Menu

134 Sermon Illustrations on Discouragement

134 illustrations Page 2 of 3

Discouragement in Christian preaching often addresses the struggles believers face when hope and faith wane amid trials. Illustrations use images of spiritual drought, emotional emptiness, and weariness, emphasizing perseverance and reliance on Scripture to overcome unbelief and despair (Galatians 6:9, Isaiah 40:31). It highlights the need for renewed strength and trust in God's sustaining power.

You're Not Home Yet

An old missionary couple [Henry C. Morrison, according to another version] had been working in Africa for years and were returning to New York to retire. They had no pension; their health was broken; they were defeated, discouraged, and afraid. They discovered they were booked on the same ship as President Teddy Roosevelt, who was returning from one of his big-game hunting expeditions.

No one paid any attention to them. They watched the fanfare that accompanied the President's entourage, with passengers trying to catch a glimpse of the great man.

As the ship moved across the ocean, the old missionary said to his wife, "Something is wrong. Why should we have given our lives in faithful service for God in Africa all these many years and have no one care a thing about us? Here this man comes back from a hunting trip and everybody makes much over him, but nobody gives two hoots about us."

"Dear, you shouldn't feel that way," his wife said.

"I can't help it; it doesn't seem right."

When the ship docked in New York, a band was waiting to greet the President. The mayor and other dignitaries were there. The papers were full of the President's arrival, but no one noticed this missionary couple. They slipped off the ship and found a cheap flat on the East Side, hoping the next day to see what they could do to make a living in the city.

That night the man's spirit broke. He said to his wife, "I can't take this; God is not treating us fairly."

His wife replied, "Why don't you go in the bedroom and tell that to the Lord?"

A short time later he came out from the bedroom, but now his face was completely different. His wife asked, "Dear, what happened?"

"The Lord settled it with me," he said. "I told him how bitter I was that the President should receive this tremendous homecoming, when no one met us as we returned home. And when I finished, it seemed as though the Lord put his hand on my shoulder and simply said, 'But you're not home yet!'"

Yes, there are rewards for faithfulness, but not necessarily down here.

He Can't Swim, Can He?

Ezra 4:4

There were two farmers. One was a pessimist, the other was an optimist.

The optimist would say, “Wonderful sunshine.” The pessimist would respond, “Yeah, I’m afraid it’s going to scorch the crops.” The optimist would say, “Fine rain.” The pessimist would respond, “Yeah, I’m afraid we are going to have a flood.”

One day the optimist said to the pessimist, “Have you seen my new bird dog? He’s the finest money can buy.” The pessimist said, “You mean that mutt I saw penned up behind your house? He don’t look like much to me.” The optimist said, “How about going hunting with me tomorrow?” The pessimist agreed.

They went. They shot some ducks. The ducks landed on the pond. The optimist ordered his dog to get the ducks. The dog obediently responded. Instead of swimming in the water after the ducks, the dog walked on top of the water, retrieved the ducks, and walked back on top of the water.

The optimist turned to the pessimist and said, “Now, what do you think of that?” Whereupon the pessimist replied, “Hmmm, he can’t swim, can he?”

________

From John Haggai, “How to Win Over Worry.”

from Communication: Key To Your Marriage · Norman Wright via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database attitudediscouragementworry

Caught In A Downward Spiral

Job 4:5

Assaulted by the enemy’s accusations, it’s all too easy to slide from discouragement into despair, but there is One who can break the deadly grip of disillusionment.

The Struggles of Adoniram Judson

Mark 8:36

Pioneer missionaries like Adoniram Judson faced great struggles:

In the early 1800's the Church was not very concerned about missions. Christians even thought it was sinful to want to evangelize foreign lands. It took a young man to turn things around in the United States, Adoniram Judson. Adoniram's father was a strict Congregational pastor and he wanted his son to follow in his steps.

Instead, Adoniram went to school and lost the faith. He told his father the Bible was a bunch of fairy tales and religion was a racket. In his heart, though, he was in great turmoil and finally he achieved peace by accepting Christ as his Savior. What is more, he was determined to share it with those who had never heard the gospel.

Adoniram Judson raised money and sailed for India with his wife Nancy, but the British merchants kicked them out. They knew the gospel would get the natives thinking about freedom and justice, and they didn't want any of that. So in 1813 the Judsons arrived in Burma. Judson began the voyage as a Congregationalist but arrived as a Baptist because of an intense Bible study. When they got off the boat in Burma, they built a church and preached the gospel.

Nothing happened. Adoniram translated the Bible into Burmese. Still no one was saved. It took 5 years before he baptized a single convert. After a lifetime of preaching and translating the Bible, 2 years on death row in a Burmese prison, the death of seven of his children and two of his three wives, Judson had only a few dozen converts from the Burmese.

What Surprised Jesus

Mark 9:24

I once read through all the miracle stories of the Gospels and found they reveal remarkably different degrees of faith. A few people demonstrated bold, unshakable faith, such as a centurion who told Jesus he need not bother with a visit - just a word would heal his servant long-distance. "I tell you the truth, I have not found anyone in Israel with such great faith," Jesus remarked, astonished.

Another time, a foreign woman pursued Jesus as he was seeking peace and quiet. At first Jesus answered her not a word. Then he replied sharply, telling her he was sent to the lost sheep of Israel, not to "dogs." But nothing could deter this Canaanite woman, and her perseverance won Jesus over. "Woman, you have great faith!" he said.

Jesus seemed impressed that, as foreigners, these were the least likely people to demonstrate great faith. Why should a centurion and a Canaanite put their trust in a Messiah his own countrymen had trouble accepting? These stories threaten me, because seldom do I have such outstanding faith. Unlike the Canaanite woman, I am easily discouraged by the silence of God. I identify more readily with the wavering man who declared to Jesus, "I believe, Lord. Help my unbelief!"

To my surprise, I found the people who knew Jesus best faltered in their faith. Jesus could do few miracles in his hometown because of his neighbors' lack of faith. John the Baptist, who had heard a decisive voice from heaven at Jesus' baptism, later questioned him. And several times Jesus remarked with astonishment on the 12 disciples' faithlessness. Jesus' three most intimate disciples saw a dramatic miracle shortly before his death. On the Mount of Transfiguration, Jesus' face shone like the sun, and his clothes became dazzling white. The dazed disciples found themselves in the presence of two long-dead giants of history, Moses and Elijah.

Yet what impact did such a stupendous event have? Shortly, the eyewitnesses of the Transfiguration joined the rest of the Twelve in abandoning - denying, in Peter's case - Jesus in his hour of deepest need.

We easily forget that Judas had for three years watched Jesus work great miracles and listened to his teaching; even so, he betrayed Jesus. Another disciple, "doubting Thomas," gained the reputation as a skeptic, but in truth, all the disciples showed a lack of faith. None of them believed the wild reports the women brought back from the empty tomb. Even after Jesus appeared to them in person, says Matthew, "some doubted." A curious law of reversal seems to be at work in the Gospels: Faith appears where least expected and falters where it should be thriving.

I remember my first visit to Old Faithful in Yellowstone National Park. Rings of Japanese and German tourists surrounded the geyser, their video cameras trained like weapons on the famous hole in the ground. A large, digital clock stood beside the spot, predicting 24 minutes until the next eruption.

My wife and I passed the countdown in the dining room of Old Faithful Inn overlooking the geyser. When the digital clock reached one minute, we, along with every other diner, left our seats and rushed to the windows to see the big, wet event. I noticed that immediately, as if on signal, a crew of busboys and waiters descended on the tables to refill water glasses and clear away dirty dishes. When the geyser went off, we tourists oohed and aahed and clicked our cameras; a few spontaneously applauded. But, glancing back over my shoulder, I saw that not a single waiter or busboy - not even those who had finished their chores - looked out the huge windows. Old Faithful, grown entirely too familiar, had lost its power to impress them.

A little later, our church back in Chicago faced something of a crisis. The pastor had left, attendance was flagging, a community outreach program now seem threatened. The leadership suggested an all-night vigil of prayer. Several people raised questions. Was it safe, given our inner-city neighborhood? Should we hire guards or escorts for the parking lot? What if no one showed up? At length we discussed the logistics and the "practicality" of such an event. Nevertheless, the night of prayer was scheduled.

To my surprise, the poorest members of the congregation, a group of senior citizens from a housing project, were the ones who responded most enthusiastically to the prayer vigil. I could not help wondering how many of their prayers had gone unanswered over the years - they lived in the projects, after all, amid crime, poverty, and suffering - yet they showed a childlike trust in the power of prayer. "How long do you want to stay - an hour or two?" we asked. "Oh, we'll stay all night," they replied.

One black woman in her nineties, who walks with a cane and can barely see, explained to a staff member why she wanted to spend the night sitting on the hard pews of a church in an unsafe neighborhood. "You see, they's lots of things we can't do in this church. We ain't so educated, and we ain't got as much energy as some of you younger folks. But we can pray. We got time, and we got faith. Some of us don't sleep much anyway. We can pray all night if needs be."

And so they did. Meanwhile, a bunch of yuppies in a downtown church learned anew a lesson of faith from the Gospels: Faith appears where least expected and falters where it should be thriving.

________

Copyright (c) 1994 Christianity Today, Inc./CHRISTIANITY TODAY Magazine

from Online Christianity Today (America Online) · Philip Yancey via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database discouragementdoubt

When Hopes and Dreams Have Died

Job 4:5

We live in a world that can cause great despair. When General Douglas MacArthur was recalled from Korea, he was afforded an opportunity to address the United States Congress. As he spoke, he said, “I am closing my 52 years of military service. When I joined the army, even before the turn of the century, it was the fulfillment of all my boyish hopes and dreams. The world has turned over many times since I took the oath on the plain at West Point, and the hopes and dreams have long since vanished.”

What a sad day that must have been, the day his hopes and dreams died. How very similar for the disciples as they hid in a room in Jerusalem behind locked doors. They had believed Jesus and left their jobs and their families to follow the Christ. But the dreams were dead, and the one they had believed in and loved was buried in a tomb. Hope seemed nonexistent on that lost weekend. Then God did something totally awesome, and hope was reborn. On that resurrection morning, hope broke through stone walls. The door to the tomb was open, and the Savior was alive. Who would have ever dreamed that this kind of hope was possible?

from 50 Day Spiritual Adventure, Chapel Of The Air; Sermon: The God Of Great Surprises · Dr. Bill Ankerberg, Homewood Church; Homewood, Illinois via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database easterdiscouragement

I Expect God Will

Robert Morrison (1782-1834), "Failed" first Protestant missionary to China.

As he sailed into the port of Canton in 1807, 25-year-old Robert Morrison was filled with a driving passion to see the Chinese people come to know Christ. By the time he died in China 27 years later, however, he had baptized only ten Chinese. But if Morrison died discouraged, his pioneering work, which included a six-volume Chinese dictionary and a translation of the Bible, opened the door for other missionaries and thus for the millions of conversions he had only dreamed of.

Morrison was raised in a stern Scotch-Presbyterian home where reading missionary stories in a church magazine whetted his interest in foreign missions. His mother, however, made him promise not to go abroad while she was alive. Only after his mother died, during Morrison's early twenties, did he take up ministerial training in London. After two years of study, he was accepted into the London Missionary Society. While waiting to find a male colleague to go with him to China, he studied language for one year with a Chinese scholar living in England. When no partner was forthcoming, Morrison left for China alone. He was forced to go via the United States, since the East India Company, which owned most of the English ships going to China, refused him passage.

Morrison's lifelong relationship with the East India Company was one of mutual need and mutual distrust. The company guarded its commercial interests in China by strictly refusing to let Westerners such as Morrison evangelize. They feared missionaries would offend their Chinese trade partners. But after Morrison's arrival in China, company officials learned of his language skills and hired him as a translator. They gave Morrison a salary but also attempted to restrict his missions activities. In 1815, for example, the company threatened to deport him when it learned that Morrison had completed, in secret, a translation of the New Testament.

In 1809 Morrison married Mary Morton. After six years and two children, a seriously ill Mary returned to England with their children. It was six years before they returned to Canton to see their father and husband. When Mary died, Morrison sent the children back to England, and three years later traveled there himself for his first and only furlough. When he returned to Canton, he brought with him the children and a new wife, Elizabeth, with whom he had four more children and a happy marriage.

In 1834, two months after pioneer missionary William Carey's death in India, Morrison died. When as a young man Morrison had first sailed to China, he was asked, "Do you really expect to make an impression on the idolatry of the great Chinese empire?" In reply, Morrison spoke more prophetically than he knew: "No, sir, but I expect God will."

==========================

Version in sermon 4/23/06:

Robert Morrison was born in 1782 to a stern Presbyterian family. As a young man he read missionary stories in a church magazine and it whetted his interest in foreign missions. But his mother was appalled and said it would be over her dead body. A few years later she died, and in his early twenties Morrison began his training to be a missionary.

Morrison was accepted into the London Missionary Society. While he waited to find a male colleague to go with him to China, he studied the Chinese language for one year. When no partner was forthcoming, Morrison left for China alone. He was forced to go through the United States, since the East India Company wouldn't let him take a British ship to China.

The East India Company didn't like missionaries because they thought Christians would upset the Chinese. Nothing would be allowed to get in the way of profits. But they found that Morrison was so good with the language they hired him as a translator. Even so, they forbid him to do Christian work. For example, in 1815 the company threatened to fire him when it learned that he had secretly translated the New Testament.

Robert Morrison worked in China for 27 years. His first wife died. He sent his children to England and saw them once after that. By the time he died, he had baptized 10 Chinese. Only 10.

That's not a lot of fruit. To be honest, many would see him as a total failure. But if Morrison died discouraged, his work of translating the Bible and making dictionaries laid a foundation for others. Christians in China now number in the tens of millions.

When as a young man Morrison had first sailed to China, he was asked, “Do you really expect to make an impression on the idolatry of the great Chinese empire?” In reply, Morrison spoke more prophetically than he knew: “No, sir, but I expect God will.”

#4010

*

God Is Committed To Our Ultimate Healing

Job 30:20

Steve Hayner was a Christian leader who had been the president of InterVarsity Christian Fellowship, and also president of Columbia Theological Seminary. A few years ago he was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. He endured extensive chemotherapy but tests showed his disease was still growing.

Hayner wrote a blog post for the many people who were praying for his healing. He commented one day:

“Many are praying for one of God’s ‘big’ miracles. We are as well. But it is not how God answers prayer that determines our response to God. God is committed to my ultimate healing. But being cured of my cancer may or may not be a part of that healing work....”

One woman told Hayner that it was disturbing to her to see so many thousands of prayers being given on his behalf and yet there was no evidence of physical healing. It made her question if God really heals, and if the amount of prayer has any special impact. To her, the unanswered prayer was a closed door from God. To Hayner, it was an open door to something far greater. [He went to the Lord on January 31, 2015]

________

Adapted from “Columbia president affirms faith despite spreading cancer,” by Leslie Scanlon, The Presbyterian Outlook, July 29, 2014; .

More from this article:

Hayner spoke directly to the many people who have prayed for him and his family – some, knowing how aggressive the cancer was, praying specifically for a miracle of healing.

“There is a much bigger story of which this is only a tiny part,” he wrote. “And it is God’s story of love, hope, forgiveness, reconciliation, and joy. We went into this journey choosing to trust God and to offer our fears to God. We’ve been so grateful for the freedom from fear and the abundance of peace that we have experienced. There are, of course, times of discouragement, grief, pain, and wonder. After all, there are a lot of unknowns ahead of us.

“Many are praying for one of God’s ‘big’ miracles. We are as well. But it is not how God answers prayer that determines our response to God. God is committed to my ultimate healing. But being cured of my cancer may or may not be a part of that healing work.”

Before he got the results of the medical tests, Hayner wrote this about prayer:

“Of course, what we would love to see is significant healing. So many people are praying and hoping/expecting that God is going to intervene in a really spectacular way. With God, nothing is impossible, and I would certainly welcome a miraculous intervention.

“One person told me how disturbing it is to her to watch so many thousands of prayers on my behalf and yet (so far) to see a minimal of physical evidence of healing. Does God really heal? Are the ‘prayers of the righteous’ effective? Does God listen to the desires of our hearts? Does the amount of prayer have any special impact?

“Honestly, while I understand the importance and logic of questions like this–and many others–most of these questions are not ones that are important to me.

“I truly don’t know what God has planned. None of us really know what the physical symptoms of my cancer will be over time. I could receive ‘healing’ through whatever means, or I could continue to deteriorate.

“But life is about a lot more than physical health. It is measured by a lot more than medical tests and vital signs. More important than the more particular aspects of God’s work with us (in the physical, social, psychological, spiritual, mental realms of life) is God’s overall presence with us, nourishing, equipping, transforming, empowering, and sustaining us for whatever might be God’s call to my life today. TODAY, my call might be to learn something new about rest. TODAY, my call might be to encourage another person in some very tangible way. TODAY, my call might be to learn something new about patience, endurance, and the identification with those who suffer. TODAY, my call might be to mull through a new insight about God’s truth or character.

“The prayers and support of people along the way are also about God’s call to each of them (and me!) TODAY. As people pray, we are all changed, and we are all called to focus in a new way. We are all changed as individuals and as a community.

“Yes, I’m really eager to know what is happening in my body to this cancer. I’m hopeful that the report about my tumor will be a ‘good’ one and that it might portend a more physically healthy future. But whatever we find out over the next days, I am more eager that it would help me to be more attentive, more grateful, more loving, more joyful and more gracious.

“I saw a bumper sticker yesterday that I loved: ‘More wagging; less barking!’ At that moment I was grumbling inside because it was so hard just to complete my short walk in the neighborhood. But almost immediately my perspective changed. Grumbling was changing nothing, but a fresh infusion of joy could color the world.”

In his most recent post, Hayner wrote that he was beginning a new chemotherapy regimen on July 30, with the hope that it would slow the spread of the cancer without too many side effects or robbing him of energy. “We’ll see,” he wrote adding that he and Sharol are focusing on projects including the remodeling of the house they own in Decatur (the Hayners currently live in the Columbia seminary president’s house), which “will be a great place for Sharol to live in the years ahead.”

He also wrote that he’s not taking on projects that some others may be expecting of him – including writing a book, which several people have suggested to him (“and they have a lot of opinions on what they would like me to write about”). Hayner said the idea of writing does not bring him joy – he wants to focus on other tasks instead, such as the remodeling; seeing friends and colleagues from the Columbia community; and “giving away my library in creative and productive ways.”

He remains committed to “a number of deep human and global concerns for which I want to do my part in helping with the healing. As I have indicated before, there is a kind of daily ‘calling’ to which I want to be attentive. Some days this will include more active options, while other days I will likely only have energy for quieter possibilities.”

He closed by quoting the poet e. e. cummings: “I thank you God for most this amazing day...”

*

[Original illustration at this number was a duplicate of HolwickID #2078]

from Sermon: When a Door Doesn't Open, by Rev. Ken Larsen (Kerux Sermon #65765) · Rev. Ken Larsen via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database discouragement

Toxic Discouragement

Biblical antidotes to Life's Toxins: Discouragement.

Seven causes of toxic discouragement:

1. Criticism. Neh 4:1-5

2. The half-way syndrome. 4:6

3. Opposition. 4:7-9

4. Loss of strength. 4:10

5. Loss of vision. 4:10

6. Loss of confidence. 4:11

7. Negative thinking. 4:12

Five antidotes to defeat discouragement.

1. He united the people around the same vision. 4:13

2. He directed their attention from their problems to the Lord. 4:14

3. He encouraged them to keep their balance. 4:15-18

4. He gave them a plan for their defense. 4:19-20

5. He involved them in serving others. 4:21-23

You've Probably Never Said It, But Chances Are You've Felt It!

Job 4:5

Bishop Robert Goodrich tells a story of a woman who lived during the Great Depression. It was a horrible time. 27% were unemployed, and there was little welfare. This woman had reached the end of her physical and emotional rope. Her husband's salary was very small and never enough, and he was often sick.

The bank foreclosed on their mortgage, and was preparing to take their home. They had a huge bill at the grocery store and their five children were hungry, and needed clothing. She took in other people's washing and ironing to earn more, but they just seemed to be sinking deeper and deeper in debt. All seemed lost and she couldn't see any hope for the future.

One morning after the four older children headed off for school, she took her youngest daughter into the bedroom. The woman then plugged the windows with paper and rags, turned on the gas heater but didn't light it, and the two of them lay down on the bed. The little girl said, "Mom, why are we laying down? We only got up a little while ago." "Never mind," the mother answered, "We'll take a little nap."

Then she closed her eyes and waited for death to come. She could hear the hiss of gas coming from the heater. As she listened in the almost complete silence, she realized that she heard something else. It was music, coming from the kitchen. She had forgotten to turn off the radio in the kitchen. And as she listened, she heard someone on the radio singing an old hymn.

Oh, what peace we often forfeit;

oh, what needless pain we bear;

All because we do not carry

everything to God in prayer."

And in the depth of her mind and heart she suddenly knew she'd made a terrible mistake. She had tried to fight all her battles alone. She had forgotten to use the resources of her faith. She struggled to her feet, turned off the gas, opened the windows and doors, and began the process of changing her life.

It was not easy, of course, but she discovered that the strength of her faith was equal to anything and everything she was tempted to worry about. She put all her children through school, and years later, looking back, was able to write:

"The blackest moments we live through can only last a little time,

and then comes the future."

________

http://umcgoodshepherd.org/sermon8.htm

*

Is Your Hut Burning?

Luke 18:27

The only survivor of a shipwreck was washed up on a small, uninhabited island. He prayed feverishly for God to rescue him and every day he scanned the horizon for help but none seemed forthcoming. Exhausted, he eventually managed to build a little hut out of driftwood to protect him from the elements and to store his few possessions.

But then one day, after scavenging for food, he arrived home to find his little hut in flames, the smoke rolling up to the sky. The worst had happened; everything was lost. He was stunned with grief and anger. "God, how could you do this to me!" he cried.

Early the next day, however, he was awakened by the sound of a ship that was approaching the island. It had come to rescue him. "How did you know I was here?" asked the weary man of his rescuers. "We saw your smoke signal," they replied.

It is easy to get discouraged when things are going bad. But we shouldn't lose heart, because God is at work in our lives, even in the midst of pain and suffering. Remember, next time your little hut is burning to the ground, it just may be a smoke signal that summons grace of God. For all the negative things we have to say to ourselves, God has a positive answer for it:

You say: "It's impossible"

God says: All things are possible (Luke 18:27)

You say: "I'm too tired"

God says: I will give you rest (Matthew 11:28-30)

You say: "Nobody really loves me"

God says: I love you (John 3:16 & John 13:34)

You say: "I can't go on"

God says: My grace is sufficient (II Corinthians 12:9 & Psalm 91:15)

You say: "I can't figure things out"

God says: I will direct your steps (Proverbs 3:5-6)

You say: "I can't do it"

God says: You can do all things (Philippians 4:13)

You say: "I'm not able"

God says: I am able (II Corinthians 9:8)

You say: "It's not worth it"

God says: It will be worth it (Roman 8:28)

You say: "I can't forgive myself"

God says: I FORGIVE YOU (I John 1:9 & Romans 8:1)

You say: "I can't manage"

God says: I will supply all your needs (Philippians 4:19)

You say: "I'm afraid"

God says: I have not given you a spirit of fear (II Timothy 1:7)

You say: "I'm always worried and frustrated"

God says: Cast all your cares on ME (I Peter 5:7)

You say: "I don't have enough faith"

God says: I've given everyone a measure of faith (Romans 12:3)

You say: "I'm not smart enough"

God says: I give you wisdom (I Corinthians 1:30)

You say: "I feel all alone"

God says: I will never leave you or forsake you (Hebrews 13:5)

*

Clear Principles For Ministry Found In Paul's Teachings

2 Corinthians 4:1

The ministry is not a picnic or carnival and is a task that requires determination, conviction and a reliance on God, said Alistair Begg, pastor of Parkside Church in Cleveland, Ohio. "This is no place for the fainthearted. This is no place for those who are on a fool's errand. This is not Bible camp. This will take everything in you."

Begg said the apostle Paul would have been greatly alarmed if he had been asked to speak at many modern-day conferences on ministry. "I wonder what he would have thought about spending a great deal of time on the nature of blended worship."

Likewise, Paul would have been dismayed to hear such addresses as "the pastor and his computer," "the pastor as a change agent" and "seven skills for highly effective pastoring," Begg surmised.

"You can just imagine him laying the phone down on his desk and saying, 'My, my. I don't know what I'm going to do with these people.'" Instead, Begg said Paul gave several principles for ministry in 2 Corinthians 4:1-6 that Christians should heed.

The first of Paul's principles was for ministers not to lose heart.

"This is for Paul a real temptation, and it is for Paul an understandable tendency," Begg said. "One of the things that you will face regularly is the temptation to lose heart."

Unfounded accusations and unrealistic expectations follow ministers constantly, Begg told students. And trying to break through the apathy of church members, especially when "their yawns are like crocodiles swallowing sheep whole," is frustrating.

"You can't overcome that by any sense of personal charisma or competence," Begg said. "The almost debilitating sense of indifference falls on you like a wet blanket."

Another principle Paul gave was to avoid deception. "An easy-going, theologically vague, harmlessly accommodating theology is the product of the deceived and the deceiving," Begg said. "A failure to declare the gospel of God in all of its full-orbed authority and certainty is in itself a form of deception."

Paul also warned against distorting the word of God in an attempt to make the message more palatable.

"We face a church that has lost its nerve," Begg lamented. "Instead of conveying God's truth and the power of the Holy Spirit, and challenging the cultural darkness, all too often what is heard in our apparent gospel presentations is a reflection of the darkness, so that we preach to people about wholeness rather than holiness. We describe sin in terms of dysfunction. Salvation is presented as a form of recovery. Therapeutic language replaces the moral and the theological."

The fourth principle Begg cited was for ministers to resist the temptation to preach themselves, rather than Christ.

"You and I cannot make much of ourselves and much of the Lord Jesus simultaneously when we preach or when we live," he said. "Resist the personality cult. Get a good wife. She'll tell you the truth."

Finally, Begg encouraged students to set forth the truth plainly and preach Jesus Christ as Lord.

"Undefined Christianity is popular. It is vaporized," Begg said. "Defined Christianity is unpopular."

And although the ministry is often difficult and fraught with peril, Begg added, God will bless those who are faithful to him.

"God, who can speak out of Balaam's donkey, who can raise up children for Abraham out of stones, has somehow in the mystery of his providence, on account of his mercy, entrusted us with this ministry," he said.

*

Not up to bat yet!

As I was driving home from work one day, I stopped to watch a local Little League baseball game that was being played in a park near my home. As I sat down behind the bench on the first-baseline, I asked one of the boys what the score was. "We're behind 14 to nothing," he answered with a smile. "Really," I said. "I have to say you don't look very discouraged." "Discouraged?" the boy asked with a puzzled look on his face. "Why should we be discouraged? We haven't been up to bat yet."

Woody Allen quote

Movie producer Woody Allen once gave the Yale University commencement address and said the following: "Our civilization stands at the crossroads. Down one road is despondency and despair. Down the other road is total annihilation. I hope we'll take the right road." Woody Allen was obviously trying to be funny, but his statement reflects the despair and pessimism of our times.

===============

Another version:

"More than any other time in history, mankind faces a crossroads. One path leads to despair and utter hopelessness; the other to total extinction. Let us pray we have the wisdom to choose correctly." (Woody Allen)

from Source not recorded via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database discouragement

Praise God Amid the Afflictions of Life

Job 2:11

Perhaps the greatest secret of the saints of old was their ability to praise God amid the afflictions of life.

Saint Francis de Sales (1567 - 1622) once wrote to a friend who was undergoing stresses at home, saying, “The many troubles in your household will tend to your edification, if you strive to bear them all in gentleness, patience, and kindness. Keep this ever before you, and remember constantly that God’s loving eyes are upon you amid all these little worries and vexations, watching whether you take them as He would desire. Offer up all such occasions to Him; and if sometimes you are put out and give way to impatience, do not be discouraged, but make haste to regain your lost composure.”

Do you have an area of frustration, fear, fretting, pain, or stress? Don’t be ashamed about it, but glorify God in the midst of it and let Him use it for the edification of your soul.

Special Quote: You had better make up your mind to accept what you cannot alter. You can live a beautiful life in the midst of your present circumstances. - J. R. Miller

________

David Jeremiah; source: Turning Point Daily Devotional

*

[Original illustration at this number was a duplicate of HolwickID #1933]

People Will Never Change

According to the Denver Post, actor Richard Burton (1925-1984) wrote this in his diary in 1969:

"The more I read about man and his maniacal ruthlessness and his murderous envious scatological soul, the more I realize that he will never change. Our stupidity is immortal, nothing will change it. The same mistakes, the same prejudices, the same injustice, the same lusts wheel endlessly around the parade ground of the centuries. Immutable and ineluctable. I wish I could believe in a god of some kind but I simply cannot."

*

Look Into the Face of Jesus

Steve Brown related the story of a British soldier in the First World War who lost heart for the battle and deserted. Trying to reach the coast for a boat to England that night, he ended up wandering in the pitch black night, hopelessly lost. In the darkness he came across what he thought was a signpost. It was so dark that he began to climb the post so that he could read it. As he reached the top of the pole, he struck a match to see and found himself looking squarely into the face of Jesus Christ. He realized that, rather than running into a signpost, he had climbed a roadside crucifix. Brown explained, "Then he remembered the One who had died for him -- who had endured -- who had never turned back. The next morning the soldier was back in the trenches."

As a runner, when you are tired, afraid and discouraged, the best way I know to get your second wind is to strike a match in the darkness and to look on the face of Jesus Christ.

from Fredericksburg Bible Illustrator Supplements · To Illustrate, Leadership Magazine, Jan- Feb 1989 via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database

Discouragers Not Tolerated

In the American War of Independence a critical battle took place near Saratoga, New York. Just before the battle took place one of the American soldiers, frightened by the sight of the British redcoats, tried to talk his comrades into surrendering or escaping with him. Luckily an officer happened to come by and hear him. The man was arrested, immediately courtmartialed, and executed on the spot because he spoke disheartening words to the soldiers in the critical hour. He easily could have lost the entire war for the Americans.

from Fredericksburg Bible Illustrator Supplements via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database

A Cliff-hanger Election: What Really Matters

[A commentary following the photo-finish 2000 American election.]

As I record this broadcast, it's nearly midnight on Tuesday [Nov. 7, 2000]. I feel a little bit like the people at The Chicago Tribune in 1948, who sent the paper to print with the now infamous headline "Dewey Wins."

You may remember that President Truman held that headline high for one of the most famous photos of the twentieth century. You see, at this very moment, it is unclear who will be the next president. And it could stay unclear for days, since absentee ballots have yet to be counted in many states.

It's an amazing cliff-hanger election. And most of us are going to wake up tomorrow morning very tired from having sat in front of the television late into the night. So I'll make no predictions. But I do have some things that I would like to communicate to the BreakPoint audience.

Whichever way things turn out, some people will be joyous, and some people will be dismayed. But one thing is absolutely clear. It should not alter in the slightest the course that we, as Christians, follow in our society.

One of my friends wrote me recently after a particularly discouraging situation and said, "Chuck, just remember. We have enlisted for the duration in service to the truth." I love that! As a matter of fact, I'm having that plaque made up and put in my office in Washington, alongside the one from Mother Teresa that says, "Faithfulness, not Success."

What we need to remember is, if you're disappointed in the election results when they're finally clear, that's understandable. All of us have our partisan choices. Maybe you'll be jubilant over them. If so, you're going to think, "Well, the culture war's been won." And if you're discouraged over the results, you'll think, "The culture war's been lost."

Nonsense!

Cultures are changed from the bottom up. Fads start from the top down. Movements start from the bottom up. Remember when de Tocqueville came to this country -- the French statesman who wrote so brilliantly about American life and talked about our churches being on fire and about the peculiar characteristics of American life -- he said that Americans really had a sense of civic duty and civic responsibility. Tocqueville said that what moves America are the "habits of the heart."

He was absolutely right! This is the genius of America. We are moved by the tastes and dispositions of the people. We're moved by the way we live with our neighbors around us. People need to see something better, something that they can long for in our lives. That isn't affected by elections. They're not going to look to Washington for that, they're going to look to us.

So we keep living in biblical faithfulness. And remember, too, that God appoints the leaders. And that whatever happens in the election that's now being tallied, we have to accept God's sovereign judgment.

We have to pray for those in authority. We have to respect those whom God has put in power over us, and live peaceably in the midst of whatever government we have. The first century church had to do that; the twenty-first century church ought to be doing exactly the same thing.

Don't be overly jubilant, but don't despair. Take a cool-headed perspective and keep your Christian faith and your Christian witness strong. God bless you.

___________________

Copyright (c) 2000 Prison Fellowship Ministries. Reprinted with permission. "BreakPoint with Chuck Colson" is a radio ministry of Prison Fellowship Ministries.

*

When You Are Really Down

Psalms 42:1

Series on Psalms Psalm 42:1-11

WHEN YOU ARE REALLY DOWN

========================

I. What is the tendency of your personality?

A. Some are innately positive people. (point out a few)

B. Others, like myself, have a tendency to feel down.

II. Meaning of Psalm 42.

A. I originally thought it was about seeking God.

B. But psalm is deeper. The silence of God.

C. Brief outline of psalm.

III. Letting go of feelings.

A. The writer has deep yearnings.

B. Real believers can feel "down" like this.

IV. Use mind as well as feelings.

A. He remembers worshipping God in the Temple. 42:4

B. He remembers personal experiences of God's grace. 42:6

C. It is important to remember God's workings in your life.

V. Pull yourself together in faith.

A. After thinking it through, do something.

B. He is discouraged, but doesn't give up.

VI. Jesus and Psalm 42.

A. He hungered after God.

B. He knew spiritual depression, separation from God.

C. He kept the faith to the end and did not give up hope.

from Condensed sermon outline (handout) by Rev. David Holwick · Rev. David Holwick, Serm00zm.pco via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database discouragement

Being A Discourager

During the Boer War (1899-1902), a man was convicted of a very unusual crime. He was found guilty of being a "discourager." The South African town of Ladysmith was under attack, and this traitor would move up and down the lines of soldiers who were defending the city and do everything he could to discourage them. He would point out the enemy's strength, the difficulty of defending against them, and the inevitable capture of the city. He didn't use a gun in his attack. It wasn't necessary. His weapon was the power of discouragement.

Encouragement, on the other hand, can be a powerful friend. It strengthens the weak, imparts courage to the fainthearted, and gives hope to the faltering. One of the greatest ministries we can have is to lift the spirits of fellow believers.

--Encyclopedia of 7700 Illustrations

from Fredericksburg Bible Illustrator Supplements via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database

Christ Sees What We Can Be, By His Grace

Margaret Slattery tells of a community in which a stranger came to settle and to engage in the practice of law. He immersed himself in his legal work; and, when he was sometimes seen walking at the eventide, he walked alone with his head down and with the look of mental distress upon his face. One day he confessed to an artist, who had a studio in the town, that he had made one sad and terrible mistake in his life. The artist said nothing, but parted from him and went into his studio.

Weeks afterward, he invited this melancholy and dejected lawyer to come in and view a portrait which he had finished, telling him that it was his masterpiece. The man was surprised and pleased that his judgment should have been sought by the artist, but when he went into the studio to view the portrait he was surprised to see that it was a portrait of himself, only now he stood erect with his shoulders thrown back and his head up, ambition, desire, and hope written on his face. Regarding it in silence for a few moments, the man said to himself, “If he sees that in me, then I can see it. If he thinks I can be that, then I can be that man; and, what is more, I will be.”

from Fredericksburg Bible Illustrator Supplements via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database

Devil's Best Tool

It was once announced that the devil was going out of business and would offer all tools for sale to whoever would pay his price. On the night of the sale, they were all attractively displayed and a bad looking lot they were: Malice, Hatred, Envy, Jealousy, Sensuality, and Deceit, and all the other implements of evil, were spread out each marked with its price.

Apart from the rest lay a harmless looking, wedge shaped tool, much worn and priced higher than any of them. Someone asked the devil what it was. “That's discouragement,” was the reply.

“Why do you have it priced so high?”

“Because,” replied the devil, “it is more useful to me than any of the others. I can pry open and get inside a man's consciousness with that when I could not get near him with any of the others, and when once inside I can use him in whatever way suits me best. It is so much worn because I use it with nearly everybody, for very few people yet know it belongs to me.”

-- Rev. E. E. Hendricks

from Fredericksburg Bible Illustrator Supplements via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database

Expecting More of the Same

A rather sickly lady had recently been deserted by her husband. He left her with five pre-school children, a mangy dog, a broken-down second floor flat, and many bills. One morning when she awoke, she discovered that the prize hound had chosen her only good pair of shoes as a chew stick and left a rather large greeting in return. The youngest baby had cried excessively through the night with the colic. As she was trying to prepare the breakfast in the morning, the power went off because the bill had not been paid. Then the dog decided it was time to play tug of war with the tablecloth, pulling all of the dishes and food off on the floor.

At that time she also heard a commotion out in the street. She ran to the kitchen to open the window and a man below yelled out, “Garbage man.” Her only reply was, “Okay, send it up.”

from Fredericksburg Bible Illustrator Supplements via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database

He Didn't Resign

In “Remember All the Way,” William C. Townsend related the story of an evangelist who was facing discouragement and criticism. One day he said to a colleague, “'Don Guillermo, I'm going to quit.’ Guillermo replied, 'Why do you give your resignation to me? When you began your service, you said the Lord Jesus Christ was calling you to tell others about Him. I think you'd better present your resignation to the One who called you. Let's get down on our knees here, and you tell Him that you are going to quit. Let Him hear what you've just told me -- that it's too hard, that too many people criticize you. Tell the Lord -- He's the One who sent you.’ 'Well, I hesitate to do that,' he replied. 'I'm afraid He'll tell me to stay with the job.’ 'If that's what He wants, don't you think you'd better stay?’ 'Yes, I think I should!'" Taking new courage and refusing to look back, the evangelist went on to 'plow a straight furrow for God.’

from Fredericksburg Bible Illustrator Supplements via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database

The Most Miserable Man Living

Perhaps you have been there. Maybe you have lived for a while behind closed doors. Many good people have. I was reading recently about a young lawyer who descended into the valley of despond. Things were going so poorly for him that his friends thought it best to keep all knives and razors away from him for fear of a suicide attempt. In fact, during this time he wrote in his memoirs, “I am now the most miserable man living. Whether I shall ever be better, I cannot tell. I fear I shall not.” The young lawyer who unleashed these desperate feelings of utter hopelessness? His name was Abraham Lincoln.

from Fredericksburg Bible Illustrator Supplements via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database depressionhopelessness

Keep It Up! Keep It Up!

I read of a minister who felt so depressed and defeated that he was ready to give in to discouragement. One morning as he sat dejectedly by the window, he looked outside and noticed a starling perched on the sill. The bird seemed to look steadily at him and chirp what sounded like "Give it up! Give it up!" in starling language.

The pastor thought about his seeming failure in the work God had given him. Was the starling sending him a message? As the pastor contemplated this question, his wife entered the room. When he told her what had happened, she went to the window to listen. The starling again chirped the phrase that sounded like "Give it up! Give it up!"

The pastor's wife laughed, then turned to her husband and said with a smile, "Why, that starling is saying, 'Keep it up! Keep it up!', not give it up."

from Fredericksburg Bible Illustrator Supplements via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database

Spurgeon's Depression Before Achievement

Spurgeon was called to a church at age 23 and was addressing crowds of 5,000 at 30. He wrote this:

"Before any great achievement in my life, some measure of depression is very usual. Such was my experience when I first became a pastor in London; my success appalled me and the thought of that career which seemed to be opening up, so far from elating me, cast me into the lowest depths out of which I uttered my misery. I found no room for a Gloria in Excelsis. Who was I that I should continue to lead so great a multitude? I would slip away to my village obscurity or prefer to emigrate to American and find a solitary nest in the backwoods. It was just then that the curtain was rising on my greatest life's work and I dreaded what it might reveal to me. I hope I was not faithless! But I was timorous and filled with a sense of my own unfitness. This depression sweeps over me whenever the Lord is preparing a larger blessing for my life and ministry. Some of you are right at the door."

from Fredericksburg Bible Illustrator Supplements via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database depressionsuccess

Edison's Light

On October 18, 1879, a young inventor by the name of Thomas A. Edison sat in his laboratory. He was weary from 13 months of repeated failure in his search for a filament that would stand the stress of electric current. To add to his problems, the men who had backed him financially were now refusing to put up any additional funds. Having tried every known metal in his experiment, Edison was admittedly baffled. Casually picking up a bit of lampblack, he mixed it with tar and rolled it into a thin thread. Suddenly the thought struck him, why not try a carbonized cotton fiber? For five hours he worked on the first filament, but it broke before he could remove the mold.

Two entire spools of thread were used in similar fruitless efforts. At last a perfect strand emerged, only to be ruined when he tried to place it inside a glass tube. Still Edison refused to admit defeat. He continued to work without sleep for two more days and nights. Eventually he managed to insert one of the crude carbonized threads into a vacuum-sealed bulb. "When we turned on the current," he said, "the sight we had so long desired to see finally met our eyes!" His persistence in the face of the most discouraging odds gave the world one of its greatest inventions -- the electric light!

He Took His Place

A man gave out tracts for years on a certain corner. Because there were no results he gave it up. Five months later he saw a man giving out tracts on the same corner. Striking up a conversation he learned that the man had been led to Christ through a tract given out there six months before.

"Many a time I've come back to thank the man, but I never could find him. I concluded he must have died and gone to his reward, so I decided to take his place on the corner."

from Fredericksburg Bible Illustrator Supplements via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database

Please Don't Faint!

Luke 1:8

Yesterday I passed out. I don't like to use the word "faint" to describe what happened, it sounds unmasculine, like something girls do. Passed out has a more manly ring to it - but whatever you choose to call it - it happened to me.

I used to consider myself pretty strong when it came to hospital stuff, but yesterday was not a good day for me. Yesterday, my son, Michael, had to have yet another test - a spinal tap. Now I have no problem with more tests, but there is something about the word "spinal" and "tap" in the same sentence that does not sound good.

The four of us were in the little room: Michael, the nurse, the anesthesiologist and me. I was doing good: comforting Mike, joking with the doctor ... But the sight of the long silver tube being inserted into my son's spine and the cry of my son in pain as the tube struck a nerve, put me a bit on edge. When I say the clear spinal fluid dripping from the tube sticking out of his spine I knew I was a goner. Since I have fainted one other time, I knew what was happening. To prevent myself from going down face first (like Benny a few weeks ago in the Sunday morning service) I went down on one knee. Trying to look nonchalant and not wanting to distract the attention from the procedure I scooted back against the wall and sat down until the room stopped spinning; I stopped sweating and my pride stopped hurting. Fainting is not a fun thing; it is not a manly thing, it is not a controllable thing, but it is a natural thing.

Maybe you have never fainted physically, but chances are you have fainted spiritually. The Bible uses the word "faint" to describe what happens when we become weary, lose heart or give up. God knows that we are susceptible to spiritually fainting when the sights and sounds of life seem to be more than we think we can bear. As Christians we faint spiritually when our troubles are great and our strength is small. Proverbs 24:10 says, "If thou faint in the day of adversity, thy strength is small." In the Bible God gives us five charges to keep us going when we feel like fainting.

1. PURSUE HIM EVEN WHEN YOU FEEL DESERTED. There are times for all of us when God "seems" distant from what we are going through - where we feel deserted in a time of crisis. We must never allow how we feel to keep us from pursuing God. He is not only "good, (and) a strong hold in the day of trouble" but he "knoweth them that trust in Him" (Nahum 1:7). Luke 1:8 says, "And Jesus spake a parable unto them to this end, that men ought always to pray, and not to faint." The parable Jesus gave was of the widow who wearied the unjust judge into action by continually coming to him until he responded. Jesus' point was that if the unjust judge responded to the continual pursuit of the woman, how much more our Just God will respond to the cries of his children. Remember that God does hear even if you feel He doesn't. Always pray - pursuing God keeps you going.

2. WAIT ON HIM EVEN WHEN YOU FEEL DEPLETED. Waiting on God is essential for the strength needed for life's demands. In Isaiah 40 we are promised tremendous grace when we wait on God. "He giveth power to the faint; and to them that have no might he increaseth strength. Even the youths shall faint and be weary, and the young men shall utterly fall, But they that wait upon the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint" (Isaiah 40:29-31). Waiting on God is work, but waiting on God keeps you going.

3. REMEMBER HIM EVEN WHEN YOU ARE DISCIPLINED. Hebrews 12:5 says, "And ye have forgotten the exhortation which speaketh unto you as unto children, My son, despise not thou the chastening of the Lord, nor faint when thou are rebuked of him." When God showers us with the attention of discipline it is a reminder that we are intimately loved by Him. God does what He does for your good and Him glory. Remembering God keeps you going.

4. FOCUS ON HIM EVEN WHEN YOU FEEL DISTRACTED. It is so easy to get sidetracked in the race of life. Hebrews 12:1-3 reminds us to "lay aside every weight, and the sin which doth so easily beset us, and let us run with patience the race that is set before us, Looking unto Jesus the author and finisher of our faith ... lest ye be wearied and faint in your minds." It is often the distractions that cause us to faint in life. Focussing on God keeps us going.

5. SERVE HIM EVEN WHEN YOU ARE DISCOURAGED. It is easy to throw in the towel when we don't see results. Have you ever wondered what noise came from the piano the first time that Beethoven sat down to play? Paul reminds us, "And let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not" (Galatians 6:9). The encouragement is clear: We will reap! Maybe this is your season. "Therefore seeing we have this ministry, as we have received mercy, we faint not" (2 Corinthians 4:1).

Fainting yesterday was a good reminder to me from the Lord that no matter how I feel I need to keep going spiritually. That is true for all of us - we all need to pursue God, wait on Him, remember Him, focus on Him and serve Him. As we do these things, He will keep us going.

*

from Internet · Pastor Michael Summers, Countryside Baptist Church; Olathe, Kansas via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database depression

Spiritual Distress In Recovery

Job 6:14

Recovery is a spiritual journey. Unfortunately, we are often poorly prepared for the twists and turns this spiritual journey will take. We are rarely prepared for the possibility that we will experience spiritual distress as part of the recovery process.

The struggle to face past pain or to address issues of addiction and codependency leads to an honest examination of all of life. We ask difficult and searching questions about God and about our faith. The spiritual distress that comes from this struggle can be confusing and frightening.

For many of us, our first reaction to times of spiritual distress is to assume that we are spiritual failures. Our faith is defective, we think. Good Christians aren't supposed to get angry at God. We have many ways of shaming ourselves for our spiritual distress.

But spiritual distress is not an indication of spiritual failure. Spiritual distress is more likely to be a sign that God is growing in us a new capacity for relationship with him. Times of distress are often the first steps toward spiritual healing and growth. They are often times when we realize acutely our desire to know and be known by God. When we protest God's absence, we are expressing our deep longing for closeness with God. When God seems silent, we learn again how much we need to hear his voice. When God seems distant, we realize afresh our strong desire to experience his presence. As a result of spiritual distress, our hearts may become better prepared to hear and receive from God. It is often in the furnace of spiritual distress that purity of heart is formed.

Times of spiritual distress are often an indication that healing is taking place deep within us. It should not surprise us that during recovery we uncover some major struggles in our relationship with God. We may be angry with God. We may doubt God. We may question God. We may long for God. All of this is emotionally painful, but it is the real stuff of real relationships. If we hide ourselves from these thoughts and feelings when they surface, we may be running away from some of the most important healing that we can experience - the healing of our relationship with God.

May God grant you courage in times of spiritual distress. May your spirit flourish as you heal in your relationship with God.

LEAVING GOD

A despairing man should have the devotion of his friends, even though he forsakes the fear of the Almighty. Job 6:14

At some point during the recovery process we re-examine our most fundamental beliefs. A long process of sorting, examining and questioning takes place. And, in that process, our relationship with God is challenged. It is possible that our relationship with God will deepen and strengthen in the process. But it is also possible that we will find ourselves pulling away from God. We may find ourselves angry with God, or afraid of God, or unable to believe in God at all. This can be a frightening experience. It can feel like the very foundations of life are being shaken.

In times like this, we need many things. But at the top of the list is our need for friends who will accept us even if we turn away from God. We need friends who will not minimize our struggle or discount our feelings. We need people who will not be shocked when we are full of rage at God. We need friends who are able to hear the deep pain behind our words and who know that this, too, is part of our healing. We need people who can see beyond the immediate pain to the healing that can come.

Even when we forsake the fear of God, we need friends who understand, who are committed to us for the long haul, and who plead with God on our behalf.

Sometimes I feel agnostic, Lord,

I just don't know anymore.

Sometimes I want nothing to do with you.

Where were you when I needed you the most?

Sometimes I despair, Lord.

Sometimes I can't seem to hope.

I need friends who will not abandon me, Lord.

I need friends who will be patient and grace-full with

my anger and fear.

I need friends who will stay with me as we wait for you to

show yourself once again.

I need friends, Lord, who will give me courage to hope

again in you.

Send help, Lord.

Amen.

QUESTIONING OURSELVES

How long must I wrestle with my thoughts and every day have sorrow in my heart? Psalm 13:1-2

Sometimes our spiritual distress is centered on questions about God. Where is God? Why doesn't God help? At other times our spiritual distress is centered on questions about ourselves. What is wrong with me? How come I'm still struggling this much?

Doubts about ourselves can be profoundly troubling. We wonder if our faith will survive the struggle. We wonder if our faith is strong enough. Often we feel like spiritual failures. The kind of spirituality we have been taught does not envision 'good' Christians as people who wrestle with their thoughts and are sad everyday. We think of 'good' Christians as people who trust God and manage to smile in the midst of any circumstances. When we can't manage to do this, we question and criticize ourselves.

But wrestling with our thoughts and experiencing sorrow day after day is often a part of the recovery process. It is not a sign of failure to engage in this hard work. It is a sign of courage. And it is a sign that our faith is alive and struggling. People of real faith struggle in life. People of real faith are people who wrestle with thoughts and who feel sorrow in their heart.

Lord, I get so tired of thought-wrestling.

And I am so weary of heart-sorrow.

How long, Lord?

How long does this wrestling and sorrow go on?

Help me, Lord, not to experience this struggle as spiritual failure.

Help me to see this hard work as drawing me closer to you.

Remind me today that you are with me in all of this.

Remind me today that you understand.

Amen.

QUESTIONING GOD

How long, O Lord, must I call for help but you do not listen? Or cry out to you, "Violence!" but you do not save? Why do you make me look at injustice? Why do you tolerate wrong? Destruction and violence are before me; there is strife, and conflict abounds. Habakkuk 1:2-3,13

Where were you God? Where were you when I needed you? Didn't you see the violence? The abuse? The injustice? Didn't you care? There are times in recovery when we are full of questions about God. The pain of past trauma can be intensified when we begin to struggle with these hard questions about God.

It is important to acknowledge that these questions about God are not academic questions. No theoretical explanation of the problem of pain will soothe our raging, confused hearts. These are urgent, personal questions about God and about his involvement in our lives. We want to know that he sees and cares and intervenes in our lives. We need him. We need his love. We need his help.

It is an important source of encouragement to know that we are not the first to ask these hard questions. There is clear biblical precedent for asking difficult questions about God. People of faith have always struggled with questions like these. We can take comfort and courage from knowing that the psalmist asked urgent questions similar to our own.

God, I am afraid.

I don't understand.

Violence and abuse happen and you do not stop it.

You seem absent.

You seem uncaring.

I need to know that you see and care.

I am calling to you for help, God.

Please hear me.

Please respond.

Amen.

LONGING FOR GOD

O God, you are my God, earnestly I seek you; my soul thirsts for you, my body longs for you, in a dry and weary land where there is no water. Psalm 63:1

When a young child is separated from her parents, she will protest their absence. She will experience sadness, anxiety, anger and a longing for her parents to return. These intense emotions are not a sign of her failure as a child. Her protest is a clear sign of how important her parents are to her, of how much she misses them, of how much she loves them. At certain developmental stages, it is a sign of emotional health for a child to protest separation. At certain ages a healthy child will protest, will be angry, will be afraid, and will long for the parents return.

If one or both of our parents was in some way absent from our lives during our formative years, it will be easy for us to imagine that God will leave us as well. We may experience silence and distance. And we may find ourselves longing for him.

Just as it is good for a child to protest the absence of a parent, it is good for us to protest when we subjectively experience God's absence. It is good to give voice to our longing for God. It is good to write or pray or talk about our deep need for God's presence and love. We can call out to him. We can protest his absence.

O God, do not be silent.

Do not be distant.

I miss you when you seem so far away.

I long for you to be close.

I long to know that you care about me.

I long for you, God.

Nothing can replace you.

No one can be God but you.

Do not be silent.

Do not be distant.

Come. Speak.

I need you. Amen.

NEEDING REASSURANCE FROM GOD

Can a mother forget the baby at her breast and have no compassion on the child she has born? Though she may forget, I will not forget you! See, I have engraved you on the palms of my hands. Isaiah 40:15-16

We may experience abandonment from a spouse who turns away form us to their addiction of choice. We may experience feeling like we have been rejected by friends. We may struggle with memories of parents who were not compassionate with us. Or memories of parents who 'forgot' us in one way or another.

And so we say to God: "you will abandoned and reject and forget me like all the others!"

Sometimes these experiences are so familiar that we expect them from anyone we want to be close to, including God. It is a terrible fear to live with. It creates deep distress.

God responds to our distress with words of reassurance. We are not always able to take in reassurance that is offered to us. But there are times when it can feel like a drink of cool water to our parched throats.

God says "I am not like all the rest. I will not forget you. Even if your parents forgot you, or your spouse turns away, or your friends leave, I will not forget you. I have tattooed you on the palms of my hand".

I will not forget you.

It may not be easy for us to comprehend, but it is very clear. God says; "I will not forget you."

I need reassurance, Lord.

I want to believe

that you will remember.

But I have been forgotten before.

I know you are not like that.

I know it in my head.

But my heart forgets so easily.

Reassure me, today, Lord

of your unfailing love.

ACKNOWLEDGING GOD

Let us acknowledge the Lord; let us press on to acknowledge him. As surely as the sun rises, he will appear; he will come to us like the winter rains, like the spring rains that water the earth. Hosea 6:3

There are days when we feel God's presence. We sense his love. We see his power. But we do not always feel or sense or see. There are times of silence, distance and uncertainty. There are the difficult times of waiting for God to appear. In times like this we may find ourselves both longing for God and fearing that he will come.

The longing comes because in our heart of hearts we know that there is no recovery without his gracious presence. If God does not appear, we are stuck, bound, hopelessly entangled in dysfunction. If God does appear, it will be like the sun rising - we will be able to see the way. It will be like gentle rains which nurture us so that we can grow and thrive.

The fear comes because often we do not see God as one who comes as 'sun' and 'rain' to give life. We are afraid that when God does appear, it will be to punish us, to demand restitution from us, to shame us. Because we have served vengeful and vindictive gods, we fear that it will be the god-of-impossible-expectations who will finally appear.

We do well to follow the urging of this text to 'acknowledge God'. We need daily to examine whom we serve. When we acknowledge the god-of -impossible-expectations, then we will surely fear his appearing. But if we acknowledge the God of the Bible whose coming is to nurture and give life, then we will await his coming like the dawn of a new day.

I acknowledge you, Lord.

You are not the god of impossible-expectations.

You are not the god-who-is-eager-to-punish.

I know what it is like when these other gods come, Lord.

They bring shame, blame and fear.

I do not acknowledge them, Lord.

I acknowledge you.

Come as the dawn of a new day, Lord.

Bring light into my dark days.

Come as gentle rain, Lord,

Cleanse, renew and nurture.

Come, Lord, as the dawn.

Come as the rains.

Water the parched earth of my soul.

Amen.

Copyright 1991 Dale and Juanita Ryan

Seeing God In the Dark

1 Samuel 30:1

How do you find strength in God when your world is in ruins?

The scene is familiar: You see it with heartbreaking regularity on TV. A strong, rugged man stands beside a pile of burnt-out rubble that was once his home. He is in tears. He does not know where his family is or even if they are still alive. He has nowhere to turn for food or help. We find him pitiful and pathetic, but we are glad we are not in his shoes.

Where is this scene? Beirut? Baghdad? Dubrovnik? No, we are in Ziklag, a little Philistine town some forty miles southwest of Jerusalem. It is just over three thousand years ago, about 1015 B.C. The man is David, who later will be Israel’s king. But at this point he is in his late twenties - a refugee, an outlaw, and a failed leader who seems doomed.

What has happened? The story is this. (See 1 Samuel 30:1-6) David, fleeing for his life from King Saul, had offered his services and those of his six hundred men to King Achish, a local Philistine potentate, as a kind of Foreign Legion. Achish had given them Ziklag for their home, and they had all brought their families and settled there. They had marched with the rest of Achish’s troops to a pan-Philistine muster against Israel. But Achish’s colleagues had refused to trust David and his men in a battle against their own people and had sent them packing.

Already depressed (for no army can be told it is not trusted without damage to its morale), they had trekked back to Ziklag and found it a smoking ruin. Desert raiders, Amalekites, had sacked it, burned it, and taken captive as slaves everyone they had found there. Six hundred homes and families were simply gone; hence, the tears of fury and pain. "David and his men wept aloud until they had no strength left to weep" (1 Samuel 30:4).

When people are smarting under an unexpected hurt, they want to relieve their feelings by finding a scapegoat, someone to blame. It was so here. David’s men got ugly and turned on their leader. They blamed him, one supposes, for being so preoccupied with pleasing Achish that he had marched every single able-bodied man to the muster, thus failing both them and their families by not leaving a guard to fend off raiders. Think of living in the old Wild West where Indians and bandits roamed; men went armed; and women and children never traveled save in the company of someone with a gun. It was that sort of world, and David’s error of judgment had been real. So we move to the point where "David was greatly distressed because the men were talking of stoning him; each one was bitter in spirit because of his sons and daughters" (1 Samuel 30:6).

DESPAIR AMONG THE RUINS

We can see what was going through David’s mind as he stood, alone and tearful, by the ruins of his house. His great distress was compounded by several things.

There was personal loss: His own home and his own two wives were gone. But that was only the start of it.

There was, for sure, the recognition that through lack of forethought he had failed his men and their dependents. Nothing is more distressing to a good man or a real leader (David was both) than knowing you have let down those who trusted you.

There was his total isolation. Now not only Saul and the Philistines but his own men, too, had turned against him. Universal hostility, leaving you with no one to whom you can even talk on equal terms, is hard to bear.

There was the apparent hopelessness of the situation. The Amalekites had come on camels, and David and his men were on foot. They were already exhausted from their three-day, forty-mile march. What hope was there of catching the raiders, even if David could be sure where they had gone?

Also, there was, quite certainly, a crushing sense of God’s judgment. For David had played a double game with Achish. To curry favor with his Philistine patron, he had plundered villages, massacred their inhabitants, given Achish the booty, and told him the raids had been made in Israelite territory. In fact, the raids had been against people who had nothing to do with Israel, including - yes! - Amalekites (1 Samuel 27:8). While the deception prospered, David had doubtless assured himself that he was being super-smart and that killing Amalekites was the Lord’s business anyway (see Deut. 26:17-19). But deep down, he knew that this callous, Machiavellian banditry-for banditry is what it was-merited God’s vengeance. And when he saw what the Amalekites had done to Ziklag, his conscience told him that this poetic justice was in fact the vengeance he had provoked.

David, then, was in a state of distress of a kind that might well have destroyed him. The shock of disaster, grief at one’s loss, collapse of one’s life-strategy, and a sense of undergoing just retribution can each of them have paralyzing effects, and here they were all together. "Heartache crushes the spirit" (Proverbs 15:13); "a crushed spirit who can bear?" (Proverbs 18:14).

Misery is the natural consequence of calamity, and apathy is the natural child of misery. David’s surrender to grief was an entirely natural reaction to what had happened. In his shoes, we would have done the same, and many can testify that in similar circumstances they did exactly that.

Had David stopped there, however, it would have been the end of his career as a leader and probably of his life. But he did not stop there. Challenging and finally overcoming the paralysis that grief was generating, we now see in David the spiritual reaction of faith. "But" - it is one of the great Bible "buts" - "David found strength (RSV, "strengthened himself") in the LORD his God" (1 Samuel 30:6).

How did he do it?

THE SECRET OF STRENGTH

"He prayed," suggests someone. Yes, in due course, he did. But that, I am sure, was not what came first. When feelings of despair overwhelm you, rational prayer is beyond you. You are like a person being swept downstream towards the falls; you must recover your footing on the stream bed or you are lost. The secret of recovering your footing spiritually at such a time lies in the little word think, and that was undoubtedly where David began. He thought. He did not wait to feel better, but argued with the emotions that were telling him all was lost. He made himself recall what he knew of God and thought out how it all applied to him at that moment. Thus he "found strength" in the Lord; thus he calmed his soul; thus he prepared himself to pray.

"Strengthened by thought" is the formula that fits. The medievals would have called David’s action meditating, and the Puritans would have described it as preaching to oneself. Less important than deciding what to call it is learning to do it. It is a discipline we all need to master.

Every time we pray, it is wise first to remind ourselves, deliberately, of who and what God is and how we stand related to Him through His covenant love. Never is this more necessary than when we are reeling under the impact of some shock or being deafened by the inward screams of desire or panic or pain. David acted on this wisdom. Setting himself to think, he made his rational faith reassert itself over his runaway feelings. He let his faith tell him what to think, and when he knew what to think, he could see what to do. He was a model of godly wisdom.

FIVE STEPS TO RECOVERY

I now offer a reconstruction of the series of thoughts that he forced into his disoriented, despairing heart as he stood in lonely isolation in ruined Ziklag, surrounded by men who, he knew, had mutiny and murder in mind. It is, of course, guesswork, but it is not wild guesswork. The psalms show us the logic of David’s faith clearly enough to warrant every suggestion I shall make.

I believe that David ran before his mind five thoughts, as follows:

1. MY GOD REIGNS. He thought of God’s sovereign power. He reminded himself that God is in total control of all that happens on earth, and that having brought him into this extremity, God was certainly able to bring him out of it. Remembering God’s omnipotence was the first step in recovering his footing.

The psalms are strong on God’s sovereignty and dominion. "The LORD does whatever pleases Him" (Psalm 135:6; cf. Psalm 115:3). "The seas [emblem of chaos] have lifted up, O LORD ... their voice ... their pounding waves. Mightier than the thunder of the great waters, mightier than the breakers of the sea-the LORD on high is mighty" (Psalm 93:3-4). Or, more simply, "The LORD reigns" (Psalm 93:1; Psalm 96:10; Psalm 97:1; Psalm 99:1; Psalm 146:10). All Scripture agrees that a God who is only in control of things half the time is a figment of a disordered imagination. The beginning of stability for us all is to know that God is on the throne, that His eye is on us and His hand over us all the time. Nothing comes our way apart from His will. In the deepest sense everything is under control.

2. MY GOD FORGIVES. David thought of God’s pardoning mercy. He recalled that "with you there is forgiveness; therefore you are feared." In other words, right-minded reverence is rooted in a knowledge of God’s mercy in the remitting of one’s sins (Psalm 130:4). My guess is that David’s first breath of prayer was a plea for forgiveness for the callous killings involved in his bamboozling of Achish. Certainly, he dwelt on the truth that it is God’s glory to forgive the penitent and that no sin is too great to be forgiven. He knew that no chastened transgressor need ever forfeit his hope of restoration and a future with God. And as David thought along these lines, his footing grew firmer.

All Scripture confirms what David knew. "The blood of Jesus ... purifies us from all sin.... If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just [in keeping His word both to us who sinned and to the Son who died to save us] and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.... He [Jesus] is the atoning sacrifice for our sins" (1 John 1:7; 1 John 1:9; 1 John 2:2). For any who feel themselves under God’s judgment, there is forgiveness just as soon as they confess and forsake the acts that provoked the judgment.

3. MY GOD CARES. David thought, too, of God’s covenanted protection. "The LORD is my shepherd" (Psalm 23:1). Himself a shepherd, David knew that the shepherd’s job is precisely to look after the sheep, keeping them well-fed and safe at all times. So he must not suppose that men’s alienation from Him meant that God had abandoned him. Even in ruined Ziklag, God was with him to love and bless him. As David dwelt on this, his despair (I am sure) dissolved like melting snow.

All Scripture confirms what the Shepherd Psalm proclaims, namely the covenant care of God for His servants. "In all things God works for the good of those who love Him, who have been called according to His purpose" (Romans 8:28). God’s shaping of all that happens to believers so as to promote their "good"-that is, their holiness and joy-is a fact, even when it does not look or feel so. "Surely goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life" (Psalm 23:6). God’s commitment to me, to be my God who shepherds me home, guarantees that.

4. MY GOD IS CONSISTENT. Having proved His love to me in the past, He will do so again. David thought of his previous experiences of God’s goodness and reasoned that, as John Newton puts it in his sublimely straightforward way,

His love in time past

Forbids me to think

He’ll leave me at last

In trouble to sink;

Each sweet Ebenezer

I have in review

Confirms his good pleasure

To help me right through.

David had reasoned this way before Saul - "the LORD who delivered me from the paw of the lion and the paw of the bear will deliver me from the hand of this Philistine" (1 Samuel 17:37). So now he told himself that his God, who saved him from the lion, the bear, Goliath, and Saul’s spear (1 Samuel 19:9-10) would surely act again on his behalf in his present nightmare situation. For God does not lose interest in those He has once begun to love and bless.

Ebenezer was the name of a stone memorializing God’s past help (1 Samuel 7:12). Every Christian should live by the Ebenezer principle-storing up memories of past mercies and bringing them to mind whenever reassurance about God’s love is needed, as does the exile of Psalm 42:4-6 and the invalid of Psalm 77:4-12. In this way, David found strength to face the pressures of the present, and so may we.

5. MY GOD IS FAITHFUL. He keeps His word. David thought of God’s explicit promises, such as (perhaps) Psalm 91:14-15:

"Because he loves me" says the LORD, "I will rescue him;

I will protect him, for he acknowledges My name.

He will call upon Me, and I will answer him;

I will be with him in trouble,

I will deliver him and honor him."

David found strength in trusting the fidelity of his promise-keeping God.

Mapping the Christian life in Pilgrim’s Progress, Bunyan pictures despair as a giant imprisoning believers in Doubting Castle; but the Christian gets out of despair by using "a key called Promise." Exactly! Knowing that God’s promises to us in Scripture are certain of fulfillment frees us from doubt and gives us strength to face the future.

GOD MY STRENGTH

The strength (power) of God (Psalm 24:8; Psalm 31:2; Psalm 62:11) is what theologians call a communicable attribute - that is, a quality of God that in exercise imparts its own analogue or image to man. Thus, God’s wisdom makes us wise; God’s strength makes us strong. "The LORD gives strength to His servants" (Psalm 29:11; cf. 84:5). The strength given is a capacity "to do and to endure," as the hymn puts it; a capacity that without God’s empowering we would not have. As Giver of this strength, God is called "my" or "our" strength (Psalm 28:7; Psalm 46:1; Psalm 59:17; Psalm 73:26; Psalm 118:14; cf. Isaiah 12:2).

We have been watching God give David strength at Ziklag by stirring him to the resolute thought through which he "found strength." It was gratitude for such experiences that David was expressing when he declared, "I love you, O LORD, my strength" (Psalm 18:1). And one way in which we in [the current year] learn to love God is through being strengthened at crisis times in this same manner.

Just for the record, after David had "found strength," he got guidance that enabled him, against all expectations, to restore the situation completely (see the rest of 1 Samuel 30). God does not always resolve our crises this way, but He always gives strength to cope to those who will learn to think as David thought. And that, for us, is what really matters.

from Discipleship Journal · J. I. Packer via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database discouragement

Surviving Life's Storms

John 16:33

I was standing on my front porch one recent Saturday enjoying the sights and sounds of a beautiful morning when I heard it. I had heard the sound before, but I realized something for the first time: the faint, musical sound of wind chimes indicated a storm was coming.

Springtime in Texas means storms. One of the worst tornadoes ever to touch down in the United States tore a path through Moore, Oklahoma, just a few hours north of here three years ago. The F-5 tornado had winds of 360 miles per hour. I had never seen such devastation. A tamer tornado hit Fort Worth two years ago, nearly destroying several skyscrapers.

A storm blew through my life last May. My father, in tremendous pain and deep sorrow, took his own life. I was devastated. I spent months questioning God's existence, battling guilt and looking for reasons to live. Fortunately a counselor, family and friends helped me survive. While God didn't answer my questions as I'd hoped, I learned some important lessons.

The bad news is a storm is headed your way. Maybe not this week or this month or even this year. Maybe you're in one right now. But sooner or later, Jesus warns in John 16:33, an F-5 is going to blow through your world, and when it does, take cover.

In the worst storms you go numb. Your memory is gone. (Amid the storm I was in, I could not remember the reasons God created us I taught in my Sunday school class only weeks before.) You have little energy. You feel lost, isolated, separated from God. So how can you survive life's storms?

My first suggestion is watch for life-giving reasons. Put a note on your refrigerator that says, "If God had a refrigerator, your picture would be on it." Sunsets remind me that the Creator loves me. 1 Kings 19 says God allowed Elijah to gripe and complain, and then he gave him a reason to live: "There are 7,000 others who have not bowed the knee to Baal." This removed his sense of loneliness.

Perhaps God has a message for you today: I am with you. Perhaps his message for you is from the parable of the lost sheep: you have a father who will seek you when you are lost. Isaiah 42:3 says he will be gentle and merciful when we are weak, injured and not very useful.

Second, look for resources. A friend gave me a book I highly recommend: "Where Is God When It Hurts?" Numbers 11:16-17 tells us God provided helpers for Moses. 1 Kings 19:5-13 says God himself ministered to Elijah. God usually uses us to minister to people, but sometimes he supernaturally touches us.

God's resources may be difficult to see in storms. In "The Hiding Place," Corrie ten Boom told how she and her sister complained to God about the fleas in their barracks. Only later did she discover that the fleas kept the guards out which allowed them to pray and have Bible studies.

Don't be a Lone Ranger. Embrace loved ones and friends. Proverbs 18:1 says, "He who separates himself seeks his own desire." To Moses God sent 70 men to help him. To Elijah God sent Elisha to minister. To David God sent Jonathan and a band of loyal soldiers.

Leave a record of your journey to encourage others. I had to get away, so I went to the Rocky Mountains. On the trails I climbed were markers called cairns, stacks of rocks people had left to show the way. They testified that others had made it and encouraged me that I could make it too.

If you see someone else in a storm, look for your role. A well-respected psychiatrist once said the best cure for depression is to roll up your sleeves, cross the railroad tracks and help somebody. Hebrews 3:13 tells us to encourage one another day after day lest anyone be hardened by the deceitfulness of sin.

The Bible makes clear that God loves us perfectly, he knows what storms are ahead of us, and that, with time and tears, he will see us through. In Romans 8:35-39 God assures us that neither trials nor storms nor persecution can separate us from his love.

When the apostle wrote 1 Peter 4:12-13, he was aware that Nero was arresting Christians, covering them with pitch and using them as living torches to illuminate the imperial gardens. Even so, Peter was still able to write, "Rejoice, inasmuch as you are partakers of Christ's sufferings."

I confess I did not rejoice in or for my storm, and while I can write about it, I still can't talk about it. But once I made it through, I was able to rejoice in God's promises and in how he used the pain.

2 Corinthians 7:10 says one reason God uses storms is to draw people to himself when they otherwise would not respond to him. One of my former coworkers developed Lou Gehrig's disease eight years ago. I went to visit this big burly man about a year later. He was confined to a wheelchair and could barely talk. Remarkably, he said how grateful he was for the disease because it led him to faith in Jesus. I pray for his widow and daughters that they too will come to know Christ.

The topic of the Dec. 23 broadcast of NBC's "Meet the Press" was lessons learned from Sept. 11. Host Tim Russert asked First Lady Laura Bush why she changed the Scripture on the White House Christmas card to Psalm 27:8 ("...I believe I shall see the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living.")

"Because I think that's what happened," she replied. "I think we saw a few people commit a horrible crime, but we saw so many people showing the goodness of the Lord. ... I've actually been very comforted by the families. ... All the people that we see on television, the widows, the widowers, the ones who are decorating the Christmas tree by themselves this year for their children without their spouse."

We have been blessed by watching their response to this deadly storm, she said. Psalm 65:8 says, "Thou dost make the dawn and the sunset shout for joy."

Have you ever thought about what it takes to have a beautiful sunset? Obviously you need the sun, but only when there are storm clouds can you have a majestic sunset. That means someone is getting rained on.

My prayer is that the Son would shine through our responses to the storms that blow through our lives, painting a beautiful picture of God's love and faithfulness to the people around us.

_________________

Porter is director of Public Relations at Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary in Fort Worth, Texas.

Inflated Obstacles

Deuteronomy 7

When my friend Larry isn’t running his business, he can often be found riding his bicycle. We’re talking serious biking here, not just the leisurely around-the-block stuff. He and his friends have covered a lot of America on the their bicycles, conquering all kinds of challenges. Like big hills, for example. Now, any of us who has ever ridden a bike knows that it’s the hills that bite your leg muscles. As you’re riding, you see this mountain looming in front of you. OK, it’s a hill, but your mind is thinking "mountain." My friend told me a fundamental "big hill" principle that he has discovered - and that he passes on to other bikers. "The longer you look, the bigger it gets!"

Well, I'm Ron Hutchcraft and I want to have A Word With You today about "Inflated Obstacles."

You may be facing one of life’s big hills right now - financially, medically, in your family, or your ministry, your work. And right now you’ve stopped pedaling, you’re looking at how big that hill is - and the longer you look, the bigger it’s getting. And the weaker and more paralyzed you’re feeling.

That must have been how God’s ancient people felt when they looked at the challenges of the land God had promised them - walled cities, barbarian armies, intimidating giants, and a big piece of occupied ground. God knows how we feel when we’re staring at those big hills. In our word for today from the Word of God - Deuteronomy 7, beginning in verse 17, God says: "You may say to yourselves, ‘These nations are stronger than we are. How can we drive them out?' Do not be terrified by them, for the Lord your God, who is among you, is a great and awesome God. The Lord your God will drive out those nations before you, little by little.’"

OK, first, you have to remember Who’s going to conquer that hill - it’s not going to be you - so your limitations are not an issue here. It’s going to "the Lord your God." I love that phrase. "The Lord" - that’s the One who created and controls over a hundred billion galaxies! Then, "your God." Yes! The Lord who rules the galaxies is my God. He is so big - and He’s so close!

Secondly - as you’re staring at that hill you’ve got in front of you, remember how God is going to help you conquer this challenge - "little by little." He’s not going to do it all at once. He’s asking you to take it in bite-size chunks. Now, my bicycling friend says that rather than looking at the top of the hill, he looks at the short distances in front of him. That’s how you conquer your hill. Jesus asks us to take up our cross, not all at once, but "daily." (Luke 9:23) Your job is just to do today - faithfully and positively.

The size of life’s hills often keeps us from facing what we need to be dealing with - issues in our family, our marriage, our spending, the care of your body, that habit, or even something Jesus has been asking you to do for Him. And the longer you look at the hill, the bigger it gets. But the longer you look at the God you belong to, the bigger He gets. You’ve been looking at the wrong thing - fixated on the problem or the challenge, or the people, and missing the awesome size of your God!

Let today be Day One of you tackling that hill. Just look at the short distance immediately in front of you - this one day. And open yourself up to the strength of God that we only experience when we know we can’t do it. Look at the size of your Lord, not the size of your hill! Today’s looming challenge is going to be tomorrow’s amazing conquest!

________________

Copyright © Ron Hutchcraft Ministries, Inc., PO Box 400, Harrison, AR 72602. Used by permission. Written by Ron Hutchcraft. "Practical Answers to Real Life Issues"

*

from A Word With You by Ron Hutchcraft #4020 · Ron Hutchcraft via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database overcome

One Minute To Thank Someone

He almost killed somebody, but one minute changed his life. The beautiful story comes from Sherman Rogers' old book, "Foremen: Leaders or Drivers?" In his true-life story, Rogers illustrates the importance of effective relationships.

During his college years, Rogers spent a summer in an Idaho logging camp. When the superintendent had to leave for a few days, he put Rogers in charge.

"What if the men refuse to follow my orders?" Rogers asked. He thought of Tony, an immigrant worker who grumbled and growled all day, giving the other men a hard time.

"Fire them," the superintendent said. Then, as if reading Rogers's mind, he added, "I suppose you think you are going to fire Tony if you get the chance. I'd feel badly about that. I have been logging for 40 years. Tony is the most reliable worker I've ever had. I know he is a grouch and that he hates everybody and everything. But he comes in first and leaves last. There has not been an accident for eight years on the hill where he works."

Rogers took over the next day. He went to Tony and spoke to him. "Tony, do you know I'm in charge here today?" Tony grunted. "I was going to fire you the first time we tangled, but I want you to know I'm not," he told Tony, adding what the superintendent had said.

When he finished, Tony dropped the shovelful of sand he had held and tears streamed down his face. "Why he no tell me dat eight years ago?"

That day Tony worked harder than ever before -- and he smiled! He later said to Rogers, "I told Maria you first foreman in deese country who ever say, 'Good work, Tony,' and it make Maria feel like Christmas."

Rogers went back to school after that summer. Twelve years later he met Tony again. He was superintendent for railroad construction for one of the largest logging companies in the West. Rogers asked him how he came to California and happened to have such success.

Tony replied, "If it not be for the one minute you talk to me back in Idaho, I keel somebody someday. One minute, it change my whole life."

One minute. Have you got one minute to thank someone? A minute to tell someone what you sincerely like or appreciate about her? A minute to elaborate on something he did well? One minute. It can make a difference for a lifetime.

*

from Internet: Messages From the Masters; editor Jim Rohn · Steve Goodier via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database encouragementdiscouragement

My Eyes Have Seen Your Salvation

Mark 14:1

Discouraged Servants

Read: Mark 14:1-9

She has done what she could. --Mark 14:8

In today's performance-driven world, Christians are often more critical of their own acts of service than God is. Many seek to honor Him in word and deed yet feel that nothing they do is ever good enough to please Him. Such distraught servants will be encouraged by today's Bible reading in Mark 14.

From what we learn in John 12, we know that the woman in Mark 14 was Mary, the one who regarded listening at Jesus' feet as more important than preparing an impressive meal (Lk. 10:38-42). F. B. Meyer wrote this about her: "Probably, of all His followers, Mary alone had understood His references to His death, and as she could not be present to perform the last offices of love, she rendered them in advance."

Her extravagant anointing of Jesus' head with costly oil was called a waste by her loveless critics. But Jesus quickly vindicated her by acknowledging that she had done a good work for Him simply by doing what she could.

Are you frustrated because of what you can't do, and critical of what you can? Are the murmurings of others drowning out God's "well done"? Rest for a while at Jesus' feet and gain Mary's understanding. Then rise up and do what you can, knowing that He will be pleased. --JEY

Don't be discouraged, child of God,

By what you cannot do;

Just give the Lord your very best--

It's all He asks of you. --Sper

When you give your all, your little is a lot.

from Our Daily Bread, December 8, 1996 via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database discouragement

Having Another Hope

Job 6:11

Lewis Smedes tells the story of a pastor’s wife named Tammy Kramer who worked at an AIDS clinic in Los Angeles. One day a young man who came in for his weekly treatment, but this time he faced a new doctor. Without so much as looking at the patient, the doctor said casually, “You know, don’t you, that you won’t live out the year?”

As the man left the clinic, he stopped at Tammy’s desk and sobbed, “He took away my hope!”

“I guess he did,” Tammy answered. “Do you have another one?”

Do you have a hope that can sustain you no matter what the world throws at you? The only hope worth having is found in a relationship with Jesus Christ.

from Discipleship Journal #114 · David W. Henderson via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database discouragement

Quotes On Creativity

"It is better to fail in originality than to succeed in imitation."

-- Herman Melville (1819 - 1891), writer, Bits & Pieces

"Creativity is so delicate a flower that praise tends to make it bloom, while discouragement often nips it in the bud. Any of us will put out more and better ideas if our efforts are appreciated."

-- Alexander F. Osborn (1888 - 1966), advertising executive, (B&P)

"I am enough of an artist to draw freely upon my imagination. Imagination is more important than knowledge. Knowledge is limited. Imagination encircles the world."

-- Albert Einstein (1879-1955), physicist, Bits & Pieces 9/27/02

*

(untitled)

Where to Look

Defeat comes from looking back

Distraction comes from looking around

Discouragement comes from looking down

Deliverance comes from looking up.

(Wendy, Nambour, Qld)

from Fair Dinkum Magazine via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database deliverancevictory

What's Your "blah-meter" Telling You?

Have you ever felt that something was vaguely wrong? Maybe that you weren't at the top of your game? I am not talking about a full-blown depression, but something more common. It's that little nagging voice in your head telling you that something is not quite right. Elton John may sing his catchy tune "I Guess That's Why They Call It The Blues," but I am talking about a full-blown case of THE BLAHS here. You know what I mean?

In my own life and in working with clients, I find that most people have BLAH days and even BLAH weeks. They aren't sick but neither are they well. They are just...well...BLAH. They come to our coaching calls wondering how to get themselves back on the success track again. My role is to serve as a sounding board and then offer practical suggestions for making that happen.

Maxwell Maltz identifies 7 warning signals to pay attention to in order to avoid a full-blown failure. The warning signals do not indicate that you HAVE failed, but that you may be headed in that direction if you do not change the course of your behavior. The signals serve as your "BLAHmeter." (I like this new word I made up!)

Mr. Maltz says, "A detour sign on the highway doesn't mean that you are a bad driver. It is a signal to change direction -- an indication that you are likely to have an accident if you continue on your present course." And so it is with the signals that warn you are off course. Use these as guideposts and you will most likely remain on your success path. If you ignore them, be prepared for a possible accident.

The 7 warning signals are:

1. FRUSTRATION. This is your very first clue! Frustration includes feelings of urgency, saying 'yes' to things you want to say 'no' to, feeling that you do not make a difference, or feelings of inadequacy. All these contribute to the BLAH feeling and are warning signs of greater trouble ahead. Often feelings of frustration are about someone else's behavior and how it is affecting us. Begin to look at YOUR role in your frustration and take back your personal power. Plan your time wisely and don't get caught in the urgency game. Say NO. You can! Find a way to make a difference and then do it instead of just talking about it.

2. AGGRESSION. Aggression is what follows frustration. OK, so you missed the first signals and now you are becoming angry. The secret for avoiding failure here is to turn that aggressive feeling into assertiveness. Both of these are strategies for getting what you want; however the assertive personality uses a win-win strategy of team building instead of tearing others down. The next time you feel aggressive about a situation, ask yourself how you can turn the conversation into a win-win, take a deep breath and then do it!

3. INSECURITY. This is another result of not recognizing the vague feeling of inadequacy that comes from frustration. This can definitely fuel the BLAHS! There can be some deep-rooted reasons for insecurity, but there are also some simple strategies to overcoming it. Begin to set small goals and then attain them. Each one builds on the other and increases self-esteem. One step at a time can evolve into big wins!

4. LONELINESS. Being cut off from others is a sign that you are cut off from yourself as well. Loneliness is the wall that keeps fear locked in and people locked out. It is self-protection. I am not talking about spending healthy time alone. That is productive time. I am all for that! Here I am talking about isolation that keeps one from connecting with others. Talk about the BLAHS! The way to break this cycle is to force yourself to do new things and interact with others. Cheryl Richardson, author of Take Time for Your Life, likes to call this, "building a soulful community." Hey -- if you build it, they will come. :)

5. UNCERTAINTY. I like to call this the "frustrated perfectionist syndrome." Do you procrastinate over getting things done? Have you ever considered that it might be because you want it done just "right?" Do you fear failure? These are all signs of uncertainty and they keep you stuck. Stuck = the BLAHS. Pay attention to this warning signal and break your patterns. You don't have to be the best each time. A road paved with obstacles is generally much more interesting, you learn a lot more, and your 'wins' feel even bigger. Take a chance on that road less traveled!

6. RESENTMENT. This is the greatest robber of personal happiness, according to Psycho-Cybernetics' Maxwell Maltz. This is also known as "victim mentality" in which one blames everyone else for his/her problems. It's that feeling of injustice. It's not taking responsibility for your own feelings and behaviors. How dis-empowering! Big- time BLAHS! Take note of this warning signal before it becomes a huge problem. Learn to forgive others and forgive yourself. It's often been said that forgiveness is more about 'us' moving on than it is about the person who may have wronged us.

I use the following technique with clients: -- COULD you let the feeling of resentment over ________ go? -- WOULD you let it go? If so, WHEN? If not, WHEN? To be healthy one has to let go, so go ahead and make the decision that you will -- sooner is much better than later or too late. In the 12 Step programs, they refer to this as "letting go and letting God." Can you?

7. EMPTINESS. This is the feeling of loneliness that we mentioned earlier, but magnified. This is generally a result of living out someone else's dreams for your life and not your own. Your creativity is stifled and you are not fulfilled. You may go through the motions but they seem meaningless. Have you ever known people who could buy whatever they wanted but they are empty inside? They are BLAH.

Dreams On the Scrapheap

Jeremiah 29:11

It's a beautiful area of the Southwestern United States - except for this one horrendous eyesore. It's a graveyard - for cars. Acre after acre, you've seen them, is covered with cars that have been discarded, wrecked, crushed, stacked several cars deep - blah. And every time I pass there and see all these trashed and mashed cars, I can't help thinking to myself, “Just think - one day that car was somebody's dream come true.” Someone probably wished for that car, got that car, showed everybody this car they were so proud of. Look at it now!

Well, I'm Ron Hutchcraft, and I want to have A Word With You today about “Dreams on the Scrapheap.”

When I look at that auto junkyard, I see what was once somebody's dream now just another piece of junk on the scrap heap. Some of us have lives that are like that junkyard - a pile of what was once our dreams, now laying on the scrap heap. Dreams that either didn't happen or didn't turn out to be what we thought they would. A lot of disappointment, discouragement, disillusionment - and as a result, a search now for a dream that won't let us down, or even turn to a nightmare.

It's strange, in a way that often it's at the end of our dreams that we find the reason we're living. Until then, we're pouring everything we've got into what we think will give us the love and meaning and fulfillment we're looking for. But sooner or later, our path of dreams lets us down; leaves us empty. That's when we might finally be ready to consider what God thinks will make our life make sense. Since He's the One who made you, He's the One who knows why you're here. It was the dream He dreamed for you even before there was a you! It's the destiny you were made for, lived out one meaningful day at a time.

God talks about His plans for you in Jeremiah 29:11, our word for today from the Word of God. “'I know the plans I have for you,' declares the Lord, 'plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” Those are the plans you were created for. Unfortunately, we've spent most of our life on our own dreams - a lot of which are now on the scrap heap. But now may be that time when you finally embrace what you were made for - by embracing the One who made you - the One of whom the Bible says, “All things were created by Him and for Him.” (Colossians 1:16) And that includes you.

But we've been building our life without the Architect - and things keep collapsing on us, disappointing us. We have, in the Bible's words, “gone astray” and turned to our “own way.” (Isaiah 53:6) We've all gotten way off course - and it took the greatest act of love in cosmic history to get us back - the death of Jesus Christ, the Son of God, for our rebellion and our sin; our takeover of the life God made.

But the moment you reach out to Jesus and tell Him you're His from now on, you start to belong to your Creator - to experience His forgiving for every wrong thing you've ever done. You start living God's great dream for your life when you give yourself to Jesus, the One who loved you enough to die for all your sin. The wasted days, the wasted years end the moment you open your life to Jesus Christ. For you, the dream that will never disappoint could begin this very day.

________________

Copyright © Ron Hutchcraft Ministries, Inc., PO Box 400, Harrison, AR 72602. Used by permission. Written by Ron Hutchcraft. "Practical Answers to Real Life Issues"

*

[Original illustration at this number was a duplicate of HolwickID #4801]

from A Word With You by Ron Hutchcraft #4208 · Ron Hutchcraft via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database discouragement

Choose To Maintain Joy

Philippians 1:12

A seasoned pastor encouraged seminary students to maintain their joy in the ministry even in difficult times by exercising the power of choice. Paul chose joy DESPITE HIS CHAINS, critics, and crisis, said John Powers, pastor of First Baptist Norfolk, Virginia.

Preaching from Philippians 1:12-30, he said that Paul chose to look at his chains as an instrument clearing a way for advancing the gospel, starting with the praetorian guards who took turns watching his every move.

"With each new guard came an opportunity for the apostle Paul to share his faith," said Powers, adding that they heard him pray, preach, and dictate letters for two years.

"He had joy in spite of his chains," said Powers. "And because of that, his joy created a confidence in others to speak the word of God with boldness."

Paul also chose joy DESPITE HIS CRITICS, Powers said.

Some Christians in Rome had selfish desires and agendas, which included undermining Paul's ministry and creating problems for him, he noted.

"You cannot hurt a computer's feelings, and you cannot grieve a theological concept, but you can destroy a man." he said. "Paul was destructible, but he was not destroyed ... because he chose joy."

The Southwestern graduate advised current students to avoid pettiness because most of the things that create problems in the ministry are not worth the trouble.

"A lot of joy could occur in ministry if we would learn to leave [alone] a few differences between people," he said.

Paul also chose joy DESPITE BEING IN A CRISIS.

Choosing joy will create a positive attitude, said Powers, joking that an optimist goes fishing with a camera and a frying pan.

However, he warned about Satan, who wants to steal joy from God's servants in four ways -- problems, people, possessions, and pressures.

"Problems and ministry are synonymous," he said, emphasizing that understanding the difference between happiness and joy is paramount.

Joy is different from happiness because the latter depends on "happenings," said Powers. "People have a way of stealing your joy, if you let them. There is one constant in ministry: people are going to be people."

Powers warned against depending on people for joy.

"Also, possessions will steal our joy," he said, "when you focus on stuff, things, [and] what somebody else has you may not have."

Pressure is great from the outside because of lost people "hurling" toward hell, he said, adding that expectations from inside the church and personal struggles within have the potential to "siphon" joy from ministers.

Then Powers warned seminary students and faculty about the seven siphons of spiritual joy. JOY IS LOST WHEN:

-- Christian servants have words without actions;

-- Christian servants become busy without purpose;

-- relationships fail to provide mutual nourishment;

-- Christian servants serve without a Sabbath;

-- spiritual gifts are used without God's power;

-- Christian servants possess great theology without adequate spirituality;

-- Christian servants exercise faith without self-examination and

accountability.

Paul refused to allow joy from his heart to be siphoned, and he chose joy in the midst of the crisis he faced, said Powers.

"This discomfort that he was experiencing could not compare with the ultimate experience that Christ was being exulted in his body," he said, concluding that for Paul, "...to live is Christ and to die is gain."

When You're Tired of Climbing

Philippians 1:6

I was speaking at a Christian conference center in the Midwest - actually, speaking at least three times a day there! Don't feel bad for me - feel bad for the people who had to listen to me all those times! Well, after about three days, I decided to grab some break time to do something I had wanted to do since I arrived - I wanted to climb this monster sand dune that's not far from the conference center. It was just sitting there all week saying, "Climb me, Ron!" So I grabbed a couple of friends and we started trudging up this huge mountain of sand. At first, we were charging up, all full of energy. But if you've ever climbed a sand dune, you know it gets pretty exhausting pretty fast. After a while, you could hear the huffing and the puffing and you could feel the steps slowing down. My climbing partners were starting to lose their enthusiasm for the rest of the climb - especially when they looked up and saw how far we still had to go. So I encouraged them to stop for a minute and rest - and to look down. We needed to look at how far we had come - not just how far we still had to go.

Well, I'm Ron Hutchcraft and I want to have A WORD WITH YOU today about "When You're Tired Of Climbing."

It could be that you're climbing a pretty steep slope right now. It's been a long climb - and as you look ahead, you've still got a long way to go ... maybe spiritually, maybe emotionally, maybe in getting through a time of great pain or need ... maybe in working through some family problems. And right now you're battling some discouragement ... some feelings of giving up ... some deep weariness. You're discouraged by how much is left to do ... the amount of ground you still have to cover. And maybe it's bringing you to standstill.

I want to encourage you to hang onto our word for today from the Word of God like a drowning person would hang onto a life preserver. It's Philippians 1:6 - "Being confident of this, that He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus." You see, what Jesus starts, Jesus finishes. He's started something in your life, and He's not about to stop before He finishes it.

You can draw from that promise the courage to take that next step, and to keep going when you feel like quitting. We finished our climb that day of the great dune conquest, and the view from the top was inspiring - not to mention the exhilaration and the satisfaction of knowing we had reached our goal, no matter how hard it was.

What helped us finish may help you finish, too. If you focus on how far you've got to go, you'll be discouraged. But you need to look back at where you were before you started climbing - way down at the bottom of that mountain, looking at climbing the whole thing. Look at how far you've come! Look at how far Jesus has brought you! The same Lord who brought you from the bottom to this point will take you the rest of the way!

Something else helped us that day we climbed the big dune. We didn't keep looking at how far we had to go - we concentrated on taking that next step. God has promised strength for our days, mercies that are new every morning, a cross you pick up one day at a time. So all you need to do is that next step - don't get all weighed down thinking about all the steps ahead, just the next one. The Bible says, "The steps of a righteous man are ordered by the Lord, and he delights in his way." (Psalm 37:23)

Yes, it has been a long climb, and yes, you have a ways to go yet. But look at the work Jesus has already done - look at how far He's brought you. Just keep taking that next step. Your Lord has promised to take you all the way to the top!

________________

Copyright © Ron Hutchcraft Ministries, Inc., PO Box 400, Harrison, AR 72602. Used by permission. Written by Ron Hutchcraft. "Practical Answers to Real Life Issues"

from A Word With You by Ron Hutchcraft #3847 · Ron Hutchcraft via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database

When Your Transformer's Out

Mark 5:24

We had a violent thunderstorm the other night - and about 18 hours without electricity. Fortunately, my wife is never without candles, so we had a nice candlelit night at home. I read the newspaper by flashlight. We easily survived without our television. We even played a board game by candlelight! But there sure was no electric power in the house. Not after that huge lightning bolt found its target in our yard - the transformer that sits on a telephone pole not far from our house. My wife saw it, and apparently it was a pretty impressive hit. But there's no way you're going to have power when the transformer's down - I mean, it's what brings all that power in those wires down to where we can use it to run our house.

Well, I'm Ron Hutchcraft and I want to have A WORD WITH YOU today about "When Your Transformer's Out."

It could be that the power's been out where you live - in your life, I mean. You're facing some issues that just can't seem to be resolved ... some problems that seem to defy solution ... some mountains that just aren't moving ... some questions that just aren't getting answered ... maybe an overload that is overwhelming you. Could be in your family ... maybe at church or at work ... maybe in your personal life - there just doesn't seem to be anything powerful enough to meet the need, to handle those demands. Maybe the transformer's down.

For those of us who belong to Jesus Christ, there is something called prayer that brings all the power of God Himself down to where we can use it to change our everyday lives. Prayer is your spiritual transformer. And it's possible that it's gotten lost in the storm you've been going through.

There's a vivid picture of both powerlessness and power in our word for today from the Word of God. In Mark 5, beginning in verse 24, the Bible says, "A large crowd followed and pressed around [Jesus]. And a woman was there who had been subject to bleeding for twelve years. She had suffered a great deal under the care of many doctors and had spent all she had, yet instead of getting better, she grew worse."

This woman has tried all the earth-solutions she can think of - but the need was much too great for anyone on earth to meet. She had thrown money at the problem - nothing happened. She went to all the human experts - nothing happened. But, the Bible continues, "when she heard about Jesus, she came up behind Him in the crowd and touched the cloak, because she thought, 'If I just touch His clothes, I will be healed.' Immediately her bleeding stopped and she felt in her body that she was freed from her suffering."

Only one thing brought a solution - desperately lunging for Jesus, believing that His authority and power were greater than her massive need. That's going to be the only place you find a solution, too. By getting back to the one weapon that can prevail in your battle - coming in desperate faith to your all-powerful Lord, waging war with prayer. Maybe you've been scurrying around, trying everything to find a solution - except fervent, frequent, faith-filled praying. You don't need a planning meeting - you need a prayer meeting. You don't need a program - you need to pray. You don't need a fund-raising strategy or a new methodology or a human expert - although God might use that - you need to pray as you've never prayed before, believing God for something so big, only He could do it!

You've been so overwhelmed with your situation that you've neglected the only power source that can possibly change things - releasing the power of Almighty God through intense and intensive prayer. The storm isn't the reason you don't have the power you need. It's the transformer of prayer that brings God's power to where you live. Get your "transformer" back on line - and you'll have all the power you need!

________________

Copyright © Ron Hutchcraft Ministries, Inc., PO Box 400, Harrison, AR 72602. Used by permission. Written by Ron Hutchcraft. "Practical Answers to Real Life Issues"

*

from A Word With You by Ron Hutchcraft #3853 · Ron Hutchcraft via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database powerprayer

Johnny-jump-up

A story is told of a king who went into his garden one morning and found everything withering and dying. He asked an oak that stood near the gate what the trouble was. He found that it was sick of life and determined to die because it was not tall and beautiful like the pine. The pine was out of all heart because it could not bear grapes like the vine. The vine was going to throw its life away because it could not stand erect and have as fine fruit as the pomegranate; and so on throughout the garden. Coming to a Johnny-jump-up, he found its bright face lifted as full of cheerfulness as ever. Said the king:

“Well, Johnny-jump-up, I am glad to find one brave little flower among this land of general discouragement and dying. You don’t seem one bit disheartened.”

“No, your Majesty. I know I am of small account, but I concluded you wanted a Johnny-jump-up when you planted me. If you had wanted an oak or a pine or a vine or a pomegranate, you would have set one out. So I am bound to be the best Johnny-jump-up that ever I can.”

To be such a “Johnny-jump-up” is a blessed thing for the Christian, and a saving power in the world.

Never A Sunset Without a Sunrise

Jeremiah 31:3

Where we used to live, we had so many leaves to rake and bag - and so few free days to work on it - that one massive Saturday effort was what we depended on. And, of course, dark always came too soon. We'd race to get it all done before the sun went down, but sometimes, well, we lost the race. Every farmer who's ever harvested a crop knows the feeling of racing the dark, but there's no way to postpone the sunset. In fact, today's almanac will tell you exactly when it's going down. And the later it gets in the year, well, of course, the sooner you're out of light. When you really need the sun to get things done, sunset always seems to come too soon. But if you check that almanac, you will notice there's another time given next to the time for sunset - it's the time for sunrise. Now here's a scientific fact that will amaze and astound you. Have your pencil ready to write this down. The number of sunrises in history is exactly equal to the number of sunsets! Hmm.

Well, I'm Ron Hutchcraft and I want to have A Word With You today about “Never a Sunset Without a Sunrise.”

And that is a fact. The sun never sets without it rising again. That's not just meteorology. It's theology. It's a spiritual fact of life, and an emotional fact, that it's real easy to forget when it's been dark for a while. But the sunrise principle is the basis for hope when things around you seem hopeless. Key word: “seem.”

In fact, God has a hope-filled promise for us today in our word for today from the Word of God in Jeremiah 31:3-4. He says, “I have loved you with an everlasting love; I have drawn you with loving-kindness. I will build you again and you will be rebuilt ... again you will take up your tambourines and go out and dance with the joyful.” God's people had been plundered, relocated, wounded, with most of what they cared about destroyed. They hadn't seen the sun for a long time. But God says, “It's not over, kids. The sun's going to come up again, no matter how dark it looks. Yes, things are in ruins - but I am going to build you again - and when I get to restoring what you've lost, you will be rebuilt!”

That may well be what He's trying to say to you right now. Yes, the sun went down, and it's been a long night. But it's not a permanent night - there's no such thing! There's no such thing as a sunset without a sunrise. And God promises one! He's the great Restorer, who promises in Joel 2:25: “I will restore to you the years that the locusts have eaten” (KJV). Yes, that relationship has ended. Yes, you are financially broke. Yes, there has been a major setback or failure or loss. But it isn't the whole book, my friend - this is a chapter in the book. And the author has much more to write.

My friend, Audrey, has pretty much defined her past year by unresolved grief over the death of her closest friend. But last week we walked through Isaiah 61, which promises the Lord will “bind up the brokenhearted, and proclaim ... release from darkness for the prisoners ... He bestow on them a crown of beauty instead of ashes, the oil of gladness instead of mourning, and a garment of praise instead of a spirit of despair.” And with a cleansing flood of tears, she let it all go and traded her despair for praise, her ashes for beauty, and the sun has come up again.

It won't always be like this - unless you decide to make it always be like this. My prayer for you is Paul's prayer for his friend in Romans 15:13 - “May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in Him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.” He's going to rebuild you, and you will be rebuilt! You will dance again! There's no denying that your sun went down and it got dark. But, remember, there's never a sunset without a sunrise!

________________

Copyright © Ron Hutchcraft Ministries, Inc., PO Box 400, Harrison, AR 72602. Used by permission. Written by Ron Hutchcraft. "Practical Answers to Real Life Issues"

*

from A Word With You by Ron Hutchcraft #4367 · Ron Hutchcraft via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database discouragementoptimism

Many Dry Wells and One Gushing Spring

1 Samuel 30

Life wasn't easy on the little farm where my wife grew up. The land was hard to farm, the money was hard to come by, and the water was sometimes even harder to come by. In fact, on several occasions, Dad tried to dig a well. Again and again, they dug but they ended up with only dry wells. Thankfully, though, there was this spring not too far away. My wife remembers her grandfather hitching up Jack and Betsy - that was actually two mules, not two cousins - and going down to this amazing spring that just gushed horizontally out of the rocks. And with each trip, they'd bring back two large barrels of water.

I'm Ron Hutchcraft and I want to have A Word With You today about “Many Dry Wells and One Gushing Spring.”

That's not just the survival story of one farm family I know. That's the spiritual and emotional survival story of a whole lot of people over the years. The wells they were depending on were dry, but there was still one gushing spring. That story may be your story right now.

In 1 Samuel 30, beginning with verse 3, our word for today from the Word of God, we can see from a tragedy in David's life a flesh-and-blood example of how to make it when all your wells go dry on you. David and his men have been out on a military mission and now they're returning to their base camp at a place called Ziklag. The Bible says, “When David and his men came to Ziklag, they found it destroyed by fire and their wives and sons and daughters taken captive.” Their enemy, the Amalekites, had come in while they were gone, burned all their camp, and taken their families prisoner. The things they owned, the people they loved ... gone.

The Bible goes on to say that “each one was bitter in spirit” and David's own men were even “talking of stoning him.” It was a dark, dark moment. Yet, as everyone else was turning bitter and angry, God says, “but David found strength in the Lord his God.” Here he is, standing amid the rubble of everything he had, having lost the people he loves most, with the guys he thought he could depend on turning against him. All the wells he could go to for strength are dry. That may be just the point you feel you're at right now. All those places you would normally turn for the strength and encouragement you need just aren't able to meet your need this time. You're feeling very alone. And bitterness, discouragement, anger, depression are starting to creep into your soul.

But at a moment like this, David remembered the spring! There is a spring that never runs dry, that's gushing water for your soul even in the midst of an unrelenting drought. David turned to the infinite resources of the Lord his God and found strength when it seemed no strength was possible. How much strength? David rallies his troops to defy the enemy who robbed them and to take back what the enemy has stolen. “David fought them from dusk until the evening of the next day, and not one of them got away ... David recovered everything the Amalekites had taken,” the Bible says. All the ground that had been lost was retaken - because one man downloaded strength from the Lord who was his God when all human strength was gone.

Now, this is no time for you to give up, or to withdraw, or to slip into the darkness. This is a time for you to fight back! Especially if there are other people looking to you, depending on you, like David. You'll need strength you don't have - that no one else can give you, except the awesome God you belong to. If you're defeated, it'll only be because you went to one of those dry old wells to get some help instead of the gushing spring of the strength of God, whose strength and provision and joy is not rooted in circumstances, or feelings, or finances, or humans. He is the Lord who rules a hundred billion galaxies, and the Lord is your God! That's all you need to bounce back and win this one! He's your Source.

Yes, the wells you've counted on may be dry. But no matter what you've lost, no matter how dark it looks, you've got a spring that never runs dry!

__________

Copyright © Ron Hutchcraft Ministries, Inc., PO Box 400, Harrison, AR 72602. Used by permission. Written by Ron Hutchcraft. "Practical Answers to Real Life Issues"

*

[Original illustration here was a duplicate in HolwickID 25837-26027]

from A Word With You by Ron Hutchcraft #4557 · Ron Hutchcraft via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database

Depression: How To Deal With Your Past

Psalms 40:1

“For the director of music. Of David. A psalm. I waited patiently for the LORD; he turned to me and heard my cry. He lifted me out of the slimy pit, out of the mud and mire; he set my feet on a rock and gave me a firm place to stand. He put a new song in my mouth, a hymn of praise to our God. Many will see and fear and put their trust in the LORD.” (Psalm 40:1-3, NIV)

We are on a journey! Together we are discovering the truths we must learn in order to win the battle with depression.

Truth one: We must understand what depression is.

Truth two: We must know who can struggle with depression.

Truth three: We must recognize the factors that can lead to depression:

1. A lack of replenishing relationships

2. A poor self-image

A THIRD FACTOR that can lead to depression is past experiences and how we deal with them. The “mire” mentioned in Psalm 40:2 literally means “sediment at the bottom.”

When my children were small, we would pack a picnic lunch and head for the nearest beach! Their favorite game was to see who could hold a beach ball under the water for the longest time. They would wade out into the ocean, push the ball under the water and begin to count. Soon their arms would tire, or the beach ball would escape their control, popping to the surface.

This is exactly what happens to the “mire” in our lives. The “sediment” or “junk” that we have never dealt with settles at the bottom of our souls, occasionally popping up until we finally run out of energy to keep it submerged. It then works its way to the surface spilling its ugliness and darkness over every part of our existence. “Mire” comes in all shapes and sizes!

• Buried pain

• Unresolved anger

• Hidden sin

• A great loss

My father died when I was four years old, forcing my mother to sell the farm they had spent years building and move to the small nearby town of Brownwood, Texas. There, Mom worked as a waitress at night while attending nursing school during the day. Even after becoming a nurse, she cleaned houses in order to support my brother, sister, grandmother and myself.

When I was five years old, Mom began a twenty-year battle with cancer that was filled with “mire.” I had never really dealt with the loss of my mother or faced some very painful parts of my past. I began to look back over my life realizing that I had painted a picture in my heart and mind of how I wanted my childhood to be - not how it really was.

In the following weeks and months, the Lord and I sifted through the enormous pile of “mire” that had settled into my spirit and life. Together we faced experiences that I had carefully locked away until they slammed into my heart and mind with a breathtaking force and fresh pain; an alcoholic father, a trusted family doctor who molested me, times of loneliness and rejection, haunting failures, unreasonable fears that were never spoken. It seemed as if the flood of memories would never end!

But God is good. He gives us a defense mechanism for those experiences that are beyond our ability to face. He gently tucks them away until He can mercifully bring us to the place where we are able to deal with them.

When we bury pain alive, it keeps popping up at unexpected moments. It must be dealt with and then buried ... dead! We must confront our past, straining every experience through the truth that “all” things work together for our good until we grasp the seed of victory that each pain holds.

When my daughter was in kindergarten she had a very creative science teacher! One day I picked Danna up from school and could tell that she was very excited about something. She had just come from science class and had her very first experiment to do all by herself. She hopped in the car and chattered happily all the way home about seeds that her teacher had given her to plant. A detailed plan unfolded as Danna explained what it would take to make the seeds grow.

Then I saw them. She proudly opened her little hand to reveal a wadded up paper towel filled with broken and mismatched seeds, announcing that they would be so beautiful when they bloomed. I took one look at the seeds and knew that they could not possibly produce anything remotely close to a plant.

“Danna,” I said, “if they don’t grow we will go to the store and buy brand new seeds.” With a look of total disgust she proclaimed, “Mama, they will grow because I prayed for them to grow.” At this point I am asking God if He is aware that His reputation is on the line with my daughter. He did not seem concerned.

When we got home, Danna jumped out of the car and headed to the front yard with a paper cup. She scooped up dirt from the one flowerbed that I had, in total desperation, filled with rocks because it refused to grow anything. Everything I had ever planted there died within a matter of days. Danna then marched into the house, explaining that the seeds needed water to grow. Turning the kitchen faucet on full blast she stuck the paper cup under the rushing stream, watching the dirt and seeds spill into the sink.

Pleased with her progress, she sauntered outside to the screened in porch and placed the cup on the patio table so that it could get sunshine. When I mentioned that there is no sunlight on the porch and suggested that she move her seeds to a spot with better light, she seemed totally unconcerned and cast a look of pity on her faithless and obviously misinformed Mother. I gave up! “God, you are on your own!” I thought.

Several days passed and I forgot about the seeds until one afternoon while preparing dinner I glanced out the kitchen window. There, in the middle of my doubts, sat a soggy, crumpled paper cup filled with green sprouts! I ran to Danna’s room shouting, “Danna, your seeds grew! Your seeds really grew!” She looked up at me with the beautiful eyes of childlike faith and calmly said, “I knew they would.”

Listen my friend, never be surprised at what God can do with just one tiny, broken seed. The will of God admits no defeat! The will of God penalizes no one! We can allow our past to defeat us or we can choose to harness that past and use it for power in our lives today!

Those painful experiences that we try so hard to bury can be changed from the quicksand of defeat into stepping stones of victory and healing. God takes every “broken seed” and creates new life.

What past experiences have become the footholds of darkness in your life today? Face them now. Deal with them immediately and bury them. You have just taken another step out of the darkness into the light of restoration.

*

from www.pastors.com · Mary Southerland via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database discouragement

Depression: A Pastor's Wife Comes Out of the Dark

Psalms 40:1

It was the spring of 1995, and I knew that something was very wrong in my life. I was absolutely empty and completely exhausted. It seemed as if I had been living in the fast and furious lane forever! Overwhelmed, I sat down and listed the demands of my life:

• I had a hectic speaking schedule.

• I directed the Women’s Ministry at our church.

• I taught a Tuesday morning Bible study.

• I taught a monthly Community Bible Study.

• I counseled women in crisis several times a week.

• I was the pianist for three worship services.

• I taught twenty piano and voice students twice a week.

• I was the pastor’s wife in a large and fast-growing church.

• I was the mother of two young children

No wonder I was struggling. I was just plain tired! My husband and I decided that a vacation was in order and headed for the hills of North Carolina. That vacation was a complete blur. When asked any question I would respond with “I don’t know!” or “I don’t care!”

Dan and I talked for hours, cried together and pleaded with God for direction. Heading home, we both knew that I was in serious trouble. I had always been very strong, driven to excel in everything. I prided myself on being a perfectionist with great discipline and little sympathy for weak people.

Now I, the strong one, could not even get out of bed. If I was dressed by the time my children came home from school it was a good day. The simplest decision sent me into a panic and the thought of facing a crowd was overwhelming.

Many times I walked to the front door of the church but could not go in. I felt guilty when I missed a service but could not handle the sympathetic looks and questioning stares as I stood, weeping uncontrollably. The large tasks were out of the question while the simplest tasks seemed like huge mountains. Meals, housework and errands were all left undone.

I was paralyzed. I had fallen into a deep dark pit. I had no idea how I had gotten there and what was even more frightening was the fact that I had no idea how to escape!

Listen carefully! There is a way out! You do not have to be a prisoner of the darkness! I am not a psychologist or medical expert. I am just like you. I simply want to share my pain, my victory and my journey from the darkness into the Light!

Over the next six weeks we’ll examine life-changing truths found in a passage of scripture that God gave to me in the darkness. It has become a precious life promise and my path to the Light.

Psalm 40:1-3 “For the director of music. Of David. A psalm. I waited patiently for the LORD; he turned to me and heard my cry. He lifted me out of the slimy pit, out of the mud and mire; he set my feet on a rock and gave me a firm place to stand. He put a new song in my mouth, a hymn of praise to our God. Many will see and fear and put their trust in the LORD.” (NIV)

Truth one: We must understand what depression is!

The Psalmist vividly describes depression as a slimy pit filled with mud and mire, a swamp-like prison. Escape seems impossible while fear reigns, wreaking havoc from a throne of incredible darkness and unspeakable loneliness. Someone once called depression “a dark tunnel without a ray of light.” Cartoonists portray it as “little black cloud hovering overhead.” I have a friend who says, “Some days you are the bug. Some days you are the windshield.”

Florida is famous for its sinkholes. I find them fascinating having grown up in Texas where holes are made on purpose. As I studied these craters that seemed to appear overnight, I discovered an interesting explanation. The ground suddenly collapses with no warning and seemingly for no reason – when actually, it is the culmination of a long process. Scientists say that sinkholes occur when the underground resources dry up, causing the soil at the surface to lose its underlying support. Then everything simply caves in and an ugly pit is formed.

Depression and sinkholes have a lot in common! Depression seems to overwhelm with a vicious suddenness when it is actually the result of a subtle and gradual process. Inner resources are slowly depleted until one day there is nothing left. The world caves in and our existence seems to be swallowed up in a pit of darkness.

Many people believe that depression is simply a spiritual problem while others believe that it is only a physical or emotional problem. I know that it is both! Depression is America’s number one health problem. Studies indicate that as many as half of all women and one out of three men struggle with depression on a regular basis. I think that we can safely say that almost everyone experiences depression at some point in life. We need to face it honestly, with emotional integrity.

The first step out of the pit of depression is to face and understand depression as an illness that permeates and affects every part of our identity.

Truth two: We must know who can struggle with depression.

Before a personal experience in the pit, my favorite spiritual encouragement to those who struggled with depression was to “Get over it!” or “Deal with it!” because my picture of the victorious Christian allowed no room for weakness. After all, I was the wife of a pastor and a grounded Christian. People like me were not supposed to struggle with depression!

Notice that the author of Psalm 40 is David, a man of power and prestige. He seemed to have it all, including the special favor of God. “A man after my own heart” God said of David. People like that should not struggle with depression! But David did - along with many other choice servants of God.

• Job longed for death, questioning why he was ever born!

• Elijah sat under a juniper tree begging God to let him die!

• Paul writes to the Corinthians: “We were under great pressure, far beyond our ability to endure, so that we despaired even of life.”

• Martin Luther wrote the great hymn, “A Mighty Fortress is Our God,” from his own deep pit of depression.

• Charles Spurgeon, one of the greatest preachers to ever live, often battled depression!

• Jesus fought His own battle with darkness. On the cross, He cried out to His Father in unbearable loneliness, pain and sorrow!

So cheer up! If you sense the darkness nipping at your heels, you are in great company, my friend! Who can struggle with depression? The answer is really quite simple. Anyone can!

Right now I encourage you to be honest and transparent with yourself before God. Ask Him for discernment and strength to identify and face the darkness in your life, knowing that you are not alone. By faith, celebrate this truth that will lead you out of the darkness and into the Light.

*

from www.pastors.com · Mary Southerland via Kerux Sermon and Illustration Database discouragement

Everything we make is available for free because of a generous community of supporters.

Donate