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50 Sermon Illustrations on Family Discipleship

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Family discipleship in Christian preaching emphasizes the vital role of parents in nurturing and guiding their children's faith at home, fostering unity and consistent spiritual instruction (Deuteronomy 6:6-7). Illustrations often depict the household as a spiritual training ground where parental harmony and faithful teaching shape a child's lifelong relationship with God.

The Two Fathers

A father's failure to pray for his dying son contrasts with another father's godly example.

Whenever I think about this subject, two fathers come before me. One lived on the Mississippi river. He was a man of great wealth. Yet he would have freely given it all could he have brought back his eldest boy from his early grave. One day that boy had been borne home unconscious. They did everything that man could do to restore him, but in vain. "He must die," said the doctor. "But, doctor," said the agonized father, "can you do nothing to bring him to consciousness, even for a moment?" "That may be," said the doctor; "'but he can never live." Time passed, and after a terrible suspense, the fathers wish was gratified. "My son," he whispered, "the doctor tells me you are dying." "Well," said the boy, "you never prayed for me, father; won't you pray for my lost soul now?" The father wept. It was true he had never prayed. He was a stranger to God. And in a little while that soul, unprayed for, passed into its dark eternity. Oh, father! if your boy was dying, and he called on you to pray, could you lift your burdened heart to heaven? Have you learned this sweetest lesson of heaven on earth, to know and hold communion with your God? And before this evil world has marked your dearest treasures for its prey, have you learned to lead your little ones to a children's Christ?

What a contrast is the other father? He, too, had a lovely boy, and one day he came home to find him at the gates of death. "A great change has come over our boy," said the weeping mother; "he has only been a little ill before, but it seems now as if he were dying fast." The father went into the room, and placed his hand on the forehead of the little boy. He could see the boy was dying. He could feel the cold damp of death. "My son, do you know you are dying?" "No, am I?" "Yes; you are dying." "And shall I die to-day?" "Yes, my boy, you cannot live till night." "Well, then, I shall be with Jesus to-night, won't I, father?" "Yes, my son, you will spend to-night with the Saviour." Mothers and fathers, the little ones may begin early; be in earnest with them now. You know not how soon you may be taken from them, or they may be taken from you. Therefore let this impression be made upon their minds--that you care for their souls--a million times more than for their worldly prospects.

Divided We Fall

A mother's lack of spiritual influence leads her son to prison instead of Christ.

I remember one mother who heard that her boy was impressed at our meeting. She said her son was a good enough boy, and he didn't need to be converted. I pleaded with that mother, but all my pleading was of no account. I tried my influence, with the boy; but while I was pulling one way she was pulling the other, and of course her influence prevailed. Naturally it would. Well, to make a long story short, some time after I happened to be in the County Jail, and I saw him there. "How did you come here?" I asked; "does your mother know where you are?" "No, don't tell her; I came in under an assumed name, and I am going to Joliet for four years. Do not let my mother know of this," he pleaded; "she thinks I am in the army." I used to call on that mother, but I had promised her boy I would not tell her, and for four years she mourned over that boy, She thought he had died on the battlefield or in a Southern hospital. What a blessing he might have been to that mother, if she had only helped us to bring him to Christ. But that mother is only a specimen of hundreds and thousands of parents. If we would have more family altars in our homes, and train them to follow Christ, the Son of God would lead them into "green pastures," and instead of having sons who curse the mothers who gave them birth, they would bless their fathers and mothers.

Prayer of Jesus in the Garden of Olives. Gustave Dore. Matthew, xxvi, 36-45

The Faithful London Lady

A mother's persistent prayers and faithfulness impact her sons' spiritual lives.

When I was in London, there was one lady dressed in black up in the gallery. All the rest were ministers. I wondered who that lady could be. At the close of the meeting I stepped up to her, and she asked me if I did not remember her. I did not, but she told me who she was, and her story came to my mind. When we were preaching in Dundee, Scotland, a mother came up with her two sons, 16 and 17 years old. She said to me, "Will you talk to my boys?" I asked her if she would talk to the inquirers, as there were more inquirers than workers. She said she was not a good enough Christian--was not prepared enough. I told her I could not talk to her then. Next night she came to me and asked me again, and the following night she repeated her request. Five hundred miles she journeyed to get God's blessing for her boys, Would to God we had more mothers like her. She came to London, and the first night I was there I saw her in the Agricultural Hall. She was accompanied by only one of her boys--the other had died. Toward the close of the meeting I received this letter from her:

"DEAR MR. MOODY: For months I have never considered the day's work ended unless you and your work had been specially prayed for. Now it appears before us more and more. What in our little measure we have found has no doubt been the happy experience of many others in London. My husband and I have sought as our greatest privilege to take unconverted friends one by one to the Agricultural hall, and I thank God that, with a single exception, those brought under the preaching from your lips have accepted Christ as their Savior, and are rejoicing in his love."

That lady was a lady of wealth and position. She lived a little way out of London; gave up her beautiful home and took lodgings near Agricultural Hall, so as to be useful in the inquiry room. When we went down to the Opera House she was there; when we went down to the east end, there she was again, and when I left London she had the names of 150 who had accepted Christ from her. Some have said that our work in London was a failure. Ask her if the work was a failure, and she will tell you. If we had a thousand such mothers in Chicago we would lift it. Go and bring your friends here to the meetings. Think of the privilege, my friends, of saving a soul. If we are going to work for good, we must be up and about it.

Arthur P. Oxley! Your Mother Wishes to See You

A mother pleads for her lost son to return, offering forgiveness and love.

There was a lady that came down to Liverpool to see us privately; it was just before we were about to leave that city to go to London to preach. With tears and sobs she told a very pitiful story. It was this: She said she had a boy nineteen years of age who had left her. She showed me his photograph, and asked me to put it in my pocket. "You stand before many and large assemblies, Mr. Moody. My boy may be in London, now. Oh, look at the audience to whom you will preach; look earnestly. You may see my dear boy before you. If you see him, tell him to come back to me. Oh, implore him to come to his sorrowing mother, to his deserted home. He may be in trouble; he may be suffering; tell him for his loving mother that all is forgiven and forgotten, and he will find comfort and peace at home." On the back of this photograph she had written his full name and address; she had noted his complexion, the color of his eyes and hair; why he had left home, and the cause of his so doing. "When you preach, Mr. Moody, look for my poor boy," were the parting words of that mother. That young man may be in this hall to-night. If he is, I want to tell him that his mother loves him still. I will read out his name, and if any of you ever hear of that young man, just tell him that his mother is waiting with a loving heart and a tender embrace for him. His name is Arthur P. Oxley, of Manchester, England.

Mrs. Moody Teaching her Child

Mothers can transform a child's dread of Sunday into joy through faithful teaching.

There was a time when our little boy did not like to go to church, and would get up in the morning and say to his mother, "What day is to-morrow?" "Tuesday." "Next day?" "Wednesday." "Next day?" "Thursday;" and so on, till he came to the answer, "Sunday." "Dear me," he said. I said to the mother, "We cannot have our boy grow up to hate Sunday in this way; that will never do. That is the way I used to feel when I was a boy. I used to look upon Sunday with a certain amount of dread. Very few kind words were associated with the day. I don't know that the minister ever put his hand on my head. I don't know that the minister even noticed me, unless it was when I was asleep in the gallery, and he woke me up. This kind of thing won't do; we must make the Sunday the most attractive day of the week; not a day to be dreaded; but a day of pleasure." Well the mother took the work up with this boy. Bless those mothers in their work with the children. Sometimes I feel as if I would rather be the mother of John Wesley or Martin Luther or John Knox than have all the glories in the world. Those mothers who are faithful with the children God has given them will not go unrewarded. My wife went to work and took those Bible stories and put those blessed truths in a light that the child could comprehend, and soon the feeling of dread for the Sabbath with the boy was the other way, "What day's to-morrow?" he would ask, "Sunday." "I am glad." And if we make those Bible truths interesting--break them up in some shape so that these children can get at them, then they will begin to enjoy them.

Child, Influence of a

A child's question leads an ungodly father to prayer and family dedication to God.

A little boy asked his ungodly father, "Dear pa, why don't you do as Uncle Isaac does?" His attention was immediately arrested; and he inquired, "How does your Uncle Isaac do, my son?" The reply was, "He prays in his family." This simple remark went with power to the father's heart, and he began to call on the Lord to have mercy on him. He continued his suit at the throne of the heavenly grace; and his desire for salvation was so great, that he was willing to use any means, or do any duty. He erected the family altar, and dedicated his children to the Lord. He is now a living and happy Christian.

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Children, Bringing up

Common sense and wise choices guide effective child-rearing better than strict rules.

The late Dr. Henry Ware, when once asked by a parent to draw up some set of rules for government of children, replied by an anecdote: "Dr. Hitchcock," he said "was settled in Sandwich; and, when he made his first exchange with the Plymouth minister, he must needs pass through the Plymouth Woods, a nine miles' wilderness, where travellers almost always got lost, and frequently came out at the point they started from. Dr. Hitchcock, on entering this much dreaded labyrinth, met an old woman, and asked her to give him some directions for getting through the woods so as to fetch up at Plymouth, rather than Sandwich. 'Certainly,' she said, 'I will tell you all about it with the greatest pleasure. You will just keep right on till you get some ways into the woods, and you will come to a place where several roads branch off. Then you must stop and consider, and take the one that seems to you most likely to bring you out right.' He did so, and came out right." Dr. Ware added, "I have always followed the worthy and sensible old lady's advice in bringing up my children. I do not think anybody can do better: at any rate, I cannot." Good common sense, doubtless, is often better than all set rules; but the thing is to have it.

622-623. CHILDREN, Deaths of. A delicate child, pale, and prematurely wise, was complaining, on a hot morning, that the poor dewdrops had been too hastily snatched away, and not allowed to glitter on the flowers, like other happier dewdrops that live the whole night through, and sparkle in the moonlight, and through the morning, onwards to noonday. "The sun," said the child, "has chased them away with his heat, or swallowed them in his wrath." Soon after came rain and a rainbow; whereupon his father pointed upwards. "See!" said he, "there stand thy dewdrops, gloriously reset, a glittering jewelry in the heavens; and the clownish foot tramples on them no more. By this, my child, thou art taught that what withers on earth blooms again in heaven." Thus the father spoke, and knew not that he spoke prefiguring words; for, soon after, the delicate child, with the morning brightness of his earthly wisdom, was exhaled, like a dewdrop, into heaven. Richter.

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Children, Duty of

True understanding of honoring parents is shown by practical love and sacrifice.

An old schoolmaster said, one day, to a clergyman who came to examine his school, "I believe the children know the catechism, word for word."—"But do they understand it? that is the question," said the clergyman. The schoolmaster only bowed respectfully, and the examination began. A little boy had repeated the fifth commandment. "Honor thy father and thy mother;" and he was desired to explain it. Instead of trying to do so, the little fellow, with his face covered with blushes, said, almost in a whisper, "Yesterday, sir, I showed some strange gentlemen over the mountain. The sharp stones cut my feet; and the gentlemen saw them bleeding, and they gave me some money to buy me shoes. I gave it to my mother, for she had no shoes either; and I thought I could go barefoot better than she." The clergyman then looked very much pleased; and the old schoolmaster only quietly remarked, "God gives us his grace and his blessing!" Christian Treasury.

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Children, Early Training of

Early influences determine the lifelong direction and destiny of a child’s life.

Near the top of one of the loftiest summits of the Rocky Mountains, more than ten thousand feet above the level of the ocean, are two fountains, so near, and so nearly on a level, that it would be no great stretch of the power and art of man to divert the streamlet which issues from either fountain into that which issues from the other. If you follow the course of one of these infant rivers, you find it, from some slight inclination of the plain, taking an easterly direction, and after traversing, for some distance, the broad plateau in which it rises, descending from valley to valley, receiving every few miles a fresh impulse from some tributary stream, until at length, uniting with a thousand others, it finds an ocean home in the Gulf of Mexico, through the mouth of the great "Father of Waters." If now, retracing your steps to the point of departure, you follow in like manner the course of the other stream, you find yourself descending gradually in a westerly direction, until, by a process exactly the counterpart of the former, you are led through the mouth of the Columbia, into the bosom of the great Pacific. To go from the terminus of one stream to the terminus of the other, you must overcome an ascent of more than ten thousand feet, and travel not less than five thousand miles. Yet in their outset these two streams were neighbors. Neither of them seemed to have any positive or determined bias one way or the other. A very ordinary amount of effort would seem to be sufficient to make the easterly stream run west, or the westerly stream run east.

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Children, Education of

Children’s education profoundly impacts their eternal life or death.

As life and death are in the power of the tongue, so, also, we may well say, life and death are in the education of our children: for, if they be well brought up, it shall be life unto them; but, if it be otherwise, they be trained up to everlasting death. Cawdray.

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Children, Government of

Gentle, loving discipline governs children effectively without harshness.

As for ourselves, we tried the rod on our own children, but are now trying the sugar-plum with our grandchildren. Thus far, our success is remarkable. Family government has risen in popularity. Children cry for it. Our children used to look with aversion on the spot where we locked up the switch; but now there is not in the whole house a place so favorite as the drawer where is stored the sweet moral suasion. Good conduct thrives; obedience is at a premium; the will is broken; the children are governed without knowing it. Blessings on sugar-plums!

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Children, Indiscretion of

Children’s innocent honesty can reveal hidden family truths.

A gentleman was in the habit of calling at a neighbor's house, and the lady had always expressed to him great pleasure from his calls. One day, just after she had remarked to him, as usual, her happiness from his visit, her little boy entered the room. The gentleman took him on his knee, and asked, "Are you not glad to see me, George?"—"No, sir," replied the boy. "Why not, my little man?" he continued. "Because mother don't want you to come," said George. "Indeed! how do you know that, George?" Here the mother became crimson, and looked daggers at her little son; but he saw nothing, and therefore replied, "Because she said, yesterday, she wished that old bore would not call here again." That was enough. The gentleman's hat was soon in requisition; and he left with the impression that "great is the truth, and it will prevail."

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Children, Influence of

Raising children profoundly shapes a person’s maturity and character.

Men cannot be developed perfectly who have not been compelled to bring children up to manhood. You might as well say that a tree is a perfect tree without leaf or blossom, as to say that a man is a man who has gone through life without experiencing the influences that come from bending down, and giving one's self up to those who are helpless and little.

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Children, Influence over

Children raised under the authority of God's Word resist ungodly parental influence.

The mother of a family was married to an infidel, who made jest of religion in the presence of his own children; yet she succeeded in bringing them all up in the fear of the Lord. I asked her one day how she preserved them from the influence of a father whose sentiments were so opposed to her own. This was her answer: "Because, to the authority of a father, I do not oppose the authority of a mother, but that of God. From their earliest years, my children have always seen the Bible upon my table. This holy book has constituted the whole of their religious instruction. I was silent that I might allow it to speak. Did they propose a question, did they commit a fault, did they perform a good action, I opened the Bible, and the Bible answered, reproved, or encouraged them. The constant reading of the Scriptures has wrought the prodigy which surprises you."

Example, Parental

Parental example powerfully shapes children’s character and future conduct.

The ancient Romans were accustomed to place the busts of their distinguished ancestors in the vestibules of their houses, that they might be continually reminded of their noble deeds. They supposed that a recollection of their illustrious virtues would lead to the imitation of the same by all the living members of their households. There is no doubt that the influence of this practice was most happy upon the living, awakening in many breasts high and noble aspirations. At any rate, history records the names of many renowned Romans, who descended from the families in which this custom was observed. The young grew up to reverence the worthies whose statues they daily saw, and to emulate the virtues which gave their ancestors such lasting fame. In these days, we have no busts of honored ancestors in the porches of our dwellings; but we have something more impressive. The characters of living parents are constantly presented for the imitation of children. Their example is continually sending forth a silent power to mould young hearts for good or ill; not for a single month or year, but through the whole impressible period of childhood and youth, the influence of parental example is thus felt. If it be constituted of the highest and purest elements, the results will be unspeakably precious. Sons and daughters will become patterns of propriety and goodness, because their parents are such.

Family Prayer, Duty of

Faithful family prayer should be maintained despite opposition or indifference.

A professor of religion married a wife of irreligious sentiments and associations; and, in deference to her, dropped his custom of family prayer. Some time after, she told him she thought she was marrying a Christian; but now she doubted it, for Christians pray with their families. He excused himself on the ground of regard for her. She told him that that had nothing to do with his duty, and that she liked to see professors faithful and consistent. She would not wait till morning, but insisted that the family altar should be restored at once, which was done to the great comfort of both. Let every Christian perform this duty regardless of opposition or supposed indifference.

Family Prayer, Neglect of

Neglecting family prayer can cause children to doubt God's presence.

A very small girl whose mother was dead, and whose father had married again, but had not resumed family worship, soon after the event, accosted him, "Father, is God dead?"—"No, my child," said he: "what makes you ask that question?"—"Why, you used to pray to him night and morning when my mother was alive; but you don't now. I did not know but God was dead too."

Family Prayer, Panetuality in

Consistent family prayer is essential regardless of circumstances or company.

John Howard the philanthropist never neglected the duty of family prayer, though there were but one, and that one a servant, to join him; always declaring, that, where he had a tent, God should have an altar. Wherever he was when the time came, the duty was attended to. The presence of no one was allowed to interfere with it; and every call of business must wait outside the locked door till it was ended.

Family Prayer, Rejecting

Delaying family worship makes it harder to start praying openly with family.

A well-to-do and intelligent farmer, who had eight grown-up children, was powerfully convicted for sin, but would not yield to be saved. Being asked what the nature of his difficulties was, he said, "If I become a Christian, and make a profession of religion, I must have family worship. But I cannot take my Bible, read a chapter, and then kneel down and pray, in the presence of my family. Had I commenced when I was young, as I ought to have done, it would have been comparatively easy; but now most of them are grown up around me, and I cannot do it; I cannot do it." And he did not.

Family Prayer, Result of

Family prayer can lead to conversion and spiritual transformation of others.

A merchant had taken a new clerk into his family, and, after their first breakfast together, was leaving without family prayer; when his wife called him back, and placed the Bible in his hands. He read a chapter, and prayed with much fervor. Six weeks after, that clerk was converted, and ascribed his change to the earnest prayers in the family of his employer.

Family Prayer, Secured

Children's desire for family prayer can inspire parents to begin regular devotion.

A little girl of five years visited her grandfather's, and so much enjoyed the family prayers there, that, on her return, she besought her father to read and pray as grandpa did. Night after night she urged her father with tears, till he yielded to her desire, and became an active and useful Christian.

Family Religion, Failure of

Inconsistent family life undermines sincere prayers for children's spiritual growth.

The father prays in the morning that his children may grow up in the Lord, and calls it even the principal good of their life, that they are to be Christians, living to God and for the world to come. Then he goes out into the field or the shop or the house of trade, and, delving there all day in his gains, keeps praying from morning to night, without knowing it, that his family may be rich. His plans and works, faithfully seconded by an affectionate wife, pull exactly contrary to the pull of his prayers, and to all their common teaching in religion. Their tempers are worldly, and make a worldly atmosphere in the house. Pride, the ambition of show and social standing, envy to what is above, jealousy of what is below, follies of dress and fashion, and the more foolish elation felt when a son is praised or a daughter admired in the matter of personal appearance, or, what is no better, a manifest preparing and foretasting of this folly when the son or daughter is so young as to be the more certainly poisoned by the infection of it, — oh, these unspoken, damning prayers! how many are they, and how totally do they fill up the days! The mornings open with a reverent, fervent-sounding prayer of words; and then the days come after, piling up petitions of ends, aims, tempers, passions, and works, that ask for any thing and every thing but what accords with the genuine rule of religion. The prayer of the morning is that the son, the daughter, all the sons, all the daughters, may be Christians; and then the prayers that follow are for any thing but that, or any thing, in fact, most contrary to that. Is it any wonder, when we consider this common disagreement between the prayers, even the fervent prayers, of the family, and all other concerns, enjoyments, and ends of the common life beside, that so many fine shows of family piety are yet followed by so much of godless and even reprobate character in the children? Dr. Bushnell.

Family Worship, Mode of

Structured family worship includes Scripture reading, singing, catechism, and examination.

Philip Henry was most exemplary in his practice of family devotion. Besides the regular plan of reading and expounding the Scriptures morning and evening, he used strongly to recommend singing; saying that it was a way of exhibiting godliness, like Rahab's scarlet thread, to such as pass by our windows. His children and servants used to take notes of his expositions; and the foundation of Matthew Henry's "Commentary" was laid from these notes. Besides this, on Thursday evening, instead of reading, he used to catechise his children and servants upon the Assembly's Catechism, with the proofs, or sometimes in a smaller catechism; or else they read, and he examined them in some other useful book, as Mr. Poole's "Dialogues against the Papists;" and on Saturday evening they gave him an account of what they could remember of the chapters they had read through during the week, each a several part in order. Besides this, he had also days of humiliation with his family. The consequence was, that, in addition to the blessings resulting to his own children, many who came to live with them dated their first impressions from these services, and gave God thanks that they ever came under his roof. Bowes.

Home, Duties of

Christian parents have the duty to provide religious instruction to their children at home.

Two Christians met at a crossing on a Monday morning. Both were parents. As was natural, the conversation turned upon the services of the preceding day. The first speaker opened by saying "We had a sermon from our minister last night on the religious instruction of children. Why didn't you come and hear it?"—"Because," said the other, "I was at home doing it!" Christian Treasury

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Home, Influence of

Children taught well can be negatively influenced by bad examples at home.

It was a source of much trouble to some fishes to see a number of lobsters swimming backwards instead of forwards. They therefore called a meeting; and it was determined to open a class for their instruction, which was done, and a number of young lobsters came: for the fishes gravely argued, that, if they commenced with the young ones, as they grew up they would learn to swim aright. At first, they did very well; but afterwards, when they returned home, and saw their fathers and mothers swimming in the old way, they soon forgot their lessons. So, many a child well taught at school is drifted backwards by a bad home influence.

— Bible Class Magazine

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Mother, Duty of a

Heathen mothers teach children to pray early, unlike many Christian mothers today.

The heathen mother takes her babe to the idol temple, and teaches it to clasp its little hands before its forehead, in the attitude of prayer, long before it can utter a word. As soon as it can walk, it is taught to gather a few flowers or fruits, or put a little rice upon a banana-leaf, and lay them upon the altar before the idol god. As soon as it can utter the names of its parents, so soon it is taught to offer up its petitions before the images. Who ever saw a heathen child that could speak, and not pray? Christian mothers, why is it that so many children grow up in this enlightened land without learning to pray? Vt. Chronicle.

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Women, Educated

Educated women significantly contribute to their families' and society's intellectual and spiritual growth.

The wives of Luther, Jonathan Edwards, Burke, Fennimore Cooper, Mill, and Hitchcock, have shown how greatly educated women may aid their husbands in literary pursuits. Educated mothers are qualified to instruct their children, and to awaken in them a taste for learning. The mother of Miss Maria Mitchell was much distinguished in her youth for her fondness of books. The distinguished and wise-hearted Duchess of Kent was able to arrange and superintend the whole manner of the education of her daughter, the illustrious Queen of England; and she did this, making it her great purpose to train her to be worthy of the crown which she now wears. "I was mainly educated by my mother," says Sarah Josephia Hale. Alfred's mother "made him all he was in his own age, and all that he is to ours." Felicia Hemans had an accomplished mother. The mother of the great John Quincy Adams was a woman of rare attainments and of a bright genius. Cuvier's mother was pious, a lover of Nature, and used to accompany him to and from school, and to point out the interesting natural objects they met, and to excite in him a taste for the study of the works of God. She stimulated his passion for reading, and judiciously selected his books; and he acquired in childhood an accurate and extensive historical knowledge. At the age of fourteen, he formed a society of intelligent lads. Says M. Girardin, "There is no instance of a mother who can read and write whose children are not likewise able to read and write."

— Pittsburg Gazette

Women

A mother's thorough education shapes her child's character and influences future generations.

Education of The mother, under whose sole influence the child is for years, from whom it acquires its tastes and character, should not only be educated, but educated in the most thorough manner, and have her mind stored with varied learning, so that she may be able to answer the multitude of questions that will be put to her by her inquisitive child on art, science, literature, and religion, and thus to stimulate his curiosity, and awake his mind. An ignorant and narrow-minded woman will not be likely to make her son or daughter the opposite of herself. And, if she is never to become a wife or mother, her happiness, and her influence for good, other things being equal, as a teacher, physician, a writer, or in any capacity, will be in proportion to the extent of her education. On this point, history is full of examples.

— Pittsburg Gazette

Family Altar Restored

A child's simple reminder can restore neglected family prayer and spiritual discipline.

A man once received from his own child, an infant of three years old, one of the most severe reproofs he ever met with. Family prayer had been, by some means, neglected one morning, and the child was, as it were, out of its element. At length, he came to his father as he sat, and just as the family were going to dinner, the little reprover, leaning on his father's knee, said, with a sigh, "Pa, you were used to go to prayer with us, but you did not to-day." "No, my dear," said the parent, "I did not." "But, pa, you ought; why did you not?" The father had not a word to reply, and the child's rebuke was as appropriate and natural, as if it had been administered by the most able minister in the land; and, it may be said, was as permanently useful.

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The Neglected Altar

A child's simple request restores a father's neglected family prayer habit.

A person, who afterwards became a Sunday school teacher near Cambridge, (Eng.) having had his conviction of the necessity and importance of religious duties shaken, began to think lightly of them, and to omit family prayer, which he had been accustomed to perform. A child of his, who had been taught at a Sabbath school, one day said to his parent, with great simplicity, "Father, do you pray in the morning, and let me pray with you." The father was struck with this gentle reproof from his own child, and confessed that he could no longer live in the neglect of family prayer.

The Unfaithful Mother

A mother's procrastination in spiritual talks with her child caused deep remorse after his death.

A Christian minister calling at the house of one of his friends, found him and his wife in deepest distress, from the sudden death of their only child. He attempted to console the distracted parents; but the mother replied, "Ah, sir, these consolations might assuage my grief for the loss of my child, but they cannot blunt the stings of my conscience, which are as daggers in my heart. It was but last week I was thinking, 'My child is now twelve years of age; his mind is rapidly expanding; I know he thinks and feels beyond the measure of his years, and a foolish backwardness has hitherto kept me from entering so closely into conversation with him as to discover the real state of his mind, and to make a vigorous effort to lead his heart to God.' I then resolved to seize the first opportunity to discharge a duty so weighty on the conscience of a Christian parent; but day after day my foolish deceitful heart said, 'I will do it to-morrow.' On the very day that he was taken ill, I had resolved to talk to him that evening; and when he at first complained of his head, I was half pleased with the thought, that this might incline him to listen more seriously to what I should say. But Oh, sir, his pain and fever increased so rapidly, that I was obliged to put him immediately to bed, and as he seemed inclined to foze, I was glad to leave him to rest. From that time he was never sufficiently sensible for conversation; and now he is gone into eternity, and has left me distracted with anxiety concerning the salvation of his precious soul! Dilatory wretch! had it not been for my own sin, I might now have been consoling myself with the satisfactory conviction of having discharged the duty of a Christian parent, and enjoying the delightful assurance of meeting my child before the throne of God and the Lamb. Oh, the cursed sin of procrastination! Oh, the ruinous delusion that lurks in the word 'o-morrow!'

The Father'S Prayer

A father's fervent prayers led his children to faith and responsible Christian lives.

Of the family of Mr. C—, the following account is given by one of the sons, at the request of a friend:—My father was for many years not only a member, but a living member, of the church of Christ. He had ten children. We were all taught to "fear God and keep his commandments." "The Sabbath day" was "remembered." Well do I recollect, with filial gratitude, how regularly on the Sabbath we were summoned to take our stand around the arm-chair of my father, to repeat the catechism and other religious lessons, and his earnest entreaties that we would "remember our Creator in the days of our youth." His prayers partook much of a wrestling spirit; his whole soul appeared to be in the exercise. I never can forget one request which he pressed with deep and hearty solicitude: "O Lord! give my children an interest in Christ: whatever else is denied them, deny them not this greatest of all blessings!" In all my profligate wanderings that prayer would ring in my ears, and the image of my praying father would appear to my imagination; and now, with deep emotions of gratitude for God's abounding grace, I can say, every one of their children hope in the mercy of Christ. Two of the sons are officers of churches; and all of us have as many responsibilities as we can faithfully discharge both of a civil and religious character.

Doddridge And The Dutch Tiles

Early Scripture teaching through simple means shapes lifelong usefulness for God.

It is related of Mrs. Doddridge, that, when her son Philip was quite a little boy, she used to teach him Scripture history from the Dutch tiles of the fireplace, on which there were pictures of subjects taken from the Bible. Philip never forgot those early instructions, and probably to them, under God, his future usefulness may be traced.

Pious Mother'S Prodigal Son

A mother's prayer and Bible gift led to her prodigal son's repentance and salvation.

A pious mother had a prodigal son. He was about to leave her and go to sea. As a last resource, she placed a Bible in his chest, with a prayer to God for his blessing upon it. Year after year passed away, and nothing was heard of the wanderer. But the eye of his mother's God was upon him. A long time after, a clergyman was called to visit a dying sailor. He found him penitent and prepared to die. He had in his possession a Bible, which he said, was given to him by a dying shipmate, who, expiring in the hope of the glory of God, gave it to him with his parting blessing. On the blank leaf was found written the name of John Marshall, the pious mother's prodigal son. He was the brother of Mrs. Isabella Graham, whose interesting memoirs have profited many readers.

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A Mother Constant In Prayer

A mother's faithful prayers and daily petitions shape her children's spiritual lives.

In the vicinity of Philadelphia, there was a pious mother, who had the happiness of seeing her children in very early life, brought to the knowledge of the truth; walking in the fear of the Lord, and ornaments in the Christian church. A clergyman, who was traveling, heard this circumstance respecting this mother, and wished very much to see her, thinking that there might be something peculiar in her mode of giving instruction, which rendered it so effectual. He accordingly visited her, and inquired respecting the manner in which she discharged the duties of a mother in educating her children. The woman replied, that she did not know that she had been more faithful than any Christian mother would be, in the religious instruction of her children. After a little conversation, she said, "While my children were infants on my lap, as I washed them, I raised my heart to God, that he would wash them in that blood which cleanseth from all sin; as I clothed them in the morning, I asked my heavenly Father to clothe them with the robe of Christ's righteousness; as I provided them food, I prayed that God would feed their souls with the bread of heaven and give them to drink of the water of life. When I have prepared them for the house of God, I have pleaded that their bodies might be fit temples for the Holy Ghost to dwell in. When they left me for the week-day school, I followed their infant footsteps with a prayer, that their path through life might be like that of the just, which shineth more and more unto the perfect day. And as I committed them to the rest of the night, the silent breathing of my soul has been, that their heavenly Father would take them to his embrace, and fold them in his paternal arms."

A Mother'S Usefulness Through Her Posterity

Early godly instruction by a mother influences her son's lifelong devoted Christian ministry.

E—H—was born in Massachusetts, in 1737. His parents carefully instructed him in the principles of the Gospel. His father was an eminently godly man, but naturally of a very hasty spirit. His mother was remarkable for Christian meekness, and was his principal religious instructor. When a child he was accustomed to pray that he "might possess the grace of his father and the meekness of his mother." At the age of seven he gave evidence of being born again. His whole life was eminently devoted to God. In the things of this world he was poor, but in Christian character and influence rich. Having for some time sustained the office of deacon of a church in B—, and afterwards of a church in P—, Vermont, at the earnest solicitation of the latter he obtained license to preach, and entered on the pastoral office, which he reputably sustained more than twenty years. The church, while under his care, experienced repeated seasons of "refreshing from the presence of the Lord," and large accessions. Many bore joyful testimony to the powerful influence in favor of godliness every where exerted by him as he moved on in his Master's work. Especially in his family do we find striking proof of the benefits of the early religious training he himself received under the instructions of his mother. He had ten children who came to mature age; three sons and seven daughters. Nine of them gave evidence of piety. The tenth was not pious. This child was put to a trade at the usual age, where nothing like a Christian influence was exerted over him, and his habits became vicious. The children of Mr. H. reared sixty children, thirty-six of whom were known to have made a Christian profession; nearly all between the ages of ten and twenty.

The Converted Students And Their Mother

Most converts in a college revival had praying, pious mothers influencing them.

"In a college of —," says a correspondent of the N. Y. Evangelist of 1831, "there has lately been an extensive revival. Having myself a praying mother, it occurred to me to inquire of the subjects of the revival, whether their mothers were pious. I did so, and found that scarcely one sinner was brought into the fold of Christ, who was not blessed with a pious, prayerful mother. This is a fact, and oh! that mothers would let it make the proper impression on their hearts."

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The Young Infidel And His Mother

A pious mother's influence haunts an infidel, showing the lasting power of early spiritual teaching.

"Where parental influence does not convert," says Richard Cecil, "it hampers—it hangs on the wheels of evil. I had a pious mother, who dropped things in my way—I could never rid myself of them. I was a professed infidel; but then I liked to be an infidel in company, rather than when alone—I was wretched when by myself. These principles and maxims spoiled my pleasure. With my companions I would sometimes stifle them; like embers, we kept one another warm. Besides, I was a sort of hero; I had beguiled several of my associates into my opinions, and I had to maintain a character before them: but I could not divest myself of my better principles. I went with one of my companions to see —: he could laugh heartily, but I could not: the ridicule on regeneration was high sport to him—to me it was none; it could not move my features. He knew no difference between regeneration and transubstantiation—I did. I knew there was such a thing. I was afraid and ashamed to laugh at it. Parental influence thus cleaves to a man—it harasses him—it throws itself constantly in his way."

The Aged Prisoner And His Deceased Mother

A dying mother's last words deeply impress her sinful son throughout his life of crime.

The chaplain of the prison at Weathersfield says:

"A man of fifty, who has been a wanderer over almost the whole earth, and a partaker in almost every sin that can be named, and who has also met with much which we should think was calculated to make him solemn, told me that nothing in his whole life has ever made him feel serious, but what his mother said to him just before her death. She resided in Trenton, New Jersey, and was a sincere, warm-hearted Christian. When she found herself dying, she sent for her son, then a lad of twelve years old, to come to her chamber. As he approached her bed, she took his hand, and spoke to him with maternal tenderness and fidelity. Telling him she must soon leave him, she earnestly besought him by every moving consideration, so to love the Savior, and so to take care of his soul, as to meet her in heaven. She continued to clasp his hand until hers became cold in death. For nearly half a century afterwards, this man was pressing onwards through a course of crime, too revolting for description. Yet he assured me, that amidst his lowest and darkest descents into the vortex of sin, he could never utterly drive from his mind the last words of his mother, and was never able to think of them without solemn emotion. This struck me with some surprise, and appeared to me a remarkable proof of the deep and lasting impression a pious mother may make upon the mind of her child."

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moak to the banks of the Forth, on his way to Edinburgh, was, with several others, prevented by a storm from crossing that frith. Thus obliged to remain in Fife during the Sabbath, he was employed to preach, it is believed, in King horn. Conformably to his usual practice, he prayed earnestly in the morning for the Divine countenance and aid in the work of the day; but suddenly missing his note-book, he knew not what to do. His thoughts, however, were directed to the command, "Thou shalt not kill;" and having studied the subject with as much care as the time would permit, he delivered a short sermon on it in the forenoon. Having returned to his lodging, he gave strict injunctions to the servant that no one should be allowed to see him during the interval of worship. A stranger, however, who was also one of the persons detained by the state of the weather, expressed an earnest desire to see the minister; and having with difficulty obtained admittance, appeared much agitated, and asked him, with great eagerness, whether he knew him, or had ever seen or heard of him. On receiving assurance that he was totally unacquainted with his face, character, and history, the gentleman proceeded to state, that his sermon on the sixth commandment had reached his conscience; that he was a murderer; that being the second son of a Highland laird, he had some time before, from base and selfish motives, cruelly suffocated his elder brother, who slept in the same bed with him; and that now he had no peace of mind, and wished to surrender himself to justice, to suffer the punishment due to his horrid and unnatural crime. Mr. Erskine asked him if any other person knew any thing of his guilt. His answer was, that so far as he was aware, not a single individual had the least suspicion of it; on which the good man exhorted him to be deeply affected with a sense of his atrocious sin, to make an immediate application to the blood of sprinkling, and to bring forth fruits meet for repentance; but at the same time, since, in providence, his crime had hitherto remained a secret, not to disclose it, or give himself up to public justice. The unhappy gentleman embraced this well intended counsel in all its parts, became truly pious, and maintained a friendly correspondence with Mr. Erskine in future life.

Self

Convicted men reformed their neglect of family prayer before admonishing others.

CONVICTED COMMITTEE.—In a certain church, there were four brethren, heads of families, who were generally known to neglect the important social Christian duty of Family Prayer. The subject being introduced at a church meeting, it was proposed to appoint a committee to wait upon two of these brethren, and labor with them on this subject. When the committee was nominated, who should be named, but the two other brethren who were known by many to be guilty of the same neglect. They tried to shift off the appointment and excuse themselves, without, however, stating the true reason of their reluctance; but it was all in vain, the vote was put, and these two were appointed the committee. They were now in rather an awkward situation—pretty sort of persons, thought they, to be appointed to labor with others for the neglect of family prayer, when we are guilty of the same ourselves. The result, however was good. The two brethren got together to talk the matter over, and concluded that they could not very well converse with the others, till they had reformed themselves. After conversing together, and reflecting alone, they were each convicted of the guilt of their criminal neglect. They assembled their families, confessed to them their guilt, re-established at once the family altar, and the Lord came down and blessed their souls. They were then ready to go and converse with the other two delinquents; they told them how they had been equally guilty, how they had repented of their sinful neglect, and how the Lord had blessed them and their families in erecting afresh the broken down family altar, and entreated them to do the same. The consequence was, that family prayer was immediately re-established in these families also, and at the next church meeting, the committee reported with tears in their eyes, that they had been successful in reclaiming not only their brethren, but also themselves, from the guilt and the inconsistency of those professedly Christian heads of families who call not upon the name of the Lord.

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The Son'S Admonition

A son lovingly urges his reluctant father to begin family prayer, overcoming diffidence.

My father, says Prof. B., was one of those still men who, much as he thought of company, carried on his part of conversation in brief questions and monosyllabic answers. He had deceived himself into the belief that his talents were not such as to make it his duty to conduct family worship. With this view, he had lived for more than forty years, in every other respect a consistent Christian. A son, who, at the time referred to, was preparing for the ministry, and already licensed to preach, was spending a vacation at home—the last evening of his stay had arrived—the family Bible, as usual, is placed before him on the stand, with a request to lead in prayer. The thought occurred, that now for a year or more, whatever devotion might be felt, no voice of prayer could be heard in the family, except from the lips of strangers who should turn in for the night. The thought affected him, and endeavoring to use such a manner as would become him in addressing a father almost three-score years and ten, he said—"Father, I delight to lead in this exercise when at home, but I am affected with the thought that there is to be no more prayer here, until I shall return. How is it that you have never established family prayer? I know the diffidence of your nature—I know that it would be hard to overcome it—but would it not have been attended with satisfaction to yourself, and a blessing to the family worth a far greater sacrifice? You can ask a favor of a neighbor—to do the same thing with God, is prayer: and he greatly mistakes, who thinks that the best prayer is that clothed in the most fluent language." The old man was affected—said he knew that it was so—and then gave an account of his feelings and practice in this respect since the commencement of his Christian 398.

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course. Tears glistened in the eyes of some unaccustomed to weep for sin, and the father's expression gave encouragement to hope that the suggestion would not be in vain, and that an altar would still be erected, whence incense and a pure offering should daily rise to Heaven. On the day following, before leaving, the son mentioned the scene of the previous evening to the minister of the place, who took an opportunity to add his influence to what had been said, and it proved effectual. The man whose voice, though for forty years a professed Christian and a father, had never been heard in prayer by his children, at the age of threescore years and ten, commences the discharge of that duty in his family, and so far as I know never ceases until the infirmities of age render it impossible. His children, ten in number, who had not before, have since professed the religion of Christ, though I cannot say how much the father's prayers had to do with this result.

Family Worship Established By A Child

A boy initiates family worship alone until the whole family joins in prayer.

A boy, about fourteen years of age, who had learned, at one of the schools belonging to the Gaelic Society, the value of his own soul, was deeply impressed with the importance of family religion. As none of the family could read but himself, he intimated his intention of establishing family worship. No answer was made, no opposition started, and as little encouragement given. Still he made the attempt. He read the Scriptures, and prayed for himself, and for all present. The rest of the family looked on. Alone he continued to worship God in this manner for some time, the others being merely spectators; but at length, one after another sunk down on their knees beside him, until the whole domestic circle united in the hallowed exercise; the gray-headed father kneeling down beside his child, and joining in his artless aspirations to God the Father of all.

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A Family Converted

Persistent family prayer leads to a revival and conversion of the children.

A man in the western country removed into a new town and took the first measures to establish religious meetings. The Lord blessed his exertions; a church 338.

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was formed of which he was chosen deacon, and a minister was settled His family grew up around him, but none of his children were converted, and he felt great anxiety lest family prayer should cease after he should be removed. He lived to be upwards of seventy years old, and all the time his constant prayer was, that God would have mercy on his children and not suffer the lamp of piety to go out in his house. One of the sons moved into the family mansion to take care of the old man, as his wife was dead. He still kept up family prayer as usual, never forgetting to pray for his son, that he might be converted and take his place at the family altar. A revival commenced in the town and the minister heard that there was something unusual at the old family mansion. He called to see them; in one room he beheld six or seven persons weeping, distressed for their sins, and the old man kneeling in one corner with his eyes and hands lifted up to heaven, crying to God to have mercy on his children. The minister attempted to address them, but found every thing he attempted to say far beneath the subject. God was there doing his own work—to this God he kneeled and prayed and then left them. The result was that the son, and several of his children were converted, and the good old man could say with Simeon, "Now Lord lettest thou thy servant depart in peace, for mine eyes have seen thy salvation."

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The Student And His Mother'S Letters

A mother's persistent prayers and warnings seek to bring her rebellious son to Christ.

Among the students in an Academy in Massachusetts in 1845, was one, who was the son of a pious mother, but whose father was a professed believer in the doctrine of the final and universal restoration of all men, and openly rejected and ridiculed true religion. Yet, notwithstanding Mr. F.'s (the young man's father) hostility to religion, he had permitted his son to be trained up in the Sabbath school, where the true principles of the gospel had been so instilled into his young mind that all the sophistical arguments used by his father were unable to move him. But at the period of which we are speaking, the young man was a stranger to God experimentally.

The second week after he entered school, he received a letter from his mother, in which she warned him of the danger to which he exposed himself by living in rebellion against God, and urged him to repent. He thought but little of the letter, and, being a close student, applied himself to his books, entirely regardless of the concerns of his soul. Two weeks passed and another letter came, containing the same warning and expostulations as the first. And thus she continued, for some months, to write to her impenitent son, using every argument a mother's love and concern for his soul could suggest to persuade him to become a Christian. Still his mind remained unaffected.

In the meantime a protracted meeting was being held in the village where the academy was located. The young man had frequently been solicited to lay aside his books and attend it. This he refused to do, saying, he did not feel at all interested in the meetings, nor had he the least concern for his soul; besides, it was more profitable for students to attend to their books, than spend their time in that manner. Two weeks had passed since he received his mother's last letter; he went to the post-office for another, and found one with the post-mark of his native village upon it; but on opening it, instead of seeing the familiar hand of his mother, his eye rested on characters scarcely legible. What could this mean? He began to read, and soon learned that his mother by accident had been deprived of the use of her right hand, and had written with her left; still presenting to him the important theme of his salvation. This touched a chord in the young man's heart, and he said, "If my sins are the cause of so much grief to my mother, there must be something wrong, and by the grace of God I will forsake them, and begin now to seek my soul's salvation." That evening he went to the prayer-meeting; and when "the anxious" were requested to come forward to the altar that Christians might pray for them, he was among the first there. But as he afterward stated, he had no conviction for sin, though he knew he was a sinner, and without repentance could not be saved. It was love for his mother alone which prompted him to take the step he had, and love for her led him still further. For several successive evenings he was seen upon the anxious seat, yet there appeared to be no change wrought in him. At length, one evening he rose up, and stated what his feelings had been, and added, that he now began to desire religion because he believed it to be the "power of God unto salvation." Conviction from this time began to roll in upon his mind, and he saw himself as he never had done before, a lost and condemned creature, without God and without hope. His distress of mind was great, and his trials unusually severe. But he heard a voice saying, "Behold the Lamb of God which taketh away the sins of the world," and like Andrew he went to meet Him and became his disciple, and one of the brightest ornaments of religion among the many who were hopefully converted at that time.

# 349. Overruling Intended or Actual Persecution.

Dying Girl And Her Father

A dying girl’s faith led her unbelieving parents to salvation and church attendance.

A little girl went to the Peter-street, Wardour-street, Sunday school, Westminster, for about two years: her conduct and conversation were always very exemplary. Her parents paid little or no regard to religion; but when, on a Sunday, her father was going out to take his pleasure she would often say, "Father, the people are going and coming out of church, why do you not go?" and such like expressions. Her death was caused by an accident, some boiling liquid being thrown over her, on the 20th of November, 1821. She lingered until the next day, and then died, aged eight years. She bore the anguish with great patience and resignation; and about two hours before her death, she said to her father, "I am going to heaven; I hope you will go to chapel, that you may go to heaven when you die;" and he solemnly promised to do as she requested. He accordingly attended public worship, and the first discourses he heard all seemed to be directed only to and for him. He then had reason to remember his dear child, and her words; and a radical change ensued. He constantly attended there; the word of eternal life was blessed to his soul, and he became a communicant. There was also a change at home; the mother generally attended with her husband. Thus, through the instrumentality of this little girl, a whole family was brought near to God.

Three Scholars And Their Mother

Three boys supported their sick mother through work and faith learned at Sunday school.

Three boys attended a Sunday school in London for some time; at length their father died, and their mother was taken so dangerously ill, that, being very poor, she was obliged to be removed to the workhouse. The two elder boys had employment, by which they earned a few shillings each per week. On the mother's removal, the three boys consulted together what they should do; and they calculated that what they could earn would be sufficient to provide them with food, and to pay the rent of the room which had been tenanted by their mother. They asked the landlord if he would let them stop in the room, if they paid the weekly rent regularly; to this he cheerfully consented. Some weeks passed on, and the third boy got a situation, and the two eldest obtained an advance in their wages on account of their diligence and good conduct. By this time their mother had nearly recovered her health; the three boys again consulted together, and found that their earnings would enable them to maintain their mother, and they resolved upon trying to do it. They accordingly made application to the parish officers, and their mother was restored to her house; and, by prudence and economy, the boys managed to maintain the family, and to pay their rent regularly. The boys acknowledged that it was by their attendance at the Sunday-school that they had been taught to feel for their parent, and to arrange their earnings so as to relieve the parish from any further charge on her account.

# 390. In Reforming Neighborhoods.

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Children'S Influence On Parents

A child's prayer led a drunken father to repentance and family transformation.

I can state, says Mr. Wilderspin, that a man discontinued drunkenness from the simple prattle of his infant. He was in the habit of frequently getting drunk; there were two or three children under seven years of age, and they all slept in the same room, though not in the same bed. The man came home one night drunk; his wife remonstrated with him, when he struck her. The woman cried very much, and continued to cry after she got into bed: but a little creature, two or three years old, got up, and said, "Pray, father, do not beat poor mother;" the father ordered it to get into bed again: the little creature got up again, and knelt down by the side of the bed, and repeated the Lord's prayer, and then concluded in this simple language: "Pray, God, bless dear father and mother, and make father a good father. Amen!" This went to the heart of the drunkard; the man told me he covered his face over with the bed-clothes, and that the first thoughts he awoke with in the morning, were thoughts of regret, that he should stand in need of such a remonstrance from such a young child, and it produced in him self-examination and amendment of life. The family became united to a Methodist chapel in that neighborhood, and I have learned that they are useful and valuable members of that society.

My Son Is My Spiritual Father

A son’s faithful witness leads his drunken father to repentance and spiritual renewal.

At a Wesleyan class meeting, a man rose and addressed the leader thus:—"I am very thankful to God, and to you, for your Sunday school. My son, who now sits beside me, is my spiritual father. He heard me cursing, while in a state of drunkenness, and said to me, 'O father! my teacher said to-day, at the Sunday school, that neither drunkards nor swearers could enter into heaven.' This so affected my mind, that from that time I was enabled, by the grace of God, to leave off those wicked practices; and both myself and my son are now members of your society." He then laid his hand on his son's head, and repeated, "My son is my spiritual father."

The Swearer'S Daughter

A child's sorrow over her father's swearing leads him to repentance and godly living.

The Rev. Mr. Solomon Carpenter held a religious meeting in Sussex county, Mass., at the house of a man who was awfully addicted to swearing, and the minister took occasion to reprove this and other vices. A little girl belonging to the family withdrew, and placed herself behind the door, and began to weep very bitterly. Her father particularly asked her the cause of this, and she told him she was afraid he would go to hell on account of his swearing. He at length promised her that if she would refrain from weeping he would never swear any more. The child was now quiet, and in an ecstasy of joy afterwards told her mother of the promise she had obtained from her father. The unexpected reproof the father had thus received from his daughter was lastingly impressed on his mind; he became a humble penitent, and lived to be a shining light in the Christian community conduced to my health." He answered, "I believe it has. But did you not do it likewise to save money?" I said I did, "for what I save from my own meat, will feed another, that else would have none." "But, sir," said he, "if this be your motive you may save more. I know a man that goes to market at the beginning of every week; there he buys a pennyworth of parsnips, which he boils in a large quantity of water. The parsnips serve him for food, and the water for drink, during the ensuing week, so that his meat and drink together cost him only a penny a week. This he constantly did, though he had two hundred pounds a year, to pay the debts he had contracted before he knew God!" And this is he whom I set down to be a covetous man!

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with which he was afterwards connected.

The Child'S Reproof Of An Irreligious Father

A child's reproof leads an irreligious father to repentance, prayer, and church membership.

The father of a little boy in Philadelphia, an irreligious man, offered to attend him to the Sabbath school, it being a very rainy day.—"Father, why don't you stay at the school, and go to meeting with me? you ought to go to meeting." The reproof was too powerful to be resisted. His soul was filled with remorse. He left his child at the school-house door, and turned back.

But the arrow of conviction had pierced his soul! He turned back, conscience-smitten, to weep over his sins, with a heart full of sorrow. He returned home immediately, retired to his chamber, bowed his knees in prayer, opened and read his Bible; in doing which he found relief, for the Spirit of the Lord had accompanied the words of the child, and the result was, that from this Sabbath day he determined to consecrate himself to God—to forsake the company of his guilty associates—to abandon the drunkard's bowl, and to lead a new life. He was enabled by divine grace to fulfil his resolution; from that day he established family prayer; became the subject of renewing grace, was baptized, and united with the church, of which he proved a worthy member.

# 80. Happy Deaths of Pious Children.

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