Don't You Trust Me?
Girl comes in late after talking in driveway. Father angry with her. "Don't you trust me?" "Yes, to an extent. But I was young once and know the pressures you are under, and want to protect you." ....
Trust in Christian preaching centers on reliance upon God's character and promises, embracing faith over doubt (Proverbs 3:5; Hebrews 11:1). Illustrations often use vivid images such as a child trusting a parent, the safety found in God's hands, or the perils of misplaced trust, highlighting the tension between human uncertainty and divine faithfulness.
Girl comes in late after talking in driveway. Father angry with her. "Don't you trust me?" "Yes, to an extent. But I was young once and know the pressures you are under, and want to protect you." ....
God's ways seem strange to an unbelieving world - and even to us. Godly people learn to "walk to the beat of a different drummer." Gideon did strange things.
1. Faith means believing what God says about you. 6:12-16
God may see us differently than other people do.
God saw something in Gideon he did not see in himself.
2. Faith means deliberately trusting God's power, rather than your own.
Faith means deliberately moving beyond our comfort zone.
We need to be forced to depend on God.
Our weaknesses can be a showplace for the power of God.
3. Faith means depending on God's methods.
God's methods may not make sense, but they accomplish his purposes.
God's methods are directed toward dethroning the self, and crowning
Jesus Christ Lord of very area of life.
Question: are we on God's frequency?
Allyson had an adoptive brother, Brad. Very close. In college he found out he had a natural sister. He called his mother, who was subdued, and she told "Lally" about his "real" sister. This ticked her off. Brad brought sister home. Grandpa had taught Allyson to trust God when facing things that were too big, and she did. She pushed Brad's sister in pool to make her feel accepted. Brad told her in private, "Lally, she can't take one minute of what we have 'cause we spent a lifetime getting there."
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Christopher Pylant, 4, had a malignant tumor in brain. His parents told Dr. Benjamin S. Carson they knew Lord was going to use the doctor to heal their son. That morning Dr. Carson read Scripture and prayed. He had grown up in Detroit's inner city, went to a Seventh-day Adventist church, and had a godly mom who made him study and read instead of watching TV.
Carson had a violent temper and almost stabbed someone to death once because of it. A verse from Proverbs came to him - "He that hath no rule over his own spirit is like a city that is broken down, and without walls." (25:28). He prayed for God to take away his temper, and the Lord did.
The operation on Christopher showed the tumor had destroyed his brain stem, so Dr. Carson closed it up. Nevertheless, the parents said they were standing on God's promise. The boy improved slightly, so Carson operated again and found a thin brain stem left, flattened by the tumor. This time the tumor came off in layers. He remembered the words of his mother, "If you ask the Lord for something believing He will do it, then He will do it."
Christopher is doing OK today at age 8. Carson was the primary surgeon in another dramatic 22-hour operation on German Siamese twins. He reads Proverbs every morning and night. His middle name is Solomon.
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Update: http://www.cnn.com/SPECIALS/2001/americasbest/science.medicine/pro.bcarson.html
BRAIN SURGEON BEATS THE ODDS OF POVERTY
(CNN) -- Before becoming a world-renowned neurosurgeon, Ben Carson spent his early years in a poor neighborhood in Detroit, Michigan, suffering from low self-esteem. But after years of hard work, the 49-year-old doctor has become famous for his breakthroughs in pediatric medicine.
Carson captured worldwide media attention in 1987 for the successful separation of conjoined twins who shared a portion of the same brain. However, his dream of becoming a surgeon -- difficult work that involves life-threatening operations, long hours and desperate conditions -- did not emerge from the usual refined beginnings.
His parents, Robert and Sonya Carson, divorced when he was 8. His mother scraped by as a domestic worker to support him and his brother, Curtis.
Academics were not a priority for Ben Carson, whose lack of confidence mirrored his family's depressed living conditions. “My initial problem was that I thought I was stupid,” Carson said. “And everybody pretty much agreed. So my nickname was ‘Dummy.’”
Carson's mother had a different agenda for her two sons, choosing education as a way for them to escape poverty. She devised a strict schedule with limited time in front of the television and frequent trips to the library. In addition to their homework, the boys had to turn in two additional book reports each week. Carson recalled that his mother made check marks on the reports although -- unknown to him at the time -- she couldn't read then.
Soon after he began his extracurricular studies, Carson started to excel in class. He discovered he could make good grades but then had to confront another obstacle, his adolescent anger.
“When I was 14, I tried to stab another youngster with a camping knife because he angered me,” Carson said. “And fortunately under his clothing, he had a large metal buckle, and the knife blade struck with such force that it broke.”
Carson said he remembers thinking over the repercussions of this kind of behavior. “Your choices are jail, reform school or the grave. So there aren't any other choices. I didn't like any of those,” he said.
After that day, Carson no longer struggled with anger. He graduated from high school with several honors and would go on to earn his bachelor's degree in psychology from Yale University in 1973. He then received a medical degree from the University of Michigan School of Medicine in 1977.
USING HIS 'GIFTED HANDS'
At 33, he became the youngest chief of pediatric neurosurgery ever at Johns Hopkins Children's Center in Baltimore, Maryland. In his work, Carson reaches beyond medicine. His passion to inspire youth led to the founding of a scholarship fund to reward promising young adults.
Carson and his wife, Candy, are the parents of three sons, Murray, Benjamin Jr. and Rhoeyce. The highly regarded doctor is also a respected community and spiritual leader.
But his outstanding work with pediatric medicine is where some observers say he shines the most.
Christopher Pylant is living proof of Carson's so-called “gifted hands.” Eighteen years ago, the 4-year-old boy was given 18 months to live.
“He was a young boy from Georgia who had been diagnosed with a brain stem tumor, inoperable. The parents were told nothing could be done,” Carson said.
Desperate attempts at surgery with other doctors had taken a toll. Pylant's parents then learned about Carson and took their son to him.
Carol Pylant, Christopher's mother, recalls, “When he walked in, it was like we knew in our spirit, that this man was sent to us by God.”
The operation was a success. Nearly two decades later, Christopher Pylant is alive and well, attending college with hopes of becoming a minister.
FEELING THE WEIGHT OF THE WORLD
The Pylant surgery was early in Carson's career, but similar stories soon filled his case files.
In 1985, Carson operated on a 4-year-old girl who was suffering from 120 seizures a day. He performed a hemispherectomy, a complicated operation in which one hemisphere of the girl's brain was removed. The patient made a full recovery.
Two years later, the story of conjoined twins Patrick and Benjamin Binder of Germany caught Carson's attention. The boys were joined at the back of their heads, making separation seem impossible without loss of life.
Surgery of this kind had never been successful. Carson, with a team of 70, worked for five months to rehearse the operation. After 22 hours of surgery, the 7-month-old boys were separated successfully; however, they suffered from severe disabilities.
Twins joined at the head occur approximately once in every 2 million live births, according to the John Hopkins Medical Institutions.
In late 1997, Carson traveled to South Africa to face another conjoined twin case. Eleven-month-old Zambian twins Luka and Joseph Banda were joined at the head but were facing in opposite directions.
“There had been 13 previous attempts to separate twins like that, none of which had been successful,” Carson said.
Carson recalled a traumatic moment during this operation while speaking at the 2000 commencement at the University of Delaware. The twins had lost a considerable amount of blood.
“I really felt the weight of the world on my shoulders as I walked back into that operating room,” Carson said. “I didn't have my $350,000 Zeiss operating microscope that I have at Hopkins or my $400,000 3-D wand or my lasers or my ultrasounds or any of that fancy equipment. I just had my loupes and a scalpel and faith in God, and I went in there and said, 'Lord, it's up to you.’”
Carson was successful in separating the boys, and the twins did not suffer from any neurological deficits.
Carson has won acclaim for his work with conjoined twins. However, the modest man doesn't credit himself entirely but points a finger to faith as his guide.
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Seven Tips for Defeating Jealousy
1. Figure out the source of your jealousy. Have you been hurt? Cheated on? Dig deep down into your soul to find out why you might be jealous.
2. Communicate with your partner. Share your feelings of insecurity and isolation with him/her. Work together to end your jealous feelings.
3. Accept your partner for who s/he is. Don’t place unreal expectations on your partner.
4. Be positive and confident. Believe your partner when they tell you they love you, and realize YOU are worthy of love and affection.
5. Stay away from situations that trigger your jealousy.
6. Build your own separate support system of friends.
7. Consider talking to a professional to help you sort out your feelings.
The teaching of Jesus on being a child of God.
1. The status of children. (Modern and ancient world, and with Jesus)
2. We must become like children. (Humility and trust in the Father)
3. God as "Abba."
4. Our relationship with "Abba." (Must be a believer)
5. Returning to the Father.
6. Benefits of being a child of God.
Certainty of future salvation.
Everyday security.
Courage to submit to unpredictable divine will.
[Much of material is from Jeremias, New Testament Theology.]
We should believe great things.
Founder of modern missionary movement, William Carey:
Was an impoverished English shoemaker.
Converted and became a Baptist lay preacher.
Wrote a book on missions.
(Most Christians thought missions was only for Apostles.)
(God would do it in his own good time.)
Carey preached a moving sermon before a group of pastors:
"Attempt great things for God,
Expect great things from God."
One year later, 1793, Carey and his family sailed for India.
In five years he had translated the NT into Bengali.
By the end of his career he translated the whole Bible into
3 languages and founded a college that exists today.
Great difficulties:
No converts for 7 years.
His wife died of insanity.
A warehouse fire destroyed 30 years of translation work.
Through it all he never gave up the faith.
His secret for accomplishing great things?
"I can plod. I can persevere in any definite task. To this
I owe everything."
What can we accomplish if we set our faith to it?
Also see "From Jerusalem to Iraian Jaya" by Ruth Tucker, p. 114.
[see also 1114]
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Cancer is so limited:
It cannot cripple Love,
It cannot shatter Hope,
It cannot corrode Faith,
It cannot eat away Peace,
It cannot destroy Confidence,
It cannot kill Friendship,
It cannot shut out Memories,
It cannot silence Courage,
It cannot invade the Soul,
It cannot reduce Eternal Life,
It cannot quench the Spirit,
It cannot lessen the power of Resurrection.
If a disease has invaded your life, refuse to let it touch your spirit. Your body may have a great struggle, but keep trusting “GOD’S LOVE”. Your spirit will remain strong.
Abraham Lincoln on devotion to God, to a delegation of Presbyterians from Baltimore on October 24, 1863:
"I have often wished that I was a more devout man than I am. Nevertheless, amid the greatest difficulties of my Administration, when I could not see any other resort, I would place my whole reliance in God, knowing that all would go well, and that He would decide for the right."
David Thomas' daughter received a document of almost infinite worth to a typical fifteen-year-old: a learner's permit for driving. Shortly thereafter, David accompanied her as she drove for the first time.
In the passenger seat, having no steering wheel and no brakes, was the father, in her hands - a strange feeling for a parent, both disturbing and surprisingly satisfying.
As she looked to see whether the road was clear, they slowly pulled away from the curb. Meanwhile, Mr. Thomas checked to determine not only that, but to see if the sky was falling or the earth quaking. If getting from here to there was the only thing that mattered, he would gladly have taken the wheel. But there were other matters of importance here, most of them having to do with his own paternal "letting go."
He experienced a strange combination of weakness and power. His understanding of weakness was simple: she was in control, he was not. But she was able to move to this level of adulthood because of what David's wife and he had done. Their power had empowered her. Her newfound strength was attained from them. So as they pulled away from the curb, they all gained in stature.
Paul Stanley: As an infantry company commander in Vietnam in 1967, I saw Viet Cong soldiers surrender many times.
As they were placed in custody, marched away, and briefly interrogated, their body language and facial expressions always caught my attention. Most hung their heads in shame, staring at the ground, unwilling to look their captors in the eye. But some stood erect, staring defiantly at those around them, resisting any attempt by our men to control them. They had surrendered physically but not mentally.
On one occasion after the enemy had withdrawn, I came upon several soldiers surrounding a wounded Viet Cong. Shot through the lower leg, he was hostile and frightened, yet helpless. He threw mud and kicked with his one good leg when anyone came near him.
When I joined the circle around the wounded enemy, one soldier asked me, “Sir what do we do? He’s losing blood fast and needs medical attention.” I looked down at the struggling Viet Cong and saw the face of a 16- or 17-year-old boy.
I unbuckled my pistol belt and hand grenades so he could not grab them. Then, speaking gently, I moved toward him. He stared fearfully at me as I knelt down but he allowed me to slide my arms under him and pick him up.
As I walked with him toward a waiting helicopter, he began to cry and hold me tight. He kept looking at me and squeezing me tighter. We climbed into the helicopter and took off.
During the ride, our young captive sat on the floor, clinging to my leg. Never having ridden in a helicopter, he looked out with panic as we gained altitude and flew over the trees. He fixed his eyes back on me, and I smiled reassuringly and put my hand on his shoulder.
After landing, I picked him up and walked toward the medical tent. As we crossed the field, I felt the tenseness leave his body and his tight grasp loosen. His eyes softened, and his head leaned against my chest. The fear and resistance were gone — he had finally surrendered.
The God to whom we surrender is not our enemy. He heals and cares for everyone he takes captive.
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Important article on patience. (As well as others in issue)
I. Patience defined.
A. What it is not.
1) It is not blind resignation to unavoidable facts.
2) It is not dependent on a particular temperament.
B. What it is.
1) It must be authenticated by true peace.
2) It is based on quiet confidence in God.
a) We must realize our own limitations.
b) We must consciously submit to God's sovereignty.
II. Why patience?
A. God commands it.
1) The Bible considers it a priority.
B. God compels it by his own example.
C. Impatience has devastating consequences.
III. Evils of impatience.
A. Impatience causes bonds of relationships to break.
B. It makes difficult situations worse.
C. Our failure to deal with it leads to anger with God.
D. It leaves us prone to foolish decisions.
E. It makes us want to accept second best.
F. Impatience entices us to give up altogether.
IV. The road to patience.
A. We need to understand key concepts about man.
1) I am as much a sinner as the person I am annoyed with.
2) Christians need each other.
B. We need to understand key concepts about God.
1) When faced with tragedy, we need to be convinced of the
justice, mercy and power of our Savior.
2) We need to be convinced that God is all-powerful, and cares.
C. We need to exercise faith.
1) We must not only believe, but trust.
2) Spend more time in prayer and seeking God.
D. We need to be determined to continue doing what is right.
1) We must love and serve and praise God even when we feel
like giving up.
2) Those who want the Father's help must be doing His business.
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Sermon on "God's hands." John 10:24-29
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CAN YOU TRUST GOD'S HANDS?
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I. It began with a touch.
A. What does it mean to leave something in God's hands?
B. What kind of place is God's hands?
II. God's hands are a place of majesty and power.
A. To say that God has hands, is to say he can act with power.
B. Can a God with such awesome power save a bad marriage?
III. God's hands are a place of loving intervention.
A. God's hands have a power he wants to use.
B. God's hands are tender and take the initiative.
C. Our children can never go beyond the reach of a loving God.
IV. God's hands are a place of discipline.
A. You don't want God's hand to be "against" you. Acts 13:11
B. Ultimately, God disciplines us to save us.
C. Not all trouble is discipline from God.
V. God's hands are a place of fulfillment.
A. Acknowledge our helplessness and dependence on God.
B. Whatever we commit to God's hands are in safe keeping.
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Gladys Aylward, missionary to China more than fifty years ago, was forced to flee when the Japanese invaded Yangcheng. But she could not leave her work behind. With only one assistant, she led more than a hundred orphans over the mountains toward Free China.
In their book “The Hidden Price of Greatness,” Ray Besson and Ranelda Mack Hunsicker tell what happened:
“During Glady’s harrowing journey out of war-torn Yangcheng ... she grappled with despair as never before. After passing a sleepless night, she faced the morning with no hope of reaching safety. A 13-year-old girl in the group reminded her of their much-loved story of Moses and the Israelites crossing the Red Sea.
“But I am not Moses,” Gladys cried in desperation.
“Of course you aren’t,” the girl said, “but Jehovah is still God.”
When Gladys and the orphans made it through, they proved once again that no matter how inadequate we feel, God is still God, and we can trust in him.
Rather than burying our feelings, the Lament Psalms teach that it is okay to
be honest with God.
Principle 1: Recount your pain.
Principle 2: Recall God's character.
Recognizing denial.
Principle 3: Resolve to trust God.
Learning to lament.
I was preoccupied with studying when my secretary called to me. She said a young man wanted to talk to the “priest.” I had been trying to clear my desk so that I could go home and spend some time with my family, but I invited him to come into my office. He wanted the door closed. He cautiously scrutinized my office and asked, “Will you keep our conversation confidential?”
I assured him that I would. He immediately had my attention! I wondered what the next few minutes would bring. His presence distressed me. He was in obvious tension and struggle. He told me his name was Jerry Zilac. He told me his pregnant wife was sitting in the car. She was expecting twins in a couple of weeks, and he did not know what to do. He pleadingly asked, “Can you help me?”
The young man was obviously in great distress. I assured him that I would try to help. He began telling me an amazing story of his last two years. He had been in the military, and his wife was having emotional and mental difficulties. She was pregnant and about to deliver their first child. He applied for a medical discharge from the army. Military paperwork moved much slower than her pregnancy. Eventually he felt that neither he nor his wife could take the pressure any longer. In despair he just walked off the base to go help his wife in this crucial time. He chose to leave the army, to go AWOL — Absent With Out Leave!
He gently assisted his wife through the birth of the child but had to be careful where they went so that the Army would not find him and arrest him for being AWOL. He then explained how over the past two years they had crisscrossed the country working under assumed names and fictitious Social Security numbers. I now began to wonder if his name really was “Jerry” — or if that were just another assumed name. He told how they lived much of the time in their car. He explained how renting an apartment was quite difficult, because he feared the army would find him.
Now he was facing another major trauma! He had come to me, a total stranger, for some advice. What should he do? His wife was again on the verge of a nervous breakdown. He was confident that she would need hospitalization for the birth of twins. He was also confident that she could not make it without him present to give her emotional support. They could not contact their family. One set of parents had rejected them, and the other would probably turn them in to the army. He was tired of running. They desperately needed money. He needed a job. They needed an apartment. Most resources were closed to them because of his being AWOL. To turn himself in would mean prison! His wife was having plenty of difficulty taking care of a two-year- old. The thought of two new babies was almost enough to land her in a psychiatric ward. But to continue to remain AWOL was becoming more and more difficult.
What should he do? Turning himself into the army meant inevitable prison time. If his wife entered a mental ward, what would happen to his children? And she desperately needed hospitalization for the birth of the twins.
I tried to enter into the emotional trauma of his situation. That was difficult. I had never been in such a complicated situation. I explained to Jerry the importance of having a clear conscience and that eventually he would have to deal with his choice to leave the army without permission. He seemed to have the various alternatives correctly analyzed. What would God want him to do? I could not tell him what to do. He had to make that decision himself. But I could pray for him. I urged him to turn his life over to the Lord Jesus Christ. That was his greatest need. He was very open to the gospel and prayed and invited the Lord Jesus Christ into his life.
As he left, I felt awfully bewildered. No alternative was good for him. He was certainly between the proverbial “rock and a hard spot.” No choice in his life seemed to be very attractive. I had explained that God had power to enable him to endure prison. I explained that God had grace and power for his wife not to have a nervous breakdown. I explained that God had the ability to make the military look sympathetically upon his situation. I knew God had the ability to give him the peace of heart that he needed so intensely and the wisdom and guidance to make it through this maze of confusion. How my soul agonized for this young man. I realized I would probably never see him again. His name was probably fictitious so I would never be able to find him. He had declined my request for a mailing address.
Many of us have been or are presently facing the kind of life situation this man was facing. What can a person do? It is very easy to give simplistic answers. But, I must ask myself, “Is this the kind of answer I would want someone to tell me if I were in that situation?” Sometimes Christians give rather weak answers to complicated problems. However, the Bible provides valuable principles that can give us strong courage to face life’s most difficult situations.
I don’t know if you can imagine my amazement when a few weeks after talking to Jerry Zilac, he walked into my office. His countenance was totally different! The twins were born and were quite healthy. His wife was doing superbly. And the army? They did not comprehend his inquiry. Their records showed he had received a medical discharge the day after he had walked off the military base. They had never considered him AWOL.
Yes, he had created much of his own messy maze. Yet, when he chose to believe that Jesus Christ would make a way out, he discovered freedom. No more fear of being caught. No need for fictitious names and Social Security numbers. No need for fear when renting a place to live.
Wherever you are in life’s mazes, I urge you to choose to believe Christ can make a way out for you! Choose to let him guide you. Wait for the Lord. Be strong and take heart. He is absolutely trustworthy!
Christian financial adviser Gary Moore spent more than 15 years keeping pace with the daily fluctuations of Wall Street. But after the stock market crash in the fall of 1987, he came to realize money, upward mobility and other elements of the “American Dream” were unable to provide security and happiness.
That sent Moore on a biblical quest for insight which resulted in “The Christian’s Guide to Wise Investing.” One of the most important things he discovered in researching the Scriptures, he said, was God didn’t want 10 percent of his money — he wanted 100 percent.
“I also discovered that I could have avoided 90 percent of my investing mistakes over the years if I had spent a little more of my time reading Proverbs, Ecclesiastes, Luke and James,” he wrote in his book. “Proverbs and Ecclesiastes not only provide wise, perceptive, assuring and frank guidelines on the subject, but also prove that God addressed the subject of money and security very early in the history of the faith.” Among the verses he cites are Proverbs 1:33, 15:6, 20:21 and 28:20, and Ecclesiastes 5:10-12 and 11:1-2.
The author of these two books, Solomon, compares the pursuit of wealth to chasing the wind, he said, something proven by a survey of wealthy individuals. Although respondents had an average income of $194,000 and assets of $750,000, two-thirds felt guilty about being affluent and 40 percent did not feel financially secure. That is why it is so important for Christians to bring their lives, including financial planning, into conformity with biblical principles, Moore said.
“Most of the problems investors face can be attributed to one thing: self-centeredness,” he said. “Two hundred years ago, Adam Smith, the father of modern economics and a professor of moral philosophy, said that self-interest could be good for all of a society if it was enlightened by moral values. If not, self-interest could destroy a society.”
Christ wants people to place their trust in him, Moore added, not in savings, investments, institutions or governments. However, since God gave his children a role in cultivating his resources, he said, Christians should be concerned with earning financial returns that can benefit the Lord’s work.
For believers who want to multiply resources, he outlined these seven investment principles, which he said will keep use of money prudent but productive:
1) All investments involve risk.
The higher the promised return the greater the risk, including certificates of deposit and bonds. “Advertising, media listings, banks and brokers have successfully trained modern Americans to seek the greatest promises. Far, far too few of these mention little or anything about the risks involved.”
2) If it looks too good to be true, it is.
The largest single obstacle to investing success today, he said, is that there are too many ways to make average investments look very attractive; the best returns usually don’t come from the top of the lists offering the highest promised returns.
3) Be skeptical but not cynical.
While greed and corruption exist in the worlds of insider trading, junk bonds, penny stocks and commodity pits, most of these are far removed from the domain of conservative investors, he said. If investors stick to productive, conservative areas, Moore said, they will be safe.
4) What goes up will assuredly come down, at least for awhile.
Successful investors combine a faith in the future with a respect for, and acceptance of, the downs along the way, according to Moore. Thus, he said, those who spend time trying to predict the future would do better evaluating why successful investors make money year after year.
5) Fear and greed may drive Wall Street, but they shouldn’t motivate Christians.
“Scripture teaches that we are to free ourselves from fear of the future and from greediness,” he said. “We should be productive and prudent with money. Our investing will benefit greatly by remaining confident yet conservative.”
6) If everyone is doing it, it’s wrong.
“The hardest thing to learn about investing is that following the crowd never works,” Moore said. Christians have always been called upon to be different from the world and “faith will help you practice this principle, and your investing will benefit.”
7) Keeping faith with others is good business.
“Socially responsible investing should be the cornerstone for any Christian who handles money,” he said. Moore noted a national study showed over a 30-year period that investing in companies with a written code of principles returned nine times more than a composite of Dow Jones stocks.
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When missionary John Paton went to live in a remote corner of Africa, he taught the native villagers the Christian faith. John Paton was the first person to teach the villagers about Jesus Christ. As his work progressed, he baptized some new converts and started a church. Then he began the difficult, exhausting task of translating the Bible into their own language. With the Bible translated into their own language the people could read and study the Bible.
As John Paton carefully and painstakingly translated the Bible, he realized that they had no word in their language for the word “believe.” This presented quite a problem. “Believe” is an important word in our Bibles, appearing more than 200 times in the New Testament alone. Paton was stuck. How could he translate the Bible for the people without the word “believe?”
One day, as he was grappling with this dilemma, one of the villagers came in for a visit. The native villager was exhausted from a hard day's work in the hot sun. He sat down and leaned back in the chair. In his native language the villager said how wonderful it is when you are tired to “lean your whole weight on something.” It was as if lightning had struck. That was the image Paton was searching for. “Lean your whole weight on something” was what it meant to believe. Now he could continue his work translating the Bible.
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(James W. Moore, When All Else Fails Read the Instructions. Dimensions for Living: 1993, p. 25.)
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Another version from the Fredericksburg Illustration Collection:
When John Paton was translating the Bible for a South Seas island tribe, he discovered that they had no word for trust or faith. One day a native who had been running hard came into the missionary's house, flopped himself in a large chair and said, “It's good to rest my whole weight on this chair.” “That's it,” said Paton. “I'll translate faith as 'resting one's whole weight on God.'”
What happens when we leave our lives in God's hands.
1. God's hands are a place of majesty and power.
2. God's hands are a place of loving intervention.
3. God's hands are a place of safety.
4. God's hands are a place of discipline.
5. God's hands are a place of fulfillment.
Further development of article (basis of 11/2/97 sermon):
I. "Leave it in God's hands now." Trite advice?
A. We are driven by a need to DO something.
B. What does it mean to leave something in God's hands?
1) Do we ever really do it?
2) What kind of place is God's hands?
II. God's hands are a place of majesty and power.
A. Bible passages.
1) Habakkuk - rays flash from his hand.
2) Isaiah - his hands spread out the heavens.
3) Exodus - his hands shattered the enemy.
B. Can a God with such awesome power save a bad marriage?
1) Author's husband was in a mental hospital last 5 years.
2) Our lives may change, but Christ does not.
a) His grace is still sufficient for our weaknesses, ALL
of them.
III. God's hands are a place of loving intervention.
A. God's hand is outstretched toward us.
1) Themes of rescue.
B. Our children can never go beyond the reach of a loving God.
1) What if they don't want to be held onto?
2) Like a good parent, God still doesn't let go.
C. God takes the initiative.
1) He makes the first move.
2) Even when we are not looking for help.
IV. God's hands are a place of safety. [goes with above?...]
A. We can trust our loved ones' safety to a caring God.
V. God's hands are a place of discipline.
A. Harm can still befall us. Bad things do happen to good people.
1) God censors trouble.
2) Everything ultimately happens for our good.
B. Troubles can be an indication of God's hand on us.
1) He is shaping us, like a potter shapes clay.
VI. God's hands are a place of fulfillment.
A. We often experience unfulfillment. (rejected book)
1) Questions arise.
a) Are God's hands a graveyard of broken dreams?
b) When we leave something in God's hands, don't we have
to take ours off?
c) Can we trust God to do what is best?
2) Acknowledging God is not shrugging off responsibility.
B. Acknowledge our helplessness and dependence on God.
1) When we are in the right frame of mind, God can guide us
into the appropriate action, at the appropriate time.
2) A calm attitude, greater understanding, and courage results.
C. Whatever we commit to God's hands are in safe keeping.
How much faith do you have? It’s not an easy question, even apart from the fact that it is open-ended (you could always have more, of course). What makes it harder is that “faith” has so many dimensions. We receive Christ as our Savior “by faith” and we are told to walk in Him “by faith.” Yet that faith is “the gift of God” and not our own creation, according to Ephesians 2:8. In addition, John 1:12-13 tells us that, although we must “receive” Christ, our new birth is not “of human decision.” We are supposed to have faith, but it doesn’t come from us. What a paradox!
Faith is really not a question of quantity. In Luke 17:3-6 the disciples ask Jesus to increase their faith. he tells them their faith doesn’t have to be large - a bit as small as a mustard seed can move mountains. And Jesus does not say, “If you have ENOUGH faith,” but simply, “If you HAVE faith.” True faith is not a matter of personal strength, not an issue of quantity, and not even a question of how much certainty we can muster to meet our needs. It doesn’t require you to grunt. Instead, biblical faith is dependence upon the PERSON in whom we claim to believe. The key to a life of faith lies in focusing our attention on God, our Source, instead of on the answers to our prayer. True faith focuses not upon the believer’s ability to believe, but upon the grace and faithfulness of God.
As we consider our lives and the world around us, we can choose to respond according to circumstance or according to conviction. Those who evaluate the goodness of God on the basis of circumstance will waver in their understanding of His nature. They cry, “Why, God? If you love me, and if you’re good, why did this happen to me?”
Those who evaluate God’s nature in light of what the Bible says about His character, however, will develop a conviction of His faithfulness that cannot be swayed by the winds of circumstance. In difficulty and hardship, such faithful Christians say, “Lord, I know you love me. I know you’re good. I don’t understand, but I choose to trust you.” Take the weight off your own shoulders and place it where it belongs.
[see #3947 for outline]
Faith that pleases God is not judged by its measure but by its focus.
1. The exalted order of [grunting faith].
2. The question of quantity.
3. Focusing on the unseen.
4. The Lord of Creation.
5. The Lord of Justice.
6. The Lord of Faithfulness.
7. The Lord of Salvation.
8. The Lord of Stability.
9. The Lord of Resurrection.
10. The thrill of victory, the victory of defeat.
[see #3845 for first portion, word-for-word]
In his sermon "Valley of Death's Shadow," I felt Leith Anderson's sincerity as he preached about overcoming fear:
"I have seen men and women walk through evil that stinks," says Anderson, "and they're strong and fearless. And I've experienced it myself.
"There have been times when I've been lost, away from home, and panic struck my heart -- and yet alone I experienced the wonder of the comfort of the Shepherd.
"There have been situations in my home and family that brought me to a point of worry that I don't even have any words to begin to describe -- only to discover that the Shepherd was there and that it was okay; there was a calmness of heart.
"I've laid on my bed, and I have wept for people in the horrors of their circumstances and somehow felt responsible that I've got to do something to help -- yet knowing that their needs far exceeded any capacity or capability that was mine, and seeing and feeling the transformation of those tears to trust.
"So in my own limited way, I know what it's about to fear no evil. But if I'm going to be candid with you, let me tell you that it's often not like that, that I forget that the Shepherd is there, that I reach out and take the problems that a moment ago I thought I gave away, and I pull them back, and I hold them close, and that I struggle and grope with them. I let my imagination run wild, and I can worry myself sick about the evils that endanger me and those I love.
"What I need to do always is what we all need to do always: trust the Shepherd. Understand, that's not some power of positive thinking; that's not some manipulative self-talk; that's not some Yoga technique. It is hard reality that I will fear no evil because the Shepherd is with me.
"He's here. He's here! He keeps his promises -- he really does, in even the deepest and the darkest of valleys."
Through his presentation, Anderson's congregation knows its shepherd has tested the principles he preaches.
[see #3957 for original article on preaching with illustrations]
I read about a photographer for a national magazine who was assigned to "shoot" one of those big Western forest fires. He was told that a small plane would be waiting to fly him over the fire.
When he got to the airport, sure enough, he found a little Cessna waiting. He jumped in with his equipment and yelled, "Let's go!" The pilot, the plane, and the photographer were soon in the air.
"Fly over the north side of the fire and make several low passes," the photographer shouted.
"Why?" the nervous pilot asked.
"Because I'm going to take pictures! I'm a photographer, and photographers take pictures," was the reply.
After a long pause, the pilot tensely asked, "You mean, you're not the instructor?"
The pilot and the photographer both trusted someone to do something they could not do. Luckily, in this case, thanks to communication by the air traffic control, they were able to get back to the airport.
In life, trust is often put in places, people, and things that are not worthy of such trust. People have entrusted friends, advise columnists, talk shows, spouses, organizations, and a host of other people and things - even their own feelings - to direct them. Unfortunately, many people do not learn until it is too late that their trust has been misguided and misplaced. Many decisions lead not to safety but to destruction!
Jesus warned, "Beware of false prophets, which come to you in sheep's clothing, but inwardly they are ravening wolves" (Matt 7:15) and "if the blind lead the blind, both shall fall into the ditch" (Matt 15:14).
Our authority should be in God and His Word and not in preachers, friends, relatives and others. People can knowingly or unknowingly deceive others. God's word is the only safe guide.
#4109
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Moving from self-centered to God-centered faith. Trusting God to shape our
lives.
1. Getting to nowhere.
2. The high road of faith.
If I want to center myself in God, then I trust that God's view of life is
higher than mine.
3. God's view of life is higher than mine.
4. God is never silent.
5. God works in all circumstances.
6. God's purposes are higher.
7. What kind of faith am I walking in?
#4116
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Do you ever get impatient? Ever find yourself frustrated by the way things are going -- or not going? Ever feel dissatisfied with your circumstances and wish they were better? Ever feel there’s not enough time in the day? Not enough energy to do it all? Not enough money at month’s end? Not enough of you to go around? If so, then welcome to the club. The club of discontented people.
For many of us, impatience, frustration, and dissatisfaction are part of our daily routines. We want control, so we demand that our surroundings adjust to us, rather than vice versa. What we don’t like, we change. We change the channel. We change jobs. We change churches. We change friends. We know we “should” be content, but we’re not. We think that if our circumstances change (for the better, of course) then we will be satisfied and content. Then we will have enough.
Contentment, I’m learning, is a state of the heart, not a state of affairs. It is available to everyone -- no matter what the circumstances.
Paul deals head on with the topic of contentment in Phil. 4:11-13. Let’s look at the key phrases in this passage.
“FOR I HAVE LEARNED...”
Contentment is learned. It isn’t natural. We’re not born with it. Our tendency is to look for things that will make us content, rather than putting forth the discipline it takes to learn how to be content. The first time we took our kids skiing, my one daughter made it clear that she didn’t want to “learn.” She just wanted to ski like the rest of the people on the slope. Skiing isn’t like that, and neither is life. It takes willingness and effort to learn anything. We can’t just wish things into existence. Contentment is no different. It, too, must be learned.
“TO BE CONTENT...”
Contentment is internal. It’s being satisfied, having an ease of mind. Contentment means detachment from anxious concerns over the externals of life. It’s a calm acceptance of whatever life brings -- an attitude of “it’s okay.” The person who is content has internal sufficiency regardless of outward circumstances. Paul, even with his hands in chains, accommodated himself to his situation.
In their book Life 101, John-Roger and Peter McWilliams state it this way: “Until we truly accept everything, we cannot see clearly.” They go on to explain that accepting is not condoning, giving consent, agreeing with, or even liking what is. Acceptance is an internal conclusion that the way things are is the way things are. That these exact circumstances are allowed by God and, right now, it’s enough.
Several years ago I was directing a winter program for The Navigators’ Eagle Lake Camp. The plan for the day was to cross-country ski to a place called Kite Lake. It was supposed to be a pleasant trek, with nice snow and nice weather. What we experienced was Antarctica! The route was icy and rocky. The weather was frigid, with blowing snow. As the guide, I was upset and disappointed. It wasn’t supposed to be this way. I remained stuck in my misery until a camper smiled and said, “You know, it just doesn’t get any better than this!” My tension broke and I laughed. My focus shifted from what wasn’t going right to an internal voice that said, “It’s okay. This is a real adventure!” The weather hadn’t changed, our food was still frozen, but I accepted the circumstances and was able to relax. I was amazed at the sense of contentment I enjoyed for the rest of the day.
“WHATEVER THE CIRCUMSTANCES...”
Contentment is surrender. Paul could be content, he could be patient, because he had given up any right or demand on the people and circumstances around him. For us, when life goes wrong, our impatience shouts, “It’s not my way, not my timing, not my outcome!” Contentment, on the other hand, holds out open hands before a holy God and says, “God, Your way, Your timing, Your outcome.”
But surrender cuts against our grain. We want control, choice, and to be treated fairly. The paradox is this: Contentment is gained only when we give up control and accept whatever comes. Viktor Frankl, a Jewish psychiatrist who survived the Nazi concentration camps of World War II, put it like this: “The way in which a man accepts his fate and all the sufferings it entails, the way in which he takes up his cross, gives him ample opportunity -- even under the most difficult circumstances -- to add a deeper meaning to life.”
The notion of surrender first began its journey into my heart many years ago on a train trip back from Mexico City. The train derailed. As I waited for it to be fixed, I began to worry about my wife, who was supposed to meet me at the station on the Mexico-Arizona border. I was more than 12 hours late, and she was alone. I felt helpless -- I could do absolutely nothing to keep her safe. I couldn’t even contact her. It was then that God’s truth whispered in my ear, “Give up trying to control the circumstances, Tim. Let Me be the One in control. Surrender.” I had no choice. I had to surrender her safety into God’s hands alone. At that moment I felt at peace. I had begun my journey of surrender.
Since that time, other difficult circumstances have come into my life, but the conversation has remained similar. Time and again I hear God’s voice saying, “Tim, let Me be in control. Surrender. Accept My way, My timing, My outcome. Trust Me alone.” Continued surrender comes more easily when I sit silently before God and let Him do the talking.
“THE SECRET...”
Paul was familiar with need. He was familiar with plenty. They were his “friends,” that’s how well he knew them. He was intimately aware of what it was like to be well fed and to be hungry. He also knew what it was like to be beaten, stoned, hunted, shipwrecked, and imprisoned. But something internal sustained him through life’s ebb and flow. He had learned something during his rough-and-tumble life that allowed him to have peace. What he found was not easily understood, then or now. It was hidden from the casual observer -- he calls it a secret. Like Paul, we can be content wherever we find ourselves if we know the same secret -- a secret found when we make these three truths an active part of our daily walk.
1. Remember the cross. “For to me, to live is Christ” (Phil. 1:21). The cornerstone of contentment is the cross. Remember what it has done in your life. Because of the cross you are freed from the chains of sin. Because of the cross, your salvation is secure. Because of the cross, your friendship with God is open. Because of the cross, your future is heaven. Isn’t that enough? What else really matters? The really big things of your life are taken care of!
Much of my time as a Christian counselor is spent sharing these truths with my clients. God has extended grace and mercy to anyone who will believe. That grace is enough! Do you need to be afraid of others’ opinions of you? No. Do you need to defend yourself after being defrauded by a friend? No. Will it hurt? Probably. “The Lord is my light and my salvation -- whom shall I fear? The Lord is the stronghold of my life -- of whom shall I be afraid?” (Ps. 27:1).
Do I need to get an ulcer over my financial uncertainties? Ouch! God always hits close to home, but the answer is still no. I remind myself of these truths every time I can. I write scriptures in my journal as a visual reminder to myself. I picture myself kneeling beside the cross every time I pray.
Contentment comes when we believe (not just pretend) that nothing else matters. That can happen only as we “turn our eyes upon Jesus” and let “the things of earth grow strangely dim.” Everything looks important until we place it next to the cross. Then, only the cross remains important.
2. Let go of the past. “Forgetting what is behind...” (Phil. 3:13). We cannot hope to ever gain contentment while holding on to past failures and mistakes -- ours or others’. There’s a difference between ignoring past wrongs and forgetting them. Forgetting means that you work through the process of forgiving others and allowing God’s forgiveness to cover you. We need to let go of “I should have” or “If only” or “If they hadn’t.”
True forgiveness requires that we see the wrongs clearly (sometimes the hardest part of the process), articulate them, release them to God, and then walk away from them. This process may take a moment, a month, or even longer. It may require the assistance of a friend, pastor, or professional counselor. Don’t put it off. Without forgiveness you will never have a contented heart.
3. Take one day at a time. “And my God will meet all your needs...” (Phil. 4:19). The final element of Paul’s secret is to wait on God. We need to surrender our timetable and future to Him.
Anxiety builds inside our minds when we look into the future, when we try to manage more days than today. Let me illustrate. I enjoy rock climbing. When I’m climbing, I’m not afraid of climbing. I’m afraid of falling, which is in the future -- and may or may not happen. If I fall -- and while I’m falling -- I’m not afraid of the fall (it’s a rush!), I’m afraid of the stop at the bottom. This time it’s a guaranteed future, but still in the future. I will stop, but what kind of stop is still unknown. Will I hit the ground or will the rope catch me first? I don’t know ... yet. You see, if I’m going to climb well, I must keep my focus on the present moment only. If I allow my thinking to wander to “Oh no, what if I fall?” I only increase my chances of disaster.
Likewise, contentment requires our focus to be in the present. Much of our frustration, tension, and worry would be dissolved if we would practice the words of Jesus: “Do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own” (Mt. 6:34). We must live one day at a time, one moment at a time.
“I CAN DO EVERYTHING...”
If we have learned this kind of contentment, we can “do” hunger, adversity, disappointment, and hardship. We can “do” plenty, comfort, and success. It’s an attitude of the heart.
When it is time for action, we act out of obedience to God, not out of a need to control or change our surroundings. We act with confidence because we don’t need to worry about the outcome. We’ve already put that in God’s hands, and He can do with it what He wills. Regardless of what we do, win or lose, we remain content, whatever the circumstances (see Heb. 11:39). How can we do this?
“THROUGH HIM WHO GIVES ME STRENGTH.”
There’s no breath between these last two phrases. The sentence literally reads, “All things I can do in the (One) empowering me, Christ.” The punch line of the entire thought is Christ. When His powerful presence is consuming us, we can do all things. Though our humanity may falter, our souls remain unshakable through the living power that’s a result of total abandonment to Him. Without surrender to Christ’s control, we can do nothing of lasting value (Jn. 15:5). There must come a holocaust to our will. Otherwise the pain, failure, injustice, and suffering that comes with this life will destroy us. We may still look good outwardly, but our souls secretly become inebriated with bitterness, doubt, and a need to pretend. My human determination helped me endure the wind, ice, and frozen food of that ski trip. My emotional toughness will get me through my present job loss. But only Christ can generate a contented spirit in me amidst it all.
I am continually moved by the old hymn “It Is Well with My Soul,” written by Horatio G. Spafford. He penned these words as he looked out over the same waters where, just a few weeks earlier, his four daughters had drowned during a transAtlantic voyage.
When sorrows like sea-billows roll;
Whatever my lot,
Thou hast taught me to say,
“It is well, it is well with my soul.”
I love my two daughters dearly. Could I write these words? Could I surrender my heart to God’s way, God’s timing, God’s outcome? Could I tell God with an honest face, “It’s okay, I accept, I have enough”? My eyes tear as I write this. But back to the present. The hospital where I’ve been working “reorganized,” and I’m out of a job right now. I’m having to surrender my financial security to God today. I’m challenged to believe that “whatever my lot” I have enough right now. I’m learning to take a deep breath and say, “It’s okay” (even when I don’t have to look good for anyone). Having things well with my checkbook is not a prerequisite to having things well with my soul.
The Apostle Paul knew injustice and hard times. Frankl knew pain and suffering. Spafford knew sorrow and loss. Yet in the midst of chaos they also knew contentment. How about you? Is life giving you enough? Or do you think you need more?
When both your mind and soul are surrendered to the sovereign Lord of the Universe, you can do -- and accept -- all things that He allows into your life. You can learn the secret of being content, whatever the circumstances. The cross can be all that matters to you. Your heart can begin to whisper, “It is well with my soul” and live like it. It’s not an easy road, but through Christ we have the strength to take that journey -- the only journey that will bring true contentment and peace.
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TIM SANFORD is a psychotherapist in private practice. He also works with adolescents at Rapha Christian Psychiatric Hospital in Colorado Springs, Colorado. Tim and his wife, Becky, also assist with an InterVarsity chapter at the United States Air Force Academy.
[See #4240 for quiz on contentment from this article]
How concretely can we trust God?
I. God's promises can be problematic.
A. What he seems to promise doesn't always come true.
B. Despite his promises of protection, Christians still get hurt.
II. The nature of the promises.
A. Requirements of promises.
1) Some are conditional upon our obedience.
2) All require our faith.
B. General promises. John 3:16; Phil 4:19
1) For many people, of all times.
C. Specific promises.
1) To certain individuals, for unique situation, at a given time.
2) The Holy Spirit impresses them on our hearts.
a) Claim them carefully.
1> Don't read your own wishes into them.
b) Read them rightly.
1> Look at the context.
2> Don't be purely subjective.
3) Daniel's example.
a) He comes across God's promise through Jeremiah.
b) He prays about it.
1> Opens with confession.
2> Reviews with God the situation they are in.
3> Reminds the Lord of his character.
c) He makes his request based on what God has promised.
1> He requests, but does not demand.
III. Unfulfilled promises.
A. Obedience on our part is required.
B. Undermined by unbelief. Mark 6:5-6
C. Our lack of patience.
1) We need the proper heart attitude for claiming the promises.
IV. The nature of the Promiser.
A. When God says "no" He has a reason.
1) The prayer of Gethsemane received a "no" answer.
a) Not because Jesus was sinful or request invalid.
2) He let his Son die on the cross for a higher goal.
B. We must submit to a higher will than our own when we pray. Mk 14:36
1) "God's will is what you would choose if you knew everything
He knows."
V. Standing on the promises. Psalm 119:140
A. God's promises demonstrate his goodness and faithfulness.
1) They also glorify himself.
B. Whether God grants them or not, our deep confidence is that his
perfect will, founded in his love for us, is working
itself out.
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After the potluck supper Jesus decided that the disciples needed a boat ride. So he sent them on ahead to cross the lake while he stayed behind to pray.
Bear in mind that the disciples were experienced fishermen. No doubt many of them had grown up in a boat. Crossing the lake, they were in their element. The test came at the point of their greatest confidence and competence!
The potluck supper had ended in the late afternoon, so they departed with plenty of time to cross the 4.5 mile lake with time to spare before sunset. The weather had something in store that they had not anticipated. When we pick up the story at verse 24, it was already 3 a.m. in the morning.
Exhausted, wet, cold and hungry -- they were a sorry lot. Then somehow through the gloom they saw Jesus walking toward them over the water. The storm itself was no cause for fear -- they’d been in storms before. The rough waters didn’t frighten them -- they’d navigated worse. But just at the point of their greatest confidence they were faced with something they’d never seen before. A man, walking on the water.
You remember the rest of the story. Peter gets out, begins walking on the water, grows fearful when he looks around and sinks. We read the story as if Peter were the loser. But Peter was the winner. He learned that when you step out of the boat in obedience to the LORD’s command, he’ll rescue you if you sink. Peter was the first human ever to walk on the water; such a thing had never happened before.
The losers were those who stayed in the boat! Sure, Peter was chastized for having little faith (v. 31), but he alone had the courage to trust the LORD, to venture out of the boat and learn that you can always rely upon Jesus to rescue when you’re about to sink.
What’s your boat, Christian? Where do you need to step out, risk sinking, and rely totally upon Jesus?
Go ahead, swing that leg up over the rail.
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Adapted from an article by Larry McCracken, General Director of the Nortwest CBA.
Dear Friend,
This pump is all right as of June 1932. I put a new sucker washer in it and it should last for at least five years. But the washer dries out and the pump has to be primed. So under the white rock to the north I've buried a bottle of water, out of the sun and corked up.
There's enough water in the bottle to prime the pump, but not if you take a drink first. Pour about one-fourth of the water and let it soak the leather washer. Then pour in the rest medium-fast and pump like crazy. You'll get water.
This well has never run dry. Have some faith. Then, when you've pumped all the water you need, fill the bottle and put it back where you found it for the next feller who travels this path.
Desert Pete
Horror gripped the heart of the World War I soldier as he saw his lifelong friend fall in battle. Caught in a trench with continuous gunfire whizzing over his head, the soldier asked his lieutenant if he might go out into the "No Man's Land" between the trenches to bring his fallen comrade back.
"You can go," said the Lieutenant, "but I don't think it will be worth it. Your friend is probably dead and you may throw your own life away." The Lieutenant's words didn't matter, and the soldier went anyway.
Miraculously he managed to reach his friend, hoist him onto his shoulder, and bring him back to their company's trench. As the two of them tumbled in together to the bottom of the trench, the officer checked the wounded soldier, then looked kindly at his friend. "I told you it wouldn't be worth it," he said. "Your friend is dead, and you are mortally wounded."
"It was worth it, though, sir," the soldier said.
"How do you mean, 'worth it?'" responded the Lieutenant. "Your friend is dead!"
"Yes sir," the private answered. "But it was worth it because when I got to him, he was still alive, and I had the satisfaction of hearing him say, 'Jim, I knew you'd come.'"
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From This Little Light of Mine, from A Cup of Chicken Soup for the Soul, Copyright 1996 by Jack Canfield, Mark Victor Hansen & Barry Spilchuk
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Another version by Max Lucado:
Once, two friends were fighting together in a war. The combat was ferocious, and many lives were being taken. When one of the two young soldiers was injured and could not get back to the trenches, the other went out to get him against his officer's orders. He returned mortally wounded, and his friend, whom he carried on his back, was dead.
The officer looked at the dying soldier, shook his head, and said, “It wasn't worth it.”
The young boy, overhearing the remark, smiled and said, “But it {was} worth it, sir, because when I got to him he said, 'Jim, I knew you'd come.'“
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Max Lucado, On the Anvil (Wheaton, IL: Tyndale House Publishing Inc. 1985), 127
How John D. Rockefeller was taught to trust people:
"Perhaps out of a self-protective instinct, Bill [Rockefeller's father] taught his children to be wary of strangers and even of himself. When John was a child, Bill would urge him to leap from his high chair into his waiting arms. One day, he dropped his arms, letting his astonished son crash to the floor. "Remember," Bill lectured him, "never trust anyone completely, not even me."
His employees tended to revere John D. Rockefeller, Sr., and vied to please him. As one said, "I have never heard of his equal in getting together a lot of the very best men in one team and inspiring each man to do his best for the enterprise.... He was so big, so broad, so patient; I don't believe a man like him comes to this world oftener than one in five or six hundred years."
Rockefeller worked by subtle hints, doling out praise sparingly to employees and nudging them along. At first, he tested them exhaustively, yet once he trusted them, he bestowed enormous power upon them and didn't intrude unless something radically misfired. "Often the best way to develop workers - when you are sure they have character and think they have ability - is to take them to a deep place, throw them in and make them sink or swim," he observed, recalling a method that Big Bill [his ne'er-do-well father] had used with his sons on Owasco Lake. "They will not fail."
This is a transcript from an actual trial. It helps to illuminate the tension between trust and a realistic assessment of our sinful nature.
A defense attorney was cross-examining a police officer during a felony trial - it went like this:
Q. Officer, did you see my client fleeing the scene?
A. No sir, but I subsequently observed a person matching the description of
the offender running several blocks away.
Q. Officer, who provided this description?
A. The officer who responded to the scene.
Q. A fellow officer provided the description of this so-called offender. Do
you trust your fellow officers?
A. Yes sir, with my life.
Q. With your life? Let me ask you this then officer - do you have a locker
room in the police station - a room where you change your clothes in
preparation for you daily duties?
A. Yes sir, we do.
Q. And do you have a locker in that room?
A. Yes sir, I do.
Q. And do you have a lock on your locker?
A. Yes sir.
Q. Now why is it, officer, if you trust your fellow officers with your life,
that you find it necessary to lock your locker in a room you share with
those same officers?
A. You see sir, we share the building with a court complex, and sometimes
lawyers have been known to walk through that room.
With that, the courtroom erupted in laughter, and a prompt recess was called. The officer on the stand has been nominated for this year's "Best come-back" line.
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A preacher once told of two young brothers who were playing one afternoon. As the sun set, one said, "Look how fast the sun has moved. When we came out to play, the sun was high up in the sky and now it has moved until it is going out of sight." His brother said, "Yes, but remember: It's not the sun that has moved. It is the earth that has moved. Daddy told us that." The first boy said, "I know better. I have been standing here on the earth the whole time and I know what I see with my own eyes. The sun is what moved. " The preacher then made the application: This is the way mankind is divided. One group believes what the Father says. The others believe only what they can detect with their own senses, however misleading they may be, accepting nothing by faith in a loving Father. "For we walk by faith and not by sight," (2 Corinthians 5:7).
Knowing this is one thing--trusting God during the Lystras of our life is another! Years ago a group of visitors at the Philadelphia mint were told by a worker in the smelting works that if you first dipped your hand in a bucket of water, a ladle of molten metal could be poured over the palm of the hand without harm. A husband & wife were part of the group. "Perhaps you'd like to try it?" the worker said to the man. "No thanks, I'll take your word for it!" Workman turned to the wife: "Perhaps you'd like to try it." "Certainly," she replied. She put her hand in the bucket and calmly held it out while the metal was poured. Husband believed at one level--not at the level of trust.
A man named Jack was walking along a steep cliff one day when he
accidentally got too close to the edge and fell. On the way down he
grabbed a branch, which temporarily stopped his fall. He looked down
and to his horror saw that the canyon fell straight down for more
than a thousand feet. He couldn't hang onto the branch forever, and
there was no way for him to climb up the steep wall of the cliff. So
Jack began yelling for help, hoping that someone passing by would
hear him and lower a rope or something.
"HELP! HELP! Is anyone up there? HELP!" He yelled for a long time,
but no one heard him. He was about to give up when he heard a voice.
"Jack, Jack. Can you hear me?"
"Yes, yes! I can hear you. I'm down here!"
"I can see you, Jack. Are you all right?"
"Yes, but who are you, and where are you?"
"I am the Lord, Jack. I'm everywhere."
"The Lord? You mean, GOD?"
"That's Me."
"God, please help me! I promise if You'll get me down from here, I'll
stop sinning. I'll be a really good person. I'll serve You for the
rest of my life."
"Easy on the promises, Jack. Let's just get you down from there; then
we can talk. Now, here's what I want you to do. Listen carefully."
"I'll do anything, Lord. Just tell me what to do."
"Okay. Let go of the branch."
"What?"
"I said, let go of the branch. Just trust Me. Let go."
There was a long silence. Finally Jack yelled, "HELP! HELP! IS
ANYONE ELSE UP THERE?"
Have you ever felt like Jack? We say that we want to know the will of
God, but when we find out what it is, we can't handle it. Sounds too
scary, too difficult. We decide to look elsewhere. When He says,
"Let go of the things that stand between you and Me, and trust Me
with your life," it sounds pretty scary. But when we let go, we find
freedom and safety in His hands."
Faith in Christ is more than mere intellectual assent. It is believing with the heart, with the will, with adoration and with action. Years ago a party of visitors at the national mint were told by a workman in the smelting works that if you first dipped your hand in water, a ladle of molten metal might be poured over
the palm of the hand without burning it. A husband and wife were part of this party of visitors. "Perhaps you would like to try it," the workman said to the husband. The husband drew back sharply, "No thanks," he said, "I'll take your word for it." The workman turned to the wife, "Perhaps you would like to try it." She replied, "Certainly." She pulled up the sleeve of her blouse and thrust her hand into a bucket of water. Calmly she held her hand out while the metal was poured over it. In nature of Jesus' parable, we might ask which of the two really believed the workman? The husband believed at one level - but he wasn't willing to put his belief to the acid test. The wife, on the other hand, was willing to take the kind of risk faith in Christ
demands.
Isaac Rankin says that just outside his window is a large wire which carries a heavy current of electricity for light and power. It is carefully insulated at every pole and is out of common reach. "However," he says, "if I could lean out far enough to grasp it, death would be as swift as a lightning stroke. Yet the doves in my
neighborhood suffer no harm when they perch on it. They fly from my windowsill, where I sometimes feed them, and preen in safety and contentment on the cables. The secret is that when they contact that
wire, they touch nothing else. My danger would be that should I attempt to reach out and do so, the walls of my house would act as a ground, and the current would turn my body into a channel through which the electricity would flow in damaging power. Because they rest wholly upon the wire, they are unharmed. So God would have us seek our safety in complete surrender to His power and love. It is when we reach one hand to Him while still holding fast to some forbidden thing with the other that we are in danger."
In April of 1988, a TV cameraman jumped out of a plane with some
other skydivers. His goal was to record the exciting jump of the
skydivers as they fell to the earth. What's more, this footage was
shown on the local TV news, but not for the reasons why the cameraman
had originally recorded the event.
After several minutes of "free fall," the cameraman then filmed
the skydivers as they one by one opened their parachutes. Of course,
the final skydiver was the cameraman himself and the time came for him
to pull his parachute ripcord.
However, when the cameraman reached for his ripcord, he realized
to his horror and shock that he had no ripcord. It turns out that he
had completely forgotten to put on his parachute.
For the next several minutes, the cameraman was able to capture
the sheer terror as he ultimately fell to his death. Indeed, toward
the end of the film, the picture went berserk and eventually went
dead.
This story is not only tragic, but it is also ironic. Ironic
because the cameraman took a plunge into what appeared to be an
exciting and thrilling jump. But tragically, in a moment of foolish
carelessness, he made the worst mistake of his entire life: he jumped
to his own death. Yes, his faith had been based upon a parachute -- a
life support -- that wasn't there.
In the same way, if we based our lives upon anything other than
faith in our Lord Jesus Christ, then we will make the biggest mistake
of our entire lives as well. That is, faith other than in Christ will
lead to our spiritual deaths! What's more, this spiritual death will
be for all eternity -- forever and ever!
Imagine a ship filled with people crossing the Atlantic. In the middle
of the ocean there is an explosion. The ship is severely damaged and
slowly sinking. Most are dead, and the rest are rushing for the
lifeboats. Now suppose one man doesn't know about the lifeboat, so he
does not get aboard. He doesn't have knowledge, so he is not saved.
Suppose another man knows about the lifeboat and believes it will save
his life, but he is grief-stricken over seeing his wife killed, so he
chooses not to get aboard and dies with his wife. He has knowledge and
mental assent, but he is not saved. Others beleive the lifeboat will
save them, and they get into the boat. They are saved by faith, that
is they have knowledge, mental assent, and trust. However, it is not
their faith that saves them--no matter how much they have. It is the
boat. Saving faith trusts Christ, and Christ saves. Evangelism, A
Biblical Approach, M. Cocoris, Moody, 1984, p. 77
Up in Hamilton, Ontario, the workmen were trimming some trees. On a
low hanging limb which was to be cut off, they found a bird's nest
with young birds in it. The workmen were troubled. Some of them
insisted that the limb must come down, while others pleaded that it be
left until their next trip when the birds probably would be gone.
After some discussion, the limb was left. Some months later when the
tree trimmers came again and cut off the limb, and the nest was torn
up, they noticed a little piece of paper, which had been woven into
the nest. They examined it and found it had been taken from a Sunday
school paper. On it were these words, "We trust in the Lord!" You see
they just could not destroy this little home under conditions like
this. -- This incident was sent to me by Rev. Leo Davis
By William Moses Tidwell, "Effective Illustrations."
One night a big, hungry tiger caught a woman in the woods by her
house. He threw her down to the ground and was going to have a feast.
She could feel his hot breath in her face.
Something seemed to tell her to sing. She began to sing hymns, as
she was lying under the"' strong body of the great beast. This seemed
to charm him. He did not go away, but he did not hurt her. He just
stood over her and listened. But she did not dare to stop singing, or
he might have eaten her up. She kept on singing till her husband
returned home in the morning, for he had been off to work, and shot
the fierce animal.
This woman believed her life had been saved because she sang
praises to the Lord Jesus. She obeyed His voice when she felt that He
told her to sing, and He caused the songs to save her life. How
sweetly the Lord takes care of His children when they trust and obey
Him.
By William Moses Tidwell, "Effective Illustrations."
Before coming to Texas Dr. Kimbrough was the field agent in
Tennessee of Carson and Newman College. In that capacity he traveled
over the state. In one of these journeys through the wilds of
Tennessee, on a Monday morning he was held up by two highwaymen.
Before he knew it they were on him, with their guns upraised,
demanding his money. He very deliberately addressed them as follows:
"Gentlemen, I am a Baptist minister. My work is to go over the
state and solicit funds for the young preachers of Tennessee who are
in school at Carson and Newman College, and also to secure such help
for the school as I am able to get. I have in my pocket two purses of
money. One represents a collection I took yesterday for this Christian
work; the other contains my own private funds. I will get down here in
the road and I will lay these two purses in different piles. You may
take my money if you wish to, but I dare you, in the name of God, to
touch the money that has been made sacred by having been given to His
cause."
The highwaymen paused, looked at each other, and began to inquire
more about the work at Carson and Newman College. Dr. Kimbrough
explained it categorically. After he had made his talk to them, they
said:
"We will not take either your money or the money of the college."
With this Dr. Kimbrough was emboldened to add:
"Gentlemen, you are very kind, and I am deeply grateful for your
consideration. Now that I have detailed the importance of this work to
you, don't you think you ought to help me make it go?"
Each of the would-be robbers gave him $5.00.
-- J. B. Cranfill's Chronicles of Life in Texas.
By William Moses Tidwell, "Effective Illustrations."
Here is a story of the first Napoleon: The great battle was
impending. The commander was inspecting his troops. Turning from a
mass of undisciplined, inexperienced men before him, he said to one of
his generals, "These men I know nothing about." Then, as his eye ran
over a body of men who had been with him for a short time and knew
something of march, bivouac, and battlefield, he said: "These men I
think I can trust. Finally he turned to a division of troops who had
been with him in all his campaigns. They were the veterans of his
army. They had been baptized in blood and fire in many a fierce and
deadly struggle. As they stood before him with set lips and stern
countenances, ready and waiting for the onset of the coming battle,
the great commander turned from them with a heart pulsating with pride
and confidence, and said quietly to his officers, "These men I know I
can trust."
How shall we become men and women whom God can trust?
By William Moses Tidwell, "Effective Illustrations."
This most remarkable incident happened many years ago, and was told in a railroad magazine. One summer morning a twelve-car train containing the members of a Sunday school in eastern Missouri was bound for a picnic at a point about fifty miles distant. Although the sky was cloudless when the excursion started, the train had not proceeded more than half way when a thunderstorm broke. The rain fell in torrents. The engineer was worried for fear the terrific downpour might cause a washout or spreading of the rails, and he slowed down to about thirty-five miles an hour. As the train swung around a curve and approached a small station which it was to pass without stopping, the engineer, peering through the broken curtain of rain, saw that the switch ahead was open. It meant a terrible disaster. Instantly he closed the throttle and put on the brakes.
“Better stick to it,” he shouted to the fireman, “hundreds of children are on board.”
“I mean to,” was the answer. “God help us all!”
His last words were drowned by a terrific crash of thunder which came with a flash of lightning that seemed to strike the ground just ahead of the engine. The next thing they knew they were past the station, still riding safely on the main-line rails.
The train came to a stop and the engineer and conductor hurried back to discover what had happened and how the train had passed the open switch. They found the lightning had struck squarely between the switch and the rail and had closed the switch. “It was the act of God,” said the engineer. -- J. M. Farrar
A Parable of Life
Life is like another parable from another land. A blind Indian beggar sat beside a road, fingering the rice in his little bowl. Wearing only a loin cloth, he sat in poverty beside a road that stretched into nowhere both ways. The scarce travelers occasionally gave him a little rice. One day he heard the thunder of a chariot in the distance. It was the grand entourage of the maharajah. This was a moment that had never come before. Surely the great one would stop and give him baskets of rice.
Indeed, the golden chariot of the maharajah stopped before the poor beggar. The great one stepped down and the beggar fell before him. Then the sky seemed to fall in. "Give me your rice," said the great one. A fearful, hateful, scowl masked the face of the beggar. He reached into his bowl and thrust one grain of rice toward the maharajah. "Is that all? said the great one. The beggar spat on the ground, cursed, and threw him one more grain of rice. The great one turned, entered his chariot, and was gone.
The beggar--angry, empty, and crushed--fingered the remaining rice he had hoarded in his bowl. He felt something hard, different from the rice. He pulled it out. It was one grain of gold. He poured out his rice, caring nothing for it now. He found one other grain of gold. Had he trusted the great one, he could have had a grain of gold for every grain of rice. -- Joel Gregory
The Road Of Life
At first, I saw God as my observer, my judge,
keeping track of the things I did wrong,
so as to know whether I merited heaven or hell when I die.
He was out there sort of like a president.
I recognized His picture when I saw it,
but I really didn't know Him.
But later on when I met Christ, it seemed as though
life were rather like a bike ride, but it was a tandem bike,
and I noticed that Christ was in the back helping me pedal.
I don't know just when it was that
He suggested we change places,
but life has not been the same since.
When I had control, I knew the way.
It was rather boring, but predictable . . .
It was the shortest distance between two points.
But when He took the lead,He knew delightful long cuts,
up mountains, and through rocky places
at breakneck speeds, it was all I could do to hang on!
Even though it looked like madness,
He said, "Pedal!"
I worried and was anxious and asked,
"Where are you taking me?"
He laughed and didn't answer, and I started to trust.
I forgot my boring life and entered into the adventure.
And when I'd say, "I'm scared,"
He'd lean back and touch my hand.
He took me to people with gifts that I needed,
gifts of healing, acceptance, and joy.
They gave me gifts to take on my journey, my Lord's and mine.
And we were off again.
He said, "Give the gifts away;
they're extra baggage, too much weight."
So I did, to the people we met,
and I found that in giving, I received,
and still our burden was light.
I did not trust Him, at first, in control of my life.
I thought He'd wreck it;
but He knows bike secrets,
knows how to make it bend to take sharp corners,
knows how to jump to clear high rocks,
knows how to fly to shorten scary passages.
And I am learning to shut up and pedal in the strangest places,
and I'm beginning to enjoy the view
and the cool breeze on my face
with my delightful constant companion, Jesus Christ.
He just smiles and says . . . "Pedal."
--Author Unknown
"In God We Trust" This became our official motto by a joint
resolution of the Congress, on July 20, 1956.
- PULPIT HELPS, July, 1991
On his march through Asia Minor, Alexander the Great fell dangerously
ill. His Physicians were afraid to treat him because if they did not
succede, the Macedonian army would suspect them of malpractice. Only
one, Philip the Acarnanian, was willing to take the risk, as he had
confidance in both the King's friendship and his own drugs.
While the Medicine was being prepared, Alexander received a letter
from an enemy of Philip's that accused the Physician of having been
bribed by the Persian King to poison his master. Alexander read the
letter and slipped it under his pillow without showing it to anyone.
When Philip entered the tent with the Medicine, Alexander took the cup
from him, at the same time handing Philip the letter. While the
Physician was reading it, Alexander calmly drank the contents of the
cup. Horrified and indignant at the calumny, Philip threw himself down
at the king's bedside, but Alexander assured him he had complete
confidence in his honor. After three days, the king was well enough
again to appear before his army.
At a dangerous front, the Army chaplain was conducting worship services. "I thank Thee, Lord," he prayed, "that Thine holy angels do surround us with their protection and love..."
Suddenly an artillery explosion was heard nearby. The chaplain paused in mid-sentence and raised his voice: "Is that OUTGOING or INCOMING?"
Together the soldiers answered: "OUTGOING, Sir."
"All right," said the chaplain, "now where was I? We thank Thee, Lord,
that Thine holy angels..."
From a book in my library comes the following incident: "A marshal in
Napoleon's army -- a man who was devotedly and enthusiastically
attached to him -- was mortally wounded in battle. As the last
struggle drew near and he lay dying in his tent, he sent for his
chief. Napoleon came. The poor man thought his emperor could do
anything. Perhaps he even sought to put him in the place of God. So
he earnestly pleaded with his leader to save his life. The emperor
sadly shook his head and turned away. But as the dying man felt the
cold, merciless hand of death drawing him irresistibly behind the
curtain of the unseen world, he was still heard to shriek out, 'Save
me, Napoleon! Save me!'" In the hour of death, that soldier discovered
than even the powerful Napoleon could not give him physical life. Our
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