"Any time I have seen someone accomplishing something magnificent, they have been a monomaniac with a mission. A single-minded individual with a passion." - Peter Drucker
You may recall my coverage of the idea of "monomania" in a previous e-letter regarding, "The Curly Principle." In the movie City Slickers staring Billy Crystal, we observed the story of a man who (going through a mid-life crises), decides to go out with some buddies and rustle cattle for a week. The trail boss they report to is named Curly (played by Jack Palance).
Curly really seems to have his head together and Crystal's character keeps asking him what the secret is. Curly's only reply is to hold up his index finger and say, "One thing."
Finally in frustration Crystal asks, "Well, what is that one thing?" To which Curly replies, "That is what YOU have to figure out - no one can do it for you."
The Curly Principle teaches us the same lesson that the renowned management consultant Peter Drucker has observed in highly successful people. Monomania - in other words, a single-minded focus and passion for that "one thing."
Jesus taught us, "If your eye be single...your whole body shall be full of light." (Light meaning truth and power).
What are you singularly focused on?
Frequently, I meet individuals who want to have their dreams and yet are not willing to give up anything to achieve them. This is self-deception. Choosing to become great in any area means choosing to not be great in something else. There will always be a price to pay - there will always be a sacrifice.
You can only ride one horse really well at any one time. Yes, you may be able to ride two, but nowhere NEAR as well as you can ride one. Nowhere near as agile, responsive, quick. Understand the difference?
"The secret to success in life is making your vocation your vacation." - Mark Twain
Last weekend I was in LA with some good friends attending an Elton John concert. I was asked a frequent question, "What do you do for fun and recreation?"
This is always a difficult question for me to answer, because I know there is an expectation that I come up with a whole list of activities I am involved in. Bottom line...I am a monomaniac. My work is my passion as well as my re-creation (notice the true meaning of the word). When asked the question, "How is work?" I honestly answer, "Work is play."
I ABSOLUTELY LOVE what I do. I can think of nothing more fulfilling and re-creating than to meditate, study, read, learn, write, create, help and coach others, talk with you and share insights.
Yes, I do hike, workout, ski from time to time, go to movies, and play golf poorly once in awhile; but these are not the things that make life meaningful for me. Many see their work as a "means to an end," for the monomaniac their work is an end unto itself. Not just a job...a meaningful, passionate mission.
"Your work is your passion and your love made manifest through action."
Is this the right approach for you? I am not qualified to answer that question. What I am qualified to do is to check my own observations and experiences and agree with Drucker and Curly.
To accomplish anything of consequence...anything magnificent and great, you must be willing to literally trade your life for it. To be so passionately focused and committed that nothing will divert you. Nothing and no one can stop you.
My wish is that you find that "one thing" in your life. Your white-hot-passion that brings you tremendous meaning and purpose.
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A version from 3/29/2003:
Are you a light bulb or a laser beam?
I remember several years ago seeing the movie “City Slickers” starring Billy Crystal and Jack Palance. Seems Crystal's character was going through the proverbial mid- life crisis, and he and some buddies decided to go out and play cattle rustler for a week. Remember this one?
Well, in the midst of Crystal's confusion (and life-search), Palances' character “Curly” seemed to have it all together. Crystal asked him, “What is the secret to life?” At which point Curly would always hold up his index finger and say, “One thing” before riding away.
In frustration Crystal finally asked, “What is that one thing?” To which Curly answered, “That is what you have to figure out.”
You see, if we are not careful, we live our life like a light-bulb versus a laser beam. Never finding and deciding upon our “one thing.”
A light bulb gives off diffused light -- it can illumine a large area...but a laser beam can cut through steel!
You cannot serve two masters, you cannot ride two horses at the same time. The great teacher told us, “If your eye be single...your whole body will be full of light,” (light = truth and power).
In what ways are you living your life like a light-bulb? Becoming a jack-of-all-trades but a MASTER of NONE? Very few individuals ever master anything -- they don't find and commit to their own “one thing.”
What do you need to let go of? Where do you need to refocus? What do you want to accomplish with the rest of your life?
I encourage you to practice “The Curly Principle,” to find your one thing and commit to focus with laser intensity! Then exploit your one thing in the service of others and you absolutely MUST win.