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Character in Christian preaching refers to the moral and spiritual qualities that define a believer's true nature, emphasizing godliness and integrity over mere reputation (Proverbs 22:1). Illustrations often use biographical sketches, historical figures, and vivid metaphors like building a temple to portray the lifelong pursuit and cultivation of Christlike character (Galatians 5:22-23).

Let God Do the Measuring

2 Corinthians 10

Let God Do The Measuring

Read: 2 Corinthians 10

Not he who commends himself is approved, but whom the Lord commends. --2 Corinthians 10:18

Have you ever tried to define a word by using the same word to describe it? It doesn't work. You can't explain a term by comparing it with itself. For example, you can't say, "Being proud is to be filled with pride."

It's also a fact that you can't describe a word by making up your own definition. You may have fun, as our family sometimes does, making a game of trying to see who can come up with the funniest definition of an unknown word. But what a word means is what the dictionary says.

What is true of defining words is also true of evaluating one's character. In 2 Corinthians 10, the apostle Paul showed the foolishness of trying to judge our own character by our own opinions (vv.12-18). We would be wrong to evaluate ourselves by devising our own guidelines. We must use God's line of measurement. He evaluates our lives by the standard of His unchanging character and purposes. What we are is what the Lord says we are.

As we take inventory of our lives and what we have done in the Lord's service, let's not be too quick to commend ourselves. The real test is whether we are those "whom the Lord commends" (v.18). --MRDII

Who measures how we've done in life

And judges our success?

Our God, who gives rewards to those

Who live in righteousness. --JDB

To see yourself as you really are, take one look at Christ.

from Our Daily Bread, 1999 via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database

A Name of Honor

1 Chronicles 4:1

A Name Of Honor

Read: 1 Chronicles 4:1-10

Oh, that You would bless me . . . and that You would keep me from evil, that I may not cause pain! –1 Chronicles 4:10

Bible In One Year: Ephesians 4-6

When we read through the Bible, we're inclined to skip the first nine chapters of 1 Chronicles because they're just lists of names. But here and there we can find interesting nuggets of information. The two verses about Jabez are a case in point (4:9-10).

The chronicler paused to tell us that this man was "more honorable than his brothers" (v.9). Why was he so honorable? We don't know for sure, but we can find some clues in his name and in a short prayer he uttered.

The name Jabez means "he causes pain." Who would want a name like that? His mother may have given him that name because of the intense suffering she experienced at his birth.

Instead of being bitter, or changing his name to something like "love" or "peace," Jabez turned to the Lord. He asked God to bless his life (v.10). Bible scholars have translated the last part of verse 10 either as a prayer to be kept from pain or as a plea for help so he would not cause pain to others. I believe Jabez was honorable because he pleaded with the Lord to help him live righteously so he would not cause others to suffer.

No matter what your name is, you too can be a person of honor. Ask the Lord to bless you and to make you a blessing to others today. –DCE

Make me a blessing, make me a blessing!

Out of my life may Jesus shine;

Make me a blessing, O Savior, I pray,

Make me a blessing to someone today. –Wilson

© Renewal 1952 The Rodeheaver Company

God blesses us so that we will bless others.

from Our Daily Bread, 1999 · R. Ruth Barton via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database lifecharacter

Seven Character Traits of Successful People

Attributes of successful people, by a motivational expert:

1. They are HARD WORKING. There is no such thing as easy money. Success takes hard work and people who are willing to do it.

2. They are HONEST. Those who are successful long-term are the honest ones. Dishonest people may get the first sale, but honest people will get all the rest!

3. They PERSEVERE. How many success stories will go untold because they never happened? And all because someone quit. Successful people outlast everybody else.

4. They are FRIENDLY. Have you noticed that most successful people are friendly and people oriented? This endears them to others and enables them to lead others to accomplish the task.

5. They are LIFELONG LEARNERS. Successful people are people who stretch themselves and grow continually, learning from all areas of life, including from their mistakes.

6. They OVER-DELIVER. The old statement of under-promise and over-deliver became famous because it made a lot of people successful, including the richest man in the world - Bill Gates

7. They SEEK SOLUTIONS in the face of problems. Problems are opportunities to do the impossible, not just complain. Successful people are the ones who find solutions.

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from Internet: Messages From the Masters; editor Jim Rohn · Chris Widener via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database characterhonesty

Bonzo Was Right!: Shutting Down the Family Business

In the classic comedy film, BEDTIME FOR BONZO, a young actor named Ronald Reagan brings home a monkey to prove a point, which is: A stable, two-parent home, where children are taught right and wrong, can keep kids from a life of crime.

At first, the chimp drives Reagan to distraction. He throws cereal in the actor's face and steals jewelry. But in the end, Bonzo proves Reagan's point: He returns a stolen necklace because his "parents" taught him that stealing is wrong. Well, it's lighthearted fun -- but with a profound message: Families do shape character, and thus directly impact crime.

The empirical evidence supporting this view is overwhelming. For example, researchers at the National Institute of Mental Heath studied high-risk inner-city neighborhoods. They found that when kids grow up in safe, stable families, only about six percent of them will become delinquent.

Contrast that with kids raised in unstable, one-parent families: Ninety percent of them will become delinquent. Clearly, it's not poverty or race that is the chief cause crime; it's the lack of moral training during morally formative years.

The problem is aggravated when a parent goes to prison. The leading indicator of criminal behavior is having a parent locked up. One study found that eighty-four percent of boys who become serious juvenile offenders have a parent or a sibling in jail. If nothing is done, generation after generation will continue to go into the family business: Crime, Inc.

Dr. Jim Dobson and I were at the Vatican last fall to address a conference on the family. As I told delegates gathered there from around the world, crime is at root a moral problem. Conversion -- bringing kids to a personal relationship with Jesus Christ -- is the best way to turn wayward juveniles around.

Conversion is the key to keeping families together, as well. In areas of the world where churches most aggressively evangelize, family breakdown declines. The Church's most immediate challenge is to reach out with the gospel to kids and families at risk.

Precisely, of course, what Prison Fellowship is doing.

Faith-based efforts -- not government programs or bigger prisons -- can deal directly with the problem of family breakdown. President Bush recognized this during his Inaugural Address: "The proliferation of prisons," he said, "however necessary, is no substitute for hope and order in our souls."

Exactly right.

We must also work hard for measures that strengthen the family, and must fight the cultural forces that are corrupting it. When state legislators propose repealing easy divorce laws, get behind them. If your local video store carries trashy movies, organize pickets. If a soap company advertises on raunchy TV programs, boycott it -- and let the company know why you're washing your hands of its product. If gay groups donate Heather Has Two Mommies to your local school library, raise the roof until it's removed.

Most Americans don't know about the connection between family and crime -- which is why the Church must issue a wake-up call. Our children deserve better than to be surrendered to settings that prepare them for a life of crime. The only institution than can provide this crucial moral training is the fragile, but irreplaceable, family.

Just ask Bonzo.

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For further reference:

Fagan, Patrick. "The Real Root Causes of Violent Crime: The Breakdown of Marriage, Family, and Community." BACKROUNDER #1026. The Heritage Foundation, 17 March 1995, p. 14.

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Copyright (c) 2001 Prison Fellowship Ministries. Reprinted with permission. "BreakPoint with Chuck Colson" is a radio ministry of Prison Fellowship Ministries.

from BreakPoint Commentary · Charles Colson via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database character

Flawed Leaders

It is time to elect a new world leader, and your vote counts. Here are the facts about the three leading candidates:

Candidate A:

Associates with crooked politicians, and consults with astrologists. He's had two mistresses. He also chain smokes and drinks 8 to 10 martinis a day.

Candidate B:

He was kicked out of office twice, sleeps until noon, used opium in college and drinks a quart of whisky every evening.

Candidate C:

He is a decorated war hero. He's a vegetarian, doesn't smoke, drinks an occasional beer and hasn't had any extramarital affairs.

Which of these candidates would be your choice?

Candidate A is Franklin D. Roosevelt

Candidate B is Winston Churchill

Candidate C is Adolph Hitler

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from Email · Submitted by Brian Burd, Ledgewood Baptist Church via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database characterreputation

Duty, Honor, Country and Too Many Lawyers

Amos 8:5

As most of you know, my father [Col. W. B. Holwick] wanted me to go to a very special school - West Point. Maybe it is a good thing I didn't (I went to Wheaton College from 1974 to 1978), because in the middle of my college career West Point was shattered by a huge scandal. 235 students who took a take-home engineering exam were suspected of cheating. At West Point, this is a big deal. Its honor code states:

"A cadet will not lie, cheat or steal, nor tolerate those who do.

A cadet who violates the Cadet Honor Code shall be separated from

the United States Military Academy."

151 were found guilty of cheating or resigned on their own.

How was it found out? One student wrote on his test that he received help. An instructor compared the other tests and found very similar answers, and the scandal split wide open. You might say that this student cheated with integrity. He made an error but admitted it right up front.

How much moral courage do YOU have? If everyone around you is cheating, will you stay honest? Do you compromise in any area of life? What is your standard for morality? The average morality of society, or something higher? The Bible's morality is not a human invention but God's gift to us. It doesn't have to be whittled down and made more palatable.

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(original article copyrighted by American Bar Association Journal)

Ten Qualifications For the Preacher

Ten Qualifications For the Preacher

1. He should be able to preach plainly and in order.

2. He should have a good head.

3. He should have good power of speech.

4. He should have a good voice.

5. He should have good memory.

6. He should be sure of what he means to say.

7. He should be ready to stake body and life, goods and glory on it's truth.

8. He should know when to stop.

9. He should study diligently.

10. He should allow himself to be vexed and criticised by every one.

(Martin Luther)

from Fair Dinkum Magazine · Martin Luther via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database criticism

Seven Deadly Sins

Proverbs 6:16

"There are six things which the LORD hates, yes, seven which are an abomination to Him: Haughty eyes, a lying tongue, and hands that shed innocent blood, a heart that devises wicked plans, feet that run rapidly to evil, a false witness who utters lies, and one who spreads strife among brothers." (Proverbs 6:16-19, NAS)

"For years it had been my policy not to correct untrue statements about me that appeared in the press. As a rule, the friends whose good opinion you value will not believe ill of you. Your enemies will believe, or profess to believe, evil of you regardless of your denial." (James Francis Byrnes)

James Byrnes had it right. Friends will usually not believe ill about you, at least until it is proven beyond a doubt, but enemies are easily persuaded of the worst evil. This is why it is usually fruitless to try to set the mind of an enemy to rest. It really doesn’t matter what you say. They already know what they know.

It is worth thinking about the words of the Proverb writer quoted earlier. The Lord hates six things, and there are seven which are an abomination to him. That’s really a way of emphasizing the terrible nature of these sins. Consider the list worded just a bit differently:

a pride-filled person;

a person who speaks lies;

a person who destroys the lives of others; [or, a violent person -H.]

a person whose heart dreams up evil;

a person who is quick to participate in evil;

a person who tells lies about other people;

a person who ignites discord and ill-will among others.

Know anyone like that?

Anything hit close to home?

No wonder God thinks of these sins as abominations. These are the things that ruin lives, end in death, and destroy the ability of someone to exist in close company with others. These sins are the ones that kill love, maim friendships, cause heartaches, create turmoil, and stir up discord. These are the sins that make life little more than a soap-opera.

It’s hard to understand how these sins get a foothold among human beings, except that it’s got to be the work of Satan who manages to enlist us into his own army and to participate in killing off our own. The sad thing is that we often we find these sins disguised in the garb of religion. Pretending to be "righteous" and concerned about doing God’s will, there are more than a few who will set out to destroy others. It must make God sick.

How can we avoid these sins?

What can we do to keep ourselves from becoming prey to this kind of evil?

I wish there was an easy answer. Surely, part of the answer is found in the kind of honest self-examination that allows us to identify any of these sins before they become too big to handle. They ought to create a fear in us that puts us on our knees, asking for God’s mercy and for the help of his Spirit so that we might resist anything that would motivate us to act out of pride, falsehood, or selfishness.

We must get control over these sins while they are "small" and before they develop into full-grown evil. These are dangerous sins. They do not bring people together. They always separate, divide, and destroy. They will ruin a person’s faith and leave him empty. Nothing good can ever come from them. Watch your words and your attitude. Be careful of your behavior regarding other people. Humility, truthfulness, kindness, love, doing good and speaking well of others are the positives of godliness. Make the effort to be that kind of person for "there are six things which the LORD hates, yes, seven which are an abomination to Him..."

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Jerks of the Bible Teach Teens

Jerks are everywhere. They cut us off on the interstate, take the parking space that was rightfully ours, talk too loudly during a movie, hurt our feelings and make fun of us. They're at work and at home and in our classes, our clubs and our address books.

And they're in the Bible, author Margaret Brouillette notes.

In her book, "Famous Jerks of the Bible," Brouillette introduces a familiar cast of characters, which includes Judas, Samson, Saul (father of Jonathan) and Jonah. But the book - penned as an interactive Bible study designed for teens -- takes a sharp turn away from the familiar approach to these classic tales to get its message across.

"It's a message of wisdom and choices," Brouillette said. "Biblical righteousness doesn't just happen. The Bible tells us to fear God and do good. I think there's a window between 12 and 18 where we make many choices, so that's why it was important for me to focus on teens."

For Brouillette, the goal of Famous Jerks of the Bible wasn't to retell the stories of these characters, but to present them in such a way that teens could recognize their own character flaws and, in the process, learn how to be people of God.

"A lot of the character flaws have to do with choices," Brouillette said. "There are things we can avoid, but I also think that there is a self-control issue ... an important issue for teens."

In writing the book, Brouillette said she also studied the qualifications and character traits needed to be a good church leader. "I think that the character traits I looked at in Jerks are the opposite [of what is needed]," she observed. "These are people who broke all the rules."

In her book, Brouillette allows the rule-breakers to tell their own stories. Each chapter takes on a new character and a new character flaw, whether it's Nebuchanezzar's conceit, Pharaoh's passion for power or Saul's disobedience. After each character's first-person account, Brouillette follows with a short evaluation and Bible study.

The decision to approach the book this way wasn't an accident, she said. "I thought it was very important for me to try to understand what made that person tick," the author said of the Bible characters discussed in her book. "I really had to read and re-read their stories, because otherwise it's very easy to make judgments from outside and not understand what the real problem is."

Understanding the real problems and issues that teens face was an important part of why Brouillette wrote Famous Jerks of the Bible.

"I think these stories have been told and retold in a kind of classical way ... but these character flaws go on today," Brouillette said. "I tried very hard to be accurate, but retell the stories in a language we understand today. I don't think teens are very interested in repeating the same pat answers. Life is gritty, and God can meet us in the grit. He's where the rubber hits the road."

Brouillette hopes her book will help lead teens down the right road -- God's road -- by helping them learn to dig into the Bible and its stories to find important life lessons. More than that, she wants them to learn what's important to God.

"Character issues matter to God," Brouillette said. "Traditions and human judgments don't."

And maybe, she said, the book will help create a world with a few less jerks.

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Being the Best

Some time ago, an article in National Racquetball Magazine told the story of Reuben Gonzales, who was in the final match of a professional racquetball tournament. It was Gonzales' first shot at a victory on the pro circuit, and he was playing the perennial champion.

In the fourth and final game, at match point, Gonzales made a super "kill" shot into the front wall to win it all. The referee called it good. One of the two linesmen affirmed that the shot was in. But Gonzales, after a moment's hesitation, turned around, shook his opponent's hand, and declared that his shot had "slapped" into the wall, hitting the court floor first. As a result, he lost the match. He walked off the court. Everybody was stunned.

The next issue of National Racquetball Magazine displayed Reuben Gonzales on its front cover. The story searched for an explanation of this first-ever occurrence on the professional racquetball circuit.

Who could ever imagine it in any sport or endeavor? A player, with everything officially in his favor, with victory in his hand, disqualified himself at match point and lost!

When asked why he did it, Reuben said, "It was the only thing I could do to maintain my integrity."

By Denis Waitley, Being the Best

Source: Bits & Pieces, October 12, 1995, Copyright (c) Economic Press, Inc., www.epinc.com

from Bits & Pieces, October 12, 1995, Copyright (c) Economic Press, Inc., www.epinc.com · Denis Waitley via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database honestycharacter

note: not sure if this is A true story, I have seen it make the "rounds"

John Blanchard stood up from the bench, straightened his Army uniform, and studied the crowd of people making their way through Grand Central Station. He looked for the girl whose heart he knew, but whose face he didn't, the girl with the rose.

His interest in her had begun thirteen months before in a Florida library. Taking a book off the shelf he found himself intrigued, not with the words of the book, but with the notes penciled in the margin. The soft handwriting reflected a thoughtful soul and insightful mind. In the front of the book, he discovered the previous owner's name, Miss Hollis Maynell. With time and effort he located her address. She now lived in New York City. He wrote her a letter introducing himself and inviting her to correspond.

The next day he was shipped overseas for service in World War II. During the next year and one month the two grew to know each other through the mail. Each letter was a seed falling on a fertile heart. A romance was budding. Blanchard requested a photograph, but she refused. She felt that if he really cared, it wouldn't matter what she looked like. When the day finally came for him to return from Europe, they scheduled their first meeting - 7:00 PM at the Grand Central Station in New York. "You'll recognize me," she wrote, "by the red rose I'll be wearing on my lapel."

So at 7:00 he was in the station looking for a girl whose heart he loved, but whose face he'd never seen. I'll let Mr. Blanchard tell you what happened: "A young woman was coming toward me, her figure long and slim. Her blonde hair lay back in curls from her delicate ears; her eyes were blue as flowers. Her lips and chin had a gentle firmness, and in her pale green suit she was like springtime come alive. I started toward her, entirely forgetting to notice that she was not wearing a rose. As I moved, a small, provocative smile curved her lips. "Going my way, sailor?" she murmured. Almost uncontrollably I made one step closer to her, and then I saw Hollis Maynell. She was standing almost directly behind the girl. A woman well past 40, she had graying hair tucked under a worn hat.... She was more than plump, her thick-ankled feet thrust into low-heeled shoes."

"The girl in the green suit was walking quickly away. I felt as though I were split in two, so keen was my desire to follow her, and yet so deep was my longing for the woman whose spirit had truly companioned me and upheld my own. And there she stood. Her pale, plump face was gentle and sensible, her gray eyes had a warm and kindly twinkle. I did not hesitate. My fingers gripped the small worn blue leather copy of the book that was to identify me to her. This would not be love, but it would be something precious, something perhaps even better than love, a friendship for which I had been and must ever be grateful. I squared my shoulders and saluted and held out the book to the woman, even though while I spoke I felt choked by the bitterness of my disappointment. 'I'm Lieutenant John Blanchard, and you must be Miss Maynell. I am so glad you could meet me; may I take you to dinner?'"

"The woman's face broadened into a tolerant smile. 'I don't know what this is about, son,' she answered, 'but the young lady in the green suit who just went by, she begged me to wear this rose on my coat. And she said if you were to ask me out to dinner, I should go and tell you that she is waiting for you in the big restaurant across the street. She said it was some kind of test!'

It's not difficult to understand and admire Miss Maynell's wisdom. The true nature of a heart is seen in its response to the unattractive.

"Tell me whom you love," Houssaye wrote, "and I will tell you who you are."

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Booth's Resolutions

In 1849 a twenty-year-old man wrote up the following resolutions:

I do promise, my God helping:

Firstly, that I will rise every morning sufficiently early (say twenty minutes before seven o’clock) to wash, dress, and have a few minutes, not less than five, in private prayer.

Secondly, that I will, as much as possible, avoid all that babbling and idle talk in which I have lately so sinfully indulged.

Thirdly, that I will endeavor in my conduct and deportment before the world and my fellow servants especially to conduct myself as a humble, meek and zealous follower of the bleeding Lamb, and, by serious conversation and warning, endeavor to lead them to think of their immortal souls.

Fourthly, that I will not read less than four chapters in God’s word every day.

Fifthly, that I will strive to live closer to God, and to seek after holiness of heart, and leave providential events with God.

Sixthly, that I will read this over every day or at least twice a week. God help me, enable me to cultivate a spirit of self-denial and to yield myself a prisoner of love to the Redeemer of the world. Amen and Amen.

He then added this postscript: “I feel my own weakness, and without God’s help I shall not keep these resolution a day. The Lord have mercy on my guilty soul.”

His name? William Booth, founder of the Salvation Army.

from Tan's 15000 Illustrations · (unknown) via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database

Ivan the Terrible Wasn't A Monk

Ivan the IV was the first Czar of all Russia. He was such a cruel man that they called him "Ivan The Terrible." He married 7 wives and abused them all. He was immoral and violent. He used to throw animals off the Kremlin Walls just to watch them die. But when he died in 1584, historians record that they shaved his head and dressed him for burial in the robes of a monk, hoping that God would think that Ivan the Terrible was a monk, and thus allow him into heaven.

Is that how you get into heaven - by disguising yourself and hoping God will think you are someone else?

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from Sermon Central Newsletter via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database transformation

Created To Become Like Christ

Genesis 1:26

You were created to become like Christ.

From the very beginning, God's plan has been to make you like his Son, Jesus. This is your destiny and the third purpose of your life. God announced this intention at creation: "Then God said, 'Let us make human beings in our image and likeness'" (Genesis 1:26 NCV).

In all of creation, only human beings are made "in God's image." This is a great privilege and gives us dignity. We don't know all this phrase covers, but we do know some of the aspects it includes: Like God, we are spiritual beings -- our spirits are immortal and will outlast our earthly bodies; we are intellectual -- we can think, reason and solve problems; like God, we are relational -- we can give and receive real love; and we have a moral consciousness -- we can discern right from wrong, which makes us accountable to God.

The Bible says that all people, not just believers, possess part of the image of God; that is why murder and abortion are wrong. But the image is incomplete and has been damaged and distorted by sin. So God sent Jesus on a mission to restore the full image we had lost. What does the full "image and likeness" of God look like? It looks like Jesus Christ!

People often use the phrase "like father, like son" to refer to family resemblance. When people see my likeness in my kids, it pleases me. God wants his children to bear his image and likeness, too.

Let me be absolutely clear: You will never become God, or even a god. That prideful lie is Satan's oldest temptation. Satan promised Adam and Eve that if they followed his advice, "you shall be as gods." Many religions and New Age philosophies still promote this old lie that we are divine or can become gods.

This desire to be a god shows up every time we try to control our circumstances, our future and people around us. But as creatures, we will never be the Creator. God doesn't want you to become a god; he wants you to become godly -- taking on his values, attitudes and character. We are meant to "take on an entirely new way of life -- a God-fashioned life, a life renewed from the inside and working itself into your conduct as God accurately reproduces his character in you" (Ephesians 4:22, Message Bible).

God's ultimate goal for your life on earth is not comfort, but character development. He wants you to grow up spiritually. Becoming like Christ does not mean losing your personality or becoming a mindless clone. God created your uniqueness, so he certainly doesn't want to destroy it. Christlikeness is all about transforming your character, not your personality.

God wants you to develop the kind of character described in the beatitudes of Jesus, the fruit of the Spirit, the apostle Paul's great chapter on love, and Peter's list of the characteristics of an effective and productive life. Every time you forget that character is one of God's purposes for your life, you will become frustrated by your circumstances. You'll wonder, "Why is this happening to me? Why am I having such a difficult time?" One answer is that life is supposed to be difficult! It's what enables us to grow. Remember, earth is not heaven!

Many Christians misinterpret Jesus' promise of the "abundant life" to mean perfect health, a comfortable lifestyle, constant happiness, full realization of your dreams, and instant relief from problems through faith and prayer. In a word, they expect the Christian life to be easy. They expect heaven on earth.

This self-absorbed perspective treats God as a genie who simply exists to serve you in your selfish pursuit of personal fulfillment. But God is not your servant, and if you fall for the idea that life is supposed to be easy, either you will become severely disillusioned or you will live in denial of reality.

Never forget that life is not about you. You exist for God's purposes, not vice versa. Why would God provide heaven on earth when he's planned the real thing for you in eternity? God gives us our time on earth to build and strengthen our character for heaven.

Becoming like Christ is a long, slow process of growth. Spiritual maturity is neither instant nor automatic; it is a gradual, progressive development that will take the rest of your life. Referring to this process, Paul said, "This will continue until we are ... mature, just as Christ is, and we will be completely like him" (Ephesians 4:13 CEV). The Bible is clear that it takes the work of the Holy Spirit within us, using truth, troubles, time and even temptation, to make us like Christ.

You are a work in progress. Your spiritual transformation in developing the character of Jesus will take the rest of your life, and even then it won't be completed here on earth. It will only be finished when you get to heaven or when Jesus returns.

Much confusion in the Christian life comes from ignoring the simple truth that God is far more interested in building your character than he is anything else. We worry when God seems silent on specific issues such as, "What career should I choose?" The truth is, there are many different careers that could be in God's will for your life. What God cares about most is that whatever you do, you do in a Christlike manner.

God is far more interested in what you are than in what you do. We are human beings, not human doings. God is much more concerned about your character than your career, because you will take your character into eternity, but not your career.

The Bible warns, "Don't become so well-adjusted to your culture that you fit into it without even thinking. Instead, fix your attention on God. You'll be changed from the inside out.... Unlike the culture around you, always dragging you down to its level of immaturity, God brings the best out of you, develops well-formed maturity in you" (Romans 12:2, Message Bible).

You must make a counter-culture decision to focus on becoming more like Jesus. Otherwise, other forces like peers, parents, co-workers and culture will try to mold you into their image.

Sadly, a quick review of many popular Christian books reveals that many believers have abandoned living for God's great purposes and settled for personal fulfillment and emotional stability. That is narcissism, not discipleship. Jesus did not die on the cross just so we could live comfortable, well-adjusted lives. His purpose is far deeper: He wants to make us like himself before he takes us to heaven. This is our greatest privilege, our immediate responsibility, and our ultimate destiny.

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Creating Your Character Is Like An Artist Creating A Sculpture

Ruth 3:11

Could creating your character be likened to an artist creating a sculpture? In my opinion, I believe that character is not something that just happens by itself, any more than a chisel can create a work of art without the hand of an artist guiding it. In both instances, a conscious decision for a specific outcome has been made. A conscious process is at work. Character is the result of hundreds and hundreds of choices you make that gradually turn who you are, at any given moment, into who you want to be. If that decision-making process is not present, you will still be somebody. You will still be alive, but may have a personality rather than a character.

Character is not something you were born with and can't change like your fingerprint. In fact, because you weren't born with it, it is something that you must take responsibility for creating. I don't believe that adversity by itself builds character and I certainly don't think that success erodes it. Character is built by how you respond to what happens in your life. Whether it's winning every game or losing every game. Getting rich or dealing with hard times. You build character out of certain qualities that you must create and diligently nurture within yourself. Just like you would plant and water a seed or gather wood and build a campfire. You've got to look for those things in your heart and in your gut. You've got to chisel away in order to find them. Just like chiseling away the rock in order to create the sculpture that has previously existed only in your imagination.

But do you want to know the really amazing thing about character? If you are sincerely committed to making yourself into the person you want to be, you'll not only create those qualities, but you'll continually strengthen them. And you will recreate them in abundance even as you are drawing on them every day of your life. Just like the burning bush in the biblical book of Exodus, the bush burned but the flames did not consume it. Character sustains itself and nurtures itself even as it is being put to work, tested, and challenged. And once character is formed, it will serve as a solid, lasting foundation upon which to build the life you desire.

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(Excerpted from the Cultivating an Unshakable Character series)

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Rich or Poor?

As Henry Ward Beecher said, "No man can tell whether he is rich or poor by turning to his ledger. It is the heart that makes a man rich. He is rich or poor according to what he is, not according to what he has."

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The Fourth Wall

The winding highways and farm roads of central Indiana are punctuated with small towns. Many of the houses in these towns are a century old or more, dating back to an era before vinyl and aluminum siding. Maintaining one of these houses can be a full- time hobby as winter’s cold and summer’s heat tag-team to chip and crack even the best paint-job.

One house in particular caught my eye several years ago. This big two-story home had been meticulously painted… on three sides. The fourth wall, the back of the house, still sported the old, peeling paint which had once graced the entire home.

My first thought was “work in progress”; a big job takes time to do right and I guessed that the homeowner would soon be finishing up. I was wrong.

As weeks stretched into months, I wondered each time I drove past: “Maybe he’s waiting for better weather,” I thought. “Maybe he ran out of money.”

I finally gave up looking; the last time I noticed, the fourth wall was still unpainted.

Your life is a house with four walls. The front wall is the side you show the world; it’s where you put your best foot forward, the carefully crafted public image we all hide behind.

The second wall of your life is the “private” side, the person that your family and close friends and co-workers see. This side is usually rougher than the front, since these people know the “real” you a little better. They sometimes see you at your worst and know how bad you can really be.

The third wall is worse still, a hidden side, the image of yourself that you keep in your own mind. The side is rougher because it includes many hidden sins that you alone know about, the darker parts of your inner self that are carefully hidden from even those closest to you. Whereas your public and private sides exist in the minds of others, this side exists only in your own mind.

It’s a side of yourself that even you may not like, yet this side is not an entirely accurate picture either, for each of us has sins which we hide even from ourselves, sins we refuse to acknowledge. This dishonesty keeps the third side from being as flawed as it could be, though our self-deception is perhaps the greatest flaw of all.

Finally, we reach the back of the house, the fourth wall. The fourth wall is the image of you that God sees. Strangely, this side of you can be both the worst and the best side of all.

It is the worst side because there is nothing you can do to conceal a single blemish from the piercing eye of the Almighty. Every sin, public or private, is revealed in all its hideousness here, laid bare before him. Sadly, even the sins that you refuse to see, the sins that your mind will not admit or acknowledge, are here in plain sight. No truer, more revolting image of you exists anywhere else in the universe. But…

By a miracle of grace, the fourth wall can also become the most beautiful wall, more perfect even than the carefully groomed public image of the first wall. For as a believer, the blood of Jesus covers your sins like a fresh coat of gleaming white paint that will never crack, peel, or fade.

Christ can make the fourth wall of your life more perfect than any of the other three, simply because the other three sides are YOUR creation, and the fourth side can be HIS. And in Christ, when God looks at you he sees a perfection you could never attain on your own; he sees the perfect image of his own son.

What would you pay for house paint that will last forever? What would you say if I told you that somebody had already paid for your paint AND was willing to scrape, sand, and paint your house for you? Too good to be true, right? Not in this case.

What you cannot conceal, God is willing to overlook. What you cannot hide, God is willing to cover over. What you cannot overcome, God is willing to dismiss. But only when it is buried deep within the covering of his son’s blood.

The fourth wall of your life needs some paint. Have you met the master painter?

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Two Men

3 John 1:9

A. Two Men — 3 John 1:9-12 (NAS) — « Leader information »

9 I wrote something to the church; but Diotrephes, who loves to be first among them, does not accept what we say. 10 For this reason, if I come, I will call attention to his deeds which he does, unjustly accusing us with wicked words; and not satisfied with this, neither does he himself receive the brethren, and he forbids those who desire to do so, and puts them out of the church. 11 Beloved, do not imitate what is evil, but what is good. The one who does good is of God; the one who does evil has not seen God.

12 Demetrius has received a good testimony from everyone, and from the truth itself; and we also bear witness, and you know that our witness is true.

B. The third epistle of John

1. the dating is uncertain; probably the 70’s or 80’s

2. addressed to Gaius

a. apparently a church leader

b. slight indication may have been “Gaius of Corinth”

(A) Paul’s host in Corinth whence he wrote Romans (16:23)

(B) whom Paul baptized (1 Corinthians 1:14)

c. Athanasius in fourth century indicates Gaius of Corinth was John’s secretary in writing the Book of Revelation

C. Diortrophes

1. tradition: belonged to the Paul Party in Corinth

2. what was he like?

a. « was a “controller” — wanted to be in charge, be preeminent »

b. « hence, removed Christ from His place – Colossians 1:18 »

c. « rejected apostolic authority of John »

d. « evil deeds: refused to receive, and ousted, the brethren »

e. « malicious words and peremptory attitude »

D. Demetrius

1. traditionally, the bearer of this letter to Gaius

2. what was he like?

a. « had a good testimony or reputation (within and without the church?) »

b. « the truth of the facts also spoke for him — his character and his reputation were in agreement »

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The Character of the Heart

Jeremiah 17:9

The Character of the Heart What makes you "you"? When it comes down to the essence of who you are, what is it that really makes the difference in the choices you make, the things you decide, and the conclusions that you come to? The Bible says in Jeremiah 17:9-10 that "the heart is deceitful above all things and beyond cure. Who can understand it? 'I the LORD search the heart and examine the mind, to reward a man according to his conduct, according to what his deeds deserve.'" You see, it is really a matter of the heart as to what and who you are. I have often been drawn to the passage in Acts 17, which describes the believers in Berea as being "of more noble character" than those in Thessalonica. Why would Paul take the time to specifically say these very pointed words? Paul tells us why the Bereans were of more noble character in the following verses. And, I believe that this is found in the scriptures so that we may learn from it, and so that we, too, may develop in the character of our heart. This Sunday morning, we will examine Acts 17:10-12, and find the three reasons that the Bereans were of "more noble character" than the Thessalonians in a message that I have titled "The Character of the Heart." You will be encouraged and strengthened by this message! Don't miss it!

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The Integrity of A Roman's Armor

Job 2:3

Integrity as we know it today, stands for soundness of moral principle and character — uprightness — honesty. Yet there is more. Integrity is also an ideal . . . a goal to strive for . . . and for a man or woman to “walk in their integrity” is to require constant discipline and usage.

The word integrity itself is a martial word that comes to us from an ancient Roman army tradition. During the time of the 12 Caesars, the Roman army would conduct morning inspections. As the inspecting centurion would come in front of each legionnaire, the soldier would strike with his right fist the armor breastplate that covered his heart. The armor had to be strongest there in order to protect the heart from the sword thrusts and from arrow strikes. As the soldier struck his armor, he would shout “integritas” (in-teg-ri-tas), which in Latin means material, wholeness, completeness, and entirety. The inspecting centurion would listen closely for this affirmation and also for the ring that well-kept armor would give off. Satisfied that the armor was sound and that the soldier beneath it was protected, he would then move on to the next man.

At about the same time, the praetorians or Imperial bodyguard were ascending into power and influence. Drawn from the best “politically correct” soldiers of the Legions, they received the finest equipment and armor. They no longer had to shout “integritas” (in-teg-ri-tas) to signify that their armor was sound. Instead, as they struck their breastplate, they would shout “Hail Caesar,” to signify that their heart belonged to the Imperial personage — not to their unit — not to an institution — not to a code of ideals. They armored themselves to serve the cause of a single man.

A century passed and the rift between the Legion and the imperial bodyguard and its excesses grew larger. To signify the difference between the two organizations, the legionnaire upon striking his armor would no longer shout “integritas,” but instead would shout “Integer” (in-te-ger). Integer (in-te-ger) means undiminished — complete — perfect.

It not only indicated that the armor was sound, it also indicated that the soldier wearing the armor was of sound character. He was complete in his integrity . . . his heart was in the right place . . . his standards and morals were high. He was not associated with the immoral conduct that was rapidly becoming the signature of the praetorian guards.

The armor of integrity continued to serve the Legion well. For over four centuries they held the line against the marauding Goths and Vandals. But by AD 383 the social decline that infected the Republic and the praetorian guard had its effects upon the Legion. As a 4th-century Roman general wrote, “When, because of negligence and laziness, parade ground drills were abandoned, the customary armor began to feel heavy since the soldiers rarely, if ever, wore it. Therefore, they first asked the emperor to set aside the breastplates and mail and then the helmets. So our soldiers fought the Goths without any protection for the heart and head and were often beaten by archers. Although there were many disasters, which lead to the loss of great cities, no one tried to restore the armor to the infantry. They took their armor off, and when the armor came off, so too came their integrity.”

It was only a matter of a few years until the Legion rotted from within and was unable to hold the frontiers . . . the barbarians were at the gates.

Folksy Wisdom

Dick Armey is a Texan, an economist and a former college professor who served in the U.S. House of Representatives for 18 years, eventually becoming Majority Leader. Over the years he collected folksy observations about life drawn from his years in Congress as well as his life in Texas.

Here are some of his axioms:

Tattoos last forever

You can’t stand on principle with feet of clay

You can’t get ahead while you’re getting even

You can’t get your finger on the problem if you’ve got it to the wind

If it’s about your power, you lose

If you insist on center stage, you get the tomatoes

No man can ever lose his daddy’s spurs

The wise hen doesn’t cackle until the egg is laid

You can’t hunt with the big dogs dressed like a bone

Don’t go back and check on a dead skunk

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From: Armey’s Axioms: 40 HARD-EARNED TRUTHS FROM POLITICS, FAITH AND LIFE

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Making and Molding Messes

Psalms 38:4

Someone has said, “Life is a grindstone. Whether it grinds us down or polishes us up depends on the stuff we are made of.”

Do you believe this? While the adage may duly encourage the pillars of personal character and integrity, patience and perseverance, I wonder if it presents an accurate picture of life. A grindstone mechanically moves forward changing rocks unknowingly and indifferently. Yet whether the rocks come out polished, sharpened, or crushed is first contingent upon the rocks themselves. Certain rocks polish well; others, being soft and brittle, fall to pieces.

It begs the question: What are you made of? Are you strong and solid or weak and fragile? Will life bring you to pieces or will you come out gleaming? The image is largely a “get your act together,” or “pull yourself up by the bootstraps” philosophy. It suggests the daunting idea that if I am only strong enough, I will come out okay, I will come out sharpened and shining.

But who has not experienced a time in life when you feel more like a crumbled mess than a picture of polished solidity? I hear the tender words of Victor Hugo in Les Miserables on the lips of the dying Fantine who cries, “Life has killed the dream I dreamed.” In the cold and hard turns of life, she was crushed and left in pieces. Her story is stirring because each of us can recall aching moments when life has made a mess of us, or those regretful moments when it is we who have made a mess out of life.

A news story once told the account of a girl missing for 10 years who was thought to be kidnapped or murdered but actually had run away from home. Upset that her mother had said no to something she asked to do, she ran away only to live in hiding all those years just a few miles from her parent's house. When asked why she never went home, the girl replied, “Because the lie had gotten too big.”

Who has not felt like this on some scale? “I've made a mess and it's become bigger than me, bigger than I know how to deal with.” Perhaps this is what the psalmist had in mind when he penned the words, “My iniquities have gone over my head; like a heavy burden, they are too heavy for me” (Psalm 38:4 ESV). Yet, in the same breath, the psalmist also declares, “O Lord, all my longing is before you; my sighing is not hidden from you” (38:9). Is his knowing our trouble comfort enough to lessen it?

Life sometimes leaves us bruised, but it is infinitely more than an inanimate tumbler or callous sharpener. I believe there is a better picture painted throughout Scripture. Through the prophet Jeremiah, God gives an image that reminds us that the author of life does not deal mechanically or capriciously with his children. Writes Jeremiah, “I went down to the potter's house, and there he was working at his wheel. And the vessel he was making of clay was spoiled in the potter's hand, and he reworked it into another vessel, as it seemed good to the potter to do” (Jeremiah 18:3-4). He did not throw the clay away because it had crumbled, or because it had become less than what he intended; he took the spoiled vessel in his hands and he reworked it.

As a potter carefully reshaping clay, God can take our broken lives, the messes we've made, and the weights that crush us and make of us something whole, something beyond the pieces we've given Him. What God will make of a willing life is a picture to wonder at and a truth to mull over. You are in his hands.

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Copyright © 2005 Ravi Zacharias International Ministries (RZIM). Reprinted with permission. "A Slice of Infinity" is a radio ministry of Ravi Zacharias International Ministries.

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Truly Special: Education and Character

Last month, Dartmouth's student body president, Noah Riner, delivered a convocation speech to this year's freshman class. When he was through, he had ignited a much-needed debate on what it means to be truly educated.

Riner spoke about the importance of character. He told incoming freshmen something that they had probably already heard from others: They were “the smartest and most diverse group of freshmen [ever] to set foot on the Dartmouth campus.”

Then Riner told them something they probably hadn't heard: Without character, none of these qualities matters. He quoted Martin Luther King, Jr., who once said, “Intelligence plus character — that is the goal of true education.” He cited examples of Dartmouth grads who had done terrible things, not because they were stupid or incompetent, but because they lacked character.

Then, as an example of character, Riner, the son of a Baptist minister, cited — who else? — Jesus. As he told his audience, “the problem is me; the solution is God's love: Jesus on the cross, for us.”

As you can well imagine, Riner's use of JESUS didn't go over too well. One student said he was “appalled and disappointed” at Riner's actions. Others added that Jesus himself would have disapproved of Riner's invoking Him at the convocation.

Jesus was the offense, but as one student noted, had Riner instead “espoused the virtues of Muhammad, Buddha, or any other religious figure, he would be applauded.”

Most of the controversy in the press has centered on the question of religious discrimination. That is unfortunate in a way because it detracts from what Riner considered to be his main point: the neglect of character in higher education. This is a big issue.

Can anyone seriously doubt that our colleges and universities are neglecting and even undermining character? Take the example of Bates College in Maine. In Maine, as in the rest of the country, drug use and underage drinking is illegal. Yet in spite of the school's stated policies, a young friend at this prestigious liberal arts college requested to live in what the school calls a “chemical-free” dorm to avoid the drugs and alcohol.

And Bates is not unique. Most colleges and universities have given up trying to regulate student morals. Even more than that, what the WEEKLY STANDARD calls the “Left University” promotes and embodies the “cultural radicalism of the 1960s.” This radicalism values “alternative lifestyles” to the point of denying the existence of norms. It emphasizes personal autonomy to the point of viewing any limits as “oppression” and “tyranny.”

Well, no wonder, then, that the word CHARACTER makes the folks at Dartmouth and elsewhere nervous. American colleges and universities today cannot educate for character because they have abandoned the necessary values and standards. And they have abandoned the long, rich tradition of the university, which has historically been, first, to develop character, and second, to promote learning.

Instead they are doing what Teddy Roosevelt called the most dangerous thing you can do: giving people the power of an education with nothing to keep them from putting that power to evil use. By pointing this out, Riner has done us a great service, forcing a debate on the purpose of higher education. It's long overdue.

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Copyright (c) 2005 Prison Fellowship Ministries. Reprinted with permission. "BreakPoint with Chuck Colson" is a radio ministry of Prison Fellowship Ministries.

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Taking God's Name Seriously

Luke 11:2

I think one of the reasons why God arranged pregnancy to be a process that takes nine months is that He knew it would take at least that long for parents to pick a name for their baby. It's really a manifestation of God's grace -- a gift for all of us confused and indecisive parents.

I remember how hard it was, with both of our boys, to decide on the right name. My wife Charlene and I spent hours poring over “children's names” books. It used to be easier to pick out names for kids, when there were more established expectations for how kids are named. You'd name them after fathers, grandparents, or some other family member. Even if you elected to go a different route, there was still a fairly limited range of name options that were considered appropriate.

That's not the case anymore. People now literally make up names for their kids out of the blue. Collections of sounds that have never been brought together to form a word are now seen as acceptable names. We’re more open and flexible about name choices these days.

People in Bible times took names very seriously, and the Bible makes it clear that God wants us -- in fact commands us -- to take his name seriously. Our casual attitude towards names today may cause us to miss the significance of this. One of the Ten Commandments speaks about this issue. The third commandment states: “You shall not misuse the name of the Lord your God.” (Exodus 20:7)

Hearing this, we might wonder, “What's the big deal about 'taking God's name in vain?’ What's so significant about names?” Or, to use the common phrase, “What's in a name?” God says, “a lot!”

The first petition of the Lord's prayer has to do with honoring God’s name: “Our Father in heaven, hallowed be thy name.” When Jesus taught his followers what to pray, this was the pattern he suggested. He instructs us to pray that God’s name be “hallowed,” that it be honored. God wants his name to be respected.

Why? If you think about it, your name really represents who you are several ways: it represents your reputation, your character, and your authority.

* Reputation

It represents your reputation ... in fact we use those terms interchangeably. You've heard people say of someone, “He's making a name for himself.” We're talking about that person's reputation. If someone has a good reputation, we might say, “She has a good name.” A bad reputation is a bad name.

When I say someone's name, if you know that person, you automatically think of their reputation. If I say “Hitler” you think of certain things. If I say “Martin Luther King” you think of certain things. If I say “Elvis” you think of something else. And what you think when you hear their name about essentially amounts to their reputation.

* Character

Second, your name also represents your character. Who or what you are can't be separated from your name ... they're identified together. In fact in the Bible times, people would often name children after certain character qualities that would then become self-fulfilling prophecies. They would name their kids things like “Honesty” and “Justice” and hope that as they grew, they would live up to their name.

And many times in the Bible, when God worked in peoples' lives to change their character, He changed their names too. Abram became Abraham, Jacob became Israel, Simon became Peter, and Saul became Paul -- just to name a few. God would change their name because of the significance He attaches to names. He knows that names represent character.

* Authority

And third, names represent authority. When a policeman asks someone to stop, he or she doesn't say, “Stop in the name of Bugs Bunny.” She'll say “Stop in the name of the law.” Why? Because there's authority behind that name.

If you were eating dinner, and you got a phone call, and found out that it was George W. Bunson, you'd probably ask him to call back. But if it was George W. Bush, you'd probably take the call. Because names represent the person, and when the person has a position of authority, their name represents that authority.

When we misuse God’s name – by using it as a swear word, or thoughtlessly using it as an exclamation (as in “oh my God!”), it's not a small thing. The way we respond to a person's name can't be separated from how we respond to that person. If we take God seriously, we’ll take his name seriously too.

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Character Made Known

"Thy speech betrayeth thee." Speech is the index of the soul. Utterance is the open door through which the character is known. Words are the fruit of the lips, and by their fruits we know them.

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The Glory of A Stainless Life

An Arabian princess was once presented by her teacher with an ivory casket, not to be opened until a year had passed. The time, impatiently waited for, came at last, and with trembling haste she unlocked the treasure; and behold-on the satin linings lay a shroud of rust; the form of something beautiful, but the beauty gone. A slip of parchment contained these words: "Dear pupil, learn a lesson in your life. This trinket, when enclosed, had upon it only a spot of rust; by neglect it has become the useless thing you now behold, only a blot on its pure surroundings. So a little stain on your character will, by inattention and neglect, mar a bright and useful life, and in time leave only the dark shadow of what might have been. Place herein a jewel of gold, and after many years you will find it still as sparkling as ever. So with yourself; treasure up only the pure, the good, and you will be an ornament to society, and a source of true pleasure to yourself and your friends."

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Character Develops in Silence

1 Kings 6:7

What a silent but awful work is character building! We understand now why "there was neither hammer, nor ax, nor any tool of iron heard in the house while the temple was in building" (1 Kings 6:7). It has been discovered that the quarries where the stones were made ready were under the city. All the preparations were made in silence and secrecy down beneath the tread of busy life; and then, when the great blocks were cleft from their bed, hewn, shaped, polished, and fitted for their place, they were hoisted through a shaft to the temple platform and lifted to their exact position. So all the preparations for character go forward in silence and secrecy; but the results are manifest in the structure which, for glory or shame, mysteriously grows before our eyes.

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Incomplete Character

What becomes of those who reach high on the plane of morality, but do not touch the yet higher plane of spirituality? You might just as well ask me what becomes of a marksman who almost hits the mark, but does not hit it. You might just as well ask me what becomes of an anchor that is let out of a ship, and reaches almost to the bottom, but stops short without touching it. You might as well ask me what becomes of a portrait which is splendidly painted, and is almost like the man that it is designed to represent, and yet is not like him.

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The Real Man

It is with a man as it is with corn. You may take away the stalk, but that is not the corn; you may strip all the husks, one after another, and yet the corn has lost nothing. The kernel remains, and that is the corn. The stalk and husks are good to protect the corn, and carry the sap to it while it is growing; but when it is grown they are of no use to it. And a man has lost nothing when his surroundings are taken away.

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Blessing in Trouble

When tender grasses start in the spring on the meadows along the Connecticut, the farmers rejoice. But the snows melt, the rains pour, the burdened river cannot carry all its treasure, and it overflows its banks, and submerges the fields. When the waters subside a deposit of mud has blotted out every spear of grass. But, behold! In a few weeks the blades shoot up through, and never was there such burden on fields as in the harvest day there is on these, that seemed to have been destroyed; for the slime and mud fed the fields instead of destroying them.

And so has it often been in the world's history, that torrents which seemed to be destruction, in the end enriched rather than destroyed what they submerged.

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Nobility before Decoration

The habit of acting from the highest considerations is that which makes a man noble. The recognition of nobility may be conferred upon men, but not nobility itself. The king lays a sword on a man's shoulder and calls him a knight; but he was a knight before he was knighted, or he would not have received the title. It was the heroic endurance, the death-defying courage, the skill and coolness with which he achieved his notable deeds, that made him a knight. He was in himself royal and noble, and the king said to all men, "I see it," when he laid his sword on his shoulder.

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Silence of Modesty

Matthew 6:3

The late Stowell Scott, known in literary circles as Henry Seton Merriman, had a father who severely repressed his son's literary aspirations, compelling the young man to publish his earlier efforts under the pseudonym which afterwards became so famous. One day the old man picked up one of these books and said, "If you could write as well as this Seton Merriman, now, it might be worthwhile going on with it." The father never learned his son's secret; he kept it with lowly modesty until the father's death. How few could have done this. How hard not to let the left hand know what the right has been doing (see Matthew 6:3).

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New Feathers

Colossians 3:10

And have put ‘on the new man. — Col. 3:10.

We put it on, however, not just as a man may don a new coat, but rather as a bird dons a new dress of feathers after molting. The new character grows naturally out of the new life we have in Christ. — F. B. Hole.

O teach us so the power to know

Of risen life with Thee,

Not we may live while here below,

But Christ our life may be.

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Restoring the Virtue of Meekness

Matthew 11:29

The shift in American culture from character to image has turned vanity and pride into virtues. Where does that leave the virtue of meekness? Will the meek really inherit the earth? What is meekness, anyway?

Pride has been redefined in American culture as a virtue. The strong, the beautiful, the powerful, the intelligent, and the privileged take every opportunity to put themselves forward. Politicians manifest pride in speeches and debates; entertainers glamorize pride in their movies and lifestyles; educators teach pride by emphasizing self-esteem and making every child a winner (whether they deserve it or not); and sports icons reinforce pride as the path to greatness.

Probably the least admired character quality in America is meekness. And yet the greatest Person who ever lived was a meek and humble man — ”learn from Me, for I am gentle [meek] and humble in heart” (Matthew 11:29). Jesus exemplified meekness during His first advent, even as He ministered in the power of God. Those who follow Him will also demonstrate meekness, or gentleness as fruit of a Spirit-filled life (Galatians 5:22).

“Meekness” is a humble attitude that expresses itself in the patient endurance of offenses. “Gentleness” is a virtual synonym. It implies leniency and long-suffering.

Meekness is not weakness; it is power under control. As the writer of Proverbs says, “He who is slow to anger is better than the mighty, and he who rules his spirit, than he who captures a city” (16:32). In contrast, the individual who is not gentle is likened to “a city that is broken into and without walls” (Proverbs 25:28). Gentleness always uses its resources appropriately, unlike the out-of-control emotions that so often are destructive and have no place in your life as a believer.

And don’t equate gentleness with cowardice, lack of conviction, or mere human niceness. It’s a virtue that draws courage, strength, conviction, and a good disposition from God, not from self-centered human resources.

Gentleness characterizes our Lord Jesus Christ. He always defended God’s glory and ultimately gave Himself in sacrifice for others (see 1 Peter 2:21-23). Jesus didn’t lash back when criticized, slandered, or treated unjustly, but He did respond fittingly and firmly when God’s honor was profaned or His truth was perverted or neglected. He twice cleansed the Temple by force (Matthew 21:12-17; John 2:14-15), and He repeatedly and fearlessly denounced the hypocrisy of the Jewish religious leaders (Matthew 23:13-36; Mark 12:13-40; John 8:12-59; 9:39-41).

When His time of suffering came, however, Jesus submitted to the will of His Father and endured the abuse and murderous intentions of the hypocritical leaders. He demonstrated meekness to the very end. “While being reviled, He did not revile in return; while suffering, He uttered no threats, but kept entrusting Himself to Him who judges righteously” (1 Peter 2:23).

Like Christ, the gentle person does not defend himself (see 1 Peter 2:21). That’s because he has died to self and therefore does not worry about insult, material loss, or even personal injury. The believer who embraces meekness knows that in himself he does not deserve defending and that, in the long run, all his possessions are not worth fighting for. In that sense, gentleness is the opposite of violence and vengeance.

For some, meekness leads to suffering. “For Your sake we are being put to death all day long; we were considered as sheep to be slaughtered” (Romans 8:36). But there is triumph for the meek, even in suffering — ”But in all these things we overwhelmingly conquer through Him who loved us” (v. 37).

Meekness is a path worth following. It may not lead you to a spot on “American Idol” or “Survivor,” you may not win a political campaign, but you’ll find the reward of God is yours in abundance. Jesus promised, “Blessed are the gentle, for they shall inherit the earth” (Matthew 5:5).

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Adapted from The Quest for Character, by John MacArthur

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The Marshmallow Test [2 Versions]

Job 31:9

A psychologist who found he could predict children’s prospects by testing whether they could resist eating a marshmallow is to scan their brains to find the neurological roots of temptation.

The “marshmallow test”, one of the world’s simplest and most successful behavioural experiments, was developed by Professor Walter Mischel. He proved conclusively that the longer a four-year-old child was able to wait before taking a sweet, the better were his or her chances of a happy and successful life.

Mischel has been monitoring the lives of dozens of his subjects since he started the marshmallow experiments at a nursery on the campus of Stan-ford University, California, in the 1960s. His findings have proved so compelling that 40 of his original subjects, now in their forties, are preparing to undergo scans in the hope of answering a perplexing human question: why are some of us better than others at resisting temptation?

“Brain imaging provides a very exciting and important new tool,” said Mischel, who now works at Columbia University in New York. By examining the differences between the brains of subjects who turned out to be good at controlling their impulses and those who wolfed down the marshmallow the moment it was offered, researchers hope to come up with new ways of teaching the benefits of delayed gratification.

Mischel’s marshmallows have become a cornerstone of research into what is now known as emotional intelligence (EQ), a human quality more to do with feelings than education and rationality.

His experiments began with a simple proposition. He placed a marshmallow on a plate in front of his subjects and told them they could eat it if they wanted to. But if they could wait while he left the room for a few minutes, he would give them a second marshmallow.

Mischel would then leave the room for 10 to 15 minutes. He found that about a third of his subjects would grab the marshmallow immediately, a third would wait for his return to claim two marshmallows and the rest would try to wait but give up at varying times.

It was not until 14 years later, when his earliest subjects were leaving school and going on to university or to work, that Mischel began to confirm a dramatic correlation between marshmallow munching and success in life. The children who grabbed the sweets immediately turned into teenagers who lacked self-esteem and experienced difficult relations with their peers. Those who waited for a second marshmallow turned out to be more socially competent, self-assertive and academically successful. In their school exams, the “waiters” scored an average of 210 points more than the “grabbers”.

Mischel continues to monitor the progress of his original subjects and his broad findings have entered American academic lore – the ability to delay gratification turns children into successful adults.

This lesson has since been embraced in all walks of American life. Preachers refer to the marshmallow test when urging worshippers to suppress sinful impulses. Business gurus cite marshmallows when telling chief executives to resist short-term strategies that boost the share price but risk long-term problems.

Sceptics have suggested Mischel might have had different results had he replaced the marshmallow with a more tempting treat, such as a Jelly Tot or a toffee. Many others, however, cite Mischel’s work as evidence that EQ – or what some refer to simply as “grit” – plays a crucial role in child development.

One study by Martin Seligman and Angela Duckworth concluded that an individual’s IQ, or intelligence quotient, accounts for only a third of any difference in academic performance when compared with peers. The rest has to do with qualities such as perseverance, self-discipline, hard work, creativity and luck. One impediment to developing grit, another study concluded, was a parent’s overindulgent praise of a child.

For Mischel and other researchers, the question now is whether neuroscience can identify the part of the brain that processes marshmallow desire. By looking for differences in brain activity between “waiters” and “grabbers”, researchers may be able to identify strategies for improving self-control.

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During the 1960s, psychologist Walter Mischel conducted what became known as “the marshmallow test” with four-year-olds in the preschool at Stanford University. The object of the exercise was to assess each preschooler’s ability to delay gratification. Each child was given one marshmallow. They were told that they could eat it immediately or, if they waited until the researcher returned in 20 minutes, they could have two marshmallows.

Some kids in the group just couldn’t wait. They gobbled down the marshmallow immediately. The rest struggled hard to resist eating it. They covered their eyes, talked to themselves, sang, played games, even tried to go to sleep. The preschoolers who were able to wait were rewarded with two marshmallows when the researcher returned.

Twelve to fourteen years later the same kids were re-evaluated. The differences were astonishing. Those who had been able to control their impulses and delay gratification as four-year-olds were more effective socially and personally as teenagers. They had higher levels of assertiveness, self-confidence, trustworthiness, dependability, and a superior ability to control stress. Remarkably, their Scholastic Aptitude Test (SAT) scores were also 210 points higher than the “instant gratification” group!

A key difference between successful people — leaders — and those who struggle to get by is self-discipline. As Confucius wrote, “The nature of people is always the same; it is their habits that separate them.” Successful people have formed the habits of doing those things that most people don’t want to do.

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Incentives Vs. Virtue: What Money Can't Buy

Across the country, school systems are paying children to do better in school. In New York, fourth and seventh graders can get up to $500 for improving their scores on the city’s math and English tests. Schools in Georgia pay eighth and 11th graders $8 an hour to attend an after-school learning program.

You would think that, given what’s at stake, doing well at school would be its own reward. But, increasingly, both inside and outside the classroom, striving for virtue is being replaced by monetary incentives.

As one principal told USA Today, he is “trying lots of different incentives for doing the right thing.” “Incentives” include iPods for attending Saturday study sessions and a flat-screen television for making the all “A” honor roll.

Many critics prefer the word “bribe” to “incentive.” One compared the practice to giving athletes steroids: “Short-term performance might improve but the long-term effects can be very damaging.”

Damaging or not, paying people to do what they should already be doing isn’t going away. Greensboro, North Carolina, is paying teenage mothers $1 for every day they are not pregnant. Like paying students to improve their grades and test scores, paying teen mothers to not get pregnant appears to be having the desired affect.

The core ideas in these kinds of programs come from a new field known as “behavioral economics.” Classical economics assumes that people are rational and act in accordance with their best interests. Behavioral economics knows that, in the real world, people make bad and even self-destructive choices all the time.

The goal of behavioral economics is to identify the “dizzying array of human foibles” and help policy makers take them into account when shaping policy.

In the case of incentive programs like the ones I have described, it means “nudging” people to act in their own best interests. It’s an approach, by the way, that is favored by a “number of high-level appointees” in the Obama administration.

While basing policy on human beings as they actually are is certainly preferable to basing them on rational “economic men” that exist only in economists’ imaginations (you can count me among the critics on that one).

It doesn’t surprise me that these “nudges” can have a short-term positive effect. But it’s difficult to imagine these programs making a long-term difference.

On the contrary, the “long term damage” mentioned earlier may very well include creating a generation of people for whom incentives will become a necessity, not a nudge.

To put it in Christian terms, incentives will replace virtue. Instead of doing the right or prudent thing because it’s what a moral person does, people will do what they do because they get something out of it. This doesn’t build character — it builds calculators.

What’s more, in the real world, people don’t always reward you for doing the right thing. But there are still consequences for behaving foolishly. How will people raised on a steady diet of nudges avoid these pitfalls?

The answer is that many won’t avoid them because they never learned that, for the virtuous person, doing the right thing is incentive enough.

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Copyright (c) 2009 Prison Fellowship Ministries. Reprinted with permission. "BreakPoint with Chuck Colson" is a radio ministry of Prison Fellowship Ministries.

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Morals Clause

1 Timothy 3

Modern corporations say they take moral character seriously. Here is a statement by a corporate management firm:

“Accenture takes very seriously its business ethics, corporate

governance and transparency of operations. Our board of

directors authorized the creation of our Ethics and Compliance

program. Led by our general counsel, the program is designed to:

• Foster the highest ethical standards amongst Accenture

personnel.

• Be effective in preventing, detecting and appropriately

reporting and addressing any allegation of misconduct and

violations of law by Accenture personnel.”

I doubt any of you have ever used Accenture. But all of you know its chief spokesman - Tiger Woods. They used to pay him $20 million dollars a year. Not any more. They fired him because he violated his contract’s morals clause. Most of his other sponsors did the same thing.

It is hard to feel too sorry for a man who went from making billions to only making millions. But all of us are judged by the moral choices we make in life. Our choices don’t just reflect on us. They also reflect on the organizations we belong to.

The church does it a little differently. When I was hired by Ledgewood Baptist, I remember signing a one-page statement that I would be the pastor. The term of service was open-ended. There was no morals clause. There didn’t need to be one. It’s found in the Bible, in 1 Timothy 3.

Respected leadership is a key to reaching the world. Paul knew it, lived it, and expected it in others. Do we expect what God expects?

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Adapted from the online blog "Tiger Woods and the Morals Clause," by Alan Caruba, December 14, 2009.

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Why Virtue Matters In Politics

Ruth 3:11

The citizens of a democratic republic get the leaders they deserve because, after all, they choose them. Elected officials, then, are merely a reflection of the majority of those who voted to place them into office.

In the wake of sex scandals involving President Bill Clinton in the mid-1990s, the mantra among many in society became, “Character does not matter when it comes to political leaders.”

Those who espoused this view insisted that private behavior has no bearing on public leadership.

Many in the American electorate bought the premise that leaders can privately be selfish, greedy, dishonest and even perverted, all the while making altruistic decisions that are in the best interests of those who elected them to office.

Believing someone can be vile in private while virtuous in public has resulted in a U.S. Congress with an approval rating, according to a recent NBC/Wall Street Journal poll, that currently stands at 12 percent. Additionally, a 2012 Gallup poll found that politicians were among the least trusted professionals in America.

“Only a virtuous people are capable of freedom,” observed Benjamin Franklin. What one of America’s most well-known founders understood is that a truly virtuous people would elect as leaders those individuals who possessed integrity and virtue.

While definitions and understandings of virtue and integrity may abound, I recently heard a simple explanation offered by Bob McEwen. The former U.S. congressman from Ohio spoke at an event I attended and he shared that integrity and virtue consist of two concepts, morality and character.

“Morality is not engaging in behavior that is wrong,” according to McEwen. Though many in contemporary America reject the authority of the Bible, it does contain prohibitions that our society embraces. Stealing, murder, lying and infidelity are still viewed as behaviors that are wrong.

Moral people, simply put, sincerely seek to not do that which is wrong. Morality is good and noble. However, according to McEwen, integrity and virtue require more than morality. In order to be considered a person of integrity, a person of virtue, one must also pursue character.

“Character is doing that which is right,” McEwen said. It is not just enough to not do wrong. A person must do what is right.

McEwen said that if your child came home and told you the kids at school were calling a little girl names and added that he or she did not participate in the name calling, you would be happy. Your child did not do something wrong. He or she acted morally.

But a question remains, McEwen said: Did your child do what is right? Did he or she exhibit character by standing up for the little girl?

The two wings of morality and character are necessary for integrity and virtue to take flight. Both concepts are required. “You can’t do what is right if you are at the same time doing what is wrong,” McEwen said.

If Americans do not start electing men and women of integrity, people of virtue, who care more about the condition of the country than about their own fortunes, I fear the future of the United States is bleak.

In order for Americans to start electing people of virtue, it will require the realization that the electorate is the real problem, not those who have been elected. “We have met the enemy and he is us,” is a famous line from the comic strip character Pogo created by Walt Kelly.

Those who occupy elected positions are nothing more than a reflection of the majority of people who voted for them. If we don’t like what we see, we must start with our own integrity and then select and elect those who represent our morals and our character.

Recent developments in New York City might be a glimmer of hope that some citizens are coming around.

Anthony Weiner, a candidate in the New York City mayoral race, has plunged in the polls as a result of revelations he has engaged in at least three online affairs since resigning from Congress for the same sin. His actions have included explicit conversations and lewd photos shared with women, despite the facts that he is married and has a child.

Weiner’s behavior is so perverse that it has gotten the attention of some New York voters. As a result, quite a few are saying enough is enough. Some are saying they are not going to vote for a man void of morals and bereft of character.

I have a voting litmus test for those who want to excuse the behavior of politicians like Weiner and still maintain that elected leaders don’t need morality and character.

First, would you be comfortable leaving your daughter or your wife alone with the candidate for an extended period of time? Second, would you buy a used car from them? If you can’t answer either question with an unqualified yes, perhaps you should consider another candidate.

“The States [the government] are as the men are; they grow out of human character,” observed Plato. It is past time for integrity and virtue to matter again.

If our elected officials are to possess morality and character, the attributes must first be embraced by the electorate.

“Our constitution was made only for a moral and religious people,” said John Adams, America’s second president. “It is wholly inadequate to the government of any other.”

Character In Leadership — Does It Still Matter?

Ruth 3:11

In the 1976 presidential campaign, former Georgia Governor Jimmy Carter, then the Democratic nominee, made headlines in the United States and around the world merely by granting a single interview. That interview was with Playboy magazine. The interview was a political bombshell. No major American politician had come within any distance of Playboy magazine. It was considered the iconic symbol of American pornography, and the very fact that a political candidate — not to mention the nominee of one of America’s major political parties — had granted an interview to Playboy magazine, seemed almost morally unbelievable and indefensible. In the interview, Jimmy Carter dropped no bombshells concerning any kind of moral revelation; to the contrary, he basically made news by affirming what Jesus said in the Sermon on the Mount when Jesus said that it is not enough not to commit adultery, one must not even lust in the heart.

Jimmy Carter went on to be an elected President of the United States, but he is remembered from 1976 for the very fact that scandal was attached to the appearance of a major presidential candidate on the pages of Playboy magazine. Now fast-forward to 2016 and this year’s presidential race, and you can tell how much evangelicalism has changed. Some of the evangelicals who were appalled by Jimmy Carter’s interview in 1976 appear to have changed their mind. A photograph went viral yesterday of a major evangelical leader, the president of an evangelical institution, standing with his wife endorsing Donald Trump as President of the United States, and over his wife’s shoulder is a cover of Playboy magazine featuring, quite boldly, none other than Donald Trump.

On the one hand this underlines what a difference 40 years can make. But, of course, the story is even bigger than that. During the 1990s and the scandals of the Clinton administration, evangelical Christians were pretty certain that Bill Clinton was a living demonstration of the fact that character matters and that a lack of character can be fatal for leadership. During that time when commenting on the character crisis, I wrote an article entitled, “Character in Leadership: Does it Really Matter Anymore?.” I cited former President Calvin Coolidge, who identified character as “the only secure foundation of the state.”

As I pointed out, political controversies over character are not new, but they certainly have changed over the years. In the 1990s, there was an open cultural debate in the United States as to whether or not the sex scandals that were first alleged and then confirmed about President Bill Clinton had any direct impact upon his ability to lead the nation. It was very clear then that even as Americans seemed to be unsure about the centrality of character to leadership, at least most evangelical Christians seemed to affirm the centrality of character in leadership. Conservative evangelicals were very quick to criticize Bill Clinton for his sexual infidelities and, furthermore, to make the argument that Bill Clinton’s fitness for President of the United States had been undermined by his sexual misbehavior. Evangelicals at the time were very quick to make clear that this was not only a matter of an isolated sexual misbehavior, but rather that it fit a pattern of infidelity that was well-traced through the entire adult life and career of then-president Bill Clinton.

In the 1990s, evangelicals largely spoke with solidarity on the centrality of character in leadership, and of character as something essential to the credibility required of one who would hold a major position of leadership, in particular, one who would be elected President of the United States. In the midst of the Clinton controversies, Peggy Noonan, then well known as a former speechwriter to both presidents Ronald Reagan and George H. W. Bush, wrote:

“In a president, character is everything. A president doesn’t have to be brilliant ... he doesn’t have to be clever; you can hire clever ... . You can hire pragmatic, and you can buy and bring in policy wonks. But you cannot buy courage and decency; you can’t rent a strong moral sense. A president must bring those things with him.”

During the Clinton crisis, I cited Peggy Noonan’s assessment as an example of the way we should all be thinking about the centrality of character to leadership. Even during those times of controversy, James Davison Hunter, a sociologist at the University of Virginia, pointed out that most Americans were unsure about exactly how character was essential to leadership, but there was little question that character was essential to leadership.

“Character matters,” Hunter explained, “because without it trust, justice, freedom, community, and stability are probably impossible.”

At the time of that controversy swirling around then-president Bill Clinton, I tried to make several points in my article on character in leadership. First, character really is important. We are right to demand moral character of our leaders and to believe that character is inseparable from credibility. This is especially true, I argued, in a representative democracy.

Secondly, character is rooted in conviction. It was President Harry S. Truman who once remarked: “A man cannot have character unless he lives within a fundamental system of morals that creates character.”

Third, Christians also understand that sin is a fundamental reality we have to take into account when considering character. It is impossible for one who is driven by the Christian biblical worldview to expect moral perfection of anyone, including those who will lead us. That same biblical worldview, however, informs us that character is so central as to be an indispensable guide to making decisions about whom we will trust and how we will vote.

True character and leadership is also demonstrated when a leader responds to his own moral failure in a way that shows true repentance and moral courage. That was especially an issue back during the Clinton crisis when former President Bill Clinton was well known for actually making a tortured moral argument in which he evaded moral responsibility, even saying at one point that it all comes down to what ‘is’ means. In the midst of that controversy, I found myself repeatedly discussing these issues in public, including on news programs. On one particular episode of the Fox News program Hannity & Colmes, I was facing off with a liberal Roman Catholic priest on the question of character and leadership. That priest made the argument that we simply are not to judge, to make moral judgments about any other human being. I pointed out that even as Jesus warns us about hypocrisy in judging, we have to be making moral judgments about human beings all the time. For example, it is impossible to make the straight-faced argument that parents should not be concerned about the moral character of a potential babysitter. I then concluded my argument with these words,

“Americans have retained enough moral sense to know that personal character still matters in the choice of a babysitter. If this is true, we can hardly claim with a straight face that character is irrelevant to those who hold high positions of political leadership. In the end, our concept of character must be filled with specific content if it is to be meaningful. We must press on to think as Christians, refuse to be daunted by the complications, and show that we care about character even between elections.”

I raise that because I now have to wonder where evangelical Christians are going to stand on the issue of character. If the issues seemed to be so clear to evangelicals in the 1990s, how do I explain what appears to be they mixed signals coming from evangelicals in the midst of the 2016 presidential election?

Earlier this week in New York between 900 and 1,000 prominent evangelicals met with the presumptive Republican presidential nominee Donald Trump, and it was announced by the national media that many of those evangelicals appear to be quite satisfied with what they heard. Additionally, many of them seem to be ready to endorse Trump for the office of President of the United States.

Writing yesterday evening at The Atlantic, Emma Green wrote,

“The ‘90s are back in Trumpland, and the old-guard religious right is making its return. After Trump spoke at a meeting of more than 1,000 evangelicals and some Catholics on Tuesday, his campaign announced his appointment of an ‘evangelical executive advisory board’ to lead a larger ‘Faith and Cultural Advisory Committee.’”

As she said, “The list reads like a who’s who of conservative Christian leaders.”

She also points out, to her credit, that the list hints at tensions over Donald Trump amongst conservative evangelicals. The list is noteworthy, not only because of the names that are on it, but also because of the names that decidedly are not.

In the 2016 presidential race, evangelicals are facing some very hard questions we have not had to face before. We’re looking at a very different political equation in this election than we have ever faced in terms of the lifetimes of those who will be voting in 2016, in particular those evangelicals who can look back at previous election cycles — especially since 1980 — and understand that we have not faced this kind of difficult decision.

Evangelicals looking to the 2016 election in the fall are basically going to be torn between two different directions — one is voting for someone not a major party nominee or on the other hand voting for Donald Trump, with the argument that he is the lesser of two evils in terms of the understanding of the political choices that evangelicals will face. Those who are driven by an affirmation and conviction of the sanctity and dignity of human life cannot vote for a Democratic nominee, whoever that nominee may be, who would be committed to the Democratic Party platform’s call for abortion to be legal under virtually any circumstance. Furthermore, Hillary Clinton, now the presumptive Democratic nominee, has not only made her identification with abortion rights and with Planned Parenthood clear, she has gone further even to demand the public taxpayer funding of abortions.

While that is hardly the only issue, evangelicals should not be embarrassed by the fact that every voter is a single-issue voter on at least some issues. That means there at least some issues every voter understands are absolutely nonnegotiable. Without any apology, I believe the sanctity of human life is absolutely nonnegotiable. But the very fact that someone is pro-life, or claims to be pro-life, is not a sufficient reason to elect that person or to vote for that person over against every other consideration. And when you look at someone like Donald Trump, you’re looking at someone who has made his entire fortune through immoral enterprises such as casino gambling. You’re looking at someone who has bragged about his extramarital affairs even to the point where, in his own words, he has warned husbands that their wives are not sexually safe so long as he is in the room. You’re looking at a major party candidate who has actually framed in his office a cover story from Playboy magazine showing his own face.

I cite that article I wrote during the Clinton crisis to document arguments the importance of sexual morality and character to leadership. I read those words because I want to make certain I am consistent over time and not bending my argument to the political urgency of the moment. If I were to support, much less endorse, Donald Trump for president, I would actually have to go back and apologize to former President Bill Clinton. I would have to admit that my commentary on his scandals was wrong. I don’t believe I was. I don’t believe evangelicals who stood united that time were wrong.

In this difficult political season, evangelicals must not demonize one another as to how we’re thinking through these issues, but I must plead with all evangelicals that we must indeed think through these issues carefully and faithfully, and think very biblically and candidly. We are going to be learning a great deal more about the candidates in weeks and months ahead. But it’s also increasingly true that we’re going to be learning a great deal about ourselves as evangelical Christians in America. Perhaps we had better brace ourselves for what we’re going to learn.

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This essay is drawn from my commentary on the Wednesday, June 22, 2016 edition of The Briefing.

Deacons, Worthy of Honor

Acts 6:1

I had the privilege of co-officiating the funeral of a dear friend and former co-laborer in local church ministry last month. Dying at the age of 88, Ed Carroll served as a deacon at Muldraugh Baptist Church in Kentucky for over a half-century, and as the chairman of deacons most of those years.

As a 25-year-old serving my first stint as a pastor, Ed encouraged me, counseled me and served alongside me. We prayed together, visited together, worshipped together and tended the flock of God together. Though he was nearly 50 years my senior, he became one of those friends and co-laborers, without whom it was impossible to conceptualize ministry.

Pondering Ed’s life prompted me to reflect more broadly on the office of deacon and the caricatures often associated with it. We have all heard nightmarish stories of biblically unqualified deacons who use their position to lord over the church, even the pastor.

Thankfully, this has not been my experience. In the main, I have been privileged to serve with good, godly men. Ed was foremost among them. These men have been a blessing to me and to the churches we have served. Biblically speaking, such men are worthy of honor for two reasons, and honor them we should.

Men of character

The diaconate, as outlined in 1 Timothy 3, stipulates the men who would serve must have sterling character, just like the office of the elder. In fact, the qualifications of the deacon are almost identical to the elder, sans the requirement for the elder to be “able to teach.” Consider the apostle Paul’s qualifications for the deacons, their wives and families in 1 Timothy 3:9-13:

“Deacons likewise must be men of dignity, not double-tongued, or addicted to much wine or fond of sordid gain, but holding to the mystery of the faith with a clear conscience. These men must also first be tested; then let them serve as deacons if they are beyond reproach. Women must likewise be dignified, not malicious gossips, but temperate, faithful in all things. Deacons must be husbands of only one wife, and good managers of their children and their own households. For those who have served well as deacons obtain for themselves a high standing and great confidence in the faith that is in Christ Jesus.”

Men who measure up are to be enlisted and equipped for the diaconate. As they are, they are to be held up as an example to the flock and commended for their faithfulness to the body of Christ.

Men of service

The office of the deacon is not an honorary one. Rather, deacons are set apart to serve. In fact, when we see deacons first introduced in Acts 6, this was precisely their function. The deacons served widows so that the apostles would be free for prayer and the ministry of the word.

As he noted in 1 Timothy 3, Paul sets forth service as the deacons’ first priority: “These men must also first be tested; then let them serve as deacons if they are beyond reproach.... For those who have served well as deacons obtain for themselves a high standing and great confidence in the faith that is in Christ Jesus.”

The office of the deacon is not a position of leadership, but deacons often find themselves leading. Their leadership is a derived authority, earning such through godly character and sacrificial service. Such leadership is fitting and right.

The French statesman Charles de Gaulle once quipped that “graveyards are full of indispensable men.” In a sense, de Gaulle was right. No man is indispensable. But some men are irreplaceable. In the life of his church, Ed Carroll was such a man.

I’m going to miss Ed not only for who he was and what he did, but for what he represented -- a generation of servants, deeply devoted to their local church.

Brother pastors, let us hold high the office of deacon and make sure to honor those who serve well. As we do, may the Lord be pleased to call out a new generation of such laymen, qualified and equipped to serve their church.

Talk Is Cheap — The High Price of Integrity

Job 2:3

When my boys were growing up, I taught them from an early age about the importance of integrity. I used to say to them, “Boys, remember whatever else is true about you, if you don’t have integrity, you have nothing.” Fast forward a few decades and I’ve just released a new book, Character Still Counts, which details the twelve traits and virtues that are central to having character. I purposefully put integrity as the very first chapter because I believe integrity is the foundation of character. If character were a deck of cards, integrity would be the trump card. If you were building a house of character, the foundation would be integrity. Integrity would be “the first man up.”

The fountainhead of the river of character is integrity because all other virtues flow from this one character trait. The chairman and CEO of Berkshire Hathaway, one of the most successful and wealthy businessmen in the world, remarked that he looks for three things when he hires people: intelligence, initiative, and integrity. He emphasized if those people don’t have integrity, the first two will kill you. This is my definition of integrity: “Integrity is always doing the right thing at the right time, in the right place, regardless of the cost or the consequences.” The reason I emphasize the last part of that quote is because there is a high price to pay for integrity. It doesn’t come cheap. It is costly. We are free to exercise integrity, but integrity is never free to exercise.

Integrity is a word that has such a deep and broad meaning that it is difficult to capture in just one sentence. C. S. Lewis said, “Integrity is doing what is right when no one is looking.” I would tweak that a bit and put it this way: “Integrity is what you are when no one but God and you are looking.” Someone else said, “Integrity is doing what you say you will do unless it is wrong.”

One thing you should do is read the story of Daniel in the lion’s den and you will understand the high price you pay for integrity and the high cost incurred within integrity. Most every child is familiar with the story of Daniel in the lion’s den. Too often we focus on the lion’s den instead of the reason that got Daniel put there. The reason was rather than do a simple thing like refrain from praying for thirty days, he doubled-down and prayed openly in public even though he knew it could cost him his life. For Daniel, even though the price of maintaining his integrity was high, he knew the cost of losing his integrity would be even higher. Theodore Hesburgh, former president of the University of Notre Dame, said, “My basic principle is you don’t make decisions because they are easy; you don’t make them because they are cheap; you don’t make them because they are popular; you make them because they are right.”

Integrity is sorely lacking (and missing) in our culture today, but I believe there is a thirst and hunger for it that is an undercurrent in our nation. Integrity that doesn’t go with the flow, integrity that doesn’t follow the crowd, integrity that stands its ground, integrity that doesn’t listen to polls, integrity that lives for principles, integrity that stands up and stands out even though it may cause you to stand alone. Think about this as you come to the end of this article. The most important question you can ask to determine if you are living with integrity is not, “Did I do things right?” but, “Did I do the right thing?” at the end of your life. That is the only question that will truly matter.

Many years ago, I was in Beijing, China, and I could not wait to go to the Great Wall of China. It took the Chinese more than two centuries to build this wall. It stretches more than twenty-one thousand kilometers and it was built for the purpose of preventing invasions from barbaric armies that would attack from the north. I was spellbound as I walked on top of that wall so thick you couldn’t break through it, so long you couldn’t go around it, and so tall you couldn’t get over it. I felt like I was standing on the most secure place on planet Earth.

I soon got over my fascination when my guide told me that within the first century after it was completed, China was successfully invaded by those northern barbarians three times. I was blown away. I asked “Did they go over the wall?” He said, “No.” I asked, “Did they go around the wall?” He said, “No.” I asked, “Did they go under the wall?” He said, “No.” I knew they didn’t go through the wall, so I said, “How did they get in?” He smiled and said, “Three times they bribed the gatekeeper and they walked right in.”

The Chinese failed to realize that the strength of the wall was not in the cement or the bricks; it was in the integrity of one person. There is a high price to pay to maintain your integrity, but there will always be a greater cost when you don’t.

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James Merritt is lead pastor of Cross Pointe Church in Duluth, Georgia.

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