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31 Sermon Illustrations on Backsliding

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Backsliding in Christian preaching refers to the gradual drifting away from faith and commitment to Christ, often without a conscious farewell (Jeremiah 3:22). Illustrations frequently use imagery of drifting or losing grip, emphasizing the subtle, dangerous slide from spiritual fervor and obedience (Hebrews 10:38).

Backsliders Do Not Bid Jesus Goodbye

Backsliders quietly drift away from Christ without formally saying goodbye or repenting.

Mr. Moody once said, "A rule I have had for years is to treat the Lord Jesus Christ as a personal friend. When I go away from home I bid my wife and children goodbye; I bid my friends and acquaintances goodbye, but I never heard of a poor backslider going down on his knees and saying, 'I have been near you for ten years; your service has become tedious and monotonous; I have come to bid you farewell. Goodbye, Lord Jesus Christ.'I never heard of one doing this. I will tell you how they go: they just run away!"

Today It's "Frozen" Not "Chosen"

Many church people today are spiritually 'frozen' rather than truly chosen by God.

It has been suggested that the mark on many church people today is not that they are "chosen" but that they are "frozen."

Trusting After Failure

After failure, believers may not regain former strength but can grow in grace.

"As a prodigal, that hath once broken after he hath been set up, is not trusted with a like stock again; so God's children may not recover that largeness of spirit, and fulness of inward strength and comfort, which they had before. Many after a great disease do not regain that pitch of health which formerly they had, but they carry the fruits of their disease with them to their graves." This is not always the case, for it may happen, as with Peter, that the bankrupt believer may so prosper in grace as to be richer than before his failure; but we fear that Manton here mentions the general rule. Men do not care to ride a broken-kneed horse: if it has been down once, it may be down again. A wise father does not care to restore a son to a position for which he has proved himself to be unfit. Even so has the Lord dealt with many backsliding ones: like David, they have been restored, but never to their former peace, prosperity, and power. Into the army of our Lord the deserter is received with gladness; but he must begin in the ranks, and must prove his fidelity before he is again entrusted with a commission. A fallen one, when restored, may have gained in self-knowledge, but he must necessarily be a loser in many other respects. A little boy, who had fallen into the habit of falsehood, was made by his father to drive a nail into a post every time he had exaggerated, or told a lie. At last the habit was conquered, and in several trials the boy had displayed complete truthfulness. Then his father allowed him to draw out some of the nails, and this was repeated till no nail was left in the post. The little fellow, so far from being proud when every nail was gone, exclaimed, "Alas, father, the holes are there, where the nails used to be!" Just so does evil leave its marks. However fully restored, the fallen professor seldom loses the memory of impurity, and does not easily regain his injured influence. He is always weak in those points which led to his former fall, and, for the most part, weaker all round. O Lord! if thou hast counted me faithful, putting me into thy service, I pray thee keep me from being either unfaithful to my charge, or negligent in my life. Let me be so upheld that I shall not have need to be picked out of the mire, and set on my feet again.

Backslider, Course of a

Backsliders lose spiritual power and fall into error, heresy, and despair.

As the fig-tree began to wither, so his gifts begin to paire, as if a worm was still gnawing at them; his judgment rusts like a sword which is not used; his zeal trembleth as though it were in a palsie; his faith withereth as though it were blasted; and the image of death is upon all his religion. After this, he thinketh, like Samson, to pray as he did, and speak as he did, and hath no power, but wondereth, like Zedekiali, how the spirit is gone from him. Now, when the good Spirit is gone, then cometh the spirit of blindness, and the spirit of error, and the spirit of fear; and all to seduce the spirit of man. After this, by little and little he falls into error, then he comes unto heresie, at last he plungeth into despair: after this, if he inquire, God will not suffer him to learn; if he read, God will not suffer him to understand; if he hear, God will not suffer him to remember; if he pray, God seemeth unto him like Baal, which could not hear: at last he beholdeth his wretchedness, as Adam looked upon his nakedness; and mourneth for his gifts as Rachel wept for her children, because they were not. All this cometh to pass, that the Scripture might be fulfilled, "Whosoever hath not, from him shall be taken that which he seemeth to have." Henry Smith.

Backslider

A former believer feels deep misery and confusion after apostatizing from Christ.

Misery of a. After poor Sabat, an Arabian who had professed faith in Christ by the means of the labors of the Rev. H. Martyn, had apostatized from Christianity, and written in favor of Mohammedanism, he was met at Malacca by the late Rev. Dr. Milne, who proposed to him some very pointed questions, in reply to which, he said, "I am unhappy. I have a mountain of burning sand on my head. When I go about, I know not what I am doing." It is, indeed, "an evil thing and bitter to forsake the Lord our God." W. Nicholson.

from New Cyclopaedia of Prose Illustrations · Elon Foster apostasy warning

Backsliders, Afflictions of

God uses affliction like a shepherd's dog to bring back straying believers.

Like as if a sheep stray from his fellows, the shepherd sets his dog after it, not to devour it, but to bring it back again: even so our heavenly Shepherd, if any of his sheep disobey him, he sets his dog of affliction after us to bring us home to a consideration of our duty towards him. His dogs are poverty, sickness, death, war, loss of goods or friends, &c. Cawdray.

Backsliders, Death of

Backsliders often die hopeless, with deadened consciences and despair.

I can certainly testify, after sixteen years' ministry, that by far the most hopeless death-beds I have attended have been those of backsliders. I have seen such persons go out of the world without hope, whose conscience appeared really dead, buried, and gone, and on whom every truth and doctrine and argument appeared alike thrown away. They seemed to have lost the power of feeling, and could only lie still, and despair. Rev. J. C. Ryle.

from New Cyclopaedia of Prose Illustrations · Elon Foster death

Backsliders, Sadness of

Backsliders mourn and feel deep sadness when looking toward heaven.

It is said of Tully when he was banished from Italy, and of Demosthenes when he was banished from Athens, that they wept every time they looked towards their own country; and is it strange that a poor deserted believer should mourn every time he looks heavenward?

from New Cyclopaedia of Prose Illustrations · Elon Foster discouragement

Backsliding, Awfulness of

Those who fall backward into sin are closest to hell and far from heaven.

They fall deepest into hell who fall backwards into hell. None so near heaven as those that are convinced of sin; none so near hell as those who have quenched conviction. Bunyan.

Backsliding, Guard against

A Highlander never learned to retreat, illustrating steadfastness against backsliding.

Among the prisoners taken captive at Waterloo, there was a Highland piper. Napoleon, struck with his mountain dress and sinewy limbs, asked him to play on his instrument, which is said to sound so delightfully in the mountains and glens in Scotland. "Play a pibroch," said Napoleon; and the Highlander played. "Play a march; "it was done. "Play a retreat." — "Na, na," said the Highlander, "I never learned to play a retreat."

Backsliding, Occasion of

Remembering past virtues can blind and cause a believer to fall into backsliding.

Gregorie writeth, "The remembrance of former virtues doth many times so besot and inveigle a man, that it makes him, like a blind asse, fall down into a ditch." When Orpheus went to fetch his wife Eurydice out of hell, he had her granted to him upon condition that he should not turn back his eyes to looke upon her till he had brought her into heaven; yet having brought her forward a great way, at length his love was so excessive, that he could not continue any longer, but would needs have a sight of her. Whereupon forthwith he lost both her sight and herself; shee suddenly againe vanishing away from him. Playfere.

Backsliding, Prevention of

Serving God daily prevents backsliding and sustains faith throughout life.

"When I was young in the service of God," said a brother, "I had many fears that I should backslide if I should live to see old age; and sometimes requested of the Lord, that I might die young, and thus save religion from reproach and my soul from ruin. One day, while thus musing, the impression was vividly made on my mind, that I must serve God by the day. This was more than thirty years ago; and, by the grace of God aiding me to put that rule into practice, I am yet on my way to heaven."

Backsliding, Process of

Hidden spiritual decay leads to sudden visible fall, like a tree with a rotten heart.

Some time ago, two ministers were walking along the banks of a river, when they came to a tree which had been blown down in a recent gale. It was a mighty, noble tree, tall and substantial, with large outspreading roots and ample foliage. It must have been the growth of the greater part of a century; and any one who had seen it would have said there was no cause why it should not have stood a century longer. Approaching to examine it, they found it had been snapped off just above the roots; and, on looking still closer, found that there was only an outer shell of sound wood, and that the heart was rotten. Unnoticed, the decay had been going on for years. "Do you know," said Mr. — to his companion, "that a tree never breaks off in this way, unless there has been previous decay?" — "A very suggestive lesson," was the answer, "for you and me, and for your people and mine. Is it not so with the falls of many of the members of our churches? Men seldom fall all at once into notorious, flagrant sin." Bowes.

Backsliding, Punishment of

Betrayers of trust deserve just punishment, illustrating consequences of backsliding.

When Amurath, emperor of the Turks, had notice given him that a doctor of law had cheated a poor pilgrim that was gone to Mecca, and at the man's return would not restore to him the jewels he had intrusted with him, but resolutely denied that he had received any such things from him, the emperor one day, in a third person, asked the doctor what he thought a man that had notoriously betrayed his trust might justly deserve. He answered, it was fit that so notorious a villain should be pounded alive in a mortar. He had no sooner said the word but the emperor gave order that so it should be done to him who had so notoriously cozened the poor pilgrim.

— A. Horneck

from New Cyclopaedia of Prose Illustrations · Elon Foster divine judgment

Backsliding, Recovery from

A timely question can awaken a backslider to repentance and restoration.

A young man was for several months in a back-fiding state, which manifested itself in the usual way, — of conformity to a fashionable and unholy course of life, and a neglect of the ordinances and institutions of the house of God. During this time, he called on a deacon of the church, who was a watchmaker, and asked him to repair his watch. "What is the difficulty with your watch?" said he. "It has lost time lately," said the young man. The deacon looked up to him with a steady and significant eye, and said, "Haven't you lost time lately?" These few words brought the backslider to repentance, to the church, and to duty.

— Christian Treasury

from New Cyclopaedia of Prose Illustrations · Elon Foster repentance

Backsliding, Signs of

Signs of backsliding include neglect of prayer, Bible, and holy fellowship.

Indifference to prayer and self-examination, trifling or unprofitable conversation, neglect of public ordinances, shunning the people of God, associating with the world, thinking lightly of sin, neglect of the Bible, and often gross immorality. C. Buck.

Backsliding, Slight

Small deviations in faith can lead to vastly different eternal destinations.

At Preston, at Malines, at many such places, the lines go gently asunder: so fine is the angle, that at first the paths are almost parallel, and it seems of small moment which you select. But a little farther one of them turns a corner, or dives into a tunnel; and, now that the speed is full, the angle opens up, and, at the rate of a mile a minute, the divided convoy flies asunder; one passenger is on the way to Italy, another to the swamps of Holland; one will step out in London, the other in the Irish Channel. It is not enough that you look for the better country; you must keep the way: and a small deviation may send you entirely wrong. Dr. James Hamilton.

Baptism, Forgetting

Many profess baptism but later abandon their faith, returning to former ways.

The Spanish converts in Mexico remembered not any thing of the promise and profession they made in baptism, save only their names, which many times they also forgot; and in the kingdom of Congo, of Africa, the Portuguese, at their first arrival, finding the people to be heathens, induced them to be baptized in great abundance, allowing the principles of Christianity till such times as the priests pressed them to lead lives according to their profession, which the most part of them in no case enduring, returned again to their Gentilism. Such renegades are to be found in the midst of us this day, such as give themselves up to Christ in profession; but, when it comes to a holy life, they leave him in the open field, forsaking their colors, renouncing their baptism, and running away to the enemy. Spencer.

Condemnation, Memento of

A symbol of baptism serves as a lasting reminder against falling away from faith.

It was the custom in the primitive church for the adult, who was baptized in white robes, to leave the robe as a witness of his baptism. Elpidophorus fell from the faith; and the deacon of the church came and told him, "O Elpidophorus! I will keep this stole as a monument against thee to all eternity."

from New Cyclopaedia of Prose Illustrations · Elon Foster

Danger, Advantage of

Christians often sin in ease, not under discipline; better to face hardship than complacency.

Better walk on rugged rocks than on slippery ice. If we lose our roll, it is in the Arbor of Ease, not in the Valley of Baca. Few Christians backslide while under the rod: it is usually when on the lap of plenty that believers sin. Spurgeon.

from New Cyclopaedia of Prose Illustrations · Elon Foster faithfulness

Duty, Neglecting

Neglecting duty leads to a crooked path and lost opportunities for growth.

Dr. Judson sent once for an erring convert. "Look here," he said, taking a ruler, and tracing a crooked line upon the floor,—"here is where you have been walking. You have made a crooked truck, have kept near it, and not taken to new roads; and you have, to a certain extent, grown in grace: and now here you stand. You know where this path leads. You know what is before you,—some struggles, some sorrows, and, finally, eternal life and a crown of glory. But to the left branches off another very pleasant road; and along the air floats, rather temptingly, a pretty bubble. You do not mean to leave the path you have walked in fifteen years; you only want to step aside, and catch the bubble, and think you will come back again: but you never will."

Faith, Eclipse of

Backsliders fail to enjoy God's light because something blocks their fellowship, like an eclipse.

The Moon, in an eclipse, complained to the Sun, Why, O my dearest friend! dost thou not shine upon me as usual?"—"Do I not?" said the Sun: "I am sure I am shining as I always do. Why do you not enjoy my light as usual?"—"Oh, I see!" said the Moon: "the Earth has got between us." This is the trouble with every backslider.

from New Cyclopaedia of Prose Illustrations · Elon Foster faith

Old Age, Hopeless

Refusing to forsake the world in old age is a repulsive and hopeless state.

There is not a more repulsive spectacle than an old man who will not forsake the world, which has already forsaken him. Tholuck.

from New Cyclopaedia of Prose Illustrations · Elon Foster worldliness

Profession, Religious

Religious profession without ongoing worship shows a cold, lifeless spiritual state.

The religious profession of some people is like the ashes on a rusty altar, which show that there once were warmth and light and flame, but which also show that it is long since they worshipped there. Dr. J. Hamilton.

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Religion, Indecision in

A legislator's indecision about religion led to eventual abandonment of all religious affiliation.

A member of the Methodist Church was elected to the legislature of a certain State where it was the duty of the clerk to ascertain the religious persuasion of its members. As the clerk came on his known errand, all readily gave their persuasion but this professor. He hesitated. The clerk said, "Shall I put you down 'Independent'?" He assented. After the clerk had passed, he called him back; and, to quiet his conscience, said, "I favor the Methodists." There was a prayer-meeting kept up by the members of the legislature that season; but he was not there. When he returned home, there were meetings accessible; but he was not found in them. The last report of him is, he no longer favors any religion.

from New Cyclopaedia of Prose Illustrations · Elon Foster

A Backslider'S Wretch

A man describes his decline from faithful Christian to careless backslider.

EDNESS.—Dr. Doddridge was once preaching on the calling and the glorious hopes of the Christian. One of his hearers, after the sermon, addressed him in the following terms: "You have made an excellent and encouraging discourse; but these privileges do not belong to me, nor shall I ever have the least interest in them." "What reason have you for so saying?" asked the doctor; "Jesus is able to save to the uttermost." "I will tell you my circumstances," the man replied, "and then you will not be surprised. I once made a profession of religion, which I supported with great regularity and decorum for several years. I was very strict in the performance of the duties required by the Christian system. None could charge me with immorality of conduct, or the neglect of positive commands; but in the course of time my zeal departed from me, and I became careless and remiss in my walk and conversation. I felt no satisfaction arising from the performance of spiritual duties, and gradually declined my customary observance of them. Instead of praying twice or thrice a day, I only prayed once; the same with respect to family religion; and at last these sacred engagements were entirely omitted, which soon discovered itself by my outward conduct. Ungodly company, and the gratification of sense, became my only enjoyments, in which I could indulge free from those strong convictions of guilt and dreadful apprehension of future misery, which retirement and calm reflection impose upon the mind. Soon after this change took place, I was left guardian to a young lady, whose fortune was committed to my care; but I expended her money, and ruined her reputation. Still I was sensible how far preferable a virtuous life was to a wicked one, and I was careful to instruct my children in the principles of religion. When I returned, one evening, from my sinful pursuits, I asked them, as usual, if they could repeat their lesson. 'Yes,' said the youngest, 'and I have a lesson for you too, papa;' she then read Ezek. xxiv. 13:—'Because I have purged thee, and thou wast not purged, thou shalt not be purged from thy filthiness any more, till I have caused my fury to rest upon thee.' This I considered was to seal my doom, and I now have nothing but a fearful looking for of judgment."

Five Years Of Misery

A man suffered deep distress over backsliding but was later restored and comforted.

It is said of a Mr. G., that he lay languishing in distress of mind for five years,—during which he took no comfort in meat or drink, nor any pleasure in life; being under a sense of backsliding, he was distressed as if he had been in the pit of hell. If he ate his food, it was not from any appetite, but with a view to defer his damnation, thinking within himself that he must needs be lost so soon as his breath was out of his body. Yet, after all this, he was set at liberty, received great consolation, and afterwards lived altogether a heavenly life. Let not the tempted believer then despond, nor the returning backslider fear lest he should be rejected.

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had been erected in it, where he sat down to read and meditate. While thus employed he thought he heard some one enter the garden; and leaving his bowler, he immediately hastened toward the spot whence the sound seemed to come, in order to discover who it was that had entered. He had not proceeded far before he observed a particular friend of his, a clergyman of considerable talents, who had rendered himself very popular by his zealous and unwearied exertions in the cause of Christ. On approaching his friend, he was surprised to find that his countenance was covered with a gloom which it had not been accustomed to wear, and that it strongly indicated a violent agitation of mind ap- 17. 28

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parently arising from conscious remorse. After the usual salutations had passed, his friend asked the relator the time of the day; to which he replied, "Twenty-five minutes after four." On hearing this, the stranger said, "It is only one hour since I died, and now I am damned." "Damned! for what?" inquired the minister. "It is not," said he, "because I have not preached the gospel, neither is it because I have not been rendered useful, for I have many souls as seals to my ministry, who can bear testimony to the truth as it is in Jesus, which they have received from my lips; but it is because I have been seeking the applause of men more than the honor which cometh from above, and verily, I have my reward!" Having uttered hese expressions he hastily disappeared, and was seen no more.

The minister awaking shortly afterward, with the dream deeply graven on his memory, proceeded, overwhelmed with serious reflections, towards his

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Hypocrites Inaccessible

Unconverted professors are the most hopeless sinners, unmoved by revival's power.

President Edwards remarks, as the result of long and close observation, that, of all sinners, unconverted professors of religion are the most hopeless. In his account of the great New England revival in which he labored very

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from Cyclopaedia of Moral and Religious Anecdotes · Kazlitt Arvine conviction of sin

The Backslider'S Dream

A backslider's dream of judgment led him to repent and return to faith.

A young gentleman being reproved by his mother for being religious, made her this answer: "I am resolved by all means to save my soul." Some time after he fell into a lukewarm state, during which time he was sick and nigh unto death. One night he dreamed that he saw himself summoned before God's angry throne, and from thence hurried into a place of torments: where, seeing his mother full of scorn, she upbraided him with his former answer; why he did not save his soul by all means. This was so much impressed on his mind when he awoke, that, under God, it became the means of his turning again to him; and when any body asked him the reason why he became again religious, he gave them no other answer than this: "If I could not in my dream endure my mother's upbraiding my folly and lukewarmness, how shall I be able to suffer that God should call me to an account in the last day, and the angels reproach my lukewarmness, and the devil aggravate my sins, and all the saints of God deride my folly and hypocrisy?"

The Fatal Ball

A young woman about to profess faith succumbs to temptation and attends a worldly ball.

The subject of the following narrative was the idolized daughter of a gay and worldly father, who, in spite of the tears and expostulations of a pious mother, to whom such an act seemed little short of sacrilege, led her to the altar of worldly folly—the village dancing-school. She soon excelled all competitors, and was considered the unrivalled belle. At this crisis her father died, and she lent a willing ear to the explanations of divine truth from her mother, which satisfied her understanding and filled her heart with pure and holy emotions. She was on the point of making a public profession of her faith in Christ, when the village in which she lived was agitated with preparations for a splendid ball. The poor widow shuddered as she witnessed the progress of this much dreaded evil: to complete her uneasiness, a brother of her husband, a man of the world, visiting in the family, declared that he would be at the expense of equipping her daughter as his own child, and that she should eclipse all the women of rank and fashion in the ballroom.

The poor girl was at first unwilling to lend an ear to these follies; but she had always delighted in dancing, and on this occasion suffered her better judgment to be overruled. "'Tis but for once, mother,' said she, 'and to please my uncle—nay, to avoid giving him incurable offence. Believe me, I shall not suffer my head to be turned by one night of gayety. Pray for me, mother, that this compliance with the will of my father's brother may not produce evil consequences.' "My child,' said the distressed mother, 'I dare not so word my supplication. It is in compliance with your own will that you thus venture on the tempter's ground, and in this open act of disobedience to your heavenly Father, I cannot lend my aid to excuse or extenuate your guilt. I have prayed, I will still pray, that you may not venture farther in this matter; but if you do, the responsibility must rest with yourself.' "But, mother, the Scriptures say themselves, 'there is a time to dance.' "So they say, in the same place, 'there is a time to make war, and a time to hate.' The wise man means, that all sins and follies will have their seasons; but he does not therefore advocate sin and folly. Oh, beware, my child, and let the same Scriptures teach you, that 'he who hardeneth his neck under reproof shall be destroyed, and that suddenly.' These are fearful words for us to part with, my child. Oh, heed my reproof, and do not harden your neck!' "Mother,' said the perplexed girl. 'I have promised my uncle to go to this unlucky ball, and I cannot break my promise without incurring his resentment. He has been so kind, that it would be ungrateful to thwart him in this trifle.' "Oh, my daughter,' said the widow, holding her hands to her ears, "let me not hear you use such awful language! Can it be you who calls this sin a trifle? Go, if you will; but make no more vain attempts to pervert right reason, lest you add to your own condemnation."

It was indeed with reluctance that the affectionate daughter left her mother, under such circumstances; but she had surrendered her better judgment for the time, and created an imaginary necessity, by which she suffered herself to be controlled. Much admired, she was so often solicited to dance that her blood became painfully overheated; and finding the heat of the ball-room too oppressive, her partner was conducting her into a little back porch. As she swept rapidly along, panting with heat, she encountered a servant entering with a pitcher of water, more than half intoxicated, and as he staggered out of her way, the contents of the pitcher were discharged full in her panting and overheated bosom. The sudden revulsion of physical feeling occasioned by this accident, was almost instantly fatal. A violent ague terminated in convulsions, and before the dawn of day this lovely and interesting girl expired in the arms of her almost distracted mother, breathing with her last gasp the word "SUDDENLY!"

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