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Physical death marks the transition from earthly life to eternal existence, freeing the soul to be with Christ and bringing rest akin to peaceful sleep (John 11:11-14; 1 Thessalonians 4:13-14). Christian preaching often uses imagery of crossing rivers, sleeping in Jesus' arms, and shadows to depict death as a passage rather than an end, highlighting hope, resurrection, and the believer’s victory over fear through faith.

God's Sky Boxes

Luke 16:19

The 12-story, earthquake-proof, $190 million Roman Catholic Cathedral of Our Lady of the Angels was dedicated in Los Angeles in September, celebrated not only for the obligatory gift shop ($24.99 for house chardonnay), the ATM, and the $12-a-day parking garage, but for the private crypts underneath at prices of $50,000 to $3 million. "(That's) kind of like selling sky boxes," said a Notre Dame theology professor; a Loyola Marymount University professor defended the steep price, saying, "I don't think that the poor are terribly worried about where they are going to be buried."

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Why I Believe In Personal Commitment

1 Corinthians 15:12

Where Will Death Lead?

Read: 1 Corinthians 15:12-26

The sting of death is sin ... But thanks be to God, who gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ. --1 Cor. 15:56-57

In AD 410, the Germanic barbarians known as the Goths sacked the city of Rome. During the invasion, many Christians were put to death in hideous and cruel ways.

In the midst of this tragedy, the great theologian Augustine (354-430) wrote his classic The City of God. His reflections, now more than 15 centuries old, are still fresh today.

Augustine wrote, "The end of life puts the longest life on a par with the shortest.... Death becomes evil only by the retribution which follows it. They, then, who are destined to die need not inquire about what death they are to die, but into what place death will usher them."

For those who trust Jesus Christ, death is not a sheriff dragging us off to court but a servant ushering us into the presence of a loving Lord. The apostle Paul understood this because he looked at life and death from Christ's perspective. Since he knew where death would take him, he could boldly declare, "Death is swallowed up in victory" (1 Cor. 15:54).

Every Christian should show that same courage. Because of Jesus Christ's death and resurrection, we who place our faith in Him can look at death not as a period but a comma that precedes a glorious eternity with our Lord. --HWR

Life's labor done, as sinks the clay,

Light from its load the spirit flies,

While heaven and earth combine to say,

"How blest the righteous when he dies!" --Barbauld

Death is not a period-- it's only a comma.

from Our Daily Bread, October 26, 1995 via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database funeral

Rest--in Peace Rest--in Peace

Psalms 4

Rest--In Peace

Read: Psalm 4

I will both lie down in peace, and sleep; for You alone, O Lord, make me dwell in safety. --Psalm 4:8

Some time ago I read about a youngster who was rattling off the words of this bedtime prayer:

Now I lay me down to sleep,

I pray Thee, Lord, my soul to keep;

If I should die before I wake,

I pray Thee, Lord, my soul to take.

But when he came to the line "If I should die before I wake," he got mixed up and said, "If I should wake before I die."

This started me thinking. Many people lay their heads on their pillows at night without being sure of the destiny of their souls should they die before they wake. Others have so much anxiety about the next day that they would prefer to die before they wake. Family problems, emotional struggles, or employment difficulties make them wish they would be taken out of this life before the morning sun forces them to face another agonizing day.

This doesn't need to be our experience. By placing our trust in the Lord, we can close our eyes at night with the assurance that the problems of tomorrow will not be greater than the God of eternity. Yes, we can fall asleep with the confidence that we are in God's care. We can have the certainty that whether we die before we wake, or wake before we die, all is well. --RWD

Tomorrow's plans I do not know,

I only know this minute;

But He will say, "This is the way,

Don't be afraid, walk in it." --Anon.

When you put your cares in God's hands, He puts his peace in your heart.

from Our Daily Bread,february 1, 1996 via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database death

Tombstone Irony

John 5:24

The hour is coming in which all who are in the graves will hear His voice. --John 5:28

Most people who don't believe in God deny the reality of life after death. They say the grave ends all, and they feel no need to plan for eternity.

Some time ago an unbeliever wanted to make this point, so he had these words inscribed on his tombstone:

All Dressed Up

And No Place To Go

How ironic! It's true that we put people in their best clothes for the coffin, or we may even purchase new ones. But the Lord Jesus made it undeniably clear that at death we do have "someplace to go" (Jn. 5:25-29).

When believers die, their bodies are put in the ground but their souls go to be with the Lord (2 Cor. 5:8). When Christ returns, their bodies will be resurrected and reunited with their souls, and they will "always be with the Lord" in heaven (1 Th. 4:17).

Unbelievers will also be resurrected one day, but it will be to stand before Christ in judgment. Because their names are not found in the Book of Life, they will be sent to what the Bible calls the "lake of fire" (Rev. 20:11-15). There they will endure "everlasting punishment" (Mt. 25:46).

All dressed up and no place to go? Wrong! We are destined for heaven or hell, depending on whether or not we believe in Christ as our Savior. --DCE

O God, You'd have us ponder this,

One truth You'd have us see:

It's in this life we chart our course

For all eternity. --DJD

Death is not a dead end but a fork in the road.

from Our Daily Bread, June 18, 1996 via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database death

How Will You Be Remembered?

Psalms 90:1

How Will You Be Remembered?

Read: Psalm 90:1-12

Teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom. --Psalm 90:12

When we are young, we tend to live as if we think we'll never die. Yet the psalmist said that if we want to gain a heart of wisdom, we need to start numbering our days, whatever our age (90:12). The best way to number them is to make sure that our life is patterned each day after the example of Jesus. Only then can we anticipate that our life will not have been lived in vain.

James Dobson, a well-known authority on the family, tells a story about his father, who was greatly loved by all who knew him. James Dobson Sr. spent much time in intercessory prayer, considering prayer for others his most important business on earth. In fact, he specified in his will that only two words were to be put on his tombstone following his name: HE PRAYED.

Of the thousands of verbs in our language, by which one are you likely to be remembered? He served. She cared. He supported. She praised. What if dishonoring verbs are linked with you because of thoughtlessness or selfishness? He cheated. She complained. It's not too late to repent and trade those descriptions in for Christ-honoring ones. Then trust God to build them into your character. That's the best way to number your days! --JEY

Show me the way, Lord, let my light shine

As an example of good to mankind;

Help them to see the patterns of Thee,

Shining in beauty, lived out in me. --Neuer

Living for the Lord leaves a lasting legacy.

from Our Daily Bread, November 15, 1996 via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database funeraldeath

Is Our Resurrection Impossible?

Will our bodies one day be raised from the dead or not? How can we know? Impossible, says one group. Before you make such a flat declaration, look at that unattractive insect upon the blade of grass.

In just a few short days you will find that insect floating in the air, a beautiful gossamer creature with wings that rival the rainbow.

Look at the dry root in the dark, cold winter. When spring comes, out of that root will blossom forth a profusion of beautiful blossoms.

Look at the egg, an inert and earthbound shape. Yet in it lies the eagle that can wing and soar above all other birds, or the tiny hummingbird that remains poised in mid-air before some flower, defying the pull of gravity. The doctrine of the resurrection is not inconsistent with the analogies of nature or the experience of our common history.

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A Lesson from A Silver Cup

A servant who had received a silver cup from his master accidentally dropped it into a vat of acid. The servant was dumbfounded when he saw the whole cup disappear. He immediately went to a fellow servant and told him that the silver cup was lost forever. "It can't be recovered.

You can't even see it." The master, an educated man, came on the scene. He infused salt water into the acid, which precipitated the silver from the solution. Then by melting it and hammering the metal he restored the cup to its original shape. A skeptic who saw this was so struck by its analogy to the resurrection, which he had rejected as impossible, that he now believed it most credible.

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Far More Wonderful Circumstances

Luke 10:20

A young woman who lay dying sought to console her father who was overcome with grief. "Dad," she said, "don't be so broken up. If I had received an offer of marriage from someone who was all you could desire for me, and whose station in life was far superior to mine, but who wanted to take me to live in a remote part of the world, don't you think you could have borne the separation, knowing all the advantages it would bring to me? But I am now being promoted to a situation incomparably beyond anything that could have happened to me in this world. Then why this reluctance to let me go? Our next meeting will be in far more wonderful circumstances, joyful, and everlasting."

from Fredericksburg Bible Illustrator Supplements via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database heavengrief

Science Shall Give the Answer

Said Dr. Joseph A. Parker: "Some have found fault with me. They say I am old-fashioned and out of date; I am always quoting the Bible; why not turn to science this morning?

"There is a poor widow here who has lost her only son. She wants to know if she will see him again. Science shall give the answer, and I will put the Book away." So he took the Book and put it on the seat behind. "Will this woman see her son again? Where is he? Does death end all? What has science to say?" Here a long pause. "We are waiting for an answer, the woman is anxious." Another long pause. "The woman's heart is breaking. Science must speak. Nothing to say? Then we must take the Book," and here he reverently replaced it, and with great deliberation opened it and read: "I shall go to him, but he shall not return to me ...The dead shall arise ...for this corruptible must put on incorruption, and this mortal must put on immortality. O death, where is thy sting? ...I saw the dead, small and great, stand before God."

Then, closing the Book, and patting it affectionately, he said, "We will stick to the Book!"

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Beyond the Grave

Hebrews 11:1

Beyond The Grave

Read: Hebrews 11:1-4

He being dead still speaks. --Hebrews 11:4

One of the Bible's prime examples of enduring influence seems an unlikely choice. Abel was murdered by his brother before accomplishing anything we would call significant (Gen. 4:2-8). Yet his "picture" hangs in the Bible's hall of faith with this caption: "By faith Abel offered to God a more excellent sacrifice than Cain, through which he obtained witness that he was righteous, God testifying of his gifts; and through it he being dead still speaks" (Heb. 11:4).

Phillips Brooks, a 19th-century minister, said: "This is the difference between men whose power stops with their death, and those whose power really opens into its true richness when they die. The first sort of men have mechanical power; and the second have spiritual power. And the final test and witness of spiritual force is the ability to cast the bodily life away and yet continue to give help and courage to those who see us no longer; to be like Christ, the helper of men's souls, even from beyond the grave."

How can we speak from beyond the grave? Through faith and obedience to God in the simple matters of daily life. What seems insignificant and mundane today may be the megaphone through which God amplifies your voice long after your journey on earth is done. --DCM

Lord, take my life and make it wholly Thine;

Fill my poor heart with Thy great love divine.

Take all my will, my passion, self, and pride;

I now surrender, Lord--in me abide. --Orr

Obedience to God is the key to lasting influence.

from Our Daily Bread, May 19, 1998 via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database death

Poem - High Flight

The poem "High Flight" was written by John Gillespie Magee Jr., who was killed in the Battle of Britain at age 19. It was read by President Ronald Reagan at the memorial service for the Challenger astronaunts.

Oh, I have slipped the surly bonds of Earth

And danced the skies on laughter-silvered wings

Sunward I've climbed, and joined the tumbling mirth

Of sun-split clouds -- and done a hundred things

You have not dreamed of -- wheeled and soared and swung

High in the sunlit silence. Hov'ring there,

I've chased the shouting wind along, and flung

My eager craft through footless halls of air.

Up, up the long delirious, burning blue

I've topped the windswept heights with easy grace

Where never lark, or even eagle flew

And, while with silent, lifting mind I've trod

The high untrespassed sanctity of space,

Put out my hand, and touched the face of God.

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Cremation Gaining Respect Among Christians

Job 30:19

When Carolyn Leverett's husband died unexpectedly three years ago, she reluctantly complied with his request to be cremated.

Now the Baptist laywoman is making advance plans for when she dies, and she knows one thing for sure: She wants to be cremated and have her remains co-mingled with those of her late husband.

What's happened over the last three years to sway her opinion so strongly? She became the owner of a funeral home and crematory that performs about 200 cremations a year.

Both her personal attitude and her business stand at the head of a growing trend in American society. Cremation is a red-hot business.

In many regions, cultural and religious concerns about cremation are disintegrating.

More than one-fourth of all Americans who died last year were cremated, according to estimates from the Cremation Association of North America. That's up from less than 10 percent in 1980.

By the Cremation Association's estimates, the trend toward embracing cremation will continue to grow in the years ahead, with one third of all the deceased being cremated by 2010. In some regions, such as the Mountain West and New England, the percentage of bodies being cremated could surpass 65 percent by 2010.

A 1999 study by Wirthlin Worldwide confirmed this trend by polling a random sample of American adults. The Wirthlin poll, conducted for the Funeral and Memorial Information Council, found those reporting they intend to choose cremation for themselves or their loved ones increasing to 46 percent, up from 32 percent in 1990.

Experts in the funeral business sometimes offer this comparison to illustrate the growing acceptance of cremation: When President John F. Kennedy was assassinated in 1963, the cremation rate in the United States was about 3 percent. The Roman Catholic Church, of which Kennedy was a member, had only two years earlier dropped its ban on cremation, and Catholic priests in the U.S. generally did not allow cremated remains to be brought into church buildings for a funeral mass.

Fast-forward to 1999, when John F. Kennedy Jr. was killed in a plane crash. He was cremated and had full Catholic services.

Because of differences in church polity, Baptists never had an official ban on cremation, although the practice has been rare. Traditional casket burials remain by far the most common practice among Baptists, but cremation is a growing trend in urban areas of the state, according to a number of pastors who conduct funerals.

Bob Beck is a longtime Texas pastor, now serving as interim pastor of First Baptist Church of Bedford. He has seen the trend toward embracing cremation not only among the churches he has served but among his own family as well.

In addition to those actually choosing cremation, "there has been a very marked increase in the number of people who are considering that as a possibility," he said.

He told the story of a series of tragedies that killed all three members of a family in one church he served -- the mother, father and a son. All three family members were cremated over that period of time. Ultimately, all three urns were placed together in a mausoleum.

Such a story simply could not have been told 10 or 15 years ago, Beck said. It wouldn't have happened.

At Park Cities Baptist Church in Dallas, cremations also are on the rise, said Leroy Summers, minister to older adults. Because he's served the church 18 years and knows many of the older members, he spends a great deal of time helping people make funeral arrangements.

"In those 18 years, I've seen a lot more people opting for cremation," Summers said.

The question often arises when he's working with church members in funeral pre-planning, and it's not because he raises the topic, he said.

"Many people are opting for cremation. It's less expensive, and burial costs have gotten so high. My own counsel with them is it's something they have to feel right about."

Hawaii, Washington, Nevada, Oregon and Montana lead the nation in percentage of cremations, each with more than 55 percent of all deaths handled by cremation last year.

In other parts of the country, including parts of the Bible Belt, the practice remains less common. Cremations account for less than 10 percent of all deaths in Alabama, Mississippi, West Virginia, Tennessee and Kentucky.

Guy Thompson, owner of Thompson's Harveson & Cole Funeral Home in Fort Worth, Texas, has been in the business 63 years. During that time, he's seen cremations grow from less than 1 percent of his business to about 20 percent.

He does not advocate cremation and said he would not choose it for one of his own family members unless the body had been subjected to severe trauma before death or at the time of death.

Traditional burial offers more dignity and respect for the body, Thompson said. "The body to me is very sacred because it was the vessel that housed the soul of a person."

People today choose cremation over burial for a number of reasons, and Thompson doesn't discount or discredit those choices. However, he sees the trend toward cremation fitting in with other societal trends, including lack of interest in family burial plots.

The reasons for embracing cremation are varied, experts report. And there doesn't seem to be a common profile of who favors cremation and who doesn't.

"It isn't just people who cannot afford a regular burial, though that is a part of the picture," Beck said. "It's people who choose not to have a burial plot. For them, it's a matter of taking up space. It's people who don't want to have a grave to remind the family of their loss. It's environmental sometimes. ... There's also some simplicity in it."

"It's just a style," he concluded. "It's a rapidly increasing style of dealing with the body of a deceased person."

All these factors were considerations for Leverett's husband in his request to be cremated.

He liked the simplicity of it, the economy of it, the logic of it, said Leverett, owner of Heritage Funeral Home and Crematory near Baylor Hospital in Dallas.

For his funeral, Leverett used what's known in the trade as a "rental casket," a beautiful hardwood casket that would cost thousands of dollars to purchase outright. Though not obvious to family and friends viewing the casket, the box has something like a tailgate on one end. The body actually rests in a cardboard insert that slides into and out of the wooden casket.

Though not all bodies to be cremated are embalmed, Leverett chose to have her husband embalmed because she wanted a more traditional visitation time and memorial service. After that, the casket liner holding the body was easily removed and taken to the crematorium.

She keeps a portion of his ashes at home. That's the part she wants to have co-mingled with her own ashes after her death.

But she took part of her husband's remains to Branson, Mo., one of their favorite vacation spots.

"We always hated to see the time coming when we had to go home," she explained. "So I spread his ashes there, and I said, 'Now you can stay here; you don't have to go home.'"

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RELIGIOUS CONCERNS ABOUT CREMATION FADING

As cremation becomes more popular in the United States, fewer people are asking serious theological questions about the practice. But such indifference has not always been the norm.

"I don't think there's any doubt but that Christian tradition started off in favor of burial and against cremation on the grounds that resurrection would be easier for God to pull off," said Steven Davis, professor of philosophy and religious studies at Claremont McKenna College in Southern California.

Davis, a graduate of Princeton University's Divinity School, is one of few American theologians to have addressed this issue. He is author of a book titled "Risen Indeed: Making Sense of the Resurrection."

Although the Greeks and Romans practiced cremation prior to the time of Christ, early Christians generally viewed it as a pagan practice, according to Davis and other historians.

One of the major arguments against cremation by Christians is anticipation of a bodily resurrection at the Second Coming of Jesus. The Apostle Paul, for example, talks about a "resurrection body" in 1 Corinthians 15.

"The body that is sown is perishable, it is raised imperishable," Paul wrote. "It is sown a natural body, it is raised a spiritual body."

Most Baptists and most evangelical scholars agree that the Bible teaches a bodily resurrection from the dead. "If there is no resurrection of the dead, then not even Christ has been raised," Paul wrote.

From the first century until now, no one this side of heaven has had knowledge of how that bodily resurrection will take place. But early Christians seemed to think the physical body ought to be preserved as much as possible through burial, Davis noted.

"That argument gets a little dicey when you imagine that some bodies of Christians who are going to be resurrected will have been in the ground 2,000 years or more," he noted. "It doesn't seem like it's any more difficult for God to resurrect someone whose body has been in the ground 2,000 years than someone who was cremated," especially if you believe God is all-powerful.

The old assumption was "that resurrection can only happen if God can look about and find the atoms or molecules of which my body consisted and put them back together," Davis said.

Scripture doesn't necessarily teach that, but the Bible is fairly vague on the details of burial and resurrection, he noted.

Many Christians today have a strong belief in bodily resurrection without believing the physical body must be preserved to make that happen.

"A lot of contemporary people think God can resurrect Steve Davis even if God doesn't find a single atom of what once was me," Davis said. "God can take whatever is available and configure those atoms in a Steve Davis way, and it will be me.

"The bottom line is, I don't think it makes any theological difference at all whether a person is buried or cremated," said Davis, who added that he is not an advocate for cremation.

When his wife of 38 years died last year, he had her buried in a traditional way.

His choice of a traditional burial "had nothing to do with belief in the resurrection," he said, even though he believes in resurrection.

The choice of cremation over burial is simply a personal preference, according to Guy Thompson, president of Thompson's Harveson & Cole Funeral Home in Fort Worth.

Although he's not an advocate of cremation either, about 20 percent of his business is in cremations. A devout Catholic, Thompson has worked closely with Baptist ministers for 63 years.

"Christian people would not participate in cremation for a long time because it was thought to be unkind to the body," he explained. The practice was associated more often worldwide with non-Christian or pagan peoples, he added.

Those concerns are seldom expressed today, said Bob Beck, a longtime Baptist pastor who has worked with Thompson on many funerals.

"I honestly have not run into a rabid opinion about theological concerns on anyone's part in recent years," Beck said. "If there is anything, it's just a quiet question: I don't know whether I would want to do that or not. I haven't heard anybody clearly enunciate a theological objection."

Likewise, Leroy Summers, minister to older adults at Park Cities Baptist Church in Dallas, confirms he hears no theological objections to cremation.

Arguments that cremation might somehow diminish God's ability to resurrect a body are inconsistent, Summers and Beck agreed.

"Most of us cannot really imagine the greatness of God," Summers said. "What about people who have been burned in a plane crash, or during the war or have been sunk in ships? Somehow God's going to care for those. The Scripture says 'ashes to ashes ....'"

"It is utterly inconsistent that people would think that any decayed body -- however that might have decayed, naturally, in the ground or in the ocean or in a fire -- could not be resurrected by our omnipotent God," Beck added.

Carolyn Leverett was apprehensive about having her husband cremated after his death. But the Cedar Hill Baptist laywoman, who owns a funeral home in Dallas, heeded the wishes of her late husband anyway.

"He explained it to me in terms of general science, that matter can be neither made nor destroyed but you can change its form."

A dead body will deteriorate regardless of what is done to it, Leverett continued. To her husband, "dust to dust and ashes to ashes in a short time made more sense."

Cremation may be faster and appear more expedient, but family members should carefully consider their choices, advised Thompson. He believes there's psychological value in knowing exactly where a loved one is buried and being able to visit that place.

In cases where his clients choose cremation, he works to provide the most meaningful memorial service possible. He encourages families choosing cremation to have a traditional memorial service before the cremation if possible.

"I still feel like people are better off if they can say goodbye to the body," he said. "This provides confirmation that they indeed are dead."

If the body has been cremated before the service, he always places an empty chair and a small table in the place where the casket normally would be, symbolizing the person who is no longer present.

Thompson also encourages family members to have something at the service that symbolizes who the deceased was and what they will be remembered for. One family brought a wheelbarrow filled with garden tools. Another brought a bugle. Others bring photographs.

"Symbols can be very meaningful," he said.

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Worker Dead At Desk For 5 Days

Bosses of a publishing firm are trying to work out why no one noticed that one of their employees had been sitting dead at his desk for FIVE DAYS before anyone asked if he was feeling okay. George Turklebaum, 51, who had been employed as a proofreader at a New York firm for 30 years, had a heart attack in the open-plan office he shared with 23 other workers. He quietly passed away on Monday, but nobody noticed until Saturday morning when an office cleaner asked why he was still working during the weekend.

His boss Elliot Wachiaski said: "George was always the first guy in each morning & the last to leave at night, so no one found it unusual that he was in the same position all that time and didn't say anything. "He was always absorbed in his work and kept much to himself."

A postmortem examination revealed that he had been dead for 5 days after suffering a heart attack. Ironically, George was proofreading manuscripts of medical textbooks when he died. You may want to give your co-workers a nudge occasionally.

And the moral of the story: Don't work too hard. Nobody notices anyway.

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from Birmingham Sunday Mercury · Submitted by Sgt. Ross Corbett via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database death

A Short History of Memorial Day

Philippians 3:10

Though now it is often merely seen as "the first day of the summer vacation season," Memorial Day has its roots in the time of national mourning following the American Civil War. First known as Decoration Day, it was instituted to honor the war dead and to renew a pledge to an undivided republic.

Memorial Day has come to be a time when Americans honor their dead; military and civilian, long ago or recently passed. As military installations decorate graves and conduct special services, many of us will attend ceremonies, visit cemeteries and pass on the stories that keep alive the memories of those we have lost.

"... from these honored dead, we take increased devotion to that cause for which they here gave the last full measure of devotion -- that we here highly resolve these dead shall not have died in vain..." Abraham Lincoln

"I want to know Christ and the power of his resurrection and the fellowship of sharing in his sufferings, becoming like him in his death, and so, somehow, to attain to the resurrection from the dead." Philippians 3:10-11

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Poem: Invictus

Job 15:24

Poem "Invictus," distributed by Oklahoma bomber Timothy McVeigh at his execution. The title is Latin for 'unconquerable.'

Out of the night that covers me,

Black as the Pit from pole to pole,

I thank whatever gods may be

For my unconquerable soul.

In the fell clutch of circumstance

I have not winced nor cried aloud,

Under the bludgeonings of chance

My head is bloody, but unbowed.

Beyond this place of wrath and tears

Looms but the horror of the shade,

And yet the menace of the years

Finds, and shall find me, unafraid.

It matters not how strait the gate,

How charged with punishments the scroll,

I am the master of my fate:

I am the captain of my soul.

-- William Ernest Henley

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Commentary by Rev. Brett Blair on June 24, 2001:

From what we've learned of McVeigh's attitudes and opinions, those lines probably come as close as any to a philosophy of life for him. Even to the point of ending the appeals process, McVeigh sought to be the master of his fate.

But of course he's not. And in a letter written just a day before his death, he demonstrated how little he understood that. He wrote that if it turned out that there was an afterlife, he would "improvise, adapt and overcome." As if he or any of us will have the ability to affect our environment after arrival in the world to come! Once we are at the judgment seat of God, none of us is any longer master of our fate.

It's worth noting that when the poet Henley wrote those words, he was not thinking of setting his own standard of morality, as McVeigh appears to have done. Far from claiming the right to be judge, jury and executioner of others, Henley was vocalizing his attitude toward the hurts and setbacks of life. At the age of 12, he developed tubercular arthritis, and his left foot was amputated in his teens. He had other health problems later on, and actually wrote "Invictus" while once again in the hospital, too ill to work. He was, as his poem says, "bloody, but unbowed." For Henley, "Invictus" was an expression of courage in the face of life's difficulties, not a license to kill.

[see also HolwickID #3327]

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Sermon "Our Sovereign God" by John G. Reisinger, given at the International Baptist Conference in Toronto in 1988. (http://members.aol.com/robbeeee/sovereign.html)

Around 1900 a young lady that had been greatly enamored with Henley and his humanism got soundly converted to Christ. She wrote a response to Henley's blasphemy, and set forth the correct attitude of a child of God toward the sovereignty of God. Here is her poem:

CONQUERED, By Dorothea Day

Out of the light that dazzles me,

Bright as the sun from pole to pole,

I thank the God I know to be,

For Christ - the Conqueror of my soul.

Since His the sway of circumstance,

I would not wince nor cry aloud.

Under the rule which men call chance,

My head, with joy, is humbly bowed.

Beyond this place of sin and tears,

That Life with Him and His the Aid,

That, spite the menace of the years,

Keeps, and will keep me unafraid.

I have no fear though straight the gate:

He cleared from punishment the scroll.

Christ is the Master of my fate!

Christ is the Captain of my soul!

Poem: Requiem

John 14:2

Requiem

Under the wide and starry sky

Dig the grave and let me lie.

Glad did I live and gladly die,

And I laid me down with a will.

This be the verse you grave for me;

"Here he lies where he longed to be,

Home is the sailor, home from sea,

And the hunter home from the hill."

-- Robert L. Stevenson

Cleaner Polishes Off Patients

This is supposed to be a true story. [Holwick - this is an Urban Legend according to sites that specialize in these stories.]

South African Health - Pelonomi Hospital

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"For several months, our nurses have been baffled to find a dead patient in the same bed every Friday morning" a spokeswoman for the Pelonomi Hospital (Free State, South Africa) told reporters. "There was no apparent cause for any of the deaths, and extensive checks on the air conditioning system, and a search for possible bacterial infection, failed to reveal any clues."

"However, further inquiries have now revealed the cause of these deaths. It seems that every Friday morning a cleaner would enter the ward, remove the plug that powered the patient's life support system, plug her floor polisher into the vacant socket, then go about her business. When she had finished her chores, she would plug the life support machine back in and leave, unaware that the patient was now dead. She could not, after all, hear the screams and eventual death rattle over the whirring of her polisher.

"We are sorry, and have sent a strong letter to the cleaner in question. Further, the Free State Health and Welfare Department is arranging for an electrician to fit an extra socket, so there should be no repetition of this incident. The enquiry is now closed."

By the way, the headline of the newspaper story was, "Cleaner Polishes Off Patients."

from 6th-sense@xc.org (Lloyd Thomson) via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database

Madame Curie's cause of death

John 3:36

Madame Curie is famous for her pioneering research with radioactive materials. She discovered Radium and Polonium. She was the first person to win two Nobel prizes, one for Physics and the other for Chemistry. She died in 1934 from the effects of radiation poisoning. She learned too late what the effect of constant exposure to radiation would do to her.

Most people do not expose themselves to radiation, even on an occasional basis, if they can help it. But everyone without Christ exposes himself to the wrath of God every second of every day.

from Source not recorded via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database

Man, Woman Charged With Lying About Relatives Dying in World Trade Center Attacks

A man who told police his 6-year-old daughter and ex-wife were missing in the World Trade Center attacks was charged with filing a false report after his relatives said he was lying.

Alan Braker, 41, was arrested Thursday at his East Orange, N.J., home and could face additional charges, said Lt. Elias Nikas, a police spokesman.

Braker's story was widely reported, but days later his relatives - including his mother, two of his sisters and his estranged wife - told reporters his story was false.

His motives were not immediately known, Nikas said.

In his accounts to reporters, Braker said he identified his ex-wife's body at a morgue in Jersey City, N.J., and said her name was Madileene Sanchez. But authorities said no morgue was set up in Jersey City to handle trade center victims, and that no record of Sanchez existed.

Braker had also posted fliers of a girl shown in a white cap and gown from grade-school graduation. The fliers said the girl was Braker's 6-year-old daughter, Mya, who was with her mother at the World Trade Center on the 107th floor, where Sanchez worked at Morgan Stanley & Co.

The company has no record of Sanchez working there, and has no offices on that floor.

Meanwhile on Wednesday, police arrested Sara Hekriy, 44, of Toronto, Canada, and charged her with perjury, Nikas said.

Hekriy was arrested at a family assistance center set up in New York. Police said she had falsely a signed notarized document stating her husband was missing in the attacks.

AP-ES-09-27-01 2211EDT

from Associated Press · Donna De La Cruz via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database truthdeath

Man Drives Self To Funeral Home To Die

Job 14:5

MAPLEWOOD, N.J. (Nov. 9) - An 80-year-old man who told his family he would drive himself to the funeral home to die did just that, his wife said on Tuesday.

Funeral home workers found Harold Saber, a pharmacist and war veteran from Verona, New Jersey, dead on Saturday slumped over in his car in the parking lot of the Bernheim-Apter-Goldsticker Suburban Funeral Chapel in Maplewood, New Jersey, a few miles from his home.

"He said many times he would do that," Saber's wife Sylvia Robinson told Reuters. "He never wanted to bother anybody. He felt evidently it was his time and he drove himself there. ... It was a heroic act of love," she said.

The cause of death was not yet known, but Robinson said her husband had been seriously ill for years with diabetes, heart problems and high blood pressure.

Friday night he could not catch his breath and vowed he would not go back into the hospital where he had spent most of the summer and had several toes amputated. Diabetics often suffer from poor circulation, especially in the extremities.

He was gone when his wife awoke on Saturday. A doorman said he saw Saber drive away in the family's 1991 Oldsmobile.

At the funeral home, employees called emergency medical technicians and a medical examiner, who pronounced the man dead just after 11 a.m., Maplewood Police Chief Robert Cimino said.

There was nothing suspicious about the death, which appears to have been from natural causes, Cimino said.

"This was a such a nice, quiet man," Robinson said.

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from Reuters via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database

The Glory Leaves Its Stamp

"It is a peculiar thing," said an embalmer as he stood by a woman's casket, "but it isn't necessary to tell me she was a Christian. I always know as soon as I see a body; the glory leaves its stamp on the face."

from Fredericksburg Bible Illustrator Supplements via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database

Death Is Just Crossing Through

At the funeral of a minister, a little child was seen skipping light-heartedly through the cemetery at dusk. Someone asked, "Aren't you afraid of this place?" "Oh no," she replied, "I only cross through here to get home." Death for the Christian is only a "crossing-through to get home." It is not ultimate and final death.

from Fredericksburg Bible Illustrator Supplements via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database heaven

Nearer, My God, To Thee

1. Nearer, my God, to Thee, nearer to Thee!

E’en though it be a cross that raiseth me,

Still all my song shall be,

Chorus

Nearer, my God, to Thee;

Nearer, my God, to Thee,

Nearer to Thee!

2. Though like the wanderer, the sun gone down,

Darkness be over me, my rest a stone;

Yet in my dreams I’d be

3. There let the way appear, steps unto heaven;

All that thou sendest me, in mercy given;

Angels to beckon me

4. Then, with my waking thoughts bright with thy praise,

Out of my stony griefs Bethel I’ll raise;

So by my woes to be

5. Or if, on joyful wing cleaving the sky,

Sun, moon, and stars forgot, upward I fly,

Still all my song shall be,

from Online Bible · Sarah F. Adams (1805-1848) via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database deathprayersecond coming

If Something Should Happen..

In his book SPIRIT LIFE, D. Stuart Briscoe writes, "When I moved to the United States, I was impressed with the number of total strangers who visited my home to wish me well -- they all sold insurance!

One day my visitor was talking about the necessity to be prudent in the preparation for all possibilities. "If something should happen to you, Mr. Briscoe...' he started to say, but I interrupted with, 'please don't say that. It upsets me."

He was a little startled, but tried again, 'But with all due respects, sir, we must be ready if something should happen to us.' 'Don't say that,' I insisted.

He looked totally bewildered and said, 'I don't understand what I said to upset you.' 'Then I'll tell you,' I replied. 'It upsets me that you talk about (life's) only certainty as if it's a possibility. Death isn't a possibility, it's a certainty. You don't say "If," you say "When," whenever death is the subject.' Then I added, 'By the way, when something happens to you, what will really happen?'"

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from Sermon #15783 by Rev. Adrian Dieleman · D. Stuart Briscoe via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database

From Ashes To Ashes: Is Burial the Only Christian Option?

Job 30:19

SUMMARY: The practice of cremation has become increasingly acceptable since the 1970s. This acceptability, combined with its economic ease and apparent absence of theological conflicts, has enabled cremation to become established in Christian churches as an alternative to burial. The question must still be asked, however, Is it right for Christians to practice cremation? The answer is that no compelling biblical or nonbiblical arguments have been advanced for forsaking burial. Indeed, good biblical, theological, and symbolic importance may be found for burial, and thus there is no significant reason for Christians to forsake burial as a regular practice.

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Should Christians be concerned about the disposal of the dead? Almost everyone eventually will have to make decisions about how to dispose of deceased loved ones. There are a number of indicators that many families are opting for cremation.1 The average U.S. funeral home performs 27 cremations each year. In 1975, 7 percent of the people who died were cremated. In 1985, it was 15 percent. In 1992, it was 18.5 percent. Today the rate in the U.S. is 21 percent and it is projected to be 34 percent by 2010. What was once unpopular, even distasteful, is now a quick, inexpensive way to dispose of the dead.

In this article we seek to answer the question of whether it is right for Christians to regularly practice cremation. To answer this we first present and then critique the case for cremation, which includes biblical as well as nonbiblical arguments. Following this, the case for Christian burial is presented.

ALLEGED BIBLICAL ARGUMENTS FOR CREMATION

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There are four main arguments put forth to justify cremation as an acceptable practice for Christians:

FIRE SYMBOLIZES GOOD TO JEWS AND CHRISTIANS. William Phipps, one of the significant supporters of cremation as a Christian practice, argues for Jewish and Christian acceptance by pointing to the symbolic use of fire. He writes, "In biblical times fire was often regarded as symbolic of the divine presence, so it was appropriate to feature fire in sacred ceremonies. God was represented by a flaming torch in an encounter with Abraham, and at Mt. Sinai ‘the appearance of the glory of the Lord was like a devouring fire’ (Exod. 24:17)."2

Since fire represents God, cremation can be a symbol of the believer entering into the presence of God.

JESUS GAVE LITTLE ATTENTION TO DISPOSING OF THE DEAD. Phipps also argues that further allowance for cremation should be given because Jesus gave little attention to the disposal of the dead. In fact, His only words on the subject were, "Let the dead bury their own dead" (Luke 9:60). Jesus, Phipps argues, made a negative reference to earth burial when He compared hypocrites to "whitewashed tombs, which look beautiful on the outside but on the inside are full of dead men’s bones and everything unclean" (Matt. 23:27).

PAUL’S THEOLOGY DEEMPHASIZED THE BODY. The apostle Paul, argues Phipps, found sacred value only in the living body. It was the living body that was the temple of the Holy Spirit (1 Cor. 6:9), not the dead one. Phipps suggests that just as a temple is constructed for worship and is destroyed after it is no longer used for worship, the body may be dispensed with in a like manner. Paul viewed the body as an earthly tent that would soon be demolished after use. He concluded his view of death by stating, "We are confident...and would prefer to be away from the body and at home with the Lord" (2 Cor. 5:8).

Paul has his fullest discussion on life after death in 1 Corinthians 15. There he stated "that flesh and blood cannot inherit the kingdom of God" (v. 50). According to Phipps,

[Paul] did not believe that the residual dust in a tomb would be

the substance of a new heavenly organism. When the apostle

writes about "the resurrection of the dead," he does not mean the

reassembling and the reanimation of the corpse. The expression

"spiritual body" (1 Cor. 15:5) which he uses does not refer to

the physical skeleton and the flesh that hangs on it. Rather, in

modern terminology, it means the self or the personality. What

removed death’s sting for Paul was not gazing at a prettified

corpse but the good news that mortal nature can "put on

immortality" (1 Cor. 15:44).3

Phipps concludes his view of Paul’s theology by stating that it "is fully compatible with body disposal by cremation. Contrariwise, those who adamantly advocate earth burial because it enhances bodily resurrection have a weak New Testament foundation on which to stand."4

CHRISTIAN ACCEPTANCE OF CREMATION IS GROWING. Phipps suggests a few reasons for the growing acceptance of cremation among Christians. First, "the broader tolerance most Christians now have on the subject [of cremation] is anchored in a reinterpretation of their basic sources of authority. They have realized that the method of corpse disposal in the biblical culture was not a major concern."5

Second, people, as well as ministers, have observed that "cremation marks a shift away from the irreligious materialism that is pervasive in Western civilization."6 Some have suggested that cremation encourages a wholesome attitude toward funerals. It eliminates the need for expensive caskets and embalming. It helps the grief process because there is no need to dwell on the dead, empty corpse.

CREMATION ONLY SPEEDS THE NATURAL PROCESS. Another reason given in defense of cremation is that the Bible condemns humankind to return to dust (Gen. 3:19), and cremation only brings that condemnation to pass in a more speedy way. If the body will eventually become dust, then why not hasten it? Cremation seems to be an immediate fulfillment of what the Bible forecasts for all mortals. In short, if God ordained the natural process of returning to dust, then how can cremation be against the will of God?

These arguments combined together would seem to make a strong case that it is biblically and theologically allowable for Christians to forsake the common practice of burial and adopt cremation.

RESPONSE TO BIBLICAL ARGUMENTS FOR CREMATION

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FIRE AND ACTIONS OF GOD. While fire in some cases may be seen as good or serve as a symbol for the divine presence, it is wrong to apply this to cremation. Fire was most often associated with warning and judgment (Lev. 10:1-2) - including eternal judgement (Matt. 25:4, etc.). To connect the burning of a human body with fire would more than likely bring images of human sacrifices (Lev. 18:21), criminals (Lev. 20:14; 21:9), and hell fire itself. Therefore, the symbol at best has a dual application and cannot be used to support cremation alone.

JESUS’ VIEW. The fact that Jesus gave little direct attention to something does not mean it is without importance. Jesus gave little attention to spousal abuse and less to abortion, yet surely this does not indicate His approval of these practices. Jesus, however, did give great attention to the authority and inspiration of Scriptures that clearly express the common practice and importance of burial (cf. Matt. 5:17-18; 22:29; John 10:35). Furthermore, Jesus attacked many Jewish traditions, but burial of the dead was not one of them.

When Jesus said, "Let the dead bury their own dead" (Luke 9:60), it was in response to an excuse a man gave Him when he desired to bury his father before following Jesus. The saying is a play on words in which Jesus identified the spiritually dead as those who do not follow Him. In effect, Jesus was saying, "Let the [spiritually] dead bury their own [physical] dead."7 The passage has nothing to do with approval of cremation or condemnation of burial. Rather, the passage, if it suggests anything about corpse disposal, gives acknowledgment to burial as the common practice that was so ingrained in Jewish society that reference to it was very common. What is noteworthy is that Jesus never said, "Let the dead CREMATE their own dead," but rather, "let the dead BURY their own dead."

Matthew 23:27 is likewise not a negative reference to burial. Rather, it is a negative reference to the scribes and Pharisees. It was they who appeared beautiful on the outside but who, like dead men in tombs, were unclean on the inside. The fact that the tombs of burial were so common to the people makes possible Jesus’ point concerning the religious leaders.

PAUL’S THEOLOGY. Phipps’s belief that Paul devalued dead bodies is totally without warrant. First, Paul never taught a dead body should be despised or destroyed. Therefore, Paul’s emphasis on the living body (1 Cor. 6:9) cannot be used to teach there is no value in a dead body. Second, Paul’s analogy of the body being a temple of the Holy Spirit is applied only to the living body. Paul nowhere affirmed that the body, like a temple, should be destroyed (i.e., some imposed means of destruction) after it is used. Therefore, Phipps’s analogy, that it can be destroyed after it is used, does not follow. Third, Paul’s Jewish background would strongly suggest that he practiced and approved of burial as the means of disposing of dead bodies. In fact, Paul seemed to imply this by means of an analogy he used for the resurrection body. In 1 Corinthians 15:42 Paul said, "The body that is sown is perishable, it is raised imperishable." In describing what happens to a body after death, Paul used an analogy of planting a seed, which is similar to burying a dead body (1 Cor. 15:36-44). This is because Paul’s view of the physical resurrection teaches that there is a continuity from the body of this life, which will be transformed and glorified, to the new resurrection body.

Phipps’s use of other Pauline references to the body are also taken out of context. Just because Paul preferred to be absent from the body and home with the Lord (1 Cor. 5:8), does not mean Paul did not care how the body was treated after death.

In 1 Corinthians 15:50, when Paul stated that flesh and blood cannot inherit the kingdom of God, he was referring to our corruptible bodies, as the very next phrase reveals: "For the perishable must clothe itself with the imperishable, and the mortal with immortality" (v. 53). Paul in no way was saying that this body is unimportant. He was simply drawing a contrast between the mortal body and the immortal body (vv. 45-50). The earthly body, because of its condition, cannot inherit the kingdom of God. God must change and raise it imperishable (vv. 51-54). Paul did not say that the resurrection body is without flesh and blood. Scripture clearly teaches that it will have "flesh and bones" because it will be like Jesus’ body (Luke 24:39; 1 John 3:2).

Phipps’s denial of a physical resurrection, where the earthly body is unimportant to the resurrection body, is also false. His rejection of the physical nature of the resurrection body is based, in part, on Paul’s reference to a "spiritual body" (1 Cor. 15:44). "Spiritual," however, was used here by Paul to mean immortal, not immaterial (i.e., nonmaterial). Paul used it to refer to a body dominated or directed by the spirit. It is a reference to the spiritual SOURCE of the body’s power, not a denial of its physical SUBSTANCE. It is a reference to the supernatural aspect of the body (1 Cor 15:40-44; cf. 10:4). Paul’s use of the parallelism that contrasts the natural and supernatural clearly indicates this usage. Furthermore, the reference to material things having a spiritual aspect to them was used elsewhere by Paul. In the same book he used that same word "spiritual" of a physical rock, physical food, and physical water (1 Cor. 10:3-4). It was their source that was "spiritual" or supernatural.

What about Phipps’s suggestion that for Paul the sting of death is not well represented by a prettified corpse and that it is the mortal nature that puts on immortality? First, Phipps does not know what Paul’s opinion was concerning the beautification of a corpse. Paul never wrote on the topic. Second, burying a corpse is the best representation of the Christian’s victory over death. While it is true that God is able to resurrect our bodies no matter what their condition might be (i.e., via burial or cremation), it is important to preserve the body for theological reasons. Human nature is a soul-body unity, and it is soul and body together that put on immortality. Further, the corpse is a good representation of this hope because it is that very body that will have numerical identity with the glorified body. What better symbol to have then the very body that will someday be glorified?8 As Paul said, it is the same mortal body that will "put on immortality" (1 Cor. 15:53). Another body or form will not replace it.

Finally, in light of Paul’s theological use and respect for the body, burial is a more compatible practice. There is, therefore, a precedence for earth burial not because it enhances bodily resurrection, but because it maintains a consistent expression of its theology that is well grounded in the New Testament.

CHRISTIAN ACCEPTANCE. While the reasons Phipps gives for the wider acceptance of cremation among some Christians may be influential, they are nonetheless flawed. First, Christians should not reinterpret biblical theology so that cremation can be more acceptable. If the Bible is God’s Word - as it claims and evidence supports it to be - then Christians today, even as in biblical times, do not have a right to reinterpret it to fit the current culture.9 For theological and not merely cultural reasons, burial as a method of corpse disposal was very important in biblical times.

Second, while extravagant materialistic funerals are certainly questionable, it is hard to imagine how the body of the deceased loved one contributes to this. Were all the early Christians and Jews materialistic because they preserved the body for burial? How does the body in a funeral make modern Westerners more materialistic than their Christian and Jewish ancestors who practiced viewing and burial? Whether corpse viewing is beneficial or not is an individual preference and cannot be used as an argument against burial per se.

FROM ASHES TO ASHES. Simply because a human practice speeds up what God ordained does not mean it is right. God ordained that all fallen beings would die (Gen. 2:16-17; cf. Rom. 5:12), but this does not justify our killing them to speed up the process. God ordained pain (Gen. 3:16), but this does not mean we should inflict it on others. There is an important difference between what God can do and what we should do. Many babies naturally abort and most adults die naturally, but this does not justify our killing them (Exod. 20:13). Of course, there is a difference. The body is already dead before it is cremated; but this no more justifies cremating it than it does burning a flag because it is going to rot anyway. Again, there is significance in symbolism, and the symbolism of destroying a body that God created and that God will resurrect is the wrong message to send. Likewise, the simple fact that given time the body will turn to dust does not mean that we should turn it to dust immediately after death. God created the body, and He desires that we respect it even in death.

NONBIBLICAL ARGUMENTS FOR CREMATION

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The following represent some of the more common nonbiblical reasons given to support the practice of cremation.

CREMATION IS MORE ECONOMICAL. The average cost for cremation in 1997 was around $600 to $900 dollars. The average cost of a funeral including embalming, casket, funeral service, and interment (not including the plot) is from $3,000 to $4,000. The comparison, it is argued, is easy to see. Cremation saves the family money.

CREMATION IS ECOLOGICALLY MORE DESIRABLE. For one thing, cremation saves valuable land in many instances. Cremation in these situations is greatly needed. Phipps’s point is that, as land becomes more scarce, cremation is more widely endorsed. Those choosing cremation realize that millions of acres of choice land are already given over to cemetaries, and they are convinced that better use should be made of our limited soil.

CREMATION IS THERAPEUTIC FOR THE MOURNERS. Phipps explains, "Finding no value in slow decomposition, some see no point in having morticians temporarily arrest this inevitable process by replacing the blood with embalming fluid. Nor do they find comfort in being deceived by cosmetics into thinking that the body is ‘just sleeping.' On the contrary, a clean incineration that quickly reduces the body of the deceased to its component elements can be therapeutic for mourners by expressing the final severance of the physical bond."10

RESPONSE TO NONBIBLICAL ARGUMENTS

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ETHICS AND ECONOMY. The economical argument is appealing on a certain level since one can hardly argue to the contrary - cremation is less expensive than burial. Yet, what is least expensive is not always right. Doing evil is often cheaper than doing good. Sometimes a price has to be paid for doing what is right. If one has the means for burial, then one ought to do it.

ETHICS AND ECOLOGY. The argument concerning land does have some legitimacy in certain circumstances. Land in some areas is scarce; but in general this is not the case. There is plenty of land in many countries and cities that can be accessed for the purpose of burial. Over 1,000 people can be buried in just one acre of land. Bodies can also be layered in the same grave or reburied similar to what is done in other countries.11 Another option includes using or reusing above-ground crypts. This is often done in areas that have a high water table, which makes burial impossible.

THERAPY AND MORALITY. The therapeutic value argument cuts both ways. Some have argued that immediate cremation could lead to guilt and emotional problems. Alan Wolfelt observes that "seeing the body challenges the natural wish to avoid the reality of death. While [SIC], at the same time, encouraging healthy acceptance of the death."12 Deciding what is best for the grieving process is quite difficult. As burial advocate John Davis says, "Much of the therapeutic value of any funerary ritual depends on cultural conditioning, prior understanding of the death experience, the circumstance of death itself, the relationship to the deceased, and the emotional make-up of the survivors."13

THE CASE FOR BURIAL

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Admittedly there is no direct command regarding burial or prohibition of cremation.14 While the act of cremation, as such, is not a sin or an intrinsic evil like murder, burial is the general pattern set down in Scripture.15 Its continued practice is a reasonable inference drawn from biblical truths. Thus we believe the evidence supports the conclusion that Christians, if at all possible, should practice burial. It is more symbolically appropriate to do so. There may be circumstances, however, that make burial unwise, against the law, or even impossible; but rare exceptions should not be used to eliminate the general practice of burial.

There are at least six reasons for holding that Christians should practice burial. Each will be briefly stated. Taken together they offer good evidence for preserving the Christian practice of burial.

BURIAL FOLLOWS THE EXAMPLE OF CHRIST. Jesus’ interment is described in great detail and was clearly a burial (Matt. 27:57-61; John 19:38-42). The fact that Jesus was resurrected three days later (according to Jewish reckoning), in the same body in which He died, gives assurance to the believer (John 20:1-30; Phil. 3:20-21). Burial not only shows respect for the body but it also symbolically anticipates its future - in the resurrection. Cremation, on the contrary, is more of a picture that death is the end of everything. Just as Christian baptism is symbolized by death and resurrection (Rom. 6:1ff.), so proper Christian burial can be part of the same picture.

JESUS’ BURIAL WAS ACCORDING TO THE GOSPEL. Paul used Jesus’ burial as part of the Gospel message in 1 Corinthians 15. Burial is an essential part of the "gospel" since Paul defined the "gospel" as involving death, burial, and resurrection appearances. Burial is the seal of death and resurrection is proof that death is not final (cf. Rom. 4:25; 2 Tim. 1:10). Hence, burial is a significant symbol since it portrays a crucial part of the gospel.

BURIAL PRESERVES THE CHRISTIAN BELIEF IN THE SANCTITY OF THE BODY. Christians believe God created man in His image (Gen. 1:26-27; 2:7).16 Even though God has no body (John 4:24), nevertheless in man this image of God is related to the body for at least three reasons. In Genesis 1:27 God included male and female bodies as associated with the image of God in man. According to Genesis 9:6, it is wrong to kill the body because it is linked to the image of God: "Whoever sheds the blood of man, by man shall his blood be shed; for in the image of God has God made man." It would make no sense to have such a curse if the image of God applied only to the soul, which man cannot kill (Matt. 10:28). Jesus Christ in a body is the exact representation of God’s nature. The Son "is the radiance of God’s glory and the exact representation of his being" (Heb 1:3). If the image of God could be perfectly represented in man apart from the body, then the body would not be essential to resurrection. Finally, the body is the temple of the Holy Spirit (1 Cor. 6:19-20). The body is important in Christian teaching, dead or alive, because it was uniquely designed to give expression to the image of God in man.

BURIAL SYMBOLIZES THE HOPE OF RESURRECTION. As Paul taught, the very body that is sown perishable is raised an imperishable body (1 Cor. 15:42). This is best symbolized by burial, for it anticipates the final preservation of the body in the resurrection. The image presented of the dead being asleep (1 Thes. 4:13-18) is also preserved through burial. The Christian has escaped the judgment by fire presented in the Bible (Rev. 20:14). Cremation is the wrong picture to remind believers of SALVATION IN THE BODY by resurrection (cf. Rom. 8:11). On the other hand, cremation better symbolizes pantheism, which in its Eastern forms is usually associated with a SALVATION FROM THE BODY by escaping the cycle of reincarnation.17

EARLY CHRISTIAN PRACTICE SUPPORTS BURIAL. Believers in the New Testament such as Ananias, Sapphira, and Stephen, were not cremated (Acts 5:6, 10; 8:1-2). To be sure, burial was a Jewish practice, and they were Jews, but they did not hesitate to reject Jewish practices that were contrary to their beliefs, such as circumcision (e.g., Gal. 2-3) and keeping the Jewish law (2 Cor. 3; Heb. 7-8). No such rejection of burial, however, is stated in the New Testament. When possible, early Christians were buried and cremation was looked on with great disdain because fire was often used to kill their martyrs.

BURIAL ALLOWS PROPER MEMORY OF THE DEAD. Burial or entombment, as Christians practice it, allows for an important part of the Christian belief - respect for and memory of the dead in the body in which we knew them. Regardless of whether the body is present or absent in a service, the knowledge of their burial puts their life in proper perspective as God made it and will one day restore it. In this way, Christian truth can be properly proclaimed. It is particularly important to promote such doctrines as creation and redemption at such a crucial time as ours in which these defining doctrines of Christianity are being compromised.

HOW IMPORTANT IS BURIAL VERSUS CREMATION? The answer to the question of the importance of this debate depends on what importance one places on a proper practice of what one believes, especially appropriate symbols. In fact, only if one rejects important Christian truths does cremation make sense. This is precisely the position of liberal Christians, and it is a reason why cremation finds wider acceptance in their congregations. Yet Christianity is not left intact after such doctrines as the bodily resurrection are discarded or ignored (Rom. 10:9; 1 Cor. 15:16, 17). To reject symbolism is to say the thing it symbolizes is not important. An attack on the symbol of burial and the anticipated resurrection of the body is an attack on important Christian doctrines. It is analogous to burning a U.S. flag, which is a symbol of our country. To burn the flag is to attack the country it symbolizes. Likewise, to burn the body is to attack the person - and the God who created man in His image (Gen. 1:27; 2:7). Furthermore, it denies the resurrection in a symbolic way by pronouncing death final.

Of course, there are circumstances where burial is not possible. In those cases, we must do the next best thing we can do to preserve the original intent. In the Old Testament when a Jew could not keep the Feast of Passover on the first month because he was contaminated, he was commanded to keep it on the second month (Num. 9:6-13). He was not to neglect doing it altogether. Likewise, even when cremation is called for because of bacterial or viral contamination, it should be done with regret and respect. For example, the ashes should be preserved, not cast to the wind or sea.

A FINAL THOUGHT

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From the Christian perspective, burial is the pattern used in Scripture and has been historically followed by the church. Of course, it should be pointed out that cremation is no hindrance to the act, or event, of the resurrection. God, in His omnipotence, is certainly able, if He so chooses, to collect every atom and molecule, no matter where it is found in the universe, and reconstruct our same bodies in a glorified state. It does not follow from this, however, that cremation is an acceptable general practice. Whereas burial is an important practice and symbol in Scripture, cremation is a poor symbol of scriptural truth. While cremation is not an intrinsic evil, it nonetheless symbolically vitiates some important biblical truths. In this sense, cremation is a hindrance to the promotion of resurrection truth and should not be a regular practice of Christians. We thus conclude that all Christians should practice Christian burial unless extraordinary circumstances do not permit it.

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NOTES:

1. Joanne Leonard, "Ashes to Ashes," THE SATURDAY EVENING POST March-April 1994, 63-64.

2. William E. Phipps, "The Consuming Fire for Corpses," THE CHRISTIAN CENTURY, March 1981, 221.

3. William E. Phipps, CREMATION CONCERNS (Springfield, IL: Charles C. Thomas, 1989), 55.

4. Ibid.

5. Ibid., 53.

6. Ibid., 59.

7. Robert H. Stein, THE NEW AMERICAN COMMENTARY: LUKE, vol. 24 (Nashville: Broadman Press, 1992), 301.

8. See Norman L. Geisler, THE BATTLE FOR THE RESURRECTION (Nashville: Thomas Nelson, 1989).

9. See Norman L. Geisler and William E. Nix, A GENERAL INTRODUCTION TO THE BIBLE, rev. & exp. ed. (Chicago: Moody Press. 1986).

10. Phipps, "The Consuming Fire for Corpses," 221.

11. John Davis, WHAT ABOUT CREMATION? A CHRISTIAN PERSPECTIVE (Winona Lake, IN: BMH Books, 1989), 77.

12. Alan Wolfelt, DEATH AND GRIEF: A GUIDE FOR CLERGY (Muncie, IN: Accelerated Development, 1988), 123, as cited in Davis, 79.

13. Davis., 79-80.

14. Despite efforts to show the contrary by James W. Fraser (CREMATION: IS IT CHRISTIAN? [Neptune, NJ: Loizeaux Brothers, 1985]), a more proper investigation of texts related to cremation shows this to be the case. See John J. Davis, WHAT ABOUT CREMATION? (Ch. 4.)

15. This is the position articulated by Davis, WHAT ABOUT CREMATION? 89-90.

16. See Norman L. Geisler, KNOWING THE TRUTH ABOUT CREATION (Ann Arbor, MI: Servant Books, 1989), ch. 1.

17. See Norman L. Geisler and J. Yutaka Amano, THE REINCARNATION SENSATION (Wheaton, IL: Tyndale House, 1987).

This article first appeared in the Summer 1998 issue of the Christian Research Journal.

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Cherish While There's Time

Psalms 90

When our friend Rich went for his annual physical, the doctor proclaimed him totally fit. Three days later he went on a business trip. That night his associates found him in his hotel room, dead of a massive heart attack. Later, his wife Linda told us, "We had some beautiful weeks before Rich died. And every wife I see, I tell: 'Cherish your man.'" Their kids had not been able to be with their folks on Easter, which turned out to be the Sunday before Rich's death. But Martha, his daughter, followed this prompting she had to call Dad and say she loved him that day. And Paul, his son, wrote Dad to tell him in writing what he had never been able to say to him - "I love you. You're the best Dad in the world." That was Sunday. Wednesday morning, Dad was gone.

I'm Ron Hutchcraft and I want to have A Word With You today about "Cherish While There's Time."

The experience of Rich's family is just another reminder that we need to cherish those we love while we can. We never know which hug will be the last hug, which "I love you" the last one, which "goodbye" the final goodbye. Now, the point of remembering that is not to be maudlin or to be anxious all the time. Our times are in God's hands, so they're in good hands. But it is important to realize that life is short at best, and we need to live in such a way that we do all those "I wish I had's" while we can still do them.

Moses wrote a psalm - Psalm 90 - and it contains our word for today from the Word of God. Psalm 90:12 says it succinctly and powerfully: "Teach us to number our days aright, that we may gain a heart of wisdom." God seems to be saying we have no days we can afford to waste, so make every day count. That's the key to living wisely.

And I hear the echo of our friend Linda's words, "Cherish your man." Or your woman. Or your mom or your dad. Or your grandparents or your loved ones. Tell them you love them so you'll never have to be sorry that you didn't. Tell them the things you appreciate about who they are and what they do, so you don't have the sorrow of wishing you had.

If conflicts, walls and gaps have developed between you and someone you love, don't let them stay there any longer. Say what you have to say, write what you have to write, forgive what you have to forgive, apologize for whatever you need to make right. Do whatever it takes to remove that wall. Whatever the issues, they can't be important enough to risk leaving that relationship broken when it's too late to repair it. Being right with that person you love is so much more important than you just being "right."

And if someone you love may be feeling neglected, overlooked or marginalized right now, you've been very, very busy. You've been very occupied. It's time you reserve time regularly to spend with them. Put it in your calendar. Everyone and everything else screams for your attention, but the people who love you often are just a whimper or a whisper. But they have to be the non-negotiables of your schedule. Let everything else revolve around them instead of them having to revolve around everything else.

If the horror of that September 11 taught us anything, it taught us that it can all be over so quickly. So, make today count. "Number your days aright" ... make each day count.

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Jimmy Rodgers Says "here!"

The Rogers are devout Christians who have built a strong family. The father has a special interest in the spiritual condition of each of his children and often would quiz them in order to know if they were sure of their salvation. Occasionally he would ask them to share in their own words about their relationship with Jesus Christ.

One day it was seven-year-old Jimmy’s turn to express how he knew he had Eternal Life. Jimmy told his version: “I think it will be something like this in Heaven. One day when we all get to go to Heaven, it will be time for the big angel to read from the big book the names of all the people who will be there. He will come to the Rogers family and say, ‘Daddy Rogers?’ and Daddy will say, ‘HERE!’ Then the angel will call out, ‘Mommy Rogers?’ and Mommy will say ‘Here!’ Then the angel will come down to call out Susie Rogers and Mavis Rogers, and they will both say, ‘HERE!’” He paused, took a big deep breath and continued. “And finally that big angel will read my name, ‘Jimmy Rogers,’ and because I’m little and maybe he’ll miss me, I’ll jump and shout real loud, ‘HERE!’ to make sure he knows I’m there.”

Just a few days later there was a tragic accident. A car struck down little Jimmy Rogers as he made his way to catch the school bus. He was rushed by ambulance to the hospital, and all the family was summoned. He was in critical condition. The little family group gathered around the bed in which little Jimmy now lay with no movement, no consciousness and no hope for recovery. The doctors had done all that was in their power. Jimmy would probably be gone by morning. The family prayed and waited. Late in the night the little boy seemed to be stirring a bit. They all moved closer. They saw his lips move; just one word was all he uttered before he passed from this life.

But what a word of comfort and hope for a grieving family he was to leave behind. In the clear voice of a little boy, loud and clear enough so all could hear and understand, little Jimmy Rogers said the one word: “HERE!” And then he was gone to another life beyond this world, where a big angel was reading the names of all those written there.

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Ready To Go Home

2 Timothy 4:6

Ready To Go Home — Read: 2 Timothy 4:6-8, 16-18

I am already being poured out as a drink offering, and the time of my departure is at hand. —2 Timothy 4:6

Because I have traveled widely in my ministry, I’ve had to spend a lot of time away from home. Although some hotels promise to make me “feel at home,” few of them achieve it. In fact, some make me wish fervently that I was at home!

During his final days on earth, the apostle Paul had a deep longing for his heavenly home. His thoughts turned toward the warm welcome he would receive from the Lord, “the righteous Judge” (2 Timothy 4:8). Although he was facing death, thoughts of heaven kept his spirit hopeful.

This reminds me of an old man and his grandson who were sitting on a dock late one afternoon. The two chatted about everything, it seemed—why water is wet, why seasons change, why girls hate worms, what life is like. Finally the boy looked up and asked, “Grandpa, does anybody ever see God?” “Son,” said the old man as he looked across the still waters of the lake, “it’s getting so now I hardly see anything else.”

Aging should be like that. Praying should come more easily. Communion with the Father in heaven should be as natural as breathing. Thoughts of seeing Jesus and going home should increasingly occupy our minds. That’s how we’ll know we’re ready to go home. — HWR

When, by the gift of His infinite grace,

I am accorded in heaven a place,

Just to be there and to look on His face

Will through the ages be glory for me. — Gabriel

As life’s shadows lengthen, thoughts of God should deepen.

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When I Come To the End of the Road

When I come to the end of the road

and the sun has set for me,

I want no rites in a gloom filled room,

why cry for a soul set free?

Miss me a little — but not too long

and not with your head bowed low

remember the love that we once shared,

miss me — but let me go.

For this is a journey that we all

must take and each must go alone.

It’s all part of the Master’s plan,

a step on the road to home.

When you are lonely and sick of heart

go to friends we know and bury your

sorrow in doing good deeds;

miss Me — but Let Me Go.

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Letter From Heaven (a Questionable Idea)

To my dearest family, some things I’d like to say.

But first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay. I’m writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above. Here, there’s no more tears of sadness. Here is just eternal love. Please do not be unhappy just because I’m out of sight. Remember that I am with you every morning, noon and night.

That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through, God picked me up and hugged me and He said, “I welcome you. It’s good to have you back again, you were missed while you were gone. I need you here badly, you’re part of my plan. There’s so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.”

God gave me a list of things that he wished for me to do. And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you. And when you lie in bed at night the day’s chores put to flight, God and I are closest to you in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears. But do not be afraid to cry, it does relieve the pain. Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned. If I were to tell you, you wouldn’t understand. But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is over, I’m closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb. But together we can do it by taking one day at a time. It was always my philosophy and I’d like it for you too that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you. If you can help somebody who’s in sorrow and pain then you can say to God at night, “My day was not in vain.”

And now I am contented that my life was worthwhile. Knowing as I passed along the way I made somebody smile. So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low, just lend a hand to pick him up as on your way you go.

When you’re walking down the street and you’ve got me on your mind, I’m walking in your footsteps only half a step behind. And when it’s time for you to go from that body to be free, remember you’re not going you’re coming here to me.

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If I Had My Life To Live Over

If I Had My Life to Live over — by Erma Bombeck — (Written after she found out she was dying from cancer.)

• I would have gone to bed when I was sick instead of pretending the earth would go into a holding pattern if I weren’t there for the day.

• I would have burned the pink candle sculpted like a rose before it melted in storage.

• I would have talked less and listened more.

• I would have invited friends over to dinner even if the carpet was stained, or the sofa faded.

• I would have eaten the popcorn in the ‘good’ living room and worried much less about the dirt when someone wanted to light a fire in the fireplace.

• I would have taken the time to listen to my grandfather ramble about his youth.

• I would have shared more of the responsibility carried by my husband.

• I would never have insisted the car windows be rolled up on a summer day because my hair had just been teased and sprayed.

• I would have sat on the lawn with my children and not worried about grass stains.

• I would have cried and laughed less while watching television-and more while watching life.

• I would never have bought anything just because it was practical, wouldn’t show soil, or was guaranteed to last a lifetime.

• Instead of wishing away nine months of pregnancy, I’d have cherished every moment and realized that the wonderment growing inside me was the only chance in life to assist in a miracle.

• When my kids kissed me impetuously, I would never have said, “Later. Now go get washed up for dinner.”

• There would have been more “I love you’s.” More “I’m sorry’s”

… But mostly, given another shot at life, I would seize every minute … look at it and really see it … live it … and never give it back.

Stop sweating the small stuff. Don’t worry about who doesn’t like you, who has more, or who’s doing what.

Instead, let’s cherish the relationships we have with those who DO love us. And what we are doing each day to promote ourselves mentally, physically, emotionally, as well as spiritually. Life is too short to let it pass you by.

We only have one shot at this and then it’s gone.

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All Men Subject To Death Because of Sin

Romans 5:12

”Therefore, just as through one man sin entered the world, and death through sin, and thus death spread to all men, because all sinned —” (Romans 5:12 NKJV)

All Men Subject To Death Beeause Of Sin

• death — Gen 3:6, 2:17, Rom 6:23, 1 Cor 15:21, Ps 51:5, 14:1 — natural, as the special punishment: spiritual, eternal, as necessary effect of severance of man from service and love of God

• passed [spread]…men — passed throughout, went about, came everywhere, spread abroad

• all…sinned — from Adam to Moses, no law. Yet there was sin because there was death; i.e., sin derived, transmitted from Adam. — Sinfulness of children intended here (Origen, Augustine, Thomas Aquinas, Melanchton, Beza). “This view has somewhat of truth, in that the period from Adam to Moses is in fact the time of the childhood of mankind.” (0lshausen)

Human depravity — Dr Raffles

It is –

I. Total in its influence over the mind. Over –

1. The understanding;

2. The Conscience;

3. The will;

4. The affections.

II. Universal in its prevalence among mankind. It exists in all –

1. Ages;

2. Countries;

3. Communities;

4. Families;

5. Individuals.

III. Inherent in our nature in consequence of the fall:

1. The origin of sin is in the creature, not in the Creator;

2. Accordingly, man was created pure and holy;

3. But almost the first thing recorded of him is his fall;

4. The results of the fall — the degradation of man — pass from one generation to another.

The origin of suffering — Dr E. de Pressensé

There are many of the solutions of the problem of suffering

I. That of the optimist, who declares life’s blessings greater that its evils.

II. That of those who say that human existence is cursed in itself.

III. That of those who see in suffering a beneficent necessity.

IV. That of those who say it serves to atone for our sins.

V. Lastly, the true solution — that suffering has its origin in sin alone.

Death by sin, and sin by man — U.R. Thomas

I. The great curse of the world — death.

II. The original cause of death — sin.

III. The vast influence of man with regard to sin.

Death the end of all — Cyrus, the Emperor of Persia, after he had long been attended by armies and vast trains of courtiers, ordered this inscription to be engraved on his tomb, as an admonition to all men of the approach of death, and the desolation that follows it; namely, “O man, whatsoever thou art; and whencesoever thou comest, I know thou wilt come to the same condition in which I now am. I am Cyrus, who brought the empire to the Persians: do not envy me, I beseech thee, this little piece of ground which covereth my body.”

The strength of old Adam — When Melanchthon was first converted, he thought it impossible for his hearers to withstand the evidence of the truth in the ministry of the Gospel. But after preaching awhile, he complained, “That old Adam was too hard for young Melanchthon.”

“If evil had never been permitted, the wisdom of God could not have appeared in over-ruling it, nor His justice in punishing it, nor His mercy in pardoning it, nor His power in subduing it.” — Dr. Gifford.

“Death is the foreshadowing of life. We die that we may die no more.” — Herman Hooker

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It's the Way Home

Steve Reinhard tells a heartwarming story about a little girl who walked home from school every day. The quickest way home for her was through the town's cemetery. It was her favorite time of day. She loved to spend time there, watching the birds or throwing herself down on the grass to watch the clouds turning into different shapes overhead. Sometimes as she skipped around the grave stones, she would whistle a tune or sing a song. Other times, she liked to kneel down and read the names and dates on gravestones, and to glide her fingers across the engraved lettering. She particularly enjoyed those walks.

Her friends would ask, “Why do you walk through the cemetery after school?” “That's easy,” she would reply, “because it's the way home.”

In an ultimate sense, that is true, isn't it? There is only one way to our heavenly home, and it is always through the cemetery.

Picture someone in the doctor's office - and they have just been told they have a terminal illness. Their reaction probably would be, “What?!? Me?? I'm going to die?” Well, yes they are - and so am I - and so are you - and you - and you. Statistics reveal that one out of every one of us is going to die someday.

If a doctor gave me a terminal diagnosis, I don't know for certain what my reaction would be - but I would like to believe I would think, “Well, okay - that's as good a way as any to go” -- since I know that the way home is through the cemetery. And it doesn't have to be a fearful passage at all, this way that leads home. It is a trip we can actually look forward to with joy.

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Like Him We Rise

1 Corinthians 15:20

We usually remember to consider the idea of resurrection in the springtime. People draw parallels between the new life of the budding trees and reproducing wildlife and the resurrection of Jesus Christ on Easter Sunday. If one thinks about it, however, the recurring cycles of nature, of death and birth, are startlingly different from Christ's resurrection from the dead.

We live in a world of death. The growth of living plants depends on the decomposition of dead ones. If the Lord tarries, every one of us will die, and this truth is brought home when a person known for his or her vivacity is diagnosed with a terminal disease. On his deathbed, Matthew Henry (the well-known Bible commentator) is reported to have said, “Tomorrow I am not sure whether or not I will be in the land of the dying.” [1] He spoke well when he called this the land of the dying, for every day leads us closer to our end. For those who die a natural death, death may come gradually. The body weakens, experiences pain, and little by little slips into death. The poet John Donne in his Devotions Upon Emergent Occasions chronicled twenty-three stages of sickness preceding death. Those of us whom God blesses with long life will come upon death in stages and in due season, just as summer turns into fall.

Resurrection, on the other hand, is an abrupt and rare occurrence. It has more in common with an immediate death by a tragic accident than with the customary dying process. One moment Christ was dead; the next he lived. I love the archaic term for bringing to life: to quicken. One moment Christ was among the dead; the next he joined the quick. Songwriter Michael Card penned these lyrics: Love crucified arose/ And the grave became a place of hope/ For the heart that sin and sorrow broke/ Is beating once again. The resurrection was a case in which a heart that had not beaten for three days suddenly began pumping blood again. If Christ's death in the middle of the afternoon caused the sky to go black, what must have happened when he opened his eyes in the middle of the night?

This abrupt reversal of the natural order of things is the key to all our hopes. Our hope is not that spring will come again; spring is always followed by fall and then winter. Rather, we believe that the death-cycle will be reversed. Christ's resurrection is the precursor to the resurrection of those who believe in Him. 1 Corinthians 15:20 says, “But Christ has indeed been raised from the dead, the firstfruits of those who have fallen asleep.”

One of the best poetic texts on Christ's resurrection is Charles Wesley's hymn “Christ the Lord is Risen Today.” The final verse says:

Soar we now where Christ has led,

Following our exalted Head;

Made like Him, like Him we rise;

Ours the cross, the grave, the skies.

Let us ponder the meaning of resurrection in every season, not just in the spring, as we wait in hope for the day when we too will undergo that dramatic transformation.

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1. Quoted by Paul Kooistra in Network Magazine, Summer 2003.

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Copyright © 2003 Ravi Zacharias International Ministries (RZIM). Reprinted with permission. "A Slice of Infinity" is a radio ministry of Ravi Zacharias International Ministries.

The Sting of Delusion [2 versions]

Romans 1:21

I was listening recently to a collection of interviews and commentaries on the subject of spirituality in America. Some of those interviewed were authors of best-selling books on various topics of spirituality; others were interviewed simply as passersby on the street. “Who is God? What does it mean to be a spiritual person?” The answers were as diverse as the tiles in a mosaic, but the mosaic was little more than a picture of chaos and contradiction. I came to the end of that message and with my head in my hands sighed, “How can anyone muddle through such a mess?”

The current state and practice of popular spirituality in America brings to mind words spoken by the prophet Jeremiah. It is a “discipline of delusion” to chase after spiritually as if it were a matter of preference and not a matter pertaining to truth. “They are altogether stupid and foolish,” writes Jeremiah, “In their discipline of delusion - their idol is wood” (10:8, NASB).

Millions and millions of people confess to believe in God, to know Him, to follow Him in some way. But does our knowledge of God pertain to truth? This is the place we must start. In the book of Romans, Paul writes of those who follow God not as God but as something less, something corrupted, and so end up chasing darkness. He writes, “For even though they knew God, they did not honor Him as God or give thanks, but they became futile in their speculations, and their foolish hearts were darkened” (Romans 1:21, NASB).

Who is it you say that you know? Do we thank and honor him as God or have we corrupted him into an image of something less? Do you trust him in life and in death?

Death has a way of questioning our knowledge of God. In death we are reminded of God's sovereignty in life and we are reminded of life's most significant answers. Who is this that I confess to know? Why do I believe this? I believe because I know the character and attributes of God. He is good. He is gracious. He is faithful. As good theology is the best answer to life's crises, death is a testimony to the importance of sound apologetics. As the prophet Isaiah has written, “You keep him in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on you” (Isaiah 26:3). When life is shaken, when the misleading sense of our own sovereignty is challenged, we find that our knowledge of God is either an immeasurable consolation or a vacant delusion.

I attended an Easter morning service last year that will be forever etched in my consciousness. It was held in a cemetery. Surrounded by silent stones, each one marking a life put to rest, with the sting of my father's death still fresh in my mind, we sang:

Lives again our glorious King,

Where, O death, is now thy sting?

Once He died our souls to save,

Where thy victory, O grave?

Soar we now where Christ hath led,

Following our exalted Head,

Made like Him, like Him we rise,

Ours the cross, the grave, the skies.

In Christ, death is swallowed up in victory. Christ has won, and man shall win! Indeed, when this perishable puts on the imperishable, where, O death is thy sting?

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Copyright © 2003 Ravi Zacharias International Ministries (RZIM). Reprinted with permission. "A Slice of Infinity" is a radio ministry of Ravi Zacharias International Ministries.

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Version from March 17, 2006:

I was listening recently to a collection of interviews and commentaries on the subject of spirituality in America. Some of those interviewed were authors of best-selling books on various topics of spirituality; others were interviewed simply as passersby on the street. “Who is God?” the interviewers asked repeatedly. “What does it mean to be a spiritual person?” The answers were as diverse as the tiles in a mosaic, but the mosaic before us was little more than a picture of chaos and contradiction. I came to the end of that message and with my head in my hands I sighed: “How can anyone muddle through such a mess?”

The current state and practice of popular spirituality in America brings to mind words spoken by the prophet Jeremiah. It is a “discipline of delusion” to chase after spiritually as if it were a matter of preference and not a matter pertaining to truth. “They are altogether stupid and foolish,” writes Jeremiah, “In their discipline of delusion — their idol is wood” (10:8, NASB).

Millions and millions of people confess to believe in God, to know Him, to follow Him in some way. But does our knowledge of God pertain to truth? Can the starting point of such knowledge begin anywhere else? In the book of Romans, Paul writes of those who follow God not as God but as something less — something corrupted — and so end up chasing darkness. He writes, “For even though they knew God, they did not honor Him as God or give thanks, but they became futile in their speculations, and their foolish hearts were darkened... They exchanged the truth of God for a lie, and worshiped and served created things rather than the Creator” (Romans 1:21,25).

Who is it you say that you know? Do we thank and honor this one as God or have we corrupted our speculations into an image of something less? Do you trust this one in life and in death? Do you know Him as Paul knew Him, as the God “who gives life to the dead and calls things that are not as though they were” (Romans 4:17).

Death has a way of questioning our knowledge of God. In death we are reminded — or startled to the memory — of God's sovereignty in life. We are reminded similarly of life's most significant answers. Who is this that I confess to know? Why do I believe this? In the midst of such questions we are awakened to the underpinnings of belief: I believe because I know the character and attributes of God. HE IS GOOD. HE IS GRACIOUS. HE IS FAITHFUL. “He is convenient,” or “He is comfortable” don't make the underpinnings on which to lie prostrate and assured. As good theology is the best answer to life's crises, death is a testimony to the importance of sound apologetics. In the words of the prophet Isaiah: “You keep him in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on you” (Isaiah 26:3). When life is shaken, when the misleading sense of our own sovereignty is challenged, we find that our knowledge of God is either an immeasurable consolation or a vacant delusion.

I attended an Easter morning service one year that will be forever etched in my consciousness. It was held in a cemetery. Surrounded by silent stones, each one marking a life put to rest, with the sting of my father's death still fresh in my mind, we sang:

Lives again our glorious King,

Where, O death, is now thy sting?

Once He died our souls to save,

Where thy victory, O grave?

Soar we now where Christ hath led,

Following our exalted Head,

Made like Him, like Him we rise,

Ours the cross, the grave, the skies.

In Christ, death is swallowed up in victory. Christ has won, and man shall win. Indeed, when this perishable puts on the imperishable, where, O death is thy sting?

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Copyright © 2006 Ravi Zacharias International Ministries (RZIM). Reprinted with permission. "A Slice of Infinity" is a radio ministry of Ravi Zacharias International Ministries.

Taps - Its History [2 Versions and Correction]

TAPS — Here is something I didn’t know before: [but see below]

We have all heard the haunting melody of “Taps.” It’s the song that gives us that lump in our throats and usually tears in our eyes. But do you know the story behind the song? If not, I think you will be pleased to find out about its humble beginnings.

Reportedly, it all began in 1862 during the Civil War, when Union Army Captain Robert Ellicombe was with his men near Harrison’s Landing, Virginia. The Confederate Army was on the other side of the narrow strip of land. During the night, Captain Ellicombe heard the moans of a soldier who was severely wounded on the field. Not knowing if it was a Union or Confederate soldier, the Captain decided to risk his life and bring the stricken man back for medical attention.

Crawling on his stomach through the gunfire, the Captain reached the stricken soldier and began pulling him toward the encampment. When the Captain finally reached his own lines, he discovered it was actually a Confederate soldier, but the soldier was dead.

The Captain lit a lantern and suddenly caught his breath and went numb with shock. In the dim light he saw the face of the soldier. It was his own son. The boy had been studying music in the South when the war broke out. Without telling his father, the boy enlisted in the Confederate Army.

The following morning, heartbroken, the father asked permission to give his son a full military burial despite his enemy status. His request was only partially granted. The Captain had asked if he could have a group of Army band members play a funeral dirge for his son at the funeral.

The request was denied since the soldier was a Confederate. But, out of respect for the father, they did say they could give him one musician.

The Captain chose a bugler. He asked the bugler to play a series of musical notes he had found on a piece of paper in the pocket of the dead youth’s uniform. This wish was granted.

The haunting melody, which we now know as “Taps” used at military funerals, was born.

Day is done

Gone the sun

From the lakes

From the hills

From the sky

All is well,

safely rest.

God is nigh.

Fading light

Dims the sight

And a star

Gems the sky,

Gleaning bright

From afar,

Drawing nigh,

Falls the night.

Thanks and praise,

For our days,

Neath the sun,

Neath the stars,

Neath the sky,

As we go,

This we know,

God is nigh.

I, too, have felt the chills while listening to “Taps” but I have never seen all the words to the song until now. I didn’t even know there was more than one verse. I also never knew the story behind the song and I didn’t know if you had either so I thought I’d pass it along. I now have an even deeper respect for the song than I did before.

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Another version from Wit & Wisdom:

THE HISTORY OF TAPS

The 24-note bugle call known as “taps” is thought to be a revision of a French bugle signal, called “tattoo,” that notified soldiers to cease an evening’s drinking and return to their barracks or garrisons. It was sounded one hour before the bugle call that brought the military day to an end by ordering the extinguishing of fires and lights. The last five measures of the tattoo resemble the modern day “Taps.”

The word “taps” is an alteration of the obsolete word “taptoo,” derived from the Dutch “taptoe.” Taptoe was the command -- “Tap toe!” -- to shut (“toe to”) the “tap” of a keg.

The revision that gave us present-day taps was made during America ‘s Civil War by Union Gen. Daniel Adams Butterfield, heading a brigade camped at Harrison Landing, Va., near Richmond. Up to that time, the U.S. Army’s infantry call to end the day was the French final call, “L’Extinction des feux.” Gen. Butterfield decided the “lights out” music was too formal to signal the day’s end. One day in July 1862, he recalled the tattoo music and hummed a version of it to an aide, who wrote it down in music. Butterfield then asked the brigade bugler, Oliver W. Norton, to play the notes and, after listening, lengthened and shortened them while keeping his original melody.

He ordered Norton to play this new call at the end of each day thereafter, instead of the regulation call. The music was heard and appreciated by other brigades, who asked for copies and adopted this bugle call. It was even adopted by Confederate buglers. This music was made the official Army bugle call after the war, but not given the name “taps” until 1874.

The first time taps was played at a military funeral may also have been in Virginia soon after Butterfield composed it. Union Capt. John Tidball, head of an artillery battery, ordered it played for the burial of a cannoneer killed in action. Not wanting to reveal the battery’s position in the woods to the enemy nearby, Tidball substituted taps for the traditional three rifle volleys fired over the grave. Taps was played at the funeral of Confederate Gen. Stonewall Jackson 10 months after it was composed. Army infantry regulations by 1891 required taps to be played at military funeral ceremonies. Taps now is played by the military at burial and memorial services and is still used to signal “lights out” at day’s end.

Taps Lyrics:

Day is done,

gone the sun,

from the lakes

from the hills

from the sky,

all is well,

safely, rest,

God is near.

Fading light,

Dims the sight,

And a star gems the sky

Gleaming bright,

From afar,

Drawing, near,

Falls the night.

Thanks and praise,

For our days,

Neath the sun

Neath the stars

Neath the sky,

As we go,

This, we, know,

God is near.

Someone has added another verse:

Fades the light

From afar

Goeth day,

cometh night

And a star

Leadeth all,

speedeth all

To their rest.

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Source: Army Study Guide, http://www.armystudyguide.com/

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Correction from Snopes.com:

Taps was composed in July 1862 at Harrison’s Landing in Virginia, but aside from that basic fact the fanciful e-mail quoted above, which dates at least to the 1930s, in no way reflects the reality of its origins. There was no dead son, Confederate or otherwise; no lone bugler sounding out the dead boy’s last composition. How the call came into being was never anything more than one influential soldier deciding his unit could use a bugle call for particular occasions and setting about to come up with one.

If anyone can be said to have composed ‘Taps,’ it was Brig. Gen. Daniel Butterfield, Commander of the 3rd Brigade, 1st Division, V Army Corps, Army of the Potomac, during the American Civil War. Dissatisfied with the customary firing of three rifle volleys at the conclusion of burials during battle and also wanting a less harsh bugle call for ceremonially signaling the end of a soldier’s day, he likely altered an older piece known as “Tattoo,” a French bugle call used to signal “lights out,” into the call we now know as ‘Taps.’

Summoning his brigade’s bugler, Private Oliver Willcox Norton, to his tent one evening in July 1862, Butterfield (whether he wrote ‘Taps’ straight from the cuff or improvised something new by rearranging an older work) worked with the bugler to transform the melody into its present form. As Private Norton later wrote of that occasion:

General Daniel Butterfield ... showing me some notes on a staff written in pencil on the back of an envelope, asked me to sound them on my bugle. I did this several times, playing the music as written. He changed it somewhat, lengthening some notes and shortening others, but retaining the melody as he first gave it to me. After getting it to his satisfaction, he directed me to sound that call for ‘Taps’ thereafter in place of the regulation call. The music was beautiful on that still summer night, and was heard far beyond the limits of our brigade. The next day I was visited by several buglers from neighboring brigades, asking for copies of the music, which I gladly furnished. I think no general order was issued from army headquarters authorizing the substitution of this for the regulation call, but as each brigade commander exercised his own discretion in such minor matters, the call was gradually taken up through the Army of the Potomac.

‘Taps’ was quickly taken up by both sides of the conflict, and within months was being sounded by buglers in both Union and Confederate forces.

Then as now, ‘Taps’ serves as a vital component in ceremonies honoring military dead. It is also understood by American servicemen as an end-of-day ‘lights out’ signal.

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The Wages of Sin, and the Gift of God

Romans 3:23

”for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,” (Romans 3:23 NKJV)

The Wages Of Sin, And The Gift Of God

• wages — given by sin to its slaves: the ruin that follows a life of sin is fairly earned.

The word opsonia signify the food and pay given by generals to soldiers

• gift — John 6:39-40, 17:2-3, 1 Jn 5:11, Rom 2:7, 1 Pet 1:4, Rom 5:17, 21 — not called wages, because not merited as death is — “Estius thinks the word may be Translated a donative; because being freely bestowed, it may be compared to the donalives which the Roman generals, of their own good-will, bestowed on their soldiers as a mark of their favor.” (Macknight)

The necessary connection between sin and suffering — Rev. C. Stovel

I. The evils resulting from sin:

1. Loss of peace and calm;

2. Dissatisfaction with one’s own mind.

II. The external influences of sin:

1. Upon the one who perpetrates sin;

2. Upon others with whom he is associated.

III. Its effects:

1. Loss of public confidence;

2. The invention and support of those various arts of violence, by which we endeavor to secure safety, where confidence is lost.

The wages of sin and the rewards of grace — Michael-le-Faucheur

I. The masters in whose service men engage.

II. The rewards which these masters give to those who serve them:

1. Sin gives eternal death;

2. God gives eternal life — reunion to Himself.

III. The quality of these rewards. Learn:

1. How disgraceful a master is sin;

2. What remorse it causes;

3. What punishment it infliets

The soul’s capabilities for enjoying eternal happiness or enduring eternal woe — Rev. J. Aldis

I. No certain proof that the soul is not immortal is even pretended by the rejecters of the fact.

II. The immateriality of the soul, or its distinction from the material world.

III. Its capacity for independence of the mate rial world. Suggested by –

1. What we know of the great First Cause Himself;

2. The conscious identity of the thinking principle, in contradistinction from the endlessly changing character of the body.

IV. Some direct proofs of the soul’s immortality

1. The universality and congeniality of this belief to the human mind;

2. The manner in which it arises;

3. The uses to which it is applied;

4. The fact that, if the soul be not immortal, all the universe will, in time, decay, and nothing will be left;

5. The results of entertaining the opposite doctrine.

The wages of sin — Mr Marshall, author of the Gospel Mystery of Sanctification, having been for several years under distress of mind, consulted Dr Goodwin, an eminent divine, giving him an account of the state of his soul, and particularizing his sins, which lay heavy on his conscience. In reply, he told him he had forgot to mention the greatest sin of all, the sin of unbelief, in not believing on the Lord Jesus Christ for the remission of his sins, and sanctifying his nature. On this he set himself to the studying and preaching of Christ, and attained to eminent holiness, great peace of conscience, and joy in the Holy Ghost. Mr. Marshall’s dying words were these:- “The wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.”

The wrath to come — A servant who had made that improvement which might be expected from hearing the irreligious and blasphemous conversation continually passing at the table where he waited, took an opportunity to rob his master. Being apprehended, and urged by his master to give a reason for this infamous behavior, “Sir,” said he, “I have heard you and your friends so often talk of the impossibility of a future state, and that after death there was no reward for virtue, nor punishment for vice, that I was tempted to commit the robbery.” “Well,” replied the master, “but had you no fear of that death which the laws of your country inflict upon the crime?” “Sir,” rejoined the servant, looking sternly at his master, “what is that to you, if I had a mind to venture that ? You and your companions had removed my greatest terror; why should I fear the less ?”

“There is more bitterness following on sin’s ending than ever there was sweetness flowing from sin’s acting. You see that nothing but well in its commission, will suffer nothing but woe in its conclusion. You that sin for your profits will never profit by your sins.” — J. Dyer

“Sin is a basilisk whose eyes are full of venom; if the eye of thy soul see her first, it reflects her own poison and kills her; if she see thy soul, unseen, or seen too late, with her poison she kills thee; since, therefore, thou canst not escape thy sin, let not thy sin escape thy observation.” — Quarles

“Sins are like circles in the water when a stone is thrown into it, one produces another.” — M. Henry

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Living and Dying

Philippians 1:21

“For to me, to live [is] Christ, and to die [is] gain.” (Philippians 1:21 NKJV)

Living and Dying

• for…Christ — Gal 2:20, Col 3:3-4 — union with Him, devotion to His service (Ellicott)

• to…gain — Rev 14:13 — corporeal, mental, spiritual, eternal. Gain every way: better condition, employments, companions, place, rewards.

To die is gain — C. Payne

This is true of the Christian :-

I. Physically;

II. Mentally;

III. Morally;

IV. Socially;

V. Eternally.

Christian life — J. C. Jackson

These words indicate:–

I. Entire renouncement of self.

II. Absolute devotedness to Christ. Christ is worthy of this:-

1. Because He is a Divine Person, in whom dwells all the fulness of the Godhead bodily;

2. He is a Divine Saviour, and has done and suffered for us more than our gratitude and service can ever repay.

Christ, the believer’s gain in life and death — Dr Tuckney

I. Christ is a true Christian’s life. He is so:-

1. As the efficient cause — the Author — and Preserver of that life;

2. As the believer lives not to himself, but to Christ — lives to Him as the vital principle from which. he acts — as his example — as His honour is his main end.

II. Death is gain to the godly:-

1. It ends all sin;

2. It ends all misery, sorrow, and fear;

3. It perfects all graces;

4. It completes their happiness.

Application :-

1. Consider the believer’s blessedness in life and death;

2. Labour to attain to this happiness;

3. Be superior to fear of death;

4. Estimate all gain by this test — will it prove a gain in death?

The gain of dying — “I am no longer disposed,” says a Jew in writing to another, “to laugh at religion, or to plead that Christianity has no comforts in death. I witnessed the last moments of my worthy gardener, and wish I may die his death; and, if there is happiness in another life, this disciple of Jesus is assuredly happy. When the physician told him he was in extreme danger, ‘How,’ said he, ‘can that be, when God is my Father, Jesus my Redeemer, heaven my country, and death the messenger of peace? The greatest risk I run is to die, but to die is to enter into complete and endless bliss.’ His last words were, ‘I die, but what needs that trouble me? My Jesus is the true God, and eternal life.’”

“Death only supplies the oil for the inextinguishable lamp of life.” — Coleridge

“To look upon death as eternity’s birthday, is that which makes itnot only tolerable, but amiable. ‘Hie dies postremus aeterni natalis est,’ are words I admire more than any others that ever dropt from a heathen’s lips.” — Leighton.

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What I Dread About Dying

In his book, “Just as Long as I'm Riding Up Front,” retired undertaker Ray McIver tells of belonging to a Kiwanis club in the 1950's in the small town of San Marcos, Texas. Now the Kiwanians in that little town were a lively bunch, all except one old guy by the name of Roger Shelton. Roger came to the meetings late, sat by himself and rarely said a word. At the meetings, the club usually had some entertainment before taking care of business, and McIver recalls the time when they had a local barbershop quartet sing for them. McIver says he doesn't remember the name of the group except that they were nicknamed “The Funeral Four” because they had been asked to sing so many times at the local funeral home that they began to sound that way. “I'm sure they were pretty good when they started,” McIver says, “but they had been singing together for so long and had been asked to sing so many of those terrible “funeral home songs” that they sounded pretty bad.

On this particular night at the Kiwanis club meeting, the quartet had decided to sing “Fairest Lord Jesus,” sure to be a crowd-pleaser. But somehow, one of the singers started off on the wrong note and everything went downhill from there. What came out was one of the most discordant, out of key renditions of “Fairest Lord Jesus” that's ever been sung. In fact it was so bad that it was all the men in the room could do to keep from busting out laughing. Well, when it was over and the quartet sat down, nobody could think of anything to say except old Roger Shelton. Just loud enough for everyone in the room to hear, Roger said, “You know, that's what I dread about dying.”

Have you ever noticed that most people dread dying? Most people fear facing that day. Nobody wants to meet the Grim Reaper. Unless, of course, you believe the Easter story.

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Rare Real Estate Deal For Eternal Rest In Manhattan

Mark 15:46

It is barely a studio, really — just 8 by 10 feet, with a low ceiling and a terrible view. But as they say, in Manhattan it's all about location, location, location. So the underground chamber, fashioned out of marble and livable for eternity, could very well fetch more than $100,000 if a deal for its transfer is finally closed in the next few months. It is a burial vault in a historic cemetery in the East Village, and a truly rare prize in New York City for someone who can afford it.

For more than a century now, being laid to rest in Manhattan has been nearly impossible. In the mid-1800's, fear of disease led city fathers to prohibit traditional burials south of 86th Street, and most cemeteries in Manhattan eventually uprooted to Queens and Brooklyn. But someone whose ancestors happened to buy a $250 plot in New York Marble Cemetery in 1830 had access to a marble-sealed vault that could be used in perpetuity.

Now, for the first time in almost a century, one is for sale.

It is an unusual opportunity. The vault is the only one in the cemetery that has never been used. Almost none have changed hands over the years, even after families moved away and the cemetery fell into disrepair. Selling them was difficult, because all the descendants of the original buyer had to sign off.

An agreement, however, has now been reached in principle between the vault owners and a prospective buyer, according to cemetery trustees. They will describe the buyer only as fabulously wealthy and highly connected. But deciding on a fair price for the historical oddity has so far held up the transaction and left all involved scratching their heads.

Some insist that in light of Manhattan's overheated real estate market and predictions that cemeteries in New York City will run out of space soon, the vault could be worth close to $250,000. “If I had to guess, I'd say $50,000,” said Caroline DuBois, a trustee. “But it could be $10,000. It could be $100,000.”

Figure out how much an undeveloped half-acre plot in the East Village would sell for — no doubt a mind-boggling sum, said Anne Wright Brown, president of the board of trustees. Divide that by 156, for the number of vaults in the cemetery, and that should be the price. If the proper variances or adjacent properties were obtained, said Michael Soleimani, director of sales in the East Village for Massey Knakal Realty Services, the cemetery site could sell for more than $11.1 million on the open market.

Using a more ordinary yardstick, a plot in nearby Green-Wood Cemetery in Brooklyn, another historic cemetery, sells for about $7,000. But the underground vault at Marble, trustees point out, can hold 10 coffins at once and be used again and again as the contents inside disintegrate.

Whatever the final price, it will be a boon for one 86-year-old Long Island woman, who learned only recently that she was one of the sole living descendants of the vault's original buyer. “It's like reaching down in your trunk and finding the Hope Diamond,” Ms. DuBois said.

The cemetery, which is listed as a city and a national landmark, is the oldest nonsectarian burial ground in Manhattan. The vaults sold out virtually overnight after it opened in 1830, and some of New York's leading citizens ended up there, including Benjamin Wright, the chief engineer of the Erie Canal; Aaron Clark, New York's first Whig mayor, and Uriah Scribner, of publishing fame.

But the cemetery was quickly overshadowed by leafy, more rural burial grounds outside the city, and in recent years became choked with chest-high weeds.

Much of the credit for its recent revival goes to Mrs. Brown. In 1997, she stumbled upon the cemetery, tucked away behind some buildings and down a narrow alley near Second Avenue at Second Street, while tracking her family's genealogy. She has been determinedly learning of descendants ever since.

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This would be an expensive tomb but not the most exclusive (or costly for that matter). That distinction belongs to a tomb near Jerusalem. You could also contrast the extravagant preparation for burial versus what we have done to prepare for eternal life.

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Suffering and the Hope of Healing -- Part 2

John 11:25

Come with me to the scene. A tomb sealed quietly in Bethany near Jerusalem, pronouncing the finality of death, the victory of corruption over the body of a man. Two sisters weep, Mary and Martha, surrounded by professional mourners. On the outskirts of town, Jesus finally arrives with his band of men. The sisters come to Jesus and blame him for not coming sooner. They knew He had the power to heal. Why didn't he come and heal? He had healed many strangers. Why didn't he come heal a friend?

Jesus, composed and determined, said, “I am the resurrection and the life. He who believers in Me will live, even though he dies; and whoever lives and believes in me will never die. Do you believe this?” Martha's reply reveals that she did not understand his power or purpose, but she did know he was trustworthy: “I believe that You are the Christ, the Son of God, who was to come into the world.”

Then Jesus weeps with them. Ravi Zacharias notes that Jesus, having power to raise the dead, weeps with those who do not have that power. We do not have a high priest who cannot identify with our deepest sense of loss.

After the command was given to roll away the stone, Jesus prays aloud to his Father for all to hear and then utters the command that threw the world into gasping silence, “Lazarus, come forth!” And he came forth.

Suddenly the incredible power of death which paralyzed the world was broken. Death, though it had uttered volumes to silence the lives of scores of humans, did not have the last word. Another Word was spoken.

It is sad to see that, as this Word was spoken to penetrate the power of death, many began to plot to erase that Word. Philip Yancey points out this was the last miracle Jesus did.

But Lazarus would die again on another day. The Scripture is silent on the second physical death of Lazarus. But we can be assured that Lazarus, though the focal point of so much awe and scrutiny, was again laid in that tomb. The physical miracles of Jesus were always temporary ones. And the loss of a brother would come again to the hearts of the women.

Death's final word can only be overshadowed by a permanent resurrection! Lazarus' resurrection was not enough. The ultimate fulcrum of suffering and healing resides in Jesus Christ, who identified with our suffering by taking our sin and sorrow upon his shoulders at the Cross, and then burst forth in his resurrection to ensure a permanent hope for you and me.

The suffering of losing those we love lingers for a long time, even when we have everlasting hope. Gerald L. Sittser, who lost three generations of his family in one automobile accident, writes in his thoughtful and helpful book, A Grace Disguised, “Suffering engenders a certain degree of ambivalence in those of us who believe in the resurrection. We feel the pain of our present circumstance, which reminds us of what we have lost; yet we hope for future release and victory. We doubt, yet try to believe; we suffer, yet long for real healing; we inch hesitantly toward death, yet see death as the door to resurrection.... Living with this ambivalence is both difficult and vital. It stretches our souls, challenging us to acknowledge our morality and yet to continue to hope for final victory — the victory Jesus won for us in his death and resurrection, a victory that awaits us only on the other side of the grave.”

Though all people die, not all people will really live. Sittser writes, “The last chapter of the human story is not death but life. Jesus' resurrection guarantees it.” That is, for all who are willing to be part of his unquenchable hope and his never-ending story. This hope holds all of our sorrows in tension as we await our own permanent resurrection. Jesus Christ will utter, once and for all, “Come forth!”

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Copyright © 2003 Ravi Zacharias International Ministries (RZIM). Reprinted with permission. "A Slice of Infinity" is a radio ministry of Ravi Zacharias International Ministries.

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The Warm Arms of God

Bob Russell is a friend of mine who preaches in Kentucky. His father passed away a few years ago. The funeral was held on a cold, blustery, Pennsylvania day. The snow-covered roads precluded the funeral procession, so the director told Bob, "I'll take your dad's body to the grave." Bob couldn't bear the thought of missing his father's burial, so he and his brother and their sons piled into a four-wheel drive vehicle and followed the hearse. Here is how he described the event:

"We plowed through ten inches of snow into the cemetery, got about fifty yards from my dad's grave, with the wind blowing about twenty-five miles per hour, and the six of us lugged that casket down to the gravesite. ... We watched the body lowered into the grave and we turned to leave. I felt something was undone, so I said, "I'd like for us to have a prayer." The six of us huddled together and I prayed, "Lord, this is such a cold, lonely place. ..." And then I got too choked up to pray anymore. I kept battling to get my composure, and finally I just whispered, "But I thank you, for we know to be absent from the body is to be safe in your warm arms."*

Isn't that what we want to believe? Just as a parent needs to know that his or her child is safe at school, we long to know that our loved ones are safe in death. We long for the reassurance that the soul goes immediately to be with God. But dare we believe it? Can we believe it? I think so. I think Bob's prayer was accurate. When it is cold on earth, we can take comfort in knowing that our loved ones are in the warm arms of God.

I had been ministering in San Antonio for less than a year when one of our members asked me to speak at the funeral of his mother. Her name was Ida Glossbrenner, but her friends called her Polly.

As the son and I planned the service, he told me a fascinating story about the final words his mother spoke. Mrs. Glossbrenner was unresponsive for the last few hours of her life. She never spoke a word. But moments before her death, she opened her eyes and stated in a clear voice, "My name is Ida Glossbrenner, but my friends call me Polly."

Meaningless words of hallucination? Perhaps. Or, perhaps more. Perhaps Ida was, well, maybe she was at the schoolhouse doors of heaven. Her body behind her. Her soul in the presence of God. And maybe she was getting acquainted.

I don't know. But I do know this. When it is cold on earth, we can take comfort in knowing that our loved ones are in the warm arms of God. And when Christ comes, we will hold them, too.

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Barnum's Obituary

Several weeks before he died in his sleep, on April 7, 1891, circus legend P.T. Barnum read his own obituary. “The New York Sun” newspaper, responding to Barnum's comment that the press only says nice things about people after they die, ran his obituary on the front page with the headline, “Great and Only Barnum - He Wanted to Read His Obituary - Here It Is.”

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A Friend's Death

1 Corinthians 2:9

As I stood at the graveside of a friend who had battled cancer for several years, my mind raced back to preceding events, and how in His sovereignty God had used them.

It was that very cancer that had resulted in her receiving Christ, along with all of her family.

As I had previously met and prayed with her and her husband, their attitude was not critical, or unhappy, or as though they had been discriminated against, or "Why is God doing this to us?"

Instead, their attitude was, "We're grateful for this cancer because it helped all of us as a family to receive Christ and, in the process, receive not only new life for this world, but eternal life in heaven."

Also at the gravesite, a thought occurred to me for the first time in my life. I remembered that heaven is described as a place of such great beauty, where eye has not seen, nor ear heard, nor has it entered into the heart of man what God has prepared for those who love Him (1 Corinthians 2:9). Then I thought about other passages about heaven, its beauty and magnificence.

It suddenly occurred to me that the most beautiful, and exciting, and wonderful moments of my friend's life was her last breath, and the next second following her last breath.

That moment was more important than her birth, more important than her marriage, more important than the birth of her children, and more important than all the honors and successes of her life.

The most important moments of her existence were her death and the split-second following her death. The Scriptures say to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord. So, at that very moment, she was instantly in the presence of our great, incomparable, Creator God and fearless Savior, who died for her.

My departed friend, now with the Lord Jesus, had learned the greatest lesson in all the universe. That is, no matter what tragedies or heartaches may come our way, nothing can separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus (Romans 8:39). He is constantly reaching out to help us, to encourage us, and to bless us.

This realization further motivated me to tell everyone who would listen about Christ.

From this day on, may all of us take advantage of every opportunity to encourage others to also receive God's great love and forgiveness in Christ.

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I Will Fear No Evil

Psalms 23:4

Darkness upon darkness. Sorrow upon sorrow. Pain upon pain. Anguish upon anguish. That's death. Death is a fearful visitor, snatching away people who are precious to us and leaving us behind to mourn, grieve, and wonder. It blocks the light that before had shined so freely and easily on our lives.

Whether we're facing the prospect of dying, or dealing with the death of a loved one, death can be devastating. It can sap our energy, change our plans, overwhelm our soul, alter our outlook, test our faith, steal our joy, and challenge our assumptions about life's purposes. When we walk through the deep valley, we feel swallowed up by the shadow and come face-to-face with fear. The frantic emptiness of our loss threatens the comfort that previously originated from our trust in God, and so we grow afraid. Afraid of our future. Afraid to enjoy life again.

Yet in that valley, under that shadow, we can say to the Lord, "I will fear no evil; for You are with me" (Psalm 23:4). His loving arms never let us go. He is always with us. Slowly at first, but most assuredly, He provides comfort and release from the darkness. He gives light. He leads us out. Eventually, we escape the valley of the shadow. -Dave Branon

We need not ponder death with fear, Though what's ahead we cannot see; For we who put our faith in Christ Look forward to eternity. -Sper Death separates us for a time; Christ will reunite us forever.

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Death A Kindly Messenger

A preacher once said that we must recover from some of our blind prejudices concerning death, and must come to understand that it is not an enemy, but a messenger of God, and such a messenger can never be other than kindly. To Christ it must have been an infinite relief, and to us who follow in his footsteps it is the inn in which we sleep on the last night before we reach home. In the morning when we wake from slumber, we find ourselves on the brighter shore in the presence of the loved who have gone before. Such faith makes us peaceful, contented, and happy, glad to live as long as we may, and glad to go when the Father summons us.

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Life under Death

In the winter and early spring there seems to be no life in the garden and field and forest. Everything looks dead-twice dead. But it is not so really. Under the surface, roots are full of ferment, seeds are swelling, and within the bark of the trees is as much movement as in a city's noisy streets. Every fiber is tingling with vital force, and the sap is coursing along the minute channels, and all that is needed is the breath of the south wind, the warmth of the smiling sun, and the branches will burst into buds, and the earth will break out with laughing flowers. So in souls that seem dead, twice dead, the Spirit of God is often at work, and one earnest heaven-sent message calls out the buds of penitence and faith, and it is seen as a very garden of the Lord. Spiritual winter may hold a springtide of blessing and resurrection glory in its chill grasp, but He who commands both can easily transform the one into the other.

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The Dying Child and his Guardian Angel

The only child of a poor woman, a little boy of three years old, one day fell into a fire by accident, during his mother's absence from the cottage, and was so badly burned that he died after a few hours' suffering. The clergyman of the parish did not hear of the accident until the child was gone; but as soon as he knew of it, he went down to see the mother, who was known to be dotingly fond of the child, in order that he might comfort and console her. To his great surprise, he found her very calm, and patient, and resigned. After a little conversation, she told him how that God had sent her wonderful comfort. She had been weeping bitterly as she knelt beside her child's cot, when suddenly the boy exclaimed, 'Mother, don't you see the beautiful man who is standing there and waiting for me!' Again and again the child persisted in saying that 'the beautiful man' was waiting for him; and seemed ready and even anxious to go to him. And, as a natural consequence, the mother's heart was strangely cheered. She told her clergyman that she thought it must have been the Lord Jesus Himself; but he reminded her that it was more probably one of His heavenly host, seeing that we have our Blessed Lord's own warrant for believing that the angels in heaven care for, and wait upon, and minister unto Christ's little ones below.

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Live the Life

Hebrews 2:15

Paul tells of Christians who "through fear of death were all their lifetime subject to bondage" (Hebrews 2:15). There are some men and women who haunt their lives and make them cheerless for fear they will not be able to meet the king of terrors when he comes. Dear friends, learn from your Savior that no duty reveals itself till we approach it. The duty of death, when you approach it, will light itself up, you may be sure, and seem very easy to your soul. Till then do not trouble yourself about it. To live, and not to die, is your work now. When your time comes, the Christ who conquered death will prove Himself its Lord, and pave the narrow river to a sea of glass for you to cross. The work of life is living, and not, as we are so often told, preparing to die, except by living well.

-Phillips Brooks

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Death Is Checking Out of A Temporary Hotel

The Roman Cicero, who lived before Christ, was a very respected orator and politician. Without the insight of Christ's revelation, he said something very important concerning life and death: "I am sure that my friends who died before me did not cease to live. In reality, only their present state can be called life. I believe this because I am duty bound to do so by my logic and because of my respect for the greatest philosopher of the past. I consider this world as a place which was never meant to be our abode forever. I never considered my departure from this world as being chased out of my permanent residence, but rather as a checking out from a temporary abode such as a hotel or an inn."

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