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4 Sermon Illustrations on Relationships

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Relationships in Christian preaching emphasize mutual love, respect, and care as foundational to true fellowship and community (John 15:13). Illustrations often use natural growth, cultivation, and reciprocal treatment to depict how relationships flourish through patience, kindness, and honest affection (Ecclesiastes 4:9-10). They highlight the importance of nurturing bonds that reflect Christ's love.

Friendship, Brevities

True friendship is based on mutual merit, slow growth, and genuine affection.

Friendship is the only thing in the world concerning the use of which all mankind are agreed. — Cicero. — Kindred passions and pursuits are the natural groundwork of friendship. Real friendship is of slow growth, and never thrives, unless ingrafted upon a stock of known and reciprocal merit. — Chesterfield. — The youth of friendship is better than its old age. — Hazlitt. — Make not thy friends too cheap to thee, nor thyself to thy friend. — Fuller. — Purchase not friends by gifts: when thou ceasest to give, such will cease to love. — Ibid. — Lord Brooks was so proud of his friendship with Sir Philip Sidney, that he chose for his epitaph, "Here lies Sir Philip Sidney's friend."

from New Cyclopaedia of Prose Illustrations · Elon Foster christian love

Friendship, Condition of

Different natures in friendship can cause harm if not carefully managed.

An earth-en pot and one of brass were one day carried away by a great inundation. "Brother," said the latter, "do not be afraid: I will do you no harm."—"Oh! keep away from me, I pray you," replied the former; "for if it happens that the current dashes you against me, or me against you, our constitutions are so different, that you will break me into a thousand pieces."

Friendship, Cultivating

Friendship grows through kindness and genuine care, not mere compliments.

Get not your friends by bare compliments, but by giving them sensible tokens of your love. It is well worth while to learn how to win the heart of man the right way. Force is of no use to make or preserve a friend, who is an animal that is never caught and tamed but by kindness and pleasure. Excite them by your civilities, and show them that you desire nothing more than their satisfaction; oblige with all your soul that friend who has made you a present of his own. Socrates.

from New Cyclopaedia of Prose Illustrations · Elon Foster christian love

Usage, Reciprocal

How we use others reflects how the world uses us, key to good relationships.

A young man overtook a lady on the street, and accosted her with, "How does the world use you?" — "Well," she replied: "how does it use you?" — "The world uses me well," he said; "but the people in it do not." — "Do you use the people in it well?" This is the key to good usage.

from New Cyclopaedia of Prose Illustrations · Elon Foster

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