Article on faith after disappointment. Basis of sermon on August 6, 1995.
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PASSAGES OF FAITH
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I. Disappointments can lead to a deeper faith.
A. Paula Rinehart loses a baby.
1) Other losses and disappointments followed.
2) (divorce of parents, son had learning disabilities...)
B. She no longer felt in control of her life.
1) Off-balance feeling.
2) Felt blind-sided by unexpected circumstances.
C. Questions and doubts resulted.
1) Edged toward skepticism.
2) Abundant life seemed empty.
II. Stages of adult development. (Gail Sheehy's book "Passages")
A. Adulthood is not climbing a hill and resting passively on top.
1) Each "passage" is marked by crisis or a turning point.
2) Each holds the potential for new growth. [or failure]
a) Doubt and disappointment are part of the process.
B. New Testament characters went through passages.
1) They spiral from illusion to disappointment to real hope.
2) They were failures at times, yet continued to follow.
III. Early faith: A faith that insists.
A. Rudimentary faith yearns for predictability.
1) "If I do this then God will..."
2) Our faith or obedience obligates God to fulfill our desires.
a) Jesus' disciples had this kind of faith.
b) "Vending machine" faith.
B. This kind of faith cannot bear the full weight of life.
1) It is subtle way of conforming God to our own image.
2) God is not like anything we can fathom.
a) We cannot put him in a box.
b) We must simply trust him.
3) Disappointment can lead us to deeper faith.
IV. Second passage: Disillusionment.
A. The turn from faith to disappointment.
1) It is usually unexpected.
2) We don't see the extent of our expectations until they are
not fulfilled.
B. Possible reactions:
1) Confusion and doubt. (John the Baptist; Jesus' disciples)
2) Cynicism and apathy.
C. End of faith can hold potential for its true beginning.
1) Better than holding to faith that conforms God to us.
2) Disappointment can bring out the feelings in our faith.
a) Especially denied (negative) feelings.
b) Rinehart turns from faith, yet is revived by Ps 139:8,10.
3) God transcends our understanding - and control, leading us
to trust in him.
V. A true hope.
A. Differences in faith.
1) Early faith focuses on doctrine, knowledge, sure answers.
2) Later faith has room for mysteries.
a) We journey blind.
b) In Acts, Paul waded through failure and disappointment.
B. Shift to experiencing God's hold on us.
1) Trust is not an easy thing.
2) Someday we will see him face to face. 1 Jn 3:2