He went without so that I could be warm. In a similar manner I have often endeavored to do this for others. Believe me, however, there is more joy in giving and going without, than receiving and possessing.

Don't Find Fault

Don't judge others harshly without understanding their struggles and sins.

Pray don't find fault with the man who limps Or stumbles along the road, Unless you have worn the shoes he wears Or struggled beneath his load. There may be tacks in his shoes that hurt, Though hidden way from view, Or the burden he bears, placed on your back, Might cause you to stumble, too. Don't sneer at the man who's down today, Unless you have felt the blow That caused his fall, or felt the same That only the fallen can know. You may be strong, but still the blows That were his, if dealt to you In the self-same way the self-same time, Might cause you to stagger, too. Don't be too harsh with the man who sins Or pelt him with words or stones, Unless you are sure, yea, doubly sure, That you have no sins of your own. For you know perhaps, if the tempter's voice Could whisper as soft to you As it did to him when he went astray, T'would cause you to falter, too.

Spirit of Kindness

Kindness and gentle correction can restore relationships and promote peace.

"I once lived in the country," said a preacher, "next to a very excellent man who, nevertheless, had his weaknesses. I recollect an occasion on which he became angry and manifested his displeasure in a striking manner. Wanting a place to hang up a trowel in my yard, I drove a nail into the fence between his yard and mine. It went through on the other side. One day I heard a racket in my yard and looking to see what was the reason, I found my trowel ringing over the pavement. My neighbor with his hammer had hit the nail and sent the trowel and everything else flying. My first feeling was to fire the trowel over at him and give him a piece of my mind, but my second thought was, 'Well, that's the way he is, but he is a very good fellow, a quiet neighbor so I won't say anything about it.' I was going to be satisfied; but then I decided I had better say something to him. I stepped in and said, 'I ask your pardon, sir. It was thoughtless my driving that nail through the fence, and I am glad you reminded me of it.' He shook hands with me and said, 'Well, well, let us not say anything more about that.' The result showed the wisdom of treating the matter in a spirit of simple kindness. It was evidently the course of conduct that was best for him."

President Lincoln and the Dying Boy

Compassionate presence comforts the dying more than words or deeds alone.

During the hard days of the Civil War, President Lincoln made frequent visits to the hospitals that were always overcrowded with the suffering. On one occasion he stopped to speak to one of the patients, a mere boy of 16, who had been mortally wounded and was nearing death. President Lincoln, taking the thin, white hand, said, "My poor boy, what can I do for you?" With a beseeching look the fellow turned his eyes to the homely, kindly face and asked, "Will you write to my mother for me?" "That I will," answered the President, and calling for a pen, ink and paper, he seated himself and wrote a long letter. When it was finished, the President rose, saying, "I will mail this as soon as I get back to my office. Now is there anything else I can do for you?" In some way the boy had come to know it was the President, and so, looking at him in the most appealing sort of way, he asked, "Will you stay with me till it is all over? I will not be long, and I want to hold onto your hand." That was too much for the great-hearted President to resist. The tears came to his eyes, and he sat down by him and took hold of his hand. The fellow did not move or speak a word. This was some time before four o'clock, and it was long after six before the end came. A Superior's Superior Attitude Bruce Barton told of an incident in the life of Abraham Lincoln which illustrates a winning spirit. Lincoln, in search of firsthand information on the progress of the Civil War, sought out his general, George B. McClellan. McClellan was not at home when the President and a cabinet member arrived, so Lincoln waited an hour. At last the general returned, but instead of greeting Lincoln, he went upstairs and retired for the evening, sending a servant to explain that he was too tired to see the President. Lincoln's companion exploded in rage, but the President laid his hand gently on the man's shoulder: "There, there, do not take it so hard. I will hold McClellan's horse if he will only bring us victories." In his words we hear echoes of Paul's comment: "...I will not be enslaved to anything" (1 Corinthians 6:12).

Anger, Righteous

Righteous anger motivated intervention to help a suffering widow unjustly evicted.

One of the late Dr. Spencer's parishioners in Brooklyn, N.Y., met him hurriedly urging his way down the street, one day; his lip was set, and there was something strange in that gray eye. "How are you to-day, doctor?" he said pleasantly. He waked as from a dream, and replied soberly, "I am mad!" It was a new word for a mild, true-hearted Christian; but he waited, and, with a deep, earnest voice went on: "I found a widow standing by her goods thrown in the street. She could not pay the month's rent: the landlord turned her out; and one of her children is going to die. And that man is a member of the church! I told her to take her things back again. I am on my way to see him!"

from New Cyclopaedia of Prose Illustrations · Elon Foster

Evil, Overcome

A wounded Confederate officer is moved by compassionate care from a former enemy.

A delegate of the Christian Commission, passing among the wounded at Gettysburg, said to a wounded Confederate officer, "Colonel, can I do any thing for you?"—"No!" was his defiant reply. The offer was repeated, after a time, with like result. The air became offensive from heat and wounds. The delegate offered to put cologne on his handkerchief. The officer, bursting into tears, said, "I have no handkerchief." — "You shall have one," said the delegate, wetting his own, and giving it to him. The subdued rebel said, "I can't understand you Yankees: you fight us like devils, and then you treat us like angels. I am sorry I entered this war."

from New Cyclopaedia of Prose Illustrations · Elon Foster forgiveness

Pharisaism

An old woman’s compassion and care saved a dying soldier’s life against all odds.

PHILANTHROPY, Example of In 1862, there lay in the hospital a poor emaciated soldier, whose bones had worn through so that great sores covered his back. One day, an old colored woman saw and pitied the dying soldier. She went to the doctor, and said, "Let me bring this man to my bed." The doctor said, "The man is dying: he will be dead tomorrow." On the morrow, old Hannah came again, and the soldier was still alive. She got help, took her bed, and, laying the man on it, carried him to her shanty. Then she washed him as she would a baby, fed him with a spoon, and fought death hand to hand day and night, and beat him back, and saved the soldier's life. The soldier obtained a furlough to visit his friends in Indiana, and wanted his colored rescuer to go with him; but old Hannah could not spare time from her washing. She went with him to the steamboat, fixed him to her mind, and then kissed him. As she left, the man wept like a child.

from New Cyclopaedia of Prose Illustrations · Elon Foster service to god

Reproof, Benefit of

Reproving a brother is like helping a wounded person to heal and recover.

To reprove a brother is like as, when he has fallen, to help him up again; when he is wounded, to help to cure him; when he hath broken a bone, to help to set it; when he is out of the way, to put him into it; when he is fallen into the fire, to pluck him out; when he hath contracted defilement, to cleanse him. P. Henry.

from New Cyclopaedia of Prose Illustrations · Elon Foster

Slander, Improved

Peter the Great encouraged seeing the good in others rather than spreading slander.

When any one was speaking ill of another in the presence of Peter the Great, he would shortly interrupt him, and say, "Well, no; but has he not a bright side? Come, tell me what have you noticed as excellent in him! It is easy to splash mud; but I would rather help a man to keep his coat clean."

from New Cyclopaedia of Prose Illustrations · Elon Foster forgiveness

Sympathy, Promptness of

True sympathy acts quickly and instinctively to help others in danger or need.

Sympathy is as the lightning; it is quick as thought; it waits not to make its selections; it is irrespective of considerations, and of partialities, and of tastes, and of cold prudence. If the stone on which I have set my foot proves to be loose, I catch hold of my companion's arm; and I do so without ceremony or the intervention of a thought. Or, if I see that my companion is in danger of a fall, I catch hold of his arm, to save him, without ceremony or the intervention of a thought. Or if, on my path, I find some one—a stranger—who has just fallen, and has broken a limb, and is bleeding, I start forward without ceremony or the intervention of a thought (on the supposition that I am no descendant of the Priest or of the Levite).

— Isaac Taylor

from New Cyclopaedia of Prose Illustrations · Elon Foster

Sympathy, Sensitive

Some people naturally respond with deep sympathy at the slightest sign of suffering.

Like the sea-anemone, which feels the first returning wave upon the rock, and throws out all its tendrils; so the tender nature of some individuals will give forth all its sympathies at the slightest intimations of woe. Rev. J. Everett.

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Sympathy, Sentimental

Feeling sympathy without practical help is insufficient to truly aid those in need.

A poor woman was reduced to extreme poverty by the loss of her cow, her only means of support. A neighbor, who was unable to give aid, personally went round to different ones to solicit money to buy another one. He went from one to another, and told the pitiful tale. Each offered sorrow and regret, but none practical assistance. He became impatient after being answered as usual by a plentiful shower of feeling, and exclaimed, "Oh, yes! I don't doubt your feeling; but you don't feel in the right place." — "Oh!" said he, "I feel with all my heart and soul." — "Yes, yes," replied the solicitor, "I don't doubt that either; but I want you to feel in your pocket."

from New Cyclopaedia of Prose Illustrations · Elon Foster

The Judge Offering To Die With The Criminal

A judge offers to die with his condemned father, moving others to mercy.

While Octavius was at Samos, after the battle of Actium, which made him master of the universe, he held a council to examine the prisoners who had been engaged in Antony's party. Among the rest, there was brought before him an old man, Metellus, oppressed with years and infirmities, disfigured with a long beard, a neglected head of hair, and tattered clothes. The son of this Metellus was one of the judges; but it was with great difficulty he knew his father in the deplorable condition in which he saw him. At last, however, having recollected his features, instead of being ashamed to own him, he ran to embrace him. Then turning towards the tribunal, he said: "Caesar, my father has been your enemy, and I your officer; he deserves to be punished, and I to be rewarded. One favor I desire of you; it is, either to save him on my account, or order me to be put to death with him." All the judges were touched with compassion at this affecting scene; Octavius himself relented, and granted to old Metellus his life and liberty.

from Cyclopaedia of Moral and Religious Anecdotes · Kazlitt Arvine

Hospitality Among Turks

Poor Turkish villagers share food generously, demonstrating remarkable hospitality.

Mr. Arundel, in his Discoveries in Asia Minor, says: We dismounted at the Oda, a lodging house for travellers, in the village of Cooselare, or Coselare. It was certainly not a palace, for we shared it with our horses, and there were holes, called windows, without glass or shutters; but the hospitality of our hosts more than compensated for every thing else.

We had trakana soup, pilau, cheese, and petmes, and surprised were we to see our table-cloth, or table-skin, soon after laid, the pancake bread placed all around, and the smoking viands in the midst. It was the more surprising, since we were unexpected guests; and, as the village seemed wretchedly poor, we ventured to ask an explanation; and we learned that our fare was the contribution of many families: the trakana soup was supplied by one, the pilau by a second, the petmes by a third, the bread by a fourth; but all were emulous to feed the furnished strangers with as little loss of time as possible: and these were Turks!

from Cyclopaedia of Moral and Religious Anecdotes · Kazlitt Arvine

Measuring Feeling

Empathy varies greatly; true compassion measures the depth of feeling for others.

A respectable merchant of London, having been embarrassed in his circumstances, and his misfortunes having been one day the subject of conversation in the Royal Exchange, several persons expressed great sorrow; when a foreigner who was present, said, "I feel five hundred pounds for him, what do you feel?"

from Cyclopaedia of Moral and Religious Anecdotes · Kazlitt Arvine

Pinel And The Luna

Pinel advocated compassion by removing chains from the mentally ill in Paris.

TICS.—In 1792, Pinel, who had been for some time chief physician to the Bicetre, or mad-house of Paris, begged repeatedly of the public authorities, to let him remove the chains from the furious. His applications having been unsuccessful, he presented himself before the commune of Paris, and repeating his objections with increased warmth, urged a reform of such monstrous treatment. "Citizen," said one of the members to him, "I will to-morrow go to visit the Bicetre; but wo betide thee, if thou deceivest us, and concealest any of the enemies of the people amongst thy insane."

This member of the commune was Couthon. The next day he went to the Bicetre. Couthon was himself as strange a spectacle as any whom he visited. Deprived of the use of his lower extremities, and compelled to be borne on the arms of others, he appeared, says Pinel, a fraction of humanity implanted on another's body; and from out of this deformity, pronounced in a feeble and feminine voice, merciless sentences proceeded, sentences of death; for death was the only logic that then prevailed. the success of my prescription, but refused the fee.

Bundy And The Fero

Kindness and prayer can reach even the most violent and desperate sinners.

CIOUS PRISONER.—The power of kindness is seen in the case of Haynes, executed in 1799 at Bristol, Eng. He was heavily ironed, yet so extremely turbulent and outrageous, that the other prisoners stood in fear of him, and were obliged to be constantly on their guard. It became necessary even to call out the military; but this only irritated him, and made him worse. He would expose his naked breast to the soldiers' bayonets, dare them to run him through, and say he would rather be shot dead than surrender himself to them. Yet, when force failed, remonstrance succeeded; for he actually delivered up to the persuasions of a gentleman, a weapon which a file of soldiers were unable to take from him. A pious minister by the name of Bundy, used to visit him, and at length told the keeper he wished to spend the night with the felon. He was warned of his danger; but, moved with compassion, he persisted, and entered the prisoner's cell. Finding him prostrate on the floor under the weight of his irons, he persuaded the keeper to let him have one hand and foot at liberty. The keeper retired late at night, locking after him three massive doors; and Haynes, immediately lifting up his liberated hand, and reaching a clasped knife he had concealed, rushed fiercely towards him, exclaiming with the voice and looks of a demon, "Now thou art in my power, I will kill thee." The man of God thought his end had come; but suddenly recalling the passage, "thou canst have no power over me unless it be given thee from above," was instantly raised above all fear, and calmly met the enraged culprit, to whom he kindly said, "Now, my friend, what harm have I done you, or of what service would my death be to you?" He then spoke of the love of Christ, and assured the felon, that he was ready to receive all, even the most wicked, who came to him. These words of kindness softened the culprit's heart; he threw down the knife, acknowledging his guilt, and burst into tears. Deeply convicted at length of sin, he asked if it was possible for such a sinner as himself ever to be saved? The anguish of his mind was extreme; he would often weep bitterly in view of his sins; and there is reason to hope that he died a sincere penitent.

Isaac Hopper And Cain

Kindness and forgiveness can transform a profane, hardened man into a changed person.

When Isaac Hopper lived in Philadelphia, his attention was drawn to a colored waiter, called Cain, who was remarkable for profanity. Neither persuasion nor rebuke had any effect to change this bad habit. One day Hopper encountered him in the street, quarreling and pouring forth volleys of oaths that made one shudder. Having faith in fines and constables, Hopper took him before a magistrate, who fined him for blasphemy.

Twenty years after, Isaac met Cain, whom he had not seen for a very long time. His outward appearance was much changed for the worse; his garments were tattered, and his person emaciated. This touched the Friend's heart. He stepped up, shook hands, and spoke kindly to the forlorn being. "Dost not thou remember me," said the Quaker, "and how I had thee fined for swearing?" "Yes, indeed, I do; I remember what I paid as well as yesterday." "Well, did it do thee any good?" "No, never a bit; it made me mad to have my money taken from me."

Hopper invited Cain to reckon up the interest on the fine, and paid him principal and interest. "I meant it for thy good, Cain, and I am sorry I did thee any harm."

Cain's countenance changed; the tears rolled down his cheeks; he took the money with many thanks; became a quiet man, and was heard to swear no more.

Azel Backus And The Heathen

True compassion acts immediately to save those in danger, unlike indifferent religious leaders.

At a festival at Ganesa's (Gumputtee's) temple in Ceylon, while the multitude of worshipers, assembled at the temple, were engaged in boiling their rice for an offering, one of them who went for water, fell into the well. As soon as the circumstance was made known to the crowd, they rushed to the well, and among them was the pandarum (priest) of the temple, who, as soon as he had gratified his curiosity, returned to the temple. None among them manifested the least concern for the unfortunate man who was sunk in the water. They looked into the well, and talked about the man in such imminent danger with the most perfect indifference. Not an individual seemed to think assistance could or ought to be rendered, till one of the headmen came to the spot: he exerted all his influence to induce some one to dive into the water, which any person accustomed to swimming might have done with perfect safety, but his efforts were in vain. He then sent for the priest, who was known to be an expert swimmer. At the command of the headman he came, but excused himself from the act of mercy required of him, by saying that he could not absent himself so long from the duties of the temple without sustaining a loss. Just at this moment came to the place a young man, unknown to the crowd, who, as soon as he learned that a fellow being was drowning, threw aside his garment, and leaped into the well. After repeatedly diving, he found the body, and raised it to the surface of the water, from which it was taken by the by-standers. As soon as the noise and confusion occasioned by taking out the lifeless body had subsided, a loud whisper passed along the crowd, "Who is that young man? Who is that good man?" They were not a little surprised, and some of the enemies of Christianity confounded, when they were told that this good Samaritan was Azel Backus, a Christian! This event did not a little towards stopping the mouths, and weakening the strength of some who were arrayed against Christians and the cause in which they are engaged; and is to all, who have any knowledge of Scripture, a striking comment on the words of inspiration, "Overcome evil with good."

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