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176 Sermon Illustrations on Compassion

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Compassion in Christian preaching emphasizes active love and empathy toward those in need, reflecting Christ's heart for the hurting (Matthew 25:35-40). Illustrations often use vivid pictures of practical kindness—feeding the hungry, comforting the sorrowful, and bearing one another's burdens—to show how small acts of mercy embody God's grace and build bridges of reconciliation.

Understanding, Sympathetic

Mutual understanding leads to less conflict and more friendship between people.

If I knew you and you knew me-- If both of us could clearly see, And with an inner sight divine The meaning of your heart and mine, I’m sure that we would differ less And clasp our hands in friendliness; Our thoughts would pleasantly agree If I knew you and you knew me.

--NIXON WALTERMAN, _Epworth Herald_.

Vibration

A son's self-sacrifice leads a king to abolish cannibalism, showing vicarious compassion.

See COMMUNICATION, PSYCHICAL.

VICARIOUS SACRIFICE

Dr. Turner, in his book on the Samoan Islands, tells the following incident:

The people were cannibals, the King, Mahetoa, leading in the horrible practise. His young son, Polu, hated the heathenish and brutal custom, and one day, when he saw a poor boy waiting to be killed and served as a tender morsel for the King’s dinner, he was touched with pity and said, “Don’t cry; I will try and save you.” So he drest himself in coconut leaves and had himself served just as tho he had been killed and roasted whole. The King came to the table, and looked down at the cannibal dish, saw two bright eyes looking up at him. He recognized his son, and the thought flashed through his heathen mind, “What if it were, indeed, my dear son, whose body had been cooked for my meal!” He was touched, too, by the magnanimity of his boy, taking the other lad’s place, and he abolished cannibalism by law from his kingdom from that day. (Text.)

from Cyclopedia of Illustrations for Public Speakers · Robert Scott and William C. Stiles

Elp Us

Mark 8:36

Immigrants generally excel, because they know they can only gain.

Wayne Elpus and story of his immigrant grandfather.

They were dirt-poor and coming from Poland. Grandpa knew only one English phrase - "Help us." When the government official on Ellis Island asked for his name, grandpa responded, "Help us." The official wrote down Elpus, and that's what it's been ever since. Grandpa never even told the family what their real name was. He never looked back.

from Personal Family History Of Wayne Elpus via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database compassion

One Good Turn Deserves Another

Acts 24:3

In the bloody chaos of Falaise [in Normandy after D-Day], Lt. Hans-Heinrich Dibbern, of Panzer Grenadier Regiment 902, set up a roadblock outside Argentan. "From the direction of the American line came an ambulance driving toward us," he remembered. "The driver was obviously lost. When he noticed that he was behind German lines, he slammed on the brakes." Dibbern went to the ambulance. "The driver's face was completely white. He had wounded men he was responsible for. But we told him, 'Back out of here and get going. We don't attack the Red Cross.' He quickly disappeared."

An hour or so later "here comes another Red Cross truck. It pulls up right in front of us. The driver got out, opened the back, and took out a crate. He set it down on the street and drove away. We feared a bomb, but nothing happened and we were curious. We opened the box and it was filled with Chesterfield cigarettes."

from American Heritage Magazine, Article: Medic! · Stephen E. Ambrose via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database compassiongiftenemy

Good News For Homosexuals

Romans 8

Poor Brooklyn preacher does funeral for AIDS victim. 25-30 homosexuals watched frozenly. Gave generic sermon, went to graveside. No one spoke. When he was done they didn't move. He turned to ask if there was anything further he could do for them, and one asked him to read the 23rd Psalm. A second asked for Romans 8. 'When I read to those men that nothing could separate them from the love of God, I saw some signs of emotion on their faces for the first time. Then, one after the other, they made special requests for me to read favorite passages of Scripture. I stood there for an hour reading Scripture to those homosexual men before we went to our cars.'

Homosexuals feel Christians despise them. But we must love neighbors. They need justice and non-discrimination.

Orientation must be distinguished from behavior. God does not expect them to be converted into heterosexuals. Not all prayers are answered. Tension led one Christian gay to commit suicide.

Homosexual orientation is inborn, not acquired. Biological factors cause it. Horomones may be a key. Most homosexuals do not choose it. Condition is due to fallen condition of Nature.

Romans 1 is not against "unnatural gays" but against all gay behavior. 1 Cor 6:9 and 1 Tim 1:10 may be against pedastery. Much preaching against homosexuality is due to homophobia and twists Scripture.

Covenants of love are possible among Christian homosexuals as long as there is no sex. It is not the same as marriage. Communities with this commitment are also possible. Cure for their loneliness.

The gospel is good news for homosexuals.

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from 20 Hot Potatoes Christians Are Afraid To Touch · Tony Campolo via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database sexcompassionbibleprayer

The Eloquence of God's Silence

Job 3:23

Theologian John Carmody is seriously ill. At the University of Tulsa, he gave the Warren Lecture Series. In his address, “A Theology of Illness,” he advised:

“When you deal with people seriously ill, either yourself or others, try to honor the eloquence of God’s silence. Babble if you must, as I have babbled here, but accept every invitation to desist. If the illness is your own, go for a walk, sit in a chapel, or just hold the loved ones you most cherish. If the illness is another’s, listen for the time to stay silent, as well as the time to speak. There is a time to speak, but also a time to hold silence — to take it to your bosom like a love. There is a time to assault God, accuse God, but also a time to wait and leave God free ...

“As you move along through your own via crucis [way of the cross], let your spirit flow out of the mystery of the stations of the cross. Reciprocally, let their mystery flow in to your spirit. Well or ill, but especially ill, you are part of something much greater. You did not make yourself, and you cannot raise yourself. But what you cannot do, God can. All things are possible with God … So, let nothing disturb you. Let nothing surprise you. The splendor in your death, as in your life, has yet to be revealed. In the morning thank God for it. In your evening, say, ‘So be it. Laus Deo semper.’”

[As quoted in Martin E. Marty, Context, (1 March 1994), 3.]

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Copyright © 1997 by Communication Resources, Inc.

The Battle Over Animal Rights

In-depth presentation on animal rights and experimentation. Benefits and costs outlined. Militant Fran Stephanie Trutt planted a radio-controlled pipe bomb near the Untied States Surgical Corp. Chairman's parking place. The Animal Liberation Front is a militant group.

Examples of abuse of animals: baby monkeys were stabbed by mechanical mothers and killed by psychotic real ones, to study human child abuse. Benefits: smallpox and polio vaccines. Jane McCabe (p55) argues for research because her 9 year old daughter Clair has cystic fibrosis.

"What is the relevant difference between a human subject and an animal subject? ... [A] possible answer is that we humans enjoy certain God-given prerogatives. We are, after all, the only creatures the Bible says were made in God's image. 'Most Judeo-Christian religions make distinctions about the special nature of man,' says Frederick Goodwin, director of the Alcohol, Drug Abuse and Mental Health Administration. 'To me, that is a distinct, qualitative difference between our primate relatives and man.' It may be a difference, but it's not an empirical, observable one. It has to be taken on faith."

[Above verses speak of compassion toward animals, and man's superiority over them.]

A Heart That Is Sickened Over Sin

Charles M. Alexander was the songleader for R.A. Torrey. He wanted to see the New York City nightlife so he would be a more effective evangelist. He and Sam Hadley, director of a street mission, went to bars, houses of ill-repute, and so on. At 2 a.m. he was sickened and asked to leave. Hadley was also sickened and leaned against a lamppost, while crying, "Oh-h God! Oh-h God! The sin of this city is breaking my heart. Oh-h-h God!" Hadley's heart was filled with compassion for the lost.

from Discipleship Journal · Rod Beidler via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database evangelismemotion

A Missionary In Vietnam

Mark 8:36

Beidler served in Vietnam and was able to work in a small mission church in Saigon. He grew to love the people and led several of them to the Lord.

Congo Martyrs

Mark 10:30

Missionary Paul Carlson was killed in 1964 when he returned to his hospital in the Belgian Congo after taking his family to safety. Rebels captured 250 and shot at them when government troops attempted a rescue; 30 were killed, including Carlson. TIME magazine put him on its cover on December 4, 1964.

from Christianity Today magazine via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database missionscompassion

Children: Who Needs Them?

Mark 6:34

What the Bible teaches about children. They teach us about humanity.

Christian love is not just duty but compassion and affection. Children make

good spiritual teachers.

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The Benefits of Believing

Psalms 103

Sermon on Psalm 103, for communion.

1. God is loving and compassionate.

2. His love is as high as heaven.

3. His forgiveness is from east to west.

4. He is compassionate beyond human fathers.

5. He knows our limitations, because he doesn't have any.

A Neighbor's Simple Compassion

Job 2:11

When Edgar Guest, the American poet and writer, was a young man, his first child died. Writes Guest:

"There came a tragic night when our first baby was taken from us. I was lonely and defeated. There didn’t seen to be anything in life ahead of me that mattered very much.

"I had to go to my neighbor’s drugstore the next morning for something, and he motioned for me to step behind the counter with him. I followed him into his little office at the back of the store. He put both hands on my shoulders and said, ‘Eddie, I can’t really express what I want to say, the sympathy I have in my heart for you. All I can say is that I’m sorry, and I want you to know that if you need anything at all, come to me. What is mine is yours.'"

Years later Guest reminisced upon that incident. He said, "Just a neighbor across the way - a passing acquaintance. Jim Potter (the druggist) may long since have forgotten that moment when he gave me his hand and his sympathy, but I shall never forget it - never in all my life. To me it stands out like the silhouette of a lonely tree against a crimson sunset."

When we show others compassion, it will never be forgotten.

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Rev. Brett Blair adds this conclusion:

I have wondered how it is that I want people to remember me when I come to end of my life's journey.

[name some accomplishments followed by] But I really don't care if someone remembers me for that. I really don't.

I do hope that people are able to say of me at the end of my life's pilgrimage: When we were sick he came to us; when we needed help, he was there; when I was down, he lifted me up. In short, I hope that my ministry is remembered for simple acts of kindness. For if that is the case, then my life would have been worth it and I might have come close to fulfilling the greatest commandment in life: Love God and love your neighbor. And I might hear Christ say, "You are not far from the Kingdom of God."

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Clinical Notes of A Former Pharisee

Luke 18:9

Dr. David Schiedermayer is a Christian physician who treats AIDS patients. He saw them as different from other sick people because they had gotten their disease from a sinful lifestyle. He especially saw them as different from himself. He would treat them, but not identify with them.

Then the parable of the Pharisee and the Tax Collector (Luke 18:9-14) hit him. He wrote:

“When we begin by despising others in our hearts - - by thinking ourselves righteous in comparison to them - we prove Jesus’ words to be true. I began my treatment of my first AIDS patient with the attitude of a Pharisee. I didn’t considered the possibility that this stigmatized man had repented and been forgiven while I was still in my sins. In my heart, I approved of his suffering and inevitable death. I now count all these sins equal to his - no, much greater, according to Jesus.”

from Christianity Today magazine · Dr. David L. Schiedermayer via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database

Ability To Be Bothered Shows Your Faith

Luke 11:5

Your ability to be bothered shows your faith.

Speaker at Christian conference: If you had an urgent need at 2:00 am, do you know someone in your church who would help you? Not one person raised their hand!

I mentioned it to Celeste, and we both agreed there are people in this church we could go to. More than a few. But we would call them in a certain order!

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from (James Commentary On Chapter 2) via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database compassion

Compassion Fatigue

Luke 4:18

When William Tecumseh Sherman’s army marched through Georgia in 1864, about 25,000 blacks followed his infantry columns, until Sherman and his soldiers decided to rid themselves of the followers by hurrying across an unfordable stream and then taking up the pontoon bridge, leaving the ex-slaves stranded on the opposite bank. Many tried to swim across but died in the icy water.

Similarly today, many of the stranded poor will soon be abandoned by a country that has seen welfare failure and is lapsing into a skeptical and even cynical “compassion [fatigue?] syndrome” — unless we find a way to renew the American dream of compassion.

from Imprimis, Hillsdale College Newsletter · Marvin Olasky, Senior Fellow of "Progress and Freedom Foundation" via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database poorcharity

The New Welfare Debate: How To Practice Effective Compassion

Amos 5:11

America had successful anti-poverty programs a century ago — successful because they embodied personal, material, and spiritual involvement and challenge.

This vital story has generally been ignored by liberal historians, but the documented history goes like this: During the nineteenth century, a successful war on poverty was waged by tens of thousands of local, private charitable agencies and religious groups around the country. The platoons of the greatest charity army in American history often were small. They were made up of volunteers led by poorly paid but deeply dedicated professional managers. And they were highly effective.

Thousands of eyewitness accounts and journalistic assessments show that poverty fighters of the nineteenth century did not abolish poverty, but they enabled millions of people to escape it. They saw springs of fresh water flowing among the poor, not just blocks of ice sitting in a perpetual winter of multi-generational welfare dependency. And the optimism prevalent then contrasts sharply with the demoralization among the poor and the cynicism among the better-off that is so common now.

What was their secret? It was not neglect. It was their understanding of the literal and biblical meaning of compassion, which comes from two Latin words — “com,” which means “with,” and “pati,” which means “to suffer.” The word points to personal involvement with the needy, suffering with them, not just giving to them. “Suffering with” means adopting hard-to-place babies, providing shelter to women undergoing crisis pregnancies, becoming a big brother to a fatherless child, working one-on-one with a young single mother. It is not easy — but it works.

from Imprimis, Hillsdale College Newsletter · Marvin Olasky, Senior Fellow of "Progress and Freedom Foundation" via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database poorinvolvementcharity

They All Shaved Their Heads

Job 2:11

Last spring, Mr. Alter’s fifth-grade class of Lake Elementary School in Oceanside, California, included fourteen boys who had no hair. Only one, however, had no choice in the matter.

Ian O’Gorman, undergoing chemotherapy for lymphoma, faced the prospect of having his hair fall out in clumps. So he had his head shaved. But then 13 of his classmates shaved their heads, so Ian wouldn’t feel out of place.

“If everybody has his head shaved, sometimes people don’t know who’s who,” said 11-year old Scott Sebelius in an Associated Press story (March 1994), “They don’t know who has cancer, and who just shaved their head.”

Ten year old Kyle Hanslik started it all. He talked to some other boys, and before long they all trekked to the barber shop. “The last thing he would want is to not fit in,” said Kyle. “We just wanted to make him feel better.”

Ian’s father, Shawn, choked back tears as he talked about what the boys had done. He said simply, “It’s hard to put words to.”

“Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ” (Gal 6:2)

from Leadership · Sherman L. Burford; Fairmont, West Virginia via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database compassion

Bidding From the Heart

John 1:29

Jayne Fisher watched anxiously as her 17-year-old daughter Katie pulled her unruly lamb into the arena of the Madison County Junior Livestock sale. With luck, Katie wouldn’t collapse, as she had during a livestock show the day before.

Katie was battling cancer. This was her first chance in months to be outdoors having fun, away from hospitals and chemotherapy treatments, and she had come with high hopes for earning some sizable spending money. She had wavered a little on her decision to part with the lamb, but with lamb averaging two dollars a pound, Katie was looking forward to a lot more than pin money. So she centered the lamb for viewing, and the bidding began.

That’s when Roger Wilson, the auctioneer, had a sudden inspiration that brought some unexpected results. “We sort of let folks know that Katie had a situation that wasn’t too pleasant,” is how he tells it. He hoped that his introduction would push the bidding up, at least a little bit.

Well, the lamb sold for $11.50 a pound, but things didn’t stop there. The buyer paid up, then decided to give the lamb back so that it could be sold again.

That started a chain reaction, with families buying the animal and giving it back, over and over again. When local businesses started buying and returning, the earnings really began to pile up. The first sale is the only one Katie’s mom remembers. After that, she was crying too hard as the crowd kept shouting, “Resell! Resell!”

Katie’s lamb was sold 36 times that day, and the last buyer gave it back for good. Katie ended up with more than $16,000 for a fund to pay her medical expenses - and she still got to keep her famous lamb.

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By Rita Price, from A 4th Course of Chicken Soup for the Soul, Copyright 1997 by Jack Canfield, Mark Victor Hansen, Hanoch McCarty & Meladee McCarty

from Internet: Chicken Soup Of The Day · Rita Price via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database cancer

Neighbors

Mark 12:33

John Duckworth’s mother had a wide interpretation of “neighbor.” At Christmas and other times of the year she would visit nursing homes and run-down homes blocks away to share gifts and cheer for no other reason than that she was a neighbor.

from Discipleship Journal · John Duckworth via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database outreachministry

Mother Teresa

Mark 10:42

In the winter of 1988, nuns of the Missionaries of Charity, an order led by Nobel laureate Mother Teresa, were walking through the snow in the South Bronx in their saris and sandals to look for an abandoned building that they might convert into a homeless shelter. They came to 2 fire-gutted buildings on 148th Street and, finding a Madonna among the rubble thought that perhaps Providence itself had ordained the mission. New York City offered the abandoned buildings at one dollar each, and the Missionaries of Charity raised $500,000 for the reconstruction. For a year and a half, the nuns traveled from hearing room to hearing room, presenting the details of the project to city government officials. Finally, in the fall of 1989, the project won approval.

Providence, however, was no match for the law. After they had begun reconstruction, the nuns were informed that the building code required an elevator in every new or renovated multiple-story building. It would add $100,000 to the cost, and the law could not be waived even if an elevator didn't make sense. Mother Teresa and the nuns gave up. They didn't devote that much extra money to something that wouldn't really help the poor.

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Version in Rev. Brett Blair's "Illustrations by e-mail," September 26, 1999:

In the winter of 1988, nuns of the Missionaries of Charity were walking through the snow in the South Bronx in their Saris and sandals looking for an abandoned building that they might convert into a homeless shelter. Mother Teresa, the Nobel Prize winner and head of the order, had agreed on a plan with Mayor Ed Koch after visiting him in the hospital several years earlier. The nuns found two fire-gutted buildings on 148th Street, and the city of New York offered the buildings to the mission at one dollar each. The Missionaries of Charity set aside 500,000 for reconstruction. The plan was to create a facility that would provide temporary care for sixty-four homeless men. The buildings would provide a communal setting that included a dining room and kitchen on the first floor, a lounge on the second floor, and small dormitory rooms on the third and fourth floors. The members of the order, in addition to taking a vow of poverty, avoid the routine use of modern conveniences. As a result, the facility would have no dishwashers or other appliances, and laundry would be done by hand. For New York City, the proposed facility was a godsend. Then Mother Teresa's Missionaries of charity encountered the bureaucracy of New York City, For a year and a half, the nuns, wanting only to live lives of service, found themselves traveling from hearing room to hearing room, presenting the details of the project. In September 1989, the city finally approved the plan and the Missionaries of Charity began repairing the fire-damaged buildings.

Then, after almost two years, the nuns were told that according to New York's building code every new or renovated multistory building must have an elevator. The Missionaries of Charity explained that because of their beliefs they would never use the elevator, which would also add $100,000 to the cost of the project. The nuns were told that the law could not be waived even if the elevator would not be used.

Mother Teresa gave up. She did not want to devote that extra money to something that would not really help the poor. According to the representative, "The Sisters felt they could use the money much more usefully for soup and sandwiches." In a polite letter to the city expressing their regrets, the Missionaries of Charity noted that the episode "served to educate us about the law and its many complexities."

As Philip K. Howard observes, no one decided to spite Mother Teresa. It was just the law. Yet he argues that the story of the Missionaries of Charity in New York reflects how rules can replace thinking. The result? What Howard calls "the death of common sense."

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Philip K. Howard, The Death of Common Sense: How Law is Suffocating America, New York: Random House, 1994, 3-4. Adapted by James Emery White, Rethinking The Church, Baker Books, Grand Rapids: Baker, 1997, 92-93.

[see also #3089]

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He Became Homosexual-Free Via Parents' Love

John 8:1

Using his parents’ love as an example, Mike Hawkins, of the Christian AIDS Network, said individuals need love and personal acceptance to break away from a homosexual lifestyle.

Hawkins’ father, Marlin, is controller for the Baptist General Convention of Oklahoma. His mother, Patsy, works part-time for the BGCO. They are members of Council Road Baptist Church, Bethany.

“My parents told me they could not accept my lifestyle, but they would never stop loving me,” said Hawkins, a former homosexual who has AIDS said in an address at Oklahoma Baptist University, Shawnee. “A lot of people quoted 1 Corinthians 6:9 to me, trying to get me back on the right path, but that only made me want to stay (a homosexual) because it sounded like rejection. But they never read verse 11 to me.

“Verse 11 says I can be washed,” Hawkins said. “It says I can be free.”

Hawkins said he came to a point in his life where he believed he was born homosexual. As a pre-school child, his only playmates were girls and by the time he had started school, he could not relate to the games other boys were playing.

By the time his junior high and high school years had rolled around, he had already been labeled “queer.” He said he wanted friendships with other boys, but every time he attempted to have one, he was ridiculed.

“I desperately wanted to have male friends,” Hawkins said. “I wanted that so badly. I later mistook that as a homosexual longing. It wasn’t so much a choice, but a trap I fell into that Satan had set.”

Hawkins used the illustration of a washing machine that was sure it was a television until it looked at the instruction manual and found out differently.

“We have an instruction manual from our Creator, too. It’s the Bible. I was not born that way ... so how do I get out of it?” asked Hawkins. “I couldn’t do it. But then I realized I wasn’t supposed to do it. I was supposed to release my life to God. I work with people who are struggling to get out of that lifestyle. God can change your heart and your life when you can’t do it yourself. I stand before you today 100 percent homosexual-free by the grace of God.”

Hawkins said it was the love of his parents that first inspired him to make a change.

“No matter how much I hurt them or deliberately made them cry, they were there for me,” Hawkins said. “They told me they could not accept my lifestyle because of what God’s Word says, but they would never stop loving me.”

In December 1991, Hawkins was hospitalized with an AIDS-related disease. He and his parents, who had kept his homosexuality a secret, decided they would need the support of their friends.

“As we began to tell people, instead of the rejection we had expected, and instead of people running away from us, people came running to us,” Hawkins recounted. “The church was incredibly supportive. All those years we carried the burden alone, but when we needed Christians to be Christian, they were.

“And no one asked how this happened,” he said. “When people you know have AIDS, don’t ask them how they got it. That question sends the signal, ‘depending on how you got the disease determines how I will respond to you.’”

Hawkins said he has occasionally had trouble dealing with the fact that he has AIDS.

“I would say to God, ‘Why me? You knew beforehand that I was going to come out of this; why did you let me get this disease?’” Hawkins said. “But Paul says in 2 Corinthians 12:7, that when I am weak, then I am strong. For me, AIDS doesn’t stand for Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome. It stands for Adventure In Divine Submission.”

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Fink is a newswriter at Oklahoma Baptist University. Copyright (c) 1995 Baptist Press

The Little Animal Meets A Miracle Worker

Job 13:15

"Little Annie" was hopelessly insane. As a young girl she was kept in a cage on the lowest level of a Boston asylum. The doctors saw no hope for her, so she was confined to a damp, dark basement. Here she lived in a world with little light and even less hope. "Little Annie" was like an unpredictable animal. At times, she would violently attack anyone who came near her. At other moments, she existed in a fugue state and was seemingly unaware of anyone's presence.

Into this dark dungeon of "Little Annie's" world came an elderly nurse. The nurse had a special compassion for this hopeless cause, and she began to eat her lunch just outside of Annie's cage. The child gave no indication that she even noticed the woman. One day, the nurse left some brownies just outside of "Little Annie's" cage. The girl didn't seem to care. The nurse left them for the girl anyway, and on her return, the brownies were gone. This became a regular appointment for these two women. Each week the nurse brought brownies for "Little Annie."

They began to eat lunch together, and the hopeless cause began to talk to the nurse. The doctors began to notice a change in the young girl, and soon she was moved to the main floor. She began to show great improvement, and after several years of treatment it was felt that she was well enough to return to her home. But this hopeless cause decided to stay at the asylum and help others who were without hope, as she had been. It was "Little Annie" who grew up to give help to Helen Keller and others like her. "Little Annie" was Anne Sullivan, the miracle worker.

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Another version by Roddy Chestnut:

A number of years ago, in a mental institution just outside Boston, Massachusetts, a young girl known as "Little Annie" was locked in the dungeon. This institution was one of the more enlightened ones for the treatment of the mentally disturbed. However, the doctors felt that a dungeon was the only place for those who were "hopelessly" insane. In Little Annie's case, they saw no hope for her, so she was confined to a living death in that small cage which received little light and even less hope.

About that time, an elderly nurse in the institution was nearing retirement. She felt there was hope for all of God's creatures, so she started taking her lunch into the dungeon and eating outside Little Annie's cage. She felt perhaps she could communicate some love and hope to that small girl.

In many ways, Little Annie was like an animal. On occasion, she would violently attack the person who came into her cage. At other times, she would completely ignore them. When the elderly nurse brought some brownies when she made her Thursday visit. Soon, the doctors in the institution noticed a change was taking place. After a period of time, they decided to move Little Annie upstairs. Finally, the day came when this "hopeless case" was told she could return home. But Little Annie did not wish to leave. The place had meant so much to her she felt she could make a contribution if she stayed and worked with the other patients. The elderly nurse had seen and brought out so much in her life that Little Annie felt she could see and help develop something in others.

Many years later, Queen Victoria of England, while pinning England's highest award on a foreigner, asked Helen Keller, "How do you account for your remarkable accomplishments in life? How do you explain the fact that even though you were both blind and deaf, you were able to accomplish so much?" Without a moment's hesitation, Helen Keller said that had it not been for Ann Sullivan (Little Annie), the name of Helen Keller would have been unknown.

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See also HolwickID #64615

from 50 Day Spiritual Adventure, Chapel Of The Air · Dr. Bill Ankerberg, Homewood Church; Homewood, Illinois via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database rescuecompassionpersistence

Suffering Is Where Jesus Is

Job 2:13

Christians in every time, place, and age have faced trials, setbacks, and difficulties, most greater than our own. Yet, in the midst of those moments, the light of Christ shines brighter still.

In one example particularly relevant on the heels of COVID-19, Dr. Jeff Myers describes how Christians faced the bubonic plague in 14th-century Europe. One-third to one-half of Europe’s total population died during the Black Death, and as one contemporary wrote,

One man shunned another ... kinsfolk held aloof, brother was forsaken by brother, oftentimes husband by wife; nay, what is more, and scarcely to be believed, fathers and mothers were found to abandon their own children to their fate, untended, unvisited as if they had been strangers.

Yet, in the face of this calamity, many Christians lived differently. St. Catherine of Siena was an example of someone who, when the plague reached her city in 1370, cared for its victims, changed linens, provided food, prayed, and listened to deathbed confessions. The mortality rate for clergy at this time was far higher than the general population, but their lives launched a revolution in medicine which laid the foundations of our modern hospital system.

“Why run toward suffering rather than away from it?” asks Myers. Because of what is true about suffering: “in suffering we draw near to God, as he has drawn near to us through Jesus. If you want to be with Jesus, you sit with the suffering. That’s where Jesus is.”

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Adapted from "Truth Changes Everything," BreakPoint Commentary by John Stonestreet and Kasey Leander, November 1, 2022. Copyright (c) 2022 Prison Fellowship Ministries. Reprinted with permission. "BreakPoint" is a radio ministry of Prison Fellowship Ministries.

from BreakPoint Commentary · John Stonestreet & Kasey Leander via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database caringcompassion

Beyond Infosermons: How To Preach With Impact, Not Just Information

Luke 3:11

An extended story from the National Storytelling Festival that applies to Matthew 25:

At the beginning of the sixteenth century, the Jews were expelled from Spain. Many went to France, Germany, Greece, and some went to the Holy Land. Among them was Jacoby, a shoemaker by trade.

Jacoby was a kind man; but most of all, Jacoby was a devout man. He went to the synagogue every Sabbath and listened to what the rabbi was saying, even though Jacoby spoke Spanish and the rabbi spoke Hebrew.

One Sabbath, the rabbi mentioned in his sermon how at one time twelve loaves of bread were offered to God. Jacoby heard and understood the words bread and God, and he got excited. He ran home and said to his wife, “Esperanza! Guess what? God eats bread! And you are the best baker in the whole country! This week make your best bread, and I’ll bring it to God.”

That week Esperanza kneaded in the best ingredients and braided the dough with such love. Jacoby later took twelve loaves of bread to the synagogue.

“Senor Dios,” Jacoby said to God. “I’ve got your bread. You will love it. My wife, Esperanza, she’s a wonderful baker! You’ll eat every crumb!” Then Jacoby took the bread and put it into the holy ark.

No sooner did Jacoby leave than in came the shammes, the man who cleans up the synagogue. “Lord, you know I want to be here in this holy place; that’s all I want to do. But for seven weeks now I haven’t been paid. Lord, I need for you to make me a miracle. I believe you’re going to; maybe you have done it already. Maybe I’ll open the holy ark, and there will be my miracle.”

He walked to the ark and opened it, and there was his miracle. Twelve loaves of bread! Enough for the whole week.

The next day, Jacoby and Esperanza opened the ark and saw the bread was gone. A look of joy passed between them.

The next week it was the same. And the week after. This went on for months. The shammes learned to have faith in God, but if he hung around the synagogue, or came too early, there was no miracle.

And so thirty years went by.

Now an old man, Jacoby came one day to the synagogue with his loaves of bread. “Senor Dios,” he prayed, “I know your bread’s been lumpy lately. Esperanza’s arthritis — maybe you could do something? You’ll eat better!”

He put the bread in the ark and started to leave when suddenly the rabbi grabbed him. “What are you doing?” the rabbi demanded.

“I’m bringing God his bread,” Jacoby replied.

“God doesn’t eat bread!” said the rabbi.

Jacoby said, “He’s been eating Esperanza’s bread for thirty years.”

Then the two men heard a noise, and they hid.

No sooner did they hide, than in came the shammes. “I hate to bring it up, Lord, but you know your bread’s been lumpy lately. Maybe you could talk to an angel.”

When the shammes reached into the ark for the loaf of bread, the rabbi jumped out and grabbed him.

The rabbi angrily told the two men that what they were doing was sinful, going on and on, and all three men began to cry. Jacoby cried because he only wanted to do good. The rabbi because all this happened because of his sermon thirty years ago. And the shammes because he realized there would be no more bread.

Suddenly they heard laughter from the corner. They turned and saw the great mystic, Rabbi Isaac. Shaking his head and laughing, Rabbi Isaac said, “No, Rabbi, these men, they were not sinful. These men are devout! God has never had more pleasure than watching what goes on in your synagogue. On the Sabbath, he sits with his angels, and they laugh, watching this man bring the bread and the other man take the bread, while God gets all the credit! You must beg forgiveness of these men, Rabbi.”

Rabbi Isaac looked at Jacoby and said, “Jacoby, you must do something even more difficult. You must now bring your bread directly to the shammes and when you do, you must believe with perfect faith that it is the same as giving it to God.”

At this point of the story, I paused and then repeated the last sentence, “You must now bring your bread directly to the shammed and when you do, you must believe with perfect faith that it is the same as giving it to God.”

I concluded: “This sounds a lot like the words of another Rabbi who lived many years earlier: ‘Whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers of mine, you did for me’ (Matt. 25:40).”

Several weeks after that sermon, a church member told me she now takes an extra lunch to work each day and gives it to a homeless person in the park.

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[see #3965 for originating article on preaching with stories.]

Christian's List

Luke 12:5

Sermon on "Schindler's List." Exodus 32:31-34

CHRISTIAN'S LIST

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I. Never again?

II. The power of the gun and gas chamber.

A. Nazis held the power of life and death.

B. Christians have the power to forgive.

C. God has the ultimate power. Luke 12:5

III. Incongruence - things that don't mix.

A. Soldier stops to play piano during extermination of ghetto.

B. A sinful saint.

C. The world needs more bold sinners.

D. The courage to go against the flow.

IV. People are worth it.

A. Schindler bribed officials with booze, women, diamonds.

B. Modern people put value on life in a negative way.

C. Our lives are valuable, our souls invaluable.

V. Making lists.

A. Schlinder made a list of Jews he wanted to save.

B. Christians should have lists.

C. God has a list. Exodus 32:31-34

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The Emotions of Jesus, and Why We Need To Experience Them.

Mark 1:35

The gospel writers paint their portraits of Jesus using a kaleidoscope of brilliant “emotional” colors. Jesus felt COMPASSION; he was ANGRY, INDIGNANT, and CONSUMED WITH ZEAL; he was TROUBLED, GREATLY DISTRESSED, VERY SORROWFUL, DEPRESSED, DEEPLY MOVED, and GRIEVED; he SIGHED; he WEPT and SOBBED; he GROANED; he was IN AGONY; he was SURPRISED and AMAZED; he REJOICED VERY GREATLY and was FULL OF JOY; he GREATLY DESIRED, and he LOVED.

In our quest to be like Jesus we often overlook his emotions. Jesus reveals what it means to be fully human and made in the image of God. His emotions reflect the image of God without any deficiency or distortion. When we compare our own emotional lives to his, we become aware of our need for a transformation of our emotions so that we can be fully human, as he is.

Paul tells the Corinthians that as Christians gaze upon the glory of the Lord, “with unveiled faces,” we “are being transformed into his likeness with ever-increasing glory” (2 Cor. 3:18, NIV). The apostle is suggesting that looking intently on the Lord will bring about a metamorphosis into Christ’s image by the Spirit. Paul illustrated this kind of transformation in his own life when he told the Philippian Christians, “I long for you with the compassion of Christ” (Phil. 1:8). Paul embodied the emotions of Jesus.

Many theologians throughout history have argued strongly that God is not moved by emotions. This doctrine of the impassibility of God, developed by early Christian apologists such as Justin Martyr, sought to distinguish the God of the Bible from pagan gods whose passions led them into all kinds of scandalous behavior. It is not surprising that Christians responded to the myths of Zeus’s rapes and arbitrary vengeance with an absolute statement of divine impassibility. What they meant to emphasize was that God does not have mad, shameful passions like the gods of pagan mythology.

The question “What is God really like?” is answered during an exchange between Jesus and his disciple Philip. “Show us the Father,” Philip said. Jesus responded, “He who has seen me has seen the Father.” Not only do the emotions of Jesus reflect an essential component of the image of God, his emotions also reveal the NATURE of God. On the basis of our belief that the written Word and the Living Word give us a trustworthy revelation of God, we know that God is emotional.

If we are the body of Christ, created and redeemed to represent Jesus in our world, then we, like Paul, need to “gaze upon him” and learn to experience the emotions of Jesus. Then we can know him, and in knowing him know God, and know ourselves as we were created to be.

COMPASSION

The Gospels tell us that Jesus “felt COMPASSION.” The Greek word for “compassion” speaks literally of a sensation in the guts, but was used to speak metaphorically of an emotional sensation -- just as we speak of “heart- breaking,” “head-spinning,” or “gut-wrenching” feelings today.

For whom did Jesus feel compassion? For people in need: a leper (Mark 1:40- 41), a widow by the coffin of her only son (Luke 7:13), and two blind men (Matt. 20:34). He also felt compassion when he saw crowds starving for bread (Mark 8:2). His compassion was stirred by physical and spiritual needs. His heart broke when he saw people who were distressed and downcast, like sheep without a shepherd (Matt. 9:36).

Once, when I was living in the Philippines, one of my great mentors -- Phil Armstrong -- and I were watching small children scavenging for food on mountains of smoking garbage outside of Manila. The nauseating stench turned my stomach. When a little boy struggled to turn over a rotting dog to find something under it, Phil’s body convulsed with sobs. “O God! O God! Please, God, save these children!” Whenever I read of Jesus’ compassion for the crowds of starving people, I hear Phil’s heart-rending cry. His compassion ignited and fueled the mission movement he led, just as Jesus’ fueled his mission.

Jesus’ empathy flowed out from his intimacy with the Father. It was after a time of withdrawal to a lonely place by himself for prayer that Jesus saw the leper and felt compassion (Mark 1:35-42). It was when he was in a lonely place by himself that crowds of people came to him and he felt compassion for them (Matt. 14:13-14).

In times alone with God, Jesus gained emotional receptivity and energy. Out of these times, his vision was clear, his words were empowered, and his touch cured. He created bread, restored sight to the blind, cleansed a leper, and raised a widow’s dead son. His compassion was translated from feelings to actions. His empathy was the effective power behind them.

ANGER

Compassion moved Jesus not only to heal, but also to ANGER. In a dramatic scene, Mark portrays Jesus “looking around with anger” at religious leaders (3:5). They were concerned only to see if Jesus would break their rules by healing a man on the Sabbath. When Jesus did, they immediately plotted to kill him. But though Jesus was angry with these religious rulers, he was also “grieved by their hardness of heart.” While the cruelty of their callousness deserved his anger, the condition of their stony hearts caused him grief.

Aristotle saw clearly that “anyone can become angry -- that is easy. But to be angry with the right person, to the right degree, at the right time, for the right purpose, and in the right way -- that is not easy.” That is the challenge before us.

I look back with regret at most of my angry outbursts. But I do not regret an incident at the neighborhood pool when I was ten years old. Some teenagers were tormenting my brother Kenny, who had Down syndrome. I went ballistic -- screaming, scratching, gouging, biting. When the lifeguard pulled me off them, he told me to say I was sorry. I refused to apologize for defending my powerless brother against the “powerful” bullies. But only now is my anger mixed with grief over those who were so stunted emotionally that they were insensitive to the needs of precious people like my brother.

Jesus felt “indignant” (Mark 10:14) when his disciples did not allow mothers to bring their children to him for his blessing. The disciples’ self- importance irritated Jesus. Jesus slapped them with stinging rebukes: “Let the children come to me; stop preventing them.” Jesus then hugged the children, blessed them, and laid his hands on them (10:16). Jesus’ feeling of annoyance with the disciples quickly gave way to an outpouring of warm affection for the children.

In another instance, crass commercialism in the temple inflamed the zealous anger of Jesus and moved him to a violent action. The words of the prophet were like fire in his bones: “My house shall be called a house of prayer for all nations” (Mark 11:17, quoting Isa. 56:7). ...Though the terrified merchants running from the crack of his whip saw only the destruction of business as usual, Jesus’ anger was motivated by “zeal for your house” (John 2:17, quoting Ps. 69:9).

Recently in our town there was a discussion about building a shelter for hundreds of homeless women and children. A friend of mine said that selfish pursuits were blinding people to this desperate need. She was upset, as Jesus was, that needy people were not being given the opportunity to find and worship God. ... In both cases the origin of anger was meeting the needs of others, and the aim of anger was constructive.

Our anger is often sparked by a threat to our own self-interests and usually results in bitter hostility. We need to heed Paul’s warning: “Be angry, but do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger, and give no opportunity to the devil” (Eph. 4:26-27). The temple-cleansing story is too often used to justify incivility and unforgiving animosity.Paul knew of our propensity to legitimize our self-centeredness, and so his words on anger are full of warning. Anger is fire. When it burns destructively, it harms and destroys life. But the anger of Jesus kindles a flame within us that warms and restores life.

GRIEF

Take a moment and reread the story we call Jesus’ “triumphal entry” (Luke 19:41-44). In Roman tradition, a triumphal procession showcased a victorious general riding in a gold-covered chariot pulled by white chargers. His army marched in resplendent array behind him. Wagons loaded with spoils and slaves attested to his power.

But Jesus rode on the colt of a donkey. A motley parade of peasants and children cheered him on his way as their long-awaited king. And the emotion that best describes Jesus’ state as he rode was GRIEF.

Jesus predicted the destruction of Jerusalem as he rode down the Mount of Olives into the city. His words describing the impending catastrophe were hyphenated by sobs. He wept, he wailed with grief over the coming desolation of Jerusalem.

Jesus also wept at the tomb of Lazarus. Witnesses said, “See how he loved him” (John 11:36). When Jesus saw Mary weeping, “he was greatly disturbed in spirit and deeply moved” (11:33). When he stepped near to the tomb of his friend, “again he was greatly DISTURBED” (11:38). When the word “disturbed” was used for animal sounds, it denoted the loud, angry snorting of horses. When used for human emotions, it emphasized the mixture of anguish and rage. Jesus wept. His groans welled up from the depths of his spirit, racked his body, shook the tombs, and echoed back from them. He raged against death, that terrible enemy that had attacked this, and every, family. ...

Likewise, Jesus was “troubled in spirit” when he told his disciples that one of them would betray him (John 13:21). He grieved over this betrayal by his friend Judas. Jesus had lavishly given his love to Judas. He called Judas to be one of the inner circle with the Twelve, to be close to him, and to participate in his work. He gave Judas the moneybag. He washed his feet. He gave Judas the place of honor next to him at the table. He gave him the dipped bread, a sign of love. All the time he knew that Judas would betray him. But still Jesus did not withdraw to protect himself. He gave himself to Judas without measure, and so he set himself up to suffer the pain of betrayal. When Judas led the temple troops to arrest Jesus in the garden, Jesus called him “friend.”

The Gospels portray Jesus in the garden of Gethsemane as one who is crushed by a heavy load of grief. He did not shrink from disclosing his deepest and darkest emotions to his disciples: “I am deeply grieved, even to death” (Matt. 26:38). He begged them to stay awake and keep him company, but they “slept because of sorrow.” His emotions were too heavy for them to bear. They escaped into sleep, leaving Jesus alone. “Terror-stricken and in terrible anguish” (Mark 14:33), Jesus agonized over the awful choice to endure or to escape the cross. As he wrestled in prayer, he was drenched in his own sweat “which ran like blood to the ground” (Luke 22:44).

Jesus’ familiarity with grief should give us pause. Too often we hear Americanized versions of the gospel that offer quick fixes, easy solutions, and suffering-free discipleship. We need the reminder that the man who knew God most intimately and fulfilled his will most completely was described by Isaiah as a “suffering servant”: “Surely he has borne our grief and carried our sorrows” (53:4).

JOY

While Jesus was a “Man of Sorrows,” Luke also paints a scene where Jesus “rejoiced very greatly in the Spirit” (Luke 10:21) - which implies more than cracking a wry smile. The occasion for this outburst was the return of the 70 from their successful mission. They had been given spiritual authority over all the powers of the enemy and, like a crack swat team, had liberated hostages. There was good reason to celebrate.

But Jesus cautions them, “Do not rejoice at this, that the spirits submit to you, but rejoice that your names are written in heaven” (10:20). No matter how much power they exercised in their ministry, the ultimate source of their joy was to be rooted in their heavenly community: their names were written in heaven. Ministry is temporary. Life in the divine community is permanent. Then Jesus joyfully thanked the Father for opening the hearts of the disciples to see this and to enter into the fellowship of the Father and the Son (10:21-24). ...

On the eve of his execution, Jesus told his disciples that all he had revealed to them was so that “my joy may be in you and that your joy may be full” (John 15:11; 17:13). They should abide in his love as he always abides in the love of the Father (15:10), and they should be one as he and the Father are one (17:11). Here again joy is the mark of life within divine love relationships.

Jesus, the Man of Sorrows, was also the Man of Joy. He obeyed the will of the Father and endured the cross by focusing on the joy set before him-the joy of unshakable love relationships in the heavenly Jerusalem (Heb. 12:2, 22).

LOVE

Love permeated, guided, and empowered the spectrum of Jesus’ emotions. He felt compassion, was angry, grieved, and rejoiced because he LOVED. Love is an unshakable commitment of the will. Love transcends feelings and keeps on going when feelings falter or vanish. But love also involves and expresses emotions.

Jesus loved with strong desire. He told his friends, “I have desired with great desire to eat this Passover with you before I suffer” (Luke 22:15). The combination of the verb “desire” and the noun “desire” doubles the intensity in Jesus’ expression of his deep longing to be with his friends.

When a wealthy young man ran up to Jesus, knelt before him, and asked how he could inherit eternal life, “Jesus looked at him and loved him” (Mark 10:21). As soon as he saw him, affection welled up in his heart for him, just as sometimes when you meet someone, you get a strong feeling that this person could be your best friend.

Much is made about the difference between friendship (PHILIA) love and divine (AGAPE) love, but this is overdone. The words are used interchangeably for Jesus’ love. For example, the sisters of Lazarus sent a message to Jesus to tell him, “the one you love (PHILEO) is sick” (JOHN 11:3). Then the gospel writer tells us, “Jesus loved (AGAPAO) Martha, and her sister, and Lazarus.” The point is that Jesus loved in many different ways. All the words for love in every language of the world together are still insufficient to describe the love of Jesus.

His love led him to suffer and die. Jesus pointed to his sacrificial death as the ultimate measure of his love. “Greater love has no one than this, that one lay down his life for his friends” (John 15:13). He asks his friends to live up to that standard of love. “This is my commandment, that you love one another, just as I have loved you.... You are my friends if you do what I command you” (John 15:12, 14). To live by that standard of love requires much more than emotions. It calls for total commitment to give up your life for someone else and to trust in the power of God to keep that commitment. But loving as Jesus loves also includes emotions -- intense, diverse, deep emotions. His kind of love will arouse emotions of compassion, anger, grief, and joy.

Sometimes we want insurance against the heartbreaks of love. The way of Stoic “apathy” seems safer than the emotional traumas that inevitably accompany the way of loving as Jesus loved. But hardening ourselves against the pains of love kills the capacity to love. As C. S. Lewis warns us in THE FOUR LOVES: “To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything and your heart will certainly be wrung and possibly broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact, you must give your heart to no one, not even an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements; lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. But in that casket -- safe, dark, motionless, airless -- it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable.”

I am spellbound by the intensity of Jesus’ emotions: not a twinge of pity, but heartbroken compassion; not a passing irritation, but terrifying anger; not a silent tear, but groans of anguish; not a weak smile, but ecstatic celebration. Jesus’ emotions are like a mountain river, cascading with clear water. My emotions are more like a muddy foam or feeble trickle. Jesus invites us to come to him and drink. Whoever is thirsty and believes in him will have the river of his life flowing out from the innermost being (John 7:37-38). We are not to be merely spellbound by what we see in the emotional Jesus; we are to be unbound by his Spirit so that his life becomes our life, his emotions our emotions, to be “transformed into his likeness with ever- increasing glory.”

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G. Walter Hansen is Associate Professor of New Testament and Director Of The Global Research Institute at Fuller Theological Seminary and the author of GALATIANS, part of the IVP New Testament Commentary Series.

Copyright(c) 1997 By Christianity Today, Inc/Christianity Today Magazine. February 3, 1997 Vol. 41, No. 2, Page 42 *

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How To Get Along

Romans 12:15

Sermon in 1 Peter series. Christian virtues and harmony. 1 Pet 3:8-12

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HOW TO GET ALONG

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I. Harmonica harmony.

II. Qualities that promote harmony.

A. Be sympathetic. Romans 12:15

B. Brotherly love.

C. Be compassionate. Ephesians 4:31-32

D. Be humble.

III. How do we harmonize with rotten people?

A. Easy to be in harmony with nice people - real test is rotten ones.

B. Almost seems wrong to us - fake our feelings?

C. Receive a blessing.

IV. Why can't people just get along?

A. People need to be changed.

B. God takes moral sides.

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Great Love

Amos 4:1

In the winter of 1990, I was asked to appear on a television talk show in Toronto, Ontario, Canada. At the end of our first day of taping I was on my way back to my plush, high-rise, cable-TV, twenty-four-hour room service hotel, when I saw something I’d never seen before.

Lying on the sidewalk against a building in four inches of snow was a man sleeping with only a cardboard blanket to keep him from being completely exposed to the freezing cold. What really broke my heart was when I realized that he wore no shoes or socks.

I thought to stop and help him but was not quite sure what to do. As the traffic light turned green, it seemed life was demanding that I move along. So I did. Back in the “anything I wanted was mine” environment of my hotel, I promptly forgot about the man on the street.

Several days later, prior to the morning taping, I was having coffee and Danish in the green room at the station. All of the “important” people had left the room and it was just me and the janitor remaining.

I had seen him quietly go about his business every day while I was there, and he never said a word except “Good morning” or “Can I get anything for you, sir?” He always had a smile to give to everyone. When I asked him how he was feeling today, he told me that he’d been having to ride his bike to work in the snow and that he’d been feeling rather sorry for himself … that is, until he saw a man sleeping down on the corner of Yonge Street and Bloor with just a piece of cardboard for covering from the cold and no shoes. I almost choked on my Danish as I heard him go on to relate how he was so moved with compassion for the man that he went around the corner to a store and bought the man a pair of socks and shoes.

As I heard his story, I saw in my mind a poster that used to be in an old friend’s bedroom when I was a teenager. It was a picture of a child handing someone a flower and the caption read: “THE SMALLEST DEED ALWAYS EXCEEDS THE GRANDEST OF INTENTIONS.”

I stood there wishing it was me who had bought the shoes and socks for the man, when they called my name to come to the set.

As I got to the studio, they were just concluding an interview with a social worker who specialized in benevolence for eastern Ontario. The social worker relayed a story about Mother Teresa, who when asked once how she had accomplished such great things in her life responded, “NONE OF US CAN DO ANYTHING GREAT ON OUR OWN, BUT WE CAN ALL DO A SMALL THING WITH GREAT LOVE.”

When I went home that day, I looked for the man on the street. He was gone, but I knew it wouldn’t be long before someone took his place.

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By Michael Peterson from Chicken Soup for the Country Soul, Copyright 1998 by Jack Canfield, Mark Victor Hansen and Ron Camacho

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Jesus Loved the Little People

Luke 2:8

"A FRESH LOOK AT JESUS" sermon series Luke 2:8-18

JESUS LOVED THE LITTLE PEOPLE

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SERMON SUMMARY: Jesus' ministry attracted the outcasts and sinners. His concern for "little people" began at Christmas. Followers of Jesus also need compassion for others and a humble heart for ourselves.

I. The Visitor.

A. Dramatic experience a few weeks ago.

1) A man came to our Sunday School - falling-down drunk.

a) We gave him donuts and coffee.

b) He had a bowl, and wanted to appeal for an offering.

c) I thought it best to let the authorities deal with him.

d) They did - dropping him off at end of Main Street.

2) Lots of concern by members, guilt for me.

a) I first met him years ago.

b) He had been released from prison, where he had found God.

c) He showed up with his Bible a few times, then disappeared.

d) After that, when I encountered him he was always drunk.

B. He comes again, wanting help.

1) Phone calls showed no one else would help him.

a) Mission requires them to be sober first.

b) Detox won't take him because he is violent during

withdrawal.

c) Police don't want to deal with him because they usually

take drunks to detox.

2) His bargain - I'll go to a Rescue Mission, if you get me

one last bottle.

a) He then falls across my plants in the office.

C. What would Jesus do?

1) His mission focused on such people.

a) Or maybe we should say they were attracted to him.

2) Just like today, the religious establishment aimed at

normal people. Decent people. People like us.

3) Jesus came for those who needed help, and knew it.

II. It began at Christmas.

A. Gospels mention two groups who came to see Jesus.

1) Matthew mentions Magi, what we call the Three Kings.

a) More likely followers of Asian religion.

b) They are foreigners, and the Jewish religion did not

have much concern for them.

c) They came to Jesus with gifts.

2) Luke mentions the shepherds.

a) In the first century this was a typical blue-collar job.

b) Religious people saw them as spiritually unclean

because they grubbed around with animals and

sneaked into other people's fields.

c) They came to Jesus with a sense of awe.

B. Jesus called them the "little ones." Matthew 10:42

1) Simple - shepherds, children.

a) It is appropriate that Christmas has a special appeal

for kids.

b) Goes beyond presents.

c) Jesus took time for children in an age when few

adults did. Not even his disciples.

2) Outcasts - lepers, beggars, the sick.

a) They were socially and spiritually unclean.

b) Jesus touched them, healed them, and loved them.

3) Sinners - prostitutes, greedy tax collectors.

a) Sinners is a strong term of contempt, probably coined

by Jesus's enemies.

b) Jesus responded that it was the sick who needed a

doctor, not the healthy. Luke 5:31-32

III. Salvation appeals to the bottom.

A. Most early Christians were on bottom of social ladder.

1) This scandalized the elite in society.

Remarks of anti-Christian philosopher Celsus:

What Christians seem to say is this:

"Let no one educated, no one wise, no one sensible

draw near.

For these abilities are thought by us to be evils.

But as for anyone ignorant, anyone stupid, anyone

uneducated, anyone who is a child, let him come boldly."

By the fact that they themselves admit that these

people are worthy of their God,

They show that they want and are able to convince only

the foolish, dishonourable and stupid, and only

slaves, women, and children.

Origen, "Contra Celsum" 3.44

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2) Even today, religious people are considered "simple."

3) Jesus doesn't so much attract the best, as the neediest.

B. In God's eyes, all of us are "little people."

1) Little people tend to be "other people" to us.

a) We are above average in our own eyes.

In a General Electric survey some years ago, the average

person surveyed placed themselves in the 77th percentile.

That is, their view was that their performance on the job

exceeded that of 76 percent of their associates.

In fact, only 2 percent of the respondents placed themselves

as below average.

Everybody is in the top half of the class.

Everyone is a star!

#2253

2) We must all admit our inner need before God.

The English writer G. K. Chesterton said:

"The one spiritual disease is thinking that one is

quite well."

#4390

IV. What it means to be a follower of Jesus.

A. Acquire an attitude of humility.

1) We are all sinners before God.

2) "There but for the grace of God..."

B. Develop a spirit of compassion.

1) It is not enough to raise consciousness.

a) School ethics teacher - give money to beggars.

b) But our "visitor" would only buy booze.

2) Show compassion intelligently.

a) Our church has adopted a needy family this Christmas.

1> Many have bought gifts, made donations.

b) One family is anonymously paying a utility bill for

a single parent.

c) Others have offered food and assistance.

1> Our needy family may end up with 15 turkeys!

d) One member of the church has offered help to the

"visitor."

C. Realize that "man does not live by bread alone."

1) Poor people don't just need food and money.

a) Outer needs often reflect an inner problem.

b) Governments have discovered this as well.

1> We cannot make people happy and rich.

2> They must make some personal decisions.

3> The Visitor - only he can turn his life around.

2) Our greatest need is a relationship with God.

a) Be healed from the inside out.

b) Spread the Good News of Jesus.

[update on the "visitor" - he shows up Christmas Eve at the conclusion of

the candlelighting service and says he is ready to go to the mission.

He is relatively sober. A member and the pastor make multiple phone

calls only to find out that every detox center and gospel mission in the

county has banned him. We take him to two hospitals and wait hours in

emergency rooms. The last hospital says they will check him out, and we

insist they call us if they will not admit him. The pastor crawls into

bed at 3:00 a.m. only to hear the phone ring. They are discharging him

because he is not drunk nor sick (we told them that at midnight). There

is a detox center one mile away but they will not transfer him there, so

the youth pastor and the senior pastor drive back to the hospital, pick

him up, and let him sleep in the Education Building. The next four

nights he is put up in a local motel with meals and regular visits

provided by church members, one of whom has him over for Christmas dinner.

Finally a Salvation Army detox center is contacted which will consider

taking him. The morning we are to go there the "visitor" shows up

drunk. He is currently bumming around the township. Please pray for

him - his conversion would be a great testimony to the power of Jesus.]

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SOURCES FOR ILLUSTRATIONS USED IN THIS SERMON:

This series was inspired by Issue 56 of Discipleship Journal, March 1990,

and this sermon is modelled on the article "The Corner of His Eye," by

Larry Libby, page 16.

#1182, "1 Corinthians," commentary by Gordon Fee, 1987

#2253, "Jesus And The Lake Wobegon Effect," Dynamic Preaching Disk,

Winter 1992

#4390, "Achan," online sermon by Rev. Jonathan Pryke, Jesmond Parish

Church, September 14, 1997

These and 4,300 others are part of a database that can be downloaded,

absolutely free, at http://users.nac.net/wdh2000/illust.html

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Used on other side of sermon handout:

"Little Ones" in Luke

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LUKE 9:47-48 Jesus, knowing their thoughts, took a little child and had him

stand beside him. Then he said to them, "Whoever welcomes this little child

in my name welcomes me; and whoever welcomes me welcomes the one who sent

me. For he who is least among you all--he is the greatest."

LUKE 10:21 At that time Jesus, full of joy through the Holy Spirit, said, "I

praise you, Father, Lord of heaven and earth, because you have hidden these

things from the wise and learned, and revealed them to little children. Yes,

Father, for this was your good pleasure.

LUKE 18:16-17 But Jesus called the children to him and said, "Let the little

children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of God belongs

to such as these. I tell you the truth, anyone who will not receive the

kingdom of God like a little child will never enter it."

"Sinners" in Luke

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LUKE 5:30,32 But the Pharisees and the teachers of the law who belonged to

their sect complained to his disciples, "Why do you eat and drink with tax

collectors and 'sinners'?" "I have not come to call the righteous, but

sinners to repentance."

LUKE 6:32-34 "If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even

'sinners' love those who love them. And if you do good to those who are

good to you, what credit is that to you? Even 'sinners' do that. And if you

lend to those from whom you expect repayment, what credit is that to you?

Even 'sinners' lend to 'sinners,' expecting to be repaid in full.

LUKE 7:34 The Son of Man came eating and drinking, and you say, 'Here is a

glutton and a drunkard, a friend of tax collectors and "sinners."'

LUKE 7:39 When the Pharisee who had invited him saw this, he said to himself,

"If this man were a prophet, he would know who is touching him and what kind

of woman she is--that she is a sinner."

LUKE 15:1-2 Now the tax collectors and "sinners" were all gathering around to

hear him. But the Pharisees and the teachers of the law muttered, "This man

welcomes sinners and eats with them." [also 19:7]

LUKE 15:7 I tell you that in the same way there will be more rejoicing in

heaven over one sinner who repents than over ninety-nine righteous persons

who do not need to repent.

LUKE 15:10 In the same way, I tell you, there is rejoicing in the presence of

the angels of God over one sinner who repents."

LUKE 18:13 "But the tax collector stood at a distance. He would not even look

up to heaven, but beat his breast and said, 'God, have mercy on me, a

sinner.'

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The Letter

THE LETTER

Ruth went to her mail box and there was only one letter. She picked it up and looked at it before opening, but then she looked at the envelope again.

There was no stamp, no postmark, only her name and address. She read the letter:

Dear Ruth,

I'm going to be in your neighborhood Saturday

afternoon and I'd like to stop by for a visit.

Love Always,

Jesus

Her hands were shaking as she placed the letter on the table. "Why would the Lord want to visit me? I'm nobody special. I don't have anything to offer." With that thought, Ruth remembered her empty kitchen cabinets.

"Oh my goodness, I really don't have anything to offer. I'll have to run down to the store and buy something for dinner." She reached for her purse and counted out its contents. Five dollars and forty cents.

"Well, I can get some bread and cold cuts, at least." She threw on her coat and hurried out the door. A loaf of french bread, a half-pound of sliced turkey, and a carton of milk...leaving Ruth with a grand total of twelve cents to last her until Monday.

Nonetheless, she felt good as she headed home, her meager offerings tucked under her arm.

"Hey lady, can you help us, lady?" Ruth had been so absorbed in her dinner plans, she hadn't even noticed two figures huddled in the alleyway. A man and a woman, both of them dressed in little more than rags.

"Look lady, I ain't got a job, ya know, and my wife and I have been living out here on the street, and, well, now it's getting cold and we're getting kinda hungry and, well, if you could help us, lady, we'd really appreciate it."

Ruth looked at them both. They were dirty, they smelled bad and, frankly, she was certain that they could get some kind of work if they really wanted to.

"Sir, I'd like to help you, but I'm a poor woman myself. All I have is a few cold cuts and some bread, and I'm having an important guest for dinner tonight and I was planning on serving that to Him."

"Yeah, well, okay lady, I understand. Thanks anyway." The man put his arm around the woman's shoulders, turned and headed back into the alley. As she watched them leave, Ruth felt a familiar twinge in her heart.

"Sir, wait!" The couple stopped and turned as she ran down the alley after them. "Look, why don't you take this food. I'll figure out something else to serve my guest." She handed the man her grocery bag.

"Thank you lady. Thank you very much!"

"Yes, thank you!" It was the man's wife, and Ruth could see now that she was shivering.

"You know, I've got another coat at home. Here, why don't you take this one." Ruth unbuttoned her jacket and slipped it over the woman's shoulders.

Then smiling, she turned and walked back to the street… without her coat and with nothing to serve her guest. "Thank you lady! Thank you very much!"

Ruth was chilled by the time she reached her front door, and worried too. The Lord was coming to visit and she didn't have anything to offer Him. She fumbled through her purse for the door key. But as she did, she noticed another envelope in her mailbox.

"That's odd. The mailman doesn't usually come twice in one day." She took the envelope out of the box and opened it.

Dear Ruth,

It was so good to see you again. Thank you for the lovely

meal And thank you, too, for the beautiful coat.

Love Always,

Jesus

The air was still cold, but even without her coat, Ruth no longer noticed.

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How Do Christians Behave In Tough Times?

John 15:17

Across America, hundreds of thousands are walking away from their homes — unable to make mortgage payments. Defaults and foreclosures are skyrocketing, as housing prices continue to decline. As a result of the sub-prime mortgage crisis, the economy is being hammered, credit markets around the world shaken. Before it is over, sub-prime defaults may reach two to three hundred billion dollars, and trillions may be taken out of the economy.

Few of us will escape the repercussions — which leads to at least one important challenge: How do Christians behave in tough times?

If you believe the “prosperity gospel” preachers, you need not worry; just pray, and God will shower you with blessings. Too many believers (like the rest of the culture) equate Christianity with the good life and the blessings of consumerism. Clearly, we have forgotten that Christianity has always been countercultural, thriving not in times of great prosperity, but in times of moral or economic bankruptcy.

For example, after the barbarians sacked ancient Rome, missionary monks from Ireland saved Western civilization, establishing monasteries, copying and preserving the Bible and other classic works.

Then, as I have written in my book, THE FAITH, there is the example of the Christians in the third-century Rome, when plagues swept through the cities. The wealthy, including doctors, escaped to their country estates, abandoning the poor to their fate. But Christians, who believed each human is made in God’s image, risked their own lives to care for the sick. Many succumbed to the plagues themselves — but the Church grew strong on the witness of their sacrifice.

The result was that Christianity became the faith of the Holy Roman Empire, not because Constantine wanted it to, but because he could not resist it. Roman women flooded to Christianity because the Church gave them the dignity and respect due children of God — something pagan Rome denied them. And the same thing is happening today in the global South, where women are flocking to Christianity because church leaders are convincing men to stop spending their time in bars and stay home.

The sub-prime mortgage crisis happened in large measure through moral failures. Wall Street invented mortgage-backed securities, which meant lenders could pass the risk of mortgages to anonymous investors. Mortgage lenders, who should have known better but were greedy for high commissions, lent money to people with shaky credit; house prices kept soaring, so it did not matter. Investors and lenders got wildly rich. Then the bubble burst.

In the wake of the crisis, some of our neighbors are going to lose their homes, and all of us are going to see our homes decrease in value. A failing economy affects millions more.

Christians should view these tragic events as a chance to demonstrate the compassion of the Church, helping neighbors who may have lost everything. We ought to be a witness to the world that when times get tough, Christians can be counted on to be merciful. Remember the Church in Acts 4: Members shared everything with others in need.

The sad fact of human nature is that many of us never seek God until a crisis is upon us. Right now, there are millions of Americans staring down the barrel of financial ruin. When they ask where is God in all of this, I hope they will see Him in the loving acts of the body of Christ.

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Copyright (c) 2008 Prison Fellowship Ministries. Reprinted with permission. "BreakPoint with Chuck Colson" is a radio ministry of Prison Fellowship Ministries.

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Billy and Ronald

Mark 3:10

A number of years ago (1983-1987), I had the opportunity to play the character of Ronald McDonald for the McDonald’s Corporation. My marketplace covered most of Arizona and a portion of Southern California.

One of our standard events was “Ronald Day.” One day each month, we visited as many of the community hospitals as possible, bringing a little happiness into a place where no one ever looks forward to going. I was very proud to be able to make a difference for children and adults who were experiencing some “down time.” The warmth and gratification I would receive stayed with me for weeks. I loved the project, McDonald’s loved the project, the kids and adults loved it and so did the nursing and hospital staffs.

There were two restrictions placed on me during a visit. First I could not go anywhere in the hospital without McDonald’s personnel (my handlers) as well as hospital personnel. That way, if I were to walk into a room and frighten a child, there was someone there to address the issue immediately. And second, I could not physically touch anyone within the hospital. They did not want me transferring germs from one patient to another. I understood why they had this “don’t touch” rule, but I didn’t like it. I believe that touching is the most honest form of communication we will ever know. Printed and spoken words can lie; it is impossible to lie with a warm hug.

Breaking either of these rules, I was told, meant I could lose my job.

Toward the end of my fourth year of “Ronald Days,” as I was heading down a hallway after a long day in grease paint and on my way home, I heard a little voice. “Ronald, Ronald.”

I stopped. The soft little voice was coming through a half-opened door. I pushed the door open and saw a young boy, about five years old, lying in his dad’s arms, hooked up to more medical equipment than I had ever seen. Mom was on the other side, along with Grandma, Grandpa and a nurse tending to the equipment.

I knew by the feeling in the room that the situation was grave. I asked the little boy his name - he told me it was Billy - and I did a few simple magic tricks for him. As I stepped back to say good-bye, I asked Billy if there was anything else I could do for him.

“Ronald, would you hold me?”

Such a simple request. But what ran through my mind was that if I touched him, I could lose my job. So I told Billy I could not do that right now, but I suggested that he and I color a picture. Upon completing a wonderful piece of art that we were both very proud of, Billy again asked me to hold him. By this time my heart was screaming “yes!” But my mind was screaming louder. “No! You are going to lose your job!”

This second time that Billy asked me, I had to ponder why I could not grant the simple request of a little boy who probably would not be going home. I asked myself why was I being logically and emotionally torn apart by someone I had never seen before and probably would never see again.

“Hold me.” It was such a simple request, and yet...

I searched for any reasonable response that would allow me to leave. I could not come up with a single one. It took me a moment to realize that in this situation, losing my job may not be the disaster I feared.

Was losing my job the worst thing in the world?

Did I have enough self-belief that if I did lost my job, I would be able to pick up and start again? The answer was a loud, bold, affirming “yes!” I could pick up and start again.

So what was the risk?

Just that if I lost my job, it probably would not be long before I would lost first my car, then my home...and to be honest with you, I really liked those things. But I realized that at the end of my life, the car would have no value and neither would the house. The only things that had steadfast value were experiences. Once I reminded myself that the real reason I was there was to bring a little happiness to an unhappy environment, I realized that I really faced no risk at all.

I sent Mom, Dad, Grandma and Grandpa out of the room, and my two McDonald’s escorts out to the van. The nurse tending the medical equipment stayed, but Billy asked her to stand and face the corner. Then I picked up this little wonder of a human being. He was so frail and so scared. We laughed and cried for 45 minutes, and talked about the things that worried him.

Billy was afraid that his little brother might get lost coming home from kindergarten next year, without Billy to show him the way. He worried that his dog wouldn’t get another bone because Billy had hidden the bones in the house before going back to the hospital, and now he couldn’t remember where he put them.

These are problems to a little boy who knows he is not going home.

On my way out of the room, with tear-streaked makeup running down my neck, I gave Mom and Dad my real name and phone number (another automatic dismissal for a Ronald McDonald, but I figured that I was gone and had nothing to lose), and said if there was anything the McDonald’s Corporation or I could do, to give me a call and consider it done. Less than 48 hours later, I received a phone call from Billy’s mom. She informed me that Billy had passed away. She and her husband simply wanted to thank me for making a difference in their little boy’s life.

Billy’s mom told me that shortly after I left the room, Billy looked at her and said, “Momma, I don’t care anymore if I see Santa this year because I was held by Ronald McDonald.”

Sometimes we must do what is right for the moment, regardless of the perceived risk. Only experiences have value, and the one biggest reason people limit their experiences is because of the risk involved.

For the record, McDonald’s did find out about Billy and me, but given the circumstances, permitted me to retain my job. I continued as Ronald for another year before leaving the corporation to share the story of Billy and how important it is to take risks.

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Jeff McMullen, from Chicken Soup for the Soul at Work, Copyright 1996 by Jack Canfield, Mark Victor Hansen, Maida Rogerson, Martin Rutte & Tim Clauss

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When No Words Seem Appropriate

Job 2:12

WHEN NO WORDS SEEM APPROPRIATE

I won't say, "I know how you feel" - because I don't. I've lost parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles and friends, but I've never lost a child. So how can I say I know how you feel?

I won't say, "You'll get over it" - because you won't. Life will have to go on. The washing, cooking, cleaning, the common routine. These chores will take your mind off your loved one, but the hurt will still be there.

I won't say, "Your other children will be a comfort to you" - because they may not be. Many mothers I've talked to say that after they have lost a child, they easily lose their temper with their remaining children. Some even feel resentful that they're alive and healthy when the other child is not.

I won't say, "Never mind, you're young enough to have another baby" - because that won't help. A new baby cannot replace the one that you've lost. A new baby will fill your hours, keep you busy, give you sleepless nights. But it will not replace the one you've lost.

You may hear all these platitudes from your friends and relatives. They think they are helping. They don't know what else to say. You will find out who your true friends are at this time. Many will avoid you because they can't face you. Others will talk about the weather, the holidays and the school concert but never about how you're coping.

So what will I say?

I will say, "I'm here. I care. Anytime. Anywhere." I will talk about your loved one. We'll laugh about the good memories. I won't mind how long you grieve. I won't tell you to pull yourself together.

No, I don't know how you feel - but with sharing, perhaps I will learn a little of what you are going through. And perhaps you'll feel comfortable with me and find your burden has eased. Try me.

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Written by a pediatric nurse, submitted to Ann Landers from A 5th Portion of Chicken Soup for the Soul, Copyright 1998 by Jack Canfield and Mark Victor Hansen

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The Day I Finally Cried

I didn't cry when I learned that I was the parent of a mentally handicapped child. I just sat still and didn't say anything while my husband and I were informed that two-year-old Kristi was - as we suspected - retarded.

"Go ahead and cry," the doctor advised kindly. "Helps prevent serious emotional difficulties."

Serious difficulties not withstanding, I couldn't cry then nor during the months that followed.

When Kristi was old enough to attend school, we enrolled her in our neighborhood kindergarten at age seven.

It would have been comforting to cry that day I left her in that room full of self-assured, eager, alert five-year-olds. Kristi had spent hours upon hours playing by herself, but this moment, when she was the different child among twenty, was probably the loneliest she had ever known.

However, positive things began to happen to Kristi in her school and to her schoolmates too. When boasting of their own accomplishments, Kristi's classmates always took pains to praise her as well: "Kristi got all her spelling words right today." No one bothered to add that her spelling list was easier then anyone else's.

During Kristi's second year in school, she faced a very traumatic experience. The big public event of the term was a competition based on a culmination of the year's music and physical education activities. Kristi was way behind in both music and motor coordination. My husband and I dreaded the day as well.

On the day of the program, Kristi pretended to be sick. Desperately I wanted to keep her home. Why let Kristi fail in a gymnasium filled with parents, students and teachers? What a simple solution it would be just to let my child stay home. Surely missing one program couldn't matter. But my conscience wouldn't let me off that easily. So I practically shoved a pale, reluctant Kristi onto the school bus and proceeded to be sick myself.

Just as I had forced my daughter to go to school, now I forced myself to go to the program. It seemed that it would never be time for Kristi's group to perform. When at last they did, I knew why Kristi had been worried. Her class was divided into relay teams. With her limp and slow, clumsy reactions, she would surely hold up her team.

The performance went surprising well, though, until it was time for the gunnysack race. Now each child had to climb into the sack from a standing position, hop to a goal line, return and climb out of the sack.

I watched Kristi standing near the end of her line of players, looking frantic.

But as Kristi's turn to practice neared, a change took place in her team. The tallest boy in the line stepped behind Kristi and placed his hands on her waist. Two other boys stood a little ahead of her. The moment the player in front of Kristi stepped for the sack, those two boys grabbed the sack and held it open while the tall boy lifted Kristi and dropped her neatly into it. A girl in front of Kristi took her hand and supported her briefly until Kristi gained her balance. Then off she hopped, smiling and proud.

Amid the cheers of teachers, schoolmates and parents, I crept off by myself to thank God for the warm, understanding people in life who make it possible for my disabled daughter to be like her fellow human beings.

Then I finally cried.

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By Meg Hill from Chicken Soup for the Unsinkable Soul, by Jack Canfield, Mark Victor Hansen and Heather McNamara, Copyright 1999 by Jack Canfield, Mark Victor Hansen

The Homeless Man

THE HOMELESS MAN

This will certainly make you stop and think. You never know what a kind word, a phone call, or an impromptu visit will do for someone else.

It was a cold winter's day that Sunday. The parking lot to the church was filling up quickly. I noticed as I got out of my car that fellow church members were whispering among themselves as they walked to the church.

As I got closer I saw a man leaned up against the wall outside the church. He was almost laying down as if he was asleep. He had on a long trench coat that was almost in shreds and a hat topped his head, pulled down so you could not see his face. He wore shoes that looked 30 years old, too small for his feet with holes all over them, his toes stuck out. I assumed this man was homeless, and asleep, so I walked on by through the doors of the church. We all fellowshipped for a few minutes, and someone brought up the man laying outside. People snickered and gossiped but no one bothered to ask him to come in, including me. A few moments later church began. We all waited for the Preacher to take his place and to give us the Word, when the doors to the church opened. In came the homeless man walking down the aisle with his head down. People gasped and whispered and made faces. He made his way down the aisle and up onto the pulpit he took off his hat and coat. My heart sank.

There stood our preacher ... he was the "homeless man." No one said a word.

The preacher took his Bible and laid it on the stand. "Folks, I don't think I have to tell you what I am preaching about today."

Then he started singing the words to this song.

If I can help somebody as I pass along.

If I can cheer somebody with a word or song.

If I can show somebody that he's traveling wrong.

Then my living shall not be in vain.

"IS YOUR LIVING IN VAIN?"

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Putting His Money Where His Mom Is: Peter Singer's Hypocrisy

There's nothing secular elites enjoy more than calling Christians "hypocrites." They delight in pointing fingers at Christians whose conduct doesn't quite measure up to what they profess to believe.

Well, recently the tables were turned when a well-known secularist was caught failing to live up to HIS beliefs -- and thank God for that.

Peter Singer is a professor of ethics at Princeton, and he's the quintessential moral utilitarian. Singer believes that an action's morality cannot be judged by any transcendent standard. Instead, he suggests we ask whether a particular action will increase the sum total of happiness in the world.

For example, as George Will commented about Singer, "Should one spend a sum to ease the suffering of a family member or send the same sum to ease the sufferings of 10 Sudanese?" Singer's answer would be to send the money to Sudan, because doing so would increase the world's total amount of happiness. He also argues for allowing parents to kill their handicapped newborns, and favors euthanasia for the sick and the elderly -- people who can no longer enjoy their lives and who create a burden on others.

But Singer's beliefs were put to the test when his own mother became sick with Alzheimer's. You will be relieved to know that, instead of starving his mother to death and thus increasing the world's supply of happiness, Singer is behaving hypocritically. He spends thousands of dollars providing his mother with nursing home care.

Singer sheepishly acknowledges the hypocrisy of his actions. "It's not the best use you could make of my money, that's true," he admits. But he then rationalizes his inconsistency: "It does provide employment for a number of people who find something worthwhile in what they're doing," he says.

Hogwash. A better explanation is that Peter Singer the son trumps Peter Singer the philosopher.

Christians should rejoice at Singer's inconsistency, and not only because taking care of his mother is the right thing to do. The case demonstrates how unworkable secular humanist ideas about human life really are.

It's one thing to engage in intellectual parlor games within the safe confines of the academy. In that setting, denying the sanctity of human life or the existence of moral absolutes has little, if any, impact on people's lives.

But in the real world, it means the difference between life and death. The last thing people like Singer want is for people to act in accordance with their principles when it affects someone they care about.

The truth of any worldview is authenticated by how well it depicts reality. By doing the right thing by his mother, Singer himself has demonstrated that his philosophy does not produce a rational and just society. He would be hard pressed to cite a single example of a healthy, vibrant society that believes that there isn't anything special about human life. As Singer himself demonstrates, this belief produces societies that no one would want to live in -- not even him.

In short, Singer's worldview flunks the reality test.

So if you come across someone who tells you there's nothing special about human life, ask him which Peter Singer they hope their kids emulate when they're old and frail: Peter Singer the avant garde philosopher, or Peter Singer the hypocrite.

The one who admits, "It is different when it's your mother."

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Copyright (c) 1999 Prison Fellowship Ministries. Reprinted with permission. "BreakPoint with Chuck Colson" is a radio ministry of Prison Fellowship Ministries.

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Rudy's Angel

I walked into the grocery store not particularly interested in buying groceries. I wasn't hungry. The pain of losing my husband of 37 years was still too raw. And this grocery story held so many sweet memories.

Rudy often came with me and most every time he'd pretend to go off and look for something special. I knew what he was up to. I'd always spot him walking down the aisle with the three yellow roses in his hands. Rudy knew I loved yellow roses.

With a heart filled with grief, I only wanted to buy my few items and leave, but even grocery shopping was different since Rudy had passed on. Shopping for one took time, a little more thought than it had for two.

Standing by the meat, I searched for the perfect small steak and remembered how Rudy had loved his steak. Suddenly a woman came beside me. She was blond, slim and lovely in a soft green pantsuit. I watched as she picked up a large pack of T-bones, dropped them in her basket, hesitated, and then put them back. She turned to go and once again reached for the pack of steaks. She saw me watching her and she smiled.

"My husband loves T-bones, but honestly, at these prices, I don't know."

I swallowed the emotion down my throat and met her pale blue eyes. "My husband passed away eight days ago," I told her. Glancing at the package in her hands, I fought to control the tremble in my voice. "Buy him the steaks. And cherish every moment you have together."

She shook her head and I saw the emotion in her eyes as she placed the package in her basket and wheeled away.

I turned and pushed my cart across the length of the store to the dairy products. There I stood, trying to decide which size milk I should buy. A quart, I finally decided and moved on to the ice cream section near the front of the store. If nothing else, I could always fix myself an ice cream cone.

I placed the ice cream in my cart and looked down the aisle toward the front. I saw first the green suit, then recognized the pretty lady coming towards me. In her arms she carried a package. On her face was the brightest smile I had ever seen. I would swear a soft halo encircled her blond hair as she kept walking toward me, her eyes holding mine.

As she came closer, I saw what she held and tears began misting in my eyes.

"These are for you," she said and placed three beautiful long stemmed yellow roses in my arms. "When you go through the line, they will know these are paid for." She leaned over and placed a gentle kiss on my cheek, then smiled again.

I wanted to tell her what she'd done, what the roses meant, but still unable to speak, I watched as she walked away as tears clouded my vision. I looked down at the beautiful roses nestled in the green tissue wrapping and found it almost unreal. How did she know?

Suddenly the answer seemed so clear. I wasn't alone. "Oh, Rudy, you haven't forgotten me, have you?" I whispered, with tears in my eyes. He was still with me, and she was his angel.

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Wilma Hankins Hlawiczka from Chicken Soup for the Single's Soul by Jack Canfield, Mark Victor Hansen, Jennifer Read Hawthorne and Marci Shimoff, copyright 1999 Canfield and Hansen

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Policeman Buys Family Food Instead of Arresting Them For Shoplifting

Police officer Matt Lima was called to a food store in Somerset, Massachusetts in December 2020. Two women were reported not to be scanning all of their groceries. When he questioned them, the family said they had fallen upon hard times and could not afford to pay for all the food. They had still wanted to give the children a Christmas dinner.

Officer Lima served them with a “no trespass” order, but did not press charges as all the items on the shopping receipt were for food, police said. Instead, he bought them gift cards worth $250 with his own money so the women and their two children would be able to buy food for their Christmas dinner at another shop of the same chain.

“The two children with the women reminded me of my kids, so I had to help them out,” Officer Lima said. “Obviously, this family was in need and I can’t imagine having to make the decision to go to Stop and Shop and just only pay for what I can afford - or do I go there and try to take things for Christmas dinner for the kids?” he told local TV.

“They were very thankful, they were kind of shocked. I’m sure a lot of people in that same situation would be thinking that there was going to be a different outcome, and maybe they would be arrested or have to go to court.

“I bought the gift card close in value to what would’ve been taken,” he added. “I just did what I felt was right. It’s not about me, I just tried to put myself in that family’s shoes and show a little bit of empathy.”

Jessie's Glove

I do a lot of management training each year for the Circle K Corporation, a national chain of convenience stores. Among the topics we address in our seminars is the retention of quality employees - a real challenge to managers when you consider the pay scale in the service industry. During these discussions, I ask the participants, "What has caused you to stay long enough to become a manager?" Some time back a new manager took the question and slowly, with her voice almost breaking, said, "It was a $19 baseball glove."

Cynthia told the group that she originally took a Circle K clerk job as an interim position while she looked for something better. On her second or third day behind the counter, she received a phone call from her nine-year old son, Jessie. He needed a baseball glove for Little League. She explained that as a single mother, money was very tight, and her first check would have to go for paying bills. Perhaps she could buy his baseball glove with her second or third check.

When Cynthia arrived for work the next morning, Patricia, the store manager, asked her to come to the small room in back of the store that served as an office. Cynthia wondered if she had done something wrong or left some part of her job incomplete from the day before. She was concerned and confused.

Patricia handed her a box. "I overheard you talking to your son yesterday," she said, "and I know that it is hard to explain things to kids. This is a baseball glove for Jessie because he may not understand how important he is, even though you have to pay bills before you can buy gloves. You know we can't pay good people like you as much as we would like to; but we do care, and I want you to know you are important to us."

The thoughtfulness, empathy and love of this convenience store manager demonstrates vividly that people remember more how much an employer cares than how much the employer pays. An important lesson for the price of a Little League baseball glove.

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By Rick Phillips from Chicken Soup for the Soul at Work, Copyright 1996 by Jack Canfield, Mark Victor Hansen, Maida Rogerson, Martin Rutte & Tim Clauss

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The Gift of Dignity

Leviticus 19:18

Where would civilization be today without Christian notions of compassion and solidarity?

Is there anyone who changed secular history more than Christ? Consider this: the followers of Jesus Christ introduced Gentiles to the God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob. Today, two out of five people in the world are Christians.

Likewise, where would civilization be today without Christian notions of compassion and solidarity? As atheists such as Bertrand Russell and Richard Rorty have noted, these ideas spring from the legacy of Christ. You do not have to be a Christian to appreciate parts of the legacy of Christ.

Five concepts worked out by Christian thinkers have especially affected modern ideas of politics and economics: human dignity, liberty and truth, conscience, and the notion of the person.

HUMAN DIGNITY: What is human dignity? The English word DIGNITY is rooted in a Latin word meaning "worthy of esteem and honor, due a certain respect, of weighty importance." Both Aristotle and Plato held that most humans are by nature slavish and suitable only for slavery. Most do not have natures worthy of freedom. The Greeks used "dignity" for only the few, rather than for all human beings. By contrast, Christianity insisted that every single human is loved by the Creator, made in the Creator’s image, and destined for eternal friendship and communion with him.

Among the figures of the Enlightenment, Immanuel Kant is probably the one who most clearly spoke to the concept of human dignity. He did so in the light of a categorical imperative that he discerned in the rational being, and he made famous this formulation of the principle of human dignity: "Act so that you treat humanity, whether in your own person or in that of another, always as an end and never as a means only."

It is not difficult to see in Kant’s formula a statement in nonbiblical language of the essential humanistic aspect of Jewish and Christian teaching: "Thou shalt love they neighbor as thyself" (Lev. 19:18); "And this commandment have we from him, That he who loveth God love his brother also" (1 John 4:21).

From the view of modern history, of course, it seems absurd to say that humans are not means but only ends. In the twentieth century, more than a hundred million in Europe alone died by violence, often in a way they could not have foreseen even in their worst nightmares. In the twentieth century, history has been a butcher’s bench. In this century, the words HUMAN DIGNITY have often sounded empty.

LIBERTY AND TRUTH: Jews and Christians explain human dignity by pointing to human liberty. For Christianity and Judaism, human liberty is an absolutely fundamental fact of God’s revelation to humans.

Because the teaching of the Gospels is intended for Christians in every culture, political system, and time, Christian philosophers are first concerned with an understanding of the INTERIOR act of liberty -- and only secondarily as a political and economic act.

Confronted with any proposition -- of fact, principle, theory, or faith -- humans may choose to give assent or to dissent. They are responsible for gathering the evidence necessary to make judgments wisely, for struggling to understand the necessary materials, and for disposing themselves to judge such evidence soberly, calmly, and dispassionately. When they declare a proposition to be true or false, they in effect assert what is true and real. When human beings reach a judgment, they reveal a great deal about themselves. They are, in effect, under judgment by reality itself, as mediated by the community of inquirers who seek the truth of things, and nothing but the truth.

THE CONCEPT OF CONSCIENCE: CONSCIENCE is not a term of the ancient Greeks or Romans. Neither is it, exactly, a biblical concept, although many texts in the Bible show the inner conflicts that gave rise to the need for such a concept: "And it came to pass afterward, that David’s heart smote him, because he had cut off Saul’s skirt" (1 Sam. 24:5); "For the good that I would I do not: but the evil which I would not, that I do" (Rom. 7:19).

After Kant, it has become common for modern people to think of the moral life as a matter of duties to be observed, a kind of obedience. But in earlier Christian ages, the moral life was thought of as a way of life to be lived, a set of paths to follow with Christ as model and the lives of the saints as pathbreakers. "Whosoever will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow me" (Mark 8:34).

The first practical problem of the moral life is to find out what to do in the unique circumstances in which you (a unique, irrepeatable) person find yourself now. (Here I echo Thomas Aquinas.) The moral life taxes our capacities for practical knowing. Even when we know the model or ideal we are pursuing, the right thing to do now is not always clear. Besides, we sometimes wish to evade clear knowledge, or we prefer to let passion drive us. After we act from passion or evasion, we sometimes see clearly what we ought to have done, and feel the bite of remorse. This bite, too, comes from our faculty of practical knowing.

Conscience, then, is the practical habit of discerning the right thing to do in immediate circumstances, and by which we blame ourselves when we have turned away from this discernment -- that is, failed to use the light within us. By frequent failures to use it, and by deliberate abuse of it, we can dim this light and all but extinguish conscience. We can also deceive it. Some of the ways we deceive our own consciences are so classic that C. S. Lewis vividly described them in THE SCREWTAPE LETTERS.

THE PERSON: The concept of PERSON also entered Western thought by way of reflection on the Bible. They needed a way to name the special kind of spiritual being capable of acts of insight and choice. Theologians also needed a concept to express what it is in Jesus Christ, who had both a human and a divine nature, that remains the same. A person came to be understood as a being with a capacity for insight and choice, and an independent existence as a responsible agent.

Acquiring this concept of the person was a crucial step for the modern age, leading directly to the first declaration of human rights in history. The Spanish missionaries argued that the Indians encountered in the New World were people of full human dignity, not some inferior species. It was sinful before God, they maintained, and contrary to natural law to offend the dignity of the Indians, as many of their compatriots were obviously doing. They pressed their suit at the Spanish Court to urge the monarch to rule accordingly. The suit was argued successfully by theologians of Salamanca. Outside the United Nations building in New York stands a statue of one of the greatest of these theologians, Francesco de Vitoria (1486–1546), the founder of international law.

The public recognition that oppression of the Indians was sinful and that they should be granted human rights like anyone else did not prevent terrible abuses. Hence, James Madison argued that mere declarations of rights are not enough. Rights are never sufficiently defended by "parchment barriers," but only by internalized HABITS and INSTITUTIONS that incorporate CHECKS AND BALANCES.

THE WORLD IS ALREADY CELEBRATING the imminent arrival of the third millennium after the birth of Christ. The civilizing ideas of human dignity, liberty, truth, conscience, and person have been slowly developed over the two millennia since Christ’s birth. They come to global fruition at a crucial time.

Earlier economic development rested on Christian contributions: from the development of factory-like communities by monastic orders to the theological focus on the vocation or calling of every individual to be creative and inventive in a practical way.

Now, more recent economic thought has focussed attention, not on natural resources or wealth, but on the importance of HUMAN CAPITAL (which for Nobel laureate Gary Becker includes personal and social habits and institutions). Other recent writers (Francis Fukuyama and Lawrence Harrison) have emphasized human trust and the social habits built on trust. Still other current writers have focused on human action (liberty), the human person, and the importance of personal and public choice in economic life.

Without the Christian foundations laid for us in the high Middle Ages and again in the sixteenth century our economic and political life together would not only far poorer, but far more brutal as well.

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Michael Novak is the Jewett scholar in religion, philosophy, and public policy at the American Enterprise Institute.

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A Heart of Compassion

Luke 15:6

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Rejoice with me, for I have found my sheep which was lost! — Luke 15:6

Popular teacher, speaker, and author Howard Hendricks warns against “enshrining” the gospel in a church building. He once wrote, “I can’t find a verse of Scripture that commands a lost person to go to church; I know a lot of Scripture that commands believers to go into a lost world.”

Hendricks then told about a Christian woman who read in the newspaper about a car that crashed into a house and killed a baby. With a compassionate heart, she grieved over the family’s loss, but she was also concerned for the driver, who was facing criminal charges. She wrote to the driver, assuring her that God cared about her situation. She included her telephone number and then waited to see if she would respond.

The devastated woman called her and they agreed to meet. Because of that Christian’s witness of God’s love, that sorrowing woman trusted Christ as her Savior. She then began attending a Bible study and a church. The compassion shown to her resulted in others in her family coming to Christ. She did go to prison for her crime, but her faith strengthened her and made a great impact on other prisoners.

When one Christian goes after one lost soul (Luke 15:1-7), there can be salvation and great rejoicing. — JEY

Seeking the lost, and pointing to Jesus,

Souls that are weak and hearts that are sore;

Leading them forth in ways of salvation,

Showing the path to life evermore. —- Ogden

God’s love in our heart gives us a heart for the lost.

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The Best News I've Heard All Week!

Amos 8:5

You don't hear much anymore about Roberto DeVincenzo. He was once a tough but far from champion Argentine golfer. Some years back he surprised everybody by winning a tournament. As usual, they gave the winner his check on the eighteenth green. Roberto flashed a smile for the cameras and walked alone to the clubhouse. In back, where his car was parked, a sad-eyed young lady walked up to him. “It's a good day for you,” she said, “but I have a baby with an incurable disease. It's of the blood, and the doctors say she will die.” The golfer paused. In slow English, he said, “May I help your little girl?” The woman's face froze. He took out a pen, endorsed his winning check and pressed it into her hand. “Make some good days for the baby,” he said.

A week later, he was having lunch in a country club when a PGA official approached. “Some of the boys in the parking lot told me you met a young woman after you won the tournament.” DeVincenzo nodded. “Well,” said the official, “I have bad news for you. She's a phony. She has no sick baby. She's not even married. She fleeced you, my friend.” The golfer looked up. “You mean that there is no baby who is dying without hope?” he said. The PGA official said, “that's right.” DeVincenzo grinned and said, “That's the best news I've heard all week!”

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The Gift

The Gift. It is like no other gift. No wrapping that glitters, no ribbon or bow. No tassels or decorations. The size changed as it was turned, large in places, small in others. The weight of it could not be judged, in some ways it was lighter than a feather, in others heavy, solid and dense. This gift did not beg to be opened, yet it seemed to open and close at will.

The gift came in the darkness of desolation and loneliness. It came in the night that seemed never ending, the restlessness of not being anywhere - and anywhere else would be the same. It spoke of the need of each person to be loved, to be beloved.

The gift came in seeing the anguish of a man, a child, a woman, suffering the losses that strike through the heart, thrown into the despair of unknowing. The gift nurtures the endurance of the spirit and the triumph of survival.

The gift came in the willingness to be present to tears of frustration and emptiness, ours and those of others. Each drop cleansing the hurts and opening the way of healing. It carried the pain of one person which, when so freely shared, allowed the pain within the other to be touched. This pain, which never completely leaves us but which shapes us, and oftentimes is the reminder that we exist. But while we each bear our own burdens, when we take on the burdens of another, the two become lighter.

"The gift came in the realization of the pride carried within that destroys the good that could be done; pride that protects us from seeing beneath the glittering image we strive to portray; pride that fortifies the walls that shield us from being known by others, the fear of rejection. The gift brings forth the means to see that each one of us has our image and our essence, each constantly struggling to integrate the two sides of the true "us." It is not the rejection of others that we fear, but the rejection of ourselves. The gift.

The gift came in finally seeing the crippled man struggling to walk. Each day the cars go by so quickly that a passing glance is not even given. No one to encourage each careful step, aided by crutches, eyes looking forward as he makes his way. In the seeing came the appreciation of abilities taken for granted. In the seeing came the realization of the many ways the physical body is abused and ignored. The gift.

The gift came in the realization of the pain caused by words spoken hastily, however kindly meant, that increased the isolation of another. The pain that is present when feelings are not understood or even acknowledged. The gift helps us become silent and present so that in the recognition of our failures we learn that true triumphs are not heralded from without but glow from within.

The gift was in the gaze of the dying person, seeing beyond and within, seeing that which is hidden to those who try so hard, yet so obvious to those who no longer have to pretend. The gift is the briefest glimpse into the unknown, the gazing upon the self, the awareness that we are what we are, yet we are so much more.

The gift came as weary arms opened to embrace and, taking a risk to be vulnerable, we walk into the solace that is both offered and needed. The giving and the taking, the softness and strength, the warmth of the body and the breath of life, freely shared so that each may be newly created.

The gift came in the hurts and the pain that are universal yet unique to each person. When peace and love seem absent and the joys that were once shared are only memories whose intensity we fear. The gift is in the intermingling of the experiences of our life so that we become fully alive, we become complete, total, grow beyond our limitations.

The gift is ever-present in our life. It is the gift of humanity and humility, the gift of triumphs and tragedy. It is a gift which grows with us and changes us. There is no earning or deserving of this gift, we cannot buy it nor wrap it, we can not save it nor spend it. We can never use it up or replace it. It is given to others through us, yet it is also given to us through others. It is given to all, yet is appreciated and known at different times by each individual. Sometimes it is rejected, sometimes embraced as the answer to prayers. No bow, paper, glitter or ribbon. The gift. It shines bright when we take the time to see, not with our eyes but through the depth of our very being. The gift.

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Ethics, One Day At A Time

There is a need for each of us to develop what I like to call "moral imagination." By this, I mean the ability fully to think through the implications of our actions, particularly as to how they will affect others. Over the past century, society has made extraordinary technological advances because of the active imaginations of our scientists and researchers, but we have been slower to advance morally because of a general unwillingness to practice imagination in the moral sphere. So let me start now by offering an example of the harm that can ensue when we refuse to exercise moral imagination.

[Consider] the late Lee Atwater, the brilliant but highly aggressive campaign manager who directed George Bush's successful 1988 presidential bid. In 1980 Atwater was managing a congressional election campaign in South Carolina, during which his campaign released information that the Democratic candidate in the race, Tom Turnispeed, had years earlier suffered an episode of depression for which he had received electric shock treatment.

Turnispeed was mortified and outraged. None of us appreciates having his or her medical history made public, and particularly not our psychiatric history. He responded with an anguished attack on his opponent's campaign ethics. When Atwater was asked to respond to Turnispeed's attack, he answered that he had no intention of responding to charges made by a person "hooked up to a jumper cable."

What a grotesque violation of privacy and what a shameful humiliation of another! Atwater's cruel words put into the voters' heads a vicious, graphic image that potentially poisoned not only their perceptions of Turnispeed, but also of everyone else who had undergone electric shock therapy.

This story, however, has a postscript. Ten years later Atwater was in a hospital bed dying of an inoperable brain tumor. In the last weeks of his life, while he was lying in a room connected to all sorts of uncomfortable and invasive machines, he wrote a letter to Turnispeed begging his forgiveness. I am convinced this was no phony deathbed repentance. Finding himself in this horrible circumstance, Atwater finally realized the enormous cruelty he had committed and fully regretted it.

Had Atwater had the moral imagination to realize in 1980 what he realized in 1990, he never would have released information about Turnispeed's treatment or mocked his experience. Indeed, moral imagination involves "repenting" of evil acts before we commit them, by wielding our imagination in such a manner that we act rightly towards others even when we don't have the experience or knowledge to be fully empathetic.

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Mother's Hands

Luke 13:34

Night after night, she came to tuck me in, even long after my childhood years. Following her longstanding custom, she'd lean down and push my long hair out of the way, then kiss my forehead.

I don't remember when it first started annoying me -- her hands pushing my hair that way. But it did annoy me, for they felt work-worn and rough against my young skin. Finally, one night, I lashed out at her: "Don't do that anymore -- your hands are too rough!" She didn't say anything in reply. But never again did my mother close out my day with that familiar expression of her love. Lying awake long afterward, my words haunted me.But pride stifled my conscience, and I didn't tell her I was sorry.

Time after time, with the passing years, my thoughts returned to that night.By then I missed my mother's hands, missed her goodnight kiss upon my forehead. Sometimes the incident seemed very close, sometimes far away.But always it lurked, hauntingly, in the back of my mind.

Well, the years have passed, and I'm not a little girl anymore. Mom is in her mid-seventies, and those hands I once thought to be so rough are still doing things for me and my family. She's been our doctor, reaching into a medicine cabinet for the remedy to calm a young girl's stomach or soothe a boy's scraped knee. She cooks the best fried chicken in the world...gets stains out of blue jeans like I never could...and still insists on dishing out ice cream at any hour of the day or night.

Through the years, my mother's hands have put in countless hours of toil, and most of hers were before perma-pressed fabrics and automatic washers!

Now, my own children are grown and gone. Mom no longer has Dad, and on special occasions, I find myself drawn next door to spend the night with her. So it was that late on Thanksgiving Eve, as I drifted into sleep in the bedroom of my youth, a familiar hand hesitantly stole across my face to brush the hair from my forehead. Then a kiss, ever so gently, touched my brow.

In my memory, for the thousandth time, I recalled the night my surly young voice complained: "Don't do that anymore -- your hands are too rough!" I reacted involuntarily. Catching Mom's hand in mind, I blurted out how sorry I was for that night. I thought she'd remember, as I did. But Mom didn't know what I was talking about. She had forgotten -- and forgiven -- long ago.

That night, I fell asleep with a new appreciation for my gentle mother and her caring hands. And the guilt I had carried around for so long was nowhere to be found.

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By Louisa Godissart McQuillen, from A Second Chicken Soup for the Woman's Soul, Copyright 1998 by Jack Canfield, Mark Victor Hansen, Jennifer Read Hawthorne and Marci Shimoff

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How Great Guest Came

HOW THE GREAT GUEST CAME By Edwin Markham

Before the cathedral in grandeur rose

At Ingelburg where the Danube goes;

Before its forest of silver spire

Went airily up to the clouds and fires;

Before the oak had ready a beam,

While yet the arch was stone and dream--

There where the altar was later laid,

Conrad the cobbler, plied his trade.

It happened one day at the year's white end--

Two neighbors called in on their old-time friend;

And they found the shop, so meager and mean,

Made gay with a hundred boughs of green.

Conrad was stitching with face ashine,

But suddenly stopped as he twitched a twine:

"Old friends, good news! At dawn today,

As the cocks were scaring the night away,

The Lord appeared in a dream to me,

And said, `I am coming your Guest to be!'

So I've been busy with feet astir,

Strewing the floor with branches of fir.

The wall is washed and the shelf is shined,

And over the rafter the holly twined.

He comes today, and the table is spread

With milk and honey and wheaten bread."

His friends went home; and his face grew still

As he watched for the shadow across the sill.

He lived all the moments o'er and o'er,

When the Lord should enter the lowly door--

The knock, the call, the latch pulled up,

The lighted face, the offered cup.

He would wash the feet where the spikes had been,

He would kiss the hands where the nails went in,

And then at the last would sit with Him

And break the bread as the day grew dim.

While the cobbler mused there passed his pane

A beggar drenched by the driving rain.

He called him in from the stony street

And gave him shoes for his bruised feet.

The beggar went and there came a crone,

Her face with wrinkles of sorrow sown.

A bundle of faggots bowed her back,

And she was spent with the wrench and rack.

He gave her his loaf and steadied her load

As she took her way on the weary road.

Then to his door came a little child,

Lost and afraid in the world so wild,

In the big, dark world. Catching it up,

He gave it the milk in the waiting cup,

And led it home to its mother's arms,

Out of the reach of the world's alarms.

The day went down in the crimson west

And with it the hope of the blessed Guest,

And Conrad sighed as the world turned gray:

"Why is it, Lord, that your feet delay?

Did you forget that this was the day?"

Then soft in the silence a Voice he heard:

"Lift up your heart, for I have kept my word.

Three times I came to your friendly door;

Three times my shadow was on your floor.

I was the beggar with the bruised feet;

I was the woman you gave to eat;

I was the child on the homeless street!"

One arm, leg, eye

Just after World War II as all the American servicemen were coming home, a sailor called his parents from San Diego. He said he was bringing a buddy home w/ him. "You see Mom," he said, "my friend is in pretty bad shape. He was severely wounded. He only has one arm, one leg, and one eye. So I thought he could come live with us." After a few moments of silence the mother said, "Of course, let him come & stay a little while with us." But from the hesitancy in her voice the sailor realized they would not want to be burdened

with a handicapped person for long. Two days later the parents received a telegram that their son had jumped from a hotel window. When they received the body it had one arm, one leg, and one eye.

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Refusal to be A Good Samaritan

AM I MY BROTHER'S KEEPER? In 1928, a very interesting case came before the courts in the state of Massachusetts. It concerned a man who had been walking on a boat dock when suddenly he tripped over a rope and fell into the cold, deep water of an ocean bay. He came up sputtering and yelling for help and then sank again, obviously in trouble. His friends were too far away to get to him, but only a few yards away, on another dock, was a young man sprawled on a deck chair, sunbathing. The desperate man shouted "Help, I can't swim!" The young man, an excellent swimmer, only turned his head to watch as the man floundered in the water, sank, came up sputtering in total panic, and then disappeared forever. The family of the drowned man was so upset by that display of callous indifference that they sued the sunbather. They lost. The court reluctantly ruled that the man on the dock had no legal responsibility whatever to try and save the other man's life. In effect, the law agrees with Cain's presupposition: I am not my brother's keeper, and I have every legal right to mind my own business and to refuse to become involved. Gary Inrig, Quality Friendship, page 105. Submitted by Rick Mandl, Eagle Rock Baptist Church, Los Angeles, California.

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Seeing people as objects

Harold Kushner in Who Needs God tells of a short story about the wife of a British colonel in India. She was expecting important guests for tea one afternoon. Looked out from her front porch after lunch & was horrified to see that the man who swept the leaves off her stairs every morning had not shown up for work. When he finally got there, she tore into him. "Don't you realize what you've done to me? Do you know who's coming here in an hour? I ought to fire you and see to it that you don't get another job anywhere in the city!" Without looking up the man said, "I'm sorry. My little girl died during the night and we had to bury her today." For the first time, the colonel's wife began to see this man as something more than just a device that swept her stairs every day. [Harold Kushner, Who Needs God (New York: Summit Books, 1989), p. 100.]

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... bury her today."

For the first time, the colonel's wife was made to see this man not simply as a device for getting her stairs swept but as a human being with a world of needs, pain, relationships to which she had never given thought. Suddenly, he had become a subject, a "thou," a possessor of feelings, rather than an object.

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