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174 Sermon Illustrations on Leadership

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Leadership in Christian preaching emphasizes guiding others with integrity and humility, often highlighting the challenges leaders face, such as unjust criticism or opposition. Illustrations frequently use images of shepherds, captains, or servants to convey responsibility and trustworthiness in service to God's people (1 Timothy 3:1-7, Hebrews 13:17).

Unjust Criticism

Critics find fault with every preacher's action, showing the difficulty of pleasing all people.

A Texas paper comments on the criticisms concerning a preacher: "The preacher has a great time. If his hair is grey he is too old; if he is a young man he hasn't had enough experience. If he has ten children he has too many; if he has none he is not setting a good example. If his wife sings in the choir she is presuming; if she doesn't she isn't interested in her husband's work. If a preacher reads from notes he is a bore; if he speaks extemporaneously he isn't deep enough. If he stays at home in his study, he does not mix enough with his people; if he is seen around on the streets, he ought to be home getting out a good sermon. If he calls at the homes of the wealthy, he is an aristocrat; if he calls on the poor family, then he is playing to the grandstand. Whatever he does, someone could have told him to do better." Pity the poor preacher, and for that matter every leader who has critical followers. Let us have confidence in our spiritual leaders, not blind confidence, but confidence that stems from personal persuasion that they are doing the best that they can under the circumstances.

Labor, Above

True leaders serve alongside their people, not just command from above.

During the Revolution, a commander of a little squad was giving orders relative to a stick of timber they were endeavoring to raise to the top of some military works. The timber went up hard; and, on this account, the voice of the commander was often heard in regular vociferations of "Heave away!" "There she goes!" "Heave ho!" An officer, not in military costume, was passing, and asked the commander why he did not take hold and help a little. The latter, astonished, said, "Sir, I am a corporal!"—"You are, are you?" replied the officer: "I was not aware of that." Upon this he dismounted, and lifted till the sweat stood in drops on his forehead; and when finished turning to the commander, he said, "Mr. Corporal, when you have another such job, and have not men enough, send for your commander-in-chief, and I will come and help you a second time." The corporal was thunder struck. It was Gen. Washington.

from New Cyclopaedia of Prose Illustrations · Elon Foster service to god

Nations, Governing

A statesman should guide public opinion firmly, like a coachman controls horses with reins.

A statesman, we are told, should follow public opinion. Doubtless . . . as a coachman follows his horses; having firm hold on the reins, and guiding them. Hare.

from New Cyclopaedia of Prose Illustrations · Elon Foster authority

Promotion, Ground of

True leadership is marked by irreplaceable character, not mere availability.

Moses Stuart was pastor in New Haven when he was nominated for the Professorship of Sacred Literature in Andover Theological Seminary. Rev. Dr. Samuel Spring of Newburyport visited New Haven to make inquiries touching the candidate. Among others whom he interrogated relative to the qualifications of Mr. Stuart was Pres. Dwight. "He is the very man for the place," said Pres. Dwight; "but we cannot spare him." — "Sir," responded Dr. Spring, "we do not want a man that can be spared."

Life of Dr. Spring.

Henry Iv And The Siege

A leader values human life above conquest, choosing peace over bloodshed.

When Henry IV of France was advised to attempt taking Paris by an assault, before the King of Spain's troops arrived to succor the leaguers, he absolutely protested against the measure, on the principle of humanity. "I will not," said he, "expose the capital to the miseries and horrors which must follow such an event. I am the father of my people, and will follow the example of the true mother who presented herself before Solomon. I had much rather not have Paris, than obtain it at the expense of humanity, and by the blood and death of so many innocent persons."

Henry reduced the city to obedience without the loss of blood, except two or three burgesses who were killed. "If it was in my power," said this humane monarch, "I would give fifty thousand crowns to redeem those citizens, to have the satisfaction of informing posterity that I had subdued Paris without spilling a drop of blood."

from Cyclopaedia of Moral and Religious Anecdotes · Kazlitt Arvine

Industrious Monarch

Peter the Great led by example, working alongside his subjects in labor.

It was the custom of Peter the Great to visit the different workshops and manufactories, not only to encourage them, but also to judge what other useful establishments might be formed in his dominions. Among the places he visited frequently, were the forges of Muller, at Istia, ninety versts from Moscow.—The Czar once passed a whole month there; during which time, after giving due attention to the affairs of state, which he never neglected, he amused himself with seeing and examining every thing in the most minute manner, and even employed himself in learning the business of a blacksmith. He succeeded so well, that on one of the last days of his remaining there, he forged eighteen poods of iron, and put his own particular mark on each bar. The boyars and other noblemen of his suite were employed in blowing the bellows, stirring the fire, carrying coals, and performing the other duties of a blacksmith's assistant. When Peter had finished, he went to the proprietor, praised his manufactory, and asked him how much he gave his workmen per pood. "Three kopecks, or an altina," answered Muller. "Very well," replied the Czar; "I have then earned eighteen altinas." Muller brought eighteen ducats, offered them to Peter, and told him that he could not give a workman like his majesty less per pood. Peter refused. "Keep your ducats," said he; "I have not wrought better than any other man; give me what you would give to another; I want to buy a pair of shoes, of which I am in great need." At the same time he showed him his shoes, which had been once mended, and were again full of holes. Peter accepted the eighteen altinas, and bought himself a pair of new shoes, which he used to show with much pleasure, saying,— "These I earned with the sweat of my brow."

One of the bars of iron forged by Peter the Great, and authenticated by his mark, is still to be seen at Istia, in the forge of Muller. Another similar bar is preserved in the cabinet of curiosities at St. Petersburg.

Washington And The Corporal

True leadership includes humble service and willingness to help in any role.

During the American Revolution, it is said, the commander of a little squad was giving orders to those under him, relative to a stick of timber which they were endeavoring to raise up to the top of some military works they were repairing. The timber went up hard, and on this account, the voice of the little great man was oftener heard, in regular vociferations of "Heave away! There she goes! Heave ho!" An officer, not in military costume, was passing, and asked the commander why he did not take hold, and render a little aid. The latter, astonished, turning round with all the pomp of an emperor, said, "Sir, I am a corporal!" "You are—are you?" replied the officer, "I was not aware of that;" and taking off

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The Czar And His Governor

Peter the Great humbly assisted in labor, showing servant leadership.

Peter the Great frequently surprised the magistrates by his unexpected presence in the cities of the empire. Having arrived without previous his hat and bowing, "I ask your pardon, Mr. Corporal." Upon this he dismounted, and lifted till the sweat stood in drops on his forehead. And when finished, turning to the commander, he said, "Mr. Corporal, when you have another such job, and have not men enough, send for your Commander-in-Chief, and I will come and help you a second time." The corporal was thunderstruck! It was Washington.

Leadership, Responsibility of

2 Chronicles 33:9

Leaders' sins affect others; they must zealously guide people rightly.

No one ever sins alone—always involves others. See v. 16. One who has led people wrong must strive with greater zeal to lead others in right way

THE BRAMBLE-BUSH KING

Judges 9:7

Unworthy leaders often seek control without ability, like the bramble who became king.

There is a story in the Old Testament which says that once upon a time the trees gathered together to choose a king to rule over them. First they invited the olive-tree; but the olive-tree said it was too busy bearing fruit. Then they asked the fig-tree to be king; but the fig-tree had its work to do, and also declined. Next they waited upon the vine with an invitation; but, like the others, it did not wish to be their king. Finally the trees asked the bramble to accept the position, and the bramble gladly agreed. The first order it gave was for all the trees to take shelter under its branches or be burned with fire. That sounds just like a prickly, thorny, little bramble, does it not? That is usually the way of people who like to lord it over other people when they have no ability for it. There are some who want to do so when they are at a party. They want to be the hitching-post to which all the people are tied when they talk. If the bramble takes the form of a boy, he wants to be captain of his team, or he will not play. If it happens to be a girl, she insists upon everybody playing the game she wants, or she will go home in a sulk. These people cannot agree long with anybody. They are quarrelsome and peevish. Some boys and girls are like horses: they make good single-drivers, but they will not work with anyone else. Some horses go well enough alone, but when you hitch them with another horse they crowd, or bite, or kick it. They cannot "go double," as we say. That is the bramble-nature showing out in a horse. This is a bad trait, whether you find it in a horse, a man or woman, a boy or girl. Christ says: "You know the rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them. Not so shall it be among you; but whosoever would become great among you shall be your minister; and whosoever would be first among you shall be your servant." Jesus also said, "I am meek and lowly in heart." So must all His followers be. If you are getting any of the bramble-nature, and want to lord it over everybody, you had better give it up. Some of the unhappiest people in the world are bramble-bush kings.

Abdication

Shakespeare’s Richard II illustrates the heavy burden and humility in relinquishing leadership.

“Uneasy lies the head that wears a crown.” If men who are obscure and quiet and tempted to envy the glory of kings they might profitably meditate on the speech that Shakespeare puts into the mouth of Richard II while he abandons his crown:

I give this heavy weight from off my head And this unwieldy scepter from my hand, The pride of kingly sway from out my heart; With mine own tears I wash away my value, With mine own hands I give away my crown, With mine own tongue deny my sacred state, With mine own breath release all duteous oaths.

Acknowledgment

A good leader credits his team's efforts for his own success.

Pyrrhus, King of Epirus, was kind and courteous to his army, both to officers and soldiers. He shared the toils and hardships of those who were under his command. He gave them, too, their share of the glory which he acquired, by attributing his success to their courage and fidelity. At one time, after some brilliant campaign in Macedonia, some persons in his army compared his progress to the flight of an eagle. “If I am an eagle,” replied Pyrrhus, “I owe it to you, for you are the wings by means of which I have risen so high.”

from Cyclopedia of Illustrations for Public Speakers · Robert Scott and William C. Stiles

Collective Labor

Leaders use collective contributions to symbolize unity and commemorate achievements.

A certain King of Scythia, wishing to make an enumeration of the inhabitants of his realm, required every man in his dominions to send him an arrow-head. The vast collection was officially counted, and then laid together in a sort of monumental pile. This primitive mode of census-taking suggested to Darius the idea of his cairn in his march through Thrace. Fixing upon a suitable spot near his camp, he commanded every soldier to bring a stone and place it on the pile. Of course, a vast mound arose commemorating the march and denoting, also, the countless number of soldiers that formed the expedition.

from Cyclopedia of Illustrations for Public Speakers · Robert Scott and William C. Stiles accountability

Confidence

Unshaken confidence in leadership enables bold decisions despite opposition.

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A story is told by Colonel William Conant Church, of the _Army and Navy Journal_, which illustrates how unshaken was the President’s confidence in Grant’s ability to march the army of the Potomac against the army of northern Virginia and capture the stronghold of the rebellion. The incident took place just before Grant established his headquarters in the field.

When he called upon the Secretary of War, the latter said:

“Well, General, I suppose you have left us enough men to garrison the forts strongly?”

“No, I can’t do that,” was the General’s quiet reply.

“Why not? Why not?” repeated the nervous Secretary.

“Because I have already sent the men to the front, where they are needed more than in Washington.”

“That won’t do,” said Stanton. “It’s contrary to my plans. I will order the men back.”

Grant maintained a quiet determination, and replied:

“I shall need the men there, and you can not order them back.”

“Why not? Why not?” cried the Secretary.

“I believe I rank the Secretary of War in this matter,” remarked Grant.

“Very well, we will see the President,” sharply responded the Secretary.

“That’s right; he ranks us both.”

Going to the President, Secretary Stanton, turning to Grant, said:

“General, state your case.”

But the General calmly replied:

“I have no case to state. I am satisfied as it is.”

When Stanton had given his view of the matter, Lincoln crossed his legs, leaned back in his chair, and like the wise philosopher that he was, said:

“Now, Mr. Secretary, you know we have been trying to manage this army for nearly three years, and you know we haven’t done much with it. We sent over the mountains and brought Mr. Grant, as Mrs. Grant calls him, to manage it for us, and now I guess we’d better let Mr. Grant have his own way.”

The winter of 1863 was a trying time for General Grant. It was a winter of floods in the South, and a winter of discontent among the people of the North. He could not move his army, and many began the old cry after Donelson, “idle, incompetent, and unfit to command in an emergency,” and again arose a clamor for his removal. It was a season of false alarm and sensational rumors.

But there were two men in the land from whence came words of cheer. One was listening quietly in a store in Cincinnati to a great deal of rambling and grumbling talk about the way General Grant was trying to take Vicksburg. When all others present had given vent to their feelings, this man said in a moderate tone: “I think he’ll take it. Yes, I know he’ll take it. ’Lis’ always did what he set out to do. ’Lis’ is my boy, and he won’t fail.”

The other man who believed in General Grant was in the White House. He was too good to be unkind, and too wise and prudent to err. While men of large political influence were urging General Grant’s removal for the good of the country, the philosopher at the White House said: “I rather like the man; I think we’ll try him a little longer.” By these thirteen words the fate of Vicksburg was sealed.--Col. NICHOLAS SMITH, “Grant, the Man of Mystery.”

from Cyclopedia of Illustrations for Public Speakers · Robert Scott and William C. Stiles trust in god

Experience

Experienced leaders who work alongside their team prevent rebellion and gain respect.

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I once met a veteran sailor, one of the old Hull and Decatur breed, who had been to sea forty years, and he told me he had never known a mutiny on board ship where the captain had risen from before the mast, implying that such an officer had acquired experience, and knew how to manage men as well as vessels.

— JAMES T. FIELDS

from Cyclopedia of Illustrations for Public Speakers · Robert Scott and William C. Stiles experience

Instability

Effective leadership must be anchored in solid character, not unstable, shifting people.

Society is curst with young men and women who are driven and tossed by every wind. I would as soon think of anchoring an ocean-liner to a fog-bank instead of a rock as to anchor a reform, a useful club, a great movement or church to their lives and leadership.

— N. D. HILLIS

from Cyclopedia of Illustrations for Public Speakers · Robert Scott and William C. Stiles

Leadership, Faithful

A faithful leader can confidently claim to have led well even in death.

Sir Garnet Wolseley, in his Egyptian campaign against Arabi Pasha at Tel-el-Kebir, selected a Scotch Highlander to lead his force over the desert sands by the light of the stars, so timing the silent march as to reach the point of assault at daybreak. March and assault were successful, but the poor Highlander fell mortally wounded. Sir Garnet, learning of this, went over to the brave man, who, seeing his commander, said: “Didn’t I lead them straight?”

Happy the Christian guide who in death can make a similar claim. (Text.)

from Cyclopedia of Illustrations for Public Speakers · Robert Scott and William C. Stiles faithfulness

Training

Training is essential for effective leadership and success in influential roles.

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Training counts, culture adds strength. Sixty per cent of our Congressmen have been college men; 79 per cent of our Senators have been college men; 90 per cent of our supreme judges have been college men; 92 per cent of our presidents have been college men. Training counts; training makes leadership.

— N. MCGEE WATERS

from Cyclopedia of Illustrations for Public Speakers · Robert Scott and William C. Stiles

Washington, George

Washington’s leadership was like commanding the sun and moon to stand still.

Perhaps one of the wittiest toasts on record is that of Franklin. After the victories of Washington had made his name well known throughout Europe, Franklin chanced to dine with the French and English ambassadors, when these toasts were drunk. The son of Britain rose and proudly remarked: “England--the sun whose beams enlighten and fructify the remotest corners of the earth.”

The Frenchman, glowing with national pride, drunk: “France--the moon whose mild, steady, cheering rays are the delight of all nations; consoling them in darkness and making their dreariness beautiful.”

This furnished Franklin with a fine opening, and his quaint humor bubbled over in his retort: “George Washington--the Joshua, who commanded the sun and the moon to stand still and they obeyed him.”

from Cyclopedia of Illustrations for Public Speakers · Robert Scott and William C. Stiles

Washington, George

Washington’s steady, unflickering leadership was true brilliance and guidance.

See LIFE, THE SIMPLE.

WASHINGTON’S GENIUS

Brilliant I will not call him, if the brightness of the rippling river exceed the solemn glory of old ocean. Brilliant I will not call him, if darkness must be visible in order to display the light; for he had none of that rocket-like brilliancy which flames in instant coruscation across the black brow of night, and then is not. But if a steady, unflickering flame, slow rising to its lofty sphere, dispensing far and wide its rays, revealing all things on which it shines in due proportions and large relations, making right, duty, and destiny so plain that in the vision we are scarce conscious of the light--if this be brilliancy, then the genius of Washington was as full-orbed and luminous as the god of day in his zenith.

— JOHN W. DANIEL

from Cyclopedia of Illustrations for Public Speakers · Robert Scott and William C. Stiles

Cell 39, A Model of Christian Service

Luke 22:24

We hear a lot about ministry as service. I want to present an image that exemplifies what the servant posture means. The image comes from a true account of an American who was imprisoned in Soviet Russia's Gulag for 45 years. It is told by Victor Herman in his autobiography, “Coming Out of the Ice.” His first imprisonment was in Cell 39, a space five-and-a-half feet wide and ten feet long with a boarded up window at the far end. Along each wall were two benches on which 16 men sat. Closest to the door was a round vat called a Parasha, a latrine that was emptied once every ten days. Existence in Cell 39 was statuesque torture. The stench from the Parasha was choking. The men were forbidden to talk or move. From dawn to darkness they were forced to sit silent and motionless and stare at a hole in the cell door. At night they lay on the cold stone floor like eggs in a carton. Every inch of space was occupied; the slightest movement to relieve an ache was purchased at a cell mate's expense.

After only 24 hours, Herman was on the verge of madness. He doubtless would have gone mad had he not sensed that one of the cellmates was looking out for the others, thus preserving a morsel of dignity in this cataleptic nightmare. The cellmate was known simply as “the Elder” and he sat closest to the Parasha, where the stench was strongest, and nearest to the door, which exposed him to the senseless blows of the guards.

The Elder did two things every day. He counted out 16 bowls of soup as they came through the feeding hole in the cell door to insure that no one received less than he share. He also allowed no one to begin eating until all had been served. His second task was to give a signal twice each night for the men to change sleeping positions. This prevented unbearable cramping come morning. Herman knew nothing more about the Elder, but his role in Cell 39 restrained 16 men from erupting in a mad dogfight for food, space, and air.

Cell 39 will remain a model of Christian service for James Edwards for a long time. It tells us that in every situation in life, no matter how plain or grim, there is need for a servant-leader. But it tells something more: Only the person who sits closest to the Parasha, as it were, and who is most exposed to the blows of the system, can claim authority to lead and serve. The authority of a servant stands in inverse proportion to his claims for himself.

All believers are called by God, called to fellowship with Jesus Christ. Not a concept, but a fellowship.

And Where Is Our Leader?

John Keegan, in "The Mask of Command," analyzes various leadership styles down through the ages. In 323 BC Alexander the Great led his Macedonian Army into battle against the fortified city of Multan. At the head of his troops, he climbed to top of wall, ladder broke, he leaped to the fray and slaughtered the enemy, even with an arrow in his lung, until his troops reached him.

Adolf Hitler in fall of 1942 was on train going to new headquarters. His army was endangered at Stalingrad. On Nov. 7, 1942, as he was sitting down to supper in the rosewood paneled diner of his special train, a freight car chanced to stop on an adjacent track. The car contained a throng of starving and wounded soldiers from the eastern front, who naturally stared in astonishment at the Fuhrer in his diner just two yards away. "Without as much as a gesture of greeting in their direction," recalls Albert Speer, Hitler "peremptorily ordered the servant to draw [close] the shades."

In modern armies a clear mind and self-control are often better than bravery. Ancient extolling of bravery is dangerous in the nuclear age.

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Version used on August 12, 2012:

In 323 B.C., Alexander the Great’s army had made it all the way to what is now Pakistan. They came to the fortified city of Multan and decided it had to be captured. Alexander put himself at the front of his troops. They broke through a gate in the outer walls and poured in. When the reached the next set of walls, his engineers tried to undermine them so a portion would collapse. Alexander thought it was taking too much time so he grabbed a ladder and began climbing to the top of the wall. Other soldiers followed him up the ladder to protect their great leader. So many jumped on, the ladder broke.

Alexander was left alone on the wall. His soldiers held out their arms to him so he would jump down. Instead, he jumped down the other side and began fighting furiously, even killing the leader of Multan. But an enemy arrow penetrated Alexander’s lung, severely wounding him.

By now his desperate troops had broken through and rescued Alexander. His personal example inspired them so much, they ended up conquering much of the known world.

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An adaption of the top illustration and material in the article, "Mallian Campaign," Wikipedia.org,

Evangelical Dictator

Comment on Rios Montt, an Evangelical general who came to power in 1982: "Such [local defense] patrols proliferated during the presidency of Efrain Rios Montt, a general with a reputation for rectitude and personal honesty who came to power in the darkest days of 1982; I talked with many Guatemalans who credit him with turning the tide against the insurgents and steering the country toward eventual democratic rule."

In 1982 right wing death squads and leftist terrorists fought heavily even in the capital. Montt began a policy of "bullets and beans" to subdue the Communists. It seems to be working. Army has fought strongly against the guerillas and local villages are getting government support. One leader, devoted to Christ, made a big difference.

[Some groups accuse Montt, who has long been a pastor in the "Church of the Word" in Guatemala, of serious human rights abuses while in power.]

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from National Geographic, "Guatemala - A Fragile Democracy" · Griffin Smith, Jr. via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database leadership

Seven Questions Every Leader Should Ask

During World War II, critics praised Winston Churchill as a magnificent war leader, but felt he failed to provide England with the spiritual guidance it needed. Upon hearing his criticism, Churchill retorted, “Since I became prime minister, I have appointed no fewer than six new bishops. What more do they want?”

Churchill’s reply exposes a mistake that leaders can make. We think if we provide the sufficient tools, methods, and personnel for a group task, we’ve done our job. But this is management, not leadership. Managers hover over details, ensuring that operations run smoothly; leaders provide the direction and motivation to pursue an overall mission. Managing produces immediate results; leading operates more in the futuristic world of ideas, strategies, and inspiration.

from Discipleship Journal · Judith Couchman via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database goalvisionguidance

The One Jesus Loves

John 11:29

Henri Nouwen elaborates on the qualifications for leadership in his book “In the Name of Jesus”:

"Christian leaders cannot simply be persons who have well-informed opinions about the burning issues of our time. Their leadership must be rooted in the permanent, intimate relationship with the incarnate Word, Jesus, and they need to find there the source for their words, advice, and guidance… Dealing with burning issues easily leads to divisiveness because, before we know it, or sense of self is caught up in our opinion about a given subject. But when we are securely rooted in personal intimacy with the source of life, it will be possible to remain flexible but not relativistic, convinced without being rigid, willing to confront without being offensive, gentle and forgiving without being soft, and true witnesses without being manipulative."

from Discipleship Journal · Brennan Manning via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database controversy

"Teamwork"

Jude 1:19

A sea captain and his chief engineer were arguing over who was most important to the ship. To prove their point to each other, they decided to swap places. The chief engineer ascended to the bridge, and the captain went to the engine room.

Several hours later, the captain suddenly appeared on deck covered with oil and dirt. "Chief!" he yelled, waving aloft a monkey wrench. "You have to get down there: I can't make her go!"

"Of course you can't," replied the chief. "She's aground!"

On a team we don't excel each other; we depend on each other. (1816)

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Antagonists

Acts 8:18

Small Group Letter: Enhancing Small Group Life and Ministry Interview with Dr. Kenneth C. Haugk, executive director of Stephen Ministries

Q: WHAT CAUSES DESTRUCTIVE CONFLICT IN A SMALL GROUP?

A: Destructive conflict usually will not occur without an antagonist. I

define an antagonist as an individual who goes out of the way to make

unreasonable demands, usually attacking the person or performance of

others. These attacks are selfish in nature, tearing down rather than

building up, and are frequently directed against those in leadership.

Please note the difference between healthy conflict and destructive conflict.

It is healthy conflict to honestly - even heatedly - disagree with

something that is being discussed in the group. But the goal here is to

be heard, to express a viewpoint, and not to tear down. However, the

goal of the antagonist is to usurp power or to criticize and tear down

someone (especially the leader), often behind the person's back. That is

destructive. The antagonist's critical nature and behavior - left

unchecked - will destroy a group. (above used 3/15/98)

Q: ARE ANTAGONISTS A FAIRLY COMMON PROBLEM IN SMALL GROUPS?

A: More so than we would like. Not every small group has one, obviously, but

I would imagine that in every fairly large congregation's small group

ministry, a few of the small groups will have an antagonist or two.

Unfortunately, the church is not immune from antagonists.

Q: WHAT CAUSES PEOPLE TO BE ANTAGONISTS?

A: It is generally a result of unresolved, deep-seated problems: low self-

concept; a high need for attention; a history of not being affirmed; a

history of being pushed down, which causes them to rise up and challenge

or attack. They are individuals who basically do not feel very good

about themselves. Hitler was an extreme antagonist. He felt inferior to

others. (He was short and was rejected from the Vienna Art School.) He

felt inadequate and was determined to compensate by becoming a big shot,

by having power. Many antagonists may even be quite popular and

effective, as was Hitler for awhile. He helped revive the German economy

and helped provide a car, the Volkswagon, for every family. In the

extreme, antagonists are sociopathic.

Q: HOW CAN A SMALL GROUP LEADER DETECT AN ANTAGONIST?

A: Some early warning signs that antagonists send out include:

CRITICISM OF PAST LEADERS: As early as the first group session, the

person may criticize the leader of another group in which he was

involved. The criticism will be unsolicited.

"BUDDY-BUDDY': The person may show a strong, overly aggressive desire to

get close to the leader very early. He may want to take the leader

out for coffee or call him at home often. He may be very helpful and

effusive with praise. Initially he may be the leader's best

supporter. Then something will happen - the leader may not even know

what - and the antagonist will suddenly turn against the leader.

THE 'OTHER-PEOPLE-SAY' SYNDROME: The person may come to the leader and

say, "There are a number of people in our group who have come to me,

and they're a little concerned about this. I just wanted to pass it

on to you, to help you.' But when questioned further, the "others"

will be nameless or the person will say that he can't tell who they

are because of "confidentiality."

PREVIOUS TRACK RECORD FLAG. Another sign to watch for is a history of

being disruptive in other groups or situations or a tendency to jump

from one group to another.

Q: WHAT SHOULD A GROUP LEADER DO ABOUT AN ANTAGONIST?

A: If you recognize an antagonist ahead of time, try not to let him become

involved in your group. That's the first and best thing. Once he gets

in, chances are you're going to have a tussle, no matter what you do.

Once the antagonist becomes part of the group, do not placate him. Speak

directly to him at the time of disruption or criticism and say, "That is

not appropriate. What you are saying is destructive to this group, and I

will not allow that to happen." Be strong. Never allow an antagonist to

gain the upper hand or the ability to intimidate. Exercise the authority

you have as the group leader. Also, don't call him at home and plead

with him to be nicer in the group. That will only give him a position of

authority and power - which is what he wants. If necessary, simply ask

him not to return to the group. He needs counseling and spiritual help,

not your small group.

I need a small group for several reasons. First, I need to hear what others are learning because I learn from other people. We sometimes get the idea that God only speaks to us through the Bible and our own private devotions. But I believe that God gave us each other so that He might communicate through us to one another. A second reason is that I need to see God at work in other people. Without this, my Christianity can easily become very intellectualized, more head-oriented than heart-oriented. I need to be reminded of the changes and beauty God is bringing about in the lives of individuals. One of the best ways for this to happen is to be regularly involved in the lives of others within the context of a small group. Watching God at work in these "up-close" relationships helps me keep the sense of excitement and reality in my Christianity. Finally, my small group is a tremendous source of support. I need to be praying for others and having others pray for me. Small groups help keep me from becoming an island.

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Your Gifts For the Church

Psalms 68:18

Sermon in Ephesians series: Diversity in the Church. Eph 4:7-16

I. The need for diversity.

A. Christians are different.

B. Grace and gifts.

C. By combining our unique gifts, the whole church grows.

II. The giver of gifts is the ascended Jesus. 4:7-10

A. Psalm 68:18: God wins a victory and receives gifts from men.

B. Ascension vs. descending of Christ.

III. Jesus gives different kinds of gifts.

A. Five lists in New Testament list 20 different spiritual gifts.

B. Ephesians 4 emphasizes gifts of leadership in the church. 4:11-13

1) Apostles.

2) Prophets.

3) Evangelists.

4) Pastors and teachers.

C. Are only leaders given gifts?

IV. Purpose for gifts in the church.

A. Twofold: prepare and build up.

B. Prepare God's people for works of service.

C. Building up the church. 4:13

V. A view of the whole church.

A. Christ is the focus, we are the supporting parts.

B. Everyone has a gift.

C. Example from foreign missions.

D. Church growth principles.

VI. What is your gift for our church? [1656]

from Condensed sermon outline (handout) by Rev. David Holwick · Serm91zj.pco via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database leadership

Worst Boss, Best Boss

Luke 22:24

"Worst boss" contest:

One of the best-selling business books last year was "Best Boss, Worst Boss" by management techniques expert Jim Miller. The book grew out of a contest he began in 1992 to find the worst boss in America. The most recent winner is from the East coast.

He is an office manager who schedules fake business trips so he can spend time with another woman. He forcibly kisses secretaries on the lips. He wears the same clothes all week, coughs in employees' faces, passes gas and acts as though this is normal behavior.

What is more, he rigs company raffles and keeps the merchandise for himself. He rubs against employees whenever possible. To determine which sandwich is his in the fast food order, he takes a bite out of each one.

Having a rotten boss did pay off for the anonymous underling: He got a one-week trip for two to Hawaii.

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NEW YORK - They don't hide under rocks, but they do lurk in office closets. Their eating habits are bad, their social skills worse. If it wasn't for hard feelings, they'd have no feelings at all.

They are America's most evil bosses, cited by their employees in a national hunt for the country's worst executive. Author Jim Miller, chronicler of stomach-turning supervisors for the past four years, is again searching coast to coast for Beelzebub in a business suit.

Early returns show there are no shortage of potential ... "winners?"

There's "Horrible Hilda," who requires an avalanche of adjectives for her ineptitude - a "contemptible, vindictive, malicious, incompetent, nasty slob," writes one of her employees.

Want specifics? Hilda "made an employee, who recently had open heart surgery, carry a 20-pound bag of cat litter up steep stairs." And her table manners? "You can always tell what she had for lunch," the worker continues, "because she's wearing it down the front of her blouse."

There's the cost-conscious restaurant manager who recycles "used jellies, butter patties, empty syrup jugs, old dinner rolls and other food items out of the garbage," one of his workers writes.

Bonus: "He conveniently 'forgets' to give the waiters their tips." Mr. Paranoid, a bad boss "who managed by irritation," routinely searched employees' desk and trash cans, monitored their phone calls and hid in a supply closet to overhear workers' conversations, another writer moans. And there's this front-runner: The boss who lost it on the morning a worker was hospitalized for major surgery. A scheduled replacement failed to show up for work; the boss called the hospital to berate the ailing employee. "The boss demanded that he get his clothes on and come back to the office immediately," this entry explains. "The boss was screaming and throwing a fit over the phone, until the hospital personnel hung up on him."

As part of his annual hunt, Miller tries to determine the nation's best boss, too - a pursuit nowhere near as entertaining as the hunt for nasty bosses.

Bad bosses seem to dominate, too - last year's negative entries outpaced the positives by a 7-1 margin.

The 1995 winner was a Midwestern sales manager who allegedly ordered employees to get back to work when they tried to help a co-worker who had suffered a heart attack. Also, fearing a drop in productivity, he waited until the end of a workday to announce that a missing employee had been found dead.

Having a rotten boss can pay off: The winner collects an expenses-paid, one-week trip for two to Kauai, Hawaii.

And just to show life is unfair: So does the employee with the best boss.

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Associated Press

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To Get Out Front, Get Behind

1 Peter 5:1

Sermon in 1 Peter series. Leadership. 1 Peter 5:1-4

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TO GET OUT FRONT, GET BEHIND

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I. What kind of boss do you have?

A. Annual "Worst boss" contest.

B. What does it take to be a boss?

II. God's view of leadership.

A. Not limited to church.

B. Image - shepherd.

C. Experience. (elders)

III. Marks of a Christian leader. 5:2

A. Attitude.

B. Motivation.

C. Method.

IV. Reward of a leader.

A. Jesus is ultimate example of a Shepherd.

B. At second coming, unfading crown of glory.

from Condensed sermon outline (handout) by Rev. David Holwick · Serm97ze.pco via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database shepherd

Walking On A Tightrope Requires Taking Risks

The Walendas were the greatest tightrope-walking family of all time. David Scholer used to watch them practice as a small child. They performed a unique feat of a seven-person formation on the wire. Out of those 7, six were killed in accidents. A grandson is attempting to do it in Florida but insurance is a problem. He cannot get it for his performers, but only for bystanders. Walking on a tightrope requires taking risks.

from Installation Service For Rev. Roy Medley · Dr. David Scholer via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database leadership

Nehemiah's Example

Nehemiah's example:

Genuine concern.

a. He wept. (General Booth tells discouraged leader, "Try tears!")

b. He mourned certain days.

c. He fasted.

d. He prayed.

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from www.yateleybaptist.com:

Nehemiah's Prayer in a Crisis:

a. Appeal to God’s character (1:5)

b. Accept responsibility for sin (1:6-7)

c. Claim God’s promises (1:8-10)

d. Call for success (1:11)

Questions to think about:

1. What sorts of situations might we want to pray this sort of prayer? Are we facing any today? If so, what?

2. Why are we not bolder in our praying, more like Nehemiah?

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from Biblical Evangelist · Dr. Robert Sumner via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database leadershipfasting

Enoch: Who Walked With God

Enoch haunts us with the challenge of walking with God. Others turn to such spiritual giants for their secret. Most make no effort to follow God.

from Biblical Evangelist · Dr. Vance Havner via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database commitmentzeal

How the Presidency Changes Men

Joel 3:10

Lyndon Johnson once observed, "The presidency has made every man who occupied it, no matter how small, bigger than he was - and no matter how big, not big enough for its demands."

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Wayward Pastors

Jude 1:12

Just like the sons of Eli and Samuel, many pastors today are a blight on the church. In Dallas in October 1987 a director of clergy care for a Protestant denomination, Peter Stienke, claimed he has personally counseled 300 pastors in the past seven years; of this number, 60 had disclosed affairs. Most are very successful from a worldly point of view. They are accustomed to using and manipulating people, and take advantage of those who feel unappreciated or are trying to escape problems.

Leading the Charge!

Many years ago there was a huge oil refinery fire. Flames shot hundreds of feet into the air. The sky was thick with grimy black smoke. The heat was intense - so intense that firefighters had to park their trucks a block away and wait for the heat to die down before they could begin to fight the fire. However, it was about to rage out of control.

Then, all of a sudden, from several blocks away came a fire truck racing down the street. With its brakes screeching, it hit the curb in front of the fire. The firefighters jumped out and began to battle the blaze. All the firefighters who were parked a block away saw this, and they jumped into their trucks, drove down the block and began to fight the fire, too. As a result of that cooperative effort, they were just barely able to bring the fire under control.

The people who saw this teamwork thought, "My goodness, the man who drove that lead fire truck - what an act of bravery!" They decided to give him a special award to recognize him for his bravery in leading the charge.

At the ceremony the mayor said, "Captain, we want to honor you for a fantastic act of bravery. You prevented the loss of property, perhaps even the loss of life. If there is one special thing you could have - just about anything - what would it be?"

Without hesitation, the captain replied, "Your Honor, a new set of brakes would be dandy!"

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Copyright 1996 by Jack Canfield, Mark Victor Hansen, Maida Rogerson, Martin Rutte & Tim Clauss

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from Internet: Chicken Soup Of The Day · Mike Wickett, From Chicken Soup For the Soul At Work via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database dangerleadership

Women In the Church: A Conservative Reply

Acts 21

A critique of evangelical feminism's view of equality of sexes in the Bible. He is conservative and argues women must be under the headship of men, as 1 Cor 11 teaches. Veils, however, are not necessary. Women do have authority (given to them by God in Gen 1) but they do not have authority over males in the church. They share equality when it comes to salvation.

Restoration: Fellowship Or Leadership?

1 Timothy 3

Christian pastors who fall should be restored to fellowship upon repentance, but not allowed to be leaders again. Gordon MacDonald's case is brought up, though he is not named. The traits in 1 Timothy 3 are expounded, then other Scriptures. In 1 Timothy 5:9, widows are required to have been faithful to their spouses; how much more pastors.

That's How

Luke 22:24

Details Rev. Jack Hyles' attitude toward loyalty. He expects absolute loyalty, once told an associate to stand, then sit, then stand. This was in response to a question of how he obtained absolute loyalty; he then answered, "That's how." [Full text in 7/8/90 sermon]

Other former workers have compared his style to Jim Jones.

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from Biblical Evangelist, The Saddest Story We Ever Published · Dr. Robert Sumner via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database authorityleadership

"Full Service Christians In A Self Serve World"

Mark 10:35

The story of James and John asking for positions of leadership in the Kingdom is put in a modern framework, making them sound like junior executives. Shows how timeless the struggles for position are.

from Discipleship Journal · Wesley R. Willis via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database goalsambition

Heresy On the Airwaves

John 10:34

TV evangelists are accused of sloppy theology, especially on health & wealth, Trinity, and salvation. Kenneth Hagin maintains even Jesus needed to be born again. Swaggart gives God a spirit body and neglects the unified "substance" of the Godhead. Michael Horton is editor of book and wants Evangelicals to clean up their theology.

Who's In Charge Here?

Acts 18:27

Sermon for Rev. Wetzel's installation as Pastor Emeritus.

1. How churches fall apart.

a. Quarrels.

b. Cliques.

1> Corinthians were spiritual babies.

2. How churches can stay together and grow.

a. Role of leaders.

b. Role of God.

c. Role of church.

3. Jesus as Lord.

from Condensed sermon outline (handout) by Rev. David Holwick · Serm90u.doc (but In Pc-outline Format) via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database obediencechurch

The Road To Restoration

How the church should treat fallen leaders.

1. God is holy and loving.

2. Christians are sinners.

3. God wants to restore the fallen.

David learned from Bathsheba.

Peter gained from his denial of Christ.

4. Genuine forgiveness may not imply restoration to leadership.

Leaders have higher standards.

Procedure for restoration: [used 4/30/95]

a. Remorse for sin (not consequences).

b. True confession.

c. Accountability.

d. Fruits that befits repentance.

e. Restitution.

f. Retreat.

g. Genuine call from God.

Sometimes It Just Takes An Extra Mule

Luke 12:13

A West Virginian farmer died and left his 17 mules to three sons. (He was wealthy by West Virginian standards.) His will stated that his oldest son would get half of the mules, the middle one would get one-third and the youngest would get one-ninth.

They wracked their brains to figure out how to do it, but couldn't.

Soon after this their [area] minister came to help them in their grief and heard their predicament. He added his mule to the lot, making 18 mules.

The oldest got half, or 9.

The middle got one-third, or 6.

And the youngest got one-ninth, or 2.

Then the minister got on the remaining mule and rode home.

Leadership is about creatively adding an extra mule. Everyone is satisfied with the results and the leader still has something to ride home on.

from 1990 New Jersey Convention · Marcus Pomeroy (Old Story) via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database helpsharingreconciliation

Introduction To 2 Corinthians

”Because leadership is necessarily an exercise of authority, it easily shifts into an exercise of power. But the minute it does that, it begins to inflict damage on both the leader and the led. Paul, studying Jesus, had learned a kind of leadership in which he managed to stay out of the way so that the others could deal with God without having to go through him. “All who are called to exercise leadership in whatever capacity – parent or coach, pastor or president, teacher or manager – can be grateful to Paul for this letter and to the Corinthians for provoking it.”

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What Is A Dysfunctional Church?

Galatians 5:22

What is a dysfunctional church?

This term has become used in recent years to describe a type of church which has abnormal, dysfunctional characteristics. There are scores of people who have been deeply wounded by an experience with such a church. It seems that most communities have a congregation that fits in this category. They identify themselves as Christians and may have good intentions of practicing scriptural ideals, but they seem to continually strive with combined elements of unbalanced or unorthodox doctrines, controversial government, disciplinary problems, irresponsible leadership — which result in explosive turmoil, division, wounded and confused sheep, and a derogatory reputation in their community.

A dysfunctional church has sometimes been mislabeled as a cult. The difference is, a cult is on a course of heresy based on misguided beliefs. However a dysfunctional church may theoretically be based on the right course of Christianity, but for the main part does not function the way it should. Keep in mind, every church has its share of problems — that does not make it dysfunctional. But it's when such problems dominate the church and actually cause its influence to become ineffectual or negative for the cause of Christ.

I regret to say that over my years of ministry I have come across situations in churches that seem almost unbelievable. One such church was widely reputed in the area for its continual controversy. The congregation was constantly fighting and contending with each other — the turmoil had produced several splits over a period of years. Every few months they would go on a tangent of promoting some new revelation or doctrine, which would often be refuted later as heresy. There were repeated occurrences of immorality among the leadership and congregation. Divorce within the church occurred 10 times more frequent than the rate of marriages. There were numerous financial scandals, alleged embezzlements by the pastors, and scores of church creditors left unpaid. Rumors, accusations, and slander were commonplace, causing injury and devastation to scores of individuals. The mere mention of the church name to local merchants or residents would invoke ridicule. Some might have presumed this to be some kind of weird cult, but it was not. In reality this was a dysfunctional Christian church.

A dysfunctional church will usually manifest several or all of the following symptoms:

1. Unethical or immoral behavior tolerated in either leadership or laity.

2. An absence of teaching or correction in matters of sin.

3. Dictatorial or unethical church leadership or government.

4. A failure to recognize practical spiritual priorities.

5. Too much emphasis on esoteric thought or theory rather than

practical ideals and application.

6. Unscriptural or unbalanced preaching and teaching.

7. Too much emphasis upon the superficial or sensational.

8. Irresponsibility in business matters or in public relations.

9. Isolation from the rest of the body of Christ.

10. A sense of confusion and a lack of purpose by the congregation.

11. An absence of spiritual fruit (Gal. 5:22-23).

A dysfunctional church must be brought in order, otherwise it will cause irreparable harm for the cause of Christ in a community. If such a church has denominational affiliation, experienced ministers and officials may be sent to try to restore the fellowship back into scriptural order and stability. However, if the chaos is severe enough and resists repeated remedies, they might find it necessary to actually the close the church, temporarily or permanently.

In many cases, a church of this kind can be put in order by:

(1) MATURE, GODLY, STABLE LEADERSHIP. I regret to say that the problem of a dysfunctional church usually begins with a problem in the leadership. A congregation cannot rise above the level of their leaders.

(2) SCRIPTURAL, BALANCED PREACHING AND TEACHING. The healthy church must get back on track with scriptural order. They need to hear the whole counsel of God's Word, not merely pet doctrines or narrow minded opinions (2 Tim. 2:15).

(3) A PATIENT APPLICATION OF LOVE AND CORRECTION. Just like parents, spiritual leaders must show the encouragement of love toward their flock. And they must be willing to confront sin with correction or discipline when necessary. (Eph. 4:15, 2 Tim. 3:16, 2 Tim. 4:2).

(4) BREAKING OF SPIRITUAL STRONGHOLDS. A stronghold can usually be identified when the same troubling characteristics continue year after year, although the faces within the congregation change. This problem has to be dealt with through intensive prayer and spiritual authority (2 Cor. 10:4-5).

(5) CONGREGATIONAL REPENTANCE AND REVIVAL. Some of the problems in a church cannot really be resolved until the people are willing to humble themselves before God and seek repentance and revival: “If My people who are called by My name will humble themselves, and pray and seek My face, and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin and heal their land” (2 Chron. 7:14).

If you find yourself in a dysfunctional church, it is important for you to recognize it for what it is. If you can remain without impairing the spiritual progress of you or your family, do so that you can pray for and support the needed remedies listed above. But if your spiritual well-being begins to suffer, it may be best to cut your ties and move on to a healthy fellowship.

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From the book, “What People Ask About The Church,” by Dale A. Robbins

This article is copyrighted © by Dale A. Robbins, 1995, and is a publication of Victorious Publications, Grass Valley, CA 95949. Unless otherwise stated, all scripture references were taken from The New King James Bible, © Thomas Nelson Inc., 1982.

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