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Pain in Christian preaching often explores the spiritual purpose and meaning behind suffering, emphasizing trust in God's sovereignty and comfort amid trials (Romans 8:18). Illustrations commonly depict pain as a refining fire, a divine messenger, or a pathway to deeper faith and joy after sorrow (James 1:2-4). They wrestle with the mystery of suffering while encouraging believers to cry out to God and find hope beyond present anguish.

Cries and Questions

John 5:2

Bret Easton Ellis' novel LESS THAN ZERO, offers an unsettling depiction of the moral and spiritual poverty behind the contemporary façade of wealth, success, and fame. The author describes the vacuous life of sex, drugs, and violence among the teen-age children of wealthy entertainers. Though fictitious, the book captures a scene tragically all too accurate. Ellis depicts the bankruptcy and the cries of the human soul, which are by no means unique to this particular lifestyle. The cries are clear and can be heard throughout the story. Is there anybody who really loves me? Is there anyone anywhere who can help me?

Yesterday we looked at the account of Christ and the paralytic man from the Gospel of John. The man had been ill for 38 years and was found sitting at a pool he believed had the power to heal him. And still, Jesus approached him with the seemingly needless question: “Do you want to get well?”

As I shared yesterday, we must note that when God asks a question it is never in vain. In fact, it is often the greatest hint! The cries of the human heart can be heard throughout history, generation after generation. Does anyone care? Is there anyone who really loves me? Is there anyone anywhere who can help? Sometimes it is the bitter cry of loneliness, many times it is the wearisome cry of emptiness, but it is always a call for help. Yet, how often we find that our actions and attitudes contradict the cries closest to our hearts, justifying the question, “Do you want to get well?”

Consider the powerful words of poet W. H. Auden:

We would rather be ruined than changed;

We would rather die in our dread

Than climb the cross of the moment

And let our illusions die. [1]

Where Christ asks, “Do you want to be well?” isn't he also asking, “Do you prefer your pain, to the possibility of change?” His question gently pierces the heart of the human condition we all share, bidding us to receive the very thing we ask, from the only One capable of giving it.

Where you seek meaning, are you willing to be changed by meaning? Where you seek understanding, do you really want to find the Truth? Where you seek help, are you willing to receive instruction? Where you seek healing, are you willing to be transformed?

To every cry of every heart, Christ calls out, “Come to Me all who are weary and heavy laden and I will give you rest.” The question we must ask ourselves is: “Do I want to get well?”

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1. As quoted in Risvolti, (Mars Hill Review, Issue 19), 158.)

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Copyright © 2003 Ravi Zacharias International Ministries (RZIM). Reprinted with permission. "A Slice of Infinity" is a radio ministry of Ravi Zacharias International Ministries.

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God's Anvil

Pain’s furnace heat within me quivers,

God’s breath upon the flame doth blow,

An all my heart in anguish shivers,

And trembles at the fiery glow;

And yet I whisper, As God will!

And in his hottest fire hold still.

He comes and lays my heart all heated,

On the hard anvil, minded so

Into his own fair shape to beat it,

With the great hammer, blow on blow;

And yet I whisper, As God will!

And at his heaviest blows hold still.

He takes my softened heart and beats it,

The sparks fly off at every blow;

He turns it o’er and o’er and heats it,

And lets it cool, and makes it glow;

And yet I whisper, As God will!

And in his mighty hands hold still.

Why should I murmur? for the sorrow,

Thus only longer lived would be;

Its end may come, and will, to-morrow,

When God has done his work in me;

So I say, trusting, As God will!

And trusting to the end, hold still.

He kindles for my profit purely

Affliction’s glowing fiery brand,

And all his heaviest blows are surely

Inflicted by a master hand;

So I say, praying, As God will!

And hope in Him, and suffer still.

from The Beautiful, The Wonderful And The Wise - 1884 - Editor L. N. Chapin Bradley, Garretson & Co · Unknown; Translated From the German via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database paingriefafflictiontrust

Draw Me Near

John 11:25

There is a place in my Bible that is prone to be frequently revisited. In fact it is quite often the place I find in front of me when I open the book. And every time it happens, like a scent that uproots a potent memory, I recall the story behind the pages.

Some time ago, between classes in college, I was reading in a park when the skies shifted without warning and the pounding rain left a permanent bookmark on a chapter in John. The pages have long since dried, leaving the paper wavy and wrinkled, and easy to turn to. But something about the lasting impressions of the rain has also impressed that day into my mind. (No doubt, a fitting metaphor of life.) The hardest rains always leave indelible imprints.

In THE PROBLEM WITH PAIN, C.S. Lewis refers to pain as God's megaphone to rouse a deaf world. Convincingly, he explains what we know to be true of God and evil, suffering and Christ. Years later, in the pages of A GRIEF OBSERVED, he describes watching his wife lose her battle with cancer and wrestling with God through the pain. He writes as a man who bitterly, tortuously, and intimately knows what he knows to be true of God and evil, suffering and Christ. Writes Lewis, “Your bid for God or no God, for a good God or the Cosmic Sadist, for eternal life or nonentity, will not be serious if nothing much is staked on it. And you will never discover how serious it was until the stakes are raised horribly high.” He continues, “Nothing will shake a man — or at any rate a man like me — out of his merely verbal thinking and his merely notional beliefs. He has to be knocked silly before he comes to his senses. Only torture will bring out the truth. Only under torture does he discover it himself.”

I believe the first time I really and fearfully looked my faith in the eyes was while I was pounding my fists against the chest of God, half demanding, half pleading, to know why my father was dying. Those indelible days gave new meaning to Paul's admonition, “Work out your salvation in fear and trembling.” In our prayers we cry, and in our hymns we sing, “Draw me nearer, nearer, nearer blessed Lord, To the cross where Thou hast died. Draw me nearer, nearer, nearer blessed Lord, To Thy precious, bleeding side.” But when the stakes are at their highest, do we mean it? Have we counted that cost?

Just before Paul admonishes the Philippian church to work out their salvation in fear and trembling, he describes the cost of Christ. “Who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be grasped, but made himself nothing, taking the very nature of a servant, being made in human likeness. And being found in appearance as a man, he humbled himself and became obedient to death — even death on a cross!” (2:6-8). In his life, his body, his very attitude, Christ carried the cost of our sin, our dire need and our inability to draw near to God.

There was a point in my dad's pain when he said to me, “I had no idea how Christ suffered.” There is something about our pain that can lead us to the foot of the cross, to the utmost expression of love wrought with stripes and sorrow. As the hymn continues, “There are depths of love that I cannot know, Till I cross the narrow sea; There are heights of joy that I may not reach, Till I rest in peace with Thee.”

It is fitting that the pages marked by rain in my Bible tell the story of the death and resurrection of Lazarus. As Mary and Martha and Jesus wept, the rain seemed appropriate. But I remember clearly being struck with another thought: Surely, it was Lazarus who got the lesser end of the deal. To a crowd of people mourning death and loss, Jesus proclaimed radically, “I am the resurrection and the life. He who believes in me will live, even though he dies” (John 11:25). While Jesus spoke to the mourning crowd about true life, Lazarus was truly living. I wondered that day how Lazarus felt about coming back. He had seen the heights and depths of joy we long for on earth; he had been drawn near to the almighty God. For Lazarus, humanity's greatest prayer had been answered. And then it began to rain, ever etching that thought into my Bible and my consciousness.

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Copyright © 2004 Ravi Zacharias International Ministries (RZIM). Reprinted with permission. "A Slice of Infinity" is a radio ministry of Ravi Zacharias International Ministries.

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Painful Lessons

“Prosperity, pleasure and success, may be rough of grain and common in fibre, but sorrow is the most sensitive of all created things.”

Those are the words of the famed pleasure seeker Oscar Wilde. In his De Profundis, written in prison, he described with profound earnestness how much sorrow had taught him. He went on to add, “Where there is sorrow there is holy ground. Some day people will realize what that means. They will know nothing of life till they do.”

As I reflect on those words, I first take note of the one who wrote them. A life of pain was the farthest thing from Oscar Wilde's mind when he made his choices. In that sense, none of us would ever choose sorrow. But I take note of something else: He says that sorrow is holy ground and until we learn this we do not know what living means. What he means at the very least is that some of life's most sacred truths are learned in the midst of sorrow. Wilde himself learned that raw unadulterated pleasure for pleasure's sake is never fulfilling pleasure. Violation of the sacred in the pursuit of happiness is not truly a source of happiness. In fact, it kills happiness because it can run roughshod over many a victim. Pleasure that profanes is pleasure that destroys.

Sorrow, on the other hand, while never pursued, comes into one's life and compels us to see our own finitude and frailty. It demands of us seriousness and tenderness if we are to live life the way it is meant to be lived. One of the most important things sorrow does is show us what it needs and responds to. Wilde said it himself: “Sorrow is a wound that bleeds when any hand but that of love touches it, and even then must bleed again, though not in pain.”

You know, of all the descriptions given about Jesus, one of those that stands out is the one uttered by the prophet Isaiah. Speaking of Christ, the prophet says: “He was despised and rejected by men; a man of sorrows and acquainted with grief” (53:3a).

Maybe you are at a time in your life when hurt is writ large upon your thoughts. The Lord Jesus is not unacquainted with your pain. In fact, he draws near particularly with a hand of love. Your wound may still bleed for a while to remind you of your weakness. But he can carry you in strength and help you bear the pain. This could be holy ground for you.

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Copyright © 2004 Ravi Zacharias International Ministries (RZIM). Reprinted with permission. "A Slice of Infinity" is a radio ministry of Ravi Zacharias International Ministries.

Making It Through the Pain

2 Corinthians 4:16

Our three-year-old grandson's been around long enough to show us that he's going to be the one who lives on the edge, tries daring things, and is basically a physical kind of guy. Consequently, he may be on a first name basis with the folks in the emergency room. We hope not, but you know, he's already visited there more than once in his short career. The first time he got a bad cut on his lip from a fall - lots of bleeding, run to the emergency room, stitches. This medical stuff was all new to him. Oh, he fought it. It took four people to hold down this little tiger while the stitches were put in. It was massively traumatic for everybody involved - including my wife who was one of those E.R. wrestlers that night. The second time was when another fall caused a big cut in our little guy's chin. Lots of bleeding, run to the emergency room, stitches. And less fighting this time. It wasn't easy, but it wasn't as bad as the first time. Who knows, pretty soon he may be helping them put the stitches in!

I'm Ron Hutchcraft and I want to have A Word With You today about “Making it Through the Pain.”

We figured out two reasons that the second time was a little less traumatic than the first time for our grandson. First, he knew from experience that the pain of this process didn't last forever. Secondly, he knew from his first time around that he got a reward when this was over - let's hear it for popsicles and stickers!

Maybe there's something we can all gain from a little boy's emergency room experiences with pain - maybe it can even help you get through the painful time you're going through right now. What were those two things that helped you get through a process that's really hurting you? You know it won't last forever. You know there's a reward when this is over.

God's great ambassador, Paul, learned those secrets of making it through the pain, and he had a post-graduate degree in suffering - beatings, imprisonments, attacks on his reputation, death threats, excruciating physical conditions. This is a man with the credentials to talk to us about the great hurts of life. And he does in our word for today from the Word of God in 2 Corinthians 4:16-18.

With all he's enduring, Paul says: “We do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day. For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all. So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen. For what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal.”

You can lose your health, your business, your marriage, you can lose people you love and still not lose heart. How? First, remember these four letters - TTSP. They stand for, “This too shall pass.” Your ordeal is, in Paul's words, “momentary” and “temporary” against the backdrop of your eternity in heaven. It won't always be this way. Secondly, think about the reward for finishing your painful assignment faithfully - “eternal glory.” At the end of this, you've got something really good that you will have forever. One other thing that our grandson may ultimately learn about the pain of the doctor's procedures - the purpose of the pain is to make him better. That's the purpose of yours, too. To make you more like Jesus and more of a helper and healer for hurting people all around you. The relatively short duration of your pain, the reward you'll get for bearing it, the good it can produce in your life - none of those take away the pain, but they make it bearable. They give it meaning, and they make you more bearable, too.

What you're going through has an end, it has a reward, and it has a point. So you don't have to fight it. The doctor who's got your case - Dr. Jesus - loves you deeply, holds you tightly, and knows exactly what's He's doing.

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Copyright © Ron Hutchcraft Ministries, Inc., PO Box 400, Harrison, AR 72602. Used by permission. Written by Ron Hutchcraft. "Practical Answers to Real Life Issues"

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from A Word With You by Ron Hutchcraft #4563 · Ron Hutchcraft via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database

Beautiful Scars

2 Corinthians 1:3

Becky was my first serious crush. “Serious” meant I thought she was beautiful. At least, that's what my thirteen-year-old eyes told me, and that's why I was so surprised when she said she'd been in a violent automobile accident not long before that. I just moved into town, and I didn't know anything about the accident. She said it had done very serious damage to her face and there were all kinds of scars. Well, I didn't see any trace of it. I know that thirteen-year-old love is blind, but obviously, something had happened to those scars. Actually, a plastic surgeon had taken care of those scars, and he must have been good. He had very skillfully taken scars and recreated something beautiful.

I'm Ron Hutchcraft and I want to have A Word With You today about “Beautiful Scars.”

Our word for today from the Word of God comes from 2 Corinthians 1:3-4. Here's what the apostle Paul says: “Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion, and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God.” These verses are about something that's common to all of us - the pain of life. I don't know where your pain comes from - whether it's medical, emotional, memories of your past, something on replay, or something in living color going on right now, but these verses talk about what the Master Plastic Surgeon can make out of the pain of your life.

It says here He turns trouble for us into comfort for others. He's the God of all compassion. He's the God of all comfort. If we open up our scars, and our hurt and our pain to Him for the rest of our lives, He gives us something to give other people who are hurting. In other words, in God's skillful hands, the ugly can become something beautiful.

Maybe the pain of your life is never very far away. Maybe you see scenes on the video replay unit in your mind, and maybe it's happening right now. Maybe you don't have a choice about having the pain, but you do have two choices about what you do with that hurt. First, you can turn it inward. That's what most people do. When you turn it inward and you continue to work on it, and replay it and think about it, it turns into self-pity, and then bitterness and negative attitudes. The ugly becomes uglier. You make the scars deeper.

The other possibility that's really suggested in these verses from God's Word is that you can turn it outward. This pain can be turned outward in the form of sensitivity and compassion for other hurting people. You can say, “Lord, I want you to help me make something beautiful out of this pain. I had to go through it. It was ugly stuff, but I want it to become a ministry to other hurting people. I know how they feel. I am able to enter into their suffering. God of all compassion, instead of this turning into self-pity and hardness, would you turn it into compassion?”

The quickest way out of your pit is to help somebody else out of theirs. Christ alone can redeem life's big hurts. Why don't you let Him use it to shape you into a “make a difference” person for other people? Haven't you replayed those ugly scenes enough times? Do you have to go over it again?

Why don't you let Him turn self-focus into others focus? Look around you. Find a need and meet it. Instead of looking in the mirror at your scars, why don't you surrender yourself to the emotional rebuilding of the Master Surgeon? Let Him start changing you from someone who feels like a victim to someone who is beginning to be a victor. Doctor Jesus makes scars into something beautiful.

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Copyright © Ron Hutchcraft Ministries, Inc., PO Box 400, Harrison, AR 72602. Used by permission. Written by Ron Hutchcraft. "Practical Answers to Real Life Issues"

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from A Word With You by Ron Hutchcraft #4592 · Ron Hutchcraft via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database painempathy

Nothing Just Happens

Ruth 1:7

Three women — Naomi, who is the older woman, and Ruth, who was her daughter-in-law, and Orpah, who was her other daughter-in-law. Three women whose commonality was pain. Pain is a strange company keeper. It brings the oddest people together. There is a secret fraternity that exists amongst those who have been in pain that is mind-boggling. It transcends the color of your skin. It transcends your background. When you have been through certain things, you feel for other people who have been through those things, because you relate to them. I personally don’t like to have a whole lot to do with people who have not been through pain. It’s nothing against them, I’m not jealous of them, I just can’t relate to them. I can’t relate to them and I am sure that they will not be able to relate to me. The parts of me that I need to have known, that I need to have touched, that I need to have fellowship, are tied up not in the successes of my life, but in the struggles of my life. For God has done more through my struggles. He’s done more through my struggles then he’s ever done through my successes. And if you look carefully at my successes, my successes are made out of the ingredients of my struggles. And you can never know my successes until you understand my struggles, because my struggles are the pathway that led me into my success. Are you hearing what I’m saying?

And so if you are going to have fellowship with somebody, you have to choose your friends and make sure that they have had something to die in their life. If you’ve never had anything to die in your life, you have the kind of optimism that is annoying. If you’ve never had anything to go wrong in your life, I don’t like to hear you preach, it aggravates me, it gets on my nerves because your preaching has not been balanced by failure. If you’ve never had anything to die in your life don’t counsel me, because you really don’t understand me because you don’t know why I am like I am until you’ve been where I’ve been. If you’ve never had anything to die in your life don’t sit there and tell me be a man, take it, don’t cry. You don’t know what I’m taking, you don’t know what I’m enduring, you don’t understand. Just because you read some books and took a psych class doesn’t mean that you are ready to deal with the issues of my life. There is something about going through death and loss and pain and misfortune and adversity. There is something about going through things that don’t seem fair to you. That once you go through them you need to make sense of the madness in your life since you can’t change what happened and you can’t alter what you’ve been through, at least you need to be able to think that there’s some greater good that’s going to come out of it.

It’s what they call bringing closure. To bring closure to it; to justify that I didn’t go through this kind of pain for nothing. I need to be able to feel like something good is going to come out of this. If I can’t do that then I feel like I’m a victim. I feel like I’ve been victimized and I forever feel sorry for myself and I’m not free to go on with my life, and I’m not safe to remarry again, and I’m not safe to get another job again, and I’m not safe in another church again, because I have unresolved issues out of my past; and I’m not ready to go forward with my life because I’m still tied up with where I came from. I need to know if I’m going to continue to worship God, I need to know that some demon didn’t get loose in my life and wreck my life. It’s not a mistake, it’s not an accident, God didn’t fall asleep on the job and the devil came in and wrecked the car. No, God never sleeps and he never slumbers. He’s in complete control and he knows where you are, and he knows how old you are, and he knows how much time you spent, and he knows what happened to you, and he knows who walked out and left you, and he knows who betrayed you, and he knows who molested you, and he knows who raped you, and he knows who rejected you, and he knows where you are in life, and he knows about your bills, and he knows about your degree, and he knows you dropped out of school, and he knows about what you didn’t get, and he knows about the health of your child, and he knows about the condition of your neighborhood. Understand that and tell yourself nothing just happens.

And so Orpah walks away. She walks away. I might have to turn this into a series because I can’t get out of this. Orpah walks away, and she cries and she goes back. There are people who can walk away from you. And hear me when I tell you this – when people can walk away from you: let them walk. When people can walk away from you: let them walk. I can sit down now; I’ve preached. I can sit down. I don’t need to make an altar call or nothing. I don’t have to hoop, I don’t have to make you shout, I have just preached right now. When people can walk away from you: let them walk. I don’t want you to try to talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone. When people can walk away from you let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left. The bible said that, they came out from us that it might be made manifest that they were not of us. For had they been of us, no doubt they would have continued with us. [1Jo 2:19]

People leave you because they are not joined to you. And if they are not joined to you, you can get super glue and you can’t make them stay. Let them go. And it doesn’t mean that Orpah was a bad person it just means that Orpah’s part in the story is over. And you’ve got to know when people’s part in your story is over so that you don’t’ keep trying to raise the dead. You’ve got to know when it’s dead, David. When your boy is dead, wash your face and have another baby. You’ve got to know when it’s over. Let me tell you something. I’ve got the gift of goodbye. I mean I’ve got the gift of goodbye. It’s the tenth spiritual gift, I believe in goodbye. It’s not that I’m hateful, it’s that I’m faithful, and I know whatever God means for me to have he’ll give it to me. And if it takes too much sweat I don’t need it. Stop begging people to stay. Let them go!! Ruth, on the other hand, coming to the crossroads, she looks at Orpah who left. Ruth turns to Naomi and says, as the Lord liveth I shall not leave thee. She makes a statement to this woman that sounds somewhere in between poetry, intimacy and borders on lesbianism.

People don’t even know how to explain what Ruth said to Naomi. It makes them uncomfortable, they are afraid to talk about it, they don’t want to teach on it. The same thing with David and Jonathan. Whenever same sex relationships get too close people don’t even know what to say because people are so carnal they think the only thing that can tie you to somebody is flesh to flesh. Understand that Naomi was an older woman. She was old enough to be Ruth’s mama. She’s not attracted to Naomi’s flesh. Some kind of way Naomi’s spirit has gotten in her spirit. There is something that happens to you occasionally where you can meet somebody and you sense, you sense, you sense that your destiny. oh God, oh God. your destiny is tied to that person. Do you understand? Do you understand what’s happening to us? Do you understand that we are spending our lives together? Has it ever crossed your mind that we are spending our lives together? That we will die after this, and that we have been joined together and we are spending our life together? Have you ever realized you can spend your life anywhere with anybody doing anything, but something happens inside of you where you sense that your destiny is tied to a ministry or to a vision and you decide to spend your life.

People keep talking about spending their money. That ain’t nothing. I can spend my money and live in Chicago. But when I spend my life with you, that’s all I have. I don’t think that hits you. We are spending our lives together. You will not be able to write your story and leave me out. We are spending our lives together. There is no greater bond possible. Occasionally in scriptures in the whole bible you see it happening with people who are not even blood related spend their lives together in the most intimate connection possible. And theologians and scholars and preachers stumble about it because they don’t know how to talk about it because they don’t understand the power being joined together. How can we explain what made Elisha leave his natural mother and father and run after Elijah to wait on him? To clean his clothes, to pour water on his hair, to set up his tent, but some kind of way Elisha sensed that his destiny was tied to Elijah. How can we explain Timothy, who walks away from everything that he owns to hang out at the outside window of a jail cell as an old man prepares to be beheaded? He peeks in the window handing him books and blankets ministering to him. The young man understood, I’ll never be who I was meant to be without you in my life. Do you hear what I’m saying?

There is something, there is something about the way you talk it feeds me. It’s something about the way you speak that changes me. There is something about your spirit that motivates me and I’ll never be completed without you and I didn’t meet you by accident. I didn’t stumble up and meet you. This didn’t just happen. There is a reason that I’m in this place. I’m so sick of talking to people who think that everything just happens. I guess I’ll go to church. I guess I’ll get saved. I guess I’ll move to Chicago. I guess I’ll move to Dallas. That’s not how it is. The steps of a good man are ordered by the Lord. Your steps were ordered. If you hadn’t got the phone call that you got when you got like you got it, you wouldn’t even be here right now. If you hadn’t made the turn that you made yesterday you wouldn’t experience what you are experiencing today. God has been behind the curtain like a puppet master pulling strings in your life. It’s not that you’re smart, it’s not that you’re great; it’s not that you’re holy; it’s not that you’re perfect; it’s not that you’re good; but God winded you up; pointed you in the right direction; released you into your destiny; and you are here and you can’t get away. Slap somebody and tell them nothing just happens. Can I talk to you a few more minutes?

This means, this means, this means that I’m up under the banner of his will. I’m up under the banner of his will. Even in the midst of death, I’m up under the banner of his will. Even in the midst of pain, I’m up under the banner of his will. Even in the midst of separation and disappointment I’m up under the banner of his will. Can I take you to the next level? Jonah was sent to Nineveh, went to Tarsus, headed for Tarsus not obeying God, got thrown off the boat into the belly of the fish, swallowed up for three days. Even though God told him to go to Nineveh, and he didn’t go, he was still in the will. I’m not sure you can handle this. He went the wrong way and he was still in the will. They threw him off the boat he was still in the will. I’ll prove to you he was in the will. It just happened to be a big fish. See it just happened to be a big fish swimming beside the big boat so that when men dumped him over, the fish just happened to. this is too strong. You can’t take this. The fish carried him down to the bottom of the mountains with seaweed wrapped around its neck. He’s thousands of feet below sea level and God sustained him. Sustained him not one day, not two days, not four days, but three days. Nothing just happens.

On the third day. on the third day the back-slidden, rebellious, reprobate, disconnected, disjointed preacher comes up out of the water, and thousands of years later Christ says even as Jonah was in the belly of the fish three days so shall the son of man be in the grave. He had to get up when he got up, and he had to go down when he went down because nothing just happens. Oh God. Your mistakes were in his will. Your trouble was in his will. Your pain was in his will. I don’t care what you went through. David said if I make my bed in hell, thou art there. If I take the wings of the morning and ascend unto the uttermost parts of the earth God is still there. He was with you in the middle of your trouble. He was with you in the middle of your pain. That’s why Paul said, I’ve learned whatever state I’m in, therewith to be content. I know how to be rich. I know how to be poor. I know how to be free. I know how to be bound. You ought to shout. I don’t care where you are because nothing just happens! And no devil in hell has ever been able to abort the purpose of God not once. And yes, God gave you a human will, and you are a free moral agent; but if you think that your human will is strong enough to change his divine will you are tripping. You are out of your mind. God is God.

The reason we worship him as God is because he is the CEO. He is in charge. He runs the universe. And when God gets ready to make you, and when God gets ready to break you, and when God gets ready to take you, he has never been without the power to make you yield to his will. He’s never, not one moment or time, not been able to orchestrate your affairs and anointing in your life. Think about the most damnable thing that ever happened and shout ‘nothing’! Think about the most embarrassing thing that ever happened in your life and shout ‘nothing’! Think about the most impoverished, financially depleting thing that ever happened in your life and shout ‘nothing’! Think about the worse scandal that you ever went through in your life and shout ‘nothing’! Think about people who loved you and walked out and left you and shout ‘nothing’! Think about betrayal on the highest level of your life and shout ‘nothing’! Think about the struggle going on in your job right now and shout ‘nothing’! Think about the attitude of your kinfolks and your family members and shout ‘nothing’! Think about how your boss is treating you on your job and shout ‘nothing’! Think about that disagreement between you and your children and shout ‘nothing’! Think about your past life of sin, your whore-mongering, your inappropriateness, your attitude, your dysfunction and shout ‘nothing’! Shout ‘nothing’!

Let the devil hear you say nothing. That devil will think he won if you don’t shout nothing. The devil will think he’s in charge if you don’t shout nothing. He’ll think he’s going to win but you’ve got to shout ‘Nothing’!”

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The Difference Between Pain and Paint

John 5:24

While visiting my parents in Milwaukee, Wisconsin, we made a stop at their bank using the drive thru. While waiting for the teller to complete the transaction, I looked up and my eyes focused on a building across the street. One painted word on the glass window of the building across the street caught my eye: “Pain.” Pain? A closer look had that word connected with a word directly over it “Custom Pain”. What? I thought? Is this like a tattoo or body piercing shop? And if it is, do they specialize in pain?

As I was pondering these possibilities I read the rest of the painted words and figured out that it was an auto-body shop. The word “paint” had just lost most of the “t”. What a drastic difference one letter made.

This reminds me of the difference Christ makes to a life. He takes us from death to life. A total reversal of what was before, just like the lettering on the auto-body shop window.

Pastor Doug West

Sioux City Iowa

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Every Tear

Revelation 21:4

A small article towards the back of a PEOPLE magazine told the story of a little girl named Ashlyn. She was described as an incredibly happy child, eager and energetic. According to her mother, Ashlyn has the best laugh in the world, and according to her kindergarten teacher, she fearlessly goes headfirst into everything. In many ways she is a typical, lovable five-year-old. But Ashlyn is one of only 50 people in the world with a genetic condition that leaves her unable to feel pain. She can feel touch and be tickled, but she cannot sense pain or extreme temperatures.

Ashlyn's parents are used to being asked why such a condition is daunting news at all. Their reply is one racked with the sting of experience: “Pain is there for a reason.” When she was a toddler, they had to wrap her with athletic tape because of all the damage she was causing to limbs that knew no fear. She's knocked eight teeth out and dug a hole in her eye without shedding a tear. She once came in from outside proclaiming she couldn't get the dirt off her skin. But it wasn't dirt; Ashlyn was covered with hundreds of biting fire ants.

It is hard to read such a story without coming away with a difficult conclusion: pain is necessary. Imagine not knowing when you've scalded your mouth on a hot meal or bit your tongue so badly that it bled. Imagine your child reaching out for the flickering light of a candle and not having the pain of burned fingers to reinforce your scolding plea not to play with fire.

The great majority of our philosophical frustration about pain is aimed at asking why a loving God would allow it in the first place. And yet, the closing lines of Ashlyn's story were the words of a heartbroken parent: “I would give anything, absolutely anything, for Ashlyn to feel pain.”(1) Pain is the body's signal for danger, however severe or slight. It is a navigating force through unknown corridors of life, without which we find ourselves numb to reality, robbed of caution, and disoriented to life. Pain is God's megaphone, said C.S. Lewis, to rouse a deaf world.

There is something wonderful about the thought of pain removed and eyes wiped dry. We are rightly comforted by the image of heaven as the place where God will wipe away every tear from our eyes. There is much hope in the promise that there will one day “be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away” (Rev. 21:4).

But there is a line uttered by the psalmist that has been equally comforting to my grandmother through many years. “You have kept count of my tossings, put my tears in your bottle” (Psalm 56:8, ESV). Tear-bottles were small urns of glass or pottery, created to collect the tears of mourners at the funeral of a loved one and placed in the sepulchers at Rome and in Palestine. In some ancient tombs these bottles are found in great numbers, collecting tears that were shed with great meaning.

The one in heaven does not see our pain here as a pointless or empty occurrence. As our tears will be tended to in eternity, the psalmist reminds us that so our tears on earth do not go unnoticed. Our pain is not haphazardly viewed by the one who made tear ducts that spill over with grief and anguish. He has kept count of our sorrowful struggling; each tear is recorded as pain steeped with meaning. Like a parent grieving at his child's wound, God reaches out to us in — and perhaps even through — our pain, speaking gently into our heightened sense of awareness. And with his Son who wept at the grave of Lazarus, He collects your tears in his bottle until the day tears will be no more.

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1. As quoted in People magazine, (Jan. 24, 2005) 100.

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Copyright © 2005 Ravi Zacharias International Ministries (RZIM). Reprinted with permission. "A Slice of Infinity" is a radio ministry of Ravi Zacharias International Ministries.

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Killing With Kindness

Job 3:20

QUESTION: Why is the church against euthanasia in instances where people are in terrible pain?

ANSWER: Let's respond to this question through the eyes of the family caring for a sick or dying loved one, because that is the context in which most of us face this agonizing issue.

We do not like to see loved ones sick, dying, or in pain. It goes against nature, moral training, and Christian faith to sit happily by when they suffer.

Our first instinct will be to try to find a way to save their lives. We will be supportive of aggressive treatment for as long as our loved one, the rest of the family, and the medical team hold out hope for a cure.

When such hope is no longer realistic and death is imminent and certain, we try to make our loved one as comfortable as possible. There will be little debate that even if the family ends now-futile medical treatments (such as chemotherapy), all reasonable efforts must be made to alleviate suffering. Beyond hoping for a miracle, all who love the dying person will pray for a peaceful death soon.

So far, so good. The question, however, seems to presuppose that this strategy is not good enough when the dying person is in “terrible pain.” At that point, it is implied, Christians are hardhearted in not supporting euthanasia.

This is a widely held view today. But it is wrong.

First we need to define some terms. Most thoughtful bioethicists or physicians accept the legitimacy of withholding or withdrawing medical treatments when they are no longer bringing benefit to an irretrievably dying patient. Nor is there any opposition to aggressive use of painkillers and other forms of palliative care.

But euthanasia is a different thing when it means (more than simply withdrawing medical treatment) ordering or implementing some act that kills a dying person: whether it is a lethal injection, an overdose of drugs, intentional starvation, or a gunshot to the head. Morally, it matters little if we do the deed ourselves, give our loved one the means to do the deed, or pay the doctor to do it. In any case, we are involved in an act that directly brings about the death of another human being.

The question is correct in implying that the church, or at least the great majority of its moral thinkers and traditions, opposes euthanasia. This opposition is based ultimately on the commandment “You shall not murder,” but is articulated in various other ways, including:

• the belief that the intentional taking of the life of a person who poses no threat to the community is a form of murder and is thus intrinsically wrong, even if it is done with good motives;

• the fear that the freedom to put to death sick or dying people is a violation of the mandate of the medical profession and would thus deeply corrupt it;

• the fear that base motives such as financial gain will interfere with the family decision-making process and lead to what is essentially sanctioned family murder of the old;

• the fear, based on historical experience, that political leaders will take over the power to kill the infirm and sick and use it to cut the government's medical expenses or advance some kind of perverse vision of the common good;

• an intuitive sense that a good and loving family, or a good and loving nation, will find some way to show its compassion to the sick and suffering that does not involve directly taking their lives.

Fundamentally, Christians oppose euthanasia because it simply does not fit with core Christian theological convictions. God is Creator, not us (Gen. 1:1). Human life is in his hands (Job 1:21). Illness and death are a tragic part of life in a sin-sick world (Gen. 3:19), and we must fight them hard — as Jesus fought them hard (Mt. 4:24). The time will come when every person's earthly life is over. At that point, our only hope lies in the resurrection promised to those who belong to Jesus Christ (1 Cor. 15:50-56).

We are called to heal the sick where we can, comfort the dying always, and entrust the dead to God. But we are never called, and we are never free, to hasten the dying across the threshold into eternity.

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David P. Gushee is the Graves Professor of Moral Philosophy at Union University in Jackson, Tennessee.

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Leaders Must Learn In Pain

R. A. Anderson, in his book THE SHEPHERD EVANGELIST, tells of a tourist who, walking across the Scottish hills enjoying the beauties of the lake country, saw a shepherd with his sheep resting at noon.

The sheep were browsing. As he drew near to the shepherd he noticed one sheep lying down. It was evidently hurt, and the shepherd was speaking words of love and assurance to the little thing.

“You have a sick one there?” asked the stranger.

“Well, not exactly sick. He has a broken leg.”

“Oh, how did it happen? An accident, I suppose.” But the old shepherd hesitated to say. Finally he told the story. “This fellow is a good sheep. He has all the earmarks of a leader, but he was willful and wouldn't come when I called. He would always lead the flock the wrong way. I tried to teach him, but he was obstinate. He wouldn't trust me. I decided I'd have to do to him what I'd done to others before. It was hard, but I knew it would work. I prepared splints and bandages; then holding him down, I took the little fellow's leg in my hands and broke it over my own like this,” and he showed how it was done. But his voice choked and his eyes were brimming....

“Then I set the leg,” he continued, “and bound it up. That was weeks ago. Since then every mouthful of food and every drop of water this little fellow has had, he has taken from my own hands. Every day I carry him out to the field, and every night I take him back again. We have learned to love each other, for we have suffered together. In a few days I will remove the bandage, and he will be my leader, for he has learned in pain what I could teach him in no other way.”

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Source: Stop, Look and Listen by Eileen E. and Jay H. Lantry, Copyright(c)1976 by Review and Herald Publishing Association; submitted by Mary Thayne

Sermon: Hard Knocks

Ecclesiastes 9:11

Sermon in Family Concerns series, #6. Ecclesiastes 9:11-12

HARD KNOCKS

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I. Some families have it harder than others.

A. Disasters that you cannot control can sweep over your family.

B. How will you respond?

II. Plenty of things can knock your family.

A. Poverty.

B. Illness and death.

C. Tragedy.

III. Life is rarely "fair."

A. You don't always get answers.

B. You must appreciate the mystery of the cross.

C. Be as strong as you can, now.

IV. There can be power in pain.

A. Overcoming struggles can bind us together.

B. Overcoming tragedy can give us compassion for others.

C. Overcoming pain helps us appreciate Christ's sacrifice for us.

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On Holy Ground

“Prosperity, pleasure, and success may be rough of grain and common in fibre, but sorrow is the most sensitive of all created things.”

Those are the words of the famed pleasure seeker, Oscar Wilde. In his DE PROFUNDIS, written in prison, he wrote with profound earnestness about how much sorrow had taught him. He went on to add, “Where there is sorrow there is holy ground. Some day people will realize what that means. They will know nothing of life till they do.”

As I reflect on those words, I take note first of the one who wrote them. A life of pain was the farthest thing from his mind when he made his choices. In that sense, none of us would ever CHOOSE sorrow. But I take note of something else in his words. His claim is bold; he is not merely confessing an idea written across his worldview, but one he insists is written across the world: SORROW IS HOLY GROUND AND THOSE WHO DO NOT LEARN TO WALK THERE KNOW NOTHING OF WHAT LIVING MEANS. What he means at the very least is that some of life’s most sacred truths are learned in the midst of sorrow. He learned, for example, that raw unadulterated pleasure for pleasure’s sake is never fulfilling pleasure. Violation of the sacred in the pursuit of happiness is not truly a source of happiness. In fact, it kills happiness because it can run roughshod over many a victim. Pleasure that profanes is pleasure that destroys.

Sorrow on the other hand -- while never pursued -- comes into one’s life and compels us to see our own finitude and frailty. It demands of us seriousness and tenderness if we are to live life the way it is meant to be lived. One of the most important things sorrow does is to show us what it needs and responds to. Wilde said it himself: “Sorrow is a wound that bleeds when any hand but that of love touches it, and even then must bleed again, though not in pain.”

Of all the descriptions given about Jesus, there is one that unabashedly stands out to confront us. It is a description uttered by the prophet Isaiah, prodding mind and heart at once: “He was despised and rejected by men, a man of sorrows, and acquainted with grief. Like one from whom men hide their faces; he was despised, and we esteemed him not. Surely he took up our infirmities and carried our sorrows, yet we considered him stricken by God, smitten by him, and afflicted” (53:3).

Maybe you are at a time in your life when hurt is writ large upon your thoughts. The Lord Jesus is not unacquainted with your pain. In fact, he draws near particularly with a hand of love. Your wound may still bleed for a while to remind you of your weakness. But he can help carry the pain to carry you in strength. This could be holy ground for you.

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Copyright © 2007 Ravi Zacharias International Ministries (RZIM). Reprinted with permission. "A Slice of Infinity" is a radio ministry of Ravi Zacharias International Ministries.

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The Transforming Moment

Matthew 17:4

If we were to draw out in symbols and timelines the road maps of our lives, we could pencil in both single and crucial moments as well as entire years marked with particular themes of development. In any picture of a life laid out before us, there are abrupt moments of pivotal formation and gradual phases of transformation. It is a paradox that insight seems to grow gradually and yet it also seems to arrive in overpowering moments of abruptness.

As Peter, James, and John climbed the mountain with Christ, they were startled when Elijah and Moses appeared before them, talking with Jesus. It must have seemed a moment of both honor and awe. Peter immediately responded to it; “Lord, it is good for us to be here. If you wish, I will put up three shelters — one for you, one for Moses and one for Elijah” (Matthew 17:4). But before he had finished speaking, a bright cloud enveloped them and a voice from the heavens thundered, “This is my Son, whom I love; with him I am well pleased. Listen to him!” The disciples were terrified. And then as suddenly as it all began, they looked up and saw no one but Jesus.

There are transforming moments in our lives that may seem isolated in both time and vividness. We remember them as mountaintops, points in life lifted above the majority of the map. But are they not also much more than this? Whether distinguished by joy or pain, a transforming moment is always more than a moment; they are no more isolated in the pictures of our lives than they are isolated in the picture of reality.

Professor and theologian James Loder was on vacation with his family when they noticed a motorist off to the side of the road waving for help. In his book THE TRANSFORMING MOMENT, he describes kneeling at the front fender of the broken-down car, his head bent to examine the flat tire, when he was abruptly alerted to the sound of screeching brakes. A motorist who had fallen asleep at the wheel was jarred awake seconds before his vehicle crashed into the disabled car alongside the road and the man who knelt beside it. Loder was left pinned between the car he was trying to repair and his own.

Years later, he was compelled to describe the impact of a moment marked by pain, and yet unarguably something much more. Writes Loder, “At the hospital, it was not the medical staff, grateful as I was for them, but the crucifixes — in the lobby and in the patients' rooms — that provided a total account of my condition. In that cruciform image of Christ, the combination of physical pain and the assurance of a life greater than death gave objective expression and meaning to the sense of promise and transcendence that lived within the midst of my suffering.”(1)

His encounter with God, like the Transfiguration of Christ to a small group of frightened disciples, did not merely transform a moment; it was a moment that transformed reality and thus, the whole of life. Writes Loder, “Moments of transforming significance radically reopen the question of reality.”

When the disciples came to the end of their mountaintop encounter and looked up, they saw only Jesus. Moses and Elijah were no longer there; the cloud that enveloped them disappeared and the heavens ceased to speak. But the divine Jesus was fully and humanly present to them, the glimpse of God in that transforming moment on the mountain a radical reality shaping all of life.

There are times when truth must dazzle gradually, until it is given its proper place. Other times we seem to find ourselves moved nearly to blindness as we encounter more than we have eyes yet to see. Sometimes, like Peter, we interpret these moments of transcendence imperfectly. Yet God is at work even in the deciphering, and in the final examination, the content of our transforming moments is Jesus alone, the transfigured one, the transforming one, the light of the knowledge of the glory of God.

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1. James E. Loder THE TRANSFORMING MOMENT (Colorado Springs: Helmers & Howard Publishing, 1989), 2.

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Copyright © 2006 Ravi Zacharias International Ministries (RZIM). Reprinted with permission. "A Slice of Infinity" is a radio ministry of Ravi Zacharias International Ministries.

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Know Your Bible: Job

Job 1:1

INTRODUCING THE OLD TESTAMENT — JOB — by Dr. W. Graham Scroggie

From ‘Know Your Bible’ © Pickering and Inglis Ltd., London

Keyword: Tested

Chapters: 42

The author of this writing is unknown, as are the time of writing and the period in which Job lived. That the hero of the poem was a real person and not the creation of imagination is evident from such references as Ezekiel 14:14, 20, and James 5 :11, as well as from internal evidence.

The dramatic form in which the story is cast in no way invalidates its historical trustworthiness.

So little is there in the poem to indicate the age in which Job lived that opinions have varied by as much as 1,000 years. Some take the view that he lived be-fore Abraham, and would place the story between the eleventh and twelfth chapters of Genesis; and others would place him in the captivity or post-captivity period. This shows that the value of the writing is quite independent of date, and is indeed, as to its great message, dateless.

MAGNIFICENT DRAMA

The first thing that claims our attention is the form of the story. There are epic and lyric elements in the composition, but the poem is a magnificent drama, in which no element of dramatic effect is wanting.

This book might well be placed with the poetical writings, for as to its form, it is a poem; but having regard for its theme, we place it with the wisdom writings the Proverbs and Ecclesiastes. These three books deal with the fundamental principles of the Bible and of all religious philosophy.

In Job we see a man who “was perfect and upright, one that feared God, and eschewed evil.”

The mistake of Satan was in thinking that Job served God for what he could get. The mistake of Job’s wife was in thinking that with the loss of the visible and human all was lost. The mistake of Job’s friends was in thinking that Job‘s suffering was the direct outcome of his sin. The mistake of Elihu was in thinking that he was right, and that all the others were wrong; and the mistake of Job was in thinking that God was unkind.

THE DIVINE GREATNESS

The problem of pain is not solved in this book, but we are shown what kind of a God God is. We are shown first his power in creation,

and man’s weakness; and then, his wisdom in government, and man’s ignorance.

At the end of the mighty drama Satan is routed, the friends are rebuked and Job is rewarded. “The Eternal does not answer our insistent questions; God does not explain, but he does give to the anguished spirit such a sense of the divine greatnessthat questioning ceases in the peace of submission.”

This poem has manifold values. There is a philosophic value in its discussion of the underlying meaning of life as a whole; a scientific value in its observation of nature; a prophetical value in its authoritative divine message; a biographical value in itsdelineation of character; a rhetorical value in its many and marvellous speeches.

There is a historical value in its references to places, people, and customs; a literary value in its whole concept and form; a providential value in its view that God allows his people to suffer for their good; a spiritual value in its revelation of another world and superhuman beings; and a practical value in its teaching on fearing and trusting God.

THE THEME OF THE DRAMA

The theme of the drama in the book of Job is “The Mystery of Suffering,” or “The Problem of Pain,” and in the discussion of this are introduced God, Satan, Job, the friends and Elihu.

The prose prologue begins with Job and God, and the prose epilogue ends with them. Between the prologue and the epilogue is the drama describing the struggle.

A KEY TO HISTORY

The book, it has been said, is a key to the whole Bible and to man’s history from creation to completed redemption:

(1) Man unfallen and tried;

(2) sinning and suffering;

(3) seeking human help in legality, morality, philosophy;

(4) needing and receiving a revelation from God;

(5) humbled, penitent, believing; and

(6) restored to a better estate than at first.

The poem teaches that suffering is not always penal and retributive, but may be disciplinary and educative.

Of Job, Thomas Carlyle has said :

“I call this book, apart from all theories about it, one of the grandest things ever written. One feels, in-deed, as if it were not He-brew; such a noble universality, different from noble patriotism or sectarianism, reigns in it. A noble book, all men’s book! It is our first, oldest statement of the never ending problem

man’s destiny and God’s ways with him here on this earth. And all in such free, flowing outlines; grand in its sincerity, its simplicity, its epic melody and repose of reconcilement.

NOTHING OF EQUAL MERIT

“There is the seeing eye, the mildly understanding heart. So true every way; true insight and vision for all things, material things no less than spiritual. … Such living likenesses were never since drawn. Sublime sorrow, sublime reconciliation; oldest choral melody, as of the heart of mankind; so soft, and great; as the summer midnight, as the world with its seas and stars! There is nothing written, I think, in the Bible or out of it, of equal literary merit.”

THE FIVE GREAT PROBLEMS

The central part of the Old Testament, comprising the wisdom and poetical books, treats of the five great problems of all ages: Job, the problem of suffering; Psalms, the problem of

prayer; Proverbs, the problem of conduct; Ecclesiastes, the problem the chief good; Song of Solomon, the problem of love.

The solution of all thse problems is found only in Christ. He suffered, he prayed, he behaved perfectly, he revealed God, and he is love.

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Pain May Be In the Plan

Jude 1:24

”They that suffer according to the will of God.” I Peter 4:19

Pain, suffering, trouble, adversity, temptation, affliction, can exercise a wonderful ministry of spiritual discipline, refinement and enrichment. Some flowers, like the rose, must be crushed before their full fragrance is released. Some metals, as gold, must be flung into the furnace before they reach full value and purity. So it is with the saints. It is true with many of us that we must be laid low before we will look high. We must know God’s smiting before we can appreciate His smiling. The Potter must break the vessel before He can make out of the same material a new and beautiful vase. Our hearts must be broken before their richest contents can leak out and flow forth to bless others.

Whenever God sends a trial with one hand, He gives grace with the other. Thus trials become triumphs. Burdens become wings. Affliction, instead of being a bed of thorns and a pathway of nettles, becomes a quiltof roses. The very things which seem to break us are the things which really “make” us. Euroclydon blows its tempests upon us! We shall be dashed in pieces on the rock-bound coast. We shall be mutilated in the hidden reef. But no, we are self-deceived. God is in the hurricane, and instead of driving us to destruction, it beats the scared mariner into the safest of all harbours, the encircling arms of God’s love!

Trials, tribulations, adversity, are frequently our biggest benedictions. They are blessings in disguise, messengers from Heaven, come to bless us and make us more like the

Captain of our salvation, Who Himself was made “perfect through sufferings”. The crown of thorns was in the plan for Jesus, but the thorns have given place to diadems! The Cross was the step to the Throne! Let us learn well that pain may be part of the plan. “It is God which worketh in you to will and to do of His good pleasure” (Phil. 2:13).

Yes, pain may be in the plan. This has been a sore problem to many a sincere Christian, yet others have testified that their choicest spiritual enrichments came to them on their “Via Dolorosa.” Moreover, it is supremely important that we relate this problem of pain to our ultimate destiny. Jude 24 tells us that in the coming consummation we Christian believers are to be “presented faultless” before the Heavenly Majesty, which means, of course, the entire perfection of our human nature — spirit, soul and body, But although we are all to be faultless, or perfect in our nature as human beings, does that mean, also, that we shall all be the same in character? No; our nature is what we basically are, whereas our character is a quality or blend of qualities which we develop from our nature by our reactions. Pain, suffering and adversity do something of external significance to our character, according to the way we react to them.

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How Can I Believe In God and Pain?

Job 13:3

“How do you expect me to believe in God,” asked Woody Allen, “when only last week I got my tongue caught in the roller of my electric type-writer?”

For a while now, at least in the Western world, the existence of any form of pain, suffering, or evil has been regarded as evidence for the non-existence of God. If a good God existed, people reason, these things would not. But they do and, therefore, He does not.

My job takes me around many different parts of the world in order to answer people’s questions about the Christian faith. I find it fascinating that I have never been asked this question in India, a country that certainly knows a lot more about suffering than we do. I find it even more intriguing that Christians who write books in situations where they have known unspeakable torment because of the Gospel do not normally raise this as an issue for themselves either. Why?

There are so many ways in which questions concerning pain can be raised. It can be raised because of personal loss and suffering, or because of a personal interest in the issue of theodicy, to name but two. However, regardless of the way the question is raised, it normally comes down to a moral complaint against God. “How could you allow this to happen?” The complaint is against God’s moral character. “Can I really trust God if I see this happen?” But if you are sure that you can trust Him, regardless of the pain you find yourself in, there is no temptation to turn away from Him as He is the only one who can help.

Firstly, let’s deal with the argument against God’s existence. Ravi Zacharias has dealt with this brilliantly in his book CAN MAN LIVE WITHOUT GOD. If you argue from the existence of evil to the non-existence of God, you are assuming the existence of an absolute moral law in order for your argument to work. But if there is such a law that would also mean that there is such a God, since He is the only one who could give us such a law. And if there is such a God to give us this law, then the argument itself is flawed, since you have had to assume the existence of God in order to argue that He doesn’t exist. It is an attempt to invoke the existence of an absolute moral law without invoking the existence of an absolute moral law giver, and it cannot be done.

Secondly, we must also ask the question: what it would take to create a loving world void of evil? A world in which love is capable of meaningful expression and experience would also imply a world in which there is choice. If someone tells you that they love you, those words mean something because they are freely given. If you learned that someone had told you they loved you but that they had been forced to say it, their words would not mean very much. Thus, if we want to speak of a loving world, we must also speak of a world in which choices are exercised. And in such a world, there is also the possibility of choosing a course of action that is NOT LOVING, i.e. evil.

While these observations are helpful in getting at the heart of contradictions often behind the questions of God and suffering, I do not think they get at the heart of the questions as people most commonly ask: Can I trust God even when faced with great evil? Is He morally trustworthy? Can I trust Him even if I don’t understand what is happening?

These are profound questions, and whole books could be written about them. But I will offer one more thought. Maybe the reason we question God’s moral character when bad things happen is that we live our lives largely independent from Him. In other words, we struggle to trust Him in times of trouble because we do not really trust Him when things are going well. Maybe we struggle with suffering so much in the West because we are so comfortable most of the time that we feel we don’t need God. We do not rely on Him on a daily basis, and so we do not really know Him. When suffering comes along, therefore, it is not so much that it takes us away from God, but that it reveals to us that we have not really been close to Him in the first place.

As I said earlier, I have never been asked questions about God and suffering when I am travelling in countries riddled with the realities of it. In fact, when I visit churches in parts of the world where they are faced daily with horrific affliction, I normally leave inspired. They trust God in everything, even when things are going well. When times are hard, they cling to God because they have already learned to trust Him. They have learned that God does not change, even when our circumstances have.

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Copyright © 2007 Ravi Zacharias International Ministries (RZIM). Reprinted with permission. "A Slice of Infinity" is a radio ministry of Ravi Zacharias International Ministries.

Pascal's Pensées: Thoughts Worth Thinking

Blaise Pascal was a man who most people agree, secular and Christian, was a genius.

Pascal’s legacy of scientific achievement is almost without equal. By age 30, Pascal had made vital contributions to mathematics, physics, meteorology, and what would become computer science.

But as impressive as all of these accomplishments are, Pascal’s most important legacy is his apologetic for the Christian faith, the Pensées.

At age 31, Pascal had a religious experience that made all of his achievements seem insignificant by comparison. He described his experience: “. . . about half past ten in the evening until about half past twelve, fire.” The God he encountered was the “God of Abraham, God of Isaac, God of Jacob,” and “not of the philosophers and scholars.”

The experience so changed Pascal that he devoted the rest of his life — sadly, only eight years — to defending the Christian faith. The Pensées, which is French for “thoughts,” are the product of this desire.

Unfortunately, the Pensées live up to their name. They were literally written one thought at a time. Pascal never finished them, and what he wrote was never systematically organized.

As Ken Boa tells us, the Pensées are “300 years ahead of [their] time.” In them, Pascal anticipates much of the way our postmodern world thinks and feels: our sense of boredom and the desire for distraction that it creates. As Pascal put it, “if we were happy, the less diverted we would need to be.”

But we are not happy. According to Pascal, the human condition was characterized by pain, ambiguity, and a lack of clarity, all of which gave rise to anxiety and angst. But rather than deal with “the tough questions of life,” we distract ourselves with what Pascal calls “vanity,” including the desire for fame and notoriety.

Sound familiar?

The goal of his Pensées was to create an apologetic that described and spoke to the “whole of our experience”: our hearts and wills, as well as our minds. As Pascal famously put it, “the heart has its reasons, of which reason knows nothing.”

According to Boa, the message of the Pensées is that man is both fallen and is redeemable. As Pascal put it, “the grandeur of man is great in that he knows himself to be miserable.” This misery can make us aware of our need for God and point us in the direction of the only One who can deliver us from our misery: Jesus Christ.

The Pensées’ insight into the human condition is why Pascal is probably more influential 340-plus years after his death than during his short life. His ability to depict postmodern man is even more remarkable than his anticipation of the computer.

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Copyright (c) 2008 Prison Fellowship Ministries. Reprinted with permission. "BreakPoint with Chuck Colson" is a radio ministry of Prison Fellowship Ministries.

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The Ministry of Suffering

Colossians 1:24

I now rejoice in my sufferings for you, . . . for the sake of His body, which is the church. —Colossians 1:24

In this self-indulgent age, many believe that people of faith shouldn’t suffer. But according to author George MacDonald, “The Son of God suffered unto death, not that men might not suffer, but that their sufferings might be like His.”

In Colossians 1:24, the apostle Paul said that his own sufferings filled up what was “lacking in the afflictions of Christ.” He didn’t mean that Christ’s death was inadequate to save us. He was indicating that suffering for the Lord is a part of following Him. As we live for Christ and proclaim His sacrifice to a lost world, we will experience suffering.

What an example the apostle is to us! Instead of pitying himself, he joyfully suffered for Christ and His people. He knew that pain and suffering weren’t too great a price for the privilege of being a blessing to others.

Hymnwriter Frances Ridley Havergal, referring to her pain-ridden body, said, “Everybody is so sorry for me except myself.” Then she added, “I see my pain in the light of Calvary.” Even those who suffer physical infirmities can glorify God and challenge others.

It’s not morbid to accept suffering as we serve the Lord—it’s our calling and ministry! —JEY

The suffering that we endure

To bring light to a darkened soul

Gives us great reason to rejoice

When lives, once broken, are made whole. —Sper

The call to serve Christ includes the call to suffer for Christ.

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The Cross Is Too Scary

John 19:17

A large sculpture of Christ on the cross has been removed from outside a church in West Sussex, England, after its vicar said it was “scaring young children.” The Reverend Ewen Souter said the 10-foot crucifix was “a horrifying depiction of pain and suffering” which was also “putting people off.”

The sculpture, located at the side of St John’s Church in Broadbridge Heath, has now been given to a museum. It will be replaced with a new stainless steel cross.

In a survey carried out by the church, every comment about the sculpture was negative. Rev. Souter said, “Children have commented on how scary they find it and how off-putting they find it as a symbol outside the church. As a key exterior symbol for us it was putting people off rather than having a sense of hope and life and the power of the resurrection.”

He said rather than undermining the work of the cross, the church wanted to portray “an accurate biblical picture of the crucifixion as a moment of hopefulness for the world, and not one of despair.”

The sculpture was designed in the 1960s by former Royal Society of British Sculptors president, Edward Bainbridge Copnall, and made out of coal dust and resin. It was removed from the church just before Christmas and will be mounted on a large wall at a museum.

Jeremy Knight, curator, said the powerful image portrayed by the figure was that of Christ in pain. “That today isn’t an image which a lot of churches want to follow. They’d much rather see an empty cross where Christ has risen,” he said.

Rev. John Capron, an Anglican minister in Tunbridge Wells, thinks there are good reasons to keep the anguished crucifix. “I think it is very difficult for us to sanitize the Christian faith and certainly to sanitize human suffering. The cross was a dreadful event, one of the cruelest events in the history of mankind. And as we look at the world around us at the moment, I just don’t think it’s entirely realistic to pretend that violence and horror don’t happen to us. For Christians, of course, the great comfort in the crucifix is the thought not that it represents simply human pain, but that it represents also the love of God. The God who created us is also the God who suffers with us.”

Southern Baptist Preacher Becomes A Buddhist

Job 2:13

For Thomas Dyer, there was fire and brimstone. “There was the idea that there’s an angry God and somehow you could really make Him mad.” Dyer grew up fearing God. He was a Cumberland Presbyterian, then a Baptist. He had hoped religious conviction would lead to contentment. He attended seminary and preached as a Southern Baptist minister.

That seems like a lifetime ago as Dyer, 43, sits on a cushion in the shrine room of the Pema Karpo Meditation Center in Raleigh. Six statues of various Buddhas are positioned against the walls. His teacher, a Tibetan monk who founded the temple, listens as Dyer explains his exodus from the pulpit in search of nirvana.

“The question that arose in my mind is, ‘Why is there so much suffering?’ Christianity did not have a satisfactory answer. I wanted to be happy. The idea that we have to live with suffering until we die just did not make sense to me -- the idea that God wants you to suffer so you can then enjoy heaven.” Dyer kept asking, “Is this all there is to life?” As a Christian, he had been interested in mysticism. That led to meditation. Dyer studied Buddhism, then visited the temple near his home in Raleigh. Right away, he says, “It was like, ‘Whoa, I’m home.’”

In and out of church, Dyer says unhappiness and dissatisfaction seemed pervasive. Wealth and success made no difference. “Everybody is basically suffering about the same. The average Joes you can see happiness in their lives, but it doesn’t take long that you will see confusion and dissatisfaction. I wanted to explore the idea that you could find a solution to suffering.”

Converting to Buddhism wasn’t painless. “When you grow up in the Bible Belt, that teaching is very strong. It’s almost better to be a drug addict, an adulterer or a scalawag than to say, ‘I’m a Buddhist.’”

He questioned whether he was “denying Christ or endangering my eternal position. But as I continued my meditation, these types of fear just dissolved.”

His marriage and two children also were issues. Dyer’s wife, Sidney, and the children are Christians, members of First Evangelical Church. “It challenged us to the point that it made us wonder if we could make it,” she said.

Sidney’s belief that “God plans it all” helped. “I actually thank God in a way because I wouldn’t have gone as deep in my own faith if I hadn’t been challenged,” she said. Instead of rejecting the suffering that her husband questioned, she embraced it: “I think each individual’s suffering is personally designed for that individual to lead him to God.”

She describes her husband as “a deeply spiritual person” and holds out hope that his spiritual journey will lead him back to Christianity.

At Mid-America Baptist Theological Seminary, president Michael Spradlin says a minister’s conversion from fundamentalist Southern Baptist tradition to Buddhism seems “unfathomable.” Spradlin says most suffering in this country is no more than “inconvenience” compared with the real suffering of those in Sudan and other war and famine-ravaged countries.

Spradlin suggests that if Dyer really was a born-again Christian that Southern Baptists and a “forgiving God” might consider his exploration of Buddhism as a “wrong step or a wrong path” and that he could be welcomed back to Christianity.

Dyer, who says he still appreciates the teachings of the Bible, says he doesn’t think of Buddhism as a rejection of Christianity. But the happiness he once sought as a Christian no longer seems beyond his grasp. “Without a doubt, without equivocation, there has been a continuous, constant diminishment of suffering and awakening of peace and happiness,” he said.

What If Suffering Were A Lollipop?

Acts 8:1

The problem with suffering is the pain. Seems obvious, doesn’t it?

But stop and think. Probably most believers would readily give verbal assent to the idea that suffering is used by God for good in our lives. We know enough verses to be cognizant of that fact. Often we find ourselves saying in the midst of deep trials that, though we don’t know why God is allowing this to happen, we do know that He has a purpose in it.

Somewhere deep in our storehouse of biblical knowledge we know that suffering is good for us. A few of the Scriptures we would point to would be:

1. Suffering points us to the glorious return of Christ. (1 Peter 4:13)

2. Suffering causes dependence on the grace of God. (2 Corinthians 12:8-9)

3. Suffering demonstrates the grace of God. (1 Peter 2:19)

4. Suffering produces endurance. (Romans 5:3; James 1:2-3)

5. Jesus was made perfect through suffering. (Hebrews 2:10; 5:8-9)

6. Suffering perfects us, as it did Jesus (James 1:4)

7. Suffering brings the comfort of God. (2 Corinthians 1:5-7)

8. Suffering brings conformity to Christ. (Romans 8:28-29; Philippians 3:10)

9. Suffering causes us to long for heaven. (2 Corinthians 4:16-18)

10. Suffering gets us out of our comfort zone. (Acts 8:1)

If all these are true then why is it also true that we tend to dread suffering; we seek to avoid it in every way; we look at it, not as friend, but as a fearsome enemy? All too often we are like the kids in the old TV commercial who, when discussing a yucky, healthy food, said, “It tastes like it’s good for us.” We don’t like the taste of suffering. Why? The answer is the pain. Our focus is on the process and not the product.

What if suffering were a lollipop? What if, in God’s economy, He had foreordained that eating a lollipop would perfect the Lord Jesus Himself? What if God had decreed that licking a lollipop would lead us to the abundant grace that is all-sufficient? What if sucking on a delicious sticky lollipop would produce in us endurance and complete us in Christ-likeness? What if the tantalizing taste of a lollipop caused us to long for heaven with all our might?

Answer: we would be ecstatic. We would sing the praises of lollipops. We would longingly look for lollipops. We would encourage others to do the lollipop thing with great perseverance and diligence. We would have lollipop-licking colloquies designed to teach the techniques and joys of lollipop delights.

So the problem with suffering is the pain. Would that God would grant the ability to focus on the goal, the high calling of God in Christ Jesus, and realize that God’s ways are perfect. Why does He bring suffering into our lives? Because He wants us to experience every aspect of His glory. His desire is for us to know His grace and comfort and power and peace. He wants us to taste and see that He is good. Look past the pain, past the process to the perfect suffering Savior!

The Problem of Pain: the Intolerable Compliment

Job 1

Why would a good God allow pain and suffering? It’s the age-old question. When we’re experiencing pain ourselves, or watching someone we love experience pain, no answer seems adequate, and our faith faces its severest test.

That’s why it was a daring and risky project for C. S. Lewis to write the book THE PROBLEM OF PAIN.

As Lewis himself said, he was trying to tackle the intellectual side of the problem because he felt himself unequipped to tackle the emotional side. Lewis says in his preface, “For the far higher task of teaching fortitude and patience I was never fool enough to suppose myself qualified, nor have I anything to offer my readers except my conviction that when pain is to be borne, a little courage helps more than much knowledge, a little human sympathy more than much courage, and the least tincture of the love of God more than all.” Beautifully said.

As usual, Lewis uses his characteristic blend of “logic and imagination” to tackle these tough questions. He explains that God takes the universe He created so seriously that He has to allow it to operate according to the rules He set up. Similarly, He has so much respect for our free will that He allows us to use it even when the consequences will be harmful.

As Lewis puts it: “It is no more possible for God than for the weakest of His creatures to carry out both of two mutually exclusive alternatives.... Not even omnipotence could create a society of free souls without at the same time creating a relatively independent and inexorable nature.” He also says that if God corrected every abuse of free will at every moment, “freedom of the will would be void.”

But there’s more to it than that. There are times when God permits pain to enter our lives, not just as a consequence of evil actions, but because He can see the big picture, and He knows that in the long run these painful experiences will help us. With our limited perspective, this is so often hard for us to grasp. But God is so much wiser than we are that we cannot always understand His idea of goodness; it is not opposed to ours, but greater than ours. I have found this to be the case.

We often think that goodness simply equals happiness. Lewis writes, “We want in fact not so much a Father in heaven as a grandfather in heaven: a senile benevolence who as they say liked to see young people enjoying themselves and whose plan for the universe was simply that it might be truly said at the end of each day, ‘A good time was had by all.’”

But God wants something more for us, Lewis says: “We are a divine work of art ... something with which He will not be satisfied until it has a certain character.” God has paid us “the intolerable compliment”: He takes us and our moral development seriously and is working to make us holy.

One day, Lewis reminds us, THE PROBLEM OF PAIN will be solved. Evil will be destroyed and we will be perfected. Until that day we can find help and reassurance in a book that, as Ken Boa has said, “has helped thousands, millions perhaps, reach greater understanding and courage in the face of life’s pain.”

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Copyright (c) 2009 Prison Fellowship Ministries. Reprinted with permission. "BreakPoint with Chuck Colson" is a radio ministry of Prison Fellowship Ministries.

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Tragedy In Texas: Christian Testimony In The Face of Evil

Job 4:8

All hearts were directed to Texas in 2018 after 26 people were shot and killed when a 26-year-old gunman dressed in black opened fire as a church service was underway at a Baptist church in a small town near San Antonio, Texas. As The New York Times reported:

“A gunman clad in all black, with a ballistic vest strapped to his chest and a military-style rifle in his hands, opened fire on parishioners at a Sunday service at a small Baptist church in rural Texas, killing at least 26 people and turning this tiny town east of San Antonio into the scene of the country’s newest mass horror.”

At this point the investigation is in the earliest stages, but we already know this is an absolutely horrifying story. It is a tragedy that is only going to unfold in greater tragedy. This attack taking place as a small Baptist church in rural Texas was just beginning its worship service, it is a sign of something far deeper that has gone wrong in our society. The fact that many of the victims already have been identified as children, including the 14-year-old daughter of the church’s pastor, underlines, once again, that so much of the evil in the world is simply beyond our understanding — even our theological understanding. As is so often the case in our experience when headlines like this come at us, the facts themselves seem perplexing and overwhelming. Murder is hard enough for us to understand, mass murder just makes it all the more difficult to understand. But how can we possibly understand the intentional killing of a pregnant woman, little children, a 14-year-old, and of Christians gathered together in worship?

From a Christian worldview, we have to understand that the facts are important. It is not wrong to want to know what the dots are and then to try to connect them. God made us rational and moral creatures and this moral sense reaches out for some rational explanation of the horrifying evil of our world. But our first response should not be to try to understand the crime, but rather, to identify with the community in grief and experiencing heartbreak.

The Christian worldview dignifies the heartbroken. Heartbrokenness is a part of human existence; it will come to every single human being at some time. Jesus himself affirmed this in the Beatitudes in Matthew 5:4, “Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted.”

This particular attack in Texas highlights the fact that Christians are not immune from this kind of heartbreak. We cannot understand exactly what that congregation in that community is experiencing, but we do understand heartbreak, and we know that heartbreak is at the very center of their experience at this moment.

The Christian worldview affirms the dignity of human life. According to Scripture, every single human life is of eternal value and inestimable worth. Murder is not, then, merely a crime, it is an assault on the dignity of the human being — an attack upon the image of God.

In one very important dimension, this demonstrates why the Christian worldview is so utterly different than every other worldview. Atheism, for instance, must affirm that, at its base, human life is merely a series of accidents. There is no Creator, so there is no human being made in the Creator’s image. Of course atheists would clearly classify this murderous attack in Sutherland Springs, Texas, as evil, but they have no real ability to understand or to embrace the notion of evil with any coherence. Evil is essentially a theological category. Without theism evil becomes simply the strongest word we have to describe something we wish hadn’t happened.

Christians also have to acknowledge that our affirmation of an infinitely great and an infinitely good God requires us to answer some questions that atheists don’t have to answer. The most urgent of these questions: How could an all-powerful and all-loving God, allow such evil to take place? There are those who have suggested perhaps it’s an indication that God really isn’t in control of the universe. For instance, Rabbi Harold Kushner famously argued in his book When Bad Things Happen to Good People that God is simply doing the best he can with the circumstances — and some circumstances are just too big for God to handle. This assertion, however, is a subversion of the biblical teaching concerning God. It is a repudiation of the God of the Bible. The Bible is clear: God is in control of the entire universe, there isn’t one atom or a molecule outside of his control. If there is, then we are doomed.

Other arguments have been made, suggesting that perhaps we are to understand evil, including moral evil, as having an instrumental value; perhaps God allows this because there is some kind of experience he wants us to have in order to learn some lesson we otherwise would not learn. Yet, even as the Bible indicates that pain, suffering, and mourning are teachers, we have to be very careful about telling others what God is supposedly teaching them in the midst of heartbreak.

Others have suggested that pain, suffering, and evil do not exist; they are abstractions or illusions. That’s the official teaching of the religion known as Christian Science, but in direct contradiction to Christian Science, biblical Christianity points to the fact that suffering and pain are real, that sorrow and heartbreak are real, and that, most importantly in terms of the biblical affirmation, death is all too real. It is an absolute insult, morally speaking, and it is a tremendous error, theologically speaking, to imagine addressing this community in Sutherland Springs, Texas, and telling them that death and evil are illusions and that their pain-and-suffering are not real.

Christians have learned that sometimes we have to wait for an answer, and sometimes that wait goes beyond any answer we can get in this life. Charles Spurgeon, the great Baptist preacher of the 19th century in London stated this beautifully: “When we cannot trace God’s hand, we are simply to trust his heart.”

As we’re thinking about the First Baptist Church in Sutherland Springs we are reminded of the testimony of the apostle Paul in 2 Corinthians 4:9, “persecuted, but not forsaken; struck down, but not destroyed.”

This throws us back on the deepest resources of biblical Christianity. This pushes us back to understanding the attributes of God as revealed in Scripture, the attributes of his power and the attributes of his morality, his greatness and his goodness, his justice, his righteousness, and his mercy. We are also reminded of the fact that the only answer Christians have is the answer of the gospel of Jesus Christ. That is the only promise of making sense out of nonsense. The gospel is the only assurance of the victory of good over evil. The gospel of Christ is the only promise of meaning and significance and satisfaction, not only in this life, but in the life to come.

Finally, in the face of this horrific tragedy we must remember the words of the prophet Isaiah as he looked upon the sacrifice of the Messiah: “surely he has borne our grief’s and carried our sorrows ... But he was pierced for our transgressions; he was crushed for our iniquities; upon him was the chastisement that brought us peace, and with his wounds we are healed” (Isa 53:4-5).

For Christians facing the honest immensity of this challenge of evil, this is really all we have to say. And here’s our confidence. It is enough.

The Napalm Girl - These Bombs Led Me To Christ

John 14:6

The “Napalm Girl” from a famous Vietnam War photo tells her story of coming to faith.

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You have seen my picture a thousand times. It’s a picture that made the world gasp — a picture that defined my life. I am nine years old, running along a puddled roadway in front of an expressionless soldier, arms outstretched, naked, shrieking in pain and fear, the dark contour of a napalm cloud billowing in the distance.

My own people, the South Vietnamese, had been bombing trade routes used by the Viet Cong rebels. I had not been targeted, of course. I had simply been in the wrong place at the wrong time.

Those bombs have brought me immeasurable pain. Even now, some 40 years later, I am still receiving treatment for burns that cover my arms, back, and neck. The emotional and spiritual pain was even harder to endure.

And yet, looking back at the past five decades, I realize that those same bombs that brought so much suffering also brought great healing. Those bombs led me to Christ.

Mountain of Rage

As a child, I was raised in the religion of Cao Dai (pronounced cow-die). My grandparents were important leaders within the religion, and they enjoyed respect from our entire community. Following in their footsteps, my parents, who had grown up knowing no religion except Cao Dai, also devoted themselves to its beliefs, as did all of my siblings.

Cao Dai is universalist in nature. According to a description on CaoDai.org, it recognizes all religions as having “one same divine origin, which is God, or Allah, or the Tao, or the Nothingness,” or pretty much any other deity you could imagine. “You are god, and god is you” — we had this mantra ingrained in us. We were equal-opportunity worshipers, giving every god a shot.

Looking back, I see my family’s religion as something of a charm bracelet slung around my wrist, each dangling bauble representing yet another possibility of divine assistance. When troubles came along — and every day, it seemed, they did — I was encouraged to rub those charms in hopes that help would arrive.

For years, I prayed to the gods of Cao Dai for healing and peace. But as one prayer after another went unanswered, it became clear that either they were nonexistent or they did not care to lend a hand.

And so I continued to bear the crippling weight of anger, bitterness, and resentment toward those who caused my suffering — the searing fire that penetrated my body; the ensuing burn baths; the dry and itchy skin; the inability to sweat, which turned my flesh into an oven in Vietnam’s sweltering heat. I craved relief that never would come. And yet, despite every last external circumstance that threatened to overtake me — mind, body, and soul — the most agonizing pain I suffered during that season of life dwelled in my heart.

I was as alone as a person can be. I could not turn to a friend, for nobody wished to befriend me. I was toxic, and everyone knew it. To be near me was to be near hardship. Wise people stayed far away. I was alone, atop a mountain of rage. Why was I made to wear these awful scars?

I grew up hearing the proverb “A tree wants to be alone, but the wind always whips it here and there.” That was me: a wind-whipped tree. And I feared I would never stand upright again.

In 1982, I found myself crouched inside Saigon’s central library, pulling Vietnamese books of religion off the shelves one by one. The stack in front of me included books on Bahá’í, Buddhism, Hinduism, Islam, and Cao Dai. It also contained a copy of the New Testament. I thumbed through several books before pulling the New Testament into my lap. An hour later, I had picked my way through the Gospels, and at least two themes had become abundantly clear.

First, despite all that I had learned through Cao Dai — that there were many gods, that there were many paths to holiness, that the burden of “success” in religion rested atop my own weary, slumped shoulders — Jesus presented himself as the way, the truth, and the life (John 14:6). His entire ministry, it seemed, pointed to one straightforward claim: “I am the way you get to God; there is no other way but me.” Second, this Jesus had suffered in defense of his claim. He had been mocked, tortured, and killed. Why would he endure these things, I wondered, if he were not, in fact, God?

I had never been exposed to this side of Jesus — the wounded one, the one who bore scars. I turned over this new information in my mind as a gem in my hand, relishing the light that was cast from all sides. The more I read, the more I came to believe that he really was who he said he was, that he really had done what he said he had done, and that — most important to me — he really would do all that he had promised in his Word.

Perhaps he could help me make sense of my pain and at last come to terms with my scars.

Finally at Peace

My salvation experience happened, fittingly enough, on Christmas Eve. It was 1982, and I was attending a special worship service at a small church in Saigon.

The pastor spoke about how Christmas is not about the gifts we give to each other, so much as it is about one gift in particular: the gift of Jesus Christ. As I listened to this message, I knew that something was shifting inside me.

How desperately I needed peace. How ready I was for love and joy. I had so much hatred in my heart — so much bitterness. I wanted to let go of all my pain. I wanted to pursue life instead of holding fast to fantasies of death. I wanted this Jesus.

So when the pastor finished speaking, I stood up, stepped out into the aisle, and made my way to the front of the sanctuary to say yes to Jesus Christ.

And there, in a small church in Vietnam, mere miles from the street where my journey had begun amid the chaos of war — on the night before the world would celebrate the birth of the Messiah — I invited Jesus into my heart.

When I woke up that Christmas morning, I experienced the kind of healing that can only come from God. I was finally at peace.

Nearly half a century has passed since I found myself running — frightened, naked, and in pain — down that road in Vietnam. I will never forget the horrors of that day — the bombs, the fire, the shrieks, the fear. Nor will I forget the years of trial and torment that followed. But when I think about how far I have come — the freedom and peace that comes from faith in Jesus — I realize there is nothing greater or more powerful than the love of our blessed Savior.

My faith in Jesus has enabled me to forgive those who have hurt and scarred me. It has enabled me to pray for my enemies rather than curse them. And it has enabled me not just to tolerate them but truly to love them.

I will forever bear the scars of that day, and that picture will always serve as a reminder of the unspeakable evil of which humanity is capable. That picture defined my life. In the end, it gave me a mission, a ministry, a cause.

Today, I thank God for that picture. Today, I thank God for everything — even for that road. Especially for that road.

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Kim Phuc Phan Thi is the author of Fire Road: The Napalm Girl’s Journey through the Horrors of War to Faith, Forgiveness, and Peace (Tyndale).

Living In Constant Pain

Mark 5:25

Imagine plunging your hand into a pot of boiling water – and leaving it there. Imagine a hot knife being thrust into your eye without being withdrawn. Imagine not being able to tolerate intense light or loud noises because of the pain each causes.

That’s a short list of the daily challenges Keith Orsini faces every day.

Orsini has what is called complex regional pain syndrome – aptly referred to as CRPS by acronym.

Symptoms of the condition began after Orsini was severely injured playing baseball. A freshman pitcher for his high school baseball team, Orsini was struck in the face by a line drive.

At the time, Orsini and his coach wanted him to shake it off and return to the game. His dad prevailed, however, and the young athlete went to the hospital.

“It broke my nose and shattered my cheek bone,” he said. “I lost sight in my left eye.”

That was in the spring of 1974.

Orsini said he began to experience sensitivity to light and sound almost immediately. He also complained of constant pain and touch sensitivity.

His doctors told his father that Orsini was drug-seeking or a complainer. His efforts to get medical help were frustrating, he said.

“Some people will tell you that God never gives you more than you can handle,” he said. “I don’t believe that. I always felt that God helps you turn things around.”

Orsini was not diagnosed with CRPS until 1993 – 19 years after his accident. He is 54 and has lived with his condition 35 years.

Turning things around

In 1995, Orsini’s family founded American RSDHope, a nonprofit organization dedicated to educating the public about this little-recognized condition. The family did not want others to experience what Orsini had gone through in getting a diagnosis.

“At one time a patient with CRPS had to see around 10 doctors before getting a diagnosis,” he said. “Now, the average is three doctors.”

Their efforts were to reach physicians as well. Orsini said amputations of limbs occurred as a result of doctors thinking the pain would end with the removal of the painful site. The problem is CRPS can spread.

“You have someone whose leg or arm has been amputated to end the pain, only to still have pain – minus the limb,” Orsini said.

In addition to his mother, Lynne Orsini, Keith Orsini has a partner who works with him. They met in Florida as volunteers with the Humane Society. Anjanette Lee was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis (MS), similar to CRPS in that it is related to the nervous system. There the comparisons end, they both said.

Orsini and Lee are unable to work regular jobs and are relegated to disability incomes. But they find great solace in working with kindergartners at a local elementary school.

Asked if it isn’t painful for him when the children touch him, Orsini looked up with a slight smile.

“It is a great reminder to me that there are children who are not constantly suffering from pain,” he said.

Asked how he has coped all this time, Orsini is philosophic.

“You lose most of your friends when you have a chronic illness,” he said. “People don’t know. They are uncomfortable around you and don’t know what to say.”

He said CRPS has been called the suicide disease. Most don’t last as long as him.

Asked what he would like to happen in his life, he replied, “To be normal.”

________

Complex regional pain syndrome was formerly known as reflex sympathetic dystrophy syndrome (RSDS). It is a progressive disease with no known cure, Keith Orsini said. It attacks the sympathetic nervous system, which mobilizes the body’s nervous system through hormonal and stress response.

Between 1.5 and 3 million are affected, according to information provided by American RSDHope. While anyone can get the disease, women dominate the numbers at 75 percent.

Pain caused by CRPS is constant, extremely intense, and out of proportion to an injury. According to the McGill Pain Index, CRPS is the most painful chronic pain listed. It ranks above chronic back pain, childbirth and the amputation of a digit.

While patients do experience remission – the absence of symptoms – a simple stubbed toe can bring the onslaught back, Orsini said.

A Generation of Pain

Life can be painful. A few months ago I spoke to a large group of teenagers who had gathered for a youth rally in our area. Though I did not know all the teenagers who were there, I knew enough of them to know it was a room full of pain.

The “normal” painful things were represented, like broken homes and financial needs. But there were also five teenagers present who had lost at least one parent to death, two only 48 hours before the rally. There were teenagers present who had been physically abused as well as some who had been sexually abused. At least one I knew in the group bounces from house to house, never quite knowing where “home” is any particular week. A number have lost friends in car accidents and/or in a tragic house fire that took several lives four years ago. Several of those present were struggling with addictions in their own lives or in the lives of their parents. There were at least two “cutters” in the group and at least three who were struggling with their sexual identity. Wow -- what a lot of pain for one room. Whatever happened to teenagers just hanging out and being kids?

My experience speaking to that group reinforced in my mind that the current generation is a generation of pain. In many ways they are a generation of broken families and emotional problems. They are the first generation that will most likely be less well off than their parents. They are inheriting an economy that is in shambles, morality that has collapsed and a nation that is not as well liked around the world as it once was. With so much stacked against them, the last thing they need is a church that does not care about their pain or help them with their struggles. Yet, that is what many of them find.

Young people are leaving the church in large numbers. It is not that they don’t believe in God; statistics actually say that today’s teenagers are more likely to believe in God than their parents. It is just that they are not finding God in many churches. So they look for Him in other places.

Yet the church has been called to hold the keys to the Kingdom of God. Too many churches have lost the keys they are supposed to be holding. Churches need to rediscover those keys before they lose a whole generation. One of the ways churches can rediscover the keys to the Kingdom and unlock spiritual truth for teenagers is to help them deal with the pain they have experienced.

Thankfully, we have an Advocate who stays closer than a brother. Christ is the One who was wounded for our transgressions and by His stripes we can be healed. So we have a lot to offer to young people that can ease their pain, if we are willing to offer it. Encourage your church to be a voice of healing for a generation in pain.

Job As A Sacrifice of Suffering

Job 1

Many people associate self-denial (and suffering) with Catholicism. Pope John Paul II’s SALVICI DOLORES records all the benefits that suffering brings. In contrast, the appendix on theodicy lists all the arguments defending God from the crime of causing unjust suffering. Is suffering and denial a good thing or a bad thing? Was God doing Job a favor or an insult to afflict him so heavily? How can I even ask such an obvious question? In our modern Western culture we have perhaps lost any sense of the value of righteous suffering, a concept that was well understood by the ascetics and martyrs of past centuries. Perhaps it would be beneficial to examine this story from such a perspective.

THE TYPES OF SUFFERING

Since human suffering (not to mention animal suffering!) has often been equated with unmitigated evil, it would make the remainder of this chapter an oxymoron unless we can carefully distinguish between the two. Clearly evil is a moral judgment, for though we might call a murderer evil, it would not seem correct to call a man-eating tiger evil. In contrast, suffering, for the most part, is amoral, for we might again say that a long drought causes animals to suffer without saying that the drought is evil. Evil seems to require that a sentient being freely chose to cause suffering in some manner. We will come back to this choice, but for the moment, let us look objectively at types of suffering.

• PHYSICAL PAIN

Dr. Brandt, in his book with Phillip Yancey, WHERE IS GOD WHEN IT HURTS?, discusses his medical work at a leprosarium. Because of the social stigma associated with the disease of leprosy, which goes back at least as far as the Mosaic Law, lepers were often forced to live in a quarantined community, a leprosarium, despite the relative difficulty in actually contracting the sickness. Dr. Brandt discusses the nature of the disease and its consequences, a bacterial infection of the nerve endings that causes a cessation of feeling, particularly of pain. The disfigurement that is associated with leprosy is almost entirely a secondary result of lacking the sensation of pain. He tells the story of a rusted padlock that would not yield to his efforts to unlock it. A young patient ran over and said, “Here, Dr. Brandt, let me help you.” The fellow gave a quick turn of the key and the lock opened. The amazed Dr. Brandt seized the boy’s wrist and said “Let me look at your hand.” The lock had been so rusty that the key cut the boy’s fingers right down to the bone, to which he was completely oblivious. Pain, Dr. Brandt argues, is essential for living, it is a necessity for survival.

Pain, in and of itself, appears to be distinct from suffering, however it is often associated with suffering, and in fact is the most common explanation for suffering. Since we don’t want to say “suffering is essential for living”, we must somehow again distinguish between them. One might try to say that great pain, or chronic pain produces suffering, but it seems too easy to find counter-examples. My children, for example, are quite capable of turning a mosquito bite into impossible suffering, particularly when they should be asleep in bed. Thus it appears that suffering has to do more with the attitude taken toward pain than the pain itself. In his book, 1984, George Orwell presents a “hero” whose resolve collapses under torture, the torture being the fear of pain, rather than the pain itself. In contrast, one might distill from the stories of great heroes of the past the definition that true heroism is the ability to overcome fear in the face of pain. So we see that suffering is an added dimension to pain, it requires a certain type of emotional response, which, though triggered by pain, is independent of the amount or duration of the pain itself.

• EMOTIONAL DISTRESS

Even without physical pain it is easy to find examples of suffering, particularly in those, such as Job’s wife, who are forced to observe the pain of someone they love. In fact, as others have remarked, it is this group of sufferers who write most of the literature on “the problem of evil”, since those enduring the hardship of pain most often lack the energy or the drive to philosophize. It is really not even fair to label this “vicarious” suffering, because the observer experiences it so vividly himself. Into this group one could put all other forms of “painless” suffering: broken relationships, discrimination, rejection, betrayal etc. What they all have in common is an emotional viewpoint toward the circumstances that makes one a victim or object of suffering. Only when this viewpoint changes can the suffering be remedied. The most moving account of this process that I have encountered was C.S. Lewis’ pseudonymous book, A GRIEF OBSERVED, in which he describes the death of his wife. How one reaches this resolution is probably unique to each person, and forms the subject of a vast body of literature in the field of counselling. Nevertheless, it is probably true to say that when emotional distress is combined with physical pain it produces the most stubborn form of suffering known to modern psychology. Job fits in this category, and is therefore an archetype of the most pernicious type of human suffering.

• SPIRITUAL REBELLION

There are lengthy debates as to whether the Old Testament supports a two-part separation of man into Body-Soul, or whether a three-part separation is justified, Body-Soul-Spirit. Without intending to take sides in this debate, let me venture into neo-Platonic territory with St. Augustine and propose that evil has no objective reality, rather it is the absence of reality, in the same way that a shadow is the absence of light. We can define suffering in a similar way, so that emotional distress is not so much an objective condition as it is the absence of emotional well-being.

Physical pain is not so easily defined away. Physical pain, as a neurologist might say, is caused by the firing of certain pathways in the brain, generally stimulated by messages from the nerves. But since it is interpreted in the brain, a “short-circuit” in the brain is possible that produces pain without external stimulation, so that, for example, a man with an amputated leg might still feel pain in his now absent appendage. In such cases, electrical stimulation of the nerve endings of the stump or in the spinal cord can prevent the short-circuit from generating pain. In fact, meditation and biofeedback techniques have proven very effective in treating cases of “phantom” pain. So despite its very real existence on electro-encephalograms, one could still view physical pain as a disruption of the normal alpha-wave pattern of a healthy brain.

What have we gained from such neo-Platonic word play? The ability to define spiritual suffering, i.e., if physical pain is a disruption of a “normal mode” brain wave, and emotional distress is a disruption of “emotional well-being”, then spiritual suffering is a disruption of “normal mode spiritual well-being”. And what, pray tell, would that be? Well if Genesis 1 and Job 1 could be said to define the normal state of heaven and its footstool, Earth, then the Fall in Genesis and the Suffering of Job constitute an anomaly, a disruption in the Heavenly order. Such a lack of “rightness” in the spiritual realms constitutes “spiritual suffering”. Without impugning God, one might say that Satan’s presence in the court of heaven caused God spiritual suffering.

Now the origin of this spiritual suffering is beyond our understanding, consisting as it does, in the origin of Satan’s rebellion. That angelic rebellion spread to Man in the Fall, and from thence to Job, as described in Job 1. Job’s plight then takes on a third dimension, beyond the physical and emotional torment, to a realm of spiritual suffering in the heavenlies. The “why?” of Job’s pleas are thus far more than expressions of his agony in the particulars of his own situation, but the cry of all the innocents who have died at the hands of merciless men, “from Abel to Zechariah”. If we can say that the most stubborn form of human suffering lies at the interface between body and soul, we see that the most profound form of human suffering lies at the interface between soul-body and spirit, between heaven and earth. It is the resolution of this spiritual suffering that is, in some sense, THE important answer that the book of Job holds for those who ask the question.

THE CONSEQUENCES OF SUFFERING

It is, in general, a very dangerous thing to give reasons for suffering, which will be construed wrongly no matter how carefully put. But in practice, most of the supposed “causes” for human suffering are inferred from the actual consequences, so that many of the purported explanations become merely tautologies that make better expressions of faith than of logic. Attempting to avoid this trap, we focus instead on the consequences of suffering, not from a secret desire to defend suffering, but rather in the hope that one’s view of suffering will broaden and become enriched, permitting a shift in viewpoint from victim to participant, from sufferer to worshipper, from prophet to priest.

• DEPRESSION, DECAY, AND DEATH.

Suffering, whether emotional, physical or spiritual, is the shadow of negation, of emptiness, it is the onslaught of Hell. Its natural consequence is depression, decay, of erosion of all that is bright and good and joyful. Such natural responses easily become self-fulfilling, self-sustaining, so that the end result of suffering is naturally death. If there be anything good resulting from suffering, it must be exceptional, it must be unnatural. As Simone Weil, a mystic and sister of a more famous mathematician, put it, “The spiritual laws are as fixed and certain as the physical law of gravity. Only grace violates all laws.” If this chapter is to continue, then we must consider this most irrational of all results of suffering, the consequence of grace.

• THE FIREBREAK FOR EVIL.

There is a tendency today to despise the retributive justice system of our childhood innocence and claim that “an eye for an eye” is barbaric and uncivilized; that the only justification of a retribution is the prevention of further crimes, which is obviously ineffective. But what is overlooked in these debates about justice is the presence of evil, the existence of spiritual suffering. When a surgeon operates on a suspected cancerous tumor, he will often remove a great deal of “normal” tissue on the chance that the tumor has metastasized and spread invisibly into to the surrounding region. When a forest fire is spreading toward inhabited areas, firefighters may start secondary “controlled” fires to burn off the available fuel before the fierce heat of the uncontrolled wildfire approaches. In the same way, suffering can be a firebreak for evil.

Consider the detailed instructions given by Moses concerning the discovery of a dead body out in the fields (Deut 21). After ascertaining that no one will admit to the crime, extensive ceremonies are carried out involving the elders of the nearest village, blood sacrifices, and petitions that God will not hold this guilt against them. For, as Moses warns about the death of the innocent, “So you shall not pollute the land in which you are; for blood pollutes the land and no expiation can be made for the land for the blood that is shed on it, except by the blood of him who shed it.” (Num 35:33 NASB). A concrete, yet disturbing example of this principle is given in 2 Samuel 21, where the land of Israel is suffering a three-year drought. Probably children are dying, so King David beseeches God for an explanation for this suffering. He is told that his predecessor, Saul, broke a treaty with the Gibeonites and shed innocent blood. So David arrests seven surviving relatives of Saul who are handed over to the Gibeonites to be killed and so expiate the blood guilt. The principle is clear, suffering of the innocent may sometimes act as a firebreak against the spread of evil and even greater suffering.

• THE CAUSE FOR REPENTANCE.

Without a doubt suffering catches our attention and forces us to rethink our course of action, just as surely as a state trooper with his lights flashing causes us to check our speedometer. The book of Judges has example after example of God given suffering that caused the people of Israel to repent and return to Him. This is not to be confused with discipline. If my daughter wants to play with the pretty flame on the stove top, the pain of disobedience is not discipline, it is a wake-up call that something is seriously wrong. Suffering grabs our attention, it can be a call to repentance.

• THE CONSTRUCTION OF CHARACTER.

Suffering also forces us to change our decision process. When I caught my 3 year old jumping on the couch, in flagrant violation of house rules, I told her she was due for a spanking. She objected on the grounds that she had forgotten this particular house rule. In a moment of inspiration I replied that this was exactly why I was spanking, to help her remember. In the following years I have repeated this answer countless times as I get out the spanking spoon. “Do you know why I am spanking you?”, I ask. “To help us remember?” they reply. By use of corporeal punishment I am trying to change their behavior, to encourage self-controlled, disciplined actions, to get them to internalize their decision process so that when they get too big to spank, they will have formed the good habits that will last a lifetime. In short, suffering builds enduring character.

• THE REDEMPTION OF MEN.

There is a sense in which all of the above consequences of suffering are small redemptions: the uncle who died in France while opposing the Nazi war machine; the woman saved from suicide by a flat tire; the student who resisted peer pressure to begin a revival. Yet there is a more acute sense in which suffering is a purification, a sanctification, even a salvation for a stained soul. Having said that, I must be quick to clarify what I didn’t say. For we must be careful, when talking about any of these consequences, that we do not turn them inside out and say “we must suffer in order to have these good effects”. Flannery O’Connor in her book, WISE BLOOD, explores the consequences of searching for salvation in self-inflicted suffering. Somehow, just as it is impossible to tickle oneself, it is also impossible to benefit from self-imposed suffering. Nevertheless, suffering that is out of our control, suffering that only God can stop, can be suffering that saves our souls.

Continuing the analogy with cancer, a tumor that has metastasized sends virulent cells, nascent tumors throughout the body. These cells are indistinguishable from healthy cells in most respects so that the defenses of the body’s formidable immune system are rendered powerless. Yet these cells have become, well, evil; excreting enzymes that allow them to tunnel through capillary walls, they burrow into every organ of the body where they throw off every constraint, multiplying furiously while demanding new blood supplies and killing neighboring tissue. The medical establishment has very few remedies, their most effective being poison which attacks growing cells. Even then the cancerous tumors develop resistance to these chemicals, so that multitoxin cocktails have become the norm in chemotherapy. The dosage is found by trial and error, increasing the levels of poison until the entire body is on the verge of death: weak, nauseous, bald, and anemic. It is no wonder that my aunt chose rather to forego treatment than to have a cure worse than the disease. The hope this suffering holds is that the cancer will fare worse than the patient and the body will be cleansed. Suffering then can be salvation.

• THE PARTICIPATION WITH GOD.

As an Old Testament study, we are on hermeneutical thin ice if we argue that Job believed God could suffer, much less that our suffering made us any more like God. If anything, Job seemed to say quite the opposite, that a transcendent God could never understand our very human suffering, arising as it does from our powerlessness and finitude. Yet in another sense, Job did understand God’s suffering in a way that Elihu never could. Job knew that the death of the innocent and the fat of the wicked were abhorrent in God’s sight, that it caused God pain. The three friends said, “Impossible!”. Elihu said, “God doesn’t even notice.” Job said “Speak for yourself, my God cares.” Otherwise, why would Job have wasted his breath directing his speech toward God? Somehow Job knew God to be compassionate, and therefore a God who concerned himself with Job’s pain.

Many years ago I spent a summer internship in Haiti, in the impoverished, voodoo infested highlands near the capital of Port-au-Prince. One’s first impressions of a person or a place are usually the most profound, and I had an impression of deep beauty and deep pain. The very trees that lined the road flamed with red blossoms, six-foot hedges of poinsettia bloomed all year round. Yet the deforested valleys were scarred with white, where tropical storms had created such runoff that the undercut limestone walls were crumbling into the valley floor, making these streams into rubble strewn wastelands as alien as the cratered moon. The slash-and-burn agriculture had created bedrock deserts out of lush rain-forest. Among the mobs of children were those with mottled red hair, characteristic of protein starvation, due not so much to want, as to neglect. The pain of a culture cobbled together out of a thousand African tribes under the slash of the slavemaster’s whip, finding in fear a religion that unified their many tongues. I stood one night, under a tropical moon so bright that I could tell red from blue, mourning the death of my host’s son, hearing the voodoo drums in the valley, feeling the pain of existence, crying out to God like a woman in labor, wordless tears washing my face -- “God, don’t you know?” And though I never heard an answer, my pain was lessened, not because the world had become any better, but because God had heard, because my pain was shared. So it was with Job, when God appeared and he finally knew that God had heard his voice. Suffering, spiritual suffering, is solidarity with God.

THE BENEFITS OF SUFFERING

I have listed above some of the consequences of suffering, but have not yet applied them to the characters of this story. In one sense I really can’t apply it, because I would be putting words into their mouth. Imagine, for a moment, that you have a teary-eyed 3 year old who has just burned her fingers on the stove. After giving her a cup of ice water to hold her fingers in, you begin to tell her the benefits of her suffering. Chances are that she will respond poorly, not believing that you are truly sympathetic. In the same way, I can identify potential benefits, but whether the sufferer actually benefits remains a highly subjective response. Suffering, the same identical suffering, can either bless or destroy depending on the participant’s response.

• TO THE THREE

It may seem strange to say that Job’s suffering benefited these men. They were such bitter enemies of Job’s religion, so intent on tearing down his defenses, so desirous of extracting a false confession, how can we say that his suffering was in any way beneficial to them? As Job tells them himself, “You see something dreadful, and you are afraid”. But it is exactly in showing them their fear, their duplicity, their disloyalty that Job’s suffering provided them a warning, a call to repentance. When Job, at God’s instruction, prayed for his friends, we can see that perhaps this suffering even provided for their salvation. Certainly someone wrote down the story of Job or at least composed and recited it. Surely that someone was present throughout the debates recorded in the book. Could it be that this book is testimony to the transforming power of Job’s suffering in the lives of his friends?

• TO JOB

I am not the first to find some benefit for Job, nor will I be the last to be blasted for trying. Surely the restoration of Job’s fortunes and the birth of 10 more children -- even if they were the most beautiful daughters in the land -- surely these blessings were not the result of Job’s suffering. Indeed, he might have been even wealthier if he had had the capital to invest. Nor would one expect debilitating disease to make one more virile than before. No, it appears that these blessings were not a result of but in spite of his suffering. If one is to find a silver lining in Job’s trials, then it must lie somewhere between his final complaint and his restoration, somewhere between chapters 31 and 42. I cannot find much encouragement in Elihu’s speech, nor even in God’s. So I am astonished by Job’s reticence to speak in chapter 40.

However chapter 42 perhaps holds an answer that shows Job has finally obtained what he sought. If there is one thing this suffering has done, it has brought Job closer to God. Job answers God’s question “who is this that obscures my counsel without knowledge?” by replying that he has said things he didn’t understand because they were too wonderful for him. Now this is quite different from his previous complaint. God’s ways had been just as obscure to him then as well, but then they had been dark, heavy, and oppressive; now they are full of wonder. How did this transformation take place? Job’s next phrase indicates that God had asked this very question. “It happened,” Job replied, “when instead of just hearing you, or hearing about you, I saw you. That’s when my whole outlook changed.” Job’s suffering has not only brought him solidarity with God, it brought him into God’s very presence.

• TO GOD

If I was skating on thin ice before, now I am surely over my head! How can suffering benefit God? If God is transcendent, dwelling in unsearchable light in whom there is no shadow due to changing, who am I to claim that suffering can modify His already perfect condition? Let me tiptoe lightly around these lethal theological landmines, and say that we are talking not of God’s essence, which is transcendent, but of His interaction with Man, of His communication with Man, which is His concrete revelation. For whatever reason, God has chosen to interact in a causal way when He speaks to us. The court of heaven in Job 1 has convened to hear Satan’s accusations. These accusations and God’s response would not make a lot of sense if the order were inverted or scrambled. Therefore God takes the limitations of human existence into account when He deals with us. Suffering cannot benefit God’s essence, but it will impact on His revelation. Is that impact beneficial?

Let us go back to the “firebreak for evil” section, and ask, “Why does blood guilt pollute the land?” If we believed that God is totally free to enact any legislation He wants governing the spiritual realm, why does His law say that the innocent must suffer to stop another creature’s evil? I can not answer that, other than to say that God’s being is primary, and therefore God’s interaction with Man, His revelation, is limited by His essence. Thus the Bible says, “God cannot lie.” Somehow this question of suffering is tied into God’s essence and where that leads I cannot follow. Recognizing our inability to ask the limitless “Why?”, we nonetheless can still learn something about suffering and God from examining His revelation to us.

In our Augustinian section we argued for the existence of spiritual suffering, of disorder in the heavenly realm. In the section on pain we pointed out that suffering can be a firebreak for evil. Arguing from analogy, what is it that can stop the creeping spiritual darkness, the spreading negation of evil? Is it not a lamp or a light? Well if suffering is a firebreak for evil, could it not also be a spiritual light as well? Slow down, didn’t I just say that suffering is negation of all that is good, how then can it be something good in itself? This is the mystery of grace; that God can make something good out of suffering. But then is it correct to define suffering neo-Platonically as an absence of good? No, it is not entirely correct, and we must look to see what is the nature of this thing that God can use for both good and evil.

The Knowledge of Good and Evil was the title of a famous tree. Like that tree, created by God and declared “good”, suffering can be used for infinite gain or infinite loss. Suffering is the currency of heaven, redeeming sinners (Isaiah 53) and damning them (Isaiah 51). Suffering has been part of the human condition since the Garden, where God planted the tree of pain. And since the Fall, suffering has been the only way back into the Garden, where Adam once conversed with God. The story of Job is an inside-out Garden, a story of a man forced to eat of the tree and gaining knowledge “too wonderful for me” that led him back into God’s presence. The story of Job is a reversal of the Fall, a story in which God beats Satan at his own game. It becomes the archetypal story of victory over suffering and the defeat of death.

Beat Guilt This Lent -- Literally

Job 33:19

In an age when boosting self-esteem is seen as the answer to every problem, the idea of physically punishing oneself to expiate guilt is a notion that borders on the medieval.

But just in time for Ash Wednesday and the Lenten season of penance, new research shows that some form of “mortification of the flesh“ -- the old-fashioned term for inflicting physical discomfort for spiritual growth -- can in fact alleviate feelings of guilt.

The old Christian ascetics knew it, and now social scientists have some proof that it’s true -- and some explanation as to why that’s so.

“One reason may be that the experience of physical pain alleviates feelings of guilt associated with immoral behavior,” Brock Bastian writes in an article titled “Cleansing the Soul by Hurting the Flesh,” which appears in the latest edition of the journal Psychological Science.

Bastian and his colleagues at the School of Psychology at the University of Queensland in Australia divided 62 volunteers into three groups and asked two of the groups to write about an occasion when they “rejected or socially excluded another person” -- in other words, when they did something they felt bad about. The third group wrote about a neutral “everyday interaction [they] had with another person yesterday.”

All completed a questionnaire that tested for levels of guilt. Then one group that wrote about something they felt guilty for immersed their hand into a bucket of ice water for as long as they could (it hurts -- try it) while members of the second group that wrote about treating someone badly immersed a hand in a nice, warm bath. The third “control” group -- the folks who didn’t write about being a jerk and didn’t feel especially guilty -- also got the ice water treatment.

Afterward they all rated how painful it was and also how guilty they felt after it was over.

The verdict: those people who had written about rejecting someone not only left their hands in the ice water longer and reported more pain, but they also emerged feeling half as much guilt as those who got the warm water treatment.

In short, Bastian argues, we want to give meaning to pain, to portray it as a comprehensible part of a cosmic balance sheet or a means of achieving justice so that suffering is not pointless; indeed, the Latin word for pain is poena, which means “penalty.”

“Understood this way, pain may be perceived as repayment for sin in three ways,” he writes.

“First, pain is the embodiment of atonement. Just as physical cleansing washes away sin...physical pain is experienced as a penalty, and paying that penalty reestablishes moral purity. Second, subjecting oneself to pain communicates remorse to others (including God) and signals that one has paid for one’s sins, and this removes the threat of external punishment. Third, tolerating the punishment of pain is a test of one’s virtue, reaffirming one’s positive identity to oneself and others.”

Now maybe you don’t have a guilty conscience. Or maybe you recoil from the thought of flagellating yourself everyday like that spooky albino monk from “The Da Vinci Code” who actually did have something to feel guilty about. (Though it turns out the late Pope John Paul II did something similar, and he is up for sainthood. Go figure.)

But Bastian’s research does indicate that engaging in some form of physical self-denial during the 40 days of Lent might be beneficial to easing normal guilt, and that today’s milder forms of mortification -- giving up chocolate or going on a carbon fast (reducing energy consumption) or even making Ash Wednesday a “spa day,” as one pastor is doing -- may not be enough.

On the other hand, an earlier paper on the same topic, by Rob Nelissen and Marcel Zeelenberg at Tilburg University in The Netherlands, also identified what it called “the Dobby effect” -- named after the self-punishing house elf from the “Harry Potter” series. Poor Dobby felt guilty for disobeying his (albeit evil) masters and could not make amends, and hence continually abused himself.

While Nelissen and Zeelenberg also showed that people tend to alleviate guilt by punishing themselves, they found that they take that option only when they are not able to directly repair their relationship with the person they believe they have hurt.

That may explain why people use general rituals of self-denial -- fasting or a stone in the shoe or a hair shirt in more extreme cases -- if they can’t or won’t bring themselves to apologize directly to the offended person and why Lenten penance is being adapted for wider social causes, like climate change or world hunger, in which there is a no individual person to whom we can say, “I’m sorry.”

“[H]elping someone else...does not repair your relationship with the victim,” Nelissen writes. “I think that by self-punishing we in fact try to send a signal of remorse to our victim to let him or her know we still care about the relationship, even though we are unable at present to make amends directly.”

Nothing wrong with a little mortification, then, as long as we don’t go around broadcasting our virtue like “the hypocrites,” as Jesus warned.

And as long as we don’t take it too far. The Catholic Church defines a “fast day” as having just one full meal, and exempts children under 13 and seniors over 65, and anyone who could not physically tolerate such a regimen. That’s not too onerous, and is probably good for us given the nation’s epidemic of obesity.

Simple, clear rituals of physical penance are also less likely to deteriorate into an overemphasis on personal guilt and expiation, which is criticized by traditional Christianity as “scrupulosity,” and is diagnosed by psychiatry as an obsessive-compulsive disorder.

Indeed, while guilt is so often dismissed as the unjust product of manipulative religions -- Catholic guilt, Jewish guilt, Puritan guilt, you name it -- Sigmund Freud and his disciples saw guilt as a fact of the human condition. And guilt can be good in motivating conscientious people to make amends to victims, if possible, or to the wider community, or to God, or all three.

The key is to do something about guilt rather than just going around banging our head against furniture. After all, who wants to be Dobby?

To 'Feel' the Faith

Acts 5:41

Once he feels its flame, a child will never doubt the candle’s heat. Likewise, the English Reformer William Tyndale once wrote that those who “feel” their faith will stand firm in the truth of Scripture and the promises of God.

Tyndale, convinced that English men and women needed to hear God’s Word in their own language, published in 1526 the first English New Testament translated from the Greek text. Throughout the 10 years of ministry that followed, he often spoke of “feeling” -- a term he used in his earliest translation of Romans 5.

In this passage, the apostle Paul writes that we have peace with God because we are justified by faith. Moreover, by God’s grace we have hope. In fact, faith gives us hope even amid tribulation. For this reason, we should rejoice in suffering. After all, Paul writes, suffering produces perseverance, which produces “feeling.” At least, “feeling” is the term that Tyndale used to translate a Greek word, dokimen, rendered elsewhere as “experience,” “character” or “proven character” (Romans 5:1-4).

In a note, Tyndale referred the readers of his translation to James 1:2-3, where a related Greek word, dokimion, is used. Here, James calls believers to rejoice amid tribulation, since the “testing (dokimion) of your faith” produces perseverance, which itself leads to complete Christian maturity. But, whereas James emphasizes the testing of faith through suffering, Paul in Romans 5 emphasizes the result -- that is, the tested, refined and proven faith (or, perhaps, person of faith). He writes that such “feeling,” in turn, produces a hope that is assured by God’s love. And this love has been poured into the believer’s heart by the Holy Spirit and has been displayed by Christ’s death for sinners (Romans 5:4-11).

Christians feel their faith, therefore, when refined by the intense heat of suffering, pain and persecution.

Tyndale wrote in 1528 in his book, “The Obedience of a Christian Man”: “Mark this also, if God send thee to the sea and promise to go with thee and to bring thee safe to land, he will raise up a tempest against thee, to prove whether thou wilt abide by his word, and that thou mayest feel thy faith and perceive his goodness.”

Tyndale noted, “For if it were always fair weather and thou never brought into such jeopardy whence his mercy only delivered thee, thy faith should be but a presumption and thou shouldest be ever unthankful to God and merciless unto thy neighbor.”

He added, “Tribulation for righteousness is not a blessing only, but also a gift that God giveth unto none save his special friends. ... For Paul in the fifth chapter to the Romans saith, ‘Tribulation maketh feeling,’ that is, it maketh us feel the goodness of God and his help and the working of his Spirit. ... Lo Christ is never strong in us, till we be weak.”

Speakers at the Missouri Baptist Convention’s “Sowing in Tears” conference translated Tyndale’s message into 21st-century English. “You will suffer,” said international evangelist Sammy Tippit, who has trained pastors and proclaimed the Gospel in the hardest-to-reach regions of the world.

“This is the missing message in America. ... Suffering is part of the Christian life,” Tippit said. But hope only comes, he added, when we are hopeless, when our hope lies only in God.

Suffering strips from us the confidence that we may have in ourselves and in our own resources. It is at that point, when we have nothing to guide us but God’s promises, that we feel our faith. As Tyndale’s better-known contemporary, Martin Luther, once wrote, “But this is the glory of faith, simply not to know: not to know where you are going, not to know what you are doing, not to know what you must suffer, and ... to follow the naked voice of God.”

By the way, Tyndale ultimately felt his faith in 1536. Latched to a stake, he was strangled and burned because he wanted people to read Scripture for themselves, in their own languages. As we seek to follow God’s call in our lives, would we also risk feeling our faith to scatter God’s Word abroad and reach people with the Gospel?

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Benjamin Hawkins is associate editor of The Pathway (www.mbcpathway.com), newsjournal of the Missouri Baptist Convention.

Peter Singer and the End of the Human Race

Professor of Bioethics at Princeton University, Peter Singer is one of the most reprehensible intellectual forces alive today. He has advocated the morality of human infanticide, for the greater value of animal life over some human life, and for a radical vision of animal rights that is based in his purely evolutionary view of life.

Now, in an “Opinionator” column for The New York Times, Singer considers whether the current generation of human beings should be the last. He cites the work of David Benatar, who has argued that it is immoral for human beings to reproduce, given the probability of some pain experienced as a consequence of life.

“So why don’t we make ourselves the last generation on earth?”, Singer asks. In the end, his only argument is that in his own personal judgment, “for most people, life is worth living.” If this is not yet so, Singer predicts that future developments for human happiness are likely to make it so. That is all he has to offer.

Behind all this is purely materialistic view of all life. In an article published in THE GUARDIAN [London] just two days later, Singer made that position clear:

The belief that the animals exist because God created them – and

that he created them so we can better meet our needs – is

contrary to our scientific understanding of evolution and, of

course, to the fossil record, which shows the existence of non-

human primates and other animals millions of years before there

were any human beings at all.

In the end, everything Peter Singer believes about life can be traced back to that kind of statement. If life is an accident, it just might be conceivable that life is not worth living.

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Peter Singer, “Religion’s Regressive Hold on Animal Rights Issues,” THE GUARDIAN [London], Tuesday, June 8, 2010.

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from http://www.albertmohler.com · Dr. R. Albert Mohler Jr., President of Southern Baptist Seminary via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database pain

Turning Suffering Into Something Sacred: God's Work In Us

Acts 3:18

Most of us quite naturally seek to avoid suffering at all costs. But it’s a fruitless task — literally and spiritually.

In Sunday school or at our small group Bible studies, when it’s time for prayer requests, what do we ask people to pray for? Well, often we ask people to pray that God would cure our sicknesses and diseases — or those of our loved ones; that He would give us a job, or that He would smooth out our relationships; to sum up, that He would make our lives easier — that He would take away our suffering.

Now, don’t get defensive! I’m not here to tell you today that praying for these things is wrong. I’ve certainly done it myself, and I do it myself, and will continue to do so. As Jesus said while facing the suffering of the cross, “Father, if you are willing, remove this cup from me.”

Yet that’s not all He prayed, is it? Jesus added, “Nevertheless, not my will, but yours be done.”

During the night He was betrayed, God the Son knew that suffering can bring good to us and the world when it is God the Father’s will. This Holy Week is a great time to remind ourselves that suffering can not only do things to you, but it can do things for you. And it’s not just me saying this.

New York Times columnist David Brooks, who was one of Chuck Colson’s favorite writers, has written a piece that highlights some of the benefits of suffering. Brooks has noticed that Americans take their “pursuit of happiness” very seriously indeed. “We live in a culture awash in talk about happiness,” Brooks writes. “In one three-month period last year, more than 1,000 books were released on Amazon on that subject.”

But happiness isn’t all we crack it up to be, Brooks says. While eschewing glib answers and clichés, Brooks nevertheless asserts that suffering sometimes ennobles us, makes us more empathetic to others, and provides a revealing measure of self-knowledge.

Brooks writes, “The agony involved in, say, composing a great piece of music or the grief of having lost a loved one smashes through what [people] thought was the bottom floor of their personality, revealing an area below, and then it smashes through that floor revealing another area.”

Another benefit of suffering, he writes, is that it forces us to face the fact that we cannot control every aspect of life; that we are limited and must depend on something else to get through it. “People in this circumstance,” Brooks notes, “often have the sense that they are swept up in some larger providence. Abraham Lincoln suffered through the pain of conducting a civil war, and he ... emerged with the sense that there were deep currents of agony and redemption sweeping not just through him but through the nation as a whole, and that he was just an instrument for transcendent tasks.”

It gets better. Brooks continues: “The right response to this sort of pain is not pleasure. It’s holiness. I don’t even mean that in a purely religious sense. It means seeing life as a moral drama, placing the hard experiences in a moral context and trying to redeem something bad by turning it into something sacred.”

David Brooks, who is Jewish, has touched on something here that we Christians can contemplate with profit this Holy Week: how God the Father turned the ultimate bad circumstance, the death of His only Son on the cross, into the most sacred act imaginable, the restoration and redemption of sinners like you, and like me.

Yes, happiness is a good thing. But today, as we approach Good Friday, let’s not forget the holiness that God only offers us through suffering.

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Copyright (c) 2014 Prison Fellowship Ministries. Reprinted with permission. "BreakPoint" is a radio ministry of Prison Fellowship Ministries.

from BreakPoint Commentary · Eric Metaxas via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database paingood friday

It's God They Ought To Crucify

Mark 15:15

This hymn “Friday Morning” by Sydney Carter is controversial. May it serve as a meditation on the extraordinary (dare I say divine?) irony of the crucifixion, so central to the Christian faith.

FRIDAY MORNING

It was on a Friday morning that they took me from the cell

and I saw they had a carpenter to crucify as well

You can blame it on to Pilate

You can blame it on the Jews

You can blame it on the Devil

But it’s God that I accuse

It’s God they ought to crucify instead of you and me

I said to the carpenter, a-hanging on the tree

You can blame it on to Adam

You can blame it on to Eve

You can blame it on the apple,

but that I can’t believe

It was God that made the Devil

And the woman and the man

And there wouldn’t be an apple

If it wasn’t in the plan

It’s God they ought to crucify instead of you and me

I said to the carpenter, a-hanging on the tree

Now Barabbas was a killer

And they let Barabbas go

But you are being crucified

For nothing that I know

And God is up in Heaven

and He doesn’t do a thing

With a million angels watching

and they never move a wing

It’s God they ought to crucify instead of you and me

I said to the carpenter, a-hanging on the tree

To hell with Jehovah

To the carpenter I said

I wish that a carpenter

had made the world instead

Goodbye and good luck to you

our ways they will divide

Remember me in heaven

The man you hung beside

It’s God they ought to crucify instead of you and me

I said to the carpenter, a-hanging on the tree

The problem of suffering and evil is perhaps the strongest objection to the existence of the Christian God, a God who is simultaneously proclaimed to all-powerful, all-knowing, and perfectly good. There is unjust suffering in the world. A good God would want to remedy the injustice. A wise God would know how to do it. An all-powerful God would be able to intervene however he wanted. So whence suffering? Whence evil? How did it ever arise, and why doesn’t God do anything about it?

About a year ago, we held a friendly debate within these ivy-covered walls of Harvard College on the problem of suffering and evil. Harvard College Faith and Action and the Harvard Community of Humanists, Atheists, and Agnostics represented opposite viewpoints on this most difficult of theological problems. Philosophical arguments were advanced and rebuttals ventured. But it seems to me that even the most philosophically rigorous response to the problem of suffering cannot help but feel hollow.

That is why I am sharing this hymn. Much like the Grand Inquisitor passage from The Brothers Karamazov, it is highly ambiguous as to whether or how this solves the problem. (I, for one, consider the Grand Inquisitor passage to be an extremely profound refutation of the problem of suffering; atheists who read it tend to think quite the opposite.) I don’t think this ambiguity is a bad thing. I think it is an honest means of communication, and entirely commensurate to the nature of the problem. Life is highly ambiguous. Our stories often have two sides. The story of the cross, as presented in the hymn “Friday Morning,” is such a story. Which prisoner do you think is the narrator in this song? How are we meant to understand his accusations? I wonder what Jesus would have said. I wonder if it might it have been, “Oh my son. If only you knew.”

Lord, Have Mercy

Mark 10:47

A few years ago Rev. Ray Pritchard was given a tape of a talk given by one of his members, Gary Olsen. Gary had served as an elder in his church and for many years was the head football coach at the local high school. He made the speech eight months after his heart surgery and a year and a half before his sudden death in November 1999. On the tape Gary is giving a short talk to a group of Christian coaches on the subject of handling the hard times of life.

He began by mentioning his lung cancer in the early 1980s that led to his coming to Christ. Then in 1989 his wife Dawn was in a terrible accident that nearly killed her. Gary stepped down from coaching for a while so he could help her recover.

The hardest blows came in 1997. In August of that year he collapsed during football practice and was taken to the hospital where he had surgery to replace a defective heart valve. At about the same time he faced a crisis in his family. A month or so later his mother suddenly died of a brain hemorrhage. It seemed almost too much to bear.

On the tape he said that he had called his pastor and asked, “How should I pray?” His pastor told him to pray “Lord, have mercy. God, have mercy. Jesus, have mercy.”

Ray smiled when he heard the story because he had forgotten that phone call. Then it all came back to him.

His answer was off the top of his head but in retrospect it was perfectly biblical. There are many times in life when the only thing we can do is to cry out, “God, have mercy. Lord, have mercy. Jesus, have mercy.”

from Sermon #64030, "Deliver Us From Evil" · Rev. Dr. Ray Pritchard via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database troublespainprayer

Bad Things Can Happen To Christians, Too

Job 3:23

Evangelist Ray Comfort knows a Christian family where the husband and wife drove to a church meeting. Their teenage son drove there alone. On the way home, Ray’s friend came across an accident, so he stopped to help. When he looked in the wrecked vehicle, he saw his beloved teenage son, dead - impaled on the steering wheel.

On June 19, 2000, five young trainees with New Tribes Mission pitched a tent during a violent storm in Mississippi. Jenny Knapp, an attractive 20-year-old, noticed that the rain was causing the roof to cave in. So she lifted the tent pole to raise the height of the roof. Just as she did that, a bolt of lightning struck the pole and tore through her body. Her friends were able to resuscitate her and get her to a hospital. The young missionary recovered, but she is terribly scarred and partially blind.

In the real world, lightning strikes the just and the unjust, the unsaved and the saved. God’s “wonderful plan for your life” does not preclude tragedy and intense suffering.

from book: God Has a Wonderful Plan for Your Life: The Myth of the Modern Message (Living Waters, 2010) · Ray Comfort; edited by David Holwick via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database sufferingpain

Why Avoiding Suffering At All Cost Undermines Compassion and Medicine

Is pain good or bad?

This was the question asked recently by physician and author Matthew Loftus in an essay entitled “Arcs of Life” published in The New Atlantis. Loftus makes the case that the contemporary obsession with avoiding pain has led to an increasing acceptance of doctor-assisted suicide and euthanasia, even for infants and for those suffering with mental distress. Our approach to pain amounts to, as Loftus puts it, “Eliminating suffering by killing the sufferer.” The appeal is made mostly to our collective commitment to autonomy:

The euthanasia regime begins with a pitch to the smartest among us. Wouldn’t you like to go out before the party winds down, before age and decrepitude shatter the autonomy and strength you cherish so deeply?

So much of life in the modern world is shaped by secularism, which assumes, among other things, that the only way to be fully human is by experiencing our best life now. Or, to paraphrase a poem by William Ernest Henley, to be the masters of our own fate, the captains of our own soul.

This commitment, Loftus suggests, is the primary reason that the medical community has embraced something that has become known as the “The Baconian Project.” This view, first espoused by 16th-century scientist and philosopher Francis Bacon, argues that the primary goal of medicine is to minimize human suffering. Medical technology should pursue that end, and compassion is redefined as whatever reduces or prevents pain and suffering. This includes, if it serves that end, terminating the life of a baby in utero or assisting a suffering elderly person to end his or her life.

However, argues Loftus, the zeal to create a pain-free utopia undermines three things for which it strives.

First, autonomy is undermined. Abortion obviously ends the decision-making potential of children in utero who may, if given the chance, choose to live. In fact, survivors of abortion, such as Colson Center National Conference speaker Gianna Jessen, consistently tell us that they want to live. Autonomy at the end of life is also increasingly compromised for certain members of a population, often in the name of preserving it, wherever assisted suicide has been embraced. The “right to die” inevitably becomes a duty to die in order to ease the burden of one’s suffering on others.

Second, the commitment to alleviate pain is undermined when it becomes an end rather than a means of medicine. Abortion is a clear example of this. Loftus writes:

Long before the third trimester, a fetus will withdraw from an instrument and release stress hormones in response to medical procedures in the womb. Reactions like these are often chalked up to simple reflexes that you might see if you managed to tickle a baby in utero. And yet if fetal surgery that is meant to save the life of the child is performed, anesthesia is given without fail — but if you’re killing the child at the same gestational age, medical authorities assure us that the procedure is painless. Don’t believe your lying eyes when you see that baby try to move away from the forceps.

Third, the commitment to eliminate pain at any cost, though often sold in the name of compassion, ultimately undermines compassion. The sheer numbers of those killed by abortion and euthanasia suggest that what we often call a commitment to compassion is in reality a commitment to convenience. In Canada, 10,000 people were euthanized in 2021 alone. Nearly a million unborn children are killed in the United States every year.

The only real solution, Loftus argues, is to commit instead to a different vision of human life; that life begins and ends in a natural arc and possesses incalculable value throughout. We also must reckon with dependency; that we are all born dependent, will die dependent, and will remain dependent on others throughout our lives. Acknowledging this reality leads to true compassion. Ignoring it leads to killing the suffering instead of caring for them.

We should recognize that pain and suffering are neither synonymous, nor are accurate metrics of value. We have the technology to manage physical pain, and God has tasked us with providing comfort to those who are dying or living with pain. When we do, we act like Jesus. Indeed, it may be that this caring for people through the suffering will be the Church’s most powerful witness of Christ to the world in the days ahead.

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Copyright (c) 2023 Prison Fellowship Ministries. Reprinted with permission. "BreakPoint" is a radio ministry of Prison Fellowship Ministries.

'Tis A Fearful Thing To Love What Death Can Touch

'Tis A Fearful Thing To Love What Death Can Touch

‘Tis a fearful thing

to love what death can touch.

A fearful thing

to love, to hope, to dream, to be –

to be,

And oh, to lose.

A thing for fools, this,

And a holy thing,

a holy thing

to love.

For your life has lived in me,

your laugh once lifted me,

your word was gift to me.

To remember this brings painful joy.

‘Tis a human thing, love,

a holy thing, to love

what death has touched.

— Yehuda Halevi

Yehuda Halevi was a Jewish physician, poet, and philosopher. He was born in Spain almost one thousand years ago.

Personal Anguish Can Lead To Spiritual Growth

Psalms 77

In Psalm 77, Asaph shows us how personal anguish can lead to growth. His pilgrimage shows us four crucial steps that lead from despair to joy. His honesty shows in each of 11 psalms he wrote. He knows us, he understands our innermost struggles, our abject hearts. He puts words to our wretched feelings. Yet he perseveres by faith to praise, and from his perseverance we can take hope.

Step 1: FOCUSING ON OURSELVES

It’s natural, when we suffer difficulty, to think first of ourselves, to pray first about our personal needs. It is never easy to turn to God for help. By nature we are proud. Looking first within ourselves and becoming aware of the pain that is there is the first step toward growth.

Step 2: ASKING QUESTIONS

Now Asaph shifts focus. No longer does he look only at himself and his troubles. He looks at God. And what he sees, he doesn’t like. Shaken by what, from all appearances, is a failure of God’s love and faithfulness, he assails God with questions. The cry of our Lord Jesus Christ on the Cross echoed Ps 22:1. He questioned the Father, but trusted Him for the answers.

Step 3: REFLECTING ON THE PAST

God’s seeming inactivity in response to the psalmist’s prayer brings bewilderment, but it does not prevent him from making a very important decision. Notice the “I will’s” in these 3 verses. Asaph is choosing to reflect on God despite his suffering, overwhelming circumstances, and the bewilderment of God’s silence. He is no longer carried along by the circumstances of his trial and his questions. Reflecting on the past faithfulness of God brings spiritual equilibrium to our lives.

Step 4: FOCUSING ON GOD

Now, in answer to his own doubts and complaints, Asaph sets forth in praise the specific things God has done that give him hope. Sixteen times in 6 verses Asaph had spoken of himself - ”I,” “me,” “my.” Contrast that with his words in this last section. Not once in 8 verses does he refer to himself. His focus is entirely on God.

FOUR STEPS TO GROWTH

We must not bury our feelings. Hiding them merely lets them fester and spread. Instead, we must expose them to the healing air of Communion with God. Neither must we hide our doubt-inspired questions. But when we’ve asked our questions, we must be honest enough to listen for answers, too. And we will find those answers in the miraculous works of God recorded in Scripture, in history, and in our own past. Finally, as we are reminded of God’s faithfulness and steadfast love, let us praise Him.

Lord, Help Me To Bear This

Acts 12:5

God can answer prayer, even dramatically more than we expect:

Iris Tardive's husband Bill received the news that can cause the ultimate dread: the doctor told him he had cancer. An operation was planned immediately. On the morning of the operation their nephew Michael, a preacher, talked to him about faith and encouraged him. Bill believed in God, but Michael stressed that the Lord would be able to help him through any situation that developed.

The surgery was more than five hours long. As he came to in the recovery room, Bill was astounded at how painful it was. He thought he was tough enough to stand anything, but this had him doubled over in agony. He remembered Michael's words, and said a simple prayer to God. "Lord, help me to bear this." Bill didn't expect all of it to go away, but he just wanted to be able to take it.

He felt two hands move down his abdomen, past his own hands, and into the wound. The hands seemed to press down, and immediately the pain disappeared. Bill insists he was not groggy and doped-up, but completely alert. The relief from pain was so abrupt it shook him up. More than ever, he realized God can answer prayer.

from Personal Story Told To Rev. Holwick via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database painprayercancer

The Horror Is Worth It

Vicki Williams and her husband Jim never wanted to have to go through cancer treatment, but when Jim was diagnosed with lung cancer they decided to accept it. It would not cure him but give him 2 years instead of 2 months. There was much pain but the extra time with the family, including 2 Christmases, was well worth it.

"For one of the gifts that cancer treatment gives is time for the discovery that as the length of life is shortened, the feeling for life is heightened. Experiences and emotions that are taken for granted in normal times are telescoped so that each stands out in clear, vibrant detail."

'Tis A Fearful Thing To Love What Death Can Touch

'Tis A Fearful Thing To Love What Death Can Touch

‘Tis a fearful thing

to love what death can touch.

A fearful thing

to love, to hope, to dream, to be –

to be,

And oh, to lose.

A thing for fools, this,

And a holy thing,

a holy thing

to love.

For your life has lived in me,

your laugh once lifted me,

your word was gift to me.

To remember this brings painful joy.

‘Tis a human thing, love,

a holy thing, to love

what death has touched.

— Yehuda Halevi

Yehuda Halevi was a Jewish physician, poet, and philosopher. He was born in Spain almost one thousand years ago.

Choosing To Trust

Job 23:8

How can you hold on to faith when God seems silent?

I. Admitting our helplessness.

A. It is not easy to trust God in times of adversity.

1) Choose to be helped.

2) Realize it is sinful to wallow in self-pity.

3) Turn to the Lord.

a) Through choice, prayer, Bible.

B. Trust and pain.

1) Trusting God does not mean we do not experience pain.

2) We believe God can use pain for our ultimate good.

3) Do not let distrustful and hard thoughts control our minds.

II. Our trustworthy God.

A. The Bible has many promises of his constant care for us.

1) Heb 13:5. (five negatives)

2) We may lose sense of his help, but not the reality.

3) He is with us through deep waters and the fire. Isa 43:2

B. Cast all your cares on him. 1 Pet 5:7

1) His care is constant.

a) Not occasional or sporadic.

2) His care is total.

a) The very hairs of our head are numbered. Matt 10:30

3) His care is sovereign.

a) Nothing can touch you that he does not allow.

III. Perfecting our trust.

A. Trusting in plenty.

B. Trusting the source. Prov 18:10-11

C. Trusting through the ordinary.

from Discipleship Journal · Jerry Bridges via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database painfearpromisesdoubt

Love Looks Past the Pain

Love is not always giving others what they want; love is doing for others what is best for them. That reminds me of my close friend, really, he's more like a brother, Bernie Lofchick, from Winnipeg, Canada. His son, David, was born with cerebral palsy and initially had a very difficult time.

When David was about 18 months old, Bernie and his wife, Elaine, had to put braces on David's legs every night. The doctor instructed them to make the braces progressively tighter, which caused considerable pain. Many times David pleaded, "Do you have to make them so tight?"

Today, David is an active, healthy, successful businessman with a beautiful wife and three beautiful children. David's success story is the result of a love so deep that the Lofchicks were willing to do for David what was best for him, and not what David wanted at the moment.

Think about it. Make that kind of love paramount in your life.

from Internet: Messages From the Masters; editor Jim Rohn · Zig Ziglar via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database pain

'Tis A Fearful Thing To Love What Death Can Touch

'Tis A Fearful Thing To Love What Death Can Touch

‘Tis a fearful thing

to love what death can touch.

A fearful thing

to love, to hope, to dream, to be –

to be,

And oh, to lose.

A thing for fools, this,

And a holy thing,

a holy thing

to love.

For your life has lived in me,

your laugh once lifted me,

your word was gift to me.

To remember this brings painful joy.

‘Tis a human thing, love,

a holy thing, to love

what death has touched.

— Yehuda Halevi

Yehuda Halevi was a Jewish physician, poet, and philosopher. He was born in Spain almost one thousand years ago.

In Tragedy, Acknowledge Spiritual Pain

Mourners can be imbeciles. "[M]any of those people who died this past week," Billy Graham instructed the prayer service at the National Cathedral on September 14 [2001], "are in heaven right now, and they wouldn't want to come back. It's so glorious and so wonderful." This was Mohamed Atta's eschatology, too. It is not consoling, it is insulting. We are not a country of children. Nothing that transpired on September 11 was wonderful, nothing. The only effect of these fantasies is to loosen the American grip on reality at precisely the moment that it needs to be tightened. If it makes sense to call on religion in times of trouble, it is not because religion abolishes spiritual pain, but because religion acknowledges spiritual pain. When all the political and military and economic and psychological and cultural analyses of the slaughter are exhausted, there remains the question of the justice of the world.

Whether or not it has a religious answer, this is a religious question. About this question it is not easy to be brilliant. Silence is often a surer sign of mental progress than is articulateness. For some people, a house of worship is useful for such a reflection because it is God's house; but there are those who repair to a house of worship because it is Job's house, and therefore the natural setting for their objection to the order of things. Belief and unbelief are a disagreement, but they do not disagree about what is significant, and the vocabulary in which they conduct their disagreement is for certain purposes the only adequate vocabulary. And so Billy Graham's degradation of that vocabulary should have sent all intelligent souls in perplexity running from the church. Of course the air outside the church is not exactly thick with lucidity: at Yankee Stadium last Sunday, at the conclusion of the greatest afternoon in the history of American pluralism, Oprah Winfrey imparted the superstition that "when you lose a loved one, you gain an angel whose name you know." No, you do not.

Yancey's Answer To Kushner

Yancey responds to Kushner's popular book, "When Bad Things Happen to Good People." God is not impotent, but self-limits his interaction with us to preserve our freedom.

from Christianity Today magazine · Philip Yancey via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database paintheodicy

Why Does God Let Good People Suffer?

Job 14:7

Evening message derives from Rabbi Kushner's book.

WHY DOES GOD LET GOOD PEOPLE SUFFER?

I. People deserve what they get. Isaiah 3:10-11, Genesis 38:7,

Proverbs 12:21, Job 14:7

A. Positive points.

1) No one is perfect. Mark 10:18, Romans 3:10-18,23

2) Therefore no one is totally innocent.

B. Negative points.

1) Teaches people to blame themselves.

a) [Boy needs glasses after reading Playboy.]

2) Doesn't fit the facts.

a) Much evil happens to innocent people.

b) Evil people often get off scotch-free.

C. Balance.

1) Sometimes we get exactly what we deserve.

2) Other times we suffer as part of a fallen world system.

II. People get what they deserve, over time. Psalm 92, 1 Timothy 5:24

A. Kushner: Wishful thinking.

Even over time it doesn't always work out.

B. Holwick: However, in eternity it will.

III. God has his own reasons that we are not in position to judge. Job 42

A. Novel "the Bridge of San Luis Rey" (1924) by Thornton Wilder.

(Five who die in bridge collapse had recently resolved

a problematic situation in their lives and were now

about to enter a new phase. Perhaps it "was" an

appropriate time for each of them to die, thinks the

narrator-priest.)

1) Principle doesn't work on larger-scale disasters.

B. Life as a tapestry.

1) We see chaos, loose ends; God sees beautiful rug.

a) Medieval sage: "Tell me not why I must suffer.

Assure me only that I suffer for Thy sake."

IV. Suffering is educational.

A. It cures us of our faults and makes us better people.

1) God punishes us as a father punishes a child.

1 Cor 11:32, Heb 12:5-11

B. But no clear connection between fault and punishment.

1) Kushner offended by suggestion retarded children are

created so we will learn compassion and gratitude.

2) Why should God distort someone else's life to enhance

our spiritual sensitivity?

C. Concept of testing. Gen 22, Abraham & Isaac

1) God only tests those who can take it. 1 Cor 10:13

a) He knows who is weak.

2) But many good people apparently fail their "test".

V. Suffering liberates us from world of pain, leads to better place.

A. Tragedy should bring rejoicing.

B. But such rejoicing is a rejection of hard reality.

1) We are persuading ourselves evil is good. Isa 5:20

2) Wishful thinking can blind us to sense of injustice.

from When Bad Things Happen To Good People · Rabbi Harold Kushner via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database paintheodicypunishmentjustice

The Reasons People Suffer

Job 9:12

The reasons people suffer, from the perspective that God doesn't send suffering, but it results from living in a world that is truly free.

I. The cause of suffering. (p 29)

A. Most theology assumes God is behind suffering.

1) We blame ourselves in order to spare God's reputation.

B. Another view - help comes from God, but not pain. Ps 121:1-2

C. Story of Job. (p 31)

1) Hypothetical story, since Job is portrayed as perfect.

a) Unfair story, since a good God wouldn't kill children.

2) Traditional piety contrasted with hard questions about fate.

a) Job does complain about God, friends don't.

b) Friends assume God knows what he is doing.

3) Conclusion has Job swearing to innocence, asking for evidence.

a) God's answer: "What do you know about running a world?"

4) Three truths assumed in book:

a) God is all-powerful.

b) God is just and fair.

c) Job is a good person.

1> Job's suffering creates a problem.

2> One of above truths must be sacrificed.

5) How the characters deal with the above truths: (p 39)

a) The friends blame the victim, Job. They reject "C".

b) Job rejects "B".

1> God is all-powerful and seemingly above morality.

2> The book portrays God as a (insecure) king. Job 9:12

c) Author of Job puts his answer in God's final speech.

1> God is really there?

A> Job never doubted his existence.

2> God is all-powerful and doesn't have to be fair?

A> Job has claimed this all along.

3> God cannot be concerned with one puny person?

A> Then morality of Bible would be irrelevant to God.

6) Author of Job rejects "A". (p 41)

a) God is good, but not all-powerful. Job 40:9-14

b) Misfortunes don't come from God.

1> But God can still be a comfort in our sorrows.

The following are chapter headings in Kushner's book:

I. The reason bad things happen - sometimes there isn't any.

II. Good people are not excepted from trouble.

III. God lets us have room to be human.

IV. God helps those who stop hurting themselves.

V. God can't do everything.

VI. What the value of religion is.

[see also #1433]

from Book Summary: When Bad Things Happen To Good People · Rabbi Harold Kushner via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database pain

Wisdom of Youth

Job 32

Sermon in Job series. Elihu's speeches. Job 32:1-12

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WISDOM OF YOUTH

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I. What were you like when you were 18?

A. Qualities of youth.

B. Frustrations of youth.

II. Appearance of Elihu.

A. An angry young man who arrives out of the blue.

B. Better to see him as a special speaker.

C. The most important thing about Elihu.

III. God is gracious.

A. He is not our enemy, as Job felt. 33:8-13

B. God loves us enough to communicate with us. 33:14-28

IV. God is just.

A. Job felt God wasn't fair. 34:5

B. God is the ultimate in fair.

V. God is great.

A. Elihu stresses the majesty of God.

B. God is sovereign. 37:21-24

C. We cannot understand all God does.

D. But we must still trust God.

from Condensed sermon outline (handout) by Rev. David Holwick · Serm98zc.pco via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database painsuffering

"Shaped By the Master"

John 17:19

The care used to shape the stones of Solomon's Temple is an image of how God shapes us through adversity. All the symbolism of Jerusalem's Temple - the sacrifices, furniture, rituals - reach a climax in the life and death of Christ. He is the cornerstone; we comprise the walls. In preparing people as "living stones," God must use tools that hurt, such as frustrating relationships and perplexing experiences. But to be of use in His Kingdom, we must obey the call of the quarry, the one that takes us from a mass of useless stone into a finely fitted building block.

1. Saints must be surveyed.

God knows where we need to be cut.

2. Saints are sliced.

Being cut from false dependencies.

3. Saints are shaped.

Discipline is necessary to expose the flaws of private sin.

(Illust. of submitting to campus regulations as an older student)

"If God's net purpose in saving an individual is just to get him to

Heaven, He would probably take him to glory immediately. But God

wants to prepare him for rulership in an infinite universe that

demands character. Progress in sanctification, in the development of

Godlike character and agape love, is impossible without tribulation

and chastisement." [Paul E. Billheimer, "Don't Waste Your Sorrows"]

4. Saints are set in place.

We must remember our destination. Trials are necessary for the

finished product.

Scottish preacher George Matheson knew suffering. He was blind. He

said he often thanked God for his roses, but not once for his thorn,

his blindness. He admitted he looked forward to another world where

he'd get compensation for his cross. Then he began to see this cross

as a present glory. His prayer changed: "Teach me the glory of the

cross. Teach me the value of my thorn. Show me that I have climbed

to Thee by the path of pain. Show me that my tears have made

rainbows."

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