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Beauty in Christian preaching often symbolizes the divine craftsmanship and the intrinsic worth God imparts to His creation, reflecting His glory and character (Psalm 27:4). Illustrations typically contrast outward appearance with inner beauty, using images like nature's artistry, personal character, and the transformative power of grace (1 Peter 3:3-4). This subject invites reflection on true beauty beyond superficiality.

Altogether Lovely

Song of Solomon 5:16

His mouth is most sweet: yea, he is altogether lovely. This is my beloved, and this is my friend, 0 daughters of Jerusalem. — Song of Solomon 5:16.

Lord Jesus, Thy power, Thy majesty and Thine immutability make up such a man, or rather such a God-Man, as neither heaven nor earth have seen elsewhere. Thine infancy, Thine eternity, Thy sufferings, Thy triumphs, Thy death, and Thine immutability are all woven in one gorgeous tapestry, without seam or rent. Thou art music without discord; Thou art many and yet not divided; Thou art all things, and yet not diverse. As all colors blend in one resplendent rainbow, so all the glories of heaven and earth meet in Thee, and unite so wondrously that there is none like Thee in all things. Thou hast been anointed with the holy oil of myrrh and cassia, which Thy God hath reserved for Thee alone; and as for Thy fragrance, it is as the holy perfume, the like of which none other can mingle, even with the art of the apothecary; each spice is fragrant, but the compound is divine. — C. H. Spurgeon.

But, oh, the more we learn of Thee and Thy rich mercy prove,

The more we long Thy face to see and fully prove Thy love. — Tregelles

from Old Devotional Calendars · Charles Haddon Spurgeon via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database

Beauty For Ashes

Psalms 103:3

Introduction: Out of the ashes of a vegetation deposit that has long lain dormant comes the beauty of growing crops, green fields and woods. Out of the rubble of a blighted urban area rise the beautiful buildings of a modern city. These help us to grasp, in a measure, the meaning of the expression in Isaiah, “beauty for ashes” (61:3). It is God’s promise to his people, and it is realized through Jesus Christ both here and hereafter. We find all our spiritual blessings in him, for he is “altogether lovely.” He promises:

1. The beauty of forgiveness for the ashes of a bad record. When we realize our frailty, weakness, vileness and nothingness, we cry out, “We are but dust and ashes.” Yet when we repent, God gives us beauty for ashes. Sin has marred God’s image in mortal man, and has brought us to the ash heap. But when we look to him who says he will “beautify the meek with salvation,” when we become aware of the forgiveness of our sins and our acceptance “in the beloved,” then we rejoice because we have received beauty for ashes.

2. The beauty of spiritual health for the ashes of physical weakness. While it is true that genuine health will not be universal among God’s people until we enter the eternal world where the inhabitants will never know sickness, it is also true that it is our privilege to have the life of our Lord manifested here and now in our mortal flesh. God is the healer of disease (Psalm 103:3). He sent Jesus Christ to counteract the work of the devil. His purpose for us is well indicated in 3 John 2: “I wish above all things that thou mayest prosper and be in health, even as thy soul prospereth.” He also comforts us with the assurance that his Grace is sufficient for us (2 Cor. 12:9).

3. The beauty of holiness For the ashes of self-effort. Jesus Christ purifies our hearts by faith, and gives us the beauty of his imputed and imparted righteousness. He is “made unto us sanctification.” He gives strength for weakness, joy for sorrow, sweet for bitter, love for fear, sunshine for shadow, beauty for ashes. He clothes the humble with the garments of salvation (Isaiah 61:10).

4. The beauty of life for the ashes of death. Here is the great promise of resurrection that fills us with joy at Easter. When the graves give up their dead at the call of death’s mighty Conqueror, there will be brought to ultimate fulfilment the word of the Lord to Isaiah: “The Spirit of the Lord God is upon me … to appoint unto them that mourn in Zion, to give unto them beauty for ashes, the oil of joy for mourning … “ (61:1,3).

Conclusion: In 2 Peter we are told that the judgment of Sodom and Gomorrah, which were turned into ashes (2:6), will be repeated for a corrupt earth (3:10,12). Yet here again the promise of “beauty for ashes” is repeated, for we “look for new heavens and new earth, wherein dwelleth righteousness” (3:13).

These then are God’s beautiful gifts: forgiveness, spiritual health, holiness and life, all of them received and realized through Jesus Christ. To them he adds the blessedness of a future with Christ, in the beauty of all eternity.

from Message In The Making - Decision Magazine, Ca 1962 · Rev. William S. Bowden, Advent Christian Church of La Valle, Wisconsin. via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database forgivenesshealthholiness

Mirrror, Mirror, on the wall...

A British survey reveals that the average woman spends two years of her life studying herself in mirrors, store windows, and other reflective surfaces. Men, who take quicker peeks, only spend six months per lifetime checking on how they look.

from The Week (magazine) via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database beauty

Artful Ways

Those of you who have seen Barcelona’s Temple Sagrada Familia know how very difficult it is to describe to those who have not. The architect at whose feet the acclaim is laid for this gargantuan eighteenth-century cathedral was the renowned Antoni Gaudi. There are twelve bell towers, averaging three hundred feet in height, and six domes, the highest of them eventually culminated in a 550-foot cross. As for the massive facades, the artwork gets so cluttered and detailed that it is impossible to study it without a book and even a magnifying glass. One stands rather dumbfounded by the sheer imposition upon the eye in the midst of such garish grandeur. If size is beauty, everything in the vicinity of it is ugly. If architecture is supreme, everything around it pales. If the test behind it were biblical, the amalgam of the sacred and the profane is dreadful. If beauty were the question, there would be extremes of praise or denunciation. That is what stirred my mind into wondering what it is about art that makes it so potent, yet so difficult for us to agree upon.

It was Dostoyevsky who, with the insight of a genius and an eye for the future, talked of the enormous power of art. He recognized the breadth from which art draws and the depth to which it penetrates. From the intellectual power of literary works and the creative powers of the visual, the arts have fulfilled his prediction, for he once said that first art would imitate life, then life will imitate art, and then finally, life will draw the very reason for its existence from the arts. Today, the breadth of art that permeates the air in its most popular forms is disorienting, and there is a sadness to it all because art, I believe, is one of God’s greatest gifts to us. The psalms of David, the proverbs of Solomon, the stories that are woven through Scripture, the hymns that have enriched the church, and the colors that surround our existence all speak of a God who revels in beauty. But if we pause long enough we may also see his tremendous caution in reminding us to differentiate between ends and means. God warned us not to make a graven image because the object soon replaces the subject and the means can easily become the ends.

And how terrible it is when the vision of the Creator is lost and a self-deifying visionary becomes the interpreter of beauty. The person, the interpretation, and the very means of art then get translated into a way of life. Contrast this degenerative descent of art with the noble heights that it can reach. I think of the many great productions that have come in film and in song, productions that also engulfed the viewer, but with the view to making us better people. That may be the key. It is not so much that a quotient for beauty has been lost, but that the inner eye to discern truth and betterment has been lost.

Eugene Peterson tells the story of the time he was an assistant pastor at a church in New York City. The caretaker was a man by the name of Willie Ossa, a very outspoken skeptic. But Ossa also happened to be an artist. He asked Peterson if he would sit as his subject for a portrait. Week after week they would set a time to proceed with the painting. Ossa told Peterson that he would not let him see it until he finished the work. But one day the artist’s wife came into the room and shrieked when she saw the painting, saying that it had no resemblance to the subject. All along, the artist had purposefully drawn a hideous caricature of Peterson. His reason was to remind the young pastor that if the love of God ever left his life, this is what he would look like.

That is a grim reminder both to artists and their subjects. As I think back upon Temple Sagrada Familia, I remind myself that millions have never seen this work of Antoni Gaudi. But in speaking they use its homonym -- a word that sounds similar to another -- the English word “gaudy,” which means something showy, tasteless and tawdry, glitter without worth. The wrongly informed person has sometimes thought that this word had its root in the word “God,” as they are homonyms, too -- a small difference maybe in sound, but a worldview of a difference in meaning. Ideas misconstrued do lose their significance. Art misconceived loses its way.

In that sense Dostoyevsky, too, has given us a fair warning. Art has lost its way because humanity has lost its way and each now imitates the other, drawing the reason for its existence from a lost vision for life and beauty. I pray that Christian musicians and artists will blaze the trail for recovering the true, the good, and the beautiful. The good news is that some are doing just that, leaving many moved beyond words to a deeper hunger for God. That is the unique gift an artist can give to humanity. May they point us all in that direction.

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Copyright © 2007 Ravi Zacharias International Ministries (RZIM). Reprinted with permission. "A Slice of Infinity" is a radio ministry of Ravi Zacharias International Ministries.

Art Shouldn't Clash With God

Luke 12:27

Paul Cézanne, the French artist whose work laid the foundations of the transition from the 19th century conception of artistic endeavour to a new and radically different world of art in the 20th century, was a devout Roman Catholic. He said, “When I judge art, I take my painting and put it next to a God-made object like a tree or flower. If it clashes, it is not art.”

Sermon: Camping With God

Exodus 25:1

Sermon in Exodus series, #17. Exodus 25:1-9

CAMPING WITH GOD

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I. The Tabernacle doesn't thrill me.

II. God appreciates beauty.

A. Evangelicals aren't big on beauty.

B. God values beauty for beauty's sake.

C. Worshipping God involves all our senses.

III. God is holy.

A. God's presence was hidden from ordinary view.

B. Chief among them is human sin.

C. Even ordinary believers were separated from the world.

D. Separation remains a valid principle for Christians.

IV. The tabernacle had a treatment for sin.

A. The portable altar offered sacrifices to cover offenses.

B. Ultimately, the sacrificial system was inadequate.

C. Some see special symbolism in the gate.

V. Tents are temporary. John 1:14

from Condensed sermon outline (handout) by Rev. David Holwick · Rev. David Holwick, Serm09zi.pco via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database artworship

Beauty Can Bring People To God

Luke 21:5

“One in six young people are Christian as visits to church buildings inspire them to convert,” Olivia Rudgard, Telegraph.co.uk, June 17, 2017

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One in six young people in the United Kingdom are practising Christians, new figures show, as research suggests thousands convert after visiting church buildings.

The figures, show that more than one in five (21 per cent) people between the ages of 11 and 18 describe themselves as active followers of Jesus, and 13 per cent say they are practising Christians who attend church.

The study, commissioned by Christian youth organisation Hope Revolution Partnership and carried out by ComRes, suggested that levels of Christianity were much higher among young people than previously thought.

Research carried out by church statistician Dr Peter Brierley in 2006 suggested church attendance among teenagers was less than half of this, with 6 per cent of 11-14 year-olds and 5 per cent of 15-18 year-olds attending church.

Around 13 per cent of teenagers said that they decided to become a Christian after a visit to a church or cathedral, according to the figures.

The influence of a church building was more significant than attending a youth group, going to a wedding, or speaking to other Christians about their faith.

Jimmy Dale, the Church of England’s national youth evangelism officer, said his team had been “shocked” by the results.

The research was carried out in December but was not released until now because analysts thought such a high figure could not be accurate.

But another study recently released by Christian group Youth for Christ showed similar results, suggesting that a surprisingly high number of young people still describe themselves as Christian.

Mr. Dale said: “There was disbelief among the team because it was so high.

“What is really exciting for us is that there is this warmth and openness that we are seeing among young people – they are really open to faith,” he said.

The study suggests that new methods invested in by the Church, such as youth groups and courses such as Youth Alpha, are less effective than prayer or visiting a church building in attracting children to the church.

One in five said reading the Bible had been important, 17 per cent said going to a religious school had had an impact and 14 per cent said a spiritual experience was behind their Christianity.

“Things which we would class as old hat methods are some of the more effective ways.

“It’s a real wake-up call for the church – we’ve got lots of young people who are coming into churches with school groups and that’s a really integral part of them becoming a Christian,” Mr. Dale added.

Senior Church of England figures said the findings showed the importance of keeping churches and cathedrals accessible.

Only nine of Britain's 42 cathedrals currently charge for entry, but there are concerns that more could be forced to do so because of financial pressures.

The impact of the heightened terror threat is also a concern for open churches. Last month Birmingham Cathedral closed temporarily following the bombing in Manchester in order to put in place increased security arrangements.

The Bishop of Worcester, John Inge, who is the lead bishop for churches and church buildings, said: “This shows the power of church buildings – they are powerful for all sorts of reasons.

“They give a sense of stability, and also the sense that the Christian faith has inspired people to build these extraordinary buildings,” he said.

He is leading a campaign to persuade parishes to keep churches open, instead of locking their doors.

There are around 16,000 Churches of England buildings which are still operational.

Evidence suggests that damage is more likely to come to churches which are locked as intruders feel they are less likely to be disturbed.

“I’m passionate about church buildings staying open. The cathedrals are the jewel in the crown but when thinking about all those young people, it’s just as likely to be one of the parish churches which they have been inspired by,” added Mr. Inge.

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Another article on this topic:

“Beautiful churches and cathedrals an important force in bringing conversions,” Philip Kosloski,, Aleteia.org, June 20, 2017

New study: Beautiful churches and cathedrals an important force in bringing conversions, by Philip Kosloski, June 20, 2017

The church building is more influential than a youth group, study suggests.

According to a new study by the British-based Christian youth organization Hope Revolution Partnership, tried and true tools of evangelization, such as the church building itself, are very influential in a young person’s conversion to Christianity.

The Telegraph revealed the results of the study, stating that, “Around 13 percent of teenagers said that they decided to become a Christian after a visit to a church or cathedral.”

Even more surprising was the report’s finding that the “influence of a church building was more significant than attending a youth group, going to a wedding, or speaking to other Christians about their faith.”

In fact, “The study suggests that new methods invested in by the Church, such as youth groups ... are less effective than prayer or visiting a church building in attracting children to the Church.”

While the study was only directed at those involved with the Church of England, the results appear to confirm what many University Centers across the country are discovering. For example, at the St. Thomas Aquinas Church at the University of Nebraska Newman Center, a recent building project put the church structure at the center of evangelization efforts.

Students helped plan the new church building, which was built according to traditional architecture. Bishop James Conley of Lincoln explained in an interview with Adoremus, “We think the style and the whole structure of St. Thomas Aquinas Church will communicate beauty, and beauty attracts. ... We believe that students will be drawn to that. They already have. There are always students in there. They’re drawn to the beauty and lifted up.”

Since the completion of the project the results have been clear. Architect Kevin Clark revealed to Adoremus what has been happening since the church was built. “It is amazing to watch Catholics and non-Catholics participate in the physical beauty of the building. It’s part of their conversation, it’s an intrigue. There are quite a number of non-Catholics I bump into when I’m giving tours. ... They just want to be there, they just want to see it, and it has really become an element of the city’s fabric.”

Another university center that has responded is the Saint Paul University Catholic Center in Madison, Wisconsin. Construction of their new chapel is nearing completion and is meant to inspire by its beauty. On their website the Center explained why they chose to build a more traditional-style building, “Students are thirsty for beauty; a recent study said beauty was one of the most significant reasons people come to and stay with the Catholic faith. The facility needs to be large, beautiful, and visible enough for students to notice it. Students tell us that their friends don’t realize that the grey concrete building next to the bookstore is a church. The design has taken elements from the Church’s architectural history that embody the beauty of our faith but are also complementary with the downtown Madison streetscape.”

As the Pontifical Council for Culture stated in its document “The Via Pulchritudinis:”

The way of beauty replies to the intimate desire for happiness that resides in the heart of every person. Opening infinite horizons, it prompts the human person to push outside of himself, from the routine of the ephemeral passing instant, to the Transcendent and Mystery, and seek, as the final goal of the ultimate quest for wellbeing and total nostalgia, this original beauty which is God Himself, creator of all created beauty.

Of course, the beauty of a church building is only one part, or one step on the Christian journey, but according to recent studies and experience, it is a very important one that should not be missed.

Painting and Counting Stars: The Saving Power of Beauty

Job 9:9

Russian novelist Fyodor Dostoevsky said that “Beauty will save the world.” Reflecting on those words in his 1970 Nobel Prize acceptance speech, Alexandr Solzhenitsyn asked, “What sort of a statement is that? ... How could that be possible? When in bloodthirsty history did beauty ever save anyone from anything?”

This is a legitimate question in a sin-cursed world wracked with natural disasters, human violence and deceit, disease, war, famine, cancer, and mental illness. In the face of such evil and suffering, beauty can seem quaint and powerless, at best a distraction and certainly not a solution. And yet, beauty is particularly effective in bringing joy and appreciation to the forefront of our lives, introducing us to names from the past we might otherwise not know, and placing the image of God in men and women on full display.

Take Vincent Van Gogh, the 19th-century Dutch painter of glowing flowers and heavenly lights whose art so starkly contrasted with his troubled life. Writing in The Wall Street Journal recently, John Miller argued that Van Gogh’s art testifies to a stubborn faith, even during his darkest moments. Not only is that faith evident in the Dutch master’s work, it is evident in his words.

In a letter to his brother two years before his death, Van Gogh wrote that he still had a tremendous need for religion, “so I go outside at night to paint the stars.” The result of this routine was a painting recognized as a masterpiece. The Starry Night, which currently hangs in the Museum of Modern Art in New York City, exhibits the ethereal light, the “bold color and coarse brushwork,” that would immortalize the name of Van Gogh after his untimely death. It is also what Os Guinness, when quoting sociologist Peter Berger, calls a “signal of transcendence.” In other words, stars mean something.

Miller points out that Van Gogh’s several starry-themed paintings include Christian imagery that is easy to miss: churches and convents, crosses, and perhaps even a reference to the twelve disciples.

Though Van Gogh wasn’t a religious painter in a strict sense, his faith, Miller argues, “flows as a powerful undercurrent” in all his art. It also shaped his life. At one point, Van Gogh even aimed to be ordained as a minister, but his quirks sabotaged his theological education and many of his relationships, so he decided to become a self-taught painter instead.

The young artist produced 900 paintings, only one of which actually sold during his lifetime. His mental health continued to decline, eventually devolving into the well-known incident where he cut off his own ear, before he finally committed suicide.

Today, historians and psychologists speculate that Vincent Van Gogh suffered from manic depression or bipolar disorder. His life is a sad mixture of beauty and psychosis over which someone might scribble, as his fellow painter Edvard Munch did over his own iconic work, The Scream, “[this] can only have been painted by a madman.” The reason we know Van Gogh’s name, however, is not his madness but his eye for beauty and the ability to express it on canvas. As one documentary put it, Vincent was at his sanest when he was painting.

In his Nobel Prize speech, Solzhenitsyn said that “a work of art bears within itself its own verification.”

... those works of art which have scooped up the truth and presented it to us as a living force — they take hold of us, compel us, and nobody ever, not even in ages to come, will appear to refute them.

For millennia, Christians have celebrated truth, goodness, and beauty as transcendent testimonies to God’s existence and character. While it is possible to deny truth and goodness, Solzhenitsyn thought beauty had an “irrefutable” quality that “forces even an opposing heart to surrender.” Beauty arrests us, cuts through our objections as the light of the stars cut through Van Gogh’s troubled mind, and leaves us blessedly vulnerable to God’s grace, even in this dark and fallen world.

In his song, “Count the Stars,” my friend Josh Bales writes, “On my darkest night a million beams of light ask me to believe that your promise is like a starlit sky/ bigger than my dreams/ So in my doubting dark I count the stars.”

Truth, wrote the Apostle John, is a person who has Himself faced suffering and will, in the end, answer all questions and make all things new. If the vision that finally captivated a broken Dutch painter is that same Person, then Dostoevsky was right. Beauty will save the world. In fact, He has.

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Copyright (c) 2023 Prison Fellowship Ministries. Reprinted with permission. "BreakPoint" is a radio ministry of Prison Fellowship Ministries.

from BreakPoint Commentary · John Stonestreet & Shane Morris via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database beautytranscendence

Another Example of Modern Gnosticism

Romans 8:11

According to the CDC, 20% of American children are, by medical definition, obese. Recently, to combat this growing epidemic, the American Academy of Pediatrics released new guidelines that recommended behavioral and nutritional therapy for children as early as six years old and weight loss medications or even surgery for children as young as 13.

The new guidelines drew fire from two opposite directions. Some have referred to the guidelines as another example of the healthcare industry attempting to fix every physical problem with a medical solution rather than encouraging broader personal and social changes in lifestyle and food production. A very different (but just as strong) reaction came from advocates of what is called the “Fat Positivity” movement. Obesity, they argued, should not be stigmatized at all. Some advocates even claim that just acknowledging the behavioral factors behind obesity or the medical risks associated with being overweight is “fat-phobic” or “fat-shaming.”

Christians should immediately reject the ever-changing cultural standards of beauty that so often function as moral imperatives. We reject all cultural messages, whether implicit or explicit, that dehumanize those who are deemed rightly or wrongly as overweight. A Christian worldview unequivocally affirms that every human being, no matter their appearance, bears the image of God and therefore possesses an inherent and eternal dignity. The last several decades of Western culture, dominated by a consumerism that treats people as commodified means to an end, have been particularly dehumanizing in this regard. The unrealistic and unhealthy expectations that have been hoisted, especially on women, have caused great harm. Recent and more careful efforts in media and elsewhere to represent people with diverse physical characteristics have been important and helpful changes.

At the same time, reducing people down to culturally contingent physical standards is not fixed by different culturally contingent objectification. For example, many commentators called it a “win” when the Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Issue featured a plus-size model wearing hardly any clothing on its cover. It is not “progress” to objectify more people.

Neither is it progress to dismiss the reality of bodies altogether, shown increasingly within various aspects of our culture and in the more common fallacy of the “Fat Positivity” movement. In reaction to the American Academy of Pediatrics’ new guidelines, one opinion writer for The New York Times accused health officials of waging a “war” against “kids in larger bodies.”

Notice that choice of language: “kids in larger bodies,” as if kids are something separate from their bodies. According to the new gnosticism assumed in this choice of words, the “real us” is how we feel. Our bodies are just a heap of matter that we inhabit, to be ignored or manipulated or harmed in service of our “self-expression.”

The same gnostic impulse animates the transgender movement. We’re watching in real time how dangerous this ideology is when medicalized. After the new obesity guidelines dropped, high-profile medical officials criticized the recommendations as running too fast toward “invasive” medical procedures, like weight-loss surgeries for young kids, when we don’t have enough data on the long-term effects of these treatments. An NYU bioethicist called this strategy a “Band-Aid” that would only mask the real issues underlying childhood obesity. If only the same logic were applied to so-called “transgender medicine.”

Medicalized gnosticism is, in any form, dangerous, because gnosticism is a heresy. Humans are not souls who happen to have bodies. God formed humans out of the dust of the ground and breathed into them the breath of life. Humans became living souls. To be human is to be physical and spiritual. And, of course, Jesus Christ came to the world embodied, rose from the dead bodily, and will be known in the age to come from the scars on His body.

The “Fat Positivity” movement risks sending the message that we can be “healthy at any size” as long as we identify as healthy and that “mental health” should take priority over “physical health,” as if mental health is unrelated to physical health. We need not deny reality to affirm that every person and therefore every body possesses dignity and deserves respect and kindness.

The Apostle Paul told the Romans that “He who raised Christ Jesus from the dead will also give life to [our] mortal bodies” (Romans 8:11). Our bodies aren’t perfect yet. We shouldn’t pretend they are nor shame anyone because they are not.

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Copyright (c) 2023 Prison Fellowship Ministries. Reprinted with permission. "BreakPoint" is a radio ministry of Prison Fellowship Ministries.

from BreakPoint Commentary · John Stonestreet & Maria Baer via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database

Roger Scruton On Beauty

Job 19:25

[article at end critiques some of the spiritual views of Scruton, especially his rejection of eternal life]

In January 2020, Western Civilization lost a giant of a man, and a giant of a mind. Sir Roger Scruton was a philosopher and a prolific author on topics ranging from the history of philosophy, to music, to wine, to hunting, the true meaning of conservatism, the human soul, and more.

Scruton was no mere ivory tower intellectual. What he believed deeply, he put into action. During the 1970s, he smuggled books into Communist Czechoslovakia and helped run an underground network of seminars, offering “courses in philosophy, Hebrew, history, musicology, classical architecture, fine art, theatre, and anything else asked for.” No doubt his experiences with Communism helped make him the ardent and courageous critic of more recent forms of intellectual totalitarianism, too.

Among the things Scruton fought most intensely for, and what I think could be his most enduring contribution, is his defense of beauty.

In a 2009 BBC documentary entitled “Why Beauty Matters,” Scruton argued that Western culture’s loss-of-touch with beauty is a symptom of its loss-of-touch with reality, especially any reality beyond the material world.

In the documentary, which everyone should watch, Scruton contrasts great paintings, sculptures, music, and architecture with the modern and postmodern embrace of ugliness that fills too many museums today: cans of human excrement, urinals, dead animals in tanks, sterile buildings, and literal piles of trash. To call these things “art,” says Scruton, as too many do, isn’t just to rob that word of any meaning. It is to rob our world of meaning.

Quoting Plato, he argued that beauty not only exists objectively, but that it functions as a sign of another and higher order. Beauty reminds us like nothing else that there is more to life than matter, utility, and subjective taste. Good art is recognizable because it “unites form and ideal,” carrying our minds to higher things and surprising even those on vigilant guard against God.

“We all know what it is like,” says Scruton, “suddenly to be transported by the things we see — from the ordinary realm of our appetites, to the illuminated sphere of contemplation. A flash of sunlight, a remembered melody, the face of someone loved. These dawn on us in the most distracted moments, and suddenly life is worthwhile.”

Scruton was no art snob. He saw beauty bursting from everyday surroundings, too. In fact, he spent much of the film under windswept trees, or in quaint streets between brick shops built in a long-disused style. He even praised the finger-paintings of children as tributes to the beauty they see around them.

At the same time, Scruton loved the unique treasures of Western art: the “Pietà,” “David,” the “Birth of Venus,” and the works of Dante, Malory, and Shakespeare are all celebrated in the documentary not only as artistic triumphs, but as the collective testimony of a civilization to a “transcendental God,” and to the order He built into His world.

Scruton argued that belief in this God — what we might call a “Christian worldview” — was the womb that nourished the greatest art the world has ever known; and that the degradation of art was a direct consequence of the West’s loss of faith.

Fittingly, beauty itself, Scruton believed, points our way back. The ugliness of modern and postmodern art and the even uglier philosophies behind them need not have the last word.

Because Scruton believed and taught this, he ended his documentary with a performance of one of the simplest yet most soulful pieces of Western music: Giovanni Battista Pergolesi’s setting of the “Stabat Mater.”

The haunting piece recalls Mary’s grief at watching her Son hanging on the cross. Scruton describes this as the ultimate beauty — the redemption of suffering in the sacrifice that redeemed mankind.

Perhaps, as Dostoevsky claimed, beauty really can “save the world.” At the very least, it points us to the One who can. And like Him, perhaps we might still see a resurrection of beauty.

The world owes Sir Roger Scruton a debt for reminding us of all this. He’ll be badly missed, but long remembered.

Resources

“Why Beauty Matters”

"Beauty Can Save Us," by Roberto Rivera, BreakPoint, January 13, 2020.

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Copyright (c) 2020 Prison Fellowship Ministries. Reprinted with permission. "BreakPoint" is a radio ministry of Prison Fellowship Ministries.

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"Roger Scruton’s Heterodox Faith Without Eternal Life," by Carl C. Curtis, June 7, 2017

Roger Scruton (or now Sir Roger) has come a long way from the days when he was hounded from his professorship of philosophy at Birkbeck College in London for his conservative views.

The author of over forty books and numerous articles ranging from philosophy to hunting to wine to the church (namely, the Anglican Church); membership in the Royal Society of Literature; and, as indicated above, a knighthood — all of these things have established quite fully his reputation as one of the most serious and perhaps celebrated thinkers in the English-speaking world.

And, if you consider his time in Eastern Europe during the Cold War in service of the anti-communist underground, the argument might justly be made that his reputation extends farther than the Anglo-sphere. Both the Czech Republic (Medal for Merit, first class) and Poland (Lech Kaczynski Award) honored Scruton in 2015.

I have read a mere ten of Sir Roger’s books, which I have happily recommended to friends and family. But perhaps the easiest means of acquainting oneself with Scruton’s work is the recent Conversations With Roger Scruton, a book that is exactly what the title says. Scruton’s interlocutor is Mark Dooley, a philosopher himself, an Irishman, and a Roman Catholic.

These talks, conducted over a period of three days at Scruton’s Sunday Hill Farm (aka Scrutopia), cover topics as diverse as Scruton’s books: philosophy, politics, wine, hunting, architecture, sex, and farming. In almost all of these discussions a very rare and precious commodity, intelligent conversation, reigns.

But if there is one area in which I found myself somewhat mystified and, indeed, disappointed, it is the chapter on religion. Unlike some readers of this review, I have no problem in and of itself with Scruton’s Anglicanism, being within that community myself. But the Reformed Episcopal Church, of which I am a member, is certainly to the “right” — in more ways than one — of the worldwide Anglican community. And I knew very well that a “real” Anglican, British Church of England theology would likely prove, to say the least, somewhat more latitudinarian than what I am used to.

And so it is with Roger Scruton. His book Our Church: A Personal History of the Church of England had prepared me for this aspect of his faith, but nothing in my reading of it forewarned me of his eccentric or, to put it more strongly, heterodox opinion on the afterlife.

Few things are more fundamental to Christianity than the belief in eternal life that the crucifixion and resurrection make available to the believer. The gospel, the good news, amounts in a very large part to that fact: death has been conquered. In Conversations, the uneasiness about the doctrine is heralded by the sub-heading of chapter eleven “Rediscovering Religion.”

The sub-heading in question is a quotation from Scruton himself: “I think this life is probably enough.” What he means by that probably needs a little clarifying. John Adams in one of his last letters to Thomas Jefferson said in regard to living longer that he had had enough; William F. Buckley made a similar observation in an interview near the end of his life. But in neither case do I have any reason to suppose the opinion was meant to exclude the possibility of the afterlife. For Scruton, “enough” does.

In orthodoxy, as embraced by Rome, Constantinople, Geneva, and (at least doctrinally) Canterbury, the Incarnation is about a radical change in the state of man brought about when God the Son miraculously assumed the flesh to live a perfect life, die, rise from the dead, and then ascend in the flesh to the Father. It is part and parcel of the Christian faith that He — again, in the flesh — is the first fruits, the earnest, the down payment of the life we will one day have in Him everlastingly.

The odd reading of this doctrinal chain in Scruton’s faith results effectively in the expunging of the last two points of faith. To him, the Incarnation is a central mystery linked with the crucifixion. He writes: “I think one can do it [only live once] if one does recognize the absolute importance in our lives of moments of sacrifice, and the fact that we are seeking redemption and can only find it if God too is prepared as a sacrifice.” So far, so good, but he doesn’t stop there. “That is a mystical thing, wonderfully conveyed by Wagner in “Tristan and Isolde,” in which there is no suggestion of an afterlife, but only the great darkness in which you become what you truly are, which is nothing.”

In other words, in spite of the Church of the ages clearly stating that very God becomes very man as the only possible, perfect, and necessary sacrifice in God’s judicial system, Scruton’s theology posits that He becomes man and dies to reconcile us not to God but to death.

Mark Dooley, hardly an unsympathetic interviewer, nevertheless asks Scruton whether his view requires the same amount of faith as practiced by orthodox believers in their confidence in the afterlife. Of course, it does, Scruton responds, but he thinks his understanding, though not necessarily superior, still enables one “to feel the radiance of sympathy from” the perspective of, in Dooley’s words, “pure subjectivity unencumbered by place and time.”

By no means is it inconceivable that one might rejoice in reconciliation with God and, therefore, in the restoration of communion with Him, simply in order to die in peace.

I hope I do not do Roger Scruton an injustice by presenting that as his understanding. But just as certainly as the Richard Dawkinses of the world do not properly account for man’s belief in God as a plain fact of his history and existence, neither does Scruton offer an explanation for man’s hope in the afterlife, also a rather widely held belief. I firmly believe that there is one and only one faith that properly accounts for man’s lost state and the remedy necessary to redress it, but I also know that many religions describe a similar hope.

The transcendental, on which Scruton quite rightly places a great deal of emphasis, must have a relationship to all creation — allowing for the doctrine of a created universe. But what may be called a connection with the rest of creation becomes a bond between the transcendent Him and the part of creation that He made in His image.

It’s a bond that becomes undeniable — at least, sooner or later — in the fact of the Incarnate God who on the cross welcomes mankind back to Himself, even as The Book of Common Prayer (1928 version) states: “a full, perfect, and sufficient sacrifice, oblation, and satisfaction, for the sins of the whole world” — and for one reason, that we might enjoy eternal life in and with Him.

That’s a doctrine of our church in the broadest historical and revealed sense. I hope and pray Roger Scruton will live to embrace it. There can be little question that “pure subjectivity unencumbered by place and time” is best enjoyed in an eternal state.

The Snout-Weevil’s Colors: Mimicking God’s Art and Engineering

Job 38

What on earth is a Philippine snout weevil, and what does it have to do with Christian worldview?

It’s no exaggeration to say that if it weren’t for the amazing design found in nature, much of the best of our modern technologies wouldn’t exist. Digital Trends documents a whole collection of examples, from bullet trains that mimic the beaks of kingfisher birds, to high-rises that copy the ventilation systems of termite mounds. I’m not kidding. The film “Incredible Creatures that Define Design” by my friend Steve Greisen, talks about what’s called “biomimicry.”

And yet, despite all of our technological achievements, we’re not even close to exhausting the riches of engineering and artistry available in nature. One of the most eye-catching examples to emerge in recent months is a tiny insect — a species of beetle known as the Philippine snout weevil.

Full disclosure: I’d never heard of this creature until our BreakPoint editor decided he would enjoy hearing me say “Philippine snout weevil” on the air. But it’s worth it.

A recent report in WORLD magazine revealed this miniature marvel’s true colors. Literally. You see, this beetle has a series of rainbow spots on its wing casings that do something very rare in nature: They maintain the same color no matter which angle you view them from. This has scientists fascinated, not only is this so-called “high-fidelity” color rare in nature, it’s nonexistent in human technology. Not a smart phone, laptop, tablet, or HD TV in existence can successfully produce colors that remain true, no matter how you look at them.

The website Optics and Photonics reported on the joint research by a Singaporean-Swiss team who discovered just how the weevil accomplishes this dazzling feat.

Each spot on its wing casings forms concentric circles of color which cover the full visible spectrum from blue to red, in the same order as a rainbow. But unlike most hues in nature, which are generated using pigments, the snout weevil’s brilliant design comes from what scientists call “structural color.”

Like the wings of the much more famous blue morpho butterfly, the weevil’s spots have a gleaming, metallic quality. This is because their color comes from tiny, crystalline structures made of chitin that split sunlight like a prism.

It was Isaac Newton who discovered that white light contains all the colors of the rainbow. Using glass lenses of the right shape, he noticed it was possible to refract those colors into their different wavelengths. The structural color used by the snout weevil and morpho butterflies takes advantage of this same principle.

But the weevil does something almost no other insect can. By using spherical scales instead of flat ones like a butterfly, and by controlling their size and volume, the weevil maintains near-perfect color fidelity across hues, regardless of how you look at it. In other words, unlike our own electronic displays, its colors are always true.

If human engineers could ever mimic this mechanism, it could have applications in electronic displays, more efficient fiber optics, more vivid paints, and even cosmetics.

What a strange and wonderful reminder that God is not only a master engineer; He’s an artist. Nature didn’t have to be this beautiful, this extravagant, especially in the humble, easy-to-miss wings of an insect.

That it is, tells us something of God’s character. He reserved the special privilege of perfect color fidelity for one of the lowliest creatures. Remember how Jesus said that even King Solomon in all his glory was not dressed as well as the lilies of the field?

And of course, the more we find even our best technology outdone by nature, the more ridiculous the idea that life created itself seems. No, the creation is the handiwork of an Engineer and Artist, who saw fit to share with us His creativity, inviting us to create, too, as a way to express His image and to glorify Him.

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Resources:

“A beautiful design humans can’t replicate,” by Julie Borg, World.wng.org, October 14, 2018. .

“A Tunable Biophotonic Rainbow,” by Molly Moser, The Optical Society of America, September 25, 2018. .

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Copyright (c) 2019 Prison Fellowship Ministries. Reprinted with permission. "BreakPoint" is a radio ministry of Prison Fellowship Ministries.

from BreakPoint Commentary · John Stonestreet with G. Shane Morris via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database beauty

Will Beauty Save the World?

Isaiah 53:1

The cross of Christ may not be pretty, but it certainly is beautiful.

Sometimes persistent questions demand a response. The question I would like us to ask and answer this morning is will beauty save the world? It may sound like an odd question. It’s a question occasioned by Dostoevsky the great Russian novelist, in his work The Idiot — a novel drenched in Christian content and deeply engaged with Christian theology. Beauty will save the world. Is that a Christian affirmation or not? When Dostoevsky said that beauty will save the world, how was he defining beauty?

I want us to consider two biblical texts in response to this question. First Isaiah 53:1-10.

“Who has believed what he has heard from us?

And to whom has the arm of the LORD been revealed?

For he grew up before him like a young plant,

and like a root out of dry ground;

he had no form or majesty that we should look at him,

and no beauty that we should desire him.

He was despised and rejected by men,

a man of sorrows and acquainted with grief;

and as one from whom men hide their faces

he was despised, and we esteemed him not.

Surely he has borne our griefs

and carried our sorrows;

yet we esteemed him stricken,

smitten by God, and afflicted.

But he was pierced for our transgressions;

he was crushed for our iniquities;

upon him was the chastisement that brought us peace,

and with his wounds we are healed.

All we like sheep have gone astray;

we have turned — every one — to his own way;

and the LORD has laid on him

the iniquity of us all.

He was oppressed, and he was afflicted,

yet he opened not his mouth;

like a lamb that is led to the slaughter,

and like a sheep that before its shearers is silent,

so he opened not his mouth.

By oppression and judgment he was taken away;

and as for his generation, who considered

that he was cut off out of the land of the living,

stricken for the transgression of my people?

And they made his grave with the wicked

and with a rich man in his death,

although he had done no violence,

and there was no deceit in his mouth.

Yet it was the will of the LORD to crush him;

he has put him to grief;

when his soul makes an offering for guilt,

he shall see his offspring; he shall prolong his days;

the will of the LORD shall prosper in his hand.”

Isaiah, in this great Christological prophecy, says, “He had no form or majesty that we should look at him and no beauty that we should desire him.” But now compare this with the Psalmist’s declaration of the Lord’s beauty in Psalm 27:4, “One thing have I asked of the LORD, that will I seek after: that I may dwell in the house of the LORD all the days of my life, to gaze upon the beauty of the LORD and to inquire in his temple.”

What do we make of that juxtaposition? In Isaiah 53 the Christ has “no beauty” as people gazed upon him; rather, he was stricken and afflicted. He was one from whom men turned their faces. Now, is that talking primarily about his physical appearance? Clearly not. Isaiah has in view Christ’s substitutionary atonement and the judgment on sin that occurs in that great event. Yet the Psalmist requests “that [he] may dwell in the house of the LORD all the days of my life, to gaze upon the beauty of the LORD and to inquire in his temple.” What do we make of this? Are the works of God in Christ beautiful or are they not?

In one sense, the Bible begins and ends in beauty. In Genesis, Moses repeatedly emphasizes that God’s verdict on His creation is that “it was good,” even “it was very good.” But this statement has a deeper meaning than our English word “good.” Instead the Hebrew also carries the connotation “beautiful.” It was beautiful. It was very beautiful.

Now consider how the Scripture ends [Revelation 21:22-27] as the apostle John describes the New Jerusalem: “And I saw no temple in the city, for its temple is the Lord God the Almighty and the Lamb. And the city has no need of sun or moon to shine on it, for the glory of God gives it light, and its lamp is the Lamb. By its light will the nations walk, and the kings of the earth will bring their glory into it, and its gates will never be shut by day — and there will be no night there. They will bring into it the glory and the honor of the nations. But nothing unclean will ever enter it, nor anyone who does what is detestable or false, but only those who are written in the Lamb’s book of life.” The New Jerusalem and the river of life are a testimony to beauty.

Humans are instinctively drawn to beauty. This fact is the reason why we go to museums, art shows, or even the Grand Canyon. But how should we think about beauty from a Christian worldview? How does beauty fit within our understanding of the framework of redemption? Consider with me the problem of beauty, the priority of beauty, and the power of beauty.

The Problem of Beauty

Beauty itself is not necessarily problematic. The problem is that humans are not good at recognizing true beauty when they see it. In a fallen world, even our perception of beauty has been corrupted by sin. This is nowhere more evident than in the magazine racks found at checkout lines of grocery stores. Magazines that airbrush models and artificially mask a person’s physical flaws are making claims about the character of beauty. But while these images may be “pretty,” they are certainly not, from a biblical perspective, beautiful.

The Christian worldview posits that anything pure and good finds its ultimate source in the self-existent, omnipotent God who is infinite in all his perfections. Thus the Christian worldview reminds us that the “transcendentals” — the good, the true, and the beautiful — are inseparable. Thus when Psalm 27 speaks of the beauty of the Lord, the Psalmist is also making a claim about the goodness of the Lord and the truthfulness of the Lord. While we distinguish God’s attributes from one another in order to understand them better, we must also recognize that these attributes are inseparable from one another.

In our fallen state we often separate the good, the true, and the beautiful from one another. But the Bible reminds us that if something is true then it is good and beautiful. If something is good, then it is beautiful and true. Finally, if something is beautiful, then it is good and true. Thus, while beauty magazines may present an image that is “pretty,” those images are not rightly beautiful because they do not faithfully represent the truth. But the Christian Worldview teaches that the face of a child with Downs Syndrome is far more beautiful than any photo-shopped (and therefore fake) image of a professional model. True beauty is found in what is good and true.

Similarly, the cross of the Lord Jesus Christ is certainly not attractive from the world’s perspective. The agony of the Savior, the blood of his self-sacrifice, and the horror of crucifixion are not pretty. Yet, while the cross is not pretty, it is certainly beautiful. The cross is beautiful because on it Jesus paid the penalty for sin. The cross is beautiful because in it we see the grace and justice of God. The cross is beautiful because it is also good and true. So Dostoyevsky was right, beauty will save the world. Our job as Christians is to remember the difference between the beautiful and the pretty.

The Priority of Beauty

We must also recognize the priority of beauty in every human heart. Part of what it means to be made in the image of God is that we yearn for things that are genuinely beautiful. Even the most hardened secularist marvels at a sunset or stands breathless at the edge of the Grand Canyon. Augustine explained in his Confessions that every human heart is directed to beauty. The problem with the sinful human heart is that we can be bought off by something less than beauty. Of course, Augustine also pointed to the fact that the human craving for beauty was not mere sentiment. Rather, true beauty reveals an objective origin and source of beauty, God himself. Our longing for beauty ultimately reveals our desperate need for God.

The Power of Beauty

Dostoevsky asserted that beauty would save the world. I’m entirely confident that beauty will indeed save the world because nothing could be more beautiful than the work of Jesus. And because Jesus’ work is beautiful, it is also true. And because his sacrifice is true, it is also good. The atoning work of the Lord Jesus is the epicenter of all that is true, good, and beautiful. The cross of Christ may not be pretty, but it certainly is beautiful.

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This post is an edited transcript of a chapel message from September 1, 2016.

The Tears of Jane Fonda

Job 14:5

Jane Fonda has to be one of the most polarizing people of her generation. Those who are old enough can recall her movie career and can remember her in some roles that were pretty good, and some that were not so good.

But others will remember her more serious, real-life role as so-called “Hanoi Jane,” when she supported the North Vietnamese Communist regime during the Vietnam War. Many, in fact, have never forgiven her for sitting atop that North Vietnamese anti-aircraft gun, nor will they forget. She herself now calls this an “unforgivable mistake.” And she has apologized profusely for it many, many times.

Well, her story gets even more complicated. Several years ago, Jane felt an emptiness in her life and began to be drawn to the Christian faith, even though her husband, CNN mogul — and atheist — Ted Turner, had said, “religion is for losers.” She began reading the Gospel of John and was experiencing what she called reverence and grace. Sadly, it seems, Jane drifted away from what I would humbly call “mere Christianity,” partly, she said, because she thought what she was learning in a Bible study was too “patriarchal.”

Well, fast forward to 2014. Jane, who is now 76, is no longer the Hollywood vamp, and her radicalism has certainly been tempered by time. Only Jane and the Lord know where she is on matters of faith, but it seems clear that she is at least still searching.

In a recent blog post she simply calls “Crying,” Jane confesses that she’s been brought to tears repeatedly in recent months.

“How come,” she asks, “pretty things, kind deeds, sad stories, acts of courage, good news, someone’s [flash] of insight, all get me crying or, at least, tearing up?” Her answer may surprise you. “I find my emotions are way more accessible than they were when I was younger and I’ve come to feel it has to do with age,” Jane says. “I have become so wonderfully, terribly aware of time, of how little of it I have left; how much of it is behind me, and everything becomes so precious.”

Whatever you think of Jane Fonda, these moving words are a powerful reminder of our shared humanity, our longing, and our mortality. I can’t help but think of the words from Moses in Psalm 90

The years of our life are seventy,

or even by reason of strength eighty;

yet their span is but toil and trouble;

they are soon gone, and we fly away...

So teach us to number our days

that we may get a heart of wisdom.

By God’s grace, Jane Fonda’s words help remind us to number our days. As she numbers hers, she has become increasingly grateful for God’s gifts in her life, whether she fully recognizes their Source or not. “With age,” she says, “I am able to appreciate the beauty in small things more than when I was younger perhaps because I pay attention more. I feel myself becoming part of everything, as if I bleed into other people’s joy and pain.... there’s the reality that in a few decades (if I’m lucky) I will be in the earth, fertilizing some of the very things I look at now and tear up over.”

I pray that this woman of such talent and insight would reach out to the One who Himself wept over and voluntarily drank the bitter cup of death ... for her, for you, and for me!

The beauty Jane Fonda is now seeing — beauty we see in creation, in the womb of an expectant mother, in the kindnesses we receive and give — should bring us all to tears, especially if we see them in light of God’s love for us and for His creation, if we see that every good and perfect gift is from above, from the Father of heavenly lights (James 1:17).

May we be His lights in this dark world, gently wiping tears from the eyes of hurting and searching people everywhere — in Hollywood, or right next door.

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Copyright (c) 2014 Prison Fellowship Ministries. Reprinted with permission. "BreakPoint" is a radio ministry of Prison Fellowship Ministries.

from BreakPoint Commentary · Eric Metaxas via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database beauty

Women, Marry Ugly!

A study, published in the Journal of Family Psychology, showed that couples in which the woman is physically more attractive than the man are happier than couples in which the man is physically more attractive than the woman. Why is this? Handsome men on average make bad husbands. Men can pursue one of two different strategies: Seek a long-term mate, stay with her, and invest in their joint offspring (the “dad” strategy); or seek a large number of short-term partners without investing in any of the resulting offspring (the “cad” strategy).

All men may want to pursue the cad strategy; however, their choice of the mating strategy is constrained by female choice. Men do not get to decide with whom to have sex; women do. And women disproportionately seek out handsome men so they will have good-looking children. Even women who are already married may seek short-term mating (i.e., affairs) with handsome men if they can successfully fool their husbands into investing in the resulting offspring. The women then get the best of both worlds: Their children carry the good looks of their handsome lover and receive the parental investment of their unknowingly cheated-on but resourceful husband. Thus, handsome men get a disproportionate number of opportunities for short-term partners and are therefore able to engage in the cad strategy.

Ugly men have no choice. Since women do not choose them as short-term mates, their only option for achieving marital success is to find one long-term mate and invest heavily in their children -- the dad strategy. Ugly men invest more in their exclusive relationships than handsome men do. Ugly men are more honest and more attentive to their partners than handsome men; McNulty’s study of newlyweds confirms this. Their data show that the more physically attractive the husbands are, the less supportive they are of their wives in their interactions. Empirical data demonstrate clearly that handsome men have more extra-marital affairs and are not as committed to their marriages, which many wives would undoubtedly consider undesirable.

Your Partner Is Not As Hot As You Think They Are

It is time to snap out of your state of blissful ignorance. A new study has proved that your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, or wife isn’t as hot as you think they are.

Researchers at the University of Groningen in the Netherlands brought in 70 couples. They took headshot photographs of both people in every couple.

They had everyone rate their boyfriend or girlfriend’s level of attractiveness, and their own level. Then, they had all of the other people go through the headshots and rate the attractiveness of the people in the pictures.

What did they find? Both men and women consistently rated their significant other’s hotness much higher than strangers did. Both men and women also rated themselves hotter than strangers did.

But the researchers say this is actually a GOOD THING.

Other studies have shown that people who are delusional about how hot their partner is generally feel happier, more loving, and more trusting in a relationship.

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LiveScience

Unattractiveness -- A Disability?

Proverbs 31

A professor of economics at the University of Texas has scrutinized the relationship between physical beauty and success. Daniel S. Hamermesh details the results of his study in a recently released book published by Princeton University Press.

In a column published in The New York Times, Hamermesh wrote that being blessed with pulchritude “helps you earn more money, find a higher earning spouse (and one who looks better, too!) and get better deals on mortgages.”

Those who are lacking beauty earn “10 to 15 percent less per year ... a lifetime difference, in a typical case, of about $230,000,” according to Hamermesh. Not only do these unfortunate souls suffer in compensation, Hamermesh says they are simply less successful in every area of life than those endowed with pulchritude.

Hamermesh believes the government should provide legal protection to those deficient in beauty “as we do with racial, ethnic and religious minorities, women and handicapped individuals.”

In Hamermesh’s book, “Beauty Pays,” the good professor documents that American culture discriminates against ugly (his word, not mine) people. Most in society, he says, prefer to interact with “attractive” people. “In our roles as workers, customers and potential lovers,” Hamermesh writes, “we are all responsible for these effects.”

The ugly, it seems, are doomed to less success than the beautiful. Thus Hamermesh makes the case that ugly people should be “protected generally in the United States by small extensions of the Americans With Disabilities Act.”

“Ugly people could be allowed to seek help from the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission.... We could even have affirmative-action programs for the ugly,” Hamermesh writes.

I have long been taught that beauty is in the eye of the beholder and quite subjective, but not so says Hamermesh. “For purposes of administering a law, we surely could agree on who is ugly, perhaps the worst-looking 1 or 2 percent of the population.”

I wish I were making all of this up, but I am not. Hamermesh’s conclusions and solutions are all too real. In his world, ugly is a disability.

American pop culture pays so much attention to so-called physical attractiveness that it often fails to recognize the essence of true beauty. Authentic beauty is much more than skin deep.

“Charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting,” wrote the author of Proverbs 31 in the Bible. “But a woman who fears the Lord will be praised.” The same holds true for men.

I am not sure how one goes about defining who is or is not ugly in Hamermesh’s world.

Will a government panel be established to decide if someone is ugly or can individuals declare themselves to be unsightly? If I am declared to be ugly and disagree with the decision, can I appeal the verdict? Can my employer?

What about those who do not fit into the category of beautiful or ugly? It stands to reason that, according to Hamermesh’s conclusions, average-looking people will be less successful than the most attractive people. Do the aesthetically average also warrant some government protection as well?

The truth is that we all have deficiencies to overcome. Some are aesthetic and some are less obvious. Government intervention on behalf of those who are “looks-challenged” is not the answer and neither is plastic surgery.

“Do you see a man skilled in his work? He will stand in the presence of kings. He will not stand in the presence of unknown men.” This bit of wisdom, found in Proverbs 22:29, indicates that a person who becomes particularly adept at something will not go unnoticed.

The key to overcoming any deficiency, aesthetic or otherwise, is to develop a skill, a service, a product. Deliver it in a highly professional and proficient manner and you will make a name for yourself.

If you do, you won’t have to worry about the government pulchritude panel coming to your rescue -- and you will always “look good” to others.

The Fellowship of the Normal

Luke 24:21

In their marketing strategies, popular clothes retailer Abercrombie & Fitch strategically excludes the “not-so-cool,” especially overweight kids.

According to a recent Business Insider interview with Robin Lewis, author of The New Rules of Retail, Abercrombie CEO Mike Jeffries “doesn’t want larger people shopping in his store, he wants thin and beautiful people.”

While the clothier does supply larger sized clothes for male “athletes,” plus-size ladies will find the store empty of any clothes to fit them. Excluding plus-sized women is part of a larger plan to market the company as the choice for those at the top of the social pyramid.

Jeffries himself told Salon magazine, in a 2006 story, that the young and attractive are their target audience, “We go after the attractive all-American kid with a great attitude and a lot of friends. A lot of people don’t belong [in our clothes], and they can’t belong. Are we exclusionary? Absolutely.”

Jeffries also told Salon they “hire good-looking people” for their stores: “Because good-looking people attract other good-looking people, and we want to market to cool, good-looking people. We don’t market to anyone other than that.”

Several years ago Focus on the Family received some complaints that their publications only featured exceptionally good-looking models in the stock photographs that accompanied their stories. Focus agreed that this was not in spirit with the Christian message and began strategically using photographs of so-called normal people of all shapes and sizes and colors.

Who is your church going after? If you have images of people on your church website, what does that communicate? Are the stock photographs of air-brushed, exceptionally good-looking people? Or are they a strategic variety of your own people of all shapes and sizes and colors and ages?

Jesus modeled a heart for all types of people, especially the broken and hurting. He told a story in which the manager told his servant to invite “the poor, the maimed, the blind, and the lame” (Luke 24:21). The Apostle Paul reminded the Corinthian church that not many of them were “wise ... powerful ... or of noble birth” (1 Corinthians 1:26). Instead God has chosen “the foolish ... the weak ... insignificant and despised” (1 Corinthians 1:27) -- basically, the opposite of Abercrombie & Fitch’s target audience.

Of course, as American culture continues its rapid march into deeper levels of degradation, we Christians are increasingly “uncool” in the public arena. No matter how “cool” our churches and pastors try to be, any of them that stand on the truth of God’s Word will be considered bigots and hate mongers. If any of the cool, good-looking people want to identify with Christ and us, it will likely be at the cost of handing back their “cool” card to the world. But as they do so, they will discover the true freedom that only Christ brings.

And as the world increasingly views us as “garbage, like the dirt everyone scrapes off their sandals,” (1 Corinthians 4:13), we, the church, will be forced to echo the famous words of Emma Lazarus, immortalized at the Statue of Liberty: “Give me your tired, your poor, your huddled masses yearning to breathe free.” This is the church of Jesus, a refuge for the “poor in spirit” (Matthew 5:3) and the “weary and burdened” (Matthew 11:28).

from Baptist Press · Brett Maragni via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database

Beauty In the Ancient Greek World

Would you be beautiful in the ancient world?

In ancient Greece the rules of beauty were all important. Things were good for men who were buff and glossy. And for women, fuller-figured redheads were in favour - but they had to contend with an ominous undercurrent.

A full-lipped, cheek-chiselled man in Ancient Greece knew two things - that his beauty was a blessing (a gift of the gods no less) and that his perfect exterior hid an inner perfection. For the Greeks a beautiful body was considered direct evidence of a beautiful mind. They even had a word for it - kaloskagathos - which meant being gorgeous to look at, and hence being a good person.

Not very politically correct, but the horrible truth is that pretty Greek boys would have swaggered around convinced they were triply blessed - beautiful, brainy and god-beloved. So what made them fit? For years, classical Greek sculpture was believed to be a perfectionist fantasy - an impossible ideal, but we now think a number of the exquisite statues from the 5th to the 3rd Centuries BC were in fact cast from life - a real person was covered with plaster, and the mould created was then used to make the sculpture.

Those with leisure time could spend up to eight hours a day in the gym. An average Athenian or Spartan citizen would have been seriously ripped. A rather different story though when it comes to the female of the species. Hesiod - an 8th/7th Century BC author whose works were as close as the Greeks got to a bible - described the first created woman simply as kalon kakon - “the beautiful-evil thing”. She was evil because she was beautiful, and beautiful because she was evil. Being a good-looking man was fundamentally good news. Being a handsome woman, by definition, spelt trouble.

Interestingly the femme-fatale-ness of one blonde-bombshell - Helen of Troy - was considered to stem not from the way she looked, but how she made men feel and what she made men do. When we first meet her in book three of Homer’s Iliad, the old men sing, their voices rising and falling, like cicadas: “Oh what beauty!” they say. “Terrible beauty - beauty like that of a goddess” - meaning the kind of presence that drives men to distraction.

The literary Helen drew men both to her bed and to their deaths. Her beauty was a weapon of mass destruction. In the Greek mind everything had an intrinsic meaning; nothing was pointless. Beauty had a purpose; it was an active, independent reality, not a nebulous quality that only came into being once it was discerned.

Beauty was a psycho-physical parcel that had as much to do with character and divine favour as chest size. The philosopher Socrates famously confounded all ideas of how a beautiful Greek should look, with his swaggering gait, swivelling eyes, bulbous nose, hairy back and pot belly. Passages in the Socratic dialogues are dedicated to a radical exploration of how this satyr-like shell might in fact contain a luminous character. But Socrates and his pupil Plato were fighting an uphill battle. The sheer number of mirrors found in Greek graves show that beauty really counted for something. Looks mattered.

________

Bettany Hughes is a classical historian, author of Helen of Troy: Goddess, Princess, Whore

Give Me the Hump and Let Her Be Beautiful

Moses Mendelssohn, the grandfather of the well-known German composer, was far from being handsome. Along with a rather short stature, he had a grotesque hunchback.

One day he visited a merchant in Hamburg who had a lovely daughter named Frumtje. Moses fell hopelessly in love with her. But Frumtje was repulsed by his misshapen appearance.

When it came time for him to leave, Moses gathered his courage and climbed the stairs to her room to take one last opportunity to speak with her. She was a vision of heavenly beauty, but caused him deep sadness by her refusal to look at him. After several attempts at conversation, Moses shyly asked, “Do you believe marriages are made in heaven?”

“Yes,” she answered, still looking at the floor. “And do you?”

“Yes, I do,” he replied. “You see, in heaven at the birth of each boy, the Lord announces which girl he will marry. When I was born, my future bride was pointed out to me. Then the Lord added, 'But your wife will be humpbacked.'

“Right then and there I called out, 'Oh Lord, a humpbacked woman would be a tragedy. Please, Lord, give me the hump and let her be beautiful.'“

Then Frumtje looked up into his eyes and was stirred by some deep memory. She reached out and gave Mendelssohn her hand and later became his devoted wife.

from Fredericksburg Bible Illustrator Supplements · Barry & Joyce Vissell via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database beauty

A Special Valentine's Love Story

Her family had come to America from Sweden. She had a typical Scandinavian look... Long blond hair; blue eyes; long slender legs; soft, blemish-free skin; high cheek bones.

She was gorgeous - she was beautiful. In fact, a professional international photographer in her hometown thought she was so pretty that he used a photograph of her to advertise his business.

But that was not her real beauty.

She was raised by some wonderful Christian parents and had become a Christian at an early age. Integrity, honesty and sweetness were just a few of her characteristics. In fact, at her engagement party, her sister, who knew her better than anyone, said that she had never heard her tell a lie. All of her friends said the same thing about her: She was the sweetest girl they knew. She would never speak a harsh word about anyone. Everyone loved to be around her.

A young man she met in her freshman year started dating her and fell in love with her - both her exterior photographic beauty and the wonderful godly character of her inward beauty. She fell in love with him and they spent every free moment they could with each other over the next four years. They were committed to each other and they believed in waiting long before the "True Love Waits" Campaign ever existed.

One week after they graduated from college, they were married. They loved each other's company. They would walk together, exercise together, go on bike rides together, chaperone youth trips together - go to movies, watch TV, eat pizza, travel - all the things any normal couple would love to do together. They were so much in love.

She taught school for a year and then became a bookkeeper for a surgical supply company. One day while she was working, for no apparent reason she lost her balance and fell on the floor. She was later able to get up and went to see a doctor that night. He set her up to see a Neurologist. The following day, it happened again. For no apparent reason, she lost her balance and fell. This time, though, she couldn't get up. She had lost all feeling in her legs. They wouldn't move.

Her husband had to come to the office and pick her up in his arms and carry her to the hospital. After six days in the hospital, the doctor gave this beautiful, active young lady the dreadful news. She had Multiple Sclerosis and she would continue to deteriorate.

This young couple, who had now been married only 18 months - who loved to go everywhere together and do everything together - would now face some new challenges. All their future plans would change, everyday life would change. They would change.

For the next 20 years, this young lady did deteriorate. She had to take steroids (not the kind athletes use, but anti-inflammatory steroids). Her bones became brittle, breaking easily. Her face became puffy and bloated and she could not even put on make-up. Her body was a mess. She went from a walker, to an electric scooter, to a wheelchair. She could no longer feed herself, write her name, or control her own bodily functions. She now had to have someone stay with her 24 hours a day.

If that couple had not had the kind of committed love that's based first on a personal relationship and a commitment to Jesus Christ and second, on a love that's based on a commitment to each other, the marriage never would have lasted. In fact, a large percentage of the marriages where a spouse has MS, the other spouse leaves them. The other spouse won't stay committed to the constant care and the continual physical, psychological and mental changes that continue to occur.

Please hear me carefully - those two people are not heroes. They are not super-saints or super-Christians. They will be the first to tell you that they are not super Christians. Those two people are normal, ordinary people, empowered by the Love of God and a love for each other, to do what the world considers beyond normal and extraordinary.

I know this for a fact - because that woman, that beautiful young lady who will never walk again, who can't even feed herself, is Lynda Langerfeld - my wife. She's not a hero. I'm not a hero. We're children of God, doing what the children of God are supposed to do. Doing what His children are called to do. Doing what God expects of every man and every woman who make a vow before God on their wedding day.

Often, Hollywood will portray a "hero" sacrificing his life for his "heroine" in a film. In the world's eyes, he's a hero. In God's eyes, he's an ordinary man making an extraordinary sacrifice that every Christian who's committed to his spouse ought to make. Sacrificial, Committed Love is the rule, not the exception. We're not super-saints, we're not heroes when we're being faithful and committed to our mates. We're doing what God has called every husband and wife to do since the beginning of time.

(c) 2002 by David Langerfeld

dlangerfeld@HarrisburgBaptist.org

David Langerfeld

Harrisburg Baptist Church

4675 Cliff Gookin Blvd

Tupelo, MS 38801

He Who Pardons Is Never Ugly

A mother once came to President Lincoln seeking the pardon of her son, under sentence of death. The result of her pleading was that Lincoln issued a pardon. After leaving him, as she passed through a corridor, she exclaimed to Thaddeus Stevens, who accompanied her, "I knew it was a lie!" Stevens asked: "What do you refer to?" She replied with vehemence, "Why, they told me he was an ugly-looking man, but he is the handsomest man I ever saw in my life."

from Fredericksburg Bible Illustrator Supplements · Historical Lights via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database beautylincoln

Lifestyle Evangelism

Luke 10:30

God's evangelistic strategy is beauty. He desires to build into us the beauty of own character, and then put us on display. Many training programs concentrate on the words, the tools (4 Spiritual Laws). Few teach us how to play the music: that beauty of character God wants to suffuse through our lives. Basically, evangelism is less something we do - a project - than something we are. Others need to see us as people of integrity. Tragically, most Christians have few non-believing friends. [above used 8/24/97]

Church Strategy for Evangelism:

1. What kind of people does the church want to deploy into the world?

2. What kind of church produces that kind of people? (Acts 2)

a. Emphasize instruction.

b. Fellowship.

c. Engage in worship.

d. Specialize in serving others.

e. Find opportunity to say the words (witness).

3. What kind of leadership makes this kind of church possible?

Hospitality

Greek means "a lover of strangers."

We need to make non-Christian friends.

Barriers are cultural, not theological. Few non-Christians have a theological axe to grind.

Four Responses to Culture:

1. Rejection. (separation)

2. Immersion. (liberal)

3. Split adaptation.

Go to church on Sunday, live like pagan (values) rest of week.

4. Critical participation.

Neighbors:

Neighbors are those nearby. We must go to be near them.

A realty firm divided its city into "farms" of 500 families each. Each realtor was responsible to make contact with each home in his farm once a month by phone, letter, or personal visit. It took at least six contacts for a homeowner to remember the realtor, but if the agent maintained that pattern for 18 months, he would receive 80% of the listings for that area. If a realtor can show interest from merely a financial motive, surely we, in the same way, can show interest in our neighbors out of eternal motives.

Christians should choose "five-family farms."

1. Visualize the Spirit hovering over your neighborhood.

2. Extend social relationships.

3. Build friendships.

4. Use common interests and hobbies.

5. Capitalize on special events and holidays.

After a neighbor has seen that we are people of integrity, they will ask us why we are Christians (1 Pet 3:15).

A Special Valentine's Love Story

Her family had come to America from Sweden. She had a typical Scandinavian look... Long blond hair; blue eyes; long slender legs; soft, blemish-free skin; high cheek bones.

She was gorgeous - she was beautiful. In fact, a professional international photographer in her hometown thought she was so pretty that he used a photograph of her to advertise his business.

But that was not her real beauty.

She was raised by some wonderful Christian parents and had become a Christian at an early age. Integrity, honesty and sweetness were just a few of her characteristics. In fact, at her engagement party, her sister, who knew her better than anyone, said that she had never heard her tell a lie. All of her friends said the same thing about her: She was the sweetest girl they knew. She would never speak a harsh word about anyone. Everyone loved to be around her.

A young man she met in her freshman year started dating her and fell in love with her - both her exterior photographic beauty and the wonderful godly character of her inward beauty. She fell in love with him and they spent every free moment they could with each other over the next four years. They were committed to each other and they believed in waiting long before the "True Love Waits" Campaign ever existed.

One week after they graduated from college, they were married. They loved each other's company. They would walk together, exercise together, go on bike rides together, chaperone youth trips together - go to movies, watch TV, eat pizza, travel - all the things any normal couple would love to do together. They were so much in love.

She taught school for a year and then became a bookkeeper for a surgical supply company. One day while she was working, for no apparent reason she lost her balance and fell on the floor. She was later able to get up and went to see a doctor that night. He set her up to see a Neurologist. The following day, it happened again. For no apparent reason, she lost her balance and fell. This time, though, she couldn't get up. She had lost all feeling in her legs. They wouldn't move.

Her husband had to come to the office and pick her up in his arms and carry her to the hospital. After six days in the hospital, the doctor gave this beautiful, active young lady the dreadful news. She had Multiple Sclerosis and she would continue to deteriorate.

This young couple, who had now been married only 18 months - who loved to go everywhere together and do everything together - would now face some new challenges. All their future plans would change, everyday life would change. They would change.

For the next 20 years, this young lady did deteriorate. She had to take steroids (not the kind athletes use, but anti-inflammatory steroids). Her bones became brittle, breaking easily. Her face became puffy and bloated and she could not even put on make-up. Her body was a mess. She went from a walker, to an electric scooter, to a wheelchair. She could no longer feed herself, write her name, or control her own bodily functions. She now had to have someone stay with her 24 hours a day.

If that couple had not had the kind of committed love that's based first on a personal relationship and a commitment to Jesus Christ and second, on a love that's based on a commitment to each other, the marriage never would have lasted. In fact, a large percentage of the marriages where a spouse has MS, the other spouse leaves them. The other spouse won't stay committed to the constant care and the continual physical, psychological and mental changes that continue to occur.

Please hear me carefully - those two people are not heroes. They are not super-saints or super-Christians. They will be the first to tell you that they are not super Christians. Those two people are normal, ordinary people, empowered by the Love of God and a love for each other, to do what the world considers beyond normal and extraordinary.

I know this for a fact - because that woman, that beautiful young lady who will never walk again, who can't even feed herself, is Lynda Langerfeld - my wife. She's not a hero. I'm not a hero. We're children of God, doing what the children of God are supposed to do. Doing what His children are called to do. Doing what God expects of every man and every woman who make a vow before God on their wedding day.

Often, Hollywood will portray a "hero" sacrificing his life for his "heroine" in a film. In the world's eyes, he's a hero. In God's eyes, he's an ordinary man making an extraordinary sacrifice that every Christian who's committed to his spouse ought to make. Sacrificial, Committed Love is the rule, not the exception. We're not super-saints, we're not heroes when we're being faithful and committed to our mates. We're doing what God has called every husband and wife to do since the beginning of time.

(c) 2002 by David Langerfeld

dlangerfeld@HarrisburgBaptist.org

David Langerfeld

Harrisburg Baptist Church

4675 Cliff Gookin Blvd

Tupelo, MS 38801

Give Me A Beautiful Heart

Proverbs 31:30

“Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised” (Proverbs 31:30, NIV). The same principle would also apply to men.

The late Cecil Osborne wrote, “A biographer of Clark Gable pointed out that the actor had had five wives in his lifetime, four of whom had had a total of sixteen husbands in their lifetimes. Gable had been divorced three times, a widower once, and a ‘lover too often either to calculate or evaluate.’”

“There have been countless women whose hearts beat faster and their fantasies run wilder at the sight of Clark Gable, the so-called great lover, on the silver screen.

“Unfortunately,” according to Osborne, “excessively handsome men and fabulously beautiful women do not, on the whole, have stable marriages.”

Good marriages are built on love, companionship, goodwill, commitment, maturity, compromise, faithfulness and integrity — not on exquisite physical prowess or beauty.

Sadly, in the Western World we put great emphasis on physical beauty and attractiveness — as well as on material possessions — and very little emphasis on the development of the inner person — the part of us that has to do with loving and wholesome relationships.

And while man looks on the outward appearance, God looks on the heart — and is a lot more interested in a beautiful heart than a beautiful body! This not an excuse not to take care of ourselves. Not at all. We need to take care of our physical health, but not be a slave to outward beauty.

Suggested prayer: “Dear God, please help me to keep my priorities in order and develop a beautiful heart — especially in your sight. Gratefully in Jesus’ name. Amen.”

from www.gospelcom.net - Campus Journal - © R. B. C. Ministries [?] · (unknown) via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database beautycelebritydivorce

Women, Marry Ugly!

A study, published in the Journal of Family Psychology, showed that couples in which the woman is physically more attractive than the man are happier than couples in which the man is physically more attractive than the woman. Why is this? Handsome men on average make bad husbands. Men can pursue one of two different strategies: Seek a long-term mate, stay with her, and invest in their joint offspring (the “dad” strategy); or seek a large number of short-term partners without investing in any of the resulting offspring (the “cad” strategy).

All men may want to pursue the cad strategy; however, their choice of the mating strategy is constrained by female choice. Men do not get to decide with whom to have sex; women do. And women disproportionately seek out handsome men so they will have good-looking children. Even women who are already married may seek short-term mating (i.e., affairs) with handsome men if they can successfully fool their husbands into investing in the resulting offspring. The women then get the best of both worlds: Their children carry the good looks of their handsome lover and receive the parental investment of their unknowingly cheated-on but resourceful husband. Thus, handsome men get a disproportionate number of opportunities for short-term partners and are therefore able to engage in the cad strategy.

Ugly men have no choice. Since women do not choose them as short-term mates, their only option for achieving marital success is to find one long-term mate and invest heavily in their children -- the dad strategy. Ugly men invest more in their exclusive relationships than handsome men do. Ugly men are more honest and more attentive to their partners than handsome men; McNulty’s study of newlyweds confirms this. Their data show that the more physically attractive the husbands are, the less supportive they are of their wives in their interactions. Empirical data demonstrate clearly that handsome men have more extra-marital affairs and are not as committed to their marriages, which many wives would undoubtedly consider undesirable.

The Day I Figured Out That No One Is Perfect

John 7:24

Once there was a girl in my class that I thought was beautiful and smart. I believed that she was perfect. When it came time for my birthday, I invited her to my party, and she came.

A few months later, it was her birthday. I got a special necklace for her. Thinking about how happy she would be to receive my gift made me so excited.

I asked her when her birthday party was going to be. She replied, "Why do you want to know? You're not invited. You're just a dork with glasses!"

I felt really bad when she said that. I just stood there looking at her. Everyone standing by her came to stand next to me. Then we all left.

That day, I figured out that even if someone looks perfect, there is a very good possibility that they aren't. When it comes to perfection, it's how someone treats you that is more important than how they look.

_________________

Ellie Logan, age 9, from Chicken Soup for the Kid's Soul Copyright 1998 by Jack Canfield, Mark Victor Hansen, Patty Hansen and Irene Dunlap.

Her Little Majesty: the Life of Queen Victoria

On female practices of "beautification" for Queen Victoria's coronation in the spring of 1839:

"Young women, eager to draw all eyes to themselves and frustrated with the unfashionable ruddiness of their cheeks, visited physicians who fastened leeches behind their ears to drink their blood and make them pale."

from New York: Simon & Schuster · Carolly Erickson via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database pridebeauty

A Special Valentine's Love Story

Her family had come to America from Sweden. She had a typical Scandinavian look... Long blond hair; blue eyes; long slender legs; soft, blemish-free skin; high cheek bones.

She was gorgeous - she was beautiful. In fact, a professional international photographer in her hometown thought she was so pretty that he used a photograph of her to advertise his business.

But that was not her real beauty.

She was raised by some wonderful Christian parents and had become a Christian at an early age. Integrity, honesty and sweetness were just a few of her characteristics. In fact, at her engagement party, her sister, who knew her better than anyone, said that she had never heard her tell a lie. All of her friends said the same thing about her: She was the sweetest girl they knew. She would never speak a harsh word about anyone. Everyone loved to be around her.

A young man she met in her freshman year started dating her and fell in love with her - both her exterior photographic beauty and the wonderful godly character of her inward beauty. She fell in love with him and they spent every free moment they could with each other over the next four years. They were committed to each other and they believed in waiting long before the "True Love Waits" Campaign ever existed.

One week after they graduated from college, they were married. They loved each other's company. They would walk together, exercise together, go on bike rides together, chaperone youth trips together - go to movies, watch TV, eat pizza, travel - all the things any normal couple would love to do together. They were so much in love.

She taught school for a year and then became a bookkeeper for a surgical supply company. One day while she was working, for no apparent reason she lost her balance and fell on the floor. She was later able to get up and went to see a doctor that night. He set her up to see a Neurologist. The following day, it happened again. For no apparent reason, she lost her balance and fell. This time, though, she couldn't get up. She had lost all feeling in her legs. They wouldn't move.

Her husband had to come to the office and pick her up in his arms and carry her to the hospital. After six days in the hospital, the doctor gave this beautiful, active young lady the dreadful news. She had Multiple Sclerosis and she would continue to deteriorate.

This young couple, who had now been married only 18 months - who loved to go everywhere together and do everything together - would now face some new challenges. All their future plans would change, everyday life would change. They would change.

For the next 20 years, this young lady did deteriorate. She had to take steroids (not the kind athletes use, but anti-inflammatory steroids). Her bones became brittle, breaking easily. Her face became puffy and bloated and she could not even put on make-up. Her body was a mess. She went from a walker, to an electric scooter, to a wheelchair. She could no longer feed herself, write her name, or control her own bodily functions. She now had to have someone stay with her 24 hours a day.

If that couple had not had the kind of committed love that's based first on a personal relationship and a commitment to Jesus Christ and second, on a love that's based on a commitment to each other, the marriage never would have lasted. In fact, a large percentage of the marriages where a spouse has MS, the other spouse leaves them. The other spouse won't stay committed to the constant care and the continual physical, psychological and mental changes that continue to occur.

Please hear me carefully - those two people are not heroes. They are not super-saints or super-Christians. They will be the first to tell you that they are not super Christians. Those two people are normal, ordinary people, empowered by the Love of God and a love for each other, to do what the world considers beyond normal and extraordinary.

I know this for a fact - because that woman, that beautiful young lady who will never walk again, who can't even feed herself, is Lynda Langerfeld - my wife. She's not a hero. I'm not a hero. We're children of God, doing what the children of God are supposed to do. Doing what His children are called to do. Doing what God expects of every man and every woman who make a vow before God on their wedding day.

Often, Hollywood will portray a "hero" sacrificing his life for his "heroine" in a film. In the world's eyes, he's a hero. In God's eyes, he's an ordinary man making an extraordinary sacrifice that every Christian who's committed to his spouse ought to make. Sacrificial, Committed Love is the rule, not the exception. We're not super-saints, we're not heroes when we're being faithful and committed to our mates. We're doing what God has called every husband and wife to do since the beginning of time.

(c) 2002 by David Langerfeld

dlangerfeld@HarrisburgBaptist.org

David Langerfeld

Harrisburg Baptist Church

4675 Cliff Gookin Blvd

Tupelo, MS 38801

Do You Die Here?

Job 38:7

Whether all of the angels have yet had the privilege of visiting this world, and looking about over its rivers and seas, its mountains and valleys, and its great variety of beauties, and understanding its revolution among other worlds, or not, I do not know.

I know when this world was dedicated, many of them attended and sung together at the dedicatory service. These saw it launched, and shouted with great joy. But there may be millions of them who have never had time to see this planet yet.

Many years ago I heard the fiction of an angel visiting this world, and looking at its beauties, and wondering at what he saw, and becoming greatly delighted with the scenery about him. The flowing rivers and restless seas, the high mountains towering up toward heaven in their grandeur, the deep, wide spread valleys and their great productions, the trees and flowers all seemed so beautiful and wonderful that he was almost inclined to make his home here, until he was passing a graveyard. Seeing so many monuments and little mounds, he inquired what it meant. He was told:

“There is where we bury our friends when they die.”

He started with the greatest astonishment, exclaiming:

“Die, die! Do you die here?”

“Yes we all have to die in this world.”

“Then I do not wish to stay here. If all have to die let me go to that world where they do not die.”

What a discount to every blessing in this world that we must so soon die and leave it all. What an argument for seeking a country where there is no death. Let us lay up our treasure there.

from Fredericksburg Bible Illustrator Supplements · A. B. Earle, From: “Incidents Used … In His Meetings,” Published In 1888 via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database beautyworldliness

You're Just Having A Bad Day

I drove my son who is twelve years old, to a friend's house to do a home work project. The boys' mother came out as we drove up to ask if my son wanted to stay for dinner also. When she went back in the house I commented on how pretty she was. My son said "mom, you're pretty too, you're just having a bad day!"

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